How To Say No To Unimportant Things In Life | Buddhism In English
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0:00 - intro
4:35 - Build Self Awareness
6:53 - Cultivate Self-discipline
9:03- Understand That Your Time Is Valuable
10:42 - Ask The Magic Question
12:03 - Figure Out What's Important To You
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I am a muslim.i subscribe this channel for listening practice and i watch his video regularly but there is one thing also i want to say that his advice is very helpful in practical life.
Knowledge has no any religion brother ,I am also muslim
Muslim or anyother, (Allah) spoke about the same thing just different language and time. Peace doesn't belong to anyone or thing it's within you.
And I am Christian and agree with you. He is a beautiful soul and I find his videos and shorts very calming and centering. Peace be upon us all.
Religion is nothing but an excuse brother we all know that we are human ❤
Namo ❤Buttaya all year long. DearBoudist. But. what does it mean?.And is it well written. 🍐🥭Happy New Year.
1) Self awareness. Ask your self "why do you need to do this? Is it helpful to you, is it helpful to others?".
2) Self discipline. Know the priority and say no to less important things.
3) Know that time is limited. Look at time as you look at money. Then you will use it seriously. Money can be earned. But time cannot.
4) ask "is it really necessary". For example, scrolling social media vs talking to your kids
5) know what matters to you. Whats the most impt thing to do today to achieve the larger purpose?
I am sri lankan and i am buddhist. දවසක හාමුදුරුවන්ගෙන් සජීවීව බනක් අහන්න ආසයි. හිත නිවන බනක් 🙏
I'm a Muslim but I listen this chaneel regularly
Just few months before I listen these videos for learning English
Now I listen these videos for learning about life
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Actually you are learning Hinduism values because Buddism and Hinduism are same 😉🌚✔️
Not same there has some difference@@Neet-lofisantani
@@Neet-lofisantani There are differences.
Jia u 😊
After my husband passed away last March, I realized life is so short and fragile. Thus, I am now gradually learning to say no to things or persons that don't appreciate me and that stirs up negative feelings in me.
Yes.....
Exactly,...well said & makes great sense!
Bless you. ❤ You're so right to prioritise yourself and positive experiences. 🙏❤
Good job 👍❤
I'm sorry for your loss and I'm proud of you for filtering what is important to you🙏🏻❤️
And the conclusion is ......In order to achieve a happy life We have to learn to say no to unimportant things in life😊
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Buddhism is Universal Truth ,And also Nature Truth we all are under that so live peacefuly "Namo Budhaya "🌍🌎🌏
This sweet man has such a sweet and loving manner..such wise words..wish could carry him around in my pocket to always be there to guide me 🙏🏻
Yes I feel calm looking at his smile.
Buddha's teachings lead to Peace!
Yes!!!!
I'm a catholic eversince but I like the teachings of it coz it's taught us to be more understanding of teachings of buddha.i really amazed by their teachings about life.
Yes I am also catholic but I am drawn to his teachings.
Best channel to make your mind strong and focused. Iam CA student watching this video and really got inspired. And really from now i am trying to say no to the people who wasting my time.❤
It's completely being controled by watching this Buddha's teachings it's awesome
Would love more guided meditations on the channel. Your voice. Your presence is so calming
Your smile and loving manner are a gift to us all. thank-you!
the smiley vibe makes me want to listen!
Most people like listening to you because of the media selected and the way you explain. Use relevant examples, simple language, and the subject content is suitable for this modern society.
i am a Catholic yet always enjoy your videos🙏🙏🙏
they are related to my daily life
Thank you so much Banthe🌺🌺🌺🌺
Namo budhayaa🙏🙏
God Blessings my Budist young friend.
I adore listening to your teachings.
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Thanks a lot Sir for this Valuable session🙏🙏❤❤. I needed this very very much.
7:51-8:30 The most important thing in your life is the learning process,that is what helps to achieve more success.Learn to DISCARD the unimportant,fancy things in life and Practice SELF-DISCIPLINE.
9:57-10:41 - Respect time. It is more valuable than money. Money can be earned again but Lost time is never found again.
Ask this magic question to yourself before doing anything :- "IS IT REALLY NECESSARY? Will it even help me ? " Channelize your valuable time in doing something valuable.
Saying NO can be really hard but in order to achieve a happy and calmer life, a more disciplined life. we've to say NO to the unimportant things in life . PRACTICE these little tips and you will be happy in your life
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A pure pleasure to listen to. Simple words, clear explanations that are logical and thought-provoking. Always calm and smiling. I listen and try to apply.
You are best teacher in today's era.
Namesty!
His name plz???
Namo Buddhaya. තෙරුවන් සරණයි 🙏🙏🙏
Yes saying NO is very difficult and ppl always take advantage of me because of that. Thank u very much for this teaching 🙏🙏🙏
Your video on Buddhism is a treasure trove of wisdom. We are grateful for your dedication to spreading these teachings. 🌸
Wishing that everyone who watches this video will be safe, healthy, have all their wishes fulfilled, and any prayers answered. May those who feel lonely find comfort, those in poverty escape hardship, and those without daily sustenance have enough to eat and wear.
Thank you so much🙏. God bless you!
THANK YOU. 🙏🏽
I wish the same for you! Much love from San Francisco. ♥️🌉💫
Absolutely true. Great advice for the young
It seems like every week, you teach me an answer to a problem in my life that is relevant and needed the same week! I am so grateful for your teachings, Namo Buddhahaya 🙏
I am Human, but this is good to build our personality.
😊❤Namo Budhaya
So peaceful. The hardest word to utter but one to change our lives!
God has Blessed you with a beautiful smile n adorimg looks and beautiful voice.🙏
Dear thero,can you please bring a video for teenagers, how to change their lives in a good way🙏
Sir, yes please ...
I also finding for a video like that ... I think it will be very use full for all teenagers.
As a counselor I also would like to recommend that topic sir..
Through simple advice it will bring lot of changes in our life say to impt and no to unimportant.Tq sir
@@Shehani911 thank you very much for your advices 🌼
Son of Lord buddy's, thank you so much for this very valuable lesson. This is very important lesson to everyone. May you attend Nirvana soon. "Pin sidu weva ".
Namo Buddhaya🙏🏾🙏🏾✨🧘🏾♀️
Your advice requires FREEDOM
Something I missed in life till now.. Thank you !!
I love this, Buddhist wisdom is always great
Sa-Thu Sa-Thu Sa-thu
I come from Thailand. I respect and believe in Buddhism
Monk sir. My English almost intermediate, I'm practicing to listen to monk in english and also practice english. Sir
Watching and listening to buddhas teachings leads to peace and happiness. Thank you❤
Really Really Needed of this advice 🙏🙏Thank you Thank you so much Dearest Bhanteji 😊😊❤️🙏😌Namo Buddhay 😊❤️🙏🙏😌😌
He is very good 👍. God chosen him to deliver us the good words.
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What a pleasant personality. Thank you very much for sharing your wisdom with us. Namo Buddhaya..🙏🙏🙏
Your advice and words brings me positive impact in me , thank you lord 🙏🙏. Namo Buddhaya 🌹❤️
Thank you so much! All your videos are so useful for me!
thanks for sharing your thoughts♥️♥️♥️
Thank you so much venerable bhante for valuable teachings about life's lessons. In a simple way. Namo buddhaya...!🙏☸️
Thank you❤❤❤
Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤
Thank u for spreading valueble advice
Thank you dear graceful Reverend for the wonderful videos. Though I'm a catholic I love to listen to you.
You are doing a global service ..hamuduruwane...
I greatly appreciate your videos. They bring me peace. 😊❤
Your tone, body language itself is so calm and healing, Namo Buddhaya 🙏
I like how he never talk about Bhudda or religion in his videos, the videos are very practical and anyone can do it to achieve what they want to achieve. I would like to see more videos like this to improve my inner self
This monk always talks about the core of buddhism. As a buddhist I could say a lot of buddhist people like me doesnt know much about these p ractical teachings of lord buddha. These days a many people try to promote their religion among the others exept try to get the core values in it. I respect this monk for without promoting the religion and try to give message to whole world according to buddhas real teachings.
I'm part of earth.🌎
Thanks, I needed to hear this!
Really it is very important in my life.... I want to follow this advise without fail...
Thank you so much for your wise advice, You are helping me to take good decision at right time
Namo Buddhaya.
I just found this channel. What a blessing and what a gift.
so many times in my life i have said YES to people when i really wanted to say NO but just could never do so ( I am 70 ) .This has been since i was a child , its the problem of being a people pleaser Now as i have got older i have learned to say NO , if i do not want to do something or go somewhere i say NO .People have to to take me as i am or not at all. just catching up on your videos as i have only just seen them , i am enjoying them very much .
Thank you so much for this great reminder ❤ Namo buddhaya
Before, My mind was seeking this advise indirectly,now i have got it,and understand the vital thing many thanks and appriciation to the true monk😊
Thank you brother for sharing this beautiful words to us 🖐️❤️🙏
Thank you for such wonderful and practical advice. Namo Buddhaya.
Of course we often face this situation.
The way you have explained to us is amazing and teaches how to behave politely while saying no. Thank u so much🙏.
Thank you so much for all you share with us. Making me feel better about myself and those around me.
Wow!
Very Deep Words❤
Namho Budhaya🙏
Do the best thing that contributes to humanity 😊
You are so right I noticed when my children were very young first three words was dada mama then we grow 🪴 up have forgotten how to say no I think we get embarrassed and say in our minds people won't feel the same about us 🙏 be child 🚸 sometimes thank you for always for your sensible words
I was finding a solution for this problem for about a long period of time. Today I am very happy with this video session. I share all the merits that I've collected all over my life time. May you realize the four noble truths in Gauthama Buddha;s dispensation!... Namo Buddhaya! Theruwan Saranai pinwath swamin wahansa!...
So nice to hear.
Thanks to Buddhism! Thanks to master! Wish all for everyone!
Your video change my life
බුදුසරණයි...!❤☸️🙏
I love listening to his teachings, they bring me peace.❤
Very well laid down steps for increasing valuable moments in.life ❤
Thank you! ❤ Your teachings are important in my life. This is time that I gladly spend. A wonderful thing that you do. Again, thank you!
Namo Buddhaye bhante ji 😊.
It's very important information. I'm really thankful to you 🙏🙏🙏.
I love listening to his teachering over and over again thank you so much
Your voice is heartaches namo buddaye
Thank you.. 🙏
Namo budhaya ... 🙏
Namo Buddhaya.excellent teaching.
From today onwards I will try to implement this things in my life slowly and i will try improve in life by say NO to unnecessary things. Thank you so much Bhante.Namo Buddhaya.🙏🙏
My dear mentor Bhante I simply like and love you.
Wow God Blessings To my Buddha's Friend.
Thank you Sir for this valuable session ....🌹 Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏
1.self awareness
2.self discipline
3.understand time is valuable
4.ask magic question
Namo buddhaya ☮️🛐🙏🏻
He has a divine smile.
Thats very valuable advice ...
Thank you so much ❤ it's very important vedio
Thank you ❤️I have learned a lot that really matters to me ...
Thank you very much, beautiful teachings! :)
Thank you Bhante. You are a blessing to this world 🙏🙏🙏
Learning lecture good massage for everyone life thanks to buddhist monks, sadar abhinandan
You are so absolutely right, thank you 🙏. Namo Buddhaya 🌹❤️
Thank you. Blessings to you. ❤
Thank you for gracefully put advice..
I love Buddhist teachings,subscribed.😊
Each and every words are priceless thank you
Thanks a lot. Time is very valuable nowadays. We have to appreciate our time refusing unimportant things. 🙏
It's true ❤🎉 thank you 🙏🏽💯💖🙏🏽👌🙏🏽
Thank you for Making life easier 🙏