Unnecessary Furniture and Home Decor You Think You Need To Buy

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  • @Bubreherro
    @Bubreherro 11 місяців тому +2608

    “Then you realize you don’t even like 32 people”…. 🙋🏽‍♀️

  • @pretty.odd.
    @pretty.odd. 11 місяців тому +1916

    Nick doesn't get enough credit for being a comedy channel. I laugh out loud multiple times per video each video. "Unless you really love the look of displaying your alcoholism, you have at it!" I snorted.

    • @lauralake7430
      @lauralake7430 11 місяців тому +34

      Came here to say this! Honestly, I barely decorate anything, but I LOVE Nick!

    • @GoAwayNow-iz3du
      @GoAwayNow-iz3du 11 місяців тому +30

      When alcoholism has become your identity... =p

    • @Jerseybytes2
      @Jerseybytes2 11 місяців тому +40

      I'm afraid that, if I got a bar cart its only purpose was so the cats had more places to take naps in. and that's why we have side tables. coffee table is so the dog can pretend to be a cat when hubby and I watch tv
      If anyone ever visits me, which I hope they don't, they can sit on the dogs bed or the cats tree. they better not break them or the cats won't be too happy with it and they'll have to replace them.

    • @ssgg23
      @ssgg23 11 місяців тому +11

      My sister has a farmhouse style bar cart and I actually think it’s the cutest thing ever but it matches perfectly with their very old wood frame home. 😂

    • @cynthiajohnston424
      @cynthiajohnston424 11 місяців тому +6

      @@Jerseybytes2 You're my kinds people ! 🐾🐾😂

  • @kra13
    @kra13 10 місяців тому +701

    "They're not coming, honey; they're not coming." HYSTERICAL. I love Nick's advice, his aesthetic, and his general brilliance, but his humor is a whole other level of entertainment. Thank you!!!

    • @cortinasin4525
      @cortinasin4525 8 місяців тому +1

      Funny 😂

    • @tricianderson1717
      @tricianderson1717 7 місяців тому +6

      That was one of my favorite comments of his from this video! Dying laughing! 😂

    • @aimeeOB
      @aimeeOB 7 місяців тому +2

      I'm dying laughing at this. 🤣

    • @feleciawallace8420
      @feleciawallace8420 6 місяців тому +5

      Yep, when I was young, just starting out in my new apartment I thought I'd be entertaining bigtime... but once reality set-in I realized, they're not coming. I bought tons of stuff that I eventually gave away and donated... Now I'm teaching my daughter not to over-plan, over-decorate or over-compensate but she's not listening to me, I sent her this video, hope it helps.

    • @KJxxoo
      @KJxxoo 6 місяців тому +1

      I felt this! Lol. But they aren’t coming because I’m not inviting them 😅

  • @nabimiso
    @nabimiso 8 місяців тому +74

    When my kids were little I went all out for almost every holiday. A few years ago I just got tired and decided to pull way way back. My son (now 14) said a few days ago "mom, you don't do as much for holidays anymore ". My heart kind of sunk and I asked him if it bothered him. He said "oh no way, we still have tons of fun!"
    Sometimes we are needlessly guilted into overconsumerism.

    • @Grwenhuhc
      @Grwenhuhc Місяць тому +2

      My mom used to go all out and then stopped. Super disappointed. There’s something special about putting effort into holiday decor because your family loves it. I decorate for every holiday and I’ve gotten tons of decor for cheap at thrift stores and for free. I don’t think it costs much at all to decorate. I even make garland with felt. Super easy!

    • @trishwsmom4289
      @trishwsmom4289 28 днів тому +2

      This is basically a great lesson in doing what makes you happy. If something becomes simply a chore and there’s no joy in it anymore then stop doing it…or just pull back as you say. I think it’s very common for parents to really go all out on holidays for their little ones and then dial it back a bit as their kids get older. It’s just a different phase of life.
      Of course, if you still love decorating and your kids are grown, keep doing it. If the older kids still love it they have to pitch in and help decorate. 😉

    • @tastx3142
      @tastx3142 27 днів тому +2

      I quit decorating for holidays after I no longer had my son living at home. Everyone else wants the decorations but nobody will help put them away. My son bought his first house and I gave him the holiday decorations that I had so whether he uses them or not doesn’t matter to me.

    • @angelicajacobs584
      @angelicajacobs584 16 днів тому

      My mum did the same. Xmas was insane. But she'd do Valentine's month, Easter month, etc. it was a lot. But it was just her doing it and it got too much. She was just trying to make a lil fun and magic with the decor for us as kids. Now she's toned down a lot but it's key pieces that are beautiful.

  • @nikkifeltman8523
    @nikkifeltman8523 11 місяців тому +1187

    I love that you talk about NOT needing things instead of just telling the world that they need to buy everything that’s beautiful or trendy. such a breath of fresh air 🙌

    • @mhughes152
      @mhughes152 11 місяців тому +39

      Agreed with that. I've stopped watching most design oriented UA-camrs because of that. Just pushing you to buy more crap that you desperately "need."

    • @belkyhernandez8281
      @belkyhernandez8281 11 місяців тому +6

      Agreed

    • @rabiasayed7300
      @rabiasayed7300 11 місяців тому +14

      Thanks Nick for telling it like it is😅 I love decorating my home,however,I agree fully with your practical approach to decor. Just thought I'd mention that I hate open book shelves....it can look really uggggly if not done properly just my two cents😂....

    • @carolerosario1201
      @carolerosario1201 10 місяців тому +2

      Keeping it real!

    • @sweetygirl165
      @sweetygirl165 5 місяців тому

      The only problem is that he repeats every point at least once 😅

  • @pebbleskirby-yu8kf
    @pebbleskirby-yu8kf 11 місяців тому +172

    “They’re not coming, honey” 😂
    No to bar carts because dust. Like MAYBE a person ACTUALLY comes over and before you make them a drink you’ve gotta clean the glass that’s been sitting out for 6 months

    • @suejames735
      @suejames735 11 місяців тому +3

      Another poster said that she keeps her houseplants on hers. 😊 I have a bakers rack for mine, with one drawer.

    • @mcraig57
      @mcraig57 11 місяців тому +13

      Good grief...was just looking at my bar stand and everything is covered with dust..I probably have the best stocked bar for miles around but the sad thing is I don't drink and never offer a drink to guests as drinking and driving is a no no...lol...but I still keep it...maybe for the dust?

    • @maggienbob1304
      @maggienbob1304 11 місяців тому +5

      I love how pretty liquid bottles are and especially different wine & drinking glasses... but I don't drink! & I'd never want my guests to drink because i dont want my friends drinking & driving. So, yeah.. a pretty cart to store my collection of dust bunnies & dirty glasses. 😅

  • @annalawrence824
    @annalawrence824 11 місяців тому +397

    Our seasonal decor:
    We have a landscape poster scene over our fireplace, in a nice frame. I change the landscape to match the seasons (winter, autumn, summer, spring.)
    Super easy to store each poster print. Ive also not seen others do it yet, so I love it! 😂

    • @valkyriesardo278
      @valkyriesardo278 10 місяців тому +17

      I have a forest landscape that is ambiguous as to season because the artist was clever in his choice colors. It even squeaks by for Winter because of the tiny white flowers on the forest floor. It is printed on cloth stretched over a spare wood frame. When I held it up in the store, I noticed that is semi translucent so I bought two. They are large enough to fit within my sash window frames that do not have a pretty view. They create a marvelous trompe l'oeil effect. At a glance, it appears my windows look out upon a lovely forest glade that is softly glowing with sunlight. The window screens hide the ugly view, provide privacy, and provide sufficient light, as much as one could have with a standard roll down shade. From the outsider's viewpoint, the window looks covered by an ordinary window shade. I did need to add a cafe curtain to hide a portion of window. But the draped portion of the window is a benefit in itself because I do occasionally need to open those windows for ventilation. It is easier to move the drape than the window screen.

    • @jellydarling1008
      @jellydarling1008 10 місяців тому +3

      love that idea, simple one time investment that's classy.

    • @fardja
      @fardja 10 місяців тому +1

      I'm doing something similar by the entryway with a set of framed prints!it's a great way to change it up without the bulk or big expense, it started with not wanting to add even more to the Christmas decor pile

    • @pilarsanza2076
      @pilarsanza2076 10 місяців тому +3

      That’s so clever!

    • @RebeccaTreeseed
      @RebeccaTreeseed 9 місяців тому +1

      That is clever! I will find a way to borrow your idea, I haven't used the same frame :)

  • @HarrietofFire
    @HarrietofFire 8 місяців тому +41

    The short folks need us some footstools! Our feet don't touch the floor on all the tall & deep couches. also, putting feet up feels so nice! Not saying we need one for every seat though.

    • @purselmer5931
      @purselmer5931 2 місяці тому

      Bless your heart.

    • @gusmonster59
      @gusmonster59 2 місяці тому +2

      Like anything else - if YOU love or need it, it's fine. This more aimed at the people who think they have to follow every trend or buy things 'just in case' (that usually never happens) 😁

    • @carolynv8979
      @carolynv8979 2 місяці тому +3

      You generally need an ottoman OR a coffee table OR end tables, but NEVER all three.

    • @irinafernandez207
      @irinafernandez207 Місяць тому

      Yes! I don’t remember the last time I sat without having my feet up. I even have a foot stool at work. 😅

  • @twothirdsanexplosive
    @twothirdsanexplosive 11 місяців тому +610

    Thank you for constantly pushing for pragmatic design, reality of normal people's lives, and practicality of spaces 🙏

    • @Nick_Lewis
      @Nick_Lewis  11 місяців тому +57

      Oh I try! ❤

    • @supernova622
      @supernova622 11 місяців тому +5

      Well stated!

    • @becci8099
      @becci8099 10 місяців тому +6

      Yes exactly
      I love Nick for the “design as you need 364 days a week” and not for that one special occasion. For that I just rent spaces, cars or even dishes. It saves the headache of maintaining, storing and upkeep of items I may need max of 50 times in my entire life time…
      I.e. on the rare occasion, I need to host more than 6-8 people (my personal limit for people to host at home) I found a nice (not pretty but functional) community centre close to my home that I can use for a low rate, including cleaning

  • @theprousteffect9717
    @theprousteffect9717 11 місяців тому +466

    As someone who hates visual clutter, all of these open storage pieces are an easy "no" for me. They can look pretty in photos where everything is impeccably styled, but no one lives in a perfectly curated, styled environment. Thank you for always making the distinction between the fantasy we see in photos and what's functional in the real world.

    • @kademelien9363
      @kademelien9363 11 місяців тому +19

      For me it's the opposite, I love to see my stuff so I know what I have. Anything that bugs me is going away (like ebay). Sure I don't need my plunger to be seen but with my books and games and such I really like it.

    • @colleenmccord4699
      @colleenmccord4699 11 місяців тому +14

      Same visual clutter makes me anxious

    • @raedorin979
      @raedorin979 11 місяців тому +5

      I fell for the trend and put up open shelving that ended up so ugly with all my books on them. I read a lot so they weren't dusty..... just UGLY! How do you store books with all the yuck

    • @ros8986
      @ros8986 11 місяців тому +3

      Proust effect - Greetings. On a possibly related note, you might like Goodbye Things, the new Japanese Minimalism by Fumio Sasaki. Available on audible.

    • @tompw3141
      @tompw3141 11 місяців тому +4

      ...except all those built-ins had lots of closed storage!

  • @BelleChanson0717
    @BelleChanson0717 10 місяців тому +244

    I am an unabashed lover of my built-in shelves, but I also have a VAST personal library so the shelves are completely functional. It was actually less expensive for us to get custom built-ins than try to find pre-built shelves in sufficient quantity for our books!

    • @cpotochny
      @cpotochny 9 місяців тому +37

      Yeah, built-in and shelves were designed for books, not trinkets!

    • @JudgeHill
      @JudgeHill 8 місяців тому +2

      same here :)

    • @kittygoesWOOF
      @kittygoesWOOF 8 місяців тому +4

      @@cpotochny I agree almost entirely. However, there are sometimes awkward spaces or a need for a bookend/you want separation between the books, and you can have useful smaller items. Ideally they'd be meaningful in some way and not just there to be there. If you only have a few books and prefer a kindle or audiobooks or whatever, that's fine, you just don't need an entire bookshelf. If someone has a collection and it's meant to be displayed, shadow boxes, display cabinets, or even the skinny wall shelves can be done well. It needs to be neat and look generally cohesive. That's just my opinion. when people do go overboard, it's very cluttered and when it's there just to be there, it's very hollow.

    • @sooziguru
      @sooziguru 8 місяців тому +4

      I agree whole-heartedly. My husband and I met when I was 40, and two human beings merging two lifetimes of books required both a sort and purge, as well as serious shelving. And I do love the look of vertical and horizontal shapes broken up by more organic shapes of vases and sculptural objects and plants and pottery that we have also collected. But that display combination means MORE shelving! Hahahahahaha! So good quality shelving has been a challenge in our older, smaller home that has three plain walls in the whole house! Meaning not broken up by large double hung windows and doorways. Whew!

    • @lisagray1418
      @lisagray1418 6 місяців тому +1

      I’ve got too many books to fill the built in bookcases my husband built me, but it is almost solely for books with a few pictures interspersed.

  • @mkaltreider5322
    @mkaltreider5322 3 місяці тому +32

    Funny and helpful - thanks Nick! I have a couple to add:
    - wine fridge (unless drinking a lot of wine all the time)
    - guest bedrooms (how often are guests overnight? just add a sleeper sofa and use that room for something you'll do often)
    - huge coffee tables, especially with sharp corners (why? just why?)
    - buffet tables or giant cupboards in dining room (prob don't remember what is even in there or use it)

    • @pokelover02
      @pokelover02 23 дні тому +1

      I use my buffet tables to hold our board games and card games. Love a good buffet table ❤

  • @laurenbashoura9575
    @laurenbashoura9575 11 місяців тому +390

    I think my mom has mastered the “seasonal decor” changing - she swaps out a front door wreath to match the season, and has a little bowl on the mantle that she will put different things in for the seasons: eggs, pumpkins, pinecones, etc. She recently got some little mini trees that she puts on the porch, and decorated those to go with the season as well. And that’s about it! Just enough of a change to be fun, but not redecorating the whole space.

    • @cariwaldick4898
      @cariwaldick4898 11 місяців тому +32

      A little goes a long way. Too much and you risk having the grandma effect.

    • @IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS
      @IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS 11 місяців тому +7

      I like that easy sort of decorating. I have two wreaths-one for Christmas and one for the rest of the year so I don’t have to take the wreath hanger off the glass. I have a blueish green glass leaf dish that I liked because it was pretty and that’s what it was most of the year and then I’d decorated it with gourds at Thanksgiving and Christmas balls at Christmas. Different home and now it’s in the entrance and where I drop my keys.

    • @patriciaanzelc5386
      @patriciaanzelc5386 11 місяців тому +13

      @@cariwaldick4898hey I resemble that remark! I hope you are old enough to laugh at that 😂. Seriously, I think nowadays grandmas are anti decorating!

    • @HikariTheGardevoir
      @HikariTheGardevoir 11 місяців тому +9

      My mom always did the same growing up! She really only hung up wreaths during autumn and winter, and she'd just switch out the decorations in a few bowls/vases to fit the season! Oh, and get some ornamental bulbs in the spring like hyacinths, just to make the house smell like spring.

    • @cariwaldick4898
      @cariwaldick4898 11 місяців тому +11

      @@patriciaanzelc5386 No grands yet, but I'm hoping it won't be too long. I shop at a lot of estate sales, and the homes with all the collections--hoo boy! It's a warning to be careful what you keep. My weakness is craft items--yarn and fabric for crocheting and quilting, as well as dumb stuff I'm trying to repurpose. Seriously, I hate all those single use containers bound for the landfill, but I just can't reuse them all.

  • @Michaela1942
    @Michaela1942 11 місяців тому +191

    Dear Nick: Just to let you know that while I don't really need decor/decorating advice being very happy with what I have, I love to watch your videos. You are funny as hell and I get a big kick out of you. Hope you have great success in all your endeavors. Signed, a Jewish grandmother from California.

    • @LauraLVTGW
      @LauraLVTGW 11 місяців тому +26

      Italian grandmother in Maine (orig. from NY) YES!! Love Nicks humor!! Many blessings! 💖

    • @Nick_Lewis
      @Nick_Lewis  11 місяців тому +19

      Awww thanks both ❤❤

    • @janicevin4207
      @janicevin4207 11 місяців тому +6

      same for an oldy based in Vancouver! hoping to see you walking down the street to say hi!

  • @rexiemoto
    @rexiemoto 10 місяців тому +96

    “Unless you really love the look of displaying your alcoholism”🤣🤣🤣 I never knew this was a thing until my real estate agent asked us to put away all the alcohol displayed in our wet-bar. 🤣🤣 Love the way you put it Nick💕

    • @markrice4808
      @markrice4808 7 місяців тому +5

      Really fun to look at movies from 1950's and 1960's where every high-styled room had a "grog tray!" I read a book years ago where one society figure said, "a cocktail shaker is a kitchen implement!"

    • @beachvacay3184
      @beachvacay3184 7 місяців тому +2

      Oh wow, that will a problem if we ever sell. We have an entire basement bar with alcohol displayed on shelves and everything. Whoever buys our house will have to be a drinker, I guess. 😂

    • @zvezdoblyat
      @zvezdoblyat 6 місяців тому

      ​@@beachvacay3184you wouldn't take them with you?

    • @ellasheridan7637
      @ellasheridan7637 5 місяців тому +4

      I can relate. Didn't realise we were "displaying our alcoholism" until our 5 year old nephew was discussing the grape vine in our backyard and matter of factually said, "well, it's going to be a wine grape because you have so much wine" whilst pointing to where we store our wine 😅

  • @Vestula
    @Vestula 9 місяців тому +27

    The bar cart sound omg. "They're not coming over, honey!" I agree with all of it, but the built-ins are nice and can be made with a budget if you have the DIY skills.

    • @lingodelfo5415
      @lingodelfo5415 10 днів тому

      I LOVED our bar cart as kid. NB! There was no alcohol, in fact, it was a foldable thing, and I got it out always when I got to my grandparents, as it was easily transformable into a two-stored house for my dolls

  • @steelcrown7130
    @steelcrown7130 11 місяців тому +437

    I cannot express this strongly enough: you and I have vastly different tastes and I tend toward the traditional, the used, the scruffy, the antique, BUT: honestly I subscribed to this channel, and I stay subscribed, because you are one of the most charming and articulate (and practical) communicators of taste I have even seen. I agree with most of your choices (as a spectator; remember I don't have many of the products you talk about) but the thing that keeps me coming back is you yourself. Never change!

  • @9kaeve
    @9kaeve 11 місяців тому +76

    That creaking bar cart impression was spot on!

    • @Nick_Lewis
      @Nick_Lewis  11 місяців тому +23

      Here she comes with the gin and tonics! 😂

    • @Mjao519
      @Mjao519 11 місяців тому +3

      It's always time for a cocktail 😂

  • @steveparker2938
    @steveparker2938 11 місяців тому +23

    Seasonal Decor! My husband and I use to re-decorate for every season and every major holiday. It took 2 days to get the stuff down, cleaned and put away and another 2 days to get the "new" stuff out and displayed. After he died I decided to PURGE all that stuff. It's still an ongoing process after 2 years. You just gave me the courage (and permission) to get rid of most of what's left and just decorate for Christmas and to keep that simple. For our 21 years together I loved that man but HATED it when it came time to do the seasonal, holiday change over which was his thing, not mine. No more buying things just because it's the right size, shape or color. Only things I truly love will come into my home and be displayed.

  • @soxiad
    @soxiad 6 місяців тому +28

    As a parent I get so much "mom guilt" for not having the mental headspace to decorate my entire house for every season like I see people do on social media. For ages I've been assuming it's a failing on my part and trying to organize better so I can keep up with the seasons. But this video made me thin for just that extra second on WHY I want to do that - it turns out I really don't, nor do I need to - THANK YOU!!!! xx

    • @heatherknopp3723
      @heatherknopp3723 5 місяців тому +5

      YES! Silence your inner critic and release the false guilt! Do what works for YOU and your family, and ignore everyone else. Your sanity will be more beneficial to your kids than seasonal decor!

    • @kimu3319
      @kimu3319 5 місяців тому

      Same here❤

    • @ashleymitrick2575
      @ashleymitrick2575 5 місяців тому +3

      Me: here is a few neon balls on my house plants... There all set... Balls live on house plants until spring because they are "new years and spring colors" tada! 😂 Decorating full filled

  • @EmpressCosplay
    @EmpressCosplay 11 місяців тому +278

    I'm actually on the hunt for a vintage brass & glass bar cart at the moment - but for my plants! 😂
    I think it's a gorgeous way of displaying them and also super easy to move when I am cleaning.
    As someone who's always propagating like... 5000 different things...
    I think I fall under the category of "a bar cart makes sense" 😂

    • @C2C.
      @C2C. 11 місяців тому +17

      I use bar carts for my plants, too. (The alcohol is put behind a cabinet.)

    • @emmythemac
      @emmythemac 11 місяців тому +11

      Omg I love this idea! I just love the look of bar carts tbh, but this is a nice practical use

    • @ninirossau2304
      @ninirossau2304 11 місяців тому +21

      can you call it a bar cart then ? isnt it a plant cart now. and I think that this is the best use. form meet function.

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl 11 місяців тому +2

      Yes they can be very useful for more than liquor bottles. I have one for my liquor and another for other purposes.

    • @serephita
      @serephita 11 місяців тому +10

      I'm looking for a bar cart as well! Mostly because I keep a hot chocolate and tea station on my kitchen counter and I want my counter space back

  • @dianal.5384
    @dianal.5384 11 місяців тому +161

    I hate clutter and when I see all these beautifully styled open shelving units, bar carts or open shelving in kitchens I think to myself, “ someone has to dust all that s$&t!” Not for me! I have also pared down my Xmas decor to something minimal. A small pencil Christmas tree and a wreath. I avoid going into HomeSense for that very reason!

    • @arnvonsalzburg5033
      @arnvonsalzburg5033 11 місяців тому +8

      This! I love cluttered Ghibli rooms but being allergic do dust this is nothing for me 😀

    • @labachaterairlandesa
      @labachaterairlandesa 10 місяців тому +18

      I hate open kitchen shelving. I just think about all the dust and grease splatters that could be landing on those dishes. It seems so unsanitary to me.

    • @Jasmine-vy8ig
      @Jasmine-vy8ig 10 місяців тому +3

      I don't like any clutter clean always dust, and also open shelvings not for me. Clean house clean mind. I want time for myself❤

    • @UnoHoo1
      @UnoHoo1 9 місяців тому +6

      Yes, they do! My mom was famously (in our home, that is) known to say, “that is nothing but a dust catcher!” I miss her.

    • @zvezdoblyat
      @zvezdoblyat 6 місяців тому

      ​@@labachaterairlandesadon't be ridiculous. Anyone with open shelving in their kitchen clearly only cooks with a microwave

  • @Queen_ofWands
    @Queen_ofWands 7 місяців тому +8

    We had a flood in the basement and lost quite a bit of stuff. In the end, it was a blessing in disguise because it made us really look at the things we lost and ask "Do we really need to replace it?" In the end we have learned to live with less. Especially now that retirement is a few years away, we are more mindful of not wanting to accumulate "stuff" - only to need to downsize again.

  • @thatxdamnxgirl7416
    @thatxdamnxgirl7416 6 місяців тому +20

    Your channel and you as a person is such a breath of fresh air. I'm so glad you aren't afraid to actually be completely honest and critical when talking about trends/fads and aren't constantly promoting the idea that we all need to constantly buy to stay current with trends. You actually are some of the few designers I see on UA-cam that encourages quality items/furniture and FUNCTIONAL LIVING SPACES. I swear I see so many people decorate for "aesthetics" nowadays and turn their spaces into what looks like a camera backdrop. It looks beautiful but it's not functional!

  • @traceyu6213
    @traceyu6213 11 місяців тому +236

    I live in a four season climate and since I’ve grown older, I find that adding seasonal flower arrangements to my home is so much more enjoyable and more elegant than other decor. I do get out my Scottish & Irish wool blankets in autumn and swap them out for cotton knit in spring.

    • @swiinka
      @swiinka 11 місяців тому +14

      Oddly enough living in Ireland you need blankets all year long because even summers here are mostly cold :D

    • @traceyu6213
      @traceyu6213 11 місяців тому +3

      @@swiinka I lived near Coventry England for two years. The weather was consistently mild year ‘round compared to the fluctuations of the Midwest USA. Very cold winters and hot summers. I prefer the UK. 😊

    • @swiinka
      @swiinka 11 місяців тому +3

      @@traceyu6213 Ireland is a bit worse than England in terms of the weather because it's super windy here. But having grown up on the continent I do appreciate lack of extreme temperatures :)

    • @SarahlovesSerge
      @SarahlovesSerge 11 місяців тому +7

      I agree, showing the seasons in your flowers is makes much more sense to me

    • @pilarsanza2076
      @pilarsanza2076 10 місяців тому +7

      That’s a very tasteful way to do it!

  • @lina5979
    @lina5979 11 місяців тому +38

    “We think we need all this amounts of seating because we got all these people coming, and they’re not coming honey.”
    I felt very attacked with that statement but I really needed to hear that. Thanks for the tough love, Nick ❤

  • @jsg4192
    @jsg4192 11 місяців тому +94

    Always love your videos but this is one of my favorites so far. Really appreciate you raising the point about over consumption - it's wasteful, polluting, expensive, and you're exactly right: we just don't need this stuff! I'm sure there are whole academic papers on the sociology around why we have leaned so far into trying to be perfect hosts with perfect homes, but it actually helps to have a designer assure you it isn't needed aesthetically or otherwise. 10/10 Thank you! ❤

  • @bethanyclifford1811
    @bethanyclifford1811 6 місяців тому +20

    Another super easy seasonal decor that requires no year after year storage: flowers/greenery! I like to have a vase that I swap out with fresh or dried flowers/grasses etc to match the season. I get the flowers from my garden and once their done they go in the compost!

    • @annalieff-saxby568
      @annalieff-saxby568 2 місяці тому

      I always have a container of seasonal fruit on display in my living room, as well as flowers, cut greenery, and houseplants. I use almost no commercial decorations: Christmas is ivy trails tied up with red knitting wool and lots and lots of candles.

  • @suzycharto3655
    @suzycharto3655 11 місяців тому +3

    I got rid of my coffee table - got tired of moving it to vacuum. If ever I have guests over I grab some stacking tables from the next room. You are so right - I am never going to have 32 friends over. I need to make some friends. Thank you for the laughs.

  • @intentionallymadi1843
    @intentionallymadi1843 11 місяців тому +135

    I think the points about end tables and huge open shelving built-ins contain a piece of really crucial advice: design is about problem solving. Yes, it's about beauty too, but that's not the whole thing. If something doesn't work for your real life, that means it isn't good design, because it isn't designed FOR YOU. That's why I think it's so beneficial to purchase things for your home slowly so you can actually see where the pain points are. It's way better to make do with what you have and then see what you're really missing - maybe you're always frustrated that you don't have somewhere convenient for your drink, maybe you are regularly hosting more people than can comfortably fit in your living room and your dining room chairs are just too heavy to be moving around all the time. Then you can solve YOUR specific problems to make your home more functional and enjoyable to spend time in.

    • @suejames735
      @suejames735 11 місяців тому +6

      Well said!! I need to declutter......the problem is : my husband!! Partly, anyway......lol. I don't know how to get him to agree to things. Smh What usually happens is......down the road, he MIGHT agree!! I want to declutter NOW!! At least he knows stuff is an issue!! 😐 I guess there's hope!! P.S. He tends to buy stuff on the spur of the moment AND the "as seen on TV" products......grr!!

    • @dcoughla681
      @dcoughla681 11 місяців тому +3

      Absolutely agree! Good design should problem solve. This is particularly important in the bathroom & kitchen.

    • @MrsThollo
      @MrsThollo 11 місяців тому +5

      Wish I could pin this!! I bought a small condo (purposely) and people couldn't believe how long it took me just to buy furniture. When I did, it suited me and my sons' needs and lifestyle and EVERYone loves it.

    • @vociferonheraldofthewinter2284
      @vociferonheraldofthewinter2284 11 місяців тому

      You are correct, Madi! I first solve a practical problem on paper in the most functional way possible, then find a way to elevate the form to meet the function.

  • @rambrosius7006
    @rambrosius7006 10 місяців тому +10

    I appreciate the distinction between "media decisions that sell products" and "people decisions that serve people" in your videos. I think that is one of the reasons why I (personally) dislike minimalism and simplistic designs in real homes... it feels like product placement rather than something that brings a person home imo. A lot of people, when getting a new home or renovating their space, try so hard to get the photogenic look without thinking about what they're using, at least from my perspective.

  • @Katie-rq7bv
    @Katie-rq7bv 11 місяців тому +23

    bar carts are a great test run if you think you want open shelving. The DUST on those things is the best argument for not taking the door off your cabinets.

  • @kwitkow1001
    @kwitkow1001 11 місяців тому +58

    “Seasonal Industrial Complex” is such a funny and accurate term. I love that you question commercialism. Your commentary is hilarious. Great writing

  • @kristenpaz
    @kristenpaz 11 місяців тому +282

    As someone who hates dusting, built ins look like a nightmare to me, but I’ve always felt guilty for not having one. Thank you for making me feel better!!

    • @jenmatt1923
      @jenmatt1923 11 місяців тому +10

      My grandmother had so many built-ins. Shelves and china rails? Not sure what you call them, but they run along the top of your room to display collector plates and mugs and things. She'd be considered a maximalist today. Anyway, all her exposed trinkets made me cringe, and I am a minimalist with everything stored out of sight because of that.

    • @kristenpaz
      @kristenpaz 11 місяців тому +3

      @@jenmatt1923 Same! My grandmother loves antiques and trinkets. I don’t think she ever dusted. I have a few small decorations in my home, but they are easy to dust. I definitely identify as a minimalist because I’m very conscious of what I bring into my home.

    • @juwairiyahummabdullah
      @juwairiyahummabdullah 11 місяців тому +3

      I just realised how messy it would look if i had one and how frequently i would have to dust it 😅

    • @juwairiyahummabdullah
      @juwairiyahummabdullah 11 місяців тому +2

      @@jenmatt1923 reminds me of my grandma, and the funky candle art she had up there for as long as i remember 🤣

    • @glitterchibi3041
      @glitterchibi3041 10 місяців тому +1

      Same! I am so bad at remembering to dust. Those shelevs would have given me asthma at some point haha I have minimalist decor preference too, which helps with the dust problem 😂

  • @mariannem8419
    @mariannem8419 7 місяців тому +5

    Seasonal is so much fun. I appreciate when my relatives and friends do it. They save me time and money.

  • @missg.5940
    @missg.5940 2 місяці тому +3

    I use my grandmother’s tea cart as my nightstand. Books, glasses, lamp, phone, magazines, snacks etc.

  • @stephanieschwartz5214
    @stephanieschwartz5214 11 місяців тому +73

    "Seasonal Industrial Complex" "If you want to display your alcoholism...." Nick, you are a stitch. Every one of these talking points was spot on. Here's my personal "don't need." Years ago we renovated the kitchen and when done there was a fairly large space in the center (it's a big-ish kitchen) so we just got an IKEA stainless steel cart that sits in the center of the room and functions as an island. It is the perfect size for the space. Not too big, not too small. Over the years some people have said "you should build a little island in the center" and my thought is "why the hell should I?" It's not needed. That cart has always been absolutely perfect in size and function and aesthetics.

  • @melanieluh2516
    @melanieluh2516 11 місяців тому +143

    "BE MINDFUL OF WHAT SERVES YOU" Best guidance ever! You nailed it in this one. Stores already have fall decor coming in and it's May. And oh my gosh when the extra company shows up once in five years. I'll haul in the patio chairs. I've donated 10 bins of holiday decor (10 16inch Santa clauses and too many nutcrackers to count) and can't wait to not spend time decorating for the next season.

    • @JamieM470
      @JamieM470 11 місяців тому +8

      Me too! I donated and gave away boxes of holiday decor when I began decluttering years ago, and I've never missed it.
      I don't have small children though; my children are all grown with families & homes of their own.
      I don't miss storing the big boxes & bins, I don't miss unpacking and re-packing, cleaning all that stuff.....and I don't miss the cluttered, busy look of it.
      I think the older I get, the more I crave easy-to-clean simplicity and less unnecessary clutter and work.

    • @thatjillgirl
      @thatjillgirl 11 місяців тому +5

      My husband and I go estate sale shopping. There is always an obscene amount of Christmas decorations. People buy waaaaay too many Christmas decorations.

    • @beverlyharrison7949
      @beverlyharrison7949 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@thatjillgirl agree on holiday decor. Have downsized to two totes for fall & Christmas. Gave 7 ft tree & decorations to kids, ( I had to have their help to put it up every yr ) usually go to their home for Christmas anyway.

    • @vociferonheraldofthewinter2284
      @vociferonheraldofthewinter2284 11 місяців тому +2

      I couldn't get the family's cooperation or enthusiasm going for the holiday stuff, so it was always just me. I finally threw up my hands and said, "Guys, I'm tired. I you don't care, then neither do it. No more holiday crap."
      They called my bluff. But I wasn't bluffing. Honestly, I had been tired of it for some time and felt quite liberated and relieved when I stopped. After three dead holiday seasons, they staged an intervention. They all admitted that they did love the holiday cheer and confessed that they missed it. They wanted their season back. I said, sure. But I'm NEVER doing this alone again.
      Thus began our holiday tradition of setting up the freaking cheer. THE FAMILY. Not 'mom.' Before, they could all shove off by saying, "This is all YOU. Nobody else cares about this crap but YOU. You're the one doing this to yourself."
      Well, that didn't last. I got a much needed break and then I got much needed help.

  • @jennasamuel8637
    @jennasamuel8637 9 місяців тому +33

    Nick was in a hilarious mood when he made this 😂 Love you Nick, and thanks as always for the tasteful and experienced advice!
    “They’re NOT COMING honey!!”
    “Then you realize that 32 people don’t even like YOU…”
    “I like to light some of my favorite candles-I’ll link them down below if you’re interested-…”

  • @gabriellesmith5661
    @gabriellesmith5661 11 місяців тому +3

    Seasonal is about kids in my mind… it is to teach kids about changing seasons and create holiday vibes for them. When you are kid free, no thanks 😂 except Christmas

  • @anitaholmes8201
    @anitaholmes8201 11 місяців тому +76

    An older family member (retired contractor) expressed concern to me after visiting the umpteenth home with towel / lap robe ladders. He was puzzled as to why everyone seemed to have seriously unsafe ladders in their home. Since the ladders were out, he figured they had just changed out a bulb or were fixing to do so as soon as we left, and that could be dangerous.

    • @jenkenj
      @jenkenj 11 місяців тому +2

      Hahaha my 70+ year old Dad is a general contractor and I could see him asking the same thing

    • @trishna_6815
      @trishna_6815 11 місяців тому +3

      love it! 😅

  • @KateWilliam75
    @KateWilliam75 11 місяців тому +66

    Could you do the imitation of the bar cart being rolled out and sqeaking into the room for us again?? I just LOVED that!! 🤣 I just love you and your channel too Nick!

  • @beverlyharrison7949
    @beverlyharrison7949 11 місяців тому +37

    Nick, your no nonsense style ideas are great. Your humor keeps me watching for next video. Recently down sized to a studio. Packed my favorite things first, threw in necessities & looked at what was left. Whew... I was amazed. Boxed most up for charity shops, gave some to friends/family. Month in & happily living in my tiny space. Each of our studios looks different, because we have what we NEED.

  • @crystallionaire
    @crystallionaire 9 місяців тому +11

    100% agree with the seasonal decor. I live in a tiny apartment so storage is a big issue. No way I could store alllll the decorations for every holiday so I chose to only decorate for one holiday that brings me the most happiness ❤ 🎄

  • @maryinthemaking7211
    @maryinthemaking7211 11 місяців тому +163

    Nick, this was the best! Cracking up over the bar carts.
    Thank you for validating my stance on Holiday decorating. In the past I have actually felt bad about not being an organized holiday decorator. Like my families happiness depends on well labeled totes of gaudy glam, unpacked and packed at just the right seasonal transition. Whew!! Over that! Thank you Nick.

    • @rdrydnghdwolfe1396
      @rdrydnghdwolfe1396 11 місяців тому +31

      The sound effects of wheeling in the bar cart!

    • @jpp7783
      @jpp7783 11 місяців тому +12

      @@rdrydnghdwolfe1396 YES! I am in a coffee shop and heard myself maniacally laughing out loud.

    • @lormor460
      @lormor460 11 місяців тому +3

      😂😂 That bar cart sound affects got me, too! I loved this video.
      Also, Nick, I like your new sofa and pillows! I liked your gray sofa but I loved 🥰 the gray and blue pillows you used to have. Hope you were able to keep them for another space!

    • @pjperdue1293
      @pjperdue1293 11 місяців тому +8

      And I love Nick's idea of switching out your scents like candles instead; it's so subtle. Ticky-tacky holiday decor is too in-your-face for me.

    • @Amira_Phoenix
      @Amira_Phoenix 11 місяців тому +2

      Seasonal decor: it's like living in the Sims game, sometimes the phone rings and announces that you should be more in touch with the season

  • @madeleine5313
    @madeleine5313 11 місяців тому +80

    This is so eerie! I’m currently in a gut/ reno project for my living room. My husband and I debated on having a customised media console built (like as you described) and I had this gnawing feeling in the back of my mind saying “but what are you going to put on the shelves? The sea shell you collected from the Caribbean? Random objects?”
    And I quickly realised that it was going to be unnecessary (for our lifestyle) and create a distraction whilst watching movies. So we’ve gone for a mild japandi feel instead. Everything is neatly stored behind a minimalist scandi tv bench. The main focus on the room is the sofa & lighting. So far it’s looking very polished but yet still inviting. Love your content as always! Love from Norway 🇳🇴

    • @lisajaws8514
      @lisajaws8514 11 місяців тому +9

      All of this! And then someone has to dust all the books/knick-knacks/picture frames/seashells/vases etc etc etc. Hide all of the things and showcase the really special stuff.

    • @diannt9583
      @diannt9583 11 місяців тому +3

      In my case.... books. But I've been buying books for the last fifty years, even if I downsized many of them when I moved here 5 years ago. But I decided against a built-in anyway.

  • @zellalaing5439
    @zellalaing5439 10 місяців тому +2

    Ive always hated the towel ladder trend, it just felt like something that was easy for diy youtubers to make a video out of, but if i had a towel on one, any time id want to take it off for like a shower etc, id end up knocking the ladder over, much prefer fixed or heavy duty elements in the home for things like this.
    Totally agree with the seasonal decor too. It feels so much like again, "DIY youtube mum" excuse for a video, but like, the space it must take to store is unattainable for most people and I don't understand the swapping out things, like add your tree and go for some festive candles and maybe a wintery throw as you're not using that in summer but swapping out cushion covers, mugs, plates, pots and pans that you use all year round is so pointless.

  • @jillpetro7430
    @jillpetro7430 9 місяців тому +11

    Nick - you are hysterical - if I'm ever in a bad mood all I have to do is listen to you - AND you've helped me learn so much about interior design! Wish you could help me in my master bedroom redesigning it!😍

  • @TheRealCarrieBrown
    @TheRealCarrieBrown 11 місяців тому +164

    I love how you give everyone permission to do what works for them / makes them happy, regardless of your personal opinions. Up until 5 years ago I did zero seasonal decorating. Not even Christmas.
    Then I moved from Seattle to Connecticut and after that first Thanksgiving I decided to brighten up the space for winter with some deep red accents. I had SO. MUCH. FUN. putting it all together and loved being in my new home even more. It stayed up for 3 months, and then I decided to replace it with spring colors. Brought me so much joy - the process, the mood, the change, the creativity. So 3 months later I went to summer, and then in late September did Fall. I do not do any holidays, but do change to the seasons accent colors every 3 months. Throws, pillows, florals, etc.
    I feel like I get a new house every 3 months, it feels fresh and exciting, it doesn't take much work now I have everything, and it means everything gets cleaned on the regular. I have the space to store it all and buy decent stuff that will last for years, so it's not spending more and more money every year. Here and there I'll buy a new piece and take an old piece to a consignment store so someone else can enjoy it.
    I host a Girls Day for my friends every month and they all love to see the seasons decor change. It's not practical for many people for many reasons, but it makes me so happy I'm not about to stop.

    • @fardja
      @fardja 10 місяців тому +11

      I'm the same way, I get a little tired of the look and palate of my space so I try to change pillow covers, flower arrangements, scents, and a few other things to keep it fresh. I love that you've found ways to make it sustainable too, I think it can get out of hand when people are swapping everything they own, like, nobody needs a christmas themed spatula and a different one for Halloween, etc.

    • @raqueltello8443
      @raqueltello8443 10 місяців тому +7

      I love doing this too! I keep it pretty minimal to swapping florals, blankets, throw pillows, and candle scents. But I agree that even these small changes make it feel like a new home ❤

    • @anonz975
      @anonz975 6 місяців тому +6

      IMO Christmas decor matters more in places with long harsh winters. It cheers folks up especially if it is dark/cold outside (which was the original point of Winter Solstice/Yule to begin with).

  • @janreed99
    @janreed99 11 місяців тому +10

    I. Didn't. Decorate. For. Christmas. Last. Year.
    Didn't miss any of it. Felt peaceful. I looked at other people's decorations and enjoyed the holiday remotely.

    • @mangos2888
      @mangos2888 11 місяців тому +1

      I've actually considered this once my kids finish high school. 2 more years 🎉

    • @653j521
      @653j521 11 місяців тому +5

      @@mangos2888 Yeah, it doesn't work well with kids. They love to decorate and they bring home masses of stuff from school. When they come back from college they will be upset if you got rid of their symbols of childhood. And then there might be grandchildren and the story begins again. You would have to be very strict in your Grinchness in the face of a child's sadness over your rejection of an ornament with a photo of the kid, to maintain the status of the grandparent who "doesn't like Christmas decorations."

    • @vacuumblink2300
      @vacuumblink2300 11 місяців тому

      🙄

    • @janreed99
      @janreed99 11 місяців тому

      @@vacuumblink2300 your emoji really hurts me down deep

    • @hazelem1266
      @hazelem1266 11 місяців тому

      Unless the Christmas tree is at our home, I don’t put up a tree. Too much effort to take it down. Plus I’m a lazy housewife. I’d rather cook.

  • @deannajunkin3696
    @deannajunkin3696 9 місяців тому +8

    This year I decided not to do the whole-house seasonal change-overs. I am simplifying everything in my life that is under my control. I have always been a "sweat the small stuff" type of person and this change has been so freeing. I am pretty sure no one in my family has missed the decor changes or has even noticed.

  • @kutanra
    @kutanra 11 місяців тому +13

    We had the opposite problem with seating people. Moved into a small house in a new city that was perfectly sized for the two of us and our dog. Had a two seater and an armchair and that was all the space.
    We are now almost always the hosts for gatherings of our new friend group and when we moved again we had to make sure we could regularly seat 8 people 😂
    Edit: Also I put my feet up almost constantly but I'm just gross and put my feet on the coffee table when we don't have guests over lol

  • @abbycole7485
    @abbycole7485 11 місяців тому +57

    OMG thank you: seasonal entire change out isn’t necessary! Hate all that seasonal crap.
    I love built ins! If I could have one, I would use it as…a bookshelf for all my books 🤯😂

    • @jackieknits61
      @jackieknits61 11 місяців тому +2

      I have bookshelves in every room in the house but the bathroom. For the books. I like it that way.

    • @KiraFriede
      @KiraFriede 11 місяців тому

      I like to change up my decoration and seasons are just a good way to do it.

  • @juliebrooke6099
    @juliebrooke6099 11 місяців тому +34

    I really enjoyed your comments about the 32 people coming to visit (or not). Here in England we don’t have much of a summer usually so the ‘garden’ chairs are primarily for extra visitors at Christmas. English comedian Peter Kay does a totally true to life story about seeing families walking the streets on Christmas Day carrying their ‘emergency chairs’ with them on their way round to family for dinner.

    • @annettelanham9897
      @annettelanham9897 7 місяців тому +3

      Re Peter Kay I know which bit you are talking about. Some guy with a ciggie in his mouth carrying two dining chairs down the street.

  • @TwistedSheep1009
    @TwistedSheep1009 11 місяців тому +1

    I am so happy I found you!!!! My grandma just downsized from her house to an apartment, and I have inherited soooo much furniture. You have been so wonderful in tips for decorating! Thank you for being you!

  • @josuebrisenorodriguez4463
    @josuebrisenorodriguez4463 9 місяців тому

    man i love how actually realistic you are and the way you just talk about everything keeps me coming back to watch keep it up!

  • @jesseostone386
    @jesseostone386 11 місяців тому +61

    It’s so refreshing to hear you say things like, “If you love it, go for it.” It’s one thing to point out the necessity of things, personal preference, and space accommodations, it’s another to push one’s own style preferences as gospel. Thank you for being you.

  • @hereforit2347
    @hereforit2347 11 місяців тому +39

    Nightstands are functional and sometimes necessary, especially for lighting. They also help incorporate the bed which is the biggest thing in the room by making it look less isolated. Unless you insist on symmetry you can always put something different on each side of the bed.

    • @meman6964
      @meman6964 11 місяців тому +14

      A place to hide CPAP machine, Rx bottles, lotion, eye mask, book to read B4 sleep.... Nightstand has WORK to do

    • @hereforit2347
      @hereforit2347 11 місяців тому +4

      @@meman6964: Precisely.

    • @pameladwyer2244
      @pameladwyer2244 10 місяців тому +1

      I agree! Especially to hold a decent reading lamp, with three lighting levels. Most wall lamps emit a pathetic amount of light, if you are a reader.

    • @TwoNineteenTrain
      @TwoNineteenTrain 10 місяців тому +2

      My solution to nightstands in a smallish bedroom was to create two bedside tables of identical style but different sizes using black walnut serving trays ordered from Amazon (and some minimalist furniture legs). The "guest" side of the bed nearest the far wall uses a tray 12" wide and 20" deep, which is enough to create a small walking corridor on that side, have a bedside lamp, and place for small personal items. On "my" side of the bed nearest the door and closest to closet, I have a 20" x 20" tray, which is big enough for a lamp, charging stand, a book or two, and a place for small items such as rings, watches, etc. Other than the size differences, the tray tables are identically designed, look very symmetrical and matched, and have a very light, open appearance.

    • @hereforit2347
      @hereforit2347 10 місяців тому

      @@TwoNineteenTrain: That sounds very nice!

  • @ashleytriana5984
    @ashleytriana5984 11 місяців тому +1

    I needed that validation on seasonal items. Apartment living and storing items for most of the year just doesn’t do it. Thank you for giving me your blessing to put out two small things and that’s it!

  • @lisabyrne2767
    @lisabyrne2767 11 місяців тому +6

    I definitely loved the last one about redecorating every inch of the house for the holidays. I have a few areas that I switch out in, but don’t go overboard and it makes me happy. Sometimes I feel like I’m not doing enough! Thanks for letting me know I’m doing just fine. Lol

  • @kdbw3
    @kdbw3 11 місяців тому +70

    This is my favorite video you have uploaded to date! For some reason, in this video you seemed very compassionate and empathetic toward the viewers. I love that you kept emphasizing that there was no need to worry about decorating homes to look like magazine pages! Best advice ever! Be yourself and be mindful!!

  • @ThatDonna
    @ThatDonna 11 місяців тому +23

    Your mental gymnastics around hosting a sudden 32 people was totally me...I have never hosted more than 4 additional couples, plus kids. I always splurge on a babysitter for the little kids, set-up a chill space for the older kids, and that's it. If I need to host a larger group, I'm going to a venue. So true, you don't need a cache of folding chairs!

  • @lmajor7843
    @lmajor7843 11 місяців тому +16

    This was excellent. I agree with you about all the items you mentioned. Especially about side tables, feeling obliged to have seating for when you have 32 people over (which, if it happens at all, is a rare occasion).
    In 2021, I took a hard look at how we really live and use the space. Four people live here, and I counted 9 desks and about 7 end tables, 3 dining tables, and 8 dresser/bureaus, and multiple storage bins, trunks and cube shelves. Absolutely ridiculous amount of furniture which we had collected over the years (beware estate sales). The house was like a warehouse, and I was struggling to fit all these pieces in the space we have (which is large, but not that large). To vacuum, dust, mop, took forever because I had to move things to reach other things I had to clean. I realized most of these pieces were empty or were just becoming a place to pile things. Not really being used for the purpose for which they were made. I massively purged and it made quite a difference. Lighter, more space, everything in proportion to the room size (and much easier to clean.)
    Thanks again for your channel, which I really enjoy.

  • @marjoriejudge5348
    @marjoriejudge5348 11 місяців тому +2

    whew ! Thank you so much for the comments about seasonal decor (honestly , few people have the storage space to archive all that off season )🥰

  • @42ayla
    @42ayla 11 місяців тому +41

    I love how you get us thinking about things we live with simply because we always have. I live in a small house and ironically things that aren't necessary for others keep me going while must haves for them are a definite no.
    For example having end tables as opposed to a coffee table. A coffee table is the perfect height for our dog to knock everything off with her tail, it's big enough for my husband to drop things on 'for now' and it's in the middle of the walking space. The end tables are off to the side and more individual so they can be tidied faster, the dog doesn't access them as easily and best of all if my husband wants to put his pants there 'for now' he'll be stuck holding his drink in his lap.
    And the one end table is actually an old ottoman we were going to toss. What can I say, I'm a rebel. LOL.

    • @653j521
      @653j521 11 місяців тому +10

      I would put coffee table on the list of don't have to buy, too. An end table where you don't have to scoot or lean forward is easier unless what you really want is a place for stacks of books as props for your other unnecessary dust catchers. I could see it in a setting where someone on a sofa can't reach an end table but then, only a small coffee table with nothing on it. If a person only uses short end tables next to a sofa, and doesn't consider trying it in front of an armrest or some such for accessibility, some sofas would be a problem for using end tables. You have to consider human anatomy and which direction an arm bends. 🙂

    • @SheilaEnglish2
      @SheilaEnglish2 11 місяців тому +12

      “Put his pants there for now” My sympathies to you 🫣🤣

    • @suejames735
      @suejames735 11 місяців тому +1

      Ikr about the husband and pants!! 😂 Mine also puts shorts,socks,slippers in our LR. Smh. I'm NEVER gonna let him put his boxers in here!! 😅

  • @Elizabeth_Hardy
    @Elizabeth_Hardy 11 місяців тому +10

    “If you want to display your alcoholism”😂😂😂. You’re in a roll today!!

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl 11 місяців тому

      That was a bit rude as not everyone that drinks is an alcoholic but whatever

    • @ssgg23
      @ssgg23 11 місяців тому

      @@vaderladyl it was a joke, relax 😂

  • @nancyandrews2460
    @nancyandrews2460 8 місяців тому +2

    I live in Maryland with all the seasons and you reminded me I need to appreciate my beautiful deck to sit on with my husband and not worry about what everyone else is doing! Fall I love but it comes quick with winter on its heels; we planted wild flower seeds, still blooming each week fun watching. Thanks much Nick glad I discovered you. Little lady in Baltimore County, MD

  • @lauriesauth5186
    @lauriesauth5186 11 місяців тому +2

    This was one of the most entertaining and hilarious AND HONEST videos I have EVER seen. I am on the minimal side so I don’t watch “stuff and decor” videos but this one came up on my roll scroll so I will definitely watch his videos for their wonderful content ❣️

  • @janegardener1662
    @janegardener1662 11 місяців тому +16

    I use an ottoman so the dog can jump up on the bed, which I think looks better than a set of dog stairs. It's also works great for storing extra blankets.

    • @cynthiajohnston424
      @cynthiajohnston424 11 місяців тому +5

      I gave up on a coffee table decades ago 'cause the Labs either slept under it & raised up suddenly , lifting the table , or went from the sofa to the floor using the coffee table as a " launching pad " . Not easy being a pet parent , but mostly funny ! 🐾🐾💙

    • @yourconnection9303
      @yourconnection9303 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@cynthiajohnston424 My friend's St. Bernard dived under their coffee table every time it thundered. And the dog always heard it before they did. Of course each and every time everything then went flying off the top of the table!!

    • @cynthiajohnston424
      @cynthiajohnston424 11 місяців тому +4

      @@yourconnection9303 Yep - I get it ! Also , no ornaments on the bottom half of the Christmas tree - dog parents understand this ! 😂

    • @yourconnection9303
      @yourconnection9303 11 місяців тому +3

      @@cynthiajohnston424 Yes! A big dog wagging their tail as they pass by the tree will also knock the ornaments off, and with their big tail wagging, drinks, etc., can get swiped off a low table. But we still wouldn't trade these pooches for the world!🐾😊

    • @dianekelly6764
      @dianekelly6764 11 місяців тому +4

      In our family's homes with dogs, we use fabric ornaments within tail reach. One dog thought that the Monterey stuffed otter ornament was his toy!

  • @fidelogos7098
    @fidelogos7098 11 місяців тому +25

    As an empty-nester, I went from a huge house to a small townhome and while I occasionally miss my blue damask side chairs and the 1930s Chippendale Highboy, I find I have much more time for not-housekeeping. I would describe my current décor as spartan. It's simple, functional and easy to keep clean. And I find a lot of peace in that. I wish I had discovered earlier that things own you, you don't own them.

  • @merralindagoddard9530
    @merralindagoddard9530 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for mentioning seasonal decor! That’s what I think but I needed that validation. ❤

  • @klaudi-hk4fb
    @klaudi-hk4fb 6 місяців тому +1

    This was so fun to watch! It’s so important to furnish/ decorate for the person you are vs the person you think you should be. I don’t have a coffee table but have 2 small side tables because I like to sip my coffee while I’m lounging and don’t want to bend to reach my cup from a coffee table. Also stool seats make great little nightstands!

  • @mangos2888
    @mangos2888 11 місяців тому +48

    The bar cart is something I consider seasonal. My bff has a huge house and hosts nearly every 2 weeks andshe uses the bar cart. Outside in the summer to reduce opening/closing the ac. When all our kids were little, the bar cart was in the kids basement area in the winter with snacks and waters while the adults were upstairs. But she's the only person I've known who justified a bar cart in my world. 😂 I love your attack on them 😂😂

  • @jillcnc
    @jillcnc 11 місяців тому +53

    I'd love to see a whole video devoted to the "Seasonal Industrial Complex," LOL!! I have a relative who does this and I've always wished I could be like her. Thanks for giving me the imprimatur to NOT HAVE TO.

    • @yourfavoritefrog
      @yourfavoritefrog 9 місяців тому +2

      I'm the one who will change everything , including the pillows and kitchen towels ! I just love it ! It's the child in me , I guess !

  • @lainsimple5285
    @lainsimple5285 9 місяців тому +5

    “Seasonal industrial complex” 😂 years ago I used to do the whole home switchover for each season. Now I have a very minimalist collection of some store bought and handmade decorations. I layer them over my existing decor and it works out perfectly!

  • @ary9354
    @ary9354 2 місяці тому

    Thank you sooo much i needed to hear this, im repainting my home after my mother passed away a few months ago and im trying to add my touch but my mother was one to have ALOT going on from bright mix match paint colors to decorations for every season. I love how you said do what serves you and your family! Absolutely love this!

  • @kathykoehler8753
    @kathykoehler8753 11 місяців тому +25

    I love what you said about the ottomans and foot stools. I feel the same way. I really hate that people think they need a couch, loveseat and two chairs minimum because they are sold in stores as a set, (with at least 3 tables, too). The older I get the more I think my home needs to only reflect the way we live, not how other people think we should live.

  • @sophieboudreau5733
    @sophieboudreau5733 11 місяців тому +33

    Nick, you crack me up! 😂 Also, agree with your points - especially the "let's overhaul the entire house" seasonal thing. No time (or budget) for all that!

  • @bridgettecarey7744
    @bridgettecarey7744 9 місяців тому

    I needed this video. I was totally sucked into needing 1000 end tables and ottoman seating 'just in case' !
    The seasonal scents is also a brilliant idea 💡

  • @tdr4249
    @tdr4249 11 місяців тому +2

    Really agree with most of what you said but I do have one footstool....only because I have circulation issues and it helps to keep feet from swelling. Regarding entertainment centre's - mine was actually separate pieces and they now have separate jobs, one piece became a pantry, one for travel knickknacks, one for the tv and one is gone - actually made the space feel lighter. Thank you for making me rethink the seasonal changes. 😊

  • @schw0373
    @schw0373 11 місяців тому +31

    I've fallen into the trap of wanting a lot of these items for the same "aspirational" reasons you've mentioned. I want my home to reflect a lifestyle I'll know I'll never have. Especially the bar cart--I have one with several bottles of booze, and it looks nice...but I don't even drink anymore.

    • @dawnreneegmail
      @dawnreneegmail 11 місяців тому

      Recently enjoyed a UA-cam on our consumerism and consumption... my comment there remarks getting GNP emphasized in social studies in middle school! Recognizing how we use stuff is the focus of the doc, like to keep preoccupied or satisfy the hunter gatherer in us ( personally, I cannot do any auctions as I WILL WIN that penny pencil for $100🤦🏼‍♀️‼️) or any other human frailty slash character defect we might land on. It's the unpleasant aftermath of such excesses we want to walk away from. The sooner that term in throw away does not exist we'll be on a reality based playing field. Good on you slogging down the learn as we go trail✌🏼

  • @TellaQ
    @TellaQ 11 місяців тому +34

    I thought the towel ladder would be an excellent way to have guest towels, but I decided it was just clutter in the bathroom. I decided to store my favorite go-to blankets in the living room. Easy to grab when I feel like chilling on the couch. Turn out to be a much better use for me.🥰

    • @Fluffycara
      @Fluffycara 10 місяців тому +6

      I was just about to comment how I thought the towel ladders were for blankets lol. I have one in my living room. For me I felt it was useful and functional because we lived somewhere without a lot of storage. We have a free roam rabbit who loves to chew blankets. I got a handmade crocheted blanket that I love but didn't use because of my rabbit. So I use the ladder to store and display blankets, and it also keeps them away from my rabbit.

    • @KeenKoala115
      @KeenKoala115 10 місяців тому +3

      This is the most genius use for that. A collection of blanket for different warmth levels or textures for different purposes to share or not to share a blanket.

    • @markrice4808
      @markrice4808 7 місяців тому

      Everyone has been trained in childhood to automatically look for the "real towels" hidden in a cabinet--not the velour ones that won't absorb water and feel slimy! You instinctively look for the hidden stash of almost ragged examples in even the most elegant home you may visit

    • @devindanidevage3475
      @devindanidevage3475 2 місяці тому +1

      I thought the towel ladder is used to dry towels which are not that dirty to go in the washing machine

    • @wallybistrich3474
      @wallybistrich3474 7 днів тому +1

      ​@devindanidevage3475 I was astonished, too. It is not ecological to use a towel only once and even then, wet textiles which don't go directly into the washing machine should dry to avoid mold.

  • @thebarky1988
    @thebarky1988 11 місяців тому +2

    I love seasonal decor but minimized it due to storage. I find having table runners, candles and a few seasonal pieces makes it doable and not overwhelming.

  • @richelleeasley6492
    @richelleeasley6492 11 місяців тому

    My toxic trait is needing someone to tell me this. You mentioning to ask myself if it really serves me is life changing. Thank you

  • @betsylatham5023
    @betsylatham5023 11 місяців тому +36

    Love this video! So much of what we see online isn’t practical for many people and just makes us feel badly that we aren’t measuring up to the “ideal”. Refreshing to hear “if you like it -great, but if you don’t have it/need it, you can skip it”.

  • @victorialove9104
    @victorialove9104 11 місяців тому +31

    I do switch out some of my decor by season not holiday. I'm old and I've collected lots of stuff from my 5 years of traveling the world as a youth. Mostly art and artifacts of different cultures. I've continued to collect art and both my husband and myself are artists so there's that. If I didn't rotate my collection every three months we would never see some of our beautiful things. I learned this seasonal rotation practice from the Japanese.
    I totally agree with all you pointed out including changing your entire decor for every holiday.
    I have to laugh at myself because I was thinking of getting a bar cart. Thankfully you have convinced me that I don't need it. 😁❤

  • @gracielalopez2621
    @gracielalopez2621 6 місяців тому

    I love how practical and accurate your tips are like you said most of the thinga you dont really need them

  • @melissamoeller9608
    @melissamoeller9608 7 місяців тому +4

    🎉I love this! Down with pretentiousness and massive retail greed. Be real and honest about what is practical and truly serves your lifestyle.
    This is my first time watching one of your videos. Your humor and candor are gold! I really enjoyed this content, especially as I’ve recently moved into a much smaller place with almost no storage.

  • @soulaudacity555
    @soulaudacity555 11 місяців тому +40

    I totally agree with not changing out your entire home based on the seasons. I love my coastal themes and color palette in my home and I don’t want to change it, but I feel
    peer pressured when I walk into home goods😆. Thanks for the confirmation that I don’t need to change it!👌🏽

    • @suejames735
      @suejames735 11 місяців тому +2

      I love "At Home", which is a home decor super store. Think:Pier One mixed with Target. We only have one here in Minnesota. Thankfully we live about 35-45 minutes away. 😊

  • @nailguncrouch1017
    @nailguncrouch1017 11 місяців тому +13

    I love seasonal decorations, I like it in stores, in public spaces, and in other people's homes. And in a very small amount in my own home.

  • @t.ashleid.9742
    @t.ashleid.9742 6 місяців тому

    This is the best home improvement video I have ever seen. Common sense. Practical. Mindfulness on mindless consumerism. Seriously fantastic.

  • @donnadebrodt1778
    @donnadebrodt1778 11 місяців тому +11

    So far 2023 has been an Annus Horribilis in my life, but Nick’s videos make me laugh at times when I wouldn’t have believed anything could. Thank you, Nick!

  • @EyeLean5280
    @EyeLean5280 11 місяців тому +40

    This is a fantastic video! Good decor and furnishings are a joy but unnecessary consumerism is bad for your wallet and the environment, plus it doesn't add any extra happiness to an already nice home. ALSO, I laughed out loud when you joked about folks displaying their alcoholism. That was my dad all over! SO proud of his home bar! Well, I was telling my playmates on the playground at recess that my parents would divorce before they knew it themselves. Moral... we make ourselves far more transparent to others than we realize.

    • @lesliehahn51
      @lesliehahn51 11 місяців тому +1

      :) HIlarious - I concur!

  • @oseasviewer7108
    @oseasviewer7108 11 місяців тому +1

    Such a funny man and oh so camp - a refreshing and light hearted perspective on stuff - laughed out loud (there it is in long form), this was commentary on consumerism on speed. I look forward to more of his content. Everyone else is so dreary and serious about interior decorating.

  • @pineapplecheeselific
    @pineapplecheeselific 11 місяців тому +1

    I really like the idea of changing the scents to match the seasons, that's a great solution that works in my small apartment

  • @dustycrowb0nes
    @dustycrowb0nes 11 місяців тому +15

    Thank you for this video. It is important to bring attention to fast fashion tendencies creeping into interior design by offering bad solutions for temporary problems that are often not even problems.

  • @erintannehill
    @erintannehill 11 місяців тому +46

    Your videos have been hitting home for me lately more than normal. I'm in the process of furnishing my home from almost scratch. End tables, coffee tables, and ottomans are ones that I have chosen not to do in a "traditional" sense. I only have two small end tables where I feel they are most needed, no coffee tables, and no ottomans. I have a lot of space in my living room that I don't want to fill. I like the space more. Also, towel/blanket ladders make no sense to me. They are definitely more decor versus necessity [at least in my opinion].

    • @aina3387
      @aina3387 11 місяців тому +1

      Same! I had a coffee table but my pets like to wrestle in my living room and it got in the way. I got rid of it for a while, but now have a small ottoman/chest to put my blankets and electronics when I'm not using them, and it is a happy medium for me.

    • @utahdan231
      @utahdan231 11 місяців тому +2

      Towel ladder is very European. They have tiny spaces and mostly one bathroom , so it’s a necessity.

    • @erintannehill
      @erintannehill 11 місяців тому

      @@utahdan231 I appreciate the insight. I didn't realize it was a European thing. I lived in a very small space for years and never had a need for it. However, just because I don't see it as a need doesn't mean that others don't. I wasn't trying to take away from that with my comment. Just giving my perspective. :)

  • @genevievemurray7743
    @genevievemurray7743 11 місяців тому +2

    Some homes are so big they need to be filled for mental comfort. My home is small so we have 2 high density seat size foam cube ottomans for individual seating, footstools or bedside tables in the guest bedroom. I can also stack one on top of the other with a tray on top to hold securely a tray with flower vase and candles if the mood takes. They stack no higher than a kitchen bench. I love these useful items.

  • @irenejimenez8570
    @irenejimenez8570 11 місяців тому +1

    Love this tips . Pls do more of this . The hype of consumerism is out of control . We need more of these videos nick

  • @betsywilliamsonyoga
    @betsywilliamsonyoga 11 місяців тому +11

    Agreed about the seasonal decor. I never had stuff for anything but Christmas. I know people are going to come for me here but in 2021 I got rid of all of my Christmas decor. I don’t even own a tree anymore. Now I have less to store and don’t have to unpack and pack the stuff back up. I am single and don’t have kids so holidays are never hosted at my house. So I figured I didn’t need the stuff.

    • @cariwaldick4898
      @cariwaldick4898 11 місяців тому +1

      No one's coming for you. I agree about all the decorative stuff. It's nice to decorate when you've got kids, and lots of friends/family coming around. But it's a hassle as you get older, and have to climb into the attic/closet/basement, and drag that stuff out. Right now, my adult daughter does the decorating. I confess, I've still got boxes of decorations in my living room, since my closet shelves are collapsing under the weight of my husband's t-shirt collection. Maybe I should just get rid of it instead.

    • @bernitajenkins3180
      @bernitajenkins3180 11 місяців тому

      All my life, I've had a real tree...last Xmas I bought an LED Grinch tree. 😁

    • @LindaVernon
      @LindaVernon 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@cariwaldick4898"Maybe I should just get rid of it instead" -- is IT the decorations, the T-shirt collection or the husband? 😃😉

    • @cariwaldick4898
      @cariwaldick4898 11 місяців тому +2

      @@LindaVernon Haha! Thanks for the laugh! Maybe all three? T-shirt collection definitely stays with the husband. Decorations probably wouldn't be missed.