Curly Kids Wash Day Routine 4a 4b 4c I Tips For Foster and Adoptive Parents- Christy Gior

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  • Today's kids' wash day routine was a teaching moment. My girls are old enough to start learning how to care for their hair. It's important to me that they learn how to care for their own natural hair type so they are confident managing it themselves as they grow.
    Kid's wash days are a production for sure, but I hope to give some tips to foster parents and adoptive parents on the basic needs of washing black children's hair. I have listed all my fav products and tools below.
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  • @KayintheLife03
    @KayintheLife03 3 роки тому +5798

    If you are an adoptive parent to African American Kids Christy can really help you on the hair journey. Our (African Americans) hair is no joke and Christy does a great job caring for it!!!

    • @ChristyGior8
      @ChristyGior8  3 роки тому +388

      Thank you love!

    • @KayintheLife03
      @KayintheLife03 3 роки тому +192

      Just speaking the truth girly. A lot of foster parents would just throw their hands up and as a little black girl our hair is apart of our identity. U stick with it and that means more than u can ever know. Especially to kids who may otherwise not have that kind of care. I respect you for that. They r lucky to have u!

    • @sahnisimba
      @sahnisimba 3 роки тому +73

      Definitely no joke. Our hair needs a lot of maintenance

    • @KayintheLife03
      @KayintheLife03 3 роки тому +43

      @@sahnisimba giiirl the maintenance thou lol u ain’t neva lied lol... Sometimes I want to give up on my own hair 😂

    • @shauntalove8413
      @shauntalove8413 3 роки тому +75

      Some black moms too cuz most of us was misguided on hair back then

  • @reneebishop9748
    @reneebishop9748 3 роки тому +9538

    These girls will have lifetime memories of having a hands on mom taking such great job of their hair ❤ Christy is an amazing mom

  • @arialove7498
    @arialove7498 3 роки тому +6569

    Christy deserves all her props man, teaching her black daughter and to do her other black daughters hair. Your a great mom christy. God Bless you.

    • @KayintheLife03
      @KayintheLife03 3 роки тому +122

      Very true it’s really not easy and at least she cares enough to put the time in on their hair. I really respect that.

    • @alexandrapevey5911
      @alexandrapevey5911 3 роки тому +3

      @@KayintheLife03 at least?

    • @KayintheLife03
      @KayintheLife03 3 роки тому +4

      @@alexandrapevey5911 I'm sorry I don't understand the question...

    • @alexandrapevey5911
      @alexandrapevey5911 3 роки тому +4

      You said at least as if that was the very least she could do.

    • @KayintheLife03
      @KayintheLife03 3 роки тому +4

      @@alexandrapevey5911 ok?

  • @beforeicroakt9271
    @beforeicroakt9271 3 роки тому +5115

    As a black woman with a white mum
    There was nothing better than having a mum who didn’t understand spend a lifetime always working to understand
    Thank you! You are amazing!

    • @Therealjasminemichele
      @Therealjasminemichele 3 роки тому +133

      Yes! My mom being white made sure she understood my hair. She Always had me in that salon chair.

    • @TiarreaB.Naturally
      @TiarreaB.Naturally 3 роки тому +1

      ❤❤

    • @candi1904
      @candi1904 3 роки тому +12

      Don't deny your mom's existence. I find it so offensive to identify as something not inclusive of both parents who brought you in the world.
      Possibly its acceptable for your mom?

    • @madrigalv5302
      @madrigalv5302 3 роки тому +19

      @S G she can be adopted

    • @bevlenoir7473
      @bevlenoir7473 3 роки тому +7

      @@madrigalv5302 exactly 😒

  • @cam6110
    @cam6110 3 роки тому +3467

    19 yr old black girl here, I’m so mad about that pink pillow I have never felt jealousy like this in my life 😩 they’re so lucky lmao!!

    • @khandyceshevonte
      @khandyceshevonte 3 роки тому +342

      Girl I'm almost 30 and jealous of that too 😂😂

    • @nattywho
      @nattywho 3 роки тому +45

      Right...lol

    • @Therealjasminemichele
      @Therealjasminemichele 3 роки тому +149

      GIRL 😩 neck would be stuck after

    • @sennnia
      @sennnia 3 роки тому +14

      Girl, same.

    • @Thisisnotme48
      @Thisisnotme48 3 роки тому +214

      I know and she has the phone propped up watching I Carly.😭😭😭

  • @sahnisimba
    @sahnisimba 3 роки тому +3521

    These girls are gonna be so confident in their hair🥰🥺

    • @BiGsImY
      @BiGsImY 3 роки тому +46

      Yeah and that’s a great great thing!

    • @MsPrincess1347
      @MsPrincess1347 3 роки тому +3

      LOL

    • @oceanroses
      @oceanroses 3 роки тому +51

      I sure hope so, so many women hate their curly hair and it breaks my heart

    • @oopsioopsi4309
      @oopsioopsi4309 3 роки тому +10

      @@MsPrincess1347 ?

    • @cloveniss7745
      @cloveniss7745 3 роки тому +2

      @@MsPrincess1347 uuuuh?????

  • @jamaicajade2638
    @jamaicajade2638 3 роки тому +758

    When she said “you brush from the ENDS, and work your way up” I subscribed! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @ilovepinkroses5167
      @ilovepinkroses5167 3 роки тому +13

      Yes, it is the healthiest way to brush for anyone with hair😆 I'm glad you learned something new, that's always fun!

    • @ericasmith2345
      @ericasmith2345 3 роки тому +12

      Exactly!!! I love how she researched and educated herself about natural African American hair. She genuinely loves her girls and want them to be confident.

    • @cherisefabusuyi8519
      @cherisefabusuyi8519 3 роки тому +5

      Oh yes because I learned this at a young age, all the pulling and tugging caused raggedy ends and why a lot of African American children hair doesn't seen like its growing. It's growing really well, but it get broken off daily just because we don't brush our comb it right. Also when I went to Cosmetology School this was the first lesson.

    • @radioactive_sunflowerz2450
      @radioactive_sunflowerz2450 3 роки тому +3

      Yess, I've been teaching the mixed girls I babysit for how to take care of their hair by how to wash, comb and protect their hair! So important no matter what hair you have, it's just more essential if you have curly hair.

    • @darkx6869
      @darkx6869 2 роки тому +1

      @@ericasmith2345 not every black person is African just sayin. Not every dark skin is African lol.

  • @andiieduaarte09
    @andiieduaarte09 3 роки тому +435

    There's something so beautiful about a mother teaching her daughters to TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES. Is not just doing hair what she's teaching them, is taking time for yourself and being proud of who you are as a woman. Just beautiful. 💕

    • @KM-nq7ez
      @KM-nq7ez 3 роки тому +17

      And also Loving and caring for their sisters... Long after Momma has passed these sisters will have a strong and Loving bond❤️♥️❤️

    • @Coopogers
      @Coopogers 2 роки тому +5

      Yes ma'am! LOVE this comment! 🙌🏾

  • @angiemendez2628
    @angiemendez2628 3 роки тому +1911

    I work in occupational therapy with geriatric patients and a lot of my patients are African American. I like to watch videos like this that help me do grooming and hygiene with them bc they no longer remember how to care for their hair.

    • @trash.pandaaa
      @trash.pandaaa 3 роки тому +112

      This is so sweet🥺 bless you✨

    • @kelleyhawk6595
      @kelleyhawk6595 3 роки тому +20

      👏❤️❤️❤️👏

    • @MelisJoy
      @MelisJoy 3 роки тому +61

      I'm getting into OT! I almost missed seeing your comment & so glad I did. Just another heartwarming reminder of why I love OT & those that choose that field ❤ Bless you & pls keep your big heart. Don't ever let this harsh world get you down

    • @nattywho
      @nattywho 3 роки тому +15

      Awe...that is sweet!

    • @jadoisready
      @jadoisready 3 роки тому +24

      You're amazing! I can tell you really care about your patients.

  • @lovepuppy2242
    @lovepuppy2242 3 роки тому +1966

    I love that she steps away after telling her little girl how to do something, I’ve worked with parents who, while trying to help, take over too quickly and then the kid gets bored and doesn’t want to continue. They need to do things on their own, otherwise they’ll never learn. Stepping in to correct is fine but you have to give kiddos space to grow!

    • @krystalv.cathii
      @krystalv.cathii 3 роки тому +15

      this is so true, i can relate so much!

    • @enjolim.4778
      @enjolim.4778 3 роки тому +17

      I love that part too, I like that she's teaching them at such a young age...i just learned how to care for my natural hair at 30!😂

    • @sunshine12330
      @sunshine12330 3 роки тому

      lord have mercy on us🙄

  • @danigilbert9484
    @danigilbert9484 3 роки тому +827

    I am not African American nor do I have any African American children but I loved watching this. I love seeing the different routines and care for different hair textures. I found this video really fascinating. Great video.

    • @rosemoon583
      @rosemoon583 3 роки тому +22

      same it's nice thing to learn different hair care😁👍🏻💛

    • @ashmaz400
      @ashmaz400 3 роки тому +3

      Off zzGUf

    • @MissGlassButterfly
      @MissGlassButterfly 3 роки тому +10

      Same it’s so lovely seeing their family wash hair time, super cute. And oddly entertaining

    • @HowToSurviveLife.
      @HowToSurviveLife. 3 роки тому +2

      Me too!

  • @Jess-yp9fo
    @Jess-yp9fo 3 роки тому +117

    im literally black american and here i am taking actual notes on how to wash and detangle my OWN hair properly. We love to see it

  • @momojayy3576
    @momojayy3576 3 роки тому +1323

    As a black woman IM IN LOVE on how knowledgeable she is about her children’s hair/different hair textures. Way to go! 💕😍🥰

  • @ravenikon1261
    @ravenikon1261 3 роки тому +2590

    I’m mad at that pink contraption. If we had to go the 99s and the 2000 with neck cramps the lil ones should too! 😂 I’m kidding but fr I could’ve used one

    • @musicismyhothotsex92
      @musicismyhothotsex92 3 роки тому +306

      I'm so mad at it too. I would have loved that as a kid. The haircare game has improved so much too since then

    • @oopsy-daisy
      @oopsy-daisy 3 роки тому +32

      Same!

    • @sarenasworld1494
      @sarenasworld1494 3 роки тому +91

      Fr!!! Lol my neck has issues now that I’m older 😩🤣

    • @tiffanymorris8223
      @tiffanymorris8223 3 роки тому +87

      😂😂😂 I was thinking the same thing.. we just had a rolled up towel .. these fancy kids 😆

    • @PrincessofKeys
      @PrincessofKeys 3 роки тому +27

      Me too lol even though for me it be in the 2000 since my mom washed my hair over the sink my neck always became sore after a while....

  • @merriem24
    @merriem24 3 роки тому +105

    I gave a woman your name so she can watch. Adopted a Haitian daughter and needed some help with the hair. She loved watching you. Great job !!

  • @Ebreazyy
    @Ebreazyy 3 роки тому +68

    Not only do you know what you’re doing you’re teaching your daughter how to properly care for her natural hair. 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @linziesantana4748
    @linziesantana4748 3 роки тому +2174

    When she said “more than that” for the conditioner I felt that 😂

    • @missdrey954
      @missdrey954 3 роки тому +52

      right! I do major scoops for my own hair cause it be getting drrrrrry if you don't

    • @cydneybennett4506
      @cydneybennett4506 3 роки тому +8

      Right! Same!!

    • @Phati_mataa
      @Phati_mataa 3 роки тому +1

      😄♥️

    • @naidiajohnson9773
      @naidiajohnson9773 3 роки тому

      Hi

    • @jojojohnson2000
      @jojojohnson2000 3 роки тому +3

      I felt that that and my hair ain’t even that curly 😂😂 I can’t I love them!!

  • @JudyCashin
    @JudyCashin 3 роки тому +1573

    My childhood babysitter created the shampoo time mat!! So crazy to see it in this video :)

  • @AriBeanLyin03
    @AriBeanLyin03 3 роки тому +49

    It’s just so refreshing to see someone who doesn’t look like me know the struggles of Afro curly hair. Seeing you and your daughters literally tackle 4b/4c hair is so nice to watch ah. Feeling very seen right now. Please keep being you Mama❤️❤️

  • @pinkapple1964
    @pinkapple1964 3 роки тому +182

    I like this woman she understands her daughters 4c hair. How to look after their hair on a wash days, she know how it's important for her daughters routine. I have the upmost respect for her ❤️💯🙌🏾

    • @ericasmith2345
      @ericasmith2345 3 роки тому

      Exactly!!! I also like that fact that she knows it doesn’t have to be washed everyday

  • @lindloser
    @lindloser 3 роки тому +779

    This randomly came up in my recommended and I have sat through the entire thing, eyes locked. I am in awe of how amazing of a mother you are and the knowledge you have and have learned to help teach your girls

  • @LowKey_B
    @LowKey_B 3 роки тому +386

    I love that she makes sure her babies have fresh hairstyles for the first day of school. They’re gunna feel so fly🥰

  • @cieliacasaway745
    @cieliacasaway745 3 роки тому +291

    My own birth mom didn't take care of my hair even half as well as this mom does! Even though my mom didn't take care of it, she didn't apply heat or let me "straighten my hair permanently" whenever I would ask as a child, so I'm grateful that at least I didn't have to worry about heat damage when I finally started learning how to do my hair when I was 17.

    • @ginaliu28
      @ginaliu28 3 роки тому

      My dad doesn’t let me bleach or dip dye my hair because he wants my hair to be decadently healthy

    • @ginaliu28
      @ginaliu28 3 роки тому

      Oh and if you ever feel useless (which I hope you don’t)
      My mum has black hair but she dyed it black again

  • @DemonicMonic
    @DemonicMonic 3 роки тому +387

    No matter who you are, I think it's important to learn about other peoples hair. Especially if you're a girl. If someone asks me for help with their hair, I wanna know what I'm doing.

    • @lifewithkylee9184
      @lifewithkylee9184 3 роки тому +8

      Definitely but one thing with African American hair you favs to comb before you wash because it can get tangly and matted.

    • @viceb7
      @viceb7 3 роки тому +2

      That's why I'm here 😊

    • @dominator8245
      @dominator8245 3 роки тому +9

      I don't even know how to do my own hair and mine is only slightly wavy, so probably should start with me 😂

    • @just-incheng5001
      @just-incheng5001 3 роки тому +15

      hahaha yes, I'm watching this with my son. Who knows, maybe one day he will marry a beautiful Black woman or maybe have beautiful Black children or maybe become a hair stylist, but whatever it is, it's time to teach our kids to appreciate the beauty from other cultures.

    • @kingferrari007
      @kingferrari007 3 роки тому +4

      I don't even know how to do/style my own hair and mine is straight 😕

  • @ALXSSA
    @ALXSSA 3 роки тому +734

    I love this for them. I remember sitting right at my moms legs while she did my hair watching Prison Break. As a daughter, you will always remember these days, trust. Also, love how hearty your daughters hair are!

    • @ChristyGior8
      @ChristyGior8  3 роки тому +77

      I loved prison break!

    • @liag.1646
      @liag.1646 3 роки тому +19

      Throwback with that Prison Break shoutout-I had the biggest crush on Michael Scofield 😆💗

    • @taylorwatts6259
      @taylorwatts6259 3 роки тому +6

      Do we have the same mom lol

  • @shelly-annmarshall-whittak6479
    @shelly-annmarshall-whittak6479 3 роки тому +635

    Her hair have grown all because of the way you take care of her hair

  • @kitm141
    @kitm141 3 роки тому +132

    I don’t have kids and I am not planning to bring any children into my life so who knows why the YT algorithm sent me here... but I’m so glad it did. I don’t have curly hair so all of this was new to me but seeing a mother care for her babies in such a loving and tender way really brought me to tears. Bless you and your beautiful family ❤️

  • @mayaarroyoburton7840
    @mayaarroyoburton7840 3 роки тому +132

    This hit me on a whole different level. Watching you show your daughter how to gently comb her sister's hair is just 🥺🥺♥...

  • @TRYING222SURVIVE
    @TRYING222SURVIVE 3 роки тому +684

    Look at this cool gadget. It’s mind blowing how times have changed🥺. I wish this item was available when I was a kid. Lovely video.

    • @ChristyGior8
      @ChristyGior8  3 роки тому +85

      I know right!?

    • @ElainaWilliams994
      @ElainaWilliams994 3 роки тому +65

      YES! I remember that we had absolutely no gadgets for hair washing. My grandmother just had me lay on the cold hard sink.

    • @ebonylady7103
      @ebonylady7103 3 роки тому +28

      And throw in that huge counter top 🤣

    • @missbliss3089
      @missbliss3089 3 роки тому +4

      Where did you buy the thing she's lying on from

    • @leoshashouseofvacs
      @leoshashouseofvacs 3 роки тому

      @@missbliss3089 same. I wanna know too.

  • @tamiraking9965
    @tamiraking9965 3 роки тому +135

    That little contraption for the neck and phone is one of my childhood DREAMS. You don’t how many wash days have gone by with me being bored and my neck in TOTAL AGONY lol

  • @degrassi1018
    @degrassi1018 3 роки тому +190

    My aunt asked me to take care of my African American cousins for a couple of months but didn't tell me how to care for their hair so I thought I could use my kids routine on their hair luckily my friend was over and after i washed the youngest hair said you cant treat her hair like yours and walked me through how to properly wash their hair.this video is great for people who don't have anyone to help them out

  • @godivagal1
    @godivagal1 3 роки тому +323

    My friend passed away last year and not one person in her family has taken care of her youngest daughter's hair since her passing. I'm trying to learn how to work with her 4c hair because I'm definitely not adept with that texture. I have curls, but they are the deep Irish waves, not spirals and not that texture. I've tried to make appointments at local salons for African American hair, and as soon as they find out I'm white, they don't want to talk to me. Literally hang up the phone with a rude remark. *so hurtful and frustrating*. Even one owned by her own family. It breaks my heart. Thank you for taking the time to teach us how to do this. I'm going to start teaching this little girl who nobody wants to help. Her momma would be so upset knowing this was how things are because she used to do the cutest protective styles on her baby. You're changing her life by your kindness without even knowing us. Thank you.

    • @beccafitz22
      @beccafitz22 3 роки тому +27

      This is so sad to hear. What city are you in?

    • @godivagal1
      @godivagal1 3 роки тому +15

      @@beccafitz22 Thanks. It's just sometimes how it is. Life is like that unfortunately. That's why I choose to help where I can. That's what brought me to this channel. She's going to get help because I'm going to learn how to do this. She deserves that much from someone who cares about her. 😊 Erie PA.

    • @marciamcdevitt964
      @marciamcdevitt964 3 роки тому +56

      I think you need to make it very clear from the beginning of the phone call that you’re making an appointment for *someone else*. There’s literally no reason for them to “find out you’re white” via the phone. Just ask for an appointment for the child.

    • @Sparkle132
      @Sparkle132 3 роки тому +17

      Reading this I have to say you are the sweetest person! That baby girl is blessed to have someone watching over her in such a way.

    • @karikareh6018
      @karikareh6018 3 роки тому +25

      @@godivagal1 I’m in Bowie, MD, and my sister is a licensed stylist... she is here too. If you can come down and bring baby girl, we can make a Fun Saturday out of it. Or will let you know when we are in PA.

  • @brielovestea3501
    @brielovestea3501 3 роки тому +301

    I luv how educated the mama is about black hair. It just really shows how much she loves her kids that she cares and takes the time to learn about their hair
    We need more people like her!

    • @catherinedecelles4112
      @catherinedecelles4112 3 роки тому +1

      A lot of mamas care about their kids, and will do everything for them. That is what they do. It frightens me that you say we need more people like her, because she is just acting like a woman who loves her kids. That is what it means to be a mom. There is nothing unusual about it, don’t believe for a minute most moms wouldn’t do the same, because they will and always have.

    • @brielovestea3501
      @brielovestea3501 3 роки тому +19

      @@catherinedecelles4112 unfortunately I know many moms that are very neglectful towards their kids and dont care enough to know what their kids are having for dinner let alone how to take care of their hair. Plus, and this is what I was referring to, it is very common for those who adopt kids of different races and ethnicities dont know or make the effort to know how to care for their hair; for example one of my best friends growing up was adopted and her mom had her running around in an unkempt hair bun everyday. But of course I agree, most Moms would care and love their kids enough to make sure they are well cared for, but this is not always the case.

    • @wavesonswim8738
      @wavesonswim8738 3 роки тому +8

      @@catherinedecelles4112 she’s not saying this without reason. This is a serious issue that a lot of black/ mixed children face with mothers of a different race. Before the internet and UA-cam age a lot of these mothers couldn’t figure out where to even go for this education

  • @adrianakennebrew8599
    @adrianakennebrew8599 3 роки тому +11

    As a black woman I can definitely say my hair is where I get my confidence thank you for putting so much time patience and effort into their hair and their confidence keep going queen ❤️❤️

  • @ChristynaPatterson
    @ChristynaPatterson 3 роки тому +12

    Love the fact that your daughter is so patient with her sister learning on her scalp

  • @lucestrega6645
    @lucestrega6645 3 роки тому +114

    Idk if it's because my mom was rarely there and just passed but this made me so emotional just seeing her take care of her girls like that . They will Cherish these memories when their older I promise

    • @beccafitz22
      @beccafitz22 3 роки тому +10

      My condolences to you & your family.

  • @kayla5160
    @kayla5160 3 роки тому +330

    Gigi is gonna be so good at doing her hair when she gets bigger. She's well informed 😊

  • @wifeyniki
    @wifeyniki 2 роки тому +15

    I love how she is teaching her girls and empowering them for self-care and sisterhood. Positive reinforcement is on point.

  • @CiciWyze
    @CiciWyze 3 роки тому +32

    Thank you! My son is 15, biracial with 4c hair. I'm a barber so I specialize is short cuts and styles and he's always been on point.... with short styles. Well he's decided he wants some like late 80's Prince style hair 😐😑🙄. I found your channel and it's been a life saver, his hair is looking fabulous.

  • @chamrithomas1422
    @chamrithomas1422 3 роки тому +122

    Idk how I got to this video lol but I just love what you’re doing: bridging the gap- this is the type of content people need! I’m a black mother and the way you’re working the hair..you’re a natural! I appreciate you so much for learning natural hair care and being a voice for many mommies out there! Literally have chills, this is so warming to my heart - You’re phenomenal ❤️

  • @madeofchaiandsilk
    @madeofchaiandsilk 3 роки тому +33

    this is so amazing. not just bc she knows what she’s doing but she’s teaching these girls how to do their own and they can then pass that on to when they have their own children someday. this makes my heart full.

  • @issyssingram5924
    @issyssingram5924 3 роки тому +164

    I’m a black mom and she has taught me some tricks❤️Love her

    • @trulyblessed4573
      @trulyblessed4573 3 роки тому +9

      Yesss! Just love it😇

    • @ahobbs6421
      @ahobbs6421 3 роки тому

      I learned so much as someone with 4b, c hair. Your voice is so calming.

  • @kendrawaterbury2328
    @kendrawaterbury2328 Рік тому +2

    Let’s not forget how valuable this lesson will be when they have their own babies 💜

  • @emflanagan
    @emflanagan 2 роки тому +7

    Love that your younger daughter is helping. Learning and bonding at the same time!

  • @itsmesiraya199
    @itsmesiraya199 3 роки тому +326

    The fact that she is teaching them to wash each other’s hair for future purposes is awesome!💕 I started washing my own hair a year ago when I was 13 I’m 14 now btw I luv ur channel💕

    • @emilie5229
      @emilie5229 3 роки тому +3

      You had someone wash your hair until 13? I am white with straight hair and i realy don't understand why .

    • @joeandmissyang3154
      @joeandmissyang3154 3 роки тому +39

      @@emilie5229 our hair is so much easier to care for, POC have curly (there are varying strength of curl) dry fragile hair that requires very specific care. You and I could wash and comb our hair with pretty much any product with little to no damage

    • @gen3141
      @gen3141 3 роки тому +23

      @@emilie5229 you’re white ofc you wouldn’t understand the struggles

    • @cassyking5015
      @cassyking5015 3 роки тому +26

      @@ItsDeedlebug its not so much about the curls but more about texture. Idc how curly your white hair is, it will never be as course, fragile, and dry as black hair.

    • @LoverScratch
      @LoverScratch 3 роки тому +20

      @@ItsDeedlebug baby chill,, check your privilege.
      You won’t find a single black person with naturally dead straight hair. I understand there can be some white people with curls, but more often than not the curls are much, much looser and the texture is very different (unless they are mixed, which even then they are not white so it don’t apply).
      hair is a big part of black culture, for you to say “bUt SoMe WhItE pEoPLe” is to erase that culture, and to erase centuries of black people styling and protecting our hair.
      Educate yourself babes, and listen to minorities when they’re letting you know something’s not okay.

  • @tamerawebb8094
    @tamerawebb8094 3 роки тому +63

    I love learning to do African American hairstyles and yes it is important for you children to gain knowledge and learn how to take care of their own hair! I love learning about this myself!

  • @ONELOVE2580
    @ONELOVE2580 3 роки тому +11

    Her hair looks so healthy. You're amazing for making these tutorials. I'm sure lots of moms appreciate you. God bless.

  • @GabrielleHayes1921
    @GabrielleHayes1921 3 роки тому +27

    And I really like that she's taking and posting videos too, not only is she teaching other parents what to do, but she's also putting them out there for her own kids so if anything ever happened to her they can look back on the memories made and see what to do in case they forget

  • @rosleenp
    @rosleenp 3 роки тому +171

    Avaya's hair has grown quite a bit as well. Just like her sister Gigi's

  • @peaceememmah
    @peaceememmah 3 роки тому +95

    Awww look at Gigi helping her big sister🥺😩

  • @samanthasoucy7274
    @samanthasoucy7274 3 роки тому +22

    I am curly, with lots of superfine hair. I was born to 2 curly parents who had no idea how to care of their hair. Thank you for taking the time to properly care for their hair and not just try to take the life out of it like my mother did. Her idea of fixed my hair was fry it and straighten it with heat.

  • @soilgrasswaterair
    @soilgrasswaterair 3 роки тому +20

    2:20 Aw, That’s so sweet! To include the girls in each others’ washing routine is a lovely way to strengthen the girls’ sibling bond. Gentle parenting is so fantastic to see! I wish all kids could grow up being loved unconditionally and truly validated and respected! I’m sitting here wondering if moma Christy has a degree within psychology because there is such an awareness to the parenting style💕

  • @TheChristycamel
    @TheChristycamel 3 роки тому +37

    Avaya looks so relaxed getting her hair washed & conditioned, lucky girl to have such a sweet mom & sister taking care of her!

  • @HisDaughter88
    @HisDaughter88 3 роки тому +17

    I love that the girls are learning how to care for their own hair by caring for one another’s hair. Such beautiful princesses. Love it!

  • @justtierra3297
    @justtierra3297 3 роки тому +40

    I’m an adopted AA woman and this made me smile so much ❤️thank you

  • @Reality_TV
    @Reality_TV 3 роки тому +3

    That's it! I'm older than you Christy, but I'm turning the clock back a few decades, trading in my mom (she can be my aunt or something) and coming back as your kid! No you didn't just set up a little kiddie thing to wash their hair, learn AND be entertained at the same time! WOW! That is just WOW! I don't know you, but I love you! My daughter is grown and so am I, obviously, but my mother was too busy to do all of this. This is so encouraging and affirming! I'm blown away by your videos! I just found you today and my mind is blown! I love that you put this kind of energy into black hair care! These girls are being TAUGHT and that is SO incredibly important! WOW!

  • @analogkid28
    @analogkid28 3 роки тому +67

    What great mother, daughter, sister time. 💜

  • @whitneyapplin180
    @whitneyapplin180 3 роки тому +26

    I love how you’re showing your daughters to take care of each other. So heartwarming 💕

  • @sjjstrawn
    @sjjstrawn 3 роки тому +43

    So some hints: condition and detangle before you shampoo. Once you have it detangled put in big twists like 5 max. This allows you access to the scalp without tangling the hair again. Also allows you to insure it is rinsed well. Leaving shampoo on the scalp dries it. When done shampooing you can take out twists and deep condition again. Rinse it out twist it back up. So much eaiaer to keep tangles out.

    • @ChristyGior8
      @ChristyGior8  3 роки тому +14

      Love this, thank you!

    • @skye387
      @skye387 3 роки тому

      That's interesting :0
      Different hair, different way to wash it.

  • @maryhall3800
    @maryhall3800 3 роки тому +4

    Her love and patience is amazing. I love how she partners with her daughters and this is also a learning experience for them. Hats off to her for the respect she has for her children's culture.

  • @ranay5029
    @ranay5029 3 роки тому +183

    Christy you're oldest daughter has thick hair growing tremendously

  • @victa9257
    @victa9257 3 роки тому +18

    As an adopted brown girl with white parents who had no concept of (nor intrest in) black/natural haircare, I just want to say THANK YOU.
    I would say you have no idea how much this will mean to your daughters in the future - but it's very clear you do. Hugs.

  • @oregontribal1
    @oregontribal1 3 роки тому +9

    A lifetime of memories are being made by all 3 of them and it's awesome that they get a hands on approach with mom's help.

  • @gabriellamarie5711
    @gabriellamarie5711 3 роки тому +118

    This makes me so happy! I’m mixed race (Puerto Rican/Black) and my mom made sure she learned how to do my hair. Now as an adult I’m so thankful to my mom. She instilled in me a strong confidence about my hair. I’ve been able to carry that confidence with me throughout life. Even when people told me I shouldn’t. Things like this really do make a huge difference in a child’s life. Massive props to you! You’re so amazing 😘

    • @Thouxanbangeo
      @Thouxanbangeo 3 роки тому +6

      Puerto rican isn't a race

    • @Thefluffwuff
      @Thefluffwuff 3 роки тому +15

      @@Thouxanbangeo This could have been worded better. While there are many ethnicities encompassed in Puerto Rico, and by technicality 'Puerto Rican' is more of a nationality because there are many races present there, it's highly invalidating to blatantly say that someone's ethnic/racial identification is wrong. Gabriella is obviously proud of her Puerto Rican heritage and should be allowed to identify as mixed Puerto Rican without being told she's wrong. I'm floored. Seriously.

    • @Thouxanbangeo
      @Thouxanbangeo 3 роки тому +4

      @@Thefluffwuff But it's the truth? I'm literally latino.. I know latino isn't a race because it ISN'T.

    • @milkandspice1074
      @milkandspice1074 3 роки тому +7

      @@Thouxanbangeo who really cares in this context.

    • @jhoniikemp
      @jhoniikemp 3 роки тому +3

      @@Thouxanbangeo don’t worry about these other ppl. You’re right. It’s not your fault people don’t know what the definition of nationality and race mean. And it’s not offensive to point it out either. If ppl actually self identified correctly there wouldn’t be so much misunderstanding all of the time

  • @samanthabaez2503
    @samanthabaez2503 3 роки тому +57

    You take such wonderful care of their hair, Christy! I love these videos so much. Some POC don't even do their kids hair this well. I know my mom didn't growing up. Your girls will appreciate this so much when they are older.

  • @leeah2211
    @leeah2211 3 роки тому +50

    I loveee how Gigi was getting in there like a boss learning 🥰

  • @selenamatheson0929
    @selenamatheson0929 3 роки тому +2

    I love how she’s not only doing their hair but teaching them at the same time. Like omg you’re a blessing 😭😭❤️❤️

  • @fernandagonzalez998
    @fernandagonzalez998 3 роки тому +13

    Their hair looks super healthy and beautiful, and they loon really happy.

  • @dionnereese1786
    @dionnereese1786 3 роки тому +58

    Avaya's hair has grown so much and yes they do need to know how to do their own hair.

    • @fattysl26
      @fattysl26 3 роки тому

      I love the idea of them being taught how to do each others hair

  • @mimilovinglife4544
    @mimilovinglife4544 3 роки тому +10

    I’m pregnant my first baby coming in a few weeks its going to be mixed my partner is Indian and has dreads and find this so inspiring. What an amazing mum you are. Thank you for your gift of kindness for humanity!

  • @kaycee8323
    @kaycee8323 3 роки тому +10

    I love how you teach your daughter to do her sister's hair, I can tell she's memorizing everything and it's such an important experience to learn and appreciate other's and her own hair

  • @tamekaanderson4344
    @tamekaanderson4344 3 роки тому +3

    Much respect to this woman for learning, loving, and caring for her brown daughters hair!! ❤

  • @kyleeborn9102
    @kyleeborn9102 3 роки тому +5

    This comment section is so safe I love it moms loving moms is a beautiful world

  • @DeliciaTrini
    @DeliciaTrini 3 роки тому +9

    Her hair is long, healthy and beautiful! And the little helper is too cute! Your so patient with them!💞

  • @loveyours5830
    @loveyours5830 3 роки тому +4

    I’m a young black woman who promotes the beauty and potential of natural hair every chance I get...especially to young black girls. You are doing an amazing job of properly taking care of their hair and teaching them! Thank you for what you’re doing. Most importantly your daughters will thank you later. ✨

  • @Bourneinlight
    @Bourneinlight 3 роки тому

    This is such a ministry and labor of love! It’s not often you see such pure love and selfless attitude. You understood the assignment! I salute ma!

  • @Fraxinus_a
    @Fraxinus_a 3 роки тому +78

    Love this video, they're learning how to care for themselves and each other. 💞💕

  • @aashleyk78
    @aashleyk78 3 роки тому +14

    I'm glad you're teaching your daughters how to do their hair. I had no idea how to take care of my natural curls until i graduated high school. I learned everything I know about natural hair from youtube.

  • @NotANoob27x7
    @NotANoob27x7 3 роки тому +1

    I don't even have curly/kinky hair, but my oriental mother used to be so harsh on me whenever she washed my hair as a kid. Bath-time was literally a nightmare for me, connected with lots of hurting. She always seemed to not wanna do it, act as though I am forcing her, trying to get it done really fast and not caring if I get hurt. She just ignored my aches of pain and pleading to stop. I was an only child.
    It makes me so happy to see you love your daughters the way you do. Being super careful and loving. Your daughters are lucky and I hope you guys have a long lifetime together!

  • @set4life19821luv
    @set4life19821luv 3 роки тому +7

    As a mom of biracial kids I love you’re taking the time to learn,understand and implicate the process of taking care of natural hair and your kids hair grade! But I especially love the fact you’re wanting to teach other parents and have baby sister helping 💜 I hope you learn their culture and teach them their history and spirituality as well!! Love this!

    • @Madenthewest
      @Madenthewest 2 роки тому

      Their Spirituality? What is our spirituality? Just curious what you meant

  • @feliciakates3565
    @feliciakates3565 3 роки тому +45

    Thank you for instilling self esteem in your girls. To love themselves As their natural selves.

  • @christineruss3133
    @christineruss3133 3 роки тому +35

    Her hair has grown quite a bit! Thats really good hair care

  • @emeryz7231
    @emeryz7231 3 роки тому +5

    I AM IN LOVE WITH THAT PINK THING SHE HAS, ITS LIKE A BACK REST AND SHE EVEN GOT A PHONE LIKE-, SHES REALLY LUCKY TO HAVE SUCH A GREAT MOM AND SISTER❤️❤️❤️

  • @naturallynatasha
    @naturallynatasha 3 роки тому +11

    I absolutely love this. Thank you for being so knowledgeable about our hair and taking the effort to ensure her hair is healthy. What an amazing soul you are ❤️❤️❤️

  • @daviabraxton3099
    @daviabraxton3099 3 роки тому +26

    What a beautiful mom you are
    You take so much time
    There hair going be down there waist.
    They don't even need a perm!

  • @livinunruly5430
    @livinunruly5430 3 роки тому +14

    I love this!!!❤️ she has really taken the time out find out how to take care of a differ texture of hair and I love how gentle she is with them💕

  • @maggiematheson6899
    @maggiematheson6899 3 роки тому +1

    I love that you are teaching your daughter to take care of her sister. This is what my grandma did for me and my cousins.

  • @iMeekx3
    @iMeekx3 2 роки тому +1

    When I was younger my mother abruptly stopped doing mine and my sister hair. She always mentioned she wanted boys bc she didn’t have the patience & wasn’t a big hair person. She left that task for us to figure it out as we got older. Watching these videos are so great they won’t grow up hating their hair. Thank you for this video!

    • @melissafreeman7064
      @melissafreeman7064 2 роки тому

      My daughters won’t let me do their hair anymore! They’re 7 and 10. It’s makes me sad because I LOVED that time with them!

  • @a111eya
    @a111eya 3 роки тому +20

    The world really needs more people like you! ❤️

  • @atiraroberson6481
    @atiraroberson6481 3 роки тому +16

    My heart melted when she was helping wash her sisters hair❤️

  • @shanboo1995
    @shanboo1995 3 роки тому +2

    This is refreshing to see. My mother is white and really didn’t make much of an effort to learn how to do my hair so she just permed it when I was 8 years old til I was 19 and realized my natural hair wasn’t so bad. Thanks so much for taking your time to teach your daughters and show them that their natural hair is perfect and beautiful

  • @jaharivee6883
    @jaharivee6883 3 роки тому

    Thank you for caring for these young Black girls with such attention to their African needs. Heart warming video.

  • @angelcat4785
    @angelcat4785 3 роки тому +4

    I’ve got to give this lady a high five for the care that she gives this lovely little girl

  • @BlaquebyEmi
    @BlaquebyEmi 3 роки тому +172

    Can you do a hair product haul? With all the hair products you use for your babies hair. And plss tell your favorites.

  • @nicolefranklin1752
    @nicolefranklin1752 3 роки тому +4

    Love how she's teaching them to do their own hair as well as the audience!!

  • @lenafulcher1546
    @lenafulcher1546 3 роки тому +9

    Love that you've taken the time to know and learn the importance of caring for 4 type hair and teaching your daughters..amazing job!💜

  • @sheraw5308
    @sheraw5308 3 роки тому +19

    I wish they had that padding to lie on when I was little. Looks comfy

  • @trenique
    @trenique 3 роки тому +25

    Avaya’s hair has grown so much within the last year those “quarantine twists” really work!!! You go Christy 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @mindystonge41
    @mindystonge41 3 роки тому

    I'm loving watching her sister watch the video and then her sister and her facial expressions. Priceless. Kids are awesome

  • @jenniferwillis2602
    @jenniferwillis2602 3 роки тому +3

    You are a fantastic mommy! I love how you’re bringing up strong, independent women. I adore how sweet they are with one another. 💕☺️