Wife says life went to hell after meeting her Canadian husband [Part 1] | K-DOC
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- Опубліковано 16 вер 2022
- She was a successful English teacher, from writing textbooks to lecturing for students prepping for the SATs! Then she met a Canadian man, started to enjoy life more and take things as they come. Is she satisfied with the person she's become? Find out now!
All edits and translations done by Eunjae Lee.
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이웃집 찰스 [My neighbor Charles]
[캐나다 레스] Air Date: 2022.6.7
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My parents argue about everythin and anythin under the sun, since 40 years.Its suffocatin for even the children involved.I hope this couple doesnt go that route
Same here
Yin & Yang 😅
Same
Same...
My ex and I argued about everything too. I think he enjoyed arguing more than coming to a resolution. Divorced him after 2 years!
Owning and running a business together changes everything in a relationship. My boyfriend and I run 3 different business together and each one we start changes the dynamic completely. It’s definitely not easy.
Hope they can get back to remembering the love they used to share and grow from there 💕
Any tips?
@@clubsnatcher Don't start a business together with your SO.
Number 1 rule. To never take any of your family members as a part of running a business. Anyone in the business industry would say this.
Thank you for this episode. I feel like it told my exact story with my ex!!! We also started and owned a brewery but after 6 years, we couldnt take the stress and broke up! Contrary to her, I moved to his country which made it even worst. I think that she has an advantage being in Korea as its her turf.
So are you still in his country and what about the business now? Did you just split the 3 branches, sold it or still working with each other now?
some couples mesh well when actually working together, and some do not. the dynamic between a couple can change drastically when working together in an actual working capacity or starting a business together.
I love this show and remember this couple from last time. I hope they can work things out, because they have a great business.
I'm not going to make a single damn judgement because at the end of the day, it's entertainment and they portray them according to what's more interesting to an audience. Lord knows what conversations they have when the camera is off and what kind of moments they share together.
I will now, however, visit their taphouse the next time I'm either in Pyeongchang or Gangneung
Sometimes being apart is what's best for all and sometimes therapy and getting help as individuals and as a couple can resolve things and make the home happy again.
Never be ashamed to end the relationship or to seek support to help your relationship.
Arguing as a couple is normal , if one family say they never argue at home trust me it's a big lie, you single males or females be prepared! But remember to maintain healthy argument!!
Yea but shouldnt argue all time. N no not everyone does dont normalize it. There alot of variables
@@bmoe4609 : Don't be confused Arguing, gaslighting, criticizing, those are three different things which often happened as a couple. Arguing could be means Caring which the goal to make an agreement of something! Be aware! Love you all.
What happened to the main female host of this show??
I don't think you could find someone with a more Canadian sounding name than Les Timmermans lol.
Really? Timmermans is originally a Dutch name, quite surprised it’s common in Canada
He is very, very critical to her. Especially since he did none of the work... Arrives just to criticize and then leaves...
Sad, seems he really did not say much and during the episode she was speaking some very negative words and energy into their relationship. He was in the brewing field when she was teaching (he's the expert) so why is she not open to questions and comments when he comes to the new location. Keep in mind he is most likely running their 1st brewery and farm while she is helping to expand so he can't be on site when new location is being built. IE no leg room on bar overhang to much too small of a sink for a bar - both of which are valid concerns and not something to take as a personal criticism.
I think she is unhappy about something. You know how us women can be, not able to come out & say what the problem is. But give alot of hints that men dont even pick-up.
women are narcissistic so they cant accept advice or criticism
I think she is going through the menopause. She argues and picks fights non stop.
Looked to me like he could barely speak/understand Korean so maybe that's why he was so quiet?
Tbh I agree with what he said tho. Enough legroom for table, don’t peel off the protective cover until it’s installed.
Les has another woman. He's too cold and critical of his wife.
Wife is unhappy and the husband seems clueless. She may complain in a joking manner but take it serious. Husband doesn't seem bad but communication seems to be the problem. Maybe talk it out or see someone.
They’re doing better than that one couple where the husband wanted to start his own tai-kwon-do dojo
I think every couple was better than them 😅
Update on the Wing Chun couple - they moved back to Australia.
link?
@@merrittpalmer4349 I tried to find it cause it was under this channel but I don’t see it anymore
@@tommycutsew9795
You mean he took her with him?
I thought he would move back to Australia but I expected he would leave her in Korea.
If they are going to continue being together they need to work differently one in the club and another in the behind the scenes they have alot to work on
when me and my husband first got together (in Korea by the way, lol, though we're neither of us Korean, lol), we would fight about how my skills with foreign language weren't as good as his, it really frustrated him and made me extremely ashamed because I was the foreign language teacher with a linguistics degree (I was an amazing teacher but horrible student, lol), I would cry all the time because it didn't come as easily to me as to him, but Korean was his 5th language and I could barely get past my first. Eventually we got past that, I gave up trying to learn Korean because learning his native language was more important and he gave up getting upset with me and just started trying to encourage me more. We rarely ever fought after that, until....... we bought our first place, hahhahahhahaahahahha, and then it was melt down after melt down in the beginning because our styles clashed, we're a bit past it now because we've learned how to blend it and he also learned to just my judgement on aesthetics over especially his dad's because I take my time with it and I know what I want and take a lot into consideration.
That looks like a very detailed layout...the time to catch that the sink was too small was then. HOWEVER, it seems like ordering a bigger sink and making the adjustment to the counter would be pretty minimal demo.
My life is hell after marrying my husband...
Love looking up places... at 1:11 they show Gangneung. But the map looks like an island?? Looking it up, it's just a part of the east coast of SK. Confused.
Les .. It’s like he’s bringing bad energy right away. Like come on man.. Just be supportive?
Okay, Maria.
WTH are you talking about he didn't even do anything.
i think it is just SCRIPTED..😂
they just want a free promotion for their new business by appearing on the tv show. Good idea. 😊👍👍
You could be on to something 🤔
Sounds about white.
I noticed that these videos usually points the faults at men. It is subtle in misandry. But if there are videos that this channel that also hold women accountable for their decisions, then cool. This channel seems more gynocentric, in my opinion.
@@KurisuSebastian with all the clapping and giggling it obviously is gynocentric .The fact that they try to shame men but men have to take it and can't talk back so that's how it works .
I bet they won't last longer. Their marriage will not last longer because her husband isn't even cooperating and helping her at all.
Does he not speak Korean either??
He planted a whole garden of vegetables for her because she is a vegetarian. Maybe they have two different love languages.
The husband whines but does…nothing lol..
Actually they are both similar that's why they repel. If he's nitpicking on every detail, she should be a relaxed person that way she wont feel annoyed by him.
I know exactly what you mean. In my relationship, when I'm uptight, my bf is relaxed, which defuses conflict... And now I'm learning to be more relaxed as well 😂 However in this case, I feel it's plain rudeness (or maybe lack of tact) from him to not give any reaction & make those disgusted kind of faces when he knows how hard she's been working (she's even wearing her dirty work clothes). No matter how relaxed and good natured he is, I know my bf would be extremely hurt if I did the same. You can see she was kinda trying to shut him down jokingly in good humour at the start but he was just plain rude. I get that some practical questions have to be asked but you can always acknowledge your partner's effort first, and also ask in a kinder and less rude way.
"She should be a relaxed person"? Silly people. You should be more understanding or mind your own business!
@@fuhtsgeorge7663 or maybe you should read comments in full 😅 I'm not sure whether I was included in your reply to the original commenter, but I was quite clearly saying he was the one that should relax and be less rude.
Why should she have to change?
I hope this stops anyone from trying to hook up 😎👍
Eh, I mean if she was successful before while working on her own, and she just doesn't have that same dynamic when working with her husband, then depending on whichever route she's more focused on whether it's business or her relationship, she should be able to choose. Either way I realize that it's not easy, but I think communication is definitely a skill that this couple should portray more. I'm definitely not a relationship therapist or anything, so therefore I don't really have a say in things like this because I'm neither involved with this couple.
This lady seems like hard labor is something that she cannot handle and it looks as if she has a lot of back pain she should have stayed with teaching long term I think she is regretting it.
Even though he is right, arguing so much with wife isn't right. Makes sense?
how old are they?
Les doesn’t give me bad vibes I just feel like he’s lost more than anything for some reason, unless I have to watch it again to understand why everyone is saying that he’s weird, but my first impression was that he’s kind of in a different world, maybe he just doesn’t understand that his actions can be seen negatively by others.
These people just love to psychoanalyze
I agree he seems like a good guy but maybe communication is lacking in the relationship or maybe the show is edited to portray the wrong picture of them.
Idk I felt like the wife was casually saying some extremely negative things about the relationship, I wouldn't be happy if my wife was saying this kind of thing especially publicly, seems like she doesn't see this would be viewed negatively also. I think Les is over critical and nit picking his wife too much tho
I can't believe he's from Calgary Alberta
As someone originally from Calgary, Alberta I am shocked XD Thats not normally a place people come from and get on shows and such haha.
Omg i can see myself with my partner now on them 😅😅😅
I’m just an outsider, but what I see is he don’t trust his wife to make good decisions. And she feels suffocated because of that in the words of Fantasia if you don’t want me. . .
The table is large and its squeezy legroom to be honest & this both couple didn time to check around any mistakes been made.
they don't have an aura of husband and wife.
geez
He seems to treat her like an employee, but she’s not - she’s your wife and partner not unpaid labour.
Is that Bald guy in Itaewon Class
She is a typical of alpha female 🤣🤣🤣
He thought Asians girls would be submiss:ve, boy was he wrong
Yeah. Notice the trend with these videos. It favors one side over the other. Not holding the other accountable for their actions. You call that fairness? I get this is in Korea. But Korea has been influenced by western culture to some extent, and that’s bad. But what do I know?
I thought Koreans are supposed to look young. She’s looking middle aged and older than her husband.
What? 🤡
she is old, she used to be a teacher for over 20 years.
Yeah she looks 45
She is middle aged dumb dumb.
She looks older than him and probably is. My guess is she is in her late 40s. But that isnt the focus of this story.
Can he speak? Lol
Interracial marriage is somehow difficult in Korea because it’s a conservative society and not welcoming to the foreigners. In my case, my girlfriend did not accept my marriage proposal due to my religion and nationality. Mostly Korean women prefer Americans, Europeans and Aussies compared to other nationalities. That’s why I changed my mind about getting married with a Korean lady. 😢
I mean... you cant blame them for wanting to marry someone christian or catholic. Other religions seem extreme to them. You cant expect them to change themselves drastically like how they shouldnt expect you to change. Goes both ways. Helps a lot to marry someone with a similar religion.
As a muslim u should know better abt marriage regulations in ur religion but glad she refused
@@skyhighlihi I know about marriage regulations very well. Muslims can marry with Christians and Jews. I am surprised why are you happy that she changed her mind?
@@angelsis2222 Young generation in Korea don’t care about religion at all. There must be true love that’s all. In the west, they do care about religion but here it’s not like this.
@@alijawad1461 if you love her more than you would have left your religion and lived happy life
These videos always try to make the man out to be the bad one. She seemed very quick tempered to me. Also the comments are filled with the usual white knights and misandrists.
It's called menopause. A few years of hell for the husband.
it is so evident she didn't age well with white men
Looks like he’s ready to find another younger and sexier korean girl to be with after he’s done using this one. 😂😂😂
Yikes
where did you get this impression?
I can't believe he treats her like that when she does all his work. He's garbage