1. Don't be weak willed. Success isn't attained by the timid. There have been so many before you that have gone through so much worse and made it out through their tenacity. 2. Put life in perspective. Don't waste mental energy on things that don't really matter. Ask yourself "will this decision matter in a days time will it matter in a week? How about a year?"
A couple months ago I was in a very bad accident at work. 1800 pounds of roll up door industrial plant landed on me while I was cutting a frame. I was 30 feet up in a scissor lift it crushed me and then I fell over 30 feet. After many operations and a whole lot of titanium in my body I am finally home. I'm still in a wheelchair and for barely use my hands. Please excuse any errors in this as I can only use voice to text. I'm stronger than hell and a very active person. I'm healing faster than anybody said was possible. I can't wait to get out of this wheelchair and do all the crazy shit I used to do. But I do want to say this, all I can do all day everyday is pretty much watch youtube videos and things like that. I watched almost every video you have of you sitting there and talking about book of a day or anything. I love the things you say and your motivation. You're motivating the hell out of me and making me want to better my life. The career I had when this happened definitely paid well. But it's made me think, after this accident I don't want to be doing what I used to do. I'm going to get better and be strong as hell. But I'm going to be doing better in my life after I heal because I'm not sitting here watching stupid videos on UA-cam, I'm watching your videos and many others like it getting inspiration and getting knowledge. You seem like a pretty cool ass dude and I love your attitude.
Tai I appreciate people like you that give out life lessons. I have heard that, from a teacher that I know of, in order to be happy in life , you need to do these three things: be nice to others, think present or pleasant ,and at the end of your day, summarize only the good events that occurred in the day. Problem is for me is that I go in a stormy loophole. I never could do something as a routine (well probably a few but I'm talking about the significant ones.) When I need to do an assignment I wait for the last day to start on it . also I over think a lot.my thoughts are seldom black and white. I always like new ideas. But when it comes to bringing it to reality I'm either lazy or preparing for a knew routine or just being imature (which is kind of rare.) My laziness and thinking connect together in a way that makes me fail. Basically I'm asking how to not over think. Thanks again for what you do.
Great words of advice, ever since I started watching your videos and taking part in the 67 steps program I've seen a huge shift in the way I think now. Just last week I lost my cell phone at work. When I noticed it was gone I freaked out and drove back only to find it wasn't where I left it. And yes, at first it hurt like hell losing it since the memories of my last best friend were on it, but I soon found myself saying, "bad things just happen in life, move on." And so I did, I took the necessary steps and after the 2nd day I hardly cared anymore cause you taught me that there will be bad days, almost guaranteed, and the more we can embrace that fact the less surprised we will be when it happens.
Sikoy We all get hung up on that sometimes- but there's a nice rule for that: some will, some won't, so what? It's better to be respected and disliked than to be liked and disrespected.
I needed this today. I have a new opportunity and I nearly had a mental breakdown shortly before it was done. it just hit my mind. it wasn't that it was wrong, but it was moreso that it's so alien to me that I couldn't believe what was happening. thanks Tai.
Good advice, I think this is something that I've seen improved with age too, things that might have caused stress or anxiety when you're younger are easier to deal with, with some experience/perspective to the point that you wonder why you stressed so much in the first place. We have to realize that failure really isnt the worst thing that can happen to you by a long shot.
This reminds me of Sin and the fall of humanity. We are all weak to our own carnal desires. We fail to realize how often we fall into the temptation of fear, lust, and addictions. This prevents us from getting ahead and striving for what is truly good and truly fulfilling. Great concept to talk about! “Keep life in perspective” we all need to do a little bit more about that!
Thanks tai the example you gave at the end really got me thinking about how i was the same. when i went to work and had to do something i didn't want to i complain like its the end of the world. Fortunately this video help me see things in a more round about perseceptive. I'll keep in mind to not lose perspective.
I feel like I have some sort of advantage watching these videos at age 16. I'm really trying to get myself prepared for life, these videos help a lot. I'm happy he's putting these videos up, he's awesome.
This was brilliant. Its true especially with when we think if I go into a business venture it might fail so I won't go ahead with it. So what if it fails? brush yourself off and try it again or try something different. You are not a failure if you fail in a business venture.
You should start putting links into the description; I watch on my iPhone and the annotated links don't appear. Would definitely consider joining the book of the week club if it's reasonably-priced.
A good book on a topic very closed related to mental toughness is 'Antifragile', it basically talks about tolerance to ambiguity or how to live in a world we can't understand. :D
I also find that first thing in the morning I have to take in check my thoughts or I will move in that direction the entire day. So I start off being thankful for everything I can think of.
I used to think I was fairly strong minded until having a bad experience with drugs that led to being diagnosed with anxiety. Now sometimes I feel like I hardly can control my minds dumb little fearful thoughts. It just sucks feeling like I can't strengthen my mind because of this illness or whatever.
Drugs r bad dude. I'm suffering from anxiety too. I read a book, where this guy tried drugs and it lead to him developing really bad anxiety. Bottom line, you r not the only one going thru this. Check out clarie weekes book hope and help for your nerves. And STAY away from drugs, they can cause way more problems down the line than just anxiety.
+King West Try Transcendental Meditation and live mindfull. You are not your feelings and neither your thoughts. If you objectively observe yourself you are free of any anxiety. Im dealing with the same kind of issues, but this helped me alot. Watch Joe Dispenzas Interviews and read his book: Breaking the habit of being yourself, he scientifically explains how to change your life in the best possible way. Dont let your life and your dreams taken from anxiety.
I agree with Tai, whenever those "what if" fearful people come in our way do your best to give them a lecture. If lecture doesn't work do it with action. People think you are insulting them and go into wimpy mode.
Im Brazilian, 25 years old and for the past 3 years my daily work as an employee is in a office doing something that I never thought before, international purchases. I spent almost 5 years in London and I managed to learn a little of english, because i know Im not fluently, basically I always had to work but my previous jobs was always manual jobs. I realized how important technology is and shapes our life, I managed to improve my work so I have some 'free time' in front of a computer that I can spend reading, although I always had a computer never used like this before, technology in every single detail really makes me wonder in how it is changing everything, I was never good at school and it was never my routine reading a book not even today but I must change, I love the wonders about neuroscience, technology, mind, human behavior, what books should I start to read? I see that I will have double challenge ahead because I don't know several words in english but I want to ready in both languages in order to improve my english side too. Thank you!
Hey tai, ive seen a few of your videos as well as your ted talks. Im trying to think of business ideas i can start planning as a career for the future, that i may even be able to start now. I'm 15 by the way! If youve got any tips, pointers, or ideas id love your help!
I recommend reading the New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander. .. its a really good book and gives you a different perspective about industry and the prison system
Yes, We do Rise.Thank you. This reminds me that I have risen before, and stronger. Staying focused on what you want, and who you want to be - no matter what - can make all the difference. Even as we make mistakes! :)
Goodmorning Tai! Nice video and nice intro this one! I 've read the summary of the "Defiant" in Amazon and seems good, kind of a story telling book i guess. Although here in Greece and in Europe we disagree about why America did that war against the Vietnamezes, the story of these men can inspire. Thank you for the value Tai! P.S: In 4:35 the link for the VIP and full summary does not show to me. Just informing!
Great video, Tai. In my opinion, fear is what shuts people down from accomplishment. Also, fear of failure.. For me, to fail is to learn and progress. To most, failure is a "white flag" (learned helplessness). Good stuff, man.
Hey Tai, I watched your speed reading video not to long ago, and was wondering if I should do that for every book or for certain types and lengths of books?
Tack Tai, dina clips är väldigt inspirerande! How come you know some Swedish? Hm... kinda rhetorical question... blond, blue eyes and long legs? Cheers man, keep up the great work!
3 books I can read today are: -"Five Rings" by Miyamoto Musashi -"The Serbian Trilogy" by Stevan Jakovljevic -"Excalibur" by Zivorad Slavinski Best wishes from Serbia!
most people are on social media all day & let it mold them in every sense of their life. They see a celebrity and a lot of money and immediately think they are unhappy unless they get there. Reality shows are definitely not real but everyone wants that life nice cars mansions hot girls. But even if you get there you will feel not complete. You have to be fulfilled and know you're purposes first. know your why
Of course, but when you attach the need to survive to what ever you are doing, you will become mentally stronger. However, life has certainly become easier these days where being strong minded isn't really a necessity to survive.
Hey tia big fan Im 19 not out of highschool yet trained in masonry and I stay sharp with puzzles. I want to be an entrepreneur but I have no idea where to start? Like I wanna study too many subjects and all my plans are overwelming idk what to do.
I have a question, i made some research but didn't find the precise information: How are the copyrights when doing a review about a medium(book). I'm thinking about making Book Reviews(German) and wonder if i could get sued.
Tai Lopez, this is a bizarre question, however I have to ask. Do you have a mantra? No need to write it out and spoil the significants if you do. I'm just curious.
hey tai, i just recently watched one of your videos on how to read a book in 10 minutes, & I'm reading a book for school called "I Am Malala" & when I arrive to school(high school) I'm supposed a test (for the book) can I depend on your strategy?
Hey tai if you haven't read it read the scientific outlook by Bertrand Russell. It is a dense book full of of great ideas. U probably have a long list of books to read but you need to read this one NOW. Love your videos. You extend beyond trivial matters and go beyond skin deep. Keep doing what your doing because it's a good way to improve the world. U deserve as many followers as dollars in your bank account
Keeping things in perspective. Im buying that book about louie zamperini.I watched his real life videos.amazing guy.i have started a business in fitness and nutrition :) following my passion and the money will come eventually :)
Okay Tai honest question: Our brains will "rise to the occasion" and think "in relation" to our position in life. This meaning that a poor person getting a $1 raise will be as happy about as a rich person gaining $10,000,000/year. (Just an example; I've not much knowledge on numbers.) The question is that if this is true, why should one become rich; they will not become any more happy.
Anyone remember the video where Tai tells the history of him broke sleeping at his moms car and going after who would be his future mentor? I wanted to watch it again but I can't find it
I think if you told people to pop an audiobook a day in the car radio (instead of samboism & death worship) it would place the mental image you could use a little Neuro Linguistic Programming for good to fight the evil greedy Neuro Linguistic Programming in commercials with your own spell.
For some reason i get addicted yo your videos, and you are the primary reason why I'm resigning out of my current job
1. Don't be weak willed. Success isn't attained by the timid. There have been so many before you that have gone through so much worse and made it out through their tenacity.
2. Put life in perspective. Don't waste mental energy on things that don't really matter. Ask yourself "will this decision matter in a days time will it matter in a week? How about a year?"
Alex Sandalis Agreed!
Alex Sandalis real shit. thanks.
+Alex Sandalis nicely said!
Alex Sandalis ง
Is that the summary of the book or the video?
A couple months ago I was in a very bad accident at work. 1800 pounds of roll up door industrial plant landed on me while I was cutting a frame. I was 30 feet up in a scissor lift it crushed me and then I fell over 30 feet. After many operations and a whole lot of titanium in my body I am finally home. I'm still in a wheelchair and for barely use my hands. Please excuse any errors in this as I can only use voice to text. I'm stronger than hell and a very active person. I'm healing faster than anybody said was possible. I can't wait to get out of this wheelchair and do all the crazy shit I used to do. But I do want to say this, all I can do all day everyday is pretty much watch youtube videos and things like that. I watched almost every video you have of you sitting there and talking about book of a day or anything. I love the things you say and your motivation. You're motivating the hell out of me and making me want to better my life. The career I had when this happened definitely paid well. But it's made me think, after this accident I don't want to be doing what I used to do. I'm going to get better and be strong as hell. But I'm going to be doing better in my life after I heal because I'm not sitting here watching stupid videos on UA-cam, I'm watching your videos and many others like it getting inspiration and getting knowledge. You seem like a pretty cool ass dude and I love your attitude.
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Tai I appreciate people like you that give out life lessons. I have heard that, from a teacher that I know of, in order to be happy in life , you need to do these three things: be nice to others, think present or pleasant ,and at the end of your day, summarize only the good events that occurred in the day. Problem is for me is that I go in a stormy loophole. I never could do something as a routine (well probably a few but I'm talking about the significant ones.) When I need to do an assignment I wait for the last day to start on it . also I over think a lot.my thoughts are seldom black and white. I always like new ideas. But when it comes to bringing it to reality I'm either lazy or preparing for a knew routine or just being imature (which is kind of rare.) My laziness and thinking connect together in a way that makes me fail. Basically I'm asking how to not over think. Thanks again for what you do.
Thank you for putting up this videos and good books to read, best
Great words of advice, ever since I started watching your videos and taking part in the 67 steps program I've seen a huge shift in the way I think now.
Just last week I lost my cell phone at work. When I noticed it was gone I freaked out and drove back only to find it wasn't where I left it. And yes, at first it hurt like hell losing it since the memories of my last best friend were on it, but I soon found myself saying, "bad things just happen in life, move on." And so I did, I took the necessary steps and after the 2nd day I hardly cared anymore cause you taught me that there will be bad days, almost guaranteed, and the more we can embrace that fact the less surprised we will be when it happens.
Wow, and I'm afraid of what other people think of me? This definitely put things on perspective. Thanks for the golden nugget Tai.
Sikoy We all get hung up on that sometimes- but there's a nice rule for that: some will, some won't, so what? It's better to be respected and disliked than to be liked and disrespected.
+Akeem J.A.S.S very cool expression man, thanks for sharing that!
I needed this today. I have a new opportunity and I nearly had a mental breakdown shortly before it was done. it just hit my mind.
it wasn't that it was wrong, but it was moreso that it's so alien to me that I couldn't believe what was happening. thanks Tai.
Unbroken movie quote: "If you can take it you can make it".
this book's summary reminds me a lot about Unbroken
youre soo damn smart tai! It's litteraly a blessing to here all this knowledge! Thank you man!
He isn't a Galileo, but yeah is a smart dude.
Good advice, I think this is something that I've seen improved with age too, things that might have caused stress or anxiety when you're younger are easier to deal with, with some experience/perspective to the point that you wonder why you stressed so much in the first place. We have to realize that failure really isnt the worst thing that can happen to you by a long shot.
This reminds me of Sin and the fall of humanity. We are all weak to our own carnal desires. We fail to realize how often we fall into the temptation of fear, lust, and addictions. This prevents us from getting ahead and striving for what is truly good and truly fulfilling. Great concept to talk about! “Keep life in perspective” we all need to do a little bit more about that!
you are doing very good thing Tai, keep doing it. Its very rare that a succesfull person wants others to be sucessful too. i believe in u Tai.
Thanks tai the example you gave at the end really got me thinking about how i was the same. when i went to work and had to do something i didn't want to i complain like its the end of the world. Fortunately this video help me see things in a more round about perseceptive. I'll keep in mind to not lose perspective.
Thank you Tai, I will try to do the best I can with what you give me.
I feel like I have some sort of advantage watching these videos at age 16. I'm really trying to get myself prepared for life, these videos help a lot. I'm happy he's putting these videos up, he's awesome.
I like your videos a lot they make me motivated to try harder at school and keep following my dreams
Nice video Tai. Perspective is a key element in finding satisfaction.
this is my motivation for my career change.. love it
So true Ty sometimes we worry to much about the littlest things
Great Video! I appreciate the nugget of knowledge you gave. Thank You!
I don't care what the haters say, Tai's got his shit figured out and is always bringing us that value & wisdom.
Tai you're a true inspiration.Would love to meet you one day and shake your hand!
Amazing. Very true
Tai, Dude i am so pumped by your insights! Man this has help me rewrite my mental script. Getting onboard with 67 Steps ...... Thanks so much!
Reminds me of that one movie(unbroken). I see a relationship with that movie and the book hes talking about.
awesome review, Tai. I really wish you made book reviews more regularly than all the fun oriented podcasts you do lately.
Like the new professional intro. Appreciate the effort.
loving ur informative book talks!!!
Book of the day, that is.* Does membership include 365 videos per year?
TAI IS BACK BOYS!
This was brilliant. Its true especially with when we think if I go into a business venture it might fail so I won't go ahead with it. So what if it fails? brush yourself off and try it again or try something different. You are not a failure if you fail in a business venture.
I slept on the streets the other night for perspective, gained a bank load of knowledge!
You should start putting links into the description; I watch on my iPhone and the annotated links don't appear. Would definitely consider joining the book of the week club if it's reasonably-priced.
A good book on a topic very closed related to mental toughness is 'Antifragile', it basically talks about tolerance to ambiguity or how to live in a world we can't understand. :D
I also find that first thing in the morning I have to take in check my thoughts or I will move in that direction the entire day. So I start off being thankful for everything I can think of.
I used to think I was fairly strong minded until having a bad experience with drugs that led to being diagnosed with anxiety. Now sometimes I feel like I hardly can control my minds dumb little fearful thoughts. It just sucks feeling like I can't strengthen my mind because of this illness or whatever.
+King West I feel the same because of weed.. just never give up.
What happened bud?
Drugs r bad dude. I'm suffering from anxiety too. I read a book, where this guy tried drugs and it lead to him developing really bad anxiety. Bottom line, you r not the only one going thru this. Check out clarie weekes book hope and help for your nerves. And STAY away from drugs, they can cause way more problems down the line than just anxiety.
But yea I think drugs can cause anxiety somehow.. So stay away from them other readers.
+King West Try Transcendental Meditation and live mindfull. You are not your feelings and neither your thoughts. If you objectively observe yourself you are free of any anxiety. Im dealing with the same kind of issues, but this helped me alot. Watch Joe Dispenzas Interviews and read his book: Breaking the habit of being yourself, he scientifically explains how to change your life in the best possible way. Dont let your life and your dreams taken from anxiety.
I agree with Tai, whenever those "what if" fearful people come in our way do your best to give them a lecture. If lecture doesn't work do it with action. People think you are insulting them and go into wimpy mode.
Im Brazilian, 25 years old and for the past 3 years my daily work as an employee is in a office doing something that I never thought before, international purchases.
I spent almost 5 years in London and I managed to learn a little of english, because i know Im not fluently, basically I always had to work but my previous jobs was always manual jobs. I realized how important technology is and shapes our life, I managed to improve my work so I have some 'free time' in front of a computer that I can spend reading, although I always had a computer never used like this before, technology in every single detail really makes me wonder in how it is changing everything, I was never good at school and it was never my routine reading a book not even today but I must change, I love the wonders about neuroscience, technology, mind, human behavior, what books should I start to read? I see that I will have double challenge ahead because I don't know several words in english but I want to ready in both languages in order to improve my english side too.
Thank you!
Hey tai, ive seen a few of your videos as well as your ted talks. Im trying to think of business ideas i can start planning as a career for the future, that i may even be able to start now. I'm 15 by the way! If youve got any tips, pointers, or ideas id love your help!
I recommend reading the New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander. .. its a really good book and gives you a different perspective about industry and the prison system
I really agree with the concept of your brain rising to the occasion. (btw that elevator reference made me laugh hahah)
Great video! I love what you do.
Yes, We do Rise.Thank you. This reminds me that I have risen before, and stronger. Staying focused on what you want, and who you want to be - no matter what - can make all the difference. Even as we make mistakes! :)
Awesome. ..definitely getting this book..
Goodmorning Tai!
Nice video and nice intro this one!
I 've read the summary of the "Defiant" in Amazon and seems good, kind of a story telling book i guess. Although here in Greece and in Europe we disagree about why America did that war against the Vietnamezes, the story of these men can inspire.
Thank you for the value Tai!
P.S: In 4:35 the link for the VIP and full summary does not show to me. Just informing!
Awesome Tai. Thnx.
Great video, Tai. In my opinion, fear is what shuts people down from accomplishment. Also, fear of failure.. For me, to fail is to learn and progress. To most, failure is a "white flag" (learned helplessness). Good stuff, man.
Diggin the new intro, Tai!
Thanks for the post!
Another winner
How do I get into the Premium VIP Book program? I googled it but I only saw your 67 steps program.
Hey Tai, I watched your speed reading video not to long ago, and was wondering if I should do that for every book or for certain types and lengths of books?
Great video! Go back to a tripod though... Handy cam is making me nauseous lol
Tai have you read The Righteous Mind by Jonathan Haidt?
Looks like I'll re-read Unbroken.
Lui s Is there a movie about that?
Linda Masuku yeah n devils in heels book.
Well said.
Tack Tai, dina clips är väldigt inspirerande! How come you know some Swedish? Hm... kinda rhetorical question... blond, blue eyes and long legs? Cheers man, keep up the great work!
3 books I can read today are:
-"Five Rings" by Miyamoto Musashi
-"The Serbian Trilogy" by Stevan Jakovljevic
-"Excalibur" by Zivorad Slavinski
Best wishes from Serbia!
Hello tai I'm going to be rich I know but I need help to beginning I see all your videos you are the best
Tai you should do a book review on some of Napoleon Hill's books !
what do you think about these books: Three Moves Ahead by Bob Rice
Your Road Map For Success by John C. Maxwell
most people are on social media all day & let it mold them in every sense of their life. They see a celebrity and a lot of money and immediately think they are unhappy unless they get there. Reality shows are definitely not real but everyone wants that life nice cars mansions hot girls. But even if you get there you will feel not complete. You have to be fulfilled and know you're purposes first. know your why
FANTASTIC AS EVER X
I love you Tai
I like the new intro ;)
what are the related books that we should read once a month??
Of course, but when you attach the need to survive to what ever you are doing, you will become mentally stronger. However, life has certainly become easier these days where being strong minded isn't really a necessity to survive.
I love the way Tai says elevator at the end. ElllllEvaaaaTORRRRR
This might be a stupid question but what do you mean when you say put things in perspective?
Fantastic!
Stay strong minded..
Ok man I would like read it, but here in Colombia I couldn't find it, the book is tough to find it out.
Man I feel like DJ Khaled is going to become the next Tai Lopez
Hey tia big fan Im 19 not out of highschool yet trained in masonry and I stay sharp with puzzles. I want to be an entrepreneur but I have no idea where to start? Like I wanna study too many subjects and all my plans are overwelming idk what to do.
Were can find this in program
I have a question, i made some research but didn't find the precise information:
How are the copyrights when doing a review about a medium(book).
I'm thinking about making Book Reviews(German) and wonder if i could get sued.
Tai Lopez, this is a bizarre question, however I have to ask. Do you have a mantra? No need to write it out and spoil the significants if you do. I'm just curious.
I can't believe there are some people out there that think this stuff isn't helpful :/. Sux for them
Where is the link?
thanks tai
who's the author of that book.
But how does one distinguish between good and bad habits?
hey tai, i just recently watched one of your videos on how to read a book in 10 minutes, & I'm reading a book for school called "I Am Malala" & when I arrive to school(high school) I'm supposed a test (for the book) can I depend on your strategy?
how did it go??
ive read a book buy a neuro scientist called free will id love to hear your thoughts on it tai
Hey tai if you haven't read it read the scientific outlook by Bertrand Russell. It is a dense book full of of great ideas. U probably have a long list of books to read but you need to read this one NOW.
Love your videos. You extend beyond trivial matters and go beyond skin deep. Keep doing what your doing because it's a good way to improve the world. U deserve as many followers as dollars in your bank account
Tai Lopez really needs to take a look at all of the parodies to his "Here in my garage"
Keeping things in perspective. Im buying that book about louie zamperini.I watched his real life videos.amazing guy.i have started a business in fitness and nutrition :) following my passion and the money will come eventually :)
Naps are great... I prefer naps outside after a good hike.
On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you like peanut butter? I know it's a pointless question but I feel compelled to ask people this.
David Lopez My dog loves peanut butter.
David Lopez 1
Five😎
In ice-cream, 8. The sweet and saltyness mixes well last time I had it.
does this work?
tripod?
Don't mistake Kindness for weakness. Walk in love not in fear.
Okay Tai honest question:
Our brains will "rise to the occasion" and think "in relation" to our position in life. This meaning that a poor person getting a $1 raise will be as happy about as a rich person gaining $10,000,000/year. (Just an example; I've not much knowledge on numbers.)
The question is that if this is true, why should one become rich; they will not become any more happy.
Anyone remember the video where Tai tells the history of him broke sleeping at his moms car and going after who would be his future mentor? I wanted to watch it again but I can't find it
To true
I have a good book it is called Hatchet it is about a boy that was in a plane crash and survived
Pretty cool thanks
As a fan I'd like to offer constructive criticism you should consider adding the caveat hear an audiobook a day &/or read a book a day.
I think if you told people to pop an audiobook a day in the car radio (instead of samboism & death worship) it would place the mental image you could use a little Neuro Linguistic Programming for good to fight the evil greedy Neuro Linguistic Programming in commercials with your own spell.
+Rodriguez Diaz I'm not into mystical magic just practical linguistics.
This is free!!