REGRETS: Why I wish I never shared this part of my life (the consequences)
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- With every decision there are consequences and I regret this decision. I definitely paid the price for sharing something that, well, maybe I should have just kept hidden.
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Thank you for watching! I hope you enjoyed this video and the various ways in which I'm changing and adapting to this new part of my life. Are you going through any changes? Have any regrets?
Many many changes too. I'm one of those people that gets bored easily and my life changes every two to three years. Some people like change, others don't. What really matters is that we find peace, joy and love in our lives everyday, and we are responsible for making ourselves happy! ☮💌Still enjoy viewing your videos no matter the content
Yes, as we speak I am turning into a werewolf & it is sooo annoying. 😜 Kidding aside, I have a question. Since rv/vans are still at a premium, are you considering at all selling your van while at it's highest value? Or just worth keeping for the moment? Thanks
I am in the process of changing jobs from an office sit down all day job to a more mobile job that's more outdoors. I am finishing some dental work with my current great dental coverage. God knows what kind of dental my next job will have. lol 🦷
I am preparing for a major life change. My youngest started college this past August. I am getting my house ready to be put on the market. I need to decide where I want to live just for myself. I follow you and other travelers to see parts of the country that I have not personally been.
🎼"Regrets, I've had a few..."😉Life brings change. I'm one of those few humans who embrace change. Boredom has been my enemy since I was a little kid! But stupid pandemic wrecked me, truly. Became agoraphobic, the PTSD came back, the ANXIETY swallowed me whole. I barely left my house except to go to my little cottage in the Summer. Jan '22, I got uterine cancer, finished treatment in June, am finally moving out of the "rage" phase. Now, I have NO fear. Screw it... I lived! My husband is still so scared, thought he was gonna lose me (sweetie!).. But I'm staying here for the FUN. I'm going to the Caribbean next week! I'm done with fear, open to all adventures. Still anxious, always will be. But I win, anxiety. No fear. You're doing GREAT, Amber. Happy for ya! Cute place!!! 💐(Got your sticker on my car and my laptop... I'm representing you, pretty lady!!!)
Live your life Amber, I finally stopped worrying about what others think of me at 63!! Be you, you are loved!❤
Amen!!!
I'm glad that you've been authentic with your process. I know you've gotten some flack some some people, but I wanted to give you the other side. It totally makes sense to me that you would get tired of being on the road after a number of years. Full time on the road isn't for everyone, especially not indefinitely. So thanks for continuing to be authentic with your own story chasing adventure, and not trying to produce a story that other people want. What I appreciate about you is your realness. As somebody who has had a lot of depression and anxiety, it makes me feel like I can relate to your situation. Although my situation is very different, I can definitely relate to the occasional uncertainty of life. And the uncertainty of what should go next.
Kim thank you for sharing your perspective and kind compliments. It’s sometimes hard to navigate this path when I’m also thinking about what’s best for me, how can I show something that might help somebody else, and still make a entertaining and successful video. It can be agonizing and I out a lot of pressure on myself. I hope you are being kind to yourself with the anxiety and depression and have support. It can be hard to deal with otherwise.
All that really matters are you happy thats important
So well said!
What she said. So well put.
@@storychasing By this point your followers are just interested in your story no matter where you are living. Life is ever changing and if you are authentic, that's all that counts.
You seem so much calmer and happier now that you've changed to having a home base close to your family. Congratulations on seeing the change through
I don’t feel like you need to apologize for having anxiety. Your channel is about yourself and what you’re going through as your journey. The journey isn’t always going to be sunshine and roses. I appreciate all of the parts that you show us the viewers.
You have gone through so much. It’s can be hard to see you suffer. My heart goes out to you. Love your living room. Very special. ❤
I am sorry to hear you lost subscribers when you were honest about your anxiety. I have always appreciated that you are real when you share. I am glad slowing down in a sticks and bricks has been beneficial for you at this time. I always enjoy watching what you chose to share. ❤
to see you painting as you shared at the end............made me cry!
not to worry about those who left, FT vanlife now is precarious, at best, imho.....
i love to watch people grow and share their gifts! Thanks, Amber! xxx
I don't feel you need to apologize for sharing your feelings , anxiety and some of the tough things you went through . You are human and showing all sides of your life the good times and the tough times . The reality of life for everyone. I think it helps us viewers of your channel and also helps you as well , since we can comment and respond to you in a show of support of advice . Thank you for showing us the Temple . It's very beautiful. Your new place looks beautiful too. Thanks again Amber .
What a well-done video! Thanks for showing us the temple, taking us shopping, and the beautiful bed. You be you and talk your story. None of us are always joyful and happy. Going through things is life. Enjoy life and be you! Thanks for an amazing video!
I’m so sorry you lost viewers as you shared your most vulnerable side. I respect and have the utmost empathy for those who didn’t know/couldn’t handle your story (anxiety,depression). It was heart breaking to watch in some cases. Sheesh, even in the opening of this video when you held Lily’s tag saying how much you love and miss her made me cry all over again. The sad part is we ALL go through it one way or another. I guess it depends on how we handle it. I’m even happier for you now that you took the time you KNOW was well overdue. Stay warm. Stay safe.
Thank you for sharing about your anxiety and being so authentic in how you are allowing your channel to evolve with you. I don't watch your content just because of 'van life'...I found it because of my interest in that but I have stayed with it because your content is relatable and real. thanks again! As for my own regrets...I traded my minivan in for a car last year because my kids are grown...I sooooo wish I had held on to it for some part time travel ;)
Hi there from Australia. Life isn’t perfect and you are so right for sharing the good, the bad and the ugly. Had you only showed the good, your channel would only strive to give people false hope.
Thank you for all you do and good luck for 2023.
I knew you could work it out yourself. Nice to have some room to spread out and paint.
Amber so glad you are happy. You have brought so much joy into my life with your story. Please disregard those that don't understand your journey. Those that care and love you only want your happiness, please disregard the rest. God Bless and once again thank you for sharing your life with us.
Way to go Ms Amber! Keep speaking Truth and doing what you need to do for YOU! We can’t please everyone and that shouldn’t be anyone’s “priority” in life!😊🙏🌈
Amber I don't know why but I see you and listen to you and I smile. I am happy for you. You are doing good and don't regret anything that you share. The ones you lost maybe can't deal with there own stuff. We all have our own issues. Me I am here for the long haul. I enjoy your channel. Your place is looking good also glad you are able to enjoy your sis. Take care.
Amber, you are such a lovely person. I enjoy watching all your endeavors. ❤️
Thank you so much!
put a tea towel under your cutting board and it will not move when you use it ..or that rubber mat stuff...
I always forget that trick. Thanks for the reminder.
I’m really proud of you for sharing your journey. I’m glad you shared how you got to the other side. I think it’s perfect… living part time in the van. That’s what we do with our trailer. It’s a good balance. Being on the road is hard! There are a lot for folks buying a cabin etc to do the same thing as you. I love your videos and your new rug and the cabinet! I love decorating as well, fun fun fun❣️
I appreciate that you share the ups and downs of life.
I was excited when you said you wanted to refinish some older furniture. I like that kind of videos. I’ll keep watching for a while to see if there is anything that interest me. Anyone can shop, though not me. It was kind of nice to see you Segway over to a new life.
Thank you for sharing your story! You look amazingly happy!
You live your best life and we are here for you. Thank you for shaving it with us.
Amber you are a very brave person bearing your soul like you did. You are so honest and forthright in everything you do. You are not afraid to express your humanity, the good the bad and the ugly. Do not for one second regret it what you said. We all have a lot to learn from you, to stand tall and be strong even though there are times when we don’t feel like it. Thank you for being you. I love your place and the way you’re putting it together. Your living room is really cute in that rug ties it all in. Those subscribers that left Could not bear the rawness of your feelings and emotions, possibly exposing them which they didn’t like what they see in themselves. All we can do is pray for them. Keep up the great work Amber I am most enjoying your channel
It's nice to see you feeling happy.
I have been 'thinking' for a VERY long time about getting a bed frame from that company as they looked very well constructed - and now you are telling me how great it is I will go ahead and press that button! BUY! Thank you for your recommendation!
Glad it was helpful! You're gonna love it. No squeaking at all and so so easy to assemble!
I know the feeling - travelling for long periods of time is exhausting because so many decisions need to be made. There is always the air of uncertainty even when you know where you are going. Most of the time I really enjoyed returning to work - because it was a relatively known environment. Sad but true. Retired now but still travel - but need to return to my home after about 4 weeks.
Amber, I love watching your videos, and adventures. I think you are an arsenal of strength and courage. I support you, no matter what you decide to do. I'm going through changes, too! It's okay to embrace change!
I can't wait for you to share the next chapter of your life. Even if you decide to paint and sell your art. Whatever you want to do, that's what matters, and many of us are buckled up for the ride! YOU MATTER!😊
I'm a Texan, too! YEE-HA, saddle up, giity up, and let's go!🤣
I am so happy for you. Our lives are always changing and this current change for you is working. Mine will change and I don’t know when, thanks to you, Inwill be accepting. 😊
Yes, I can see why being on the road full time could burn anyone out. Constantly having to worry about finding a place to stay and having to pay for every night. Safety, where to get internet, where to get food etc. Good job on finding the right mix. ps You have one of the best cameras ever. So clear.
Hello Amber, really enjoyed your company and cosy vibe. I'm getting to a crossroad in my life where I need changes in my life. Toxic work environment, overwhelmed by my house and it's only small lol.. New subscriber for sure. Love from England. Jules 💐
You are great just the way you are. Nice for you to share your feelings about those who quit your channel, but unfortunately there will always be people that are not satisfied with things. I am sure that you sharing this last year has helped a lot more people (than those that you lost). I know that you have helped me a lot. Just take care of yourself and try to not worry about the naysayers. Thanks for all your time.
Thank you so much 😊
Rug looks great …and good size….still love to see a couple of blue pillows alongside the rust ones .
Re:your last year. It’s always better to be REAL. All glee and smiles are not real so you go girl….you got this!
Thank you for your honesty and authentic sharing ✨ really appreciate you Amber X 🌻 🙋🏻♀️🇦🇺
Go to the Goodwill. They have great blankets and comforters. Around $7, 8.
I just subscribed to your channel and I love your vibe on life and recognizing when to change. It takes a lot when to admit faults and to apologize especially on camera. I will be binge watching your videos.
I’ve never been to IKEA thanks for taking us with you.
You’re welcome 😊
Amber only showed you a small portion of IKEA. I love shopping there but I try my best NOT to go on a weekend. It’s very crowded. If you get the opportunity you should go because it’s got lots of cool stuff. Their prices are very reasonable.
The Temple is about 5 years old. I watched them building lots of it.
Thank you for sharing. The breakfast place you were at does have amazing food ❤. We go at least once a month.
Amber, contrary to those that felt triggered by your story it actually helped more people than you know. I truly appreciate your honesty sincerity as it did help. I appreciate all you share and yes I have experienced so much of what you share. Take care my friend and keep on loving life. 🎉😊
Thank Greg for sharing that with me. ☺️☺️🤍
The ikea comforter I have had for 6 years has had up better than ones costing 3x more.
You guys look like you enjoyed yourselves ❤
I did!
I love that cart! I will have to shop at Ikea sometime. Thanks for taking us with you!
You are so welcome!
Never apologize for living your life. Your choices, reasons for doing so are yours alone. At the end of the day you have to answer to yourself and no one else. And that is the end of the story!
Ikea is such a fun shopping experience! We always have a meal there also...l love the veggie hotdogs! The salads and the meatballs and mashed potatoes are good too!
I moved to Frisco in ‘96, back when 20k people lived there, Preston was one lane each way, and there were at least 2 brothels in town. I remember how we lost our minds when Taco Bell came to town. Lol! Times have changed and Frisco’s grown a lot. Hope you’re enjoying TX, I couldn’t wait to leave! 😂
So fun! I just bought the same cart! I love it. Mine is red. Enjoy Amber!
Love the cart
You realized what you needed to do and did it!
Farmers market are open during harvest
Hi Amber, Love your Rug!! My favorite Rug...I bet Ruggables Washable Rugs. I suggested them I think 2 videos back. It was my favorite one that I would of bought if I had room. I am in my 5th Wheel and any rug my 4 dogs want to pee on them. So cold floors in the AM even though at one time I bought runners for my Class C. Wish they were washable. It is too bad Creators feel like followers boss them a bit. After all it is your life!! I am too Independent to have people bully or boss me around. That's why I always became Middle Manager in the olden days 80's.
Time to paint us a picture of Baha Mexico.
As far as giving up van life goes, you can't please everybody, so you have to please yourself.
In the van or a ground home, I love your videos. Oddly, I have never been to an IKEA and there’s two near me In Chicago. Idk there could be three
Btw, what is the problem with kitchen designers and lack of drawers. I paid extra in my house to have another cabinet added with four drawers. So haha I have six now in big kitchen.
It’s so unfortunate that there are so many “judgy” keyboard people. Never mind them. I love that bed. Gotta go back to see if you gave the name or I’ll have to google it. ❤
You should give us the recipe for the pickled onions.
IKEA is my happy place. My tiny house is mainly lots of IKEA items. I love your journey. i started out from a house to two different travel trailers and now my 8X16 tiny house.
That is awesome! Do you still have the trailers?
@@storychasing no I sold the last one. My Incred-I-Box is light enough to tow. I have moved 5 times with it so far.
OMG..... I used to Eat Breakfast at Ikea often.....
It's been a couple of years being we had to change our lives..... I think I will give that 99c Breakfast a try again..... Thanks.....
I do too
I enjoy you, and am glad you find what works for you ❤️💜🙏👍
Thank you so much!
There are always going to. be naysayers. I'm glad you haven't taken them too seriously. So you lost some viewers. Here's the thing ... We are in a time when change is inevitable and huge. One of the biggest is getting rid of those people who don't love you for who you are. They must journey on a path different from yours. Your life is lived only by you so ... why try to make others happy with your life? Impossible!! I enjoy you. Isn't it nice to have subscribers that enjoy you? Thanks for sharing your journey. It's a good story.
I'm shocked that your relaying your true mood/mental health challenges caused a drop in viewership and followers. I guess those folks weren't human like the rest of us!
I am sorry you felt so harshly judged for sharing a difficult part of your life. I think more people appreciate it than look down on you for it. I have always preferred to surround myself with people who aren't afraid to show some of their hardships - it's easier to relate to those kind of people and easier to then open up myself. Sometimes you just need to talk it out and not be afraid that you will be judged for your feelings. Thanks for being you.
And btw, I love that bed frame. My dream is to have one just like it! And it's been fun to come along with you as you decorate your little part time home. ♥️
Your authentic voice was what drew me to your channel. Dealing with suffering is something we share in common. Our best life stories are about struggling with loss and changes. Do not regret showing us that part of Story Chasing. It is powerful and moving. Some people run from that. The rest of us are saying "Yes, I understand".
Thank you Christine I’m so glad that you shared your perspective.
Do not apologize for being an honest human being......
No reason to apologize. So glad you are content with the changes you have made. Keep well. ❤
Everything is coming together so nice...Everything looks beautiful. I fell in love with your new plates i love them! I've noticed how much calmer you are your relaxed and just enjoying life the way you want for a while. I like this part of your life but I also like the van life part too! But I know it's very hard being on the road all the time. No matter how you choose to do life I will still be following you. Just be safe at all times! Wishing you the best!! ❤🙏
it takes a lot of courage to admit a need for change. your show of vulnerability is a show of strength. Bless your beautiful soul
Thank you for your vulnerability, and openness. And although you stated having triggered others anxiety.. I feel strongly that being open about mental health, vulnerable, authentic and open to discussion is really key in wellness with mental health, and is also key in public understanding... As mental health is often kept under wraps, or behind closed doors... And as a person with deep anxiety, that can be very isolating for me.. And some channels that are more open and honest help me feel connected, so thank you for telling your story authentically, and being yourself.
I respect your authenticity!
Living full time on the road is exhausting.
So many decisions just to handle basic living chores.
I’m happy you found a nice sticks and bricks!
Amber, I love your channel! ALL OF IT! Enjoy your life and keep sharing it, the good the bad and the difficult!!!
You seem so happy to be back near your sister. Life is a journey---enjoy the ride!
Hi
Hi Amber, ...love, love your bed, rug, cool cart, etc. I need to get me one of those carts.
...everything is looking great. Good job at ikea and I agree, keep it minimalist since your plan is going back into the van later on. You can at least take the comforter with you, for the van, when that time comes.
You look very happy and relaxed. Painting does help with relaxing. Love seeing you with your sister. You both always have a good time together. When I'm with my sisters, we are always laughing and having fun. Actually, talking about doing some crafts together. I'm so sorry to hear you lost some subscribers but it will build back up again. Well, I need to check on dinner; thank you for another great episode. 🤗💞
You're definitely a good person, Amber. Don't let people mess with you. 💙 Love the elephant statue.
I’m not allowed in IKEA without a responsible adult.
Lmao. Uh oh. I hope I didn’t cause a problem here. 😉
I think the main reason for negative comments is that you are currently doing or “living” in a way that was the antithesis of when you were traveling, when you were anti-static living. People change, but I can understand why people left your channel. If they are still nomads, your current route is not something they’re interested in. I would not see it in such a negative light, but more so as a change in interests. And I will say, I think you really pushed the #vanlife thing as evidenced by your “classes” for nomads. But, bottom line is just go on about your business. You will lose followers, but you will gather another type of follower. Cheers!
Don’t apologize for being authentic. Also, love that cart 😊❤
Never been to Ikea. I had a friend who wanted to go there for a lunch break. Thanks for sharing your world with us. We will keep chasing your stories.
Awesome! Thank you!
I was just at the IKEA in my hometown last week. 😊It’s not far from my work so me and a coworker went to have lunch at the cafeteria. I had never been to the cafeteria before. Good food!
Thank you for letting us in you life. I love it. Best wishes
Glad you enjoy it!
Your little apartment is just perfect. I love your bed frame, and that seems to be the style right now seeing the wooden base. Your all good.
You do what you want to do, I was very happy to see you here today.
Wow. I have never been to an Ikea. That place looks huge!! You look great by the way!!
Thanks so much!
No thank you!
Listen, you do you! Don’t worry what others say! Most of us love you and will watch all your adventures ! And you look so happy,and I’m so happy for you…😊
You look so much happier these days. It's good to see you taking care of yourself.
So glad you have your "SPARK" back again; you look so HAPPY and relaxed. I adore your content; I feel like I'm always watching a good friend as she continues her "Story Chasing".
Hi pretty lady. How are you doing today? And how is the family all are doing? And how is the weather over there?
I love IKEA, you can’t just nip in and out you have to do the whole shop. You look so relaxed and happy, love your videos ❤
Thank you!! 😊
Thank you for staying true to yourself!!❤
Hello,
I have to say its very refreshing to hear true feelings and honesty. Youve been through so much in the recent past, and sharing this with all of us isnt an easy thing to do.
I just wanted to tell you that you are very much appreciated and that you are a very inspiring person.
Thank you
Be safe, stay well and God bless
🙏🙏🙏 🌈 🌹❤️ 🍀
Hi there! Amber, you are enough!! You are perfection no matter what path you choose to take! You were not created to be the vessel for others sadness, disappointments or anger. I am glad to see you replace the darkness with hope and light. I’ve missed you❤️
Amber, I think that you are very brave. You went on your journey instead of staying in a long lasting daily grind job. I myself worked at the same business for almost 35 years. Became a vacation traveler but dreamed of doing more. You seem like an interesting, fun & kind person. Plus, a dog lover. Like myself. I enjoy your UA-cam stories! PS love your living room look!
Thank you so much!
So glad you are feeling better! This "story chasing" chapter is so much fun! May I please respectfully add if buying feather products please make sure feathers come from a cruelty free source? Some companies still support live plucking. 😢 Thank you so much for sharing your life! 💖
No regrets. You share your honest opinions, your life, your feelings, emotions & reality. Don't fret over those that left here, our lives change over time. Some have also moved onto different avenues.
If they are judging you, it's their discomfort or trigger that strikes upon them within themselves, not really you.
Enjoy that space around you now. Enjoy family.
I'm considering buying some land near San Antonio to live closer to my sister & use for base camp.
We reach points in our lives in which our souls get unsettled, that's the time to address it. Otherwise, we get restless, anxious & need to fix it. Otherwise, misery sets in.
Now you can enjoy a home base, yet get out there for more adventures when ready.
Win win!! Life is short, live it well!
As someone coming up on 70.....I can tell you the one constant in life is constant change.
Adaptability is your Friend.
We all write our ki en story.
I am so proud of you for writing/video taping your own story authentically.
Keep up the good work!!!!
Enjoy every moment of your own story!
I think sharing that part of your life was really a good thing. It cuts through the “everything’s perfect in my life” facade which can often be portrayed on social media. That does a lot of harm to people too. More harm I would suggest than you sharing your real life challenges. Thank you for keeping it real and I think the situation you are in is perfect and would likely suit a lot of other people. Your true followers are those who watch the channel for you. I love where your at now and I’m looking forward to seeing what you get up to in 2023. 🤗💖
Hi pretty lady. How are you doing today? And how is the family all are doing? And how is the weather over there?
I hope your regret about sharing doesn't keep you from being the honest person you are. I relate to you so much more than others on youtube and I hope it stays that way!
Hi Amber , you got this and God got you. I love your videos and seeing you so happy. Honey, when we go thru the storm it's preparing us to be stronger to handle up and you got it. Continue doing you I love it God bless 🤗🥰
A van or a house-doesn't matter; when you're not feeling it, becomes a cage.
I tune in to your videos because you are real & show the hard truth & feelings you deal with. This is true life. 99% of your videos are upbeat. As you go through life changing things I am happy to continue along the journey to see what's ahead!! Keep your chin up...No Regrets!
This Lady Right Here, Story Chasing Absolutely Love Her Channel ❤️
It's so nice to see you so happy! I enjoy watching you build your new life. 😁