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КОМЕНТАРІ • 411

  • @ajizzz_world4451
    @ajizzz_world4451 2 роки тому +111

    I realized that fact... Never ever will hurting anyone's with my words. 🙏🏻

  • @donnaowen8417
    @donnaowen8417 2 роки тому +42

    Thank you! These words of Supreme Buddha have changed my life today!

    • @mithmethviewer
      @mithmethviewer 2 роки тому

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  • @princeisha1234
    @princeisha1234 2 роки тому +75

    Lastday i was hurt my friend with in argument, now i realize i was wrong, and it's hurts me a lot,
    from now i don't hurt anyone in my words, i will change, change for better
    Namo Buddaya 🙏🌸🌸
    Thank You ❤️

    • @dilshandinusha7146
      @dilshandinusha7146 2 роки тому +2

      😞

    • @krupavathikrupa2654
      @krupavathikrupa2654 Рік тому +1

      Namo Buddaya. Sir your videos very usefull for us sir and your face is showing love and kindness its impact myself.

  • @racheljones9786
    @racheljones9786 Рік тому +8

    I am really going to try. I'm not perfect and dont know how long I can last as the two people I work with are both very controlling and will leave their work to others but i will keep trying.....
    You teachings are literally changing my life and helping me to deal with a difficult ongoing situation that I have control over.
    I'm so blessed to have found you and be on the buddist path. Sending love and happiness to you all.....
    Namo buddhayo 🙏

  • @wati51
    @wati51 2 роки тому +23

    Sir you have a lovely voice thank you for sharing supreme buddha's words

  • @all4family1000
    @all4family1000 2 роки тому +38

    I love the gentle words and the gentle manner in which you speak!

  • @Rashmiinspired
    @Rashmiinspired 2 місяці тому +1

    Namo Buddhay from Indian 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💫✨...I'm very grateful n thankful to buddhism because Buddhist monks helping people of whole world how to live as HUMAN ... Thank you so much❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lakewoodmontessori4353
    @lakewoodmontessori4353 2 роки тому +22

    I really appreciate this lesson. I will share it with my dear students.
    Grateful 🙏 🙏 🙏

  • @marilynbarton1811
    @marilynbarton1811 2 роки тому +38

    I learnt so much from you, thank you🙏🏻 I have been watching your videos and it has changed my attitude definitely for the better, you speak so calm humble and kindly and I am so grateful for your valuable teachings🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @susankingston8654
      @susankingston8654 Рік тому +1

      Same here.

    • @anudias9810
      @anudias9810 Рік тому

      Really, great thanks, luckily I saw those videos when I indeedly want someone to talk... But there's no one. Thanks

  • @ChiminNotJimin
    @ChiminNotJimin 3 місяці тому +3

    I realize this after those words that my family had caused me throughout my childhood. So i never hurt people with my words, even tho i still practice it everyday but i felt really happy for not saying bad words to people

  • @doriscoutinho9339
    @doriscoutinho9339 2 роки тому +12

    I love to listen to u... Very nice and beautiful message to us... Thank u God bless u for your good work...

  • @vikterathnayaka
    @vikterathnayaka 2 роки тому +5

    තෙරුවන් සරණයි ස්වාමින් වහන්ස ඔබ වහන්සේට සියඵු රැකවරණය ලැබේවා තෙරුවන් සරණයි නමෝබුද්දාය

  • @eessa1727
    @eessa1727 2 роки тому +59

    "Words can break hearts or words can make hearts"

  • @Padmaja5
    @Padmaja5 2 роки тому +12

    Your language is your essence
    Which attracts people like months towards you
    Be kind...spread peace ☮️
    God bless you all ❤️

  • @flowergirl7260
    @flowergirl7260 2 роки тому +3

    You embody these teachings so graciously. Thank you.

  • @vishnuadithya2125
    @vishnuadithya2125 Рік тому +5

    Remember, Words can make people as well as words can break people. greatest words. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @elizarodrigo8290
    @elizarodrigo8290 Рік тому +4

    That's true. I used to say harsh words in order for someone to understand their mistakes. I also thought that if I used harsh words or angry words that I would be the strongest ones. Thru listening to Buddhism, I have learned such a successful and kindly way and impurities way to speak without hurting other feelings

  • @sureshsaravanakumar9075
    @sureshsaravanakumar9075 2 роки тому +3

    Thanku small bro I like all uu good words and good information u give us .my husband hurts me and my children's very harshly .I feel like dieing .after hearing ur words iam satisfied.that today my pain will reach my husband any day by its karma

  • @thilinianuruddhikajayasing3678
    @thilinianuruddhikajayasing3678 2 роки тому +10

    Reverent sir, may you have the noble bliss of supreme buddha!!! නමෝ බුද්ධාය!!! තෙරුවන් සරණයි!!! සාදු! සාදු!! සාදු!!!

    • @DT-qc2ec
      @DT-qc2ec 2 роки тому +1

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  • @OneInterested
    @OneInterested Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing all the wonderful thoughts. I've practiced meditation for many years and love reading ancient wisdom of all kinds but somehow never found what I was looking for. Your videos have gently pointed me to things that were there all the time but somehow I couldn't see them before. Again I thank you and everyone involved in making this available to us. I wish for you and everyone a blessed happy life filled with much love

  • @codelta2
    @codelta2 2 роки тому +44

    Namo buddaya reverent sir, thank you for this beautiful message. If time permits and there is some possibility only I would love to hear some sermon about letting go of things in life and about being present in the moment without worrying about troubles of tomorrow.
    I am not a bhudhist but I can really understand some valuable lessons from the way you explain things which is why I thought of asking as I have been struggling with them for some time. Once again I apologise if I'm causing any inconvenience by such requests
    Theruwan saranai

    • @vijjanandadhamma
      @vijjanandadhamma 2 роки тому +5

      To really understand to let go it is best to practice vipasanna to see the cause of not letting go are sufferrings. Only then you will really agreed to let go.
      BUDDHAM SARANAM GACCHAMI

    • @IamValentina66
      @IamValentina66 Рік тому +1

      Beautiful answer

  • @kapilafavorites
    @kapilafavorites 2 роки тому +3

    Noma Buddhaya. My humble respect to to you sir! You are amazing! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jenniferheta6671
    @jenniferheta6671 2 роки тому +6

    Thankyou for your reminder. I will rethink my negative words to positive 💕❣🙏 Amen

  • @satyaratnashaurya062
    @satyaratnashaurya062 4 місяці тому +1

    Very inspiring and useful video.
    Vandami bhante ji,
    Namo Buddhay.

  • @shrutijoshi553
    @shrutijoshi553 2 роки тому +5

    Namo Buddhay 🙏💐 Vandami Bhanteji 🙏💐 well said . As psychotherapist & mental health counselor i experienced this ..

  • @jesrelatoz7669
    @jesrelatoz7669 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for this❤️❤️❤️ I am one of your avid followers from the Philippines 🇵🇭💓💓

  • @mercedesang1817
    @mercedesang1817 Рік тому

    Shalom reverend brrother monk of the supreme budha thank uou very much in lecturing about procastination and some teachings of the supreme budha am a catholic yet i really admire those enligthened words that inner most peace is being felt as i listen and put in action whatever those words implicates to myself aside from the homily from our liturgical services my human nature is being exalted to divinity by your supporting words of wisdom i got a very stronger self discipline base on inner peace and love for myself that usually radiates to others thus regaining smile from everyone whom im in contact with for your teachings pin points the negativity of being a human and what to do to acquire divine traites so as to achieve peace and contentment by being a positive thinker based on your lectures thank you so much and more power god reward you with your congregation and god bless , am mercedes ang from santa rosa laguna philippines

  • @michaellee5042
    @michaellee5042 2 роки тому +13

    Love your calmness at all times your an inspiration to me and thousands of others 🙏🌹

  • @satyaratnashaurya062
    @satyaratnashaurya062 Рік тому

    Ven. Bhante ji,
    Vandami!
    Very impressive and commendable voice in this video.
    Thank you very much.

  • @laxminagh0916
    @laxminagh0916 2 роки тому +8

    Harsh words are more dangerous to one self when compared to others ,always deliver your speech soft, kind ,manner, anyway nobody hurt themself, you always love yourself, the same applies for every human's physical foams, and as well as other creatures .

  • @rosemarievosburgh5377
    @rosemarievosburgh5377 Рік тому +2

    You do a wonderful job you have a wonderful voice and you’re very helpful to the human being thank you for all that you do I enjoy every single program thank you God bless

  • @khamano
    @khamano 2 роки тому +10

    🙏🙏🙏
    May we only speak gentle words 🌱🌼

  • @rewagarcha5527
    @rewagarcha5527 2 роки тому +5

    Speak Politely and Be kind to others.. Make this earth a better place..Thank You Sir.. Namo Budhaye🙏

    • @mithmethviewer
      @mithmethviewer 2 роки тому

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  • @positivevibes5610
    @positivevibes5610 2 роки тому +3

    Thankyou so very much for ur kind words & wisdom gratitude namo bhudaye 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @lambertthongnirit3150
    @lambertthongnirit3150 2 роки тому +6

    I always long to listen to you. Thank you for this beautiful video ☺

  • @priyankafernando5161
    @priyankafernando5161 2 роки тому +3

    We can gain good knowledge n good qualities by listening to this Theros
    videos 🙏 🙏 🙏

  • @yuvi_love2god
    @yuvi_love2god 7 місяців тому

    Thank you very much for giving these lines, "You should not speak all the things all the thoughts that comes to your mind".🌹🙏🏻

  • @dushantsakhare
    @dushantsakhare Рік тому

    Ur true student of supreme buddha.. ur my guru bhanteji..🙏🙏🙏

  • @hildachar
    @hildachar 4 місяці тому

    namo buddaya .this words make my heart melt. give speach about sansara bawey duka.සන්සාරය කලකිරිම

  • @RoyceKitts
    @RoyceKitts Рік тому

    It's like having a good friend sitting across from you. Thanks for visiting. Namo Buddaya

  • @vishnu-mp1pu
    @vishnu-mp1pu Рік тому +5

    I unintentionally used harsh words to people when mad and exactly noticed it bouncing back to me by someone else ( got hurt so badly from loved once ). I realized my mistakes. I'll never use harsh words anymore. I lacked wisdom and now I'm correcting myself. This video helped me a lot, tysm 🥰❤

  • @reinzsinjoy
    @reinzsinjoy 2 роки тому +1

    I realized the karma of my words flown out of my mouth and will never do it again. I will always remind of your wise advise and will always go to this video to remind myself every day to speak kind and gentle words especially I'm in the field of customer service

  • @yasmminkalpesi4605
    @yasmminkalpesi4605 Рік тому +1

    Yes our Supreme Buddha the great. The Best in the world. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐👍👍👍🌹🌹🌹

  • @jyotsnaranade1456
    @jyotsnaranade1456 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for such a beautiful enlightening message !

  • @sukanyabarua1231
    @sukanyabarua1231 2 роки тому +1

    Namo Buddhaya 🙏🌹 I try to be always nice and kindfulness behavior with everyone. Take my respect Bhante 🙏🌹

  • @LB-sg4ds
    @LB-sg4ds 2 роки тому +1

    Sir 🙏 you r the best teacher guider to chnge my life really I great ful to you namah budhayoo yours every words motivate inspiresing me 🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @sasmitasarangi183
    @sasmitasarangi183 Рік тому +1

    🙏🙏
    Your words are healing the pain of bad time, experiences

  • @janakachandrasekera39
    @janakachandrasekera39 Рік тому

    නමෝ බුද්ධාය .
    Venerable Thero,
    May you realize the "Four Noble Truths" in this Gautama Buddha's Dispensation.
    තෙරුවන් සරණයි!

  • @eleanorreyes512
    @eleanorreyes512 Рік тому

    Luv watching and listening to your kind words. I have learned a lot from you.
    May Father God continue to bless us all. 🙏 ❤

  • @drndomomelinguitherese
    @drndomomelinguitherese 2 роки тому +2

    I really appreciate your advised words of wisdom and knowledge of ourselves. Thank you so much.

    • @mithmethviewer
      @mithmethviewer 2 роки тому

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  • @sbamith3268
    @sbamith3268 2 роки тому

    Dear vanarable... I heard ur speech every day morning... Matta for u( Bangladesh)

  • @kusumadariwickramasinghe9042
    @kusumadariwickramasinghe9042 2 роки тому +5

    Words are like weapons... So we need to be careful with our own words.... Let's be good people with pleasant words.
    🙏🍃

  • @pradnyajadhav4437
    @pradnyajadhav4437 2 роки тому +4

    Namo buddhay 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹vandami bhanteji 🙏🙏🙏🌹 💐🌹💐🌹 🙏🇮🇳🙏🇱🇰🙏

  • @GAMERZMAD11
    @GAMERZMAD11 Рік тому

    Hi I love your teachings namo budhaya

  • @Ruby-mz6jm
    @Ruby-mz6jm 2 роки тому +1

    How Good it is to Hear you, It is only Peace!

  • @Armie_rose
    @Armie_rose 3 місяці тому +1

    I learn so much frm u..the way u speak..

  • @kavindunuwan
    @kavindunuwan 2 роки тому +6

    Namo Buddhaya...!!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @krishnaraog3528
    @krishnaraog3528 2 роки тому

    Beautiful and these loving words have changed my attitude ,I will try my level best to speak kindly....Namo Buddha ya

  • @chathushibandara2074
    @chathushibandara2074 2 роки тому +5

    Please post a video every day🥺🙏
    නමෝ බුද්ධාය..🙏
    තෙරුවන් සරණයි..🙏

  • @HaNguyen-ml7pj
    @HaNguyen-ml7pj 2 роки тому

    I am grateful of what you have shared with us. Nammo Buddha.

  • @SUSAN-ix5uu
    @SUSAN-ix5uu Рік тому

    Love to hear your advice young brother always.....and besides I always do loving kindness meditation 🧘‍♂️ I love BUDDHIST

  • @maddalaashokkumar5197
    @maddalaashokkumar5197 2 роки тому +2

    Nice words guruji🙏words can make people.. Words can break people

  • @snehalshikhare5068
    @snehalshikhare5068 7 місяців тому

    Thank you. Sir you have a very convincing tone.

  • @empower_angel5892
    @empower_angel5892 2 роки тому +1

    True I try to control my anger and response too quick no one is perfect all need to practice patience. Thank

  • @lindacatalano3244
    @lindacatalano3244 2 роки тому

    Thankyou for this wisdom. Namaste 🙏

  • @bettyamoah6100
    @bettyamoah6100 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks for the message! Love ❤️ it!

  • @jawaharpawar1425
    @jawaharpawar1425 8 місяців тому

    Pujaneey bhanteji trivar panchyang parnam namo Buddha namo dhammay namo sanghay Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu

  • @geetahluwalia3236
    @geetahluwalia3236 2 роки тому +3

    Truely Said.Thank You So Much.

  • @fatimamercado9436
    @fatimamercado9436 2 роки тому

    I like it the way you speak, so gentle and mild..

  • @sherylannesi8032
    @sherylannesi8032 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for reminding myself to always speak nice and kind words even it is difficult to do it sometimes❤️ thank you!❤

  • @HH-80
    @HH-80 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing your valuable words and please never stop 🙏🏻

  • @Bagellatte
    @Bagellatte Рік тому

    I was hurt by my loved one recently with his harsh words and always I get hurt by his words… it just kills me just by his words… 😢 but I don’t judge him or get angry because you have taught me to accept and forgive people🙏🏻

  • @dollyvirgo3677
    @dollyvirgo3677 2 роки тому

    You speak so gently and very clearly.I learn a lot frm you..thank you so much.

    • @mithmethviewer
      @mithmethviewer 2 роки тому

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  • @RadhaRani-iw2yb
    @RadhaRani-iw2yb 2 роки тому

    Excellent sir.god bless you for this heavenly words. I clean from inside.

  • @srimanja88
    @srimanja88 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks, Rev Sir, for the good advice.

  • @dipakshinde3072
    @dipakshinde3072 2 роки тому +9

    Speak all the good i know of everybody ......

  • @savitapaikrao7313
    @savitapaikrao7313 2 роки тому

    Nice speech Bhanteji🙏💐 I really Realized that word can make people And word can break people....!

  • @prabhatkiaur
    @prabhatkiaur 2 роки тому

    आती जाती सांस में प्रकृति का सारा रहस्य छिपा ही 🌹

  • @sagarrajak3826
    @sagarrajak3826 2 роки тому +5

    Namoh Buddhai Namah 🙏🙏🙏

  • @divyakm6630
    @divyakm6630 2 роки тому +1

    Your looking like supreme buddha..🙏🙏🙏

  • @ruparohini733
    @ruparohini733 2 роки тому

    Thank you very much bhanthe. It's a very good advice 👌. Theruwan Saranai.

  • @anildhammika1841
    @anildhammika1841 2 роки тому +1

    Wow wonderful teaching🙏🙏🙏🙏🌷🌷🌷🌷❤️🇮🇹

  • @siddaramsakhare8322
    @siddaramsakhare8322 Рік тому

    God has given us two important qualities one is thinking & another is talking or speaking if we make use of these qualities on right path means thoughts of beneficial & talks of kindness.

  • @shamachinnannavar-khot6506
    @shamachinnannavar-khot6506 2 роки тому +2

    @6:55 to 8:10👌😊🙏🏻
    But harsh words works better than nice words on some rude people!! Kyun ki laaton ke booth baaton se nahi mante kabhi kabhi!! ❤️😊🙏🏻

  • @LB-sg4ds
    @LB-sg4ds 2 роки тому +1

    Really I realise my mistake today so many times I used harse words to other form today onword I try to use pleasure kinds words to others namah budhaya .

  • @jayvidanage415
    @jayvidanage415 2 роки тому

    It is really true.words can make people and words can break people ..may the triple jem bless

  • @byagarimuthyam5347
    @byagarimuthyam5347 2 місяці тому

    Words can make people, words can break people...namo budhaya 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @mannkibaatien3275
    @mannkibaatien3275 2 роки тому

    Very sweet voice aapko sunkar thodu der ke liye man ko shanti mil jati hai par jinke sath rah rahu hu wi itne toxic hai ki gussa aa hi jata hai kash ham sab aapki tarah ban pate

  • @sonamdol1585
    @sonamdol1585 Рік тому

    Namo Budha,🙏🙏. Yeah, I respect positive word ,it can heal, lead and correct ones broken heart. Other hand negative word can break , suffer and kill ones soul forever ....also harsh gesture can threats animals even it can not understand work ....thanks great teacher i'll keep in mind always. ..be kind with all sentients being always. I'll try to create oneness in my mind ,whenever I go and whomever I met 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @chathurarathnasekara1123
    @chathurarathnasekara1123 2 роки тому +4

    Spread love kindness ❤️

  • @vineelgraduate4693
    @vineelgraduate4693 2 роки тому

    It's a great message for to overcome the current problems.

  • @jhancyrahulpleaseuf319
    @jhancyrahulpleaseuf319 2 роки тому

    Thank usir for yor intelligent words this teaching is very helpful to us

  • @barbaravanderkooi7548
    @barbaravanderkooi7548 6 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing this information 🙏🏻

  • @kohtarwara6445
    @kohtarwara6445 Рік тому

    Namo Buddhaya...
    Thank you.

  • @yasmminkalpesi4605
    @yasmminkalpesi4605 Рік тому +1

    Namo Buddhaya. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Paing_9
    @Paing_9 2 роки тому +1

    From today I try to use good words w everyone💖
    Namo buddhaya🙏

    • @mithmethviewer
      @mithmethviewer 2 роки тому

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  • @revathis1460
    @revathis1460 2 роки тому

    I think one of the best to live a loving life, thank you, namo bhdhayaha

  • @ashwinisonawane88
    @ashwinisonawane88 2 роки тому +1

    We love Lord Buddha.

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 Рік тому

    Much appreciated thankyou 💕😊

  • @camiedes7488
    @camiedes7488 2 роки тому +3

    🙏🙏💝🙏🙏 I usually keep a low Profile... being a Fish💝 Thank you so much for your guidance always gentle Thero. In which Temple are you in Thero? Namo Buddhaya 🙏