Overcoming a Spinal Cord Injury: Claire's Story

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  • Опубліковано 30 чер 2017
  • A spinal injury at 17 didn't stop Claire Freeman achieving her dreams of completing a design degree, Masters and now PhD in the powerchair. Despite ticking things off her bucket-list, she was severely depressed. In a bizarre twist of fate, it was a mishap in a routine operation, which forced her to pause and address her issues… nearly two-decades after her car accident.
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  • @tadpole53
    @tadpole53 6 років тому +1394

    I love how she goes around in her wheelchair with her high heels on and her legs crossed. Lady like and bad ass.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +20

      Thanks for watching Plastique, hope you enjoyed👍

    • @SH-to8sh
      @SH-to8sh 6 років тому +3

      Haha

    • @ilovesatan5951
      @ilovesatan5951 6 років тому +4

      Plastique -she looks pretty cool

    • @mimicoolwhip5991
      @mimicoolwhip5991 6 років тому +9

      Plastique Thats a BOSS GIRL front & center! #shesdaboss #achairdontstopher #neverevergiveup #sheinspires

    • @carolesitze7055
      @carolesitze7055 6 років тому +3

      Caring for tetraplegic

  • @isfj1009
    @isfj1009 6 років тому +467

    "I want to design wheelchairs where you see the person first.......not the chair." Powerful statement. Wonderful direction. Definite inspiration. :)

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +5

      Thanks for the comment isfj1009

    • @cynthg9547
      @cynthg9547 5 років тому +3

      Im in a wheelchair i like to decorate it make it nice cause its a part of my life /got in a car wreak 2011 broke my back

    • @one567
      @one567 5 років тому +2

      Its been a year since you posted this, im curious if is something you have looked into? what a great goal if you have.

    • @MrDomestosWC
      @MrDomestosWC 4 роки тому +1

      It actually made me thinking, the wheelchair design hasn't been changed much for decades.

    • @meiraloraduncan8953
      @meiraloraduncan8953 4 роки тому

      Keeper They were quoting something that Claire said towards the end of the video. It wasn’t necessarily something that the person who commented was planning to do.

  • @sperformance.96
    @sperformance.96 5 років тому +366

    37?? How? She looks like 24

    • @Jake5537t
      @Jake5537t 5 років тому +18

      Steven CC
      I thought she was 18 - 20 or something 👀

    • @keelandavis9681
      @keelandavis9681 4 роки тому +2

      I know man I was like what??

    • @xaomixaomi8420
      @xaomixaomi8420 4 роки тому +1

      U need to check ur eyes. ....ASAP

    • @jamesdoe9531
      @jamesdoe9531 4 роки тому +1

      tons of makeup. Arround 18:05 you see the truth.

    • @FubarMike
      @FubarMike 3 роки тому +1

      @@jamesdoe9531 still not bad she looks 30s though without makeup

  • @Gamerz-oc6te
    @Gamerz-oc6te 2 роки тому +22

    I am 16 , 6 months back I had a paralysis attack ( quadriplegia) both hands and legs. Later doctors came to know by MRI that I was having incomplete spinal cord injury because infection in my spine. I was not able to move at all. I thought everything is finished but with the help of physiotherapy and having a supportive physiotherapist for 6 months now I can walk with the help of stick and I am trying to walk without any support and indepently.
    Don't lose your hope and confidence people will judge you anyways but you should stand strong for yourself.

    • @Preeti-lw9jc
      @Preeti-lw9jc 2 місяці тому

      How are you now hope you're doing well ❤️‍🩹

  • @RAMONA3118
    @RAMONA3118 Рік тому +6

    As a fresh neurologist, I promise to do my best to help to make new steps toward curing.

  • @claydrummond9571
    @claydrummond9571 6 років тому +472

    I'm 39 male living in New Zealand, 5 years ago found a tumour on my s1l5, pain 24/7 and slowly losing feeling in my legs, no family but a few good friends. This movie helped. Thank x

  • @lisadouglas3583
    @lisadouglas3583 6 років тому +187

    Claire is a fine example of what true beauty really means!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +3

      Thank you for watching Lisa!

    • @erickalejandropullastaboad9718
      @erickalejandropullastaboad9718 4 роки тому +1

      What is the meaning?

    • @lwwelding8466
      @lwwelding8466 Рік тому +2

      @@erickalejandropullastaboad9718 Your that thick you need to ask

    • @susannehall7234
      @susannehall7234 7 днів тому

      It comes from within. You can't define beauty. She is an inspiration to many people and gives them hope with her inner radiance which shines bright. She is alive and loves living. Despite her limitations she doesnt allow her disability to totally rule her life. She has come back from the brink and now realises that she can still serve a purpose improving others lives as well as her own.

  • @jvertrees1988
    @jvertrees1988 6 років тому +155

    I feel bad for the guilt her mom must live with. Such a tragic and awful mistake with a life changing outcome for her daughter. I think it’s beautiful that they have a good relationship despite the past. How devastating..

    • @sriramappa.mmuniyappa822
      @sriramappa.mmuniyappa822 5 років тому +10

      Truly speaking no body wishes or foresees an accident. A mom is always a mom and she always thinks only some thing good to her children. So there is no point in blaming the mom.

    • @edwigcarol4888
      @edwigcarol4888 3 роки тому +3

      very very sadly the perfect storm: the Mother sleep-deprived has a "microsleep-event" during driving and the daughter has no belt..
      Probably has been the first surgeon sadly also deeply sleep-deprived when operating the first time...

  • @drumtravelfun
    @drumtravelfun 6 років тому +292

    My heart goes out to the Mom. She still obviously carries the weight of the accident. I hope someday she can let go, realize it was an accident, nothing more (easier said then done, I understand). Love to her.

    • @Pebble_Collector
      @Pebble_Collector 5 років тому +33

      Well I mean it could have been prevented if she didn't fall asleep at the wheel and made her daughter wear a seatbelt.

    • @alejc5192
      @alejc5192 4 роки тому +5

      It is and will be very difficult, many times we ask ourselves "what would have happened if... "
      I think her mom will hardly be able to let go of the guilt she has, because even though Claire has advanced and has a pretty good life, any mother would like to see her daughter standing without the help of others.

    • @enoidsk7169
      @enoidsk7169 3 роки тому +9

      I really feel for the mum. Wish her lots of love.

    • @kgspvgsp7569
      @kgspvgsp7569 2 роки тому +1

      @@Pebble_Collector its part of her life now just as paralysis is part of her daughtets life

    • @rainwhenidie6666
      @rainwhenidie6666 Рік тому +5

      I feel I may be uniquely qualified to relate heavily to the mother. There is absolutely no way to predict the future and crazy things happen. She can't blame herself. Easier said than done. 33 years ago my father owned his own auto shop and salvage yard. He used a trojan loader's bucket to lift the back of a car off the ground so he could cut the rear axle out in preparation to be put in a crusher and crushed. One morning he had me with him like normal and I was riding along with him and he had me stay up in the seat because he didnt want me running around with the car not being safe for a toddler to run around and I remember some things but I guess I started to play like I was impersonating my father as a heavy equipment operator and the hydraulic lever could only be operated one way while the engines are off and as you could guess I played with the wrong lever and dropped the bucket as my father was under the car. My father says he remembers the bucket coming down and jumped under it to try and protect himself and 2000 plus pounds of solid steel layed on him and he heard a loud pop and was instantly paralyzed. I for some reason remember getting out and running to the house yelling my daddy is dead over and over and my mother running down and called emergency services. Although I was far too young to be left in such a dangerous piece of equipment alone Ive always had moments of feeling responsible. Cant help but think my childhood was different from other kids watching kids running around with their father and not doing some things because of a stupid pull of a lever I did as a 2 yr old. I hope she doesnt beat herself up just because something can be prevented doesnt mean we as humans always notice and things happen. We are human after all.

  • @jasminreynolds9181
    @jasminreynolds9181 6 років тому +89

    Claire, you are in inspiration. I am also in a wheelchair since my 20s, am now 52. I know there are bad days but you have lifted mine. Love always, Jasmin.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +3

      Thanks for watching Jasmin, glad to hear you enjoyed watching Claire's story 😊

    • @jayangli
      @jayangli 11 місяців тому

      Jasmin may I ask how it happen?

  • @danpastirik3682
    @danpastirik3682 6 років тому +15

    I am a paraplegic T9. I have been paralyzed for almost 2 years and totally understand how it took you years between denial and acceptance. I have acquired new skills over the past two years, but have been non-committal on learning as if things are going to automatically improve. I am head back to he rehabiliation unit now to learning independancy skills. Your story is very inspiring, thank you for publishing!

    • @TheINFJChannel
      @TheINFJChannel Рік тому

      Hi Dan! I'm 4 years late but was compelled to comment. I genuinely hope you're well, warm, safe, happy. Thinking of you and your recovery. *YOU GOT THIS* 💗🤜🤛

  • @genevieveflowers1246
    @genevieveflowers1246 5 років тому +30

    I was 19 years old when I had my car accident 1 1/2 years ago. I was also sleeping in the back seat without my belt, our car flipped 5 times and my foot was almost ripped off from my leg. They were able to save it but I'm considering an elective amputation because of severe pain and very limited mobility in my foot. No matter what life throws your way you can always make the best of it! 💘 Embrace your body however you are, everything happens for a reason! When there's a will, there's a way

  • @xenazenx2241
    @xenazenx2241 6 років тому +302

    That man is an awesome friend . I love this video.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +8

      Thanks for watching xena, hope you enjoyed👍

    • @justhavefun2640
      @justhavefun2640 6 років тому +69

      he achieved an unachievable level of friendzone

    • @justhavefun2640
      @justhavefun2640 6 років тому

      dan bravo. oh , i didn't think of that possibility

    • @paulharrison7948
      @paulharrison7948 5 років тому +12

      Poor bastard got friendzoned bigtime !!

    • @meirsolomon5626
      @meirsolomon5626 5 років тому +8

      How do you know he's "just" a friend? ;-)

  • @maddieebobaddiee
    @maddieebobaddiee 3 роки тому +94

    oh I thought the support worker was her boyfriend 😂 they look so adorable together

  • @jessiecastille8185
    @jessiecastille8185 6 років тому +38

    I also became disabled after falling out of my moms truck, and ended up under the right front tire.I was very young. I don't remember any of that day. I am wheelchair bound. But live life as it comes. You are so beautiful! I am happy you have a good friend to help you. That is Awesome, Thumbs up to you dude.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +3

      Thanks for watching Jessie Castille 😊

  • @botibomaus
    @botibomaus 6 років тому +61

    Every once in a while I watch videos like this just to remind myself that even though life isnt always easy...there are people out there who were dealt an even tougher hand in life. Claire is a very inspirational and strong woman, thanks for sharing your story!

    • @kgspvgsp7569
      @kgspvgsp7569 2 роки тому +8

      I dont think u should be saying this, these are real people and not a tool for u

  • @jerryel2
    @jerryel2 6 років тому +34

    Hi, I'm 74 years old and have been a para for 48 years. You "youngsters" I see on the Net are still inspirational as I think some of the reasons life is different for wheelchair users now is because myself and many others paved the way...In the US anyway. Raised two daughters from infancy as a single parent which gave me the early drive to keep going. I think the hardest part was learning how to live with myself because unless I could do that I couldn't live with others. It certainly wasn't easy and even after 48 years I still have to bite my tongue sometimes and say to myself it just isn't worth it..."Move on". So it's been a series of "moving ons" but with aging it's a very slow move now. Still independent and my daughters grew up to be caring successful people with their own families, and life goes on, albeit slowly now. The world is all yours now, make it even better.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +3

      Thanks for that beautiful message Jerry. We hope you enjoyed the documentary and are living a happy & healthy life!

    • @renukathonas8416
      @renukathonas8416 2 роки тому

      Can you record a prson who walked after c 5 injury in three weeks?? Me

  • @leanderrowe2800
    @leanderrowe2800 Рік тому +7

    As a mother myself, I fully understand her guilt feeling but accidents do happen. As a working single mother myself, I was tired all the time and I did AMOST fall asleep many times on the wheel with children in the car. So I learned to pull aside and close my eyes for a while and that helped. Please people, stop and pull aside when you feel you need to rest your eyes.

  • @jessecarson3021
    @jessecarson3021 6 років тому +122

    I'm a 36 year old male. had a spinal tumour..surgery caused me to be paralyzed..i go months without showering,don't leave house,I'm in so much deep depression..its been 4 years and still havnt excepted it..wish to JESUS CHRIST I was as strong as these people

    • @kumikoStarss
      @kumikoStarss 6 років тому +27

      I don't know you. But I truly believe you shouldn't give up because you're stronger than your disability. Fight that depression!

    • @iloveujesusxo
      @iloveujesusxo 6 років тому +15

      Jesse Carson -- Jesse, you're in my thoughts and prayers. God will substain you and carry you through this... Keep your eyes on Him. He's faithful and He sooo loves you. Lifting you up in Jesus' mighty name I pray. Amen. ♥🙏

    • @nyla-amarasmit8117
      @nyla-amarasmit8117 6 років тому +26

      Jesse Carson im srry to hear that.
      Ive myself are depressed too..
      Im 31 i have crohn kidney problems benign braintumor and chronic pain in my body.
      Every 4 weeks IV med. Also alot of meds besides that. Morphine also.
      I live mostly in my room. I live now with my second dad. He takes care of me.
      But i feel very lonely.
      Do u have help to take care of you?
      ⚘⚘⚘⚘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

    • @lululovesyou7618
      @lululovesyou7618 6 років тому +11

      Jesse- I hear you- you are not alone. There are a lot of us with similar experiences . We'll get there.

    • @redbutterflynine
      @redbutterflynine 6 років тому +2

      God and prayers 🌹 that's the answer 💓💕🌹

  • @hughlingard
    @hughlingard 6 років тому +144

    Our bodies may break but our souls never will.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +1

      Thanks for watching Brian , hope you enjoyed!

    • @MoonChicken1
      @MoonChicken1 5 років тому +1

      Our bodies WILL break. It's just a question of how much time we have until it does.

    • @keelandavis9681
      @keelandavis9681 4 роки тому +3

      I believe my soul was broken before I had my spinal stroke.

    • @herewegokids7
      @herewegokids7 4 роки тому +1

      @@keelandavis9681 souls can definitely break

  • @hotflippinmess9178
    @hotflippinmess9178 2 роки тому +8

    Oh man. This is such a bitter sweet story. I feel so bad for her mom for feeling so much guilt. They are both incredible.

  • @jgroenveld1268
    @jgroenveld1268 6 років тому +146

    I was in total denial when I first sustained my disability thinking this is just a phrase and everything will go back to normal. Than you approach that low point coming to the realization that I will never get back to normal. But what I defined as "normal" needed... a new definition hence a new outlook on life. I'm still not quite there emotionally but I'm over the moon meeting people whom I would never meet if it wasn't for that event.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +4

      Thank you very much for sharing J Groenveld

    • @nyla-amarasmit8117
      @nyla-amarasmit8117 6 років тому +5

      J Groenveld do you live in europe holland? You have a dutch name.
      What disability do u have?
      Xx

    • @MzClementine
      @MzClementine 6 років тому +2

      Aw!!! So lovely to hear! Hugs love!!!

    • @spike16965
      @spike16965 5 років тому +3

      I was that way being diagnosed with epilepsy I know it's not the same as being paralyzed but it can be paralyzing when not able to control your body ever so often from jerks or seizures

    • @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605
      @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605 3 роки тому

      Play Christian 'healing prayer' utube videos as much as you want, people get healed every day just from watching them. Even our dog received healing in her eye. I play Benny Hinn's healing prayer utube videos and there is more. People say the spine can't heal but God can fix anything. 🤗😉
      Also, I had excruciating neck pain and it vanished while I was reading the Bible out loud one night so definantly do that every day. Pray every day and look up healing scriptures online and quote them. God bless you so much and your spine be right in Jesus' name!

  • @geoffbarnes2758
    @geoffbarnes2758 4 роки тому +6

    Driven. Tough. Smart. Confident. Helps others. What an amazing woman. 😍

  • @djsiroki
    @djsiroki 3 роки тому +4

    Hálás vagyok azoknak az embereknek, akik segítenek neked, és szeretnek téged. Óriási dolgot csinálsz végig minden egyes nap. Le a kalappal a lelkierőd előtt, és előtted. Csodáslatos ember vagy. Örülök, hogy egy kicsit megismerhettelek. Greetings from Hungary

  • @robinswaytoday
    @robinswaytoday 6 років тому +80

    I have been an incomplete quad since 1974. I don't see myself in a wheelchair but just my normal self. Attitude and our will to move forward means everything. I saw my life experiences in your story . Thanks for sharing.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +2

      Thanks for watching Robin and sharing your story with us. Glad to hear you enjoyed our documentary 😊

    • @John-hg5pw
      @John-hg5pw 4 роки тому +3

      1996 here. Jesus Christ is returning soon. He is coming! The corruptiple must put on incorruptible. Amen!

    • @sararickmore1195
      @sararickmore1195 4 роки тому +1

      People like you leave people like me in awe - your spirit and courage is so inspiring

    • @louiedangelo3843
      @louiedangelo3843 3 роки тому +1

      Your are amazing Robin, great attitude.

    • @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605
      @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605 3 роки тому +1

      Play Christian 'healing prayer' utube videos as much as you want, I get healing when I play them. I play Benny Hinn's 'healing prayer' utube videos and there are others. You can read in their comment areas that many people are getting healed. Even our dog received healing in her eye. People say the spine can't heal but God can fix anything. 🤗😉

  • @southernplayero3940
    @southernplayero3940 5 років тому +8

    I admire how she keeps going no matter what . She is a truly inspiration .

  • @NS1.
    @NS1. 3 роки тому +4

    Her positivity is inspiring. Also, I'm wondering why they aren't a couple. It seems like they care for each other, more than just friends.

  • @gmail2731
    @gmail2731 6 років тому +7

    My wife is a quad C6-7 since '06. Your comments @ 7:15 ring so true for how I see her and how I think she feels about herself. She has really let herself go and will not talk about her real feelings. You are impressive and I hope you continue to tell your story. Hopefully injured out there will hear it and live by your example. I wish my wife would.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +1

      Thanks for watching G Mail! Hope you enjoyed

  • @katelynnmcdougall9826
    @katelynnmcdougall9826 3 роки тому +41

    Claire and her caregiver have a very good friendship I can see that blooming into a beautiful relationship 🥰

  • @aricmackenthun1206
    @aricmackenthun1206 6 років тому +36

    She is a very beautiful young woman. I wish her nothing but the very best for the rest of her life.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +2

      Thanks for watching Aric, hope you enjoyed watching!

  • @alexeechambers5807
    @alexeechambers5807 6 років тому +33

    She could be a model in Milan, seriously gorgeous - but it's what's beyond the face that is really lovely.

    • @kricket8801
      @kricket8801 4 роки тому +2

      Just saw a video recommended about her in Milan, modeling. I'm gonna go ahead and credit you lol

  • @justinmalone8518
    @justinmalone8518 5 років тому +30

    Oh wow, I’m a c5 incomplete also. You have so much more hand and upper body function than I do! Looking good Claire!

  • @SitDownPerspective
    @SitDownPerspective 6 років тому +62

    31 years a paraplegic, you have my admiration

  • @CherokeeMoor
    @CherokeeMoor 6 років тому +64

    I'm recovering from a back injury and I've been feeling really down about it and how much of an inconvenience it's been for me. Watching this made me humble....

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +3

      Thanks for sharing Yaa, hope the recovery goes well! Thanks for watching!

    • @dawnklug6986
      @dawnklug6986 6 років тому +3

      Yaa Sera, It's all a downer for all of us who have been injured. Don't worry. just get back as much as possible to being who you were prior to your injury. All of us will go through adjustment periods , sometimes for years, though we finally come 'round to reality. Are you paralyzed or just a "walking wounded"? I'm 37 years a quad (same type of injury level as Claire and lack tricep muscles also, but decent dexterity when I concentrate.

    • @nwatson2773
      @nwatson2773 6 років тому +2

      Hang in there. Let the tears come but remember you are strong and fierce!

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 3 роки тому

      I had excruciating neck fractures and the pain went away while I was reading the bible out loud one day. My bones , joints and whole body felt so much stronger also. So never forget your daily bible reading out loud for a few minutes or more, pray every day in Jesus' name and always be faithful with your tithing.

    • @kgspvgsp7569
      @kgspvgsp7569 2 роки тому

      @@godislove7500 are you for real?

  • @hunterjumper5892
    @hunterjumper5892 2 роки тому +4

    I was paralyzed at 55 in a freak accident. Your words about feeling like everybody stares at you disapprovingly. Your story amazing and more. Wow. Completely related on all. Thank u!

  • @DoloresJRush
    @DoloresJRush 6 років тому +13

    It was really hard for me to listen to Claire's story of thinking of assisted suicide, because my brother, an alcoholic, died by his own hand. Then I fell and herniated a disc in my lower back a few years ago and with it came incredible pain, but I think it is harder for my birth family to accept the hardware I now live with as I see a "tool," not the stigma, so I'm beginning to think that's the difference between my brother and I. We were both disabled in our own way, but I think he had lost hope that things could ever change for the better. I'm grateful that Claire didn't end her life and that she's now feeling confident enough to share her story. And I'm also glad to hear that she is thinking of designing better tools for us to use! Thank you Claire! :) And thank you "Attitude" for bringing us these lovely videos of OVERCOMING people!!!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +1

      Thanks for your comment Dolores! We're really happy to hear you enjoy and appreciate our documentaries 😊

  • @lizajane1878
    @lizajane1878 4 роки тому +17

    As a Mom too,I feel so much for your Mom. Even you cannot truly understand her deepest pain. She caused irreparable damage to her child. That is her narrative so her reality. I believe her remaining life is far worse than yours. Glad you stopped resenting her. She cannot bear more pain. I am so glad you made a life and you are beautiful. I pray for your Mom.

  • @shannonknoernschild5787
    @shannonknoernschild5787 6 років тому +27

    i find you to be so incredibly aww inspiring and beautiful inside and out. I really needed to find your video and watch. I am a Mother of a young girl who was in a ski accident, a year ago March 11 2017 and she is a now T11 para. Your stories almost match, she was 18 and starting to receive all of her college acceptance letters when the accident happened. Our family has been struggling to gain footing and search for knowledge to help her as best as we can. She did end up going to University and loves to prove naysayers wrong, just like you. I am so happy you are trying to change how people see the rolling world. Thank you, from Seattle wa.

    • @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605
      @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605 3 роки тому +1

      Have her play Christian 'healing prayer' utube videos , I get healing when I play them. Benny Hinn has some and there are others. Excruciating neck pain vanished while I was reading the Bible out loud so do that every day, quote healing scriptures. 🤗😉

  • @li1misskates
    @li1misskates 5 років тому +6

    The part about forgiving your mom brought tears to my eyes! My mom is my best friend too. Keep rocking, girl.

  • @carolynkor3021
    @carolynkor3021 5 років тому +14

    Gracious, Beautiful young woman. I can't imagine what her Mom also went through.

  • @discardedarchitect8638
    @discardedarchitect8638 5 років тому +5

    Staying so independent in a situation like this is so inspiring. I have epilepsy and seize around 10 times a day but wow, I am so thankful for what I do have.

  • @jamesfortner9695
    @jamesfortner9695 6 років тому +44

    I think she is arguably the prettiest Woman I've ever seen. Beautiful Green eyes and smile. I heard her talking about her freckles ....those freckles make her even prettier.

    • @florence1395
      @florence1395 2 роки тому

      Her freckles are her beauty spots…………she’s beautiful!

  • @deemariedubois4916
    @deemariedubois4916 4 роки тому +2

    Claire you never gave up. In even your dark times, you pushed through. You are an inspiration.

  • @rx.rabbit
    @rx.rabbit 6 років тому +53

    This is beautifully shot.. I guess it helps when your subject is drop dead gorgeous!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +5

      Thanks for watching Tokiorose, hope you enjoyed!

  • @DONALD1951
    @DONALD1951 4 роки тому +7

    Wow...amazing that you designed and built your own home...I built 3 homes and it’s very difficult for anyone without physical disabilities...good for you for sure.
    And the dog is so cute.

  • @anneshewell8799
    @anneshewell8799 4 роки тому +8

    Hello Claire, I am watching your "story" and am just absolutely in love with you and your attitude. I needed to watch this story
    because number 1 it's a wonderful story and 2 I had back surgery 4 years ago that went wrong, I am able to walk a bit but when I do the pain is excruciating and I try to manage pain with turmeric and advil because I became so dependent on Opioids that I couldn't think anymore. I have become so depressed that I seem to sit and watch movies and UA-cam. After watching your story I joined a gym close to my apartment and am working out with a goal of walking without a cane or crutches. I want to "Thank You" for the inspiration and the realization that I have a chance to walk and I know you wouldn't just sit around if you had a chance to walk! THANK YOU so much for the inspiration. I'm also a designer, landscape architect.

    • @Preeti-lw9jc
      @Preeti-lw9jc 2 місяці тому

      How are you now hope you're doing well ❤️‍🩹

  • @kaz6655
    @kaz6655 2 роки тому +3

    What amazing woman , she’s not only very beautiful with a smile that lit up the sky but so inspiring.

  • @1purplerose
    @1purplerose 5 років тому +3

    From Seaford, Delaware, USA.
    WOW! Made my 1st comment before finishing video. I'm a nurse working the night shift. Had to check on my baby client. So, I'm back. You have got it together in a real good way. I'm so glad u didn't go thru with the assisted suicide. You have so much to offer. You and ur male companion looked so happy at the end of video. I know God will bless the rest of your journey. 💖💝💜

  • @2kiona
    @2kiona 5 років тому +4

    Wow lady. You are an inspiration to all. When I get in my "pity pot" moments, I look at this video and realize I have zero problems compared to what my neighbor may be going through you know? Keep pushing, keep dreaming, and never give up.

  • @quicktastic
    @quicktastic 6 років тому +3

    Wonderful and inspirational video. One thing I learned from it is that the world is a better place with Claire in it. I'm glad she made the choice she did.

  • @nancybeveridgetaylor3256
    @nancybeveridgetaylor3256 3 роки тому +2

    Grief is a life long process. It is not a one time experience. Those things we lose we never get back, and we never "get over it" we incorporate our experiences into our lives in meaningful ways.

  • @heathercatcatherine
    @heathercatcatherine 3 роки тому +1

    She is so incredibly well spoken! It makes me so happy to see her thriving!

  • @emiliodilorenzo5107
    @emiliodilorenzo5107 6 років тому +6

    I suffered a T9 SCI 25 years ago. Your story is so very similar to mine especially when you talk about the mental aspect of the injury. I had such a hard time explaining my feelings because people do not understand your state of mind with an SCI injury. You perfectly described it and it mirrors exactly my own feelings. I went through a really hard divorce because of it. People just want you to move on and forge ahead but if you do not deal with what happened to you it all comes crashing down at some point. For me it was 18 years post injury.

  • @janella4561
    @janella4561 6 років тому +6

    You know it would have been so easy to cry for her but her attitude is just so awe inspiring that you simply forget that she has the disability. Good for you Claire good for you....

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому

      Thanks for watching janella4561, hope you enjoyed!

  • @easyspanishwithluz6861
    @easyspanishwithluz6861 5 років тому

    Such an example of courage, drive and resiliency!! Amazing story!!

  • @paulanewhouse4252
    @paulanewhouse4252 2 роки тому +2

    Wow. She is so beautiful. What a strong person. I wish her and her mom well.

  • @bliss7166
    @bliss7166 6 років тому +8

    I can’t imagine how guilty I would feel if I was her mum. This really makes me value how important it is to be safe on the roads! Claire is an amazing woman and I respect her perseverance. Her friend at the start is amazing and kind-hearted as well.

  • @sEaNoYeAh
    @sEaNoYeAh 4 роки тому +4

    She's actually gorgeous. She has a great style and a really lovely smile too. Beautiful woman.

  • @jamesfrench8015
    @jamesfrench8015 4 роки тому +2

    I was on the same self improvement as Claire many years ago now. We were all so incredibly moved by her story and the release she experienced when she let go of holding onto the tension and grudge with her mother. Wow so cool to see where she is as now!

  • @desiertoscacti5388
    @desiertoscacti5388 3 роки тому +2

    Being body abled and still "broken" inside due to various issues, I can relate to her having felt broken once. Very inspiring, honest person. Loved the video and wishing her the best in life.

  • @justinaplowden9350
    @justinaplowden9350 6 років тому +4

    Thank you so much for making feel like I can start to accept all the grief I I've never accepted...you inspire me!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому

      Thanks for watching Justina, glad to hear this has made a positive difference 😊

  • @melissanunn5664
    @melissanunn5664 6 років тому +32

    love this video, I am from the US and there isn't really videos like this. There needs to be more videos about people succeeding and living their life while being in a chair. Its always videos about people walking and overcoming their disabilities but none about learning to live differently while in the chair.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +1

      Thanks Melissa, we really appreciate those kind words. We hope you keep watching!

  • @iainbannerman1543
    @iainbannerman1543 4 роки тому +2

    Man, what an inspirational video, I have so much respect for you. I wish you well.

  • @Useless_101
    @Useless_101 Рік тому +1

    She is absolutely stunning!
    She said she isnt a model but i disagree! She 100 percent has to opportunity to be one!
    Intelligent, funny, stunning, innovative, driven and most of all a warrior ❤❤❤

  • @kimberlee3243
    @kimberlee3243 6 років тому +64

    Incredibly inspiring! Your strength and tenacity are such a force! Hello from the US 😊

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +2

      Thanks for watching Kimber , hope you enjoyed!

    • @drenica97
      @drenica97 6 років тому +2

      Kimber Lee hello Kimber!

  • @blzr1155
    @blzr1155 6 років тому +8

    Claire you are a inspiration to others and myself, thank you for making the world a little bit better. I hope you succeed at every goal you set for yourself.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому

      Thank you for watching Blazer1155 1

  • @rayrocher6887
    @rayrocher6887 4 роки тому +2

    thanks for being more courageous and determined than i had been. i have learned from you, persistence.

  • @robray7106
    @robray7106 6 років тому +2

    I can tell you're a fighter and all around beautiful person! I wish you all the best from San Antonio, TX USA.

  • @JulikaAcademy
    @JulikaAcademy 6 років тому +139

    She's so talented and beautiful. Very inspiring story.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +7

      Thanks for watching Julia Jolie! Hope you enjoyed 😊

    • @giorozza
      @giorozza 6 років тому +1

      Oi Julia! Você também é! Sigo seu canal e recentemente ajudei uma moça com transtorno bipolar através de um dos seus vídeos.

    • @JulikaAcademy
      @JulikaAcademy 6 років тому

      Obrigada Giovanna! Muito feliz com a sua mensagem

    • @usamaaliatiq3896
      @usamaaliatiq3896 3 роки тому

      Tears..😢😢😢

  • @alliebeth77
    @alliebeth77 6 років тому +22

    You are an inspiration to us all. It is unbelievable how you answer everyone's comments. We should all be grateful for what kind of life we are given. Thank you!!!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому

      Thanks for watching Allie! We love interacting with our subscribers 😊

  • @dooddirl1
    @dooddirl1 4 роки тому +1

    What a beautiful human being, inspired is only part of how I feel after learning her tragic story. Ma’am I’m in awe of you.

  • @waynestruzynski253
    @waynestruzynski253 4 роки тому

    Thank you for such a well done and inspirational video on living with a spinal cord injury. You are a beautiful and strong, both physically and mentally, young woman. Blessings to you in the future.

  • @avisboulter2698
    @avisboulter2698 6 років тому +13

    Claire, you are inspiring many. I hope you continue to design. You do make a difference. Wishing you the best.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому

      Thanks for watching Avis! Hope you enjoyed and stay tuned!

  • @StephWeller
    @StephWeller 6 років тому +5

    I love what you guys are doing. My 3 year mark will be coming up in January and I'm planning to open up more about my injury and the condition that caused it. You're stronger than you think x

  • @kimoconnor495
    @kimoconnor495 4 роки тому +1

    I came across your video by chance,I think you are awesome such a inspiration truly beautiful inside and out. I've become disabled and at 55 thought life was the worst but seeing you made me smile .Your mum must have felt awful and been devastated over your accident. I'm so glad you have moved on and your relationship is better.Your friend seems a great guy so caring and seems to understand your needs.You have a beautiful relationship whatever it is. I wish you all the best and hope your life just keeps getting better and better. Enjoy every moment because life is short and living with regrets suck.

  • @karlaplascencia7998
    @karlaplascencia7998 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for making this video. You’re showing us what true strength is. You’re very special. I hope your mom is proud of you.

  • @robertfarley8425
    @robertfarley8425 6 років тому +6

    Truly amazing Claire, I was teary eyed in segments. Then had inspiration for your mind set you have embedded in your self. May God continue to guide you on your life's journey. XOXO

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому

      Thanks for watching Robert, hope you stay tuned! 😊

  • @TheVictorb69
    @TheVictorb69 6 років тому +7

    You are truly an inspiration & I can't thank you enough!!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +1

      Thanks for watching TheVictorb69, hope you enjoyed👍

    • @TheVictorb69
      @TheVictorb69 6 років тому

      Attitude may I ask a question of you? I have watched several videos of tetraplegics & have watched vlogs so I have a question if you don't mind answering?
      You seem to get on much better then most tetraplegics especially with your arms and control. Most tetraplegics I've seen don't so does it get better over time?
      Also I think you are soooo inspirational and the power of forgiveness you have shown & talked about helped me sooo very much!!! I hope you make more videos!! Do you have a UA-cam channel?!!
      Best regards,
      Victoria ✍🏽🤗

  • @researchersusie169
    @researchersusie169 5 років тому +1

    Wow. Claire has an indomitable, beautiful spirit! What an amazing woman. I’m so grateful that she’s alive, that she’s actively pursuing her dreams! What a great inspiration! Thank you Claire!!!

  • @user-zg7vw3nt9b
    @user-zg7vw3nt9b Рік тому +2

    Well done! I sincerely envy having a person who helps!

  • @evanskimberlyevans
    @evanskimberlyevans 6 років тому +3

    You inspire me. I appreciate your candid honesty. I have C5-C6 and C6-C7 spinal fusion from car accident when I was 18years old. I am inspired and renewed by your strength and courage. Also...how do you drive? Love your doggie too btw. Thank you for sharing with us!

  • @jen1579
    @jen1579 6 років тому +8

    I love her mentality, she doesn't do things because people tell her she can't, she does things because she knows she can and that is an amazing way to live

  • @patb8036
    @patb8036 3 роки тому

    I would lay my life down to help any of my friends. You are a beautiful person!

  • @Tara........
    @Tara........ 5 років тому

    Thank you, Claire, for sharing your remarkable story. You are an inspiration. I wish you all the very best.

  • @LynJegher
    @LynJegher 6 років тому +6

    You are a very brave soul! Congrats

  • @stevenhorne5089
    @stevenhorne5089 6 років тому +16

    I busted C5-6 about 5-6 years before you. Seeing your hands was like looking in a mirror at myself. I have the same videos that you do only with myself in the chair. I ignored the injury and pressed on. I was able to walk again and have never used a wheelchair. I saw all the faces of my friends in rehab as they watched 3 P.T.'s stand me up behind a walker with platforms for my arms because I couldn't grab the walker. I can still remember it today like it was all in slow motion. I could see on all their faces how they wished they were the ones that had that tiny chance to be where I was at that time. I remember thinking how I wanted to be any place other than behind that walker. I was about find out how much my world was going to come crashing in and I wasn't even 21 years old yet. After a half hour I moved about 3 meters. But in that time nothing in that gym moved. Everybody was fixated on me. After therapy that night when all the patients and families gathered on the porch, the mood was very somber. It was like we all knew that there was going to be 1 lucky winner of the "Walk Again Lotto" and everybody found out that they were not the winners. There was no joy for me because all my friends for the past 6 months just found out that they weren't going to walk again.
    I fall constantly. Broken a few bones over the years. Today I'm starting to see the abuse my body has taken over the years. I look at you and wish I could pass this winning lotto card to you. If only I could.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +1

      Thanks for watching Steven, wishing you the best 😊

    • @jaikumarrajak244
      @jaikumarrajak244 6 років тому

      Inspiring video

    • @redbutterflynine
      @redbutterflynine 6 років тому

      Praying is the answer God can heal anything 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @1purplerose
    @1purplerose 5 років тому +1

    From Seaford, Delaware, USA. You have obviously come a very long way, physically and all around. So happy for you. Amazing you were able to get ur degrees. I hope all ur dreams come true. Your house is beautiful.

  • @colin101981
    @colin101981 2 роки тому +1

    Inspiring! Totally inspiring. I'm a powerchair user (spinal injury lumbar). We NEED people like you to challenge what can be done. THANK YOU so much for posting this. Greetings from North Wales UK

  • @makalaka123
    @makalaka123 6 років тому +4

    so inspiring! she's very motivating in how to change a not so ideal situation to a positive!!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому

      Yeah she's pretty awesome Lan 95, hope you enjoyed!

  • @salvadorrodenas3071
    @salvadorrodenas3071 6 років тому +8

    Thank you for sharing this with us. It´s a story of suffering, I was very sad while I was watching your extraordinary video, putting myself in the skin of a beautiful teenager full of dreams, who suddenly sees her life plans truncated and how this situation gets to a point of almost no return and... finally, thanks to God and all the good people that surrounds you, be able to make peaces with all your personal demons and find your well deserved happiness. I´m happy too.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +1

      Thanks for your kind message Salvador, we hope you enjoyed the documentary!

    • @salvadorrodenas3071
      @salvadorrodenas3071 6 років тому +1

      Attitude you're welcome. It's me who gives you thank you for addressing to me. you are lovely. bye

  • @mmmmlllljohn
    @mmmmlllljohn 6 років тому +2

    Great lady - glad she has such great support! She has done so much with her life already. You go girl!🇨🇦 All the best from Canada.

  • @jessicairving3567
    @jessicairving3567 3 роки тому

    Its great to see how you have developed a spirit of go for it in your life with the onset of your disability. In all situations there are possibilities.

  • @nigeriahoston9565
    @nigeriahoston9565 6 років тому +17

    God bless you two .

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +1

      Thanks for watching Nigeria 👍

  • @talhairshad7129
    @talhairshad7129 2 роки тому +3

    Being an SCI patient I know how it feels like when you're going thru paralysis and it becomes a life long challenge to overcome your injury psychologically.

  • @raegruder4626
    @raegruder4626 3 роки тому +1

    I've worked with people in wheelchairs one of the biggest complaints I've gotten was people say they aren't noticed in their chair. people don't look them in the eye, you're a breath of fresh air ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jerrychetty2524
    @jerrychetty2524 2 роки тому +1

    She is a lovely young lady and just so awesome and inspiring despite her tragic experience

  • @SuperMissblueeyes
    @SuperMissblueeyes 6 років тому +21

    Claire, you're totally awesome!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +2

      Thanks for watching SuperMissblueeyes!

  • @svetlanaz7872
    @svetlanaz7872 6 років тому +44

    youre absolutely breath-taking and, yes, as an american, i heard "leg". also, not meaning to be forward, but i think theres a bit of spark between you and the young man thats around you. perhaps you should explore that a lil...further.

  • @nomam7358
    @nomam7358 3 роки тому

    The world needs More of this supporter seriously 😭🤗🙏🏽

  • @ekassien
    @ekassien 3 роки тому +2

    Clare is an amazing, inspiring woman, & so is John, her support worker. What an amazing pair!