Ive been listening to other coaches out there and im so happy i didnt fall for that no contact rule no matter what. Ive been in contact with my ex time to time about surface staff , cos my intuition was telling me other wise. Now here we are after the first proper meet up. Thank you for being real ! Im not listening to anyone else from now on. I want to focus on how to make it all right and understand him on a deep emotional level
It’s wild , my ex and I put our kids down to sleep …. She finished a book , I asked what it was about did she enjoy it and We sat down for 30/40 mins while she excitedly explained her 2 favorite books…. Point is we connected for the first time in a long time and it felt great … hang in there folks
I was real horrible when me and my ex split up, he had moved on before breaking up with me, we was together 6 years and to be honist I was so shocked when I see him with the new woman…. I was absolutely awful to him just wanted him to hurt like he hurt me… but after 2 years we started to say hi when ever we saw each other that’s not often though… is that a sign of peace now clay…. Thank you..
How to reconnect with her when her emotions and the things she shows to me is unpredictable? More like a roller coaster of emotions and gestures being shown?
I'm present & am truly trying to understand where he is. Looking at things from his perspective. He's in a rebound & very difficult to try to reconnect. As he is in test drive. I continue to watch videos, redo esp over & over. Plus I continue to work on myself. Is there anything you think I'm missing or should try clay??
5 years ldr relationship,just broke up a month ago,and having on and off communication since the break up,his reason is about fear of flying.He's afraid to fly to see me.He had panic disorder.
What if we’ve had to take space away from each other? What would be the best approach to contact her to ask her to meet up in the first place? And should I be worried if there’s another guy in the picture that she’s got close with and spent more time with?
@@louisehosie1 I mean… we were in a long distance relationship too and since we are single, I have no control over that. They are not officially dating or anything, but they’re not just friends either so it’s in a very awkward stage I guess…
¿does wanting the return of the ex isnt sick? Why do you want that? Maybe the dumpeers should be the ones that needed to comeback. If the ex cheated you donn wait for them, move one
Very uncertain with my situation. My ex is hot and cold. She doesnt text me but only If I initiate the text she replies. She did tell me a week ago to that she will text me back. its been almost 2 weeks. Is it worth saving this relationship?
@@bellz8386I didnt tell you the beginning of the story. im starting to worry its been a pattern like I done the no contact rule back in March. We hung out a few times after the breakup the last time we saw each other was 6 months ago. She had a rebound during the last time we talked. 2 months had passed, she broken up with the rebound. Its now August talking here and there but like I said earlier she doesnt initiate.She works alot Do I give up on trying?
Your channel is so underrated 🥲 like coaches like breakup brad and others are just talks and no walk.. i got my ex back and now am focusing on building that emotional connection, i was struggling for 3 months but now after 4 month she is finally texting back and opening up… communication is really important and no other coaches cover that part the way you do… thank you for everything sir ❤
Although something really unpredictable happened my ex was in stage 5 the wall pf reactance and she jumped and directly came in the crisis stage, she is really understanding her mistakes on her own, and is trying to put in efforts too.. she isnt pushing for a rs either.. we both have the same goal rn and thats building a connection
Ive been listening to other coaches out there and im so happy i didnt fall for that no contact rule no matter what. Ive been in contact with my ex time to time about surface staff , cos my intuition was telling me other wise. Now here we are after the first proper meet up. Thank you for being real ! Im not listening to anyone else from now on. I want to focus on how to make it all right and understand him on a deep emotional level
It’s wild , my ex and I put our kids down to sleep …. She finished a book , I asked what it was about did she enjoy it and We sat down for 30/40 mins while she excitedly explained her 2 favorite books…. Point is we connected for the first time in a long time and it felt great … hang in there folks
U seem to be right on que ... things moving on really good with my ex and myself...thanks
I was real horrible when me and my ex split up, he had moved on before breaking up with me, we was together 6 years and to be honist I was so shocked when I see him with the new woman…. I was absolutely awful to him just wanted him to hurt like he hurt me… but after 2 years we started to say hi when ever we saw each other that’s not often though… is that a sign of peace now clay…. Thank you..
How to reconnect with her when her emotions and the things she shows to me is unpredictable? More like a roller coaster of emotions and gestures being shown?
Hi Clay,
Can we please do a topic on what exes think or what the dumpees progress is 7 months after the break up?
Thank you for the clear cut explanations
I'm present & am truly trying to understand where he is. Looking at things from his perspective. He's in a rebound & very difficult to try to reconnect. As he is in test drive. I continue to watch videos, redo esp over & over. Plus I continue to work on myself. Is there anything you think I'm missing or should try clay??
If he is sleeping w someone else
Walk away
5 years ldr relationship,just broke up a month ago,and having on and off communication since the break up,his reason is about fear of flying.He's afraid to fly to see me.He had panic disorder.
5 years!?!?!? 🤣
What if we’ve had to take space away from each other? What would be the best approach to contact her to ask her to meet up in the first place? And should I be worried if there’s another guy in the picture that she’s got close with and spent more time with?
If any woman loves you she would never spend time or get close to another man,never,time to let go 🚶♀️ 💯
@@louisehosie1 I mean… we were in a long distance relationship too and since we are single, I have no control over that. They are not officially dating or anything, but they’re not just friends either so it’s in a very awkward stage I guess…
@@XxREALMADRID2xX im in the same situation
@@louisehosie1 if a woman loves you then you guys would not have broken up in the first place lol
@@josephlee8839 why you tagging me?
¿does wanting the return of the ex isnt sick? Why do you want that? Maybe the dumpeers should be the ones that needed to comeback. If the ex cheated you donn wait for them, move one
Very uncertain with my situation. My ex is hot and cold. She doesnt text me but only If I initiate the text she replies. She did tell me a week ago to that she will text me back. its been almost 2 weeks. Is it worth saving this relationship?
So no contact on her .. leave her alone and let her miss you
@@bellz8386I didnt tell you the beginning of the story. im starting to worry its been a pattern like I done the no contact rule back in March. We hung out a few times after the breakup the last time we saw each other was 6 months ago. She had a rebound during the last time we talked. 2 months had passed, she broken up with the rebound. Its now August talking here and there but like I said earlier she doesnt initiate.She works alot Do I give up on trying?
@@joshbruner9779 how old your ex? And how long you have been together?
After one year I chat may ex and he still angry..
It sounds like your initial contact brought out some emotions on his side. We understand that it may take some time to gain his comfort level back.
Your channel is so underrated 🥲 like coaches like breakup brad and others are just talks and no walk.. i got my ex back and now am focusing on building that emotional connection, i was struggling for 3 months but now after 4 month she is finally texting back and opening up… communication is really important and no other coaches cover that part the way you do… thank you for everything sir ❤
Although something really unpredictable happened my ex was in stage 5 the wall pf reactance and she jumped and directly came in the crisis stage, she is really understanding her mistakes on her own, and is trying to put in efforts too.. she isnt pushing for a rs either.. we both have the same goal rn and thats building a connection