I ALMOST QUIT VAN LIFE | WORST MONTH OF MY LIFE (solo female van life)

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  • I never said Van Life is easy! In fact, this has been the worst month of my life in van life, and I almost quit traveling in the van until this one BIG SNAFU changed all of my plans. These are my struggles living in a van and traveling full time, as a solo female van lifer, and I hope these can be lessons learned for you all as well if you're thinking of traveling full-time. Carvana totally screwed me over when I tried to purchase an AWD vehicle from them. Bait and Switch!!!
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    Chapters:
    00:00 Van Life Struggles start
    00:39 Quitting van life
    02:41 They screwed me over
    03:56 Kicked out of campsite
    08:45 Worst news (emotional)
    11:32 Lily almost died
    13:24 Weird turn of events (emotional)
    14:40 She's better
    14:55 Coming off the road
    16:14 More crazy turn of events
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  • @connectionoflivesandinterests
    @connectionoflivesandinterests Рік тому +35

    *Hello, A Huge Thumbs up!!! I normally say what Number Thumbs up I am, but you have Thousands... 🤗🤗🤗 I'm New here with Full watch. I too am surprised I never saw your channel before. Do you join your supporter channels too? UA-cam suggested your video & The video title captured me. I absolutely Love watching down to earth real ppl that do Full time van & car living. I'm sorry about all your trials from your vehicle purchase they CANNOT get away with that Girl!!! That is heart Breaking about your friends & your Dog getting so sick. Happy she pulled through. How old is she? Gorgeous Sunset they're my favorite!!! Blessings and keep the Fun in all you do. 😊😊😊* Sharon in SC

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +7

      Connection of Lives & Interests 2020 Thank you. That's very kind of you to comment and welcome!!! Unfortunately they did get away with it and apparently still are by the looks of all the comments about peoples experiences! Truly egregious! Lily is 14 going on 15 in September.

    • @connectionoflivesandinterests
      @connectionoflivesandinterests Рік тому +3

      @@AmberJBaldwin *They'll face their Judgement Day!!! I would definitely do a Google & BBB review. Maybe BBB can help you resolve this?!? We have a 12 Yr old male Shih Tzu we've been through a lot with. The heart ache, pain & $$$ to give them the proper care is real. Blessings and keep the Fun in all you do. Thank you for replying to my comment. I truly appreciate replied as a supporter. 😊😊😊* Sharon in SC

    • @paulkepler8516
      @paulkepler8516 Рік тому +3

      Carvana really sucks I have still yet to get my title after two and a half years and it's paid for

    • @Lunarstruck1
      @Lunarstruck1 Рік тому

      @@connectionoflivesandinterests BBB is useless they find on behalf of the store most of the time regardless of whether they are guilty or not. That's who funds them.

    • @teresakestran3637
      @teresakestran3637 Рік тому

      @@Lunarstruck1
      I agree that the BBB is worthless…not the agency that they used to be.😢

  • @danev1969
    @danev1969 Рік тому +89

    It's probably not your intent, but I am following your adventures vicariously because I am getting too old to do it myself (I turn 80 in a few weeks). You and your fellow vloggers make a significant contribution to my mental health. I assume that if I were doing what you are doing, it would be even better. UA-cam has opened many of our lives to what otherwise would have been impossible to experience. That said, my wife of 53 years and I will get in our Forester later in the summer so we can breath in the ocean and/or mountain air, much of which will be driven by your story. Thank you.

    • @dodgecityvanlife
      @dodgecityvanlife Рік тому +8

      I hope you have a great trip to the ocean 😎

    • @danev1969
      @danev1969 Рік тому +3

      @@donpeace894 Unsure what you are referring to, but is your comment what I've see referenced as a "troll"? Never got one before. Thanks for the honor.

    • @katherinechase3674
      @katherinechase3674 Рік тому +1

      Yes, I too am peeking in vicariously. I've had a couple of health issues, so many thanks!

    • @wildestcowboy2668
      @wildestcowboy2668 Рік тому

      @@danev1969 Pop's u sound like a bloody good mate! Stop smoking those nasty cigarettes and breathe better mate!

    • @travellingcats1047
      @travellingcats1047 Рік тому +1

      You and your wife go have a great time!

  • @LoveFlatfootin1
    @LoveFlatfootin1 Рік тому +8

    As a woman camping alone, I prefer being in a van over a trailer because if there's a creep in the campground during the night, I can just get out of bed and drive away without having to go outside. Such beautiful pictures of your trip!

  • @therealrobschroeder
    @therealrobschroeder Рік тому +2

    Throughout my almost 56 years (I turn 56 on August 24th) of life, I have learned to have a "Master Plan" with at least three other backup plans. Life is interesting, but it's also loaded with twists and turns and ups and downs. I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, but also that everything has a way of working out. I'm sorry about your friend and her husband, and I'm glad Lily is OK. Keep your chin up, and keep on smiling. BIG HUGS.

  • @milestogo1636
    @milestogo1636 Рік тому +82

    Amber, never apologize for having feelings and being your authentic self. I’m sorry it’s been so rough for you, and I’m happy you found a great support system during that time. I really enjoy your videos no matter the topic. You keep it real.

  • @DeLaineTriplitt
    @DeLaineTriplitt Рік тому +95

    Amber, you & Lily had been heavy on my heart this past week and now I understand exactly why. You are a survivor! Perhaps it takes one to know one and is possibly why I've been so drawn to and inspired by your channel and videos. It does my heart to know that you and lil mama Lily have found some solace near the ocean. That is where I've always found the best healing of spirit. Keep on keeping on. And know that you & Lily are loved even by those you've never met. 💕

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +11

      DeLaine Triplitt Thank you. That's very kind of you to comment and I really appreciate your caring concern. Hope you're doing well.

  • @shelleywalker6225
    @shelleywalker6225 Рік тому +48

    Amber, my heart breaks for you. Losing a friend through such violence can be devastating. Take time to cherish the memories of your friend and grieve. I hope Lily continues to improve and has no more of those horrible episodes. Our furbabies are so important in our lives. Enjoy the ocean. I always find it therapeutic. Take care of yourself and Lily, safe travels.

  • @kathyyaeger1874
    @kathyyaeger1874 Рік тому +12

    Even though you had a terrible month, you managed to turn it into a wonderful video. You are so genuine, which is why we all love you. I firmly believe that God sends you the people you need when you need them. I was honored to be your person through Lily’s illness. We even managed to squeeze in some fun and great conversation.

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +3

      Kathy Yaeger 😊 Thank you Kathy! You've been such a rock for me and a good friend. I loved our time together and hope we can do it again soon.

  • @SusanGentry
    @SusanGentry Рік тому +8

    I rarely ever comment on these videos but Amber, your sincerity and openness is such a heart warming thing. I watch your videos from beginning to end, they are very well done. I am so sorry that you have had such a tough month. I recently lost my mom but in the last year and a half of her life we talked about how I was going to buy an RV and travel after my time with her was over. (Side note: She said she'd support me if I would named the van after her.... so, The FranVan and I are going to be having a great time out there on the road.) My mom loved to travel as well. I could occasionally get her to get in the car and we'd just drive through a park or down to the water to eat dinner in the car. I know that it will not be all rainbows and butterflies when I finally get to depart but I've learned a lot from you and what to expect. I just want to thank you for all you give us through social media. You have been good for my soul, even with all the ups and downs...you're real and I appreciate that very much.

    • @wildestcowboy2668
      @wildestcowboy2668 Рік тому

      Listen grandma u be bloody careful out there. You can legally own a sawed off shotgun in Alabama and Mississippi. Don't park in dark areas at night.

  • @karencruz1401
    @karencruz1401 Рік тому +67

    Girl I don’t know how you made it through this video. Hang in there and recover from such an emotionally exhausting couple of weeks. I’m very sorry about losing your friend like that. Please take care of yourself.

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +3

      Karen Cruz Thank you very much! 😊🙏 Glad to hear from you. I've missed you.

  • @karenjennings4829
    @karenjennings4829 Рік тому +21

    Amber, You are the person who inspired me to take the step towards van life. I am a 55 yr old single female with a dog so I feel like you are very relatable. I completely enjoy all of your videos as they tell the real life experience. I know you have a strong background in believing that the world is still working in your favor even when it throws you some weird situations. In the end those weird situations are teaching moments on where you should be heading. You are strong, you are resilient, you are able to see the direction life is taking you. Keep taking time to rest. Sending you and adorable Lilly positive support. Stay positive you’ve got this. Hope to run into you one day out on the road.

  • @estherstephens1858
    @estherstephens1858 Рік тому +19

    My deepest and sincere condolences on the loss of your friend. I’m so glad to hear that Lily is feeling better. Please stay safe.

  • @MountainGirlwIPA
    @MountainGirlwIPA Рік тому +26

    You have done amazing work. You actually were one of the reasons I had the guts to travel across the US in my travel trailer after covid. Well a big loyal smart dog also helped, but you get the point. So never underestimate the impact you had on peoples lives. If I told anyone outside my network what I experienced in the last two years what I went through, people would seriously think I was nuts. You're a tough , resourceful smart lady with a mean excel workbook. Be proud and put those boots on and move forward with pride. : )

  • @bostonterriermomakasandy9722
    @bostonterriermomakasandy9722 Рік тому +39

    I’m crying with you. I can’t imagine going through all of that, losing your friend in such a horrific way, getting cheated by a car dealer and your precious Lily getting sick.

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +1

      Boston Terrier Mom aka Sandy Sorry to make you cry.

  • @gussiegus4943
    @gussiegus4943 Рік тому +10

    What a crazy hard month! I’m so sorry about your friend and her family, and so thankful for the friends that came alongside you with the support you needed.

  • @lovingatlanta
    @lovingatlanta Рік тому +1

    😭Wow Amber wow, that’s A LOT! 😭 I’m so so sorry for the loss of your friend and Lily being sick as well as all of the other things like the issue with Carvana. I’m glad you had some gentle moments with friends (like at the cabin & running into your friend at WalMart etc). I still have a lot of videos to catch up on. Sending hugs & good energy. 😭💝

  • @christinecook5762
    @christinecook5762 Рік тому +12

    You are such a genuine person and deserve all the happiness in the world. I’m truly sorry for all you’ve been going through and pray for peace and healing for you and Lily.

  • @annekagoodman9081
    @annekagoodman9081 Рік тому +24

    I absolutely love you and Lily!! I'm so sorry to hear about your friend and her family. I'm glad Lily is feeling better and that you are at one of your happy places...by the ocean. Your soul needed it. I know that rolling with the punches becomings a bit much but you my dear, handle them with grace and it encourages all of us. Keep chasing stories even when there's a plot twist. Much love and many blessings to Amber. God bless!

  • @200bluenote
    @200bluenote Рік тому +7

    Thank you for being so vulnerable. Blessings to you and Lilly as you continue your adventures.

  • @dsbruening
    @dsbruening Рік тому +6

    You have truly been through a lot! I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend. Sending positive energy for Lily and that you can stay cool for the rest of this hot summer.

  • @bonniebonkers4779
    @bonniebonkers4779 Рік тому +2

    Many van lifers travel in groups for the company, support, and safety. They post on line where they will be, they are experienced in fixing things on the road.

  • @linda-not-currently-intexas
    @linda-not-currently-intexas Рік тому +7

    Omg! What a crazy month…I’m so sorry to hear about your friend. And glad to see Lilly is feeling better.

  • @LSChestersMom
    @LSChestersMom Рік тому +4

    Bless you and Lilly, and so so very sorry for your loss. I was thinking about you folks and hoping everything was ok. I hope you get to relax and restore and do some self care :)

  • @Noveleffect
    @Noveleffect Рік тому +1

    I will NEVER even consider Carvana after knowing what you went through. I always thought it was rather fishy, their entire business model. Thank you so much for posting this!!

  • @sandrap3047
    @sandrap3047 Рік тому +30

    Amber, I am so sorry you’ve had such a rough time lately! So glad sweet Lilly is okay now! I started crying when you started talking about her because I was afraid she wasn’t here anymore. I almost lost my Daisy a few mths ago. She fell off the bed & hit her head. She immediately started having a seizure. She survived but it was a scary time. I know you were terrified! Daisy suffers from pancreatitis too. She has a flare up once or twice a year. Words cannot express how sorry I am about your best friend & her husband with their dogs! Can’t imagine everything you’ve been going through! Glad you had good friends to be there for you! I remember that Born Free video. Didn’t you meet Cathy at the Cracker Barrel in Savannah? Stinks about Carvana! I’m ready to buy a new car but so hate the thought of even going to talk to a sales person! The majority of them probably pull the ole bait & switch! Good luck when you start looking again for your new home! Hugs to you & sweet Lily! Please remember that you have tons of subscribers that love you & sweet Lily! ❤

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому

      Sandra P 😊 oh no poor Daisy!!!! Is she okay now? I'm sure you were traumatized by that. No I met Kathy near Bluffton, SC at the Cracker Barrel. lol

    • @sandrap3047
      @sandrap3047 Рік тому

      @@AmberJBaldwin yes Daisy is okay now! I knew it was one of the Cracker Barrels near me. The one in Bluffton is the one that Daisy & I go to for their grilled chicken tenderloins. lol

    • @CarinaPiersay
      @CarinaPiersay Рік тому +3

      My sister and her husband have bought from car max for years and a few cars. They have always had a favorable, honest and straight up good experience with them. They will buy from them again. When it comes time for me to get a new car I will use them too

  • @peri3818
    @peri3818 Рік тому +3

    This was a beautiful heart felt video. A tough time with scare of Lilly and your own health issue. So glad you both are now well.

  • @divadonna5670
    @divadonna5670 Рік тому +3

    Omg Amber what a month! So glad you and Lily are in a better place now mentally and physically. So sorry to hear about your friend so difficult to get thru that-give that Lily girl lots of hugs & kisses

  • @mikimoto5341
    @mikimoto5341 Рік тому +7

    So pleased to hear that Lily recovered. Hugs to you both.

  • @CocoKmimi
    @CocoKmimi Рік тому +3

    Hang in there, Amber. Thank you for being transparent about the challenges of van life.

  • @debramitchell53
    @debramitchell53 Рік тому +3

    Amber, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend and it sounds as though you have had a rough time of late, but I am at least so relieved to hear that your lovely little doggy has made a great recovery. Despite how many times you have been knocked down you always dust yourself off and get back up again because you are one of life's fighters. It is clear from your vlogs that you are a good person, and I believe that good things come to good people (sometimes it takes time so hang in there).

  • @eleanormassaro5195
    @eleanormassaro5195 Рік тому +4

    Oh, Amber, I’m so sorry to hear about your childhood friend. So, so sad! And poor Lily! I hope she gets back to her sweet self real soon. I know what it’s like to have a sick fur baby, especially since they can’t tell you what’s going on with them😢
    Speaking of the extreme temps this summer, I feel so bad for the folks out west that are experiencing this extremely hot summer and drought conditions. And yet other states like Kentucky are experiencing tragic flooding. I’m praying that the weather will even out a little bit and the temps come down and the rains come soon for the dry parts of the country🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @charlottebenson8986
    @charlottebenson8986 Рік тому

    I am so sorry about your friend! My heart was hurting for you also! I'm glad your pup got better! Take care and praying your days get better and better!

  • @hpr1028
    @hpr1028 Рік тому +1

    Hi Amber, so sorry to hear all you’ve been going through. I’m glad Lily is doing better. Stay strong, things will get better for you and Lily. Love seeing your videos, stay safe!

  • @laleighma1
    @laleighma1 Рік тому +7

    Bless your heart honey! Glad everything worked out and so very happy your little pup is looking so much better!

  • @sgtraveleratheart
    @sgtraveleratheart Рік тому +25

    Amber, I am so sorry to hear about the difficult time you've had over the last month! You have had to go through a LOT and continue to amaze all of us with your strength and with your grace. I am soo happy that Lily is okay. She is a little fighter! Never apologize for crying! I wish I was physically near you where I could give you a big hug! Sending you a huge one virtually, and lots of love and support from a distance 💕 Keep living your life with all it's beauty ♥️

  • @blessmygypsysoul_
    @blessmygypsysoul_ Рік тому +2

    My heart aches for you. So sorry for the loss of your friend. I'm happy Lily is doing better. It sure seems sometimes life throws things at is in clusters. Blessings and prayers for you Amber and Lily. I hope the rest of the summer oceanside will help to heal your heart and soothe your soul.

  • @marylublankenship6398
    @marylublankenship6398 Рік тому

    Sorry for your loss! Big hugs to you

  • @mpgibson6342
    @mpgibson6342 Рік тому +4

    So deeply sorry for the loss of your friend, her husband and the dogs. Sending love and wishes for comfort. You are clearly a courageous adventurer and you inspired this fan! Love your little doggy and glad they recovered well. 🥰

  • @garydeffenbaugh1096
    @garydeffenbaugh1096 Рік тому +4

    Hi Amber i'm new to your channel.I'm sorry for all the mishaps you and Lilly are going through and the lost of your friend. Your not alone as alot of people are going through problems in daily life. Sometimes when your overwhelmed with issues in life.You just need to relax and breathe and get your focus back. Your doing the most exciting adventure traveling around in your van and seeing new areas which most people would love to do but can't. Keep your chin up as the old saying is that there's always light at the end of the tunnel. Stay safe and stay focus as you and Lilly will get through this. Enjoy your post.

  • @basil8760
    @basil8760 Рік тому +1

    Deepest condolences. So very sry for your great loss.

  • @nancycain4434
    @nancycain4434 Рік тому +3

    I'm so glad you have landed where you want to be. Restoring your strength . Hope you have an enjoyable stay there after everything that you have been through.So happy to see Lily back to health and I am so sorry for the loss of your friend.God bless and safe travels.

  • @shellyscott4822
    @shellyscott4822 Рік тому +5

    I'm so sorry for all you've been through I just had a big breakdown with my kids today and gave them both the big what for!! The energies and life we deal with today are so compounding that you just finally lose it. I'm glad Lily is doing okay our fur babies are the most comforting in these times!!

  • @sadielaurentiwhitley3762
    @sadielaurentiwhitley3762 Рік тому +5

    Amber, first off, my condolences to you and your friend’s family. Such a tragic and sad ending to their life. I’m so glad you’re reaching out to people that can help you with grieving the loss as well as all the changes happening in your life at this time. Don’t give up! I absolutely adore this channel and your travels however, I adore your heart and positive outlook even more. Seattle has been super hot. I just got back home from Montana, and the weather is oddly hot. Glad you’re by the seaside and getting fresh air in California. I’m glad to hear Lily is much better. I want to acknowledge you for standing up at the dealership and not letting the talk you into buying a car even if it wasn’t what you wanted. You taught me a huge lesson here, and I thank you for that lesson. Sending you sweet hugs as you sort out next steps and healing your heart. There is no doubt all these things are happening for a reason and for lessons. Stay on your true path and in your loving heart.

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому

      Sadie Laurenti Whitley Thank you. That's very kind of you to comment.

  • @Tracykish517
    @Tracykish517 Рік тому +1

    Hi Amber. So sorry it has been such a difficult month. You had me in tears. Sending you love and light.

  • @meganworth1544
    @meganworth1544 Рік тому +1

    Amber my heart goes out to you! Praying for better days! 💕🙏

  • @suerop
    @suerop Рік тому +3

    My heart hurts for you on the loss of your friend. I hope the horrible person who did this is brought to justice. I'm amazed at your resilience and tenacity, always seeking a solution, never giving up. You might see giving in to your sadness, frustration, and weariness at times as being weak, but we see otherwise. Just because you say you want to show us your strengths and portray van life as exceptional, we understand that life happens no matter where and how you live. I am SO VERY HAPPY that our sweet Lily also showed us how strong she is and is doing much better. You're going through it, woman. Take care of yourself, and Lily, and we will be here for you in whatever way we can. I'll be praying for you for strength and for God's protection over your heart and life. 🙏💞💖🛐❣🚐🅱️🆒️🤞🏖🏝🏞🏕

  • @blave549
    @blave549 Рік тому +3

    Never apologize for sharing your emotions. I loved this video. Good luck to Lily!

  • @lindac7146
    @lindac7146 Рік тому +2

    Amber, you have my deepest condolences on the loss of your dearest friend. I can't begin to imagine the stress and fear you were experiencing over Lily's health on top of that loss. I'm glad you have found a place to relax, de-stress and recover. Wishing you the very best outcomes, in the days to come.

  • @karafrerich838
    @karafrerich838 Рік тому +1

    Prayers and Hugs 🤗 to you Amber. So sorry. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @TinaMota40
    @TinaMota40 Рік тому +6

    Amber my deepest condolences for your friend, and I’m glad that lily is feeling better. I send you a big hug and a lots and lots of blessings.

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому

      Lestina Matu Thank you very much! 😊🙏

  • @awanderingdream2093
    @awanderingdream2093 Рік тому +4

    Sending you love - I can relate as I am learning how to find joy again after coming off the worst year and a bit of my life. You are strong and its ok to cry and be emotional. Helps us to face the pain to heal. With Lilly, I had a schnauzer who had the same thing. Random bouts of pancreatitis. Could never pinpoint the cause. Almost lost him many times. After a middle of the night emergency visit to save my boy, the vet figured out it was the protein intake. I switched to the lowest protein food I could find which was an Iams food. Fed him 3x a day - smaller amounts helped him process easily the protein. His bouts stopped! We had been through probably 6 or 7 vets from my regular vet to many emergency vets. Learn how to give subq fluids too. You can travel w a bag and some needles to give her fluids if needed. Its super easy. You are stronger than you think. Sending you both love and healing energy.

  • @susansaunders6899
    @susansaunders6899 Рік тому

    So So sorry for your loss, please give Lilly lots of hugs! God bless you and Lilly sending prayers of comfort. Hang in there. Love your videos.

  • @moongold9025
    @moongold9025 Рік тому +2

    I am so sorry Amber about all that you've been through. I am sending you Love and a big hug to you and the precious Lily.
    I'm so grateful that Lily is doing better. Bless her sweet heart 🧡
    I'm so very sorry about your dear friend.
    That carvana fiasco, something better is coming your way. I'm claiming that for you!
    Wishing you and Lily safe travels.
    Be well, be blessed 🧡

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +1

      Moongold Thank you and very well said! 😊

  • @julianachandler2975
    @julianachandler2975 Рік тому +4

    wow! So sorry for your hard times, especially the loss of your friends. Very glad that Lilly is better and that you had some friends along the way! Praying for you and Lily to have better times ahead ❤️‍🩹

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому

      juliana chandler Thank you very much! 😊🙏

  • @celinegodard1507
    @celinegodard1507 Рік тому +9

    Dear Amber, hang in there. I know it will be hard but the new car to pull the new trailer will be such a new chapter. My thoughts and Prayers to you and your Best Friend. You gave me hope through Covid and being locked down at home. I finally left.....your adventures kept me going and knowing there is light at the end of a long tunnel. You got this.....

  • @skyoak4611
    @skyoak4611 Рік тому

    So sorry for your loss. Prayers and condolences. Better days ahead

  • @candacemeifert-polk7383
    @candacemeifert-polk7383 Рік тому +1

    Amber, I am so sorry for the loss of your dear friend! Hugs for all you have gone through.

  • @buffgibbons9837
    @buffgibbons9837 Рік тому +16

    Amber, you have had quite a month! So glad Lily recovered! Sit by the ocean and just breathe!
    On another note, we have used Carvana to both sell a car and buy a car with absolutely no problems. They have a seven day no questions return policy. I believe in this case, someone made an error in the write up. Whenever you purchase used vehicles, the first drive should be to a reputable mechanic for a full check up. The mechanic would have immediately told you it was not all wheel drive and you could have returned it. Mistakes were definitely made by them, but probably compounded by you immediately leaving the area.

  • @oyajiblues
    @oyajiblues Рік тому +3

    First-time visitor. Love your honesty. Transitions are always so difficult, but if you wait them out they always lead to a better place if you have a positive attitude and you obviously do!

  • @poges
    @poges Рік тому +2

    Sorry to hear you've had such a rough time. It's important to give yourself recovery time. I hope you've had relaxation on California coast.

  • @debbiemetke5938
    @debbiemetke5938 Рік тому +1

    Wow, my first time "with you". So sorry you had to endure such terrible events, but thanks for sharing the "real".

  • @Jules73572
    @Jules73572 Рік тому +52

    So sorry Amber for the loss of your friend & her family. 🙏🏻 I’m so happy that Lily is feeling better, and please no need to apologize for showing your emotions. We as viewers are part of your life & we appreciate you sharing it with us. I lift you up in prayer Amber & Lily and I ask the Lord to comfort you always and give you peace. Trust in Lord with all your heart, do not depend on your own understanding, trust His will in all you do & He will lead you down the right path. Proverbs 3:5. God Bless you 🙏🏻🇺🇸

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +4

      Julie Stoulig Thank you very much! 😊🙏

    • @52Tracker
      @52Tracker Рік тому +2

      Amen Sister🙏❤️✝️

    • @suerop
      @suerop Рік тому +2

      a wonderful scripture. so comforting.

  • @kathyeaton9769
    @kathyeaton9769 Рік тому +5

    Hey kid, you really have been through it. I am so truly sorry for your loss and I agree with you that when we are struggling the people we need seem to show up for us. Please take care of yourself.

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому

      Kathy Eaton Thank you very much! 😊🙏 hehehe "kid".

  • @elisabethseeger5837
    @elisabethseeger5837 6 місяців тому

    Great to see your channel again- gave a happier new year! Time for the good stuff😄😄😄❤❤

  • @elainneydiaz5975
    @elainneydiaz5975 Рік тому

    Sorry for your loss 🙏

  • @kriyayoga98
    @kriyayoga98 Рік тому +6

    I’m so sorry about your friend and her family. I can’t imagine dealing with something like that and then for Lily to get so sick. The ocean is so healing. Glad you are set up there for a while just to take some time to rest. ❤️

  • @susanf9862
    @susanf9862 Рік тому +8

    So glad that Lily is doing better! What a time you've had. So nice that your friend was with you. Hugs and prayers for you and Lily. 🌻

  • @Darciree
    @Darciree Рік тому +1

    Oh sweetie, I am so sorry you are going through this, you are in my thoughts and prayers! Take care of you, and take time to heal!! Much love to you!

  • @terristenacious2279
    @terristenacious2279 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing and I'm sending you my prayers and love for your loss of your best friend. Much love foe Lilly and you to have some peace and relaxation.💗💗

  • @jamiekennison5130
    @jamiekennison5130 Рік тому +5

    Oh my word, you poor thing. My heart goes out to you. I hope that love and blessings surround you during this test of life. I can only wish that you’ve some how started to move on and attempt normalcy. Remember we’re here for you too!! Love ya to the moon and back.

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому

      Jamie Kennison Thank you very much! 😊🙏

  • @bekimoore8761
    @bekimoore8761 Рік тому +1

    WOW Amber! I am so glad that you and Lilly are doing better. What a terrible month but you are still amazing for pushing through it. Also, I was very sad to hear about the loss of your friend. 🥲Praying for you. 🙏🏻
    I love what you do and how you share your life with us. 🤗🤗 Big hugs to you.

  • @ReneaDooserider
    @ReneaDooserider Рік тому

    So sorry for your loss. Prayers , love and light going up. 🙏💜🦋💕

  • @kathleenfantauzzi2688
    @kathleenfantauzzi2688 Рік тому +3

    Oh my, I'm so sorry for your loss and your precious Lily being sick. I hope you turned your car into Carvana and got your money back. Prayers for you at this time for all you are going through

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому

      Kathleen Fantauzzi 😊 I never closed the deal with them. So I still left with the van.

    • @kathleenfantauzzi2688
      @kathleenfantauzzi2688 Рік тому

      @@AmberJBaldwin good for you. Never go there again. I've heard horror stories about that place

  • @lynfl9814
    @lynfl9814 Рік тому +13

    As soon as I saw Caravan at the very beginning; I thought, "Oh! No!" Caravan has terrible reviews and there are so many horror stories with this company. My nephew had a really bad experience with Carvana when he bought a truck from them about five years ago. The truck had massive mechanical problems. The transmission was bad and it had other mechanical issues as well. They would not pay for repairs. He had a bill of over $4000 to repair the truck. I am so sorry you went through that with Carvana.
    Then to hear about your friend. A death is hard enough; but, when there is violence or trauma involved with a death; it is so much harder. Then your dog becoming so ill. You certainly had a tough month.
    I hope and pray your life smooths out and you go into brighter and happier times.

  • @mcimon91
    @mcimon91 Рік тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss of your friend, I hope you find renewed peace and happiness in your van life. When you were telling us what you went through, and showing the video of your driving to Colorado and California, I couldn't help but think that being on the road must be helpful. I went on a long car excursion for 8 days and i have to say, it was the best time of my life! And i was alone but meeting such nice people along the way. I hope you rediscover the joys in your life as you recover from this terrible month.💚

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +1

      Martine from all over Thank you. That's very kind of you to comment.

  • @sheilabartlett6044
    @sheilabartlett6044 Рік тому +1

    Oh Amber I’m so sorry you have had such a sad time of it. I’m so glad that Lilly pulled through. Life can’t always be easy but it would be nice to catch a break. Stay strong and safe on the road. My heart goes out to you! Don’t feel like you have to apologize, we all have emotional things in our life that sometimes get the best of us.

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  • @pupcamper58
    @pupcamper58 Рік тому +11

    Amber, my heart aches for you in this video with tears running down my cheeks. Oh sweet Lily that almost did me in! I am so sorry to hear you have had the worst month ever. Prayers that things will lookup for you and Lily. I know how hard it can be as a full timer. I have days that I too wonder why I did this. But as you said in your video suddenly there’s so much beauty around us that we realize why we love being full-time on the road. Stay well and travel safe maybe I will run into you In the southwest this winter. ❤️🤗🐾

  • @HopeLivesHere721
    @HopeLivesHere721 Рік тому +1

    So sorry Amber for the loss of your friend and her family. That is a tough and emotional time to get through. I'm glad that Lilly is feeling much better. I know how much she means to you. I'm glad you are taking some time to rest. Time to sort things out, regroup and do some healing. I find the ocean to be very therapeutic.
    God bless you Amber, I wish you much love peace. Safe travels my friend.

  • @cooperdog9956
    @cooperdog9956 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing all of your travel experiences, information and knowledge. Safe travels. Thoughts and prayers coming your way.

  • @BeyondtheFern
    @BeyondtheFern Рік тому +6

    Wow, I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend, that's heartbreaking news.
    I'm glad Lilly is doing better! I met Tim and Kim at a campout last fall and Kim and I met up at a local Harvest Host Winery for a girls' trip - they are super nice people!
    I bought a car through Carvana back in 2018, it was a 1 yr old low mileage Nissan Leaf, the only issue I had was that its navigation and dash info system required a specific sim card that comes with the car and for some reason, it had been removed (not having it affects the data you get about the car) it's actually coded to the vehicle - so I had to force them to cover the cost of getting it replaced. Thankfully they did. I've also sold cars to them, when my parents could no longer drive it was easier to sell to them. When we bought a new car we actually got a better offer on our old one than we did from the dealer. I also sold the Leaf back to them and the money I got for it went towards my van. However, I have been seeing more and more stories of issues with cars they are selling and some states even having to intervene. Not sure if they grew too fast and are getting sloppy or if they have always been like this and it's catching up to them. It's too bad, conceptually it's a better way of buying a car than dealing with car dealers, but it really requires that the company be honest in every aspect of the business and sadly that doesn't seem to be the case.

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +1

      Theresa Fernandez - Beyond the Fern 😊 wow Kim & Tim really get around lol!!! They are amazing. Thanks for the feedback on Carvana. That helps to know going forward. I love their business model and for me traveling full-time, it's great that they will register the car for you in your home state even if you weren't in that state to purchase it.

    • @bobmirror7164
      @bobmirror7164 Рік тому +1

      To me the glass elevator SCREAMS, "You are a fool for purchasing anything here."

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +1

      @Bob Mirror. Why does that scream fool? It’s just a fun marketing thing to set them apart from others. I don’t think a glass elevator and intelligence have anything to do with each other.

  • @carrielane369
    @carrielane369 Рік тому

    Yikes! Those are a bunch of crazy challenges & experiences, Amber. I’m sorry you’ve had to go through them and send you much love & strength to help you as you move forward. Thanks for sharing! 🤗😘💜

  • @lifechanges557
    @lifechanges557 Рік тому +1

    Amber I am so sorry for your loss of your childhood friend. 😢 and all you have endured this month. Love and Hugs to you. ❤

  • @peggyowens5475
    @peggyowens5475 Рік тому +11

    I’m so sorry Amber about your friend and all the crap you have been through. I hope things improve for you❤️

  • @Shel731
    @Shel731 Рік тому +13

    Wow, my heartfelt condolences to you. And I thank God Lilly is doing much better. May she...and you continue to go in a good direction mentally and physically, seems you've been through the ringer. Time to heal. God bless you and your friends both here and the ones new to heaven. I love your videos, I hope for only good things here and now for a long time to come ❤️

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому

      Machele McCormick Thank you. That's very kind of you to comment.

    • @Shel731
      @Shel731 Рік тому

      @@AmberJBaldwin ❤️

  • @lindajohnson1873
    @lindajohnson1873 Рік тому

    Ms. Kathy is beyond awesome!! I’m so glad that you two have each other’s support.

  • @mikemanjo2458
    @mikemanjo2458 Рік тому

    So sorry to hear about Lilly’s struggles. I’m so glad she’s doing better. I believe God brings people into our lives right when we need them. I’m glad Cathy came back into yours at a difficult time. Praying for things to go better. What great friends in Colorado! Nice cabin. I’m sorry about the altitude issues. I’ve never experienced it, but I’ve heard it’s awful. I don’t blame you at all for not posting. Feel better! Stay cool! Continuing to pray for you and Lilly. ❤️🙏🏻Jane in SC

  • @travelsnacks
    @travelsnacks Рік тому +11

    I can relate so much to this video. The past month has been a doozy for full time van life! I’m praying you have more ups than downs now. I hope our paths cross while you’re in California! Hang in there 🙏🏼

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +1

      Travel Snacks Thank you very much! 😊🙏 Hit me up on email. You know where to find it. lol

    • @glendacrouch1877
      @glendacrouch1877 Рік тому

      Allison is a wonderful person like you. I am so glad you two connected. Life can just be plain hard no matter who you are or where you are coming from or going to. I am praying for you both. I love your channels and the real ladies that you are? God bless you both. Love from Oklahoma.

  • @reginawood4832
    @reginawood4832 Рік тому +3

    Oh Amber so so sorry for your friends horrible death, I found out recently one of my friends & coworker was missing in FL they found her body she had been murdered, they have arrested an ex boyfriend! And then sweet Lily (that is so scary when they are in pain) I lost my Lily in Jan (best travel buddy) Carvana how shameful. Guess they don't realize what a huge following you have. Your videos are not sugar coated and you are human & bad things happen and your real. I love you for that & all your videos. Thank you

    • @linda-not-currently-intexas
      @linda-not-currently-intexas Рік тому

      Hi Escapade friend! Miss seeing you and Sugar. Sorry to hear about your friend in FL. Hope everything else is good with you!!!

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому

      Regina Wood Thank you. That's very kind of you to comment. Goodnes I'm so so sorry to hear about your friend. I don't understand how anybody can be so dang evil!

  • @janiemelgoza166
    @janiemelgoza166 Рік тому +1

    So sorry your going through the bad times, will pray for you, take care. From Austin Tx!

  • @TheFlutterrbye
    @TheFlutterrbye Рік тому +1

    🦋❣🦋I'm so glad to see you and Lily. I'm so sorry to hear that so much has gone wrong. I will definitely keep you in my prayers.🦋❣🦋❣🦋❣🦋

  • @deborah4579
    @deborah4579 Рік тому +8

    My heart goes out to you, especially losing your friend in that way. So glad Lilly is good. This severe life threatening gastritis and pancreatitis happens with our 4 yr old dog so I’m sharing this. I was always convinced it was an allergy of some kind so I had the vet retest for allergies including gluten. Turns out our dog isn’t allergic to gluten but to an enzyme within gluten so the smallest amount makes him sick. Hope life settles down for you.

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much! That can be very helpful. Lily is allergic to Salmon but never thought of gluten. I can't say she gets much of that, but I need to check the cans. She's on a GI pet food now.

  • @rrichardson53
    @rrichardson53 Рік тому +9

    Wow- this was hard to watch (very sad) especially Lily’s health scare. I’m so glad she bounced back. Very sorry about your (bad) experience with Carvana- I’ve never dealt with them (I’m on a waiting list for a hybrid vehicle. Very sorry about the horrific death of your friend (and her family). What a string of horrible events for you. Enjoy the CA coast. It’s blazing hot here in SW Washington 🥵

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +1

      r. richardson Thank you very much! 😊🙏

  • @lindajohnson1873
    @lindajohnson1873 Рік тому

    I’m so very sorry for your loss, Sweet Pea!!

  • @cherwoodard9008
    @cherwoodard9008 Рік тому

    Many blessings as you endure and enjoy the challenges life presents. Sent with love and prayers

  • @daledervin3672
    @daledervin3672 Рік тому +8

    Wow. That certainly explains your absence, and I and probably many feared it was for bad reasons. I'm really glad you found a happy place to end this video, and thank God Lilly is ok. As for Carvana, here in Tampa, they have been on the news regularly for selling cars they end up having no title to. The news reports say its a prolific problem with Carvana across the US. The owners are sent home, with the promise of a title or paperwork that never comes, so they can't drive their vehicle because they can't get a license for it. At one point I believe, either Florida and/or attorneys general of other states have pulled their license to sell in the state. STAY AWAY from Carvana. PL4M EXTRA well.

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому

      Dale Dervin Thank you very much! 😊🙏 How in the world are they getting away with this and why would they do that? I mean it's just stupid.

    • @eleanormassaro5195
      @eleanormassaro5195 Рік тому

      I’m from Tampa and just commented about that! Beware of Carvana!

  • @debinvenice
    @debinvenice Рік тому +4

    As soon as you said "Carvana" I thought, oh no, she doesn't know "Carvana is bad". I'm so sorry that happened to you.

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому

      debinvenice 😊 I didn't, but now I do.

    • @franklingrx
      @franklingrx Рік тому

      my carvana expeeience was excellent… as they say, your mileage may vary

  • @BillWalker3rd
    @BillWalker3rd Рік тому

    Holy smokes! Love, light, and blessings! I’m glad you’re taking a minute and recharging your own batteries, man! You deserve a break!

  • @serenityjewel
    @serenityjewel Рік тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I've lost a lot of wonderful people over the last 2 years and the shock and grief are always overwhelming. You've been through so much and you're still standing so that says something about your character. I'm glad you had friends to support you through everything that happened and I hope you continue to be loved and supported through your grieving and transition process. Take care.

  • @luckydubefan808
    @luckydubefan808 Рік тому +6

    Watch Scotty Kilmer's videos about companies like Carvanna. I am so glad you caught their trick and was able to return that Honda and get your money back. Sorry Amber.

    • @luckydubefan808
      @luckydubefan808 Рік тому

      Sorry about your dear friend and family. Very heartbreaking. Glad Lilly is doing better. Please take care.

    • @AmberJBaldwin
      @AmberJBaldwin  Рік тому +1

      jo.hi.808 😊 Thanks. I will watch. Guess I should have just asked all of you first for feedback!!! lol