Very true! I saw when he transferred her from the chair to bed with ease, but sadly we all grow older, what’s going to happen when he gets older and isn’t strong enough anymore. Sad to think about that too.
Thank you so much for making the Attitude series. I have CP. My Mom was the reason I have a life. My brother had a disability as well. We were always loved. Our mom kept us at home and raised us to be as able and as loving as we could. She raised two happy kids with physical disabilities. That’s an accomplishment.
The look on her face when she kisses her is so heart melting she loves her mom so much you can tell in her eyes and face. I relate my son is nonverbal but I can see the love he has for me when I kiss him I see his reaction and it makes all the hard times so much worth it
I'm in awe with the mother. She is stunning and incredibly strong. In it's own way- it's a blessing to have the opportunity to be presented with a unique set of challenges to face as a family.
The son is much more affectionate and interactive than I would expect for a child with autism. Either the diagnosis is wrong or autism researchers and therapists need to study this family to learn from them.
Sharon Taylor Autism has many levels and no one is the same so I don’t understand your comment! There are three levels ranging from mild to severe on the Autism spectrum.
@@sharontaylor3890 many children with autism are affectionate and interactive. All children want to receive and give love. I’m not sure why you have pegged them all one way.
My son has high functioning autism and is very affectionate. Autism causes social difficulties but they don't all present the same way, they can be overly friendly or socially awkward. Autism is unique to each person.
As a mother and disabled nurse I just want to say thank you for these wonderful documentaries!!!!!! I don’t get into reality shows be a they are so fake. So, having these documentaries that are real, about wonderful children and their families and in the medical field just catching my interest. I can’t work as a nurse anymore but my love of the people, medical field and loving to still learn new things has me absolutely addicted to these wonderful videos. Thank you so much!!!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love how affectionate the mother is!!! Children need lots of kisses and cuddles, regardless of whether they have a disability or not. She’s a wonderful loving parent. 😊😊😊😊❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Not very often am I somewhat at a loss for words...All I can say is that the tender, gentle spirit, grace & deep love for her Family that Mrs. Gear exudes is so palpable that I can literally FEEL it...
I love your videos as they show the normal side of disability and not the limitations or not just the limitations but also shows how family dynamics change and how carers that are also family change and adapt alongside the disabled person.
I was crying as soon as she got to her party and heard the singing and saw the love do they need a grandma I will come I have a lot of love to give and I don’t get any from my family oh how beautiful your family is bless all of you
I adore this mom! Her energy, positivity, control, and endless love make her someone I'd be friends with. It's the spirit of seeing all children as our blessings and not our burdens that make them all thrive together as a family within a strong community.
Ashlyn WearsWigs2 my son also has severe autism. I feel like it is the hardest disability to cope with. Do you mind me asking, if your son cried loudly when he was born?
the words 'waste of tax dollars' 'tribal inbreeding' ' 'pay for this with your treaty theft' 'non optional sterilization' and 'you had it,you fu*cking pay for it' spring to mind
This lady is one amazing mother. Looking after a home and family is hard enough but to be as gentle and patient with two children with disabilities is so wonderful to see. The father is as amazing as the mom. There has to be a committed love between people that is growing all the time it appears with this couple where others grow farther away from each other. All the way around it is a wonderful atmosphere to raise a family.
The depth of tenderness and compassion that all of them show to each other and to Demar just.. like.. touched a grief and a desire in me that I didn't know was there. I cannot fathom recieving that level of selfless, unconditional care and unending empathy. Yeah..
What an incredible family! Mum is just an inspiration..and daughter is amazing..what a beautiful example of family ...and as a Maori woman, I think Courtenay deserves some recognition....so much negative publicity about abuse in homes.particularly in Rotorua....heres one Maori chick rocking her world and doing a job that very few other people would cope with...and doing it brilliantly! This family has reduced me to tears...so wonderful. xx...someone please start a fund to buy a house for this couple..I'll contribute!.
So much love to this family!!! Mothers will hold the weight of the world if it is for our family… and finding yourself during adversary is the most true form of self. Yes, I could see how tired the mom is but also could see her joyful purpose in her beautiful family.
What a beautiful family! Mom you're a special woman.. they are blessed to have you! I understand the struggles. Make sure you take care of yourself! May you all continue to be blessed! 💕
I cried watching this. The love and mana you have Courtenay is second to none. I would love to hear how you are all going now. I hope well and that you have joy still filling your lives. Manaaki Te Atua to you and your Whanau ❤🫶🏻
I see some of the worst people & channels on UA-cam with millions of subscribers, then I see this amazing channel.... 119K subscribers.... so many missing out on the growth, knowledge & heart that emanates from each video. It seems to be a perfect representation of the world today.... the worst people seem to get money, prestige & popularity while the Best are often poor, beautiful & full of heart & commitment. Thank you for being committed to being the BEST part of UA-cam. ❤️
This is so beautiful. Such a brave mother and loving support from her family and the rest of her local community. It's the typical maori/islander love that we have for eachother. ❤️
@@blobbyblob2573 Im wearing my glasses and Im telling you. If she had time to take care of herself with creams and beauty products and hair and make up in the end, its 25.
the look on the mom’s face while she watches her kids throughout the video is soooo wonderful. most videos like this, the parents look tired and sad (which is understandable) but you can REALLY see the love on her face and with the way she acts
Bless all of you. I have several chronic illnesses and had pretty much given up on life. I’ve been a spectator and not a participant in life. This has honestly inspired me to get my butt in gear. I can say that I know your daughters pain with the stomach issues. I am tube fed straight into my intestines so I don’t vomit it up. And I can vent from the G side of my GJ tube. Idk if she has a GJ tube, but ask her doctor about venting from the G port. I can also empathize because I know how bad the stomach pain and digestion issues can be when u r just tube fed. I always have a belly ache. ( I’m not trying to be a jerk or question your care because u r amazing, I’m just trying to express how tube feeds feel since she can’t talk. I’m here if u ever need someone to talk to. Much love from Kentucky, Lesley and Service Dog Jake
Wow, this mother wient throught this with her daughter we she was only 18. I would so not have been able to handle that well. I mean I would do what I had to do, but this mom is amazing. I realize that she has been doing this for years now, but even when she is struggling she shows so much grace.
What fantastic parents. You are an inspiration. Your positive attitude is amazing and your strength as a couple is incredible. I have a son with a disability and he is simply amazing.
The 21yo does not seem like life is in her. It seems like she breaths but nothing else. I see this is painful to have a healthy baby, 5 months in, she catches a disease that changes her forever in this way. That would be so hard to deal with. This is sad.
I love these short clips on these families. They are the perfect families, never have I seen family love in the “norm” as I have seen in these clips of families with a disability. Man, they could teach the world about love and parenting. What well adjusted children we would be raising.
Mrs Gear, you and your family are Warriors!! The love you All have for each other not only shows, but as I'm watching this, I can feel it!! You are All such Beautiful, Lovely Souls and God Bless You All!! I'm sending prayers, positive vibes and energy and I sure wish I lived by you so I could help out with your family...Much Love to You All!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜💜💜💞💞💞💞💞💞💙💙💚💚💚💝💝💝💝 Namaste
Thanks for sharing this. She's such an awesome and strong mum. Great to see how some parents faces everyday with someone who has high nerds. I wish them all the best for what's to come.
I worked with adults with disabilities for 16 I loved my job when I retired I kept the job where I work with two girls that are total care they are a blessing they are so sweet & give me such joy. I love them to pieces they have enriched my life. they are not disabled they are just differently abled . God bless your family
I’m not sure how you’re doing this your husband is your rock the way you love your children it’s more than amazing May the lord blessed you and family always this really touched my heart awesome
I think you are right your husband is lucky to have you. You are an inspiration. I know you really don’t have a choice as you’re such a loving mother but it must be a real challenge at times. I’m so glad you have such a loving husband and family. I would be so proud of you too. It would be good for you and your husband to have time together. X
mom and dad are awesome. I love how mom loves. it's amazing. I also loved how dad said how he felt when he learned about little man. "he will accede farther then I would ever expected, he is a genius" alot of people could learn from the parents.
I think the father is exceptional. He's truly a man of few words but the care he shows is evident.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Very true! I saw when he transferred her from the chair to bed with ease, but sadly we all grow older, what’s going to happen when he gets older and isn’t strong enough anymore. Sad to think about that too.
I love the way she looks at her children. I'm 26 but can she adopt me? She's such an incredible mom!
I am 54 she can have me too.
She can also adopt me to I’m only 28 she an awesome mom
She can adopt me as well
Where does she live? I wish I could go there. This family is beautiful.
Her mother is such a beautiful soul and her dad is a gentle giant.
I feel for the 12 year old she is so strong as well and helps her sister and supports here mum 🙏🏻🙏🏻
But I'm confused, she said she's 12 going in 25...what does she mean!!??
@@Ashlynn_Morgan her attitude is like a 25 year old
That she is mature for her age.
Thank you so much for making the Attitude series. I have CP. My Mom was the reason I have a life. My brother had a disability as well. We were always loved. Our mom kept us at home and raised us to be as able and as loving as we could. She raised two happy kids with physical disabilities. That’s an accomplishment.
The look on her face when she kisses her is so heart melting she loves her mom so much you can tell in her eyes and face. I relate my son is nonverbal but I can see the love he has for me when I kiss him I see his reaction and it makes all the hard times so much worth it
She's an inspiration for what a mom is. So much respect.
I have tears rolling down,. What a remarkable mother she is
@@karenmerritt3552 Same, I also have cerebral palsy, and I can't wait to have my own kids to give them the same love.
I'm in awe with the mother. She is stunning and incredibly strong. In it's own way- it's a blessing to have the opportunity to be presented with a unique set of challenges to face as a family.
The son is much more affectionate and interactive than I would expect for a child with autism. Either the diagnosis is wrong or autism researchers and therapists need to study this family to learn from them.
Miss Chris a BLESSING? 👊🏼
Sharon Taylor Autism has many levels and no one is the same so I don’t understand your comment! There are three levels ranging from mild to severe on the Autism spectrum.
@@sharontaylor3890 many children with autism are affectionate and interactive. All children want to receive and give love. I’m not sure why you have pegged them all one way.
My son has high functioning autism and is very affectionate. Autism causes social difficulties but they don't all present the same way, they can be overly friendly or socially awkward. Autism is unique to each person.
The love in this mothers eyes when she looks at her kids and at her husband is so beautiful. What an incredible person, an incredible family
As a mother and disabled nurse I just want to say thank you for these wonderful documentaries!!!!!! I don’t get into reality shows be a they are so fake. So, having these documentaries that are real, about wonderful children and their families and in the medical field just catching my interest. I can’t work as a nurse anymore but my love of the people, medical field and loving to still learn new things has me absolutely addicted to these wonderful videos. Thank you so much!!!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
i did home care with special needs children for over 30 years.. one family i had for 21 years the other for 17 years..i loved my job
I love how affectionate the mother is!!! Children need lots of kisses and cuddles, regardless of whether they have a disability or not. She’s a wonderful loving parent. 😊😊😊😊❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Not very often am I somewhat at a loss for words...All I can say is that the tender, gentle spirit, grace & deep love for her Family that Mrs. Gear exudes is so palpable that I can literally FEEL it...
poppykok5 well said, beautiful family.
First 5 mins I was crying.. mid way crying again. The mother is an absolute sweetheart, power to her for always doing her best.
I love your videos as they show the normal side of disability and not the limitations or not just the limitations but also shows how family dynamics change and how carers that are also family change and adapt alongside the disabled person.
I was crying as soon as she got to her party and heard the singing and saw the love do they need a grandma I will come I have a lot of love to give and I don’t get any from my family oh how beautiful your family is bless all of you
I have so much admiration for these parents. They’re true heroes.
I adore this mom! Her energy, positivity, control, and endless love make her someone I'd be friends with. It's the spirit of seeing all children as our blessings and not our burdens that make them all thrive together as a family within a strong community.
This mother is an inspiration!! The love and care she gives her family is exemplary! 💖
I’m totally in awe of the mum. So inspiring as a wheelchair user myself.
They are one of the most pure, loving, and genuine people I’ve ever come across! God bless you and yours!
This channel is the gem of youtube. I love what you guys do!
“cool! how does this child learn?” SO PURE
What a gorgeous, exemplary, loving, tender, powerful human being this mother is...I am moved beyond words...
That mother is incredible. What a gentle and strong woman.
Such a sweet loving patient mother. My son has severe autism and alot of days are hard. You're an inspiration to me such a loving family. ❤
Ashlyn WearsWigs2 my son also has severe autism. I feel like it is the hardest disability to cope with.
Do you mind me asking, if your son cried loudly when he was born?
The mother is a wonder mother. She is amazing and so are her beautiful kids.
Such a wonderful family. I am so grateful that there are people with so much gentleness and strength in the world.
Beautiful family...you could see the gratefulness and happiness on the face of the older disabled girl during her 21st birthday party..bless them all
Tahumatua: "It's my birthday."
Mum: "And how old are you going to be?"
T: "A wizard."
M: "You're going to be 8."
😂 This was adorable LOL 😍
Lol you know a certain little boy has watched too much Harry Potter!
the words 'waste of tax dollars' 'tribal inbreeding' ' 'pay for this with your treaty theft' 'non optional sterilization' and 'you had it,you fu*cking pay for it' spring to mind
Andrew Freeston What exactly are you trying to say here ?
Itsme 23 nothing because it’s ignorant verbal vomit. I mean what Andrew spewed.
What a beautiful family and also their friends, so much love
What an amazing, admiral mother, she reminds me so much of my mother, unconditionally loving, patient and genuine. God Bless this Family!
This Mom needs to be the whole worlds Mother for us to feel love by an amazing mother at least once!
Your the definition of what a mom should be !! Your amazing 👏
Such a strong and loving woman
This lady is one amazing mother. Looking after a home and family is hard enough but to be as gentle and patient with two children with disabilities is so wonderful to see. The father is as amazing as the mom. There has to be a committed love between people that is growing all the time it appears with this couple where others grow farther away from each other. All the way around it is a wonderful atmosphere to raise a family.
The depth of tenderness and compassion that all of them show to each other and to Demar just.. like.. touched a grief and a desire in me that I didn't know was there. I cannot fathom recieving that level of selfless, unconditional care and unending empathy. Yeah..
such amazing and loving parents . god bless them all
What an incredible family! Mum is just an inspiration..and daughter is amazing..what a beautiful example of family ...and as a Maori woman, I think Courtenay deserves some recognition....so much negative publicity about abuse in homes.particularly in Rotorua....heres one Maori chick rocking her world and doing a job that very few other people would cope with...and doing it brilliantly! This family has reduced me to tears...so wonderful. xx...someone please start a fund to buy a house for this couple..I'll contribute!.
I wish my mother was as kind and gentle as this woman 💜
So much love to this family!!! Mothers will hold the weight of the world if it is for our family… and finding yourself during adversary is the most true form of self. Yes, I could see how tired the mom is but also could see her joyful purpose in her beautiful family.
This mom is amazing, will instantly stop feeling sorry for myself…
She is amazing!
Mom - You are a beautiful parent to your children & a wonderful inspiration to all Mom's watching. Bless your heart. 💜
I hope to be as good of a mom as this amazing woman.
What an incredibly inspiring family. And that mother is a superhero too!
“It’s my birthday”
“How old are you going to be?”
“A Wizard”
This is adorable and it’s my everyday mood!
Raven Newlyn What language is this?
I caught that too! I was like good answer sir! 😊
Beautiful family!❤
What a beautiful family! Mom you're a special woman.. they are blessed to have you! I understand the struggles. Make sure you take care of yourself! May you all continue to be blessed! 💕
What a beautiful family! The mother is an inspiration and the father is awesome for standing by his family. I’m so glad I came across this video.
What a beautiful and incredibly special family. X
This mum just blows me away! Wonderful wonderful lady and Dad is very supportive. Great family ❤
God these parents... anyone would be the luckiest person on the planet to have this mother & her husband. Wow
I cried watching this. The love and mana you have Courtenay is second to none. I would love to hear how you are all going now. I hope well and that you have joy still filling your lives. Manaaki Te Atua to you and your Whanau ❤🫶🏻
I see some of the worst people & channels on UA-cam with millions of subscribers, then I see this amazing channel.... 119K subscribers.... so many missing out on the growth, knowledge & heart that emanates from each video. It seems to be a perfect representation of the world today.... the worst people seem to get money, prestige & popularity while the Best are often poor, beautiful & full of heart & commitment.
Thank you for being committed to being the BEST part of UA-cam. ❤️
This is so beautiful. Such a brave mother and loving support from her family and the rest of her local community. It's the typical maori/islander love that we have for eachother. ❤️
Your marriage is a lot like mine. We are all very lucky. Our families we just love. Thank you
A wonderful woman with heaps of courage and love,you are all heros and a great family i wish so much all goes well for you all........
What an extraordinary mom, she's amazing.
I love New Zealand!!! You all are amazing!! So much love and family from all videos I've watched....much admiration and love sent your way!!!
Thank you so much!!
Mum is an angel
When everyone may want to give up, Mommas never, and Daddies become the much needed strength in so many ways
the mother is gorgeous
looks like Jennifer lopez
judy
Mary Koshy yes she does
Much prettier than jennifer lopez. Her soul shines through and makes her 100 times more beautiful
@@whiteMCHammer yes!
There are no words to capture what an incredible mother you a are xxx
"39 year-old mother of 6" SHE LOOKS 25!
Bryanna B damn what 25 year olds you know that look like that
Bryanna B you need to see an optician seriously
She definitely does not look anywhere close to 25, but she does look great for her age.
@@blobbyblob2573 Im wearing my glasses and Im telling you. If she had time to take care of herself with creams and beauty products and hair and make up in the end, its 25.
Milica then get your glasses checked fool.
There is absolutely too much to lose if you let loose too much. Others can love her but nobody is her mom. Prayers for strength.
the look on the mom’s face while she watches her kids throughout the video is soooo wonderful. most videos like this, the parents look tired and sad (which is understandable) but you can REALLY see the love on her face and with the way she acts
God BLESS that mother!!!!!!!!! Her heart is unbelievably beautiful and strong!!!!!!!
Bless all of you. I have several chronic illnesses and had pretty much given up on life. I’ve been a spectator and not a participant in life. This has honestly inspired me to get my butt in gear.
I can say that I know your daughters pain with the stomach issues. I am tube fed straight into my intestines so I don’t vomit it up. And I can vent from the G side of my GJ tube. Idk if she has a GJ tube, but ask her doctor about venting from the G port. I can also empathize because I know how bad the stomach pain and digestion issues can be when u r just tube fed. I always have a belly ache.
( I’m not trying to be a jerk or question your care because u r amazing, I’m just trying to express how tube feeds feel since she can’t talk. I’m here if u ever need someone to talk to. Much love from Kentucky, Lesley and Service Dog Jake
Wow, this mother wient throught this with her daughter we she was only 18. I would so not have been able to handle that well. I mean I would do what I had to do, but this mom is amazing. I realize that she has been doing this for years now, but even when she is struggling she shows so much grace.
I was just crying, sad and suicidal. Videos like these make me remember how lucky I really am.
What fantastic parents. You are an inspiration. Your positive attitude is amazing and your strength as a couple is incredible. I have a son with a disability and he is simply amazing.
Your the best mother in the world ♥️💛🙏🏻😇 I’ll pray for you evryday♥️💚💛❤️💜🖤
This woman is so strong and I a m amazed at her strength role model
An amazing family and an outstanding mom.
The 21yo does not seem like life is in her. It seems like she breaths but nothing else. I see this is painful to have a healthy baby, 5 months in, she catches a disease that changes her forever in this way. That would be so hard to deal with. This is sad.
Well, she’s probably not really aware of much other than when she feels pain.
They really don’t mention her brain function or any level of awareness.
I love these short clips on these families. They are the perfect families, never have I seen family love in the “norm” as I have seen in these clips of families with a disability. Man, they could teach the world about love and parenting. What well adjusted children we would be raising.
What a great family! So much love and support 💜
Mrs Gear, you and your family are Warriors!! The love you All have for each other not only shows, but as I'm watching this, I can feel it!! You are All such Beautiful, Lovely Souls and God Bless You All!! I'm sending prayers, positive vibes and energy and I sure wish I lived by you so I could help out with your family...Much Love to You All!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜💜💜💞💞💞💞💞💞💙💙💚💚💚💝💝💝💝 Namaste
GOD BLESS THIS BEAUTIFUL FAMILY AND EVERYONE
Thanks for sharing this. She's such an awesome and strong mum. Great to see how some parents faces everyday with someone who has high nerds. I wish them all the best for what's to come.
Bless this family 💙💚 from one medically fragile mama to another you are doing amazing and a hero to us young moms starting down this road
I worked with adults with disabilities for 16 I loved my job when I retired I kept the job where I work with two girls that are total care they are a blessing they are so sweet & give me such joy. I love them to pieces they have enriched my life. they are not disabled they are just differently abled . God bless your family
WOW! just, wow!!!! how absolutely inspiring to see such an unconditionally loving and dedicated family ❤️
What a terrific family. I pray God holds them close. 🙏
You are such a strong woman. I am like you, I would not have put a child of mine like Demar in an institution. You have such a great attitude.
I’m not sure how you’re doing this your husband is your rock the way you love your children it’s more than amazing May the lord blessed you and family always this really touched my heart awesome
Beautiful family i enjoyed watching them this morning 💖
I have the most respect in the world for this family!! Absolutely beautiful!!!
Beautiful Family With Beautiful Hearts Of Gold ❤️
This mom is a HERO
Beautiful family. Courtenay you should go to Med school, you would be an amazing Doctor. You make me proud to be a women
I think you are amazing Mum you got a lovely family God will continue to bless you
So much love. Strong and beautiful mum.
Stay strong ~ your a great mother who is an angel
I think you are right your husband is lucky to have you. You are an inspiration. I know you really don’t have a choice as you’re such a loving mother but it must be a real challenge at times. I’m so glad you have such a loving husband and family. I would be so proud of you too. It would be good for you and your husband to have time together. X
mom and dad are awesome. I love how mom loves. it's amazing. I also loved how dad said how he felt when he learned about little man. "he will accede farther then I would ever expected, he is a genius" alot of people could learn from the parents.
He has exceeded much further than anyone thought he would. It is so much fun to watch the growth of his learning. He's a joy to watch.
What an incredible woman and an amazing family... very strong people. Lots and lots of arohanui xxx
What a beautiful Maori family, Ive always been inspired by their culture. It’s all about family... bless you all xxx
God bless this family. You all have a special place in heaven❤️
What an amazing family, such a wonderful Mom!!