REVERSE HOOVER. The new supply is just a tool.

[@oraclepanda]

Yes yes yes, for your own mental health and protection, you have to block them on social media

[@user-vj2sn7vv5s]

He discarded me in a very sadistic way, I was put on time out for a year, well a couple months ago he hoovered me. Then I told him to go get help and leave me alone, He gave me no response and it's been peaceful again for a couple months.

[@ninath13]

He stuck with dat😂😂😅😅😮

[@DatDyme980]

He tried it. I walked❗
🏃🏾‍♀️💨💨✌🏾💯

[@sheilabradshaw7540]

The new supply is welcome to them. I wish them luck

[@doniellejolie]

👉💯💯

[@juliebestwick8403]

​@@doniellejoliehe discarded me then 4 months after he put on face book he was in a relationship but never put on face book when I was with him he did say though I deserve better than what we had but I read narcs do say that over 2 years no contact when we were together he said that he could change me with in 1 year my reply was that's never going to happen

[@juliebestwick8403]

Yes he down graded I was shocked

[@rare_breed35]

😂💯

[@boomshine7]

poor new supply, i wish them the best, hope they see through the bs sooner

[@rare_breed35]

I’ve noticed that they will also get a new supply that favors you especially if you’re the one that discarded them lol those 🤡’s There will NEVER be another me! 😎 “They can search for you in other people all they want but will never find you” 💯

[@dclarke1896]

Thank you! Your videos are helping me understand what the narcissist’s intentions are. It’s so hard dealing with this because narcissistic abuse is mostly invisible. I’ve had narcissistic men manipulate me into chasing them just so they could destroy my self esteem over and over again. It’s crazy!

[@bobbied6125]

Thank you for this video! I couldn’t understand why he started dating the woman he’s dating after the discard. She’s a downgrade for sure and I’ve been wondering why! This makes so much sense. He’s not getting a reaction from me

[@bobbied6125]

After I unfriended him on Facebook he showed up with her at my church the following Sunday.

[@debral9651]

Yeah it doesnt work with me. A real turn off.

[@DatDyme980]

Yep. As much as I loved him it turned me off too. Best thing that could've ever happened. I'm finally free!!

[@missrockstarglamazon6846]

its so so childish , went through this a few times this last 3 months , thing is she had a thing for me but i knew something was off even thou i fancied her as ive dated a narc before , wow that was a rude awakening. soi refused a date then i started to get this back and forth behaviour , and not replying to my texts. so now she just keeps throwing supplies up in front of me, clearly smearing me also , after intensely hugging me when ever we meet., i believe she knows i know too that she is a narc, because her ex pretty much told me she was abused by her mom in front of her, and i had to tell her to stop doing that as it felt so arkward, trust me she was a narc too but worse. it was staged, i could tell because her ex said i will do anything to protect her so no one better hurt her, and i was like ok in my head, thinking wtf ,so these two have clearly discussed me in private, infact she talks about me to everyone.
its crazy she even has a abundance of women to fall back on, a 12 strong harem of flying monkeys, yeah she sent them after me too, smearing me , triangulated and hooverd me too. its mad. i was trying to be amicable and friendly, yes i fancied her, but i knew it could not go anywhere, so its pointless even engaging only to be discarded. I just recently texted her sending two texts asking about an event she holding coming up....., crickets lol..... no response , she read the messages of course , however I knew she would ignore me knowing its affect, which is to make me wonder, but all it did was confirm what i already know,, that she is a narc , its sad so so sad., but i test people too to see their actions , because in person shes always hospitable and nice free hugs etc. ... but these individuals cannot change people especally the ones with money and late into their 40s slowly withdraw and stay away ...

[@emmarae4322]

They use triangulation with the new supply.

[@elisabethstabel2082]

I just.couldn wrap my head around his last statement towards me before he ghosted me after a long relationship: I had the affair with the intention to hurt you after we had a fight. And I'm leaving.you for her, cause she is so much better then you.
This shocked so much, I just can't imagine how someone is even THINKING that? Beyond my imagination how someone can be like that, I spend 5 months flabbergasted by that. Thank you for this video, I still can't believe in what.kind of world we are living. But now I know they are out there and its not my fault and I need to toughen up.
Thank you

[@williampadin537]

I learm more from you is this 7 days. Thad anyibody thad exlplain this disorder I love style is more clear. Love from Puerto rico

[@tresakehl5967]

The nex did this to me with several downgrades . Posted his hood rat on facebook 2 weeks after I discarded him . Then he showed up at my work saying she had committed suicide . Just so he could try to come back it was a lie she was alive and kicking . She stalked me and I now laugh such a down grade . Two peas in a psychopath pod . That was almost 2 years ago . He attempted a phone call a few weeks ago .. he is blocked and has been .. I did this for 8 years . Im not that person anymore . The road to recovery is long . I still get triggered but the desire i had for him vanished after seeing the hood rat .. intimate relations oh no not after that .. thank you .

[@DatDyme980]

Same story here.Keep pushing sis.✨👌🏽✨💪🏾.🥳

[@mollienight]

I wish I had known this back then. Although I wanted him to find someone else and leave, I still felt very bitter about it for years. Thank you for this insight.

[@bustermarch8005]

Really enjoy listening to you. ❤❤

[@ashleybenson8897]

I have been saying this from day 1 of the "discard" because of how it all went down. I even made the mistake of telling the new supply she was being used when I caught them together 😮 I never asked to come back, didn't beg, i let her have him and he was hoovering me real bad a lil over a month after i left.

[@kammellioo]

Luv your vidz.🎉

[@HopeFaithExpect77]

Pretty sure she enjoying new supply greatly. To point of posting bout wedding plans. How NS is true love. And how they moved on 110%. Shes goneski. I aint a thought & there wont be a hoover.

[@pamelakelley-hj3wi]

This is exactly what he did and when he tried hoovering me it was the same shit different day only this time I threatened to send his new supply all his texts and emails so she could see how he was torturing me and threatening me using her to do it! Their biggest fear being exposed😂😂😂 He is finally gone!

[@hayleyhale3182]

Congrats on your new bat cave!!🎉 You’re smart and hilarious!

[@abva56]

They punish themselves. These are demonic souls spirits and entities. They're reprobates. They never come out ahead or win. The devil in them uses them. They age poorly, will end up alone or with another narcissist. The laws of reciprocity cannot be avoided. God is love but a righteous and Just God. All of their relationships are doomed. Don't worry about revenge. They get it everyday. Vengeance is mine says the Lord.

[@DatDyme980]

🎯💯👈🏾

[@symxlife2050]

This is just a lovely example of it, expertly given advice, clear and to the point. Thank you!! Subscribed

[@vanitybymari]

What happens when YOU was used to make the ex jealous. But u ended up be trama bonded. Cause that's what I feel like has happened to me. He use me for his grade A supply but I was loved bombed and now stuck cause I'm discarded nd feeling very shitty. He bounce between us both

[@sheilabradshaw7540]

Go no contact and block that jerk. Narcs don’t love anyone. They use abuse discard. Karma bites hard. He used you to hurt someone and now he’s doing same to you. Trauma bond will take time to break, but it can be done.

[@l.m.5286]

Same happened to me. 😢

[@bradmcewen]

Imo....especially if you have acquired the wisdom about a anomaly that visited your life, the more time in clarity leaves zero doubt. Your discernment is correct. You don't have to justify it to anyone. The proof is in your eventual return to health, absent a trauma bond to a mirage, and know what made you sick. No contact cures, not makes more want.

[@Mojojoejoe]

Instead of communicating like normal humans 😂

[@RMoaty84]

I'm a self aware malignant narc my ex a covert narc. 3 half year relationship. 2 kids that were entrapment when I tried to discard after 2 months. I slept with a woman and told her who was far prettier than my narc ex to completely break the cycle. I played my hand. Her revenge was to cut me off from my children who I do value. She has a new supply he's inferior. I have new supply who is a upgrade. She's a empath and is fully aware of what I am. It hurt me the new supply around my children. My way of dealing with this as I know she will never let me see my kids again for revenge purposes is to act like they dont exist. She has lied to the police also to try to get me locked up. I'm off on holiday next week. Life goes on. The best reaction is go off grid. Therapy don't work. Xanax do help suppress my mind

[@stephaniehall6309]

The kids don’t deserve to be forgotten as they don’t exist , that is wrong but your a narcissist so you know that but do it anyway lol

[@RMoaty84]

@@stephaniehall6309 they do when your ex is a narcissist also. So for years of games. You see the logic. It's a very dangerous game. Pawns being brought into it. Pawns get took out. So for whatever sanity. Or little empathy I hold. The games are over. I fear no law/rules etc. innocent pawns will get hurt

[@RMoaty84]

The thought crosses my mind daily my kids have lost their father il make the pawn lose his kids. So please understand my logic of telling myself my kids don't exist so many times eventually il believe it is for the best. He would be a lamb to the slaughter all because my ex narc and me are at war.

[@zgembo2020]

That backgorund effect on every video is so iritating. Good content but sound wtf