Why You Procrastinate - and How to Stop it for Good | Elyssa Smith | TEDxBabsonCollege

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  • @clemencebertoli1591
    @clemencebertoli1591 4 місяці тому +383

    Watching this video while procrastinating... Who's with me?

    • @garylake1497
      @garylake1497 3 місяці тому +5

      Yeah,😫🥴 and I hate myself for it 😞

    • @arashbabadinoroozi5262
      @arashbabadinoroozi5262 3 місяці тому

      😂

    • @Mr.Dario_P
      @Mr.Dario_P 3 місяці тому +1

      Actually I put this on as I was clearing up stuff from a room I’ll be moving out of next October. I was getting stuff done, but I kept on thinking “You’re late on schedule and you’re procrastinating.” Does this count?

    • @drone9336
      @drone9336 2 місяці тому

      Same 😂

    • @laurieeichorst2121
      @laurieeichorst2121 2 місяці тому

      Yep😂

  • @KikiJRT
    @KikiJRT 6 місяців тому +74

    The regulating exercise was my aha moment. I started doing this exercise and my to-do list is becoming my ta-dah list. I'm grateful.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +5

      I'm so so happy you found the exercise helpful! YAY for a ta-dah list! So great! Thanks for watching!

    • @m.shawky2044
      @m.shawky2044 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Elyssa-Smith5-5 ) 😅ppl

    • @waffle_chair9269
      @waffle_chair9269 Місяць тому +1

  • @wellbodisalone
    @wellbodisalone 2 дні тому +1

    I like the way she breaks down complex information.

  • @jeweettogniewieikben
    @jeweettogniewieikben 3 дні тому +2

    I'm trying to heal my anxious attachment style and this video adds an other piece to the puzzle. Thank you.

  • @hijlkemarketing
    @hijlkemarketing 6 місяців тому +44

    This is amazing. Imagine a world of people who don't procrastinate?! How much better the world would be because of it.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +6

      Isn't that an amazing thing to think about? Such an inspiration to work for! Thank you for watching!

    • @SAY1MY1NAME1
      @SAY1MY1NAME1 22 дні тому +1

      I'd say a world where we could remove all unnecessary traumas as parents guardians and peers. Then I think we'd see all sorts of benefits with one of them being no more unhealthy levels of procrastination

    • @SAY1MY1NAME1
      @SAY1MY1NAME1 22 дні тому

      I'm not sure if it would be for this to happen or a byproduct but I think we need a big culture shift in terms of western winning and success culture and capitalist/financial based value system because it doesn't promote time to teach and learn each child as an individual but rather traumatically forces them into cookie cutter shapes which they might not quite fit but it forces them to put on a mask and go do the world proud without any regard for them and who they are. Most of us seem to only be figuring out who we are closer to 40...

  • @MariaAdeleRosenfeld
    @MariaAdeleRosenfeld 6 місяців тому +32

    I love how the speaker breaks down this information to make it accessible and practical to apply to my daily life! So many good takeaways!

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      I'm so glad you found it helpful and practical! Thank you so much for watching!

    • @bluwng
      @bluwng 3 місяці тому

      Mel Robbin’s gave a solution in 2 minutes

  • @roxanneking-clark270
    @roxanneking-clark270 6 місяців тому +14

    The world needs more of Elyssa 💓💓

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +1

      Ah thank you so much, friend!!!

  • @sandracr2141
    @sandracr2141 25 днів тому +2

    “i’ll go tell them your coming” 🫳🏾🎤 that was a good mic drop! 😂

  • @UnemployMan396-xd7ov
    @UnemployMan396-xd7ov 5 місяців тому +10

    I will definitely use the calming technique here, I have always speculated but am not sure if procrastination is the symptom of a bigger problem in life.

  • @KikiJRT
    @KikiJRT 6 місяців тому +7

    Elyssa is phenomenal. I can truly relate with procrastinating. It was a coping mechanism that I’ve embraced. Thank you Elyssa for this most helpful and inspiring talk.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +4

      So many people just call themselves "procrastinators" and feel ashamed...but we can regulate ourselves and let go of it!

  • @lisaferguson7223
    @lisaferguson7223 6 місяців тому +5

    A piece of brilliance to inform the way we experience our one day at a time. Thank you Elyssa!

  • @trueblue8179
    @trueblue8179 6 місяців тому +10

    This beautiful person is amazing! Her message will change the world! 💜

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +1

      This is so kind! Thank you so much for watching - I hope you found it helpful!

  • @chatterboxbrands6270
    @chatterboxbrands6270 6 місяців тому +6

    This talk has been so impactful and makes so much sense. It is really making do a deep dive on this internally.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      I'm so glad you have found it helpful! Thank you so much for watching!

  • @hanta4682
    @hanta4682 6 місяців тому +10

    Love how she influences others
    This is amazing definitely apply all those rules
    Thank you

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +4

      You are so welcome! Thank you so much for watching!

  • @ecjdferguson
    @ecjdferguson 6 місяців тому +5

    Excellent advice on how to calm the nervous system in order to help stop procrastination for good.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +3

      Thank you so much for watching! I hope you found it useful!

  • @DươngHồngXuânThanh
    @DươngHồngXuânThanh 2 місяці тому

    Hidden Time Wealth blew my mind. I’ve shared it with friends, and they’re all amazed at how much more productive they've become.

  • @fundyourwedding2670
    @fundyourwedding2670 Місяць тому

    This was so powerful. I'm literally sat here crying at all the times I've been in flight mode and haven't been able to manage anything at all. So grateful for this talk today ❤

  • @bradleejaymz
    @bradleejaymz 6 місяців тому +10

    I’m definitely going to use this advice. I find myself struggling to start working on a very large project at work. I can definitely see the correlation between procrastination and a related trauma of mine.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      I'm so glad you found this helpful! It helps so much to know that it could be related to something prior. Thank you so much for watching!

  • @EasyEcoLifeWithKaren
    @EasyEcoLifeWithKaren 6 місяців тому +7

    Clear explanation. Effective options for me to change my ways. An opportunity to make such great positive changes in my life. Thank you Elyssa!

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      You are so welcome! I'm so excited to see how it goes for you! Thanks for watching!

  • @inacove9808
    @inacove9808 6 місяців тому +3

    I am so proud of you. You are good enough. You are SO much. You are just perfect. THANK YOU for this.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      THank you soooo much Ina! I literally wouldn't be here without you!

  • @lcplaunt8341
    @lcplaunt8341 6 місяців тому +12

    I watched this presentation at the TedX event. I'm glad it's on UA-cam now so I could watch it again, but also so I can share it with friends.If you watched this because I shared it with you, reply and let me know what you think.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +3

      Thank you so much for watching live and on replay! I hope you found it helpful!

  • @shizahmad
    @shizahmad 5 місяців тому +4

    Love this...this actually made me realize a lot of things about my procrastination. I think I know what to do to help myself now.

  • @EasyEcoLifeWithKaren
    @EasyEcoLifeWithKaren 6 місяців тому +2

    A topic that I thought was impossible to understand, I now understand AND know what to do about it. Thank you Elyssa!

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      I'm so glad this was helpful! You are so welcome! Thank you for watching!

  • @UClyKsv3Bfcvx5VUrQraQlyw
    @UClyKsv3Bfcvx5VUrQraQlyw 6 місяців тому +8

    What an informative talk and method to conquer the monster of procrastination. I can relate.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +1

      I'm so glad you found it helpful! Thank you so much for watching!

  • @TaniaKinsey
    @TaniaKinsey 6 місяців тому +5

    This resonates with me a lot. The vagus nerve exercise is such a quick, but effective, calming activity too. X

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      Isn't it such a nice quick reset? I'm so glad you found it helpful! Thank you for watching!

  • @rebeccalomax3398
    @rebeccalomax3398 6 місяців тому +12

    Wow! What a groundbreaking subject. I’m excited to see more on this topic especially as scientists continue to uncover the capabilities of the brain.The possibilities are endless.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      The brain is amazing! Thank you so much for watching! I hope it was helpful!

  • @melissagamarra7611
    @melissagamarra7611 6 місяців тому +7

    So interesting! Crazy to think that just a few easy steps can help rewire how I’m thinking and feeling.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      I'm glad you found it interesting! Thank you so much for watching!

  • @sarahferguson6479
    @sarahferguson6479 6 місяців тому +8

    Great information! I appreciate these obtainable steps toward stopping procrastination. I especially liked at about 12 minutes in the vagus nerve calming exercise. What a sense of calmness and clarity I felt after a short 1 minute exercise.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +3

      I'm so glad you found this helpful! The vagus nerve exercise is so powerful. Thank you so much for watching!

  • @treena3651
    @treena3651 6 місяців тому +5

    I can totally relate, thank you for breaking down the why and telling us how to begin overcoming old procrastination patterns. This talk is gold 🙌

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      You are so welcome ! Thank you so much for watching!

  • @kateycooper23
    @kateycooper23 6 місяців тому +4

    Wow what a powerful message with real life practical tools to use to get us started! I wish everyone could see this video- this is awesome stuff! I need to hear more from her!!!

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      Thank you so much! I'm so glad you found it helpful. Thank you for your support and for watching!

  • @taruniyadav8567
    @taruniyadav8567 6 місяців тому +2

    Tiny T trauma...a new concept for me. This was an amazing episode, and love the way you explained so beautifully.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much! And thanks for watching - I hope this was helpful!

  • @notvanilladigitals2829
    @notvanilladigitals2829 6 місяців тому +3

    This makes so much sense, really logical! Few easy steps I will now be applying to my life every day - Thank-you Elyssa!

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +3

      You are so welcome! I hope you find it all useful! Thank you for watching!

  • @kristyanderson5475
    @kristyanderson5475 6 місяців тому +2

    I have loved getting to hear from Elyssa about this topic and I'm so excited that she has a Ted talk now that's easy to share! That last line gets me, so powerful!

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      AH thank you so much for watching, Kristy!

  • @creativecostumeacademy
    @creativecostumeacademy 6 місяців тому +6

    This is so eye opening! Thank you so much for sharing this! It makes so much sense and is such a logical perspective. The more tools we have the better we can all be.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      You are so welcome! Thank you so much for watching - I hope you find it useful!

  • @virtualtechangel
    @virtualtechangel 6 місяців тому +3

    I really need to figure out what my "tiny t trauma" is! This talk is so interesting and so well explained!

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +1

      I'm so glad you found it interesting! I hope it was helpful for you. Thanks for watching!!

  • @itsgillean
    @itsgillean 6 місяців тому +2

    Such an important message! Thank you for sharing Elyssa!

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      You are so welcome! Thank you so much for your comment and for watching!!

  • @adamlewiswalker
    @adamlewiswalker 3 місяці тому +2

    Had me hooked from the start, such an entertaining, insightful and impactful talk. This is how useful information needs to be delivered! Thanks for sharing :)

  • @Natalie-Abbott
    @Natalie-Abbott 6 місяців тому +12

    NOTES TAKEN 📝Sharing this to all of my friends - we all need to watch this!

    • @EasyEcoLifeWithKaren
      @EasyEcoLifeWithKaren 6 місяців тому +2

      Yes, I took notes too!😁

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      Ah thank you so much for sharing it! And for watching!

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      @@EasyEcoLifeWithKaren Fantastic!!

  • @kmcgheecoaching
    @kmcgheecoaching 6 місяців тому +2

    What a thought-provoking idea! Loved the activity at the end. Can't wait to try it out!

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +1

      I’m so glad you enjoyed the talk! Thank you so much for watching!! 😊

    • @EasyEcoLifeWithKaren
      @EasyEcoLifeWithKaren 6 місяців тому

      The activity really works for me, how did you find it?

  • @missjsews
    @missjsews 6 місяців тому +2

    This is was a great talk and I am saving this so I can use the strategy later. I’ve recently adopted a policy of doing the thing I want to do the least, first in the day and that is working greatly so far. I am also trying to respect my mood to some degree by doing the physical tasks when I feel strong and the mental tasks when I feel most alert and creative. I’m a work in progress but your calming exercise will be used regularly for sure. Thank you

  • @RachelJaneBoleyn
    @RachelJaneBoleyn 6 місяців тому +2

    What an amazing talk, thank you Elyssa!

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +3

      AH thank you so much, lovely! Thanks for watching!

  • @christianagarza2740
    @christianagarza2740 6 місяців тому +1

    So good Elyssa ❤ Thank you for sharing your message.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +2

      Thank you so much! And thanks for all your support!!!

  • @roxanneking-clark270
    @roxanneking-clark270 6 місяців тому +3

    Such an inspiring talk!

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +3

      Thank you so much! And thank you for watching!

  • @JackBurtonsHaulageCo
    @JackBurtonsHaulageCo 14 днів тому

    You have spoken to me lady. Thanks

  • @Galaxy_Grenade
    @Galaxy_Grenade 3 місяці тому

    I think I really needed this…
    Every day I find myself doing anything I can instead of my school work (I’m in gr10) whether it be social media to just walking around my room to even thinking of all the excuses to get more time to work.. and when I get more time I procrastinate that!!
    I feel like I’m wasting my time all my life and that there’s always someone better than me that I’ll never be so why should I bother to even try ?
    Maybe that’s my tinyT??
    I hope one day I’ll make it out of this prison I’ve put myself in

  • @kalpnaratnani4039
    @kalpnaratnani4039 3 місяці тому +1

    This was really very good and relatable. More people need to see this.

  • @grantwilliams-qn4jg
    @grantwilliams-qn4jg 6 місяців тому +3

    This is great very insightful thanks

  • @hartbeepsbishopsstortfordh1340
    @hartbeepsbishopsstortfordh1340 6 місяців тому +1

    Great watch and easy steps to follow.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much! And thanks for watching!

  • @glorywipfli781
    @glorywipfli781 6 місяців тому +2

    This is really helpful info. Thank you.

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +1

      You are so welcome! Thanks so much for watching!

  • @sarahcooper3476
    @sarahcooper3476 6 місяців тому +4

    This is so good!!!

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +3

      Thank you! And thank you so much for watching!

  • @SaroshMuntaha
    @SaroshMuntaha 2 місяці тому

    finally got to see that Ive been searchin for... really loved it!

  • @roxanneking-clark270
    @roxanneking-clark270 6 місяців тому +2

    Smashed this Elyssa! 👏🏽👏🏽

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +1

      Ah thank you, friend! Thanks so much for watching!

  • @BalochGaming1
    @BalochGaming1 2 місяці тому

    I Love this channel.❤ This channel changed my life.

  • @꽃-h3z
    @꽃-h3z 2 місяці тому +1

    I tend to procrastinating because I was usually doing good in my early year, but now as I get older I don't get the result as I've always receive. So I'm always afraid to start doing my tasks because my work gonna be not good enough.

  • @UnemployMan396-xd7ov
    @UnemployMan396-xd7ov 5 місяців тому +1

    cant believe this talk get flaged, Maybe the speaker are a bit naive about the depth and complex nature of procrastination. But mistake is what it make growth, just like my journey to combat procrastination

  • @SpinningBack0906
    @SpinningBack0906 7 днів тому

    I’ll watch this video later.

  • @sumo__gaming_0
    @sumo__gaming_0 2 місяці тому

    The way Hidden Time Wealth dives into the concept of productivity is mind-blowing. Hidden Time Wealth tips are pure gold, and I wish more people knew about them.

  • @roxanneking-clark270
    @roxanneking-clark270 6 місяців тому +2

    Count the lightbulb moments you'll have!!

  • @---305
    @---305 Місяць тому

    thank you

  • @amir_5151
    @amir_5151 2 місяці тому

    Hidden Time Wealth is so unique. I can’t believe I hadn’t heard about it sooner. It’s amazing how life-changing this can be for anyone battling procrastination.

  • @kkaceyee8296
    @kkaceyee8296 Місяць тому +3

    even to watch this video i procrastinate 💀

  • @spMafiyaYT
    @spMafiyaYT 2 місяці тому

    Discovering Hidden Time Wealth has been one of the best things Ive done for my productivity. It feels like I’ve finally cracked the code to overcoming procrastination.

  • @nikolaylyapunov9586
    @nikolaylyapunov9586 27 днів тому

    I liked the reasoning, but the practical part seems like a simplification.

  • @success_stories_dh
    @success_stories_dh 2 місяці тому

    Very informative video

  • @onurakmanlar9945
    @onurakmanlar9945 2 місяці тому

    I cant stop raving about Hidden Time Wealth. Its like a secret eBook for those who want to stop procrastinating and achieve their goals effortlessly.

  • @MandaMoniumMUA
    @MandaMoniumMUA 6 місяців тому +3

    Elyssa is truly a gift to the world and will help make it a better place to exist. Thank you for giving her a stage to help in that process. 🩷

    • @Elyssa-Smith
      @Elyssa-Smith 6 місяців тому +1

      Ah thank you so much! I hope this was helpful for you -thank you so much for your support and for watching!

  • @huynhhiens4T9
    @huynhhiens4T9 2 місяці тому

    The concept of Hidden Time Wealth blew my mind. It’s like finding a cheat code for productivity and defeating procrastination.

  • @YaseenKhan-s3s
    @YaseenKhan-s3s Місяць тому

    I Love you thankyou so much it helped :)

  • @ARedits2.O
    @ARedits2.O 2 місяці тому

    Ive been experimenting with Hidden Time Wealth, and wow, the results speak for themselves. Its a game changer for anyone struggling with procrastination.

  • @jaspersanchez7606
    @jaspersanchez7606 10 днів тому

    Saved to watch later 😂

  • @YeshaniNethmi-q6o
    @YeshaniNethmi-q6o 5 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @nnekababy
    @nnekababy 4 місяці тому +2

    For me…this video starts at 11:26 .

  • @roxanneking-clark270
    @roxanneking-clark270 6 місяців тому +2

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @BalochGaming1
    @BalochGaming1 2 місяці тому

    Eat that frog 🐸 book really help me a lot

  • @molitovv
    @molitovv Місяць тому

    She is so nervous!

  • @LaKiênCương
    @LaKiênCương 2 місяці тому

    There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.

  • @MatlalaLeahMbondo-fl8vx
    @MatlalaLeahMbondo-fl8vx 3 місяці тому

  • @komiljonovmuhammadzohid
    @komiljonovmuhammadzohid 4 місяці тому +2

    Pls sister next your videos Speak little beacuse our techer give your sentence Write word by word

  • @sheyonglearntoletgo
    @sheyonglearntoletgo 6 місяців тому +2

    0:32

  • @abbaskothamangalam925
    @abbaskothamangalam925 Місяць тому

    😅

  • @kannika_raj
    @kannika_raj 2 місяці тому

    Anyone else here obsessed with Hidden Time Wealth? Its like discovering a secret formula for beating procrastination!

  • @reya..4668
    @reya..4668 3 місяці тому

    11:45

  • @SentimentalApe
    @SentimentalApe Місяць тому

    Rather than Tiny T trauma, she should have called it Subtle T trauma.

  • @JK-ni1qe
    @JK-ni1qe 17 днів тому

    Now she talkin bout trauma, yea im out. Everybodys a victim of trauma nowadays

  • @QuasarKen009
    @QuasarKen009 Місяць тому

    Being an iverachiever and a procrastinator makes no sense

  • @bsr_editz_2
    @bsr_editz_2 2 місяці тому

    Has anyone else experienced life changes thanks to an eBook called Hidden Time Wealth? Its such a refreshing perspective on overcoming procrastination.

  • @alwayson999
    @alwayson999 4 дні тому

    One of the worst public speakers in tedx history.

  • @luongthanhxdkKZ
    @luongthanhxdkKZ 2 місяці тому

    Has anyone else experienced life changes thanks to an eBook called Hidden Time Wealth? It's such a refreshing perspective on overcoming procrastination.

  • @JK-ni1qe
    @JK-ni1qe 17 днів тому

    I was listening til she started trauma dumping bout her "abusive" ex and how she was bleeding out on the floor. Lol jesus lady get a grip

  • @alwayson999
    @alwayson999 4 дні тому

    Omfg the cringe is off the charts here

  • @truongngocTZw
    @truongngocTZw 2 місяці тому +2

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