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  • @hadleymarie2452
    @hadleymarie2452 Рік тому +74737

    “You’ve gotta learn the skill before you can use it” is going to be my new motto

    • @notmentallywell
      @notmentallywell Рік тому +184

      me with crochet 😭 I wish my parents forced me to do it i have no motivation

    • @hadleymarie2452
      @hadleymarie2452 Рік тому +69

      @@notmentallywell i can’t get past a chain no matter how hard I try but I aggressively wish I could get my brain to understand what my hands needs to do

    • @jasmingovers4403
      @jasmingovers4403 Рік тому +7

      That's a great motto

    • @notmentallywell
      @notmentallywell Рік тому +11

      @@hadleymarie2452 me to i barely have the chain down but my brain just dosent get it

    • @ava4689
      @ava4689 Рік тому +1

      How bout no. Its too much effort.

  • @hihowareyou424
    @hihowareyou424 Рік тому +27235

    I love how she says "SO COOL!" It shows that she didn't give up and she was so proud of herself

    • @peytonbryant1685
      @peytonbryant1685 Рік тому +294

      i think the mom said that

    • @monkeydomonkeydont766
      @monkeydomonkeydont766 Рік тому +114

      Tori(the mom) actually said ‘so cool!’

    • @lyshalysha101
      @lyshalysha101 Рік тому +32

      My parents don't know much about digital art and didn't wanna spend much money on computers and that kinda stuff, so I got ✨️krita✨️ but the animation side of it sucked so I gave up on animation due to the lag, and dreeeewww so I can not animate which was what I looked forward to when downloading krita
      I got an ipad once, and I downloaded ✨️flipaclip✨️ 💀💀💀 although I enjoyed it. I will sadly never animate again 😔

    • @EminayDrackoness
      @EminayDrackoness Рік тому +5

      This is what real encouragement is! Some times we really do need to get push back is its pushing us back into the direction we want for our selves.

    • @jordankeys-sk9nf
      @jordankeys-sk9nf 5 місяців тому +4

      IT IS SO COOL I FELT THAT SO ENTIRELY

  • @ANPaige
    @ANPaige Рік тому +6269

    “This is the first time in your life you weren’t immediately good at something and that’s tough but I’m not letting you give up on yourself” really hit home

  • @ari_is_lonely3709
    @ari_is_lonely3709 Рік тому +12416

    “She free handed this with a computer mouse!”
    as a digital artist and an animator myself. I’m extremely proud of her that she managed to make that

    • @cadzi.projects
      @cadzi.projects Рік тому +30

      Yes i know

    • @totally.not.arya_
      @totally.not.arya_ Рік тому +21

      same i luv art ❤

    • @Jujuller
      @Jujuller 5 місяців тому +79

      I'm really impressed actually, drawing with a mouse is so hard

    • @CiciChess
      @CiciChess 5 місяців тому +12

      Same I can only draw on phone cuz everything I made with mouse sucks

    • @hi_hello7410
      @hi_hello7410 5 місяців тому +2

      😊

  • @TheSkittlesAddict
    @TheSkittlesAddict 4 місяці тому +994

    With a computer mouse?? She has so much potential, never let this girl get discouraged or feel like she’s not good enough. I can see so much talent with her.

    • @leafsafe-y7u
      @leafsafe-y7u 3 місяці тому +2

      I love freehanding with a computer mouse, it gives off such a unique style when i do (idk how i even do it lmao)

    • @momma-kamama1273
      @momma-kamama1273 2 місяці тому +1

      My now 21 year old Daughter has been drawing with tablets and computers since she was a kid. She has gotten really good. I'm hoping she can get into a class at Vo-Tech on her days off to grow in her art.

  • @kaelynn4744
    @kaelynn4744 Рік тому +11764

    THAT LAST PART 👏🏻 I’m grateful my parents never forced me, but I do wish they pushed me a bit more ❤ hindsight is always 20/20, I’m so glad this is a more public convo now!

    • @hedgehogfrfr
      @hedgehogfrfr Рік тому +20

      The second I heard 2020 😨

    • @s.f.nightingale1735
      @s.f.nightingale1735 Рік тому +2

      Yeah.

    • @angeljaceherondale
      @angeljaceherondale Рік тому +8

      I think it's more about supporting.

    • @gwendolynrobinson3900
      @gwendolynrobinson3900 Рік тому +37

      I wish my parents pushed me to try sports. They supported me in the fine arts activities I wanted to join in middleschool, but I wish they stuck me in soccer or T ball when I was in elementary. I'm not athletic in the slightest and I feel it mightve gave me a boost haha
      My husband and I agree that when we have kids we'd like them to try a few things in elementary to at least get a feel of what they're drawn to, but ultimately hope they don't choose sports in the end so we don't have go go sit through games in the summer lmao

    • @slimshady1987
      @slimshady1987 Рік тому +12

      I def agree. my mom never forces me but I wish she pushed me more. i’m a dancer and one day I was rlly upset because I was in the back of my only comp dance that year so at the end of the season I said I wanted to quit. I wish she would’ve at least tried to convince me to stay or asked if I would just see how I felt after the break but she had no hesitation to just pull me out. a couple years later I was really regretting my decision, I lost nearly all my flexibility and skill but went back in anyway. I wish I never quit.

  • @clio_7070
    @clio_7070 Рік тому +6934

    The last sentence is so important. I had trombone lessons for TWELVE YEARS. I wanted to quit after three years, I didn’t practice at home (because I hated it and preferred to do other stuff), my teachers were constantly angry with me because I didn’t make any progress. I was so happy when I was finally able to quit and I still feel bad about the amount of money my parents wasted for a hobby I didn’t like at all.

    • @catglory1
      @catglory1 Рік тому +75

      I can relate to this so much!! I chose to play the violin in fourth grade and ended up really disliking it. I wanted to quit and the only time I played it was during my orchestra class in school. My mother would not allow me to quit and said I had to “stick with it because I already chose it” I was so unhappy and I had to keep playing until I graduated. And over those years my mother kept hassling me about practicing and getting mad at me for not wanting to play even after I kept explaining how much I disliked it

    • @peachyemi870
      @peachyemi870 Рік тому +50

      I used to play the cello like this, I didn’t exactly hate it but I didn’t practice it because I got bored of it easily. At this time I was going through different hobbies really fast. I failed to realize my real passion which was singing. Every time I sing I’m sucked into a trance. It’s so hard to describe. Like when you’re so occupied with something and you fail to realize everything going on around you because of how into it you are. Almost like watching TV maybe.
      The first thing I do when i get home after a long day is put on my headphones and roll the karaoke. I am so glad to have found my real passion (which was there all along lol.)
      FYI I’m going to be in a competition in a few months. So nervous yet so excited.

    • @scalpalp
      @scalpalp Рік тому +9

      ​@@peachyemi870 I hope it goes well !! (:

    • @peachyemi870
      @peachyemi870 Рік тому +2

      @@scalpalp Tysm 🥰

    • @meimeimango
      @meimeimango Рік тому +13

      i remember when i was about 10 i played the flute for under a year. they chose form written tests, which was a bad way to do it since i said yes even though i didn’t know the first thing about music notes…and i didnt come to the lessons sometimes pretending i was off till on the last day they told me i needed to come to perform to my whole year…the other flute player didn’t cover for me he wasnt the best at it too but i still let him play and i pretended😭

  • @lindseyherbst9444
    @lindseyherbst9444 Рік тому +1293

    The excitement in her voice when she shows you the animation made me tear up. This is amazing!

  • @sillyguy311
    @sillyguy311 Рік тому +103

    nobodys mentioned it but her excitement at the animation she did is heartwarming. shes going to be a brilliant artist

  • @Sunst0ne
    @Sunst0ne 4 місяці тому +33

    GIRL ANYONE THAT CAN DRAW CATS WITH A MOUSE IS TALENTED AF!! I’ve only ever drawn with a digital pencil or my finger!

  • @alesabelen1558
    @alesabelen1558 Рік тому +196

    the way your daughter said "SO COOL" broke my heart and mended it at once. may she continue making beautiful works.

    • @that1juna
      @that1juna Рік тому +3

      I think the mum said it

    • @lalayys
      @lalayys Рік тому

      YES I IMMEDIATELY FELT SO PROUD IDK WHY BUT SHE IS SO TALENTED!

    • @zombiefvckerr
      @zombiefvckerr Рік тому +6

      ​@@that1juna no that was def their kid

    • @that1juna
      @that1juna Рік тому

      @@zombiefvckerr It sounds like tori but u do u

  • @kittenz188
    @kittenz188 Рік тому +8156

    “She free handed this with a computer mouse!”
    You know she’s talented when she can draw with a mouse 😧

    • @Morrigan855
      @Morrigan855 Рік тому +122

      I can barely draw with my finger 😭
      But I'm planning on getting like a tablet with a stylus to save money on sketchbooks

    • @Pokemon32961
      @Pokemon32961 Рік тому +16

      @@Morrigan855 felttt

    • @Morrigan855
      @Morrigan855 Рік тому +8

      @@Pokemon32961 I'm better at traditional art well slightly better but I use up sketchbooks really quickly.

    • @HarryStikers
      @HarryStikers Рік тому +6

      My partner can draw with a mouse (they have a tablet, but sometimes they don't feel like setting it up) and it's amazing to watch!!!

    • @U.R.coolkid
      @U.R.coolkid Рік тому +3

      Fr i don't have a mouse but i use my touchpad, a mouse looks super difficult to draw with

  • @zephyr887
    @zephyr887 Рік тому +696

    As a 3D artist, frustration is half the journey. She's got this 💖

    • @m_artroom
      @m_artroom Рік тому +14

      I, like the intelligent human being I am decided to not look up a tutorials for 3D modeling. You’re right! It’s a process but you gotta work at it

    • @eerievali
      @eerievali Рік тому +5

      Oh for sure!! Same here, I’m in the midst of a 3D art/modelling/animation program and it’s wild. I’ve wanted to smash my monitor more than I can ever describe. The end results make the frustration so worth it.

    • @zephyr887
      @zephyr887 Рік тому

      @@eerievali They really do. That's so awesome, best of luck with it! 😊

  • @apieceofbread4971
    @apieceofbread4971 Рік тому +15

    I wish my mom had been like this. Instead my parents told me they wouldn't help me with college if I went into animation...now I'm a business major and surprise surprise I hate it. Nurturing an interest is so important. We need more people like you.

  • @CatBarefield
    @CatBarefield 3 місяці тому +3

    I can’t imagine being parented like that. Its honestly healing to witness

  • @bree8467
    @bree8467 Рік тому +190

    Her little “so cool” at the end was so sweet😭

  • @MiryokuMistake
    @MiryokuMistake Рік тому +688

    As a artist who loves drawing cats but struggles with animations, she’s going somewhere.

    • @BlueMaskGuy
      @BlueMaskGuy Рік тому +5

      Greetings fellow artist who loves drawing cats but struggles with animation, I wish you well😌

    • @plutolunaplays
      @plutolunaplays Рік тому

      @@BlueMaskGuySame ugh wish you both well

    • @saltycube
      @saltycube Рік тому

      Same 😔

    • @CherryTheCat
      @CherryTheCat Рік тому

      Me too

    • @freshcupofangst
      @freshcupofangst Рік тому

      Would highly recommend checking out Northflowo's animation process videos

  • @miserablepumpkin9453
    @miserablepumpkin9453 Рік тому +7673

    Oh my goodness, is she a Warrior Cats kid? Even if she isn't, this is probably going to stay with her for most of her life and it might even become her passion

    • @dreamsmpwarrior3456
      @dreamsmpwarrior3456 Рік тому +390

      Warrior cat Stan here, love that series

    • @alana.dyer.author
      @alana.dyer.author Рік тому +270

      I am in the process of COLECTONG EVERY WARRIOR CAT BOOK...from series to manuals and back stories etc...i have a lot... this series got me into reading and made me turn into an author 😅

    • @antisocial_butterfly1
      @antisocial_butterfly1 Рік тому +93

      I LOVE WARRIOR CATS

    • @solveig2120
      @solveig2120 Рік тому +174

      As someone who started drawing in 4th grade because of warrior cats and is now two years into making a comic in 11th grade… the WC kids always find some kind of life passion, I swear

    • @princessaur
      @princessaur Рік тому +102

      Warrior Cats kids are based lmao. Read the series for the first time at 10. Still very fond of them at 23. 😂

  • @shelbyheaser8804
    @shelbyheaser8804 5 місяців тому +11

    I needed to hear that when I was her age. I sheltered myself because a lot of the adults in my life didn’t say stuff like that when I wasn’t immediately good at something. They just had a vaguely disappointed look on their face and told me to do better. I am so glad your child has a mother like you!!

  • @Jenkyblep
    @Jenkyblep 5 місяців тому +19

    Good job! That interaction with frustration is so important for learning!

  • @ArtOfShannonLee
    @ArtOfShannonLee Рік тому +294

    It’s great that you’re encouraging her to rest if she’s frustrated, while still encouraging her to persist. I’m an artist and imo the biggest barrier for a young artist who is very passionate is forgetting to have fun! If they are always drawing to learn something rather than for fun, and they don’t rest, they won’t enjoy themselves; and eventually when they do stop they’ll stop for good. I know a lot of older people who say they haven’t drawn in years and I feel like that’s often what it is.

  • @tsuyamilk
    @tsuyamilk Рік тому +1426

    It's always the people with short hair and pounds of colourful makeup and black lipstick that are the best moms I swear-

    • @shiloh2032
      @shiloh2032 Рік тому +16

      what about mama tot?

    • @giordanodsouza9563
      @giordanodsouza9563 Рік тому +20

      And the green day shirts

    • @Sylvia-ly2qe
      @Sylvia-ly2qe Рік тому

      @@shiloh2032yep still applies

    • @SerfOfTheYear
      @SerfOfTheYear Рік тому +11

      I agree with that but only when it applies to parents. Usually when older teenagers and young adults do that they end up being a Twitter warrior… I speak from years of experience

    • @juIianstag
      @juIianstag 4 місяці тому +10

      ​@@SerfOfTheYearI mean, are twitter warriors THAT bad?

  • @emberfall4933
    @emberfall4933 Рік тому +151

    The second you showed the first picture I already knew she’s a warrior cat kid 😭

    • @lsdpuppy
      @lsdpuppy 4 місяці тому +6

      FR THO 😂

    • @KOREKIYOFANXD
      @KOREKIYOFANXD 4 місяці тому +6

      I was about to comment that

    • @Dragonmaster444
      @Dragonmaster444 4 місяці тому

      Anything wrong with that?

    • @roachvoid
      @roachvoid 4 місяці тому +2

      @@Dragonmaster444no? they’re a warrior cats fan too why would you think that

    • @ashergoober
      @ashergoober 3 місяці тому +2

      it brought me back to my warriors amino days.. i gotta say i got really damn good at drawing cartoon cats

  • @butterfly8435
    @butterfly8435 Рік тому +1

    Everyone deserves a mother like you. I wish that whenever I failed I was encouraged to continue. Your daughter will thank you for that someday.

  • @creatorsvoid
    @creatorsvoid 4 місяці тому +12

    I'm ngl I started crying bc of how supportive you are for ur kid. I'm so happy for her. Wish mine had half the mind to even consider supporting my career as an animator and aritst. As an artist, you let her know she's already doing amazing for her age! ❤

  • @dfknoxcross
    @dfknoxcross Рік тому +580

    I wish my mom had done something like this, thank you for an example of great parenting

  • @anonymixx8106
    @anonymixx8106 Рік тому +108

    What I love about this is you weren't even aggressive, just assertive

  • @agavedragon7715
    @agavedragon7715 Рік тому +412

    This is amazing!! I know as a child I wouldn’t have continued with art if my parents had not supported me, and I am incredibly grateful for that. I think your daughter is going great places and I love how you are supporting her💛

  • @BeansproutPost
    @BeansproutPost Рік тому +1

    As an artist, this makes me so happy. I love seeing people pursue what they love.

  • @elenimace881
    @elenimace881 5 місяців тому +9

    Animation is so hard, even the smallest ones are massive accomplishments especially at the start, she’s doing so well :)

  • @VALT_XION_Animation
    @VALT_XION_Animation Рік тому +3291

    You should eventually get her a drawing tablet. The cheaper ones don't have screens but it's harder to draw with a mouse than with a pen. Also, what program is that?

    • @BlueMiaou
      @BlueMiaou Рік тому +131

      the program is opentoons i believe!

    • @babybae9711
      @babybae9711 Рік тому +9

      YES ABSOLUTELY!

    • @marshmallow4646
      @marshmallow4646 Рік тому +108

      you can also get a Samsung tablet with an s pen, its more expensive than a drawing tablet but it's not expensive compared to an ipad or drawing tablet with a screen

    • @l.c.8475
      @l.c.8475 Рік тому +93

      The hand eye coordination for a drawing tablet without a screen takes some getting used to, but if you can already draw with a mouse a simple pen tablet will be easy to learn and there are actually people who prefer not drawing directly onto the screen because that way you're not blocking any part of the image with your hands.
      I definitely prefer a pen tablet over a screen tablet for 3d modeling.

    • @devs3394
      @devs3394 Рік тому +56

      ​@@marshmallow4646 i don't reccomend this. Samsung tablets aren't able to run proper drawing or animation software. If you can save up for a proper drawing tablet instead, it'll be completely worth it.
      How do I know? Because I followed this advice myself at the start of the pandemic. I still use the tablet, but more for fun than for serious art. It just doesn't have the features most artists need.

  • @thetulips9714
    @thetulips9714 Рік тому +95

    Imagine how much the world would grow if we all had supportive parents who played to our strengths and helped us up at our weaknesses

  • @Horangiverse
    @Horangiverse Рік тому +216

    Wow that's beautiful. You have an amazing daughter

  • @3N_i_n_i777
    @3N_i_n_i777 4 місяці тому +1

    I love the way you talk, it’s so calming 🤍

  • @CH3M1CAL_3NZ7M3
    @CH3M1CAL_3NZ7M3 Рік тому +1

    YOURE SO AMAZING!!! so many people just drop it or act like they don’t care but i’m so happy to see the positive encouragement it’s so genuinely heartwarming i love seeing your videos on my shorts-page!!

  • @TravelingTeachers
    @TravelingTeachers Рік тому +83

    I’m big into social emotional learning and one of the things we talk about is how the brain is making new connections when we’re learning something new. It’s going to be hard and awkward at first but keep at it. If you decide later you still don’t like it, that’s fine because at least you gave it your all.

    • @ShapeshiftingForestFae
      @ShapeshiftingForestFae Рік тому +1

      I think I'm gonna subscribe to y'all based on that answer alone -a special education assistant and special education major in college

  • @MM-qj8ys
    @MM-qj8ys Рік тому +94

    we love a supportive mom 😭

  • @thefluffyaj4119
    @thefluffyaj4119 Рік тому +73

    as an artist myself I think your daughters art and animation is so goddamn adorable
    whenever I see beginner art I can't help but feel all warm and fuzzy. i remember when I drew like that, how much I grew each day, all the ups and downs and just the whole journey I've had with my art. i adore the ability to create whatever I want, make any image I have the skill to make a reality, and how being an artist makes you stop and realize the beauty of everything around you. I can see beauty in anything now, and it's made my life feel so full and wonderful. seeing beginner artists makes me hope they're about to go down the same beautiful journey and will one day have as much fun and satisfaction that I get in day to day life from being an artist

  • @glitterflythirteen7583
    @glitterflythirteen7583 Рік тому +1

    I LOVE HER ANIMATION!

  • @sydneydaum9204
    @sydneydaum9204 Рік тому +323

    she did that with a computer mouse!?!?!?!? that takes talent!!!

    • @jiewang4006
      @jiewang4006 Рік тому +2

      Yes

    • @heatherdyson6815
      @heatherdyson6815 Рік тому +14

      I could honestly never, and I’m a grown ass adult who makes digital art every day. Using a mouse to draw would feel like I was trying to use my feet to hold my stylus 😂

    • @farted161
      @farted161 Рік тому +1

      ​@@heatherdyson6815 SAME

    • @phoeniixjustneedslove
      @phoeniixjustneedslove Рік тому +1

      I can't draw with a mouse to save my life dude😅

    • @heatherdyson6815
      @heatherdyson6815 Рік тому +2

      @@phoeniixjustneedslove I can’t even draw a computer mouse with a computer mouse 😂

  • @Gooberpotomous
    @Gooberpotomous Рік тому +58

    I'd gotten my kiddo a latch hook kit for Christmas and they were very excited to get to work on it. After about 5 minutes they got frustrated with it, claiming they didn't like it. As they were in the process of putting it away, I asked what the problem was and encouraged them to try again. Turns out they were just too new to the movements and got better the more they worked. I told them I was proud they tried again and that they were doing really well. They love latch hook, now

  • @ChokoMurasaki
    @ChokoMurasaki Рік тому +4

    I have never felt a sense of pride so strong for someone else’s kid! I love watching artist grow and develop new skills! I am so excited for her future as an animator/ illustrator! Good on you for encouraging her to keep going! I wish I could give both of you a hug!!

  • @mizuriansgirlol8
    @mizuriansgirlol8 4 місяці тому +1

    i can’t even recreate that with my program! Ur daughter has pure talent!

  • @z3r0zZz
    @z3r0zZz 4 місяці тому +1

    I have loved art all of my life and I’ve recently tried to teach myself traditional 2-D animation and after a while I got really frustrated and quit but this made me happy and I think im gonna do some more research and try again
    Thanks for the motivation :)

  • @MxkoTsunxmi
    @MxkoTsunxmi Рік тому +18

    Positive parents are the best honestly, I’m so glad my house is like that, a safe space to be mostly open

  • @queenpinkysfamily1618
    @queenpinkysfamily1618 Рік тому +47

    That's fabulous ❤️ she will get the hang of it and live on the program soon..

  • @julihath8046
    @julihath8046 Рік тому +8

    I like your approach. My son always took it badly when I would tell him that he needed to walk away from something and come back to it later.

  • @randomdoodlesstudios9215
    @randomdoodlesstudios9215 Рік тому

    Your daughters going places!You handled that situation so well,and I wish her luck on her animation journey.

  • @EnbyCryptidCats
    @EnbyCryptidCats 4 місяці тому +3

    Thats how I felt while creating Live2D models and learning to rig them. It was frustrating at first, but seeing my drawings come to life was worth it ❤

  • @Odd_Gott_
    @Odd_Gott_ Рік тому +64

    Before I had a child and others without children really don't understand how much joy this kind of thing makes parents feel inside. I know it might look super small and not impressive but this mother is over the damn moon and to her it's absolutely amazing. Watching my child grow and learn and succeed is literally the best most joyful feeling I've ever felt in my life and she's only 16 months old. When my daughter walked up to me on her own and hugged my legs made her kissy noise and tried saying "love you" to me for the first time a few weeks ago I literally got butterflies in my stomach it made me so happy. My favorite part of being a mother is watching them grow and accomplish

  • @RadishTheFool
    @RadishTheFool Рік тому +5

    I'm so proud of you both.
    Also, I love how aggression in your world is telling your daughter respectfully that she needs to do 30 minutes of something she loves. 🥰

  • @kyndri8347
    @kyndri8347 Рік тому +4

    I wish my parents got involved with my hobbies like that. I have a lot of trouble sticking to things when I'm not good at them. You seem like a great mom. ❤️

  • @RobinFletcher-mt1he
    @RobinFletcher-mt1he 3 місяці тому

    No matter how simple it looks, the proud "So cool!" expresses so much. :)
    These videos help me heal my inner child, so thank you 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @lucibasto5281
    @lucibasto5281 3 місяці тому +1

    I love that you realised she wasn’t in a head space to do it and remembered later to encourage her. You are raising a top tier artist

  • @lover100percent
    @lover100percent Рік тому +5

    I've got tears in my eyes!! This is absolutely beautiful. Her art is so good for using just a mouse! You're an amazing parent for encouraging her. 💜

  • @RUBYthedragon
    @RUBYthedragon Рік тому +6

    Can’t wait to see her stuff in the warrior cats MAP project community. (As her I bet she’ll know)

  • @nilladrawsstuff
    @nilladrawsstuff Рік тому +5

    Ahh as an animator I love this!! I'm still kinda bad at it, it takes SO MUCH practice. It's so cool youve encouraged her! I wish my mom did that lol-

  • @sinnamonshoggoth2928
    @sinnamonshoggoth2928 2 місяці тому

    This is actually making me cry a little. I was never told it was okay to struggle with new things until it was far too late and the idea that if I’m not immediately good at something I’ll always be bad at it has stuck with me hard. I’m so glad your daughter will grow up without that roadblock.

  • @dex_the_b..ch.5269
    @dex_the_b..ch.5269 Рік тому

    Your kids always sound like they are so happy, with all my heart I wish that everyone could have that, good job, Tori.

  • @candy_shark
    @candy_shark Рік тому +5

    The last part is so true.
    Wish I could show my parents this but they would just yell at me more.

  • @froggysprite
    @froggysprite Рік тому +8

    That's some pretty great art!

  • @wellmetoo
    @wellmetoo Рік тому +4

    This actually made me tear up. Even if your kid doesnt end up choosing art as a carrer, I hope they still remember this amazing support system you are giving them.

  • @thatonecrayon9923
    @thatonecrayon9923 5 місяців тому +1

    Its such an amazing thing to be able to be patient with yourself and im more than thankful to have a mom who taught me when i was younger. She started teaching me how to crochet when i was around 7 so as i got frustrated she calmed me down and it all in the end showed me to just be gentle with myself, wonderful stuff

    • @toshaville
      @toshaville 5 місяців тому

      How to learn is such an important skill.

  • @heya3491
    @heya3491 3 місяці тому

    You are a wonderful parent, I wish my parents would have been more supportive and encouraging to me. Never stop being amazing

  • @Explosives_Go_BOOM
    @Explosives_Go_BOOM Рік тому +15

    The waffle house has found it’s newest host.

    • @ks4484
      @ks4484 Рік тому +1

      The waffle house has found a new host

    • @schnogg8287
      @schnogg8287 Рік тому +1

      The Waffle House Has Found Its New Host

    • @Fr34ksh0w_C1rcu5
      @Fr34ksh0w_C1rcu5 Рік тому

      The waffle house has found its new host

    • @thebaddriver6605
      @thebaddriver6605 Рік тому

      The Waffle House has found it's new host

  • @zViolinE
    @zViolinE Рік тому +1

    been playing violin since I was 8
    Wanted to quit multiple times as a beginner. I never practiced at home during middle school.
    Joined a high school orchestra program last week. It was my first time playing in an orchestra that required auditions and a minimum skill level.
    We started practicing the first song and I started tearing up. It just sounded so nice, and the fact that I was contributing to it made me want to cry. It wasn't like normal high school or middle school orchestra, it sounded like it was nearly at a professional level (might be a bit of a stretch)
    After 13 collective hours of practice, (my back hurt like hell) we performed.
    Dont give up on your hobbies.

  • @CrankyOtter
    @CrankyOtter 5 місяців тому

    teaching kids (& adults) how to use tools they don’t have an immediate affinity for, especially how you did it here (not brute force but tutorials & encouragement & rest before reviving) is one of the most useful things a parent or teacher can do.

  • @garfieldlasagna6200
    @garfieldlasagna6200 4 місяці тому

    Golly how i wish i had such supportive family, what a lucky child! God bless you!

  • @carleemalmberg1345
    @carleemalmberg1345 Рік тому +1

    When that cat blinked my heart swelled with love and pride for her❤️ animation is HARD so good for her and you momma!!

  • @Gambits_Right_Ball
    @Gambits_Right_Ball 4 місяці тому

    The world needs more amazing mums like you

  • @kelliannturner4888
    @kelliannturner4888 4 місяці тому

    We need more moms like you in this world. I love how you encourage your children into doing things they love to do.

  • @jenniferbates2811
    @jenniferbates2811 Рік тому

    This is so true!! Thank you 💜. I'm a mom with ADHD and all 3 of my kids have ADHD, so we all struggle with this.
    Learning the skill first and telling my kids to treat themselves with the love, kindness, and patience that they deserve EVERYDAY!

  • @muffim_tv
    @muffim_tv Рік тому

    i feel her. i’ve been learning animation for YEARS and i still haven’t gotten much progress. this semester i decided to take an animation course, so hopefully real education on it helps!

  • @pedros7341
    @pedros7341 3 місяці тому

    This makes me want to cry. Your kids are so lucky. Seeing things like this really makes me grieve for my childhood lol.

  • @newbiegone6418
    @newbiegone6418 4 місяці тому

    I've been animating since I was 10, and seeing this makes me so happy. Seeing young animators working hard to create things they love is amazing!

  • @firesawse
    @firesawse 4 місяці тому

    You are an amazing mother!!

  • @CardinalSwann
    @CardinalSwann 4 місяці тому

    I appreciate you sharing this. My parents, time and time again, told me that a lot of my dreams and aspirations weren't worth it, was a waste of time, or that i couldn't do it. Now, i struggle with basic tasks because of the strong worry i have for failure. I dont have much faith in myself in the first place, lol. Thank you for being you.

  • @MelloriNoMori
    @MelloriNoMori 4 місяці тому

    You are a fantastic mother!

  • @mollymoomullen423
    @mollymoomullen423 Рік тому +1

    The SO COOL made me smile

  • @omlette
    @omlette Рік тому

    I'M SO HAPPY FOR HER I live seeing new artists and animators trying their hand at something they've never done before
    -someone who has been drawing for at least 10 years

  • @irisalejandria5637
    @irisalejandria5637 4 місяці тому

    I’m not a parent myself but watching people being good parents helps my inner child to heal ❤

  • @whatthefoxsays1657
    @whatthefoxsays1657 Рік тому +1

    I love this! I am so thankful that my mom pushed me to keep practicing tae kwon do even when I complained because I really did love it and when I got my black belt it was such an achievement! But I’m also glad that she let me quit swim team because I legitimately hated it. Very important to learn how to distinguish between something you don’t like and something that’s just hard right now.

  • @SourRazberry
    @SourRazberry Рік тому

    You’re an Angel 🥹 my parents are 60 and never learned that lesson. They get frustrated and immediately throw down new hobbies and skills, even if they spent copious amounts of money on it. As their child, it rubbed off on me hard. I’m 25 and trying to rewire my brain to understand that practice and discipline breed skill, not being “naturally good at something” so thank you for encouraging your little one and teaching her beautiful life lessons!!

  • @HeyGirlHaaay
    @HeyGirlHaaay Рік тому +2

    Why couldn't you have been my mom lol you're awesome, I learn how to parent in an easier manner by watching your videos. So, thank you!

  • @fourfoldnote7201
    @fourfoldnote7201 4 місяці тому

    The way you describe her and her art reminds me of myself as a kid! Thank you so much for nurturing her interests and helping her progress in them!

  • @wooderlyn2224
    @wooderlyn2224 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m an animation major and I highly recommend your daughter watch a video on the 12 principles of animation. She may not be able to apply everything at first but it’s good to know about and can really bring a spark to certain animations when applied correctly!

  • @Icryvenom
    @Icryvenom 4 місяці тому

    You give me joy from inside out vibes and I love it

  • @overratedshrimp
    @overratedshrimp 4 місяці тому

    i love how good of a parent you are!! if i asked my mom about something like this or told her i was overwhelmed with it, she would ignore it or act like im overreacting so thank you, thank you, thank you for setting an example and giving your daughter a role model!

  • @Xanderful209
    @Xanderful209 Рік тому

    You’re a good mom. Non of my parents ever gave me this kind of support when it came to my hobbies like this until I myself spent unhealthy amount of hours in them or spent my own money (which I would earn from doing services for neighbors). This made me so happy ❤

  • @PhancyPants12
    @PhancyPants12 4 місяці тому +1

    My son had this problem. He’s very gifted at some things and that made him assume everything comes easy. When he come up against something he isn’t instantly good at he is not impressed lol but I don’t let
    Hun quit until he’s actually given it an honest try.

  • @lemonblackeclipse8870
    @lemonblackeclipse8870 4 місяці тому

    Legit made me cry, I think you are an amazing parent and I wish I had a parent like you growing up! You will always be a role model to me

  • @WicusIsntOkay
    @WicusIsntOkay 4 місяці тому

    I really wish I had a parent like you growing up 🙏🥲

  • @justlikethewizard
    @justlikethewizard 5 місяців тому

    You are the kind of parent I wish I had growing up. Encouraging her when she needs it and not giving up on her, that's going to mean everything

  • @nicolehatfield494
    @nicolehatfield494 4 місяці тому

    I'm so proud of her too! Anything worth doing takes work learning to do it.

  • @elenapetrova7381
    @elenapetrova7381 Рік тому +1

    Me as a 12 years old artist/ animator which posts her work I can confirm, I aswell was really flustered with my animation when I started, BUT I then have taught my self how to animate in a app with watching videos and reading books and tutorials, btw your daughters animation is really cool keep it up!

  • @SnowyDae55
    @SnowyDae55 Рік тому

    This spoke to me so, so much. Thank you with all of my heart

  • @aguschipo26
    @aguschipo26 3 місяці тому

    I'm an animation student, and this makes me so happy. It's like seeing the beginning of something big!! Hope she keeps creating with such enthusiasm

  • @Mcpuffs
    @Mcpuffs 4 місяці тому

    UA-cam is the best classroom! As a creative who is ever evolving in digital art skills myself, I can’t stress enough how much UA-cam videos have helped me learn.

  • @208212jmhl
    @208212jmhl 2 місяці тому

    I think learning to step away from something and going back to it is also a great skill to have. Sometimes we just need a minute

  • @LittleFootProduce
    @LittleFootProduce 4 місяці тому

    Me as a full grown adult who is starting a business from scratch. I really needed to hear this ❤