Let's talk plant community etiquette 🤔 repot & chat

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  • Опубліковано 12 січ 2025

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  • @horace6851
    @horace6851 Рік тому +9

    honestly, the seed/pollen argument is super easy for me. You split profits in a way that was agreed upon before the pollen was provided :) If the pollen donor wants 50% and you have a receptive plant and want that pollen you give them 50%. If they agree to take less, you make an agreement that fits both sides. If you can't agree on the split, then both sides move on and find other pollination partners :) And it's the same with buying, if you want to buy at a discount and agree to give some seeds in return that's completely ok in my book, as long as it's agreed upon before the pollination, and both sides are aware of the risks. And if the seed producer goes back on any of those agreements they are burned for me forever, not even as friends, but as people.

  • @charnelleskipp8934
    @charnelleskipp8934 Рік тому +2

    Hello from sunny Stellenbosch, South Africa. I am so behind on my video watching. You would think this time of year would mean more free time but at the moment it feels like the opposite 😢. I love your videos and content. The only ones I dont watch are the Hoya ones. Enjoy your holiday season and take a break if you need it. We will all still be here next year 😊

    • @Preservedthemoment
      @Preservedthemoment Рік тому

      Can I ask why you don’t watch/like the hoya videos? No judgment at all! I just like hearing what different people think about Hoyas, because they interest me very much.

    • @charnelleskipp8934
      @charnelleskipp8934 Рік тому

      @laurenclaire2500 mainly because I just don't have any interest in Hoya. I actually own one which is just surviving but that's all.

  • @rafalz9275
    @rafalz9275 Рік тому +1

    In regards to first topic - Ecuagenera gives the names of original crossed plants , you need to open page with a specific plant , its not on the main page.

  • @nebunami2205
    @nebunami2205 Рік тому +1

    the pallidiflorum cilinder looked so funny lmao

  • @lilmissbeats
    @lilmissbeats Рік тому +3

    What a great topic! I can also see charmaines influence on your plants on your shelf (rhipsalis!!!) and also i can definitely see your influence on her collection. It's so cool to share and learn from friends!

  • @variegated_stingray
    @variegated_stingray Рік тому +1

    the argument of how to split seeds happened in the Anthurium Addicts fb group. most ppl said 50/50 is the most fair split. a few thought the person with the mother plant might deserve 60% of the share, and another few thought it should just simply be discussed prior.

  • @ThatGirlShelbyy
    @ThatGirlShelbyy Рік тому +9

    I'm very interested to see this one!! ❤🎉
    It seems the community varies SO much depending which platform it's on, and the toxicity levels vary a lot too :/
    I pretty much stick to youtube and planty discords now because its closer knit, and I rarely go into massive groups on facebook anymore (where the toxicity is at its highest).
    It's always so interesting seeing yours and Charmaine's views on the community!

    • @youdontevengrowhere
      @youdontevengrowhere  Рік тому +4

      I only use Facebook to read and lurk because it can get a bit nasty in there I agree 😆
      Thank you Shelby!!

  • @natashaoreilly7072
    @natashaoreilly7072 Рік тому

    Loved this convo 🤍

  • @lisaanglim9588
    @lisaanglim9588 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video. It was very interesting and you brought up things I would never have thought of.

  • @OrdinaryPlantGirl
    @OrdinaryPlantGirl Рік тому

    Loved this! As far as layering, what you are doing with Pon I do with Perlite. I've done that to plants in drainage, no drainage, with soil and Pon as an experiment. Good luck!

  • @lindaedwards4632
    @lindaedwards4632 Рік тому

    Enjoyed your video as always 👍 Chatty repots are great 😀🇨🇦

  • @alexclark64
    @alexclark64 Рік тому

    Thank you for discussing these. In regard to gifting … the length of time is important but I also think the value / rarity matters hugely. Personally I haven’t sold any gifted plants (yet) but I would feel worse selling any props of an expensive / cherished plants over a seeds I’ve grown out. I quite often ask if I can regift if I have multiples 🥰

  • @carolstuff
    @carolstuff Рік тому

    Great chat & repotting. Thanks for sharing!

  • @brooklin_bernek
    @brooklin_bernek Рік тому

    I agree , the one with the mother should get more . Growing and maintaining PLUS like you said most mothers really take a hit afterwards

  • @lilmissbeats
    @lilmissbeats Рік тому

    Alice: "Soil?"
    Dead HAHAHA

  • @michelleyu
    @michelleyu Рік тому

    Thanks for the great topic!

  • @meghangillespie3248
    @meghangillespie3248 Рік тому

    "in case you were wondering I had a ... banana" 😂🍌

  • @coffee2962
    @coffee2962 Рік тому +3

    You and Charmaine have been such Queen
    Giving us these long videos ❤
    What a great Christmas gift for me
    Especially with the UK weather being a gloom
    Btw
    Congratulations on becoming an Auntie Alice!! 🎉❤❤

    • @youdontevengrowhere
      @youdontevengrowhere  Рік тому +1

      What I would give to be in that UK gloomy weather right now 🥲🥲
      Thank you so much!!

  • @sharondriver2445
    @sharondriver2445 Рік тому +1

    Great video, I appreciate when plant UA-camrs review this topic.
    Merry Christmas 🎄🎁

  • @deniseakagvtspender5885
    @deniseakagvtspender5885 Рік тому +1

    I’m enjoying your content. Keep up the good work. You seem more comfortable lately. Looking forward to future videos.🙂

  • @sophiahambuda8100
    @sophiahambuda8100 Рік тому +1

    Love this video concept, can’t wait to watch this… 😊

  • @ThePursuitofJoy
    @ThePursuitofJoy Рік тому

    "Soil?" 😂💚

  • @theonyxblack
    @theonyxblack Рік тому +1

    I really needed an Alice video today. Thank you ❤

  • @robynross8524
    @robynross8524 Рік тому

    I am still very new to anthuriums, I am so thrown off by new hearing about tree fern soil??? Can you tell me what you mean by this? I learned about you from Charmaine's channel and I just love the both of you, I recently took notes of a mix that she uses, but i noticed she used soil? I kinda went 'soilless' with only using coco coir...so i really could use a little guidance if possible. Thank you so much in advance!

  • @mnbotanicals
    @mnbotanicals Рік тому +1

    At the end of the day it takes two plants to do the deed so 50/50 ownership of seeds just makes sense

    • @botanicassie
      @botanicassie Рік тому

      Yes but I think the reason people are divided is because all the pollen donor does collect and hand over. The person with the mother plant then puts the pollen on watches for it to take cares for the plant and nurses the berries to fruition. They then have to remove the berries and germinate the seeds. It’s just more work for the mother plant owner.
      But I think whatever is agreed upon prior is what’s best. If that’s 50/50 then that’s totally cool!

  • @petermurdoch7540
    @petermurdoch7540 Рік тому +1

    Top or bottom, can’t we just be versatile ?

  • @aplantprocess
    @aplantprocess Рік тому

    So many great points.
    Jesse is a treasure 🥺
    At 45:03, it can so relate to feeling annoyed in advance just thinking about a frustrating scenario (such as a friend offering something and then not following through).
    Your unpotting of the pallidiflorum 😂

  • @path_of_sol
    @path_of_sol Рік тому

  • @lisaanglim9588
    @lisaanglim9588 Рік тому

    A whole banana? Wow you really stuffed yourself didn’t you. Lol 😂

  • @lisaanglim9588
    @lisaanglim9588 Рік тому

    I have things of my mothers and recently found a book that my mom had saved of all the cards people sent me through my early years. It felt rid of it but I threw it away. I save things that are family related. My mom had a bunch of “Storybook Dolls”. She is putting them up on Facebook market place to sell. I want so bad to save them but I have no way to save and show them off. Mom kept them in their boxes in trunk in the basement. I was always disappointed that she kept them all away in the basement but I’d be doing the same thing so I had to give up the idea of getting one. It would be in a box somewhere.all this to say I’m a packrat

  • @kaelascuriosity
    @kaelascuriosity Рік тому +2

    THE PALLI PART OMGGG honestly she just wanted to make some prop sisters and the root cylinder was amazing I screamed LMAO

  • @kaelascuriosity
    @kaelascuriosity Рік тому +1

    I totally agree I would not be able to be Jesse in that scenario 😩 props to him bc I’d feel like I never knew that person and would prob not be able to be their friend anymore

  • @bibibibi5409
    @bibibibi5409 Рік тому +2

    Thnx for your great content! Dabbling in anthuriums because of you and Sherman 😅question: when pollinating who is dominant? Mother or pollen donor ?

    • @youdontevengrowhere
      @youdontevengrowhere  Рік тому +1

      Usually the seed parent has more of a dominant edge but it also depends on the species!

    • @bibibibi5409
      @bibibibi5409 Рік тому

      @@youdontevengrowhere many thanks!

  • @lisaanglim9588
    @lisaanglim9588 Рік тому

    Shipping by weight. The larger plants weigh more than the seedlings.

  • @lisaanglim9588
    @lisaanglim9588 Рік тому

    The GIGI leaves look like a sharks tooth.

  • @ronjakh
    @ronjakh Рік тому

    I think the seedageddon in question was in the fb group Anthurium Enthusiasts. I remember following an intense conflict about seeds and division of profits, responsibility, value of effort etc. people were taking sides, arguing, giving receipts, people were kicked out of the group. It was a whole big thing 😄

  • @AhmadAsrafHashim
    @AhmadAsrafHashim Рік тому +1

    Quite surprised that u have a ficus 😱 u know they become trees 🤣

  • @lisaanglim9588
    @lisaanglim9588 Рік тому

    Cut those long roots.

  • @Anah-B
    @Anah-B Рік тому

    So, Ecuagenera claims that they have to name their crosses in order to export them. But I’m sure it’s mostly a branding thing.
    One thing that I am VERY curious about Re: naming plants is why do we hate Anthurium hybrid names but we so widely accept Philodendron Splendid, Glorious, Majestic, etc. 🤔

    • @warp871
      @warp871 Рік тому

      it's probably partly because Anthuriums are much easier to breed, anyone can do it, whereas Philodendrons will not flower for most of the average plant hobbyists growing their philodendrons in their living rooms. When you start seeing new weird names for Anthurium on a daily basis it does get tiring, like..I just want to know the actual ID of the plant. even if it's just a no ID specimen. Saying this as a non-snobby person, I love most indonesian anthuriums for example. But putting names on everything that are not actual cultivars only generates confusion. I'm pretty sure the philos you mentioned are all actual registered cultivars.

  • @madelynbeierle8232
    @madelynbeierle8232 Рік тому

    Lmao “soil?”