Seems like his parents just wanted an excuse to get rid of him. And when things went south for them, they tried to kiss his arse to get him to forgive them. They never loved OP.
Sorry, but story number 1 never happened. How do I know. By law therapist, psychologist, and counselors are all obligated by law to report crimes. She tells a therapist she lied about #ape she would be in serious trouble. Nice story, but not real. Do you really think that parents that found out their son was falsely accused of SA, and I even mean terrible parents would not ask for an investigation by police. Something is fishy here.
Story 1: Do not forgive nor contact that family (except for the brother). They didn’t believe OP, nor give him a chance to share his side of things. I really hate that evil ex, anyone who cries wolf not only ruins the lives of the falsely accused but also diminish the credibility of actual victims.
S2. So, you hide from your BF that you have very regular contact with someone that is very clearly interested in you? And even have alone time him? Cmon... You may not have cheated but you surely did your best to make it look like you did.
1- She says in the story that Paul knew of all of outings and that she’d inform him of what she’s doing. 2- Roger stopped showing signs of interest after he was rejected when he first confessed. 3- She never had a relationship or deep friendship with Roger. I do agree it was stupid of her to form a friendship even a minor one with Roger. That said the issue here lays more with Paul’s trust issues than anything else.
@@darth3911 Damn, you should learn how to read... 1- "She says in the story that Paul knew of all of outings and that she’d inform him of what she’s doing." did you miss the "with someone that is very clearly interested in you?" or did you ignore it on purpose to have reason to talk? like a kid trying to join the adult's conversation? 2- "Roger stopped showing signs of interest after he was rejected when he first confessed." and...? She literally admitted that she will drop friends who show interest from now on so even OP tells you this point makes no sense. 3 -"She never had a relationship or deep friendship with Roger" yet she has alone time with him while hiding from her boyfriend that he confessed to her... Seriously, why do you make a concerted effort to ignore the most important part: she hide that roger was interested in her?
@@VRDejaVu Nah it’s you who doesn’t. 1- Again she said she didn’t know Roger still had feelings and that he’d acted as if he lost his feelings a long time ago. Do note that they talked every so often and he showed no interest for four years. 2- Again at the time she thought he lost his feelings of love for her. She also didn’t admit that she’d drop friends who show interest. What she said is “from now on I will drop anyone who shows interest in me while I am dating” major difference in meaning. 3- She never had “alone time with Roger hiding from her boyfriend.” Story literally says she left the coffee shop when she realized he still had feelings for her. When she was driving him Roger massaged her boyfriend with the aim of breaking them apart. Once she arrived Paul her boyfriend already read the message and demanded she leave. Before she gone to the coffee shop Paul was aware that she was friends with Roger and that they were getting coffee to catch up on life events. The poster made it known they had coffee before so she had expected nothing of what was about to happen. Again she did not know he still had feelings for her.
@@darth3911 Maybe learn to read little dude. I never said she hid the alone time. I said she hid his confession. The fact you need to make verifiably false claims to even have a semblance of a point says everything i need to know how you. Are you a christian or something? You behave as dishonestly as expected from one.
If I was the father, I would have pursued legal justice for my son. I would have completely cut contact with the ex and made sure everyone knew what she is capable of. These stories happen so often and there is literally no protection for men against it. He literally lost everything. No justice.
in s2, if paul has trust issues because of cheating, and op goes have coffee with a guy, said guy then says something about relationships on facebook for paul to see, and then paul finds out that this guy in particular was in love with op 5 years ago and op didnt tell paul about that... i mean, what the fuck does op expect from paul? what baffles me here is that she thinks paul is being unreasonsable for not believing her. doesnt she not realize that she did lie to him? not all lies have to be told, sometimes you lie by omision, not telling paul about the other guy loving her is a lie by omission. and im sure she knows it is, it was just convenient for her to not said it. she acts as if she did nothing wrong, but is clear to me that she lied by not sharing important info on purpose just because sharing it was not convenient to her way of life, at the end of the day, ironically, the one that didnt trust the other was her, she didnt trust paul with the truth
Agreed. Had she told Paul Roger had previouskly declared his love for OP even if it was three years ago, I doubt he would have been ok with her having coffee dates with him.
The woman with the friend who said he loved her - The only reason your friend knew to use that weapon against your boyfriend, is because YOU told him about your boyfriends insecurity. You are not innocent in this at all. 1) You probably knew he liked you and you kept him around for the ego boost. 2) You kept him around after he said he like you, again probably for the ego boost. 3) You told him about your boyfriend, so he knew to use it as a weapon against him.
Story1.The fact they kept in contact with that slimy skunk is more than enough of a reason to keep the estrangement. The brother is the only one to keep contact with.
Story 1: I do love how OP showed the pictures of his wife, kids and extended family. Shoving it in his parents faces that they would never know about his family, never get to be around their grandkids and DIL. Telling that backstabbing skank azz whor that she could have had all of that. That seriously cut them deep. I didn't know that it is possible to block a number on all devices on your plan. Learn something new. It was a nice surprise to hear that his brother did have his back. Just couldn't get a hold of him to tell him. They can reconnect now.
Blood doesn't mean shit sometimes. That family, aside from the brother, needs to be disowned themselves. I know firsthand how difficult it is to remove a family member from my life, but you will see the difference in how simply not having them around will make your life better. It's sad but is what it is.
S1: Wow, he did not got well with his brother. Yet his brother was the only one willing to help him despite their difference. The sperm donor and breeding machine failed.
@@mirrorflame1988she’s literally not taking any responsibility for the fact that she didn’t tell Paul that Roger still loved her and asked her out in the past. She is putting all responsibility on a Paul but taking no fault for not telling him about it at the beginning. Sorry but she isn’t completely innocent as she didn’t safeguard her relationship against outside evil
@@LifeOfAnAwkwardOreoHad you not listed to the story? She says she thought Roger got over his feelings as after he confessed she rejected him and stopped talking with him for a year. When they met again he acted as if he had no feelings making her assume he’s over it. Additionally she never had a deep relationship or even friendship with Roger.
The op should've cut off Roger after she got with Paul, but no she dodges all the responsibility Paul does need therapy but he deserves someone more responsible
I don't trust story 1. she said what was the point in being faithful to just get dumped... IT's called self respect. If i was dating her and heard her say that it's over
story 1.........if the father who threw me away like trash showed up on my door step he would gotten his arse kicked and sent home lumped with a message for the rest to never contact me ever again
S1: Op did is the definition of bonce back. The father mother and ex can go rot in hell for what they did. If getting accused of a hanus crime is one thing getting abandoned by those that are suppose to protect you is something that nobody deserves
Story two she either actually cheated or emotionally cheated and obviously Paul had reason to suspect. She's acting like she has no fault when in reality she set herself up.
I've been in cheap relationships where I've been cheated on in fact I've only ever had 2 true relationships first one was for 10 years the second 1 was for 7 years And they both cheated on me which really f***** my head up but if you are that messed up or you can't trust at all and don't be in a f****** relationship simple is that
When youre dating aomeone woth that level pf trist issues, theyre not going to listen to ypu. Ots confirmation bias. Theyre just WAITING for ypu to do anything that makes ypu a cheater in their mond. Learn your lesson, move on. If it wasnt Roger it was going to be someone else.
This is ridiculous levels of reaching. OP explicitly states that she and Roger werent that close as friends and that her BF knew about the coffee dates. Why do you want the girl to be guilty so bad that you need to warp her own story to fit your fanfic?
Story 1: the OP did right to not forgive the egg donor, sperm donor, and lying, cheating ex. Story 2: Paul and Roger are both trash and OP is better without either of them.
You didn't realise in story 2 the OP was playing victim card and Paul also had previous trust issues he had good reasons to doubt OP he isn't in the condition to trust anyone
@@lindah3803 You want a guy to believe you and you didn’t tell him about your friend who said he loves you go have lunch with him and you want your husband to be fine with it. 😂😂😂😂😂 This is why men don’t take certain women serious.
@@Majestic31520 OP had forgotten about it. It happened years ago. They had even been separated for a long time. They only met back up because of them having the same friend group. OP wasn't in to him back then or now. After reconnecting, the guy didn't show any signs of him still being in love with OP until he sprung it on her at lunch. It's not on OP that the BF dove straight into the lies that the guy put out. Also Men are just as guilty. They forget about a woman who processed their love years ago.
@@lindah3803 She didn't forget, she thought it didn't matter anymore cause he wasn't actively trying to hook up with her at the moment. Still would've been smarter to tell her then bf she's still friends with someone who made a pass at her.
@@darkknight3037if I am serious about someone, I willingly give my phone password. Only thing that is off limits is my work app, but that one has Face ID to even access it
story 1: OP should forgive only his brother, he tried to contact and help OP but the mother blocked OP
Seems like his parents just wanted an excuse to get rid of him. And when things went south for them, they tried to kiss his arse to get him to forgive them. They never loved OP.
Sorry, but story number 1 never happened. How do I know. By law therapist, psychologist, and counselors are all obligated by law to report crimes.
She tells a therapist she lied about #ape she would be in serious trouble. Nice story, but not real. Do you really think that parents that found out their son was falsely accused of SA, and I even mean terrible parents would not ask for an investigation by police. Something is fishy here.
It seems from the edit he did forgive his brother
Story 1: Do not forgive nor contact that family (except for the brother). They didn’t believe OP, nor give him a chance to share his side of things. I really hate that evil ex, anyone who cries wolf not only ruins the lives of the falsely accused but also diminish the credibility of actual victims.
S2. So, you hide from your BF that you have very regular contact with someone that is very clearly interested in you? And even have alone time him?
Cmon... You may not have cheated but you surely did your best to make it look like you did.
1- She says in the story that Paul knew of all of outings and that she’d inform him of what she’s doing.
2- Roger stopped showing signs of interest after he was rejected when he first confessed.
3- She never had a relationship or deep friendship with Roger.
I do agree it was stupid of her to form a friendship even a minor one with Roger.
That said the issue here lays more with Paul’s trust issues than anything else.
@@darth3911 Damn, you should learn how to read...
1- "She says in the story that Paul knew of all of outings and that she’d inform him of what she’s doing." did you miss the "with someone that is very clearly interested in you?" or did you ignore it on purpose to have reason to talk? like a kid trying to join the adult's conversation?
2- "Roger stopped showing signs of interest after he was rejected when he first confessed." and...? She literally admitted that she will drop friends who show interest from now on so even OP tells you this point makes no sense.
3 -"She never had a relationship or deep friendship with Roger" yet she has alone time with him while hiding from her boyfriend that he confessed to her...
Seriously, why do you make a concerted effort to ignore the most important part: she hide that roger was interested in her?
@@VRDejaVu Nah it’s you who doesn’t.
1- Again she said she didn’t know Roger still had feelings and that he’d acted as if he lost his feelings a long time ago.
Do note that they talked every so often and he showed no interest for four years.
2- Again at the time she thought he lost his feelings of love for her. She also didn’t admit that she’d drop friends who show interest.
What she said is “from now on I will drop anyone who shows interest in me while I am dating” major difference in meaning.
3- She never had “alone time with Roger hiding from her boyfriend.” Story literally says she left the coffee shop when she realized he still had feelings for her.
When she was driving him Roger massaged her boyfriend with the aim of breaking them apart. Once she arrived Paul her boyfriend already read the message and demanded she leave.
Before she gone to the coffee shop Paul was aware that she was friends with Roger and that they were getting coffee to catch up on life events. The poster made it known they had coffee before so she had expected nothing of what was about to happen. Again she did not know he still had feelings for her.
@@darth3911 Maybe learn to read little dude. I never said she hid the alone time. I said she hid his confession.
The fact you need to make verifiably false claims to even have a semblance of a point says everything i need to know how you. Are you a christian or something? You behave as dishonestly as expected from one.
Thats... the exact opposite of what she said happened but if you wanna make fanfics to hate her you go I guess
If I was the father, I would have pursued legal justice for my son. I would have completely cut contact with the ex and made sure everyone knew what she is capable of. These stories happen so often and there is literally no protection for men against it. He literally lost everything. No justice.
I’d have said, “Leave and never return. You are not my father and I am not your son. Get out, now.” I’d be seething.
in s2, if paul has trust issues because of cheating, and op goes have coffee with a guy, said guy then says something about relationships on facebook for paul to see, and then paul finds out that this guy in particular was in love with op 5 years ago and op didnt tell paul about that... i mean, what the fuck does op expect from paul? what baffles me here is that she thinks paul is being unreasonsable for not believing her. doesnt she not realize that she did lie to him? not all lies have to be told, sometimes you lie by omision, not telling paul about the other guy loving her is a lie by omission. and im sure she knows it is, it was just convenient for her to not said it.
she acts as if she did nothing wrong, but is clear to me that she lied by not sharing important info on purpose just because sharing it was not convenient to her way of life, at the end of the day, ironically, the one that didnt trust the other was her, she didnt trust paul with the truth
Agreed. Had she told Paul Roger had previouskly declared his love for OP even if it was three years ago, I doubt he would have been ok with her having coffee dates with him.
100% but then again she avoiding accountability
I think she told her “friend” that her boyfriend had trust issues.
S1: i commend OP for his self control cause if it was me and i saw the one who accused me i would rack a felony
Only a felony? Wow, you have remarkable restraint yourself then. I would have caught a life sentence.
The woman with the friend who said he loved her - The only reason your friend knew to use that weapon against your boyfriend, is because YOU told him about your boyfriends insecurity. You are not innocent in this at all. 1) You probably knew he liked you and you kept him around for the ego boost. 2) You kept him around after he said he like you, again probably for the ego boost. 3) You told him about your boyfriend, so he knew to use it as a weapon against him.
Story1.The fact they kept in contact with that slimy skunk is more than enough of a reason to keep the estrangement. The brother is the only one to keep contact with.
Story 1: I do love how OP showed the pictures of his wife, kids and extended family. Shoving it in his parents faces that they would never know about his family, never get to be around their grandkids and DIL. Telling that backstabbing skank azz whor that she could have had all of that. That seriously cut them deep.
I didn't know that it is possible to block a number on all devices on your plan. Learn something new.
It was a nice surprise to hear that his brother did have his back. Just couldn't get a hold of him to tell him. They can reconnect now.
I would probably do the same thing like OP. If my parent/family & ex gf did that to me.
What worried me is that the parents and his ex might stalk the family since they seems never can let go.
@@kos2919 They might. Didn't OP threaten them with the cops and restraining orders if they came around.
Ex Girlfriend, not wife
Blood doesn't mean shit sometimes. That family, aside from the brother, needs to be disowned themselves. I know firsthand how difficult it is to remove a family member from my life, but you will see the difference in how simply not having them around will make your life better. It's sad but is what it is.
S1: Wow, he did not got well with his brother. Yet his brother was the only one willing to help him despite their difference. The sperm donor and breeding machine failed.
The OP is better off with neither Paul or Roger.
Paul needs therapy and to get everything in his head out. Too many people carry over bitter relationships and hurt innocent partners.
@@mirrorflame1988she’s literally not taking any responsibility for the fact that she didn’t tell Paul that Roger still loved her and asked her out in the past. She is putting all responsibility on a Paul but taking no fault for not telling him about it at the beginning. Sorry but she isn’t completely innocent as she didn’t safeguard her relationship against outside evil
@@LifeOfAnAwkwardOreoHad you not listed to the story?
She says she thought Roger got over his feelings as after he confessed she rejected him and stopped talking with him for a year.
When they met again he acted as if he had no feelings making her assume he’s over it. Additionally she never had a deep relationship or even friendship with Roger.
The op should've cut off Roger after she got with Paul, but no she dodges all the responsibility Paul does need therapy but he deserves someone more responsible
@@LifeOfAnAwkwardOreo she thought Roger got over him. Op said that multiple times
I don't trust story 1. she said what was the point in being faithful to just get dumped... IT's called self respect. If i was dating her and heard her say that it's over
story 1.........if the father who threw me away like trash showed up on my door step he would gotten his arse kicked and sent home lumped with a message for the rest to never contact me ever again
S1: Op did is the definition of bonce back. The father mother and ex can go rot in hell for what they did. If getting accused of a hanus crime is one thing getting abandoned by those that are suppose to protect you is something that nobody deserves
Can't have a relationship without trust.
story 2 she was having an emoitional affair... and got mad when it got made clear... gotta dodge that accountability huh
Dude youre going to pull your back out with that kind of reaching.
Story#3 girl you have nothing in common with these women, stop being friends with them and move on.
DEFAMATION CHARGES!
The father did not believe his son, he saw proof; totally different.
Story two she either actually cheated or emotionally cheated and obviously Paul had reason to suspect. She's acting like she has no fault when in reality she set herself up.
*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates To Post#'s 1-2 & The Updates To The 3rd Post!*
Evil woman!
Dad wants something and it is probably not good
S2 op is definitely cheating and taking paul for a chump then go on the Internet with her b's.
How much of a bitter person do you need to be to immediately make up that kind of fanfic based on such little information.
First story I would only forgive the brother he actually tried to contact and help you but everyone else is GG’s never see or hear from again.
I've been in cheap relationships where I've been cheated on in fact I've only ever had 2 true relationships first one was for 10 years the second 1 was for 7 years And they both cheated on me which really f***** my head up but if you are that messed up or you can't trust at all and don't be in a f****** relationship simple is that
When youre dating aomeone woth that level pf trist issues, theyre not going to listen to ypu. Ots confirmation bias. Theyre just WAITING for ypu to do anything that makes ypu a cheater in their mond. Learn your lesson, move on. If it wasnt Roger it was going to be someone else.
You knew fine well roger wanted you bad hes your orbiter and that coffee date was atleast an emotional affair u did cheat
This is ridiculous levels of reaching. OP explicitly states that she and Roger werent that close as friends and that her BF knew about the coffee dates. Why do you want the girl to be guilty so bad that you need to warp her own story to fit your fanfic?
Wgy not sue ur ex for accusing u of ra**d
Story 2 op was dating two guys it wasn't a friend circle it was a coffee date 😂😂 2 people bf was right to move on
Do you really want to go through the rest of your life with this guy. Move on
Story 1 is a load of b*******
Is this channel ever going to correct "Story Too" and make it "Story Two"?
Story 1: the OP did right to not forgive the egg donor, sperm donor, and lying, cheating ex.
Story 2: Paul and Roger are both trash and OP is better without either of them.
You didn't realise in story 2 the OP was playing victim card and Paul also had previous trust issues he had good reasons to doubt OP he isn't in the condition to trust anyone
@@SungJinWu_I love when the response to the comment has more like than the crappy comment had
@@pawel2669 thanks lol
Story 2: OP dodged a bullet.
Agree. Personally I believe that she coddled the guy way to much. That guy needs to stay out of relationships until he gets his crap under control.
@@lindah3803 You want a guy to believe you and you didn’t tell him about your friend who said he loves you go have lunch with him and you want your husband to be fine with it. 😂😂😂😂😂 This is why men don’t take certain women serious.
@@Majestic31520 OP had forgotten about it. It happened years ago. They had even been separated for a long time. They only met back up because of them having the same friend group. OP wasn't in to him back then or now. After reconnecting, the guy didn't show any signs of him still being in love with OP until he sprung it on her at lunch. It's not on OP that the BF dove straight into the lies that the guy put out.
Also Men are just as guilty. They forget about a woman who processed their love years ago.
@@lindah3803 op didnt forget about him. they still met up together and theres no "forgetting" if someone ever liked u/likes u
@@lindah3803 She didn't forget, she thought it didn't matter anymore cause he wasn't actively trying to hook up with her at the moment. Still would've been smarter to tell her then bf she's still friends with someone who made a pass at her.
Story 2
Yes, the trust was broken, by Paul, at least twice before. If there was ever any trust to begin with.
there shouldnt be any need to privacy between partners. dont date if u felt like thats breaking trust thanks
@@darkknight3037if I am serious about someone, I willingly give my phone password. Only thing that is off limits is my work app, but that one has Face ID to even access it
Second story. SHE is cheating, bro...
The third story is just of a sad woman 😂
Story 1: I'm glad the OP and his brother got together.