How to Earn Respect Without Being A Jerk

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  • Опубліковано 17 лис 2024

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  • @jonchaton7541
    @jonchaton7541 5 років тому +45

    Great vid! Ironically I've found that earning respect in this way makes jerks less jerky towards me. They become less defensive overall.

  • @woodyscabin
    @woodyscabin 5 років тому +24

    I'm female and old. It is SO REFRESHING to watch your channel. Real gentlemen doing as gentlemen should. Thank you, a gentleman, for being out there STILL. So many young men need this.

  • @jamess4688
    @jamess4688 5 років тому +25

    I love how your channel is much more than clothing and dress. This holistic approach taken in helping men become gentlemen, inside and out, is very much needed in this world and appreciated. Keep up the great work.

  • @miguelluis483
    @miguelluis483 5 років тому +81

    The acting, my God, the acting.

    • @ronaldmalcolm5609
      @ronaldmalcolm5609 5 років тому

      Not any worse than the acting on the typical live-action Disney show.

    • @miguelluis483
      @miguelluis483 5 років тому

      @@ronaldmalcolm5609 by any means

  • @eoinmaclean6478
    @eoinmaclean6478 5 років тому +23

    Your role-play acting clips are HILARIOUS! I would pay for an office comedy film with the three of you acting in it.

  • @Gerry1of1
    @Gerry1of1 5 років тому +12

    I have completely stopped expecting any respect or courtesy when out in public. "I do what I want" seems to be the standard rule of behavior for most people. I'm only responsible for my behavior so I try to be polite to others and it's very pleasant and welcome when it's returned. Though I stopped expecting manners from others.

  • @Aishcrazy
    @Aishcrazy 5 років тому +32

    Preston's acting can put Lionardo Dicaprio to shame

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  5 років тому +11

      His acting is nuanced; I like to think of mine as "accessible." :) Thanks for watching!
      - Preston

  • @lolvonlolipopp
    @lolvonlolipopp 5 років тому +27

    Your tie knot is perfection!

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  5 років тому +4

      Thank you

    • @BobTheHatKing
      @BobTheHatKing 5 років тому +3

      I was slightly irritated that it was crooked lol. You look great though, Raphael!

  • @herculepoirot4488
    @herculepoirot4488 5 років тому +22

    Sven Raphael Schneider and Preston, the dream team. You both are great people and chivalirious gentelmen.

  • @trout6629
    @trout6629 5 років тому +88

    please don't stop saying "Peasant". It cracks me up every time 😂

    • @carltrotter7622
      @carltrotter7622 5 років тому +6

      It's funny because he uses it with no harm meant whilst most people will use that term when thinking of themselves as better as the 'common folk' whilst Sven is just trying to get his point across xD

  • @TFreemanJohnson
    @TFreemanJohnson 5 років тому +1

    The world does seem to be getting nastier day by day. Sharing your thoughts in this video is a subtle but powerful force in restoring civility.
    I admire the way your personal style in clothing reflects your personal philosophy. The fact that you dress in a way that bucks the trend toward slovenliness shows personal confidence which in turn indicates that you’re ready to respect the unique worth of anyone you meet.
    A true gentleman doesn’t need impress others and doesn’t demand that others impress him. His graciousness has the sly effect of inviting others to rise to his level of confidence tempered with humility.
    I’m grateful for your work.

  • @Quinntheeskimo99
    @Quinntheeskimo99 5 років тому +7

    This vid should be shown in UK schools to kids aged (say) 14 plus, and then followed up. More use than some parts of the National Curriculum.

  • @Uyoba
    @Uyoba 5 років тому +27

    + RESPECT /San Andreas mission complete theme playin'/

  • @m.k.v.g.7203
    @m.k.v.g.7203 5 років тому +7

    Very good video on basic Gentleman's behaviour. Description and comparison can hit the bullseye much more precisely than insults.

  • @carltrotter7622
    @carltrotter7622 5 років тому +4

    The acting was hilarious xD - Good job. Definitely a memorable video!

  • @charlesware5767
    @charlesware5767 5 років тому +6

    Preston's New York Italian impression is um... lacking. Lol. Good job guys always entertaining.

  • @scottmacmillan9436
    @scottmacmillan9436 5 років тому

    I am so happy that I found your site. I enjoy the information found in the videos so much. A great help for people like myself who aren't looking to alter their looks, attire, or behaviour for vanity or as a way of getting ahead, but simply seeking to put their best selves forward. Thank you.

  • @ewanwilson1974
    @ewanwilson1974 5 років тому +2

    I’ve personally witnessed this firsthand. It was a couple of days ago and I was on my evening shift at work, and there was this guy who was dressed like a 21st century gangster. I didn’t judge him because he could have been a nice person. However he was yelling into his phone on speaker. He was yelling things like “MY NAME ISNT JASON, ITS SIR!”. I ended up feeling kind of bad for the guy on the other end for the way he was being talked to. Unfortunately there was nothing I could do, and my supervisors couldn’t either because he wasn’t doing anything to violate the store policies or endanger the other customers.

  • @RizwanKler
    @RizwanKler 5 років тому +3

    Thanks Raphael & Preston for such an important topic covered so politely 😎

  • @chrissanchez9935
    @chrissanchez9935 5 років тому +3

    Thank You for the video. Very educational, Sir.

  • @DavidLinn
    @DavidLinn 5 років тому +1

    i love the very subtle camera movement to keep us engaged

  • @bencorley8687
    @bencorley8687 4 роки тому +1

    New Subscriber today. I like the look book at the end of the video. Classy, and helpful for sure. Thank you.

  • @alizarkami6187
    @alizarkami6187 5 років тому +20

    Use more of that acting and less stock photo pictures. It's more organic and fun! Also great videos!

  • @kellydunn2528
    @kellydunn2528 5 років тому +5

    I'd love to be a part of your team. That I am afraid is a pipe dream. First, I am retired (nearly 63). Second, I live in Kansas City. And third, I could only be a contracting consultant. A part from those exceptions I'd love to come and join in the fun. It is fun isn't it? It looks fun.

  • @謝宗祐-j2x
    @謝宗祐-j2x 5 років тому +32

    Why the definition of "jerk" so similar to politicians? loll

    • @giovannid.6264
      @giovannid.6264 5 років тому +3

      And mentally ill people who put pineapple on pizza

    • @swabby429
      @swabby429 5 років тому

      Watch the finger-pointing my friend.

  • @jamierife7789
    @jamierife7789 5 років тому +4

    This was an extremely entertaining video! Thanks guys!

  • @Sam-lj9vj
    @Sam-lj9vj 5 років тому

    that smile at 1:42, that feeling when you know someone just lost the argument by starting to yell...

  • @Amory-wd3ws
    @Amory-wd3ws 5 років тому +1

    Preston's hair here was especially superb.

  • @michaelmcdonnell5998
    @michaelmcdonnell5998 5 років тому +2

    He attac
    He protec
    but most importantly
    He earn respec!

  • @patrickwwallace89
    @patrickwwallace89 5 років тому +2

    Hey, thank you for these videos! What a neat niche you're filling.

  • @geroldatlarge1841
    @geroldatlarge1841 5 років тому

    The channel is getting better.

  • @jamesrice21
    @jamesrice21 5 років тому +1

    I bet you guys had so much fun filming this haha!

  • @HeleneLogan
    @HeleneLogan 5 років тому

    Congratulations from one of the ladies and nice choice of bourbon there (3:39)! 😊

  • @silenos9955
    @silenos9955 5 років тому +1

    Since Preston has a beard, he looks like a good father.

  • @jeffreyyehezkiel8259
    @jeffreyyehezkiel8259 5 років тому

    This video have a lot of information. Gotta watch it again later. Thanks!

  • @nicejosq803
    @nicejosq803 5 років тому +1

    just t-pose to assert your dominance

  • @opetr198336
    @opetr198336 5 років тому +1

    Ye, I am all for continuing the “peasant” thing

  • @solecellarz2881
    @solecellarz2881 5 років тому

    The way Preston was carrying himself trying to muscle Sven. Where is Pesci to help Preston understand the error of his ways.

  • @alexandertheamerican9663
    @alexandertheamerican9663 5 років тому

    I struggle with criticism, I feel that if someone isn’t in charge they can’t give me criticism cause they shouldn’t be. Yet a lot wish to rule over others

  • @DavidLLambertmobile
    @DavidLLambertmobile 5 років тому

    We are all the heroes in our own stories ... 👍😉📖...

  • @sorabhsood
    @sorabhsood 5 років тому +1

    Thanks for sharing this video

  • @LoLo-zr7bk
    @LoLo-zr7bk 5 років тому +1

    I’m not a gentleman but I’m binging on your channel

  • @alexanderyu5234
    @alexanderyu5234 5 років тому

    Are you ever going to release more fashion-forward accessories?
    Ie: colored velvet , grenadine bow ties, velvet pocket squares, etc?

  • @thelegendofdarius
    @thelegendofdarius 5 років тому

    I need help! My parents want me to stop buying suits! Because they say that my closet is “too full”! I try to explain to them that I want to be well dressed but they respond aggressively like yelling in a high tone voice and yes I try to respect them as I can (BTW i’m from a Mexican family) so what can I do? 🤷🏻‍♂️😟

  • @Vincent_Pilsen
    @Vincent_Pilsen 5 років тому

    Preston would look gorgeous with a beard!!!

  • @Austin_IK
    @Austin_IK 5 років тому

    Thanks so much

  • @harraism
    @harraism 5 років тому +2

    Press "F" to earn respect.

  • @justjacqueline2004
    @justjacqueline2004 5 років тому

    Fantastic video.

  • @getrakd1885
    @getrakd1885 5 років тому

    I would greatly appreciate it if you continue to refer to people who wear tennis socks away from the court as 'like a peasant.'

  • @lxr_rl
    @lxr_rl 5 років тому +11

    Would love to see a proper beard on Preston!

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  5 років тому

      I'd like to try it, too--but alas, it's not to be. My facial hair is too patchy! Thanks for watching.
      - Preston

    • @TXCrafts1
      @TXCrafts1 5 років тому

      I think a Moustache is more suitable for Preston, It would give him that Clark Gable look.

  • @mamymimma
    @mamymimma 5 років тому

    Great video, thanks a lot!

  • @baskorohpradono7171
    @baskorohpradono7171 5 років тому

    Amazing new hairstyle,preston

  • @juliea.
    @juliea. 5 років тому +1

    I had found the D-bag comment from the other video funny. What a good video. I wish I could show this at my job!

  • @johnt2257
    @johnt2257 5 років тому

    Great video, thanks

  • @rafaelhunkeler8458
    @rafaelhunkeler8458 5 років тому +3

    Simple. Let others press F.

  • @nachiketh3650
    @nachiketh3650 5 років тому +1

    This won't work in college. Something to be done at your workplace.

  • @Elias-sk2nc
    @Elias-sk2nc 5 років тому +1

    Aus welchem Teil von Deutschland kommen sie eigentlich ?

    • @kellydunn2528
      @kellydunn2528 5 років тому

      Der große, blonde Kerl kommt nicht aus Deutschland. Ich glaube, er ist ein gebürtiger Minnesotan.

  • @PilotVolunteer
    @PilotVolunteer 5 років тому +1

    I enjoyed the peasant comment

  • @HoglyStevenson
    @HoglyStevenson 5 років тому +2

    Yessir! I like it!

  • @arbernani4727
    @arbernani4727 5 років тому

    We miss you Sven!

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  5 років тому +2

      What do you mean? a video of me has been published every week! Hit the bell next to the subscribe button so you get notified of all of our videos

    • @arbernani4727
      @arbernani4727 5 років тому

      Yes sir, I did hited that, but when you speak can concentrate instead when the other guy speaks. Don't take it wrong, neither you or him.
      Is just that you have your chevalier karizma, status and character not many have it.
      With all do respect, your big and young fan!

  • @TheTOBroShow
    @TheTOBroShow 5 років тому +1

    "Hello and welcome to the Gentleman's Gazette. Today we are going to show you how to [BLEEP] like a gentleman.

  • @elizabethpatrick7645
    @elizabethpatrick7645 5 років тому

    I get it - your family was quite talkative. But not interrupting a person is simply kindergarten good manners. It was good you changed.

  • @jinisong6312
    @jinisong6312 5 років тому

    A gentle man needs some humor😁

  • @emilianorabre6926
    @emilianorabre6926 5 років тому

    Number 10: pressing f

  • @klikkolee
    @klikkolee Рік тому

    "don't use strong words" is definitely not a correct lesson to learn from the "19 things men shouldn't wear" video. Words should be chosen to match what is being described. Generically avoiding strong words can lead to you understating things, which is a flaw unto itself.
    unless someone is taking inspiration from historical peasants or is in a similar life situation to a peasant, it is exceedingly unlikely that they will literally look like a peasant, so people will look to how peasants were perceived in history and popular fiction in order to interpret your statement metaphorically. Peasants were perceived as lesser people by non-peasants, and it is uncommon to see peasants depicted perceiving each other through the lens of the word "peasant". As such, your remarks will be interpreted as "it will make you look like a lesser person". There are exceedingly few clothing choices that will reflect negatively on a persons character in the eyes of a reasonable person.
    Appearance is subjective, so a statement of appearance will have a subject inferred. "You look like..." is almost universally interpreted as "I see you as...", so your remark was interpreted by many as "it will make me see you as a lesser person", and at this level of deconstruction, I think it should become obvious why people found the remark offensive. It's not the mere strength of your words -- it's the actual meaning of the words.
    For completeness, the alternative interpretation of "you look like..." is "other people will see you as...", which leads to "other people will see you as a lesser person". This is a statement of little value. a confident person does not need unreasonable people to think highly of them. So in the best case, the statement says nothing, and in the common case, it presents you as an unreasonable and snobbish person.

  • @abajaj1510
    @abajaj1510 5 років тому

    Germans doing comedy...so wholesome .....😀

  • @keyboardwarrior327
    @keyboardwarrior327 5 років тому +3

    Can't.
    I'm just kidding, I just can't watch the video right now. I'm excited to learn how I can do this though.

  • @purplefabian
    @purplefabian 5 років тому +1

    Is that new guy your boyfriend? Cute couple

  • @joshuacarlson240
    @joshuacarlson240 5 років тому

    Make a video on canes

  • @natsidrukdruk
    @natsidrukdruk 5 років тому

    Jerks, you mean a sociopath

  • @ghostygallagher
    @ghostygallagher 5 років тому +3

    if you have to drink please drink something better than Buffalo Trace lol, just joking super video

  • @emas5306
    @emas5306 5 років тому

    Wish 45 watched your videos

  • @chillerinstinct1
    @chillerinstinct1 5 років тому

    Just strange.

  • @loupanella9632
    @loupanella9632 5 років тому

    🤣🤣🤣 too funny!

  • @geralt.of.arabia9766
    @geralt.of.arabia9766 5 років тому

    What is that nice artwork behind you Mr. Raphael? I find it aesthetically pleasing, and would love to know where to get it.

  • @sugoi3082
    @sugoi3082 5 років тому

    Please, tell me the name of the music in the intro, or something similar

  • @MatthewJBD
    @MatthewJBD 5 років тому

    Ali G approves this video 🤙🏾👊🏾

  • @ProgressivePatriot28
    @ProgressivePatriot28 5 років тому

    Great video. But Raphael, fix your tie, man! The knot on that thing is always hanging off to your left. I know you prefer the four in hand knot and I'm not sure if this is a hallmark of that knot, but if it is there are lots of other tie knots.

  • @rovercoupe7104
    @rovercoupe7104 5 років тому

    The ‘J’ word shouldn’t be used by a gentleman. M.

  • @kostas5829
    @kostas5829 5 років тому +1

    An observation. Your posture is kind of wrong. You need to keep your back straight and your neck back.

  • @aquilestadeu
    @aquilestadeu 5 років тому

    😱😅😅😅😅😅Very good!

  • @boogalooblues3931
    @boogalooblues3931 5 років тому

    Don't be a peasant, be an #alpha like Sven

  • @pal98111
    @pal98111 5 років тому

    Please stop using profanity in your videos. It actually causes a loss of respect for me.

  • @OfficerBaron
    @OfficerBaron 5 років тому

    3rd comment

  • @jerkyscientist3333
    @jerkyscientist3333 5 років тому +1

    I'm truly sorry but can you make fashion or item videos instead since all about personality changing video never increase any of my aspects thank you

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  5 років тому +8

      Your comment makes it seem like you can in fact improve on the way you deal with others.

    • @MiniPaintAdventurer
      @MiniPaintAdventurer 5 років тому +2

      Gentleman's Gazette beat me to it!

    • @kohakuaiko
      @kohakuaiko 5 років тому +2

      "a fool abhors wise counsel"