Groom's Shocking Wedding Speech Causes CHAOS, Bride Forced to Break Silence
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- Опубліковано 1 лют 2024
- Your wedding day. The day you had been planning your entire life. Everything was perfect. Well, almost everything. Let’s unravel the two most controversial grooms circulating TikTok.
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I was once invited to my ex's wedding and I didn't attend. I had no business going there.
RIGHT!
Not in _just_ this weddings case but in general even if I was still good friends with my ex it'd be too weird for me to invite them. Like what about my spouse, how should they feel when I invite my ex?
She didn’t just attend she was a bridesmaid!!!
For me. i never went to any weddings but i cant tell how bad they could be like this one
That's exactly right! Well, at least you know what is and isn't acceptable.
It breaks my heart to see purple haired bride saying her husband is “too good for her”, & you can tell she really believes it. And unlike others stating their marriage won’t last, unfortunately theirs will last, because she doesn’t believe she can do better, & she’ll stay no matter what.
True is very sad
She either has a low self esteem or has internalized misogyny.
You can call it unfortunate, but only they or people close to them can really tell. Quite likely, your hearts are bleeding for a woman who is actually happy.
Nah when he finds someone better looking etc he WILL leave just like he said in his vows.. she cannot blame him for cheating and leaving her for the other girl.. she agreed to the vows lol people like her made me sad and furious at the same time, she could do so much better and she knows this deeply but felt like no one would want her so Instead she settle for someone who settled for her..
@@vlastimil-furst A woman belittling herself is never actually happy. It's either forced self-brainwashing or manipulation by her partner. Feeling like you're not "good enough" for your partner is bound to bring uneasiness constantly, even if it does appear like they are having the time of their lives.
I'm sorry, these women are simply in denial of the type of men they married. I married a guy just like that and I am happily divorced now. They need to stand up for what they deserve
Proud of you standing up and leaving, you deserve real love… especially from yourself 🎉
Yes ma’am, do not settle for less. My husband is so kind and respectful to me. I’m glad you’re happy now and I hope you are surrounded by those who treat you lovingly.
.....question is, does she know what she deserves?
If she knew she deserves better, she wouldnt be with a loser like this.
Her insisting that "he's too good for me" is a giant 🚩🚩🚩.
Edit: I was not coming for this woman in anyway! I was coming for the man. Period
The bride probably has internalized misogyny.
@@bibianaguadalupeislasherre9880or low self esteem or just way too nice something like that or just thinks ways to much (kinda obv) to put ppl way above her not equal to
Sad is she truly thinks that way
Absolutely. She may be married but she made a lot of sacrifices for that to happen.
We don't know these people. If you really care about empowering other women, then maybe you should all try respecting other women's autonomy instead of infantilizing or pathologizing them every time they differ from you. Lets be real, you are judging them only to belittle them and feel important.
If she thinks he’s too good for her she needs to see a therapist, genuinely
But we don't know what he's like or what he's done. We only know that we find his vulger humor gross and inappropriate, but lets be real, maybe she's genuinely into that? He could be an amazing guy in every other way for all we know. Why aren't we respecting another woman's agency?
I agree, very low self asteem and ignoring red flags...
@@ANPC-pi9vuSure, we can also have opinions on his fkboi vows.
What if he is?
She's stronger than I. he is a walking manifestation of cringe to me. Painful every time he talks
While i find him gross, I don't think its fair to label things in another persons relationship based on one video
....and his laugh?? Yikes. It's creepy.
She has known him for years. She had to know what he was/was not capable of saying. She loves him. All of the internet doesn't have to love him too.
@@LB-gz3ke ok Where did I say she wasn't aware of what kind of man he is?
@@detectivetrashcat39 You said she is stronger than you. How? What kind of strength did she need to summon to tolerate him? None. She loves him. He makes you cringe. He doesn't make her cringe.
He didn't even think to just say "I love you and I'm so happy to be marrying you". Basically, state a fact (I hope) and what's currently happening.
Because I don’t think that is true to him
Exactly.
If a man isn't excited to marry a woman, that is a huge red flag. Both of these couples have been shacking up for years and already have children. These men don't appear to respect their women because they were already getting all the privileges without all of the responsibilities. So the wedding and marriage now means nothing to them. It's just to make their wives happy, or to satisfy other family and friends, but they would probably never have gotten married, if it were up to them. If you think about it the men don't even appear to respect their own family and friends by subjecting them to this horrible behavior.
1 Peter 3:7 KJV - Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
Why didn't they just have the usual vows read by the officiant?? My husband is probably the shyest person I know, so we had the officiant read the usual, but we did write our own vows, we just read them privately, at home, with each other.
But, we got remarried on our 15th wedding anniversary on the pitons in St. Lucia. It was a much smaller ceremony, and he felt comfortable reading his own vows that he wrote and so did I!! It was absolutely amazing!! We're married almost 30 years now!
dang😅 keep going strong ❤️
@@lightlingzooma-69 ty 😊
That is so sweet! I’m newly engaged and was just thinking about vows and I love the idea of sharing them in private. That is so romantic. Mind if I borrow the idea?
I want this ! ❤️
remarried? did y’all get divorced…
Imagine being either of those women 😭😭 they think disrespect is not only ok but funny because they’ve been conditioned and desensitised by “take a joke! Don’t be so serious, you’re so sensitive!”
they wanna be the cool girl, or not like other girls
This chick was given a plethora of red flags and still said I do .
My guess is that he's gaslit and insulted the poor girl until she BELIEVES it (that's just my theory)
We have got to stop being mad for women who aren’t. Let’s put our energy into women who actually need AND want support
yeah if she can't see the red flags why should we point them out to her and let her know she can actually have a better, healthier relationship? 🙄
exactly, some people simply cannot be helped
@@dietotaku do you think that actually works though? if that were the case there would be no women in toxic relationships. Some people are too deep in their own insecurity that only they can pull themselves up
@@dietotaku No one is "pointing out" anything. Seemingly the whole internet is only berating her. Imagining having so many people coming after a decision you made? The only people who can truly help her, are those in her socioenvironment.
FACTS!!! These people waste their time on people who are clearly far gone. Let her learn the hard and traumatic way.
The man can't even take his own wedding seriously. He's definitely not taking that marriage seriously smfh
May we never marry any red flags! Smh 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Those are the type of guys who will laugh when you fall down and not help you up
How come it's the women that defend the men, when it should be the guys explaining themselves? Mhm
clearly they care a lot
When you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the Red Flags just look like flags.
I actually pity these women who think that they deserve this kind of disrespect, who don't think that their spouse should treat them with kindness, who think it's normal that their spouses only focus on their bodies and not on feelings... Breaks my heart 😢
Stockholm syndrome
Trauma bonds are very hard to break. When @bused by someone you loved it makes you want to protect them from retribution. It's very strange. It's like once your body has betrayed you then your heart and mind does it too.
Reality is that bodies changes. That's natural. Relationship is more than just the physical side.
The Bible clearly states that husbands are to LOVE their wives sacrificially and that a man that loves his wife, loves himself. That's how tight and important that bond is supposed to be.
Ephesians 5:25-29 KJV
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
I saw this on Instagram & was like, why would you say something so disgusting on your wedding day? And the fact he said nothing romantic at all and degrading her AND his ex girlfriend was there with a speech?! Yeah, narcissistic behavior indeed by the groom.
NORMALIZE👏LEAVING👏MEN👏AT👏THE👏ALTAR👏 I CANT STRESS THIS ENOUGH 😫 ; if he brings you shame on your wedding day, he is going to embarrass you in the future.
❤ i cant agree more
27 year old man child smh
The bar is so low.
I just can’t get over the fact that they hear their wives sweet vows and still make those vows says well a lot
Yes, sadly the problem is God is not in the union, the god of this world is. I pray that people take the marriage union seriously because God will not be mocked. ❤❤
@@jernisharichard5032 marriage has been around longer than your god has been worshipped.
@@jernisharichard5032 Fear or love of God should not be the only thing that keeps a marriage from falling apart. Respect, kindness, love and support are what we need regardless of any religious beliefs.
@@dracofirex true, but fear of God goes along with all the other things that keep a marriage from falling apart.
@@Gavvin84the dumbest take I heard today 🙄
It is so sad to me, to see these women express vulnerability and respect and admiration for their partners and then tolerate a man with the emotional depth of a teaspoon
Its always women who says "i felt like no one would love me" "i was so broken" "you helped me pick up the pieces" who tolerate the absolute bare minimum effort these men are putting in when they deserve a husband who is just as excited and vulnerable and emotional on their wedding day as she is.
Edit: the ACTUAL ICK when he kissed her and went "mm mmm yeah" 🤢🤢🤢 i mean STRAIGHT NAUSEA
I take it this is your first trailer park wedding...
Sad
i think that men think that they think its not masculine to spill out all their feelings, even in an appropriate situation as a wedding. its pretty pathetic
Why would that purple hair chick think he’s too good for her ? I don’t even get it
Bro but at least ask ChatGPT to write it 😂
Hahaha I totally used chatGPT to write cards and stuff before! 😂😂😂
@@saraglickman5889chatgpt, best website when your brain is not braining
Seriously, Cody said that he gets zero respect and being called out from saying that and being so toxic she can do so much better and why did he invite his ex? seriously, he's in hot water.
If some rando you never met said you're in hot water about your wedding, think you'd care?
Okay this goes from bad to worse
I've been to many weddings growing up and have even gotten the pleasure of attending one of my best friend's recently. And out of all those weddings I've been to, the couples that are still happily together, are the ones in which the groom either cried during his vows or gave a very emotionally heartfelt vow. All other ones in which the groom gave a "humourous" vow, the couple have separated or the groom is currently being disowned by my family for the way he's been treating his wife and we are quietly waiting for a divorce to free her of the emotional turmoil. We may not know these people, they might claim to know their relationship of 10+ years, but all I'm saying is that there is a pattern. And I can only feel sorry for the brides who feel like r husbands are "too good" for them. I only hope they can learn to love themselves more and see themselves as empowering.
Yea we can never know the ins and outs of the relationship as well as they do, but sometime's an outside perspective locks onto the issues they're ignoring in their little love bubble.
My best friend's husband's vows weren't literature, but they were heartfelt and true. You don't have to write poetry or anything super sappy that you might be embarrassed about in front of the guys to write meaningful vows. He is a good man, through and through and I'm so happy for them.
Ok but the clip of the examples of good vows "when death chooses to take my hand I will hold you with the other" I'm literally crying.
It's really cute for a cheesy line, but if this was a slasher flick...
Narcs always TAKE vulnerable people. Their childhoods prepared them for humiliation. Thanks moma and dad!
Hiim taking 10 years to get married is already a huge red flag in itself. I wouldn't be surprised if it was just a shut-up ring
If my groom was that second dude and he said those things in his vows I would definitely be walking away. How crude and embarrassing.
In the middle of a sentence, I would not listen to that. Also their two young daughters were there!
@@jenniferbond7073 yes seriously
I'm imagining my brother if my mom was officiant and there is no way he would say that kind of thing in front of her!
That was disgusting
Extremely inappropriate and disrespectful to everyone there. Nobody wants to hear that any day of the week, much less on the couple's wedding day.
Ephesians 4:29 KJV - Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
I went to a wedding where I saw behind the scenes of both the groom and the bride getting ready. The groom hadn't written his vows and had his friends help him write something real quick while drinking beers. Meanwhile, the bride (who had planned and organized EVERYTHING completely herself) had written hers months ago, but was panicking while trying to get ready because apparently the groom had been upset her vows were typed and printed and told her THAT day she needed to rewrite them by hand.
Between directing guests where to go, ensuring all the moving parts were in place, putting the bouquets, decor and buffet together, and getting _herself_ ready, she absolutely didn't have time to hand write her vows. She was SO stressed, so I and her mother jumped in and hand wrote those typed vows for her. Big yikes.
Yikes. Afraid to look bad in front of everyone else, but not to _her_, the one who matters.
My husband and I both struggle with procrastination and mild anxiety when public speaking. We both decided right away that we would not write our own vows to declare in front of everybody. Wedding was smooth like butter.
I had been in a relationship with a narcissist for 7 years and I never realized the insane amount of abuse going on. It took me years to understand the extent of it.
I would also always defend him and actually believed what I said because I was so brainwashed.
So for people who say that we only saw 10 seconds and don't know enough to make judgement about their relationship... Just the fact that the brides, and not the grooms, came out to defend them and one said ''I don't deserve him" and the other "I was broken into pieces"... That's more telling to me than the actual vows themselves. I hope these brides will realize their actual worth eventually.
These men are cringey as heck.
Perpetual frat boys for sure, cover your drink when they're in town.
This isn't the first red flag the groom put out but if his vows were tone deaf then his bride "the puzzle" wasn't listening.
Imaging thinking so little of yourself, that you think this is all you deserve. She needs professional help badly.
The wife's are just delusional and would do anything just to have a man which is so sad. Teach your kids to learn to enjoy their alone time because if you don't, it raises desperate adults that end up with people who don't appreciate them.
I think the issue people actually have with the vows some people write - or don't - is that it feels like they don't really take the ceremony seriously. Like I get having fun with your vows and cracking jokes but the jokes themselves tend to be objectifying and misogynistic and it sucks to see go down on such an important day.
Also SCREAMING AT THE FUNKYFROGBAIT CAMEO 😭😭😭
One of the wholesome vows even had a wholesome joke. "Look at this dog every time you see a dog." Jokes can be holesome it's not hard.
I couldn't believe they used Charlotte Dobre! 😮
@@Bisexualdragon4042 Agreed. Even if it's a joke directed at your partner it can still be wholesome and thoughtful. Like including a family inside joke or something. I just don't get why they choose jokes that are uncomfortable and objectifying. Like what. There are one million better options and none of them require you to be a wordsmith. Just to read the freaking room. It's a wedding not a tight five at a comedy open mic in a dive bar.
Yes...everyone knows weddings should be misandristic these days, just like EVERYTHING else...
@@allhopeabandon7831 Put the cr*ck pipe down please
How disrespectful of him! This is a narcissist. Unfortunately, her eyes will open too late.
Based on the video he has zero respect for her really, it's like he's been dragued into this wedding...Now, there must have been pleeeeeenty of signs before this, I don't think he showed an entire new personality on his wedding day...She know what she signed for
Ah yes we are judging people based on a single 10 second video...
@@aparnarai3708its almost like..if they didnt want to be judged by the public..they had the option to not post it 🤷♂️ you never heard of the internet sweetheart?
@@foxbuns They didn't post it. It was one of the guests.
@@foxbunsit’s almost like, you didn’t listen to the video. You made up your mind before hearing anything and then just tuned out 🤷♀️
@@foxbuns they didn't post it
Their wedding photographer did...
Didn't watch the video sweetheart?
In both couples I see such disrespect the man holds for his wife. It’s disgusting.
Married happily for almost 41 years now…our whole relationship is built upon our senses of humor. Yet our wedding was traditional vows (with the obey part included for both of us as that was our ONLY nod towards humor within our ceremony), BUT our reception is where we cut loose and friends who were in attendance STILL talk about how much fun they had at our reception. We became “marriage goals”in the rural area where we are from and to date one couple who are our friends and FOUR of our nieces/nephews have asked if it would be ok if they also got married on our wedding date because of the longevity of our marriage! And all five of those couples are still married. (Friends’ marriage is going on 39 years. Oldest niece to choose the same date will celebrate 26 years on our mutual date. The last one to marry on our wedding anniversary is another niece…she and her husband will celebrate seven years this year!)
Reserve the humor for your reception or whatever party you have to celebrate the wedding. The wedding vows should be light-hearted but they should MEAN something! You’re taking a vow-not doing stand-up.
I hope these marriages last IF the grooms treat the brides well. If these women are stuck in toxicity groomed to believe they don’t deserve anything more than what he’s willing to dole out then I hope these men go ahead and leave the women so they will be free to find themselves and live good lives.
Never, ever settle, ladies. Never.
That's really cool that your successful and happy marriage is an inspiration to your friends and family, so much so, that they see your anniversary as a good luck day for their own nuptials! Congratulations!
I never thought he'd make it this far
Some kid in the audience: Nobody did!
😅
Both grooms sounds like they have not just zero, but NEGATIVE amount of respect for woman they're about to marry.
I mean, it's fine if both versions had jokes in it. But if one sounds like something THOUGHTFUL and as if she says aloud something from very bottom of her heart, and his vow sounds like cutout from bad standup where man jokes about women being dumb and useless - call that person who's running around with red flag
For those brides defending their groom for showing his "personality", I'm 100% convinced that these are the same dudes that will make an inappropriate joke at a funeral. He's got the rest of his life and every other occasion to be funny and he chose his own wedding to be a clown.
The length of relationship isn’t by itself the measure of successful relationship. Some people have committed themselves to suffering
Honestly how many women defend their abusive partners until they are found dead? So why won't they defend their toxic partner who has zero respect for them, which IS exactly how these 2 men see their now wives. No real man would ever disrespect or degrade their partner like this in front of their family and friends on what is suppose to be the most special day in their lives. So yeah the women can defend the act but that also shows how much they self respect they have for themselves, when the man they say loves them so much tells everyone present that all she is to him is a s** doll and as long as they know their place he will stay with them. That's just my opinion as a man maybe I'm wrong maybe I'm right, who knows, all I know for sure is that I see more and more women with no self respect and it is sad after how hard women have fought to be seen as more then just baby machines and home cooks.
So happy my husband actually wrote some vows lol
Girl that is the bare minimum lol
Its not a flex even of he did or didnt. These brides KNEW what was going to happen.
I’ve learned, You can’t argue with people over who they choose to marry. They got to live with that choice themselves, they know what level of respect they deserve and what they want to put up with so we can only sit and watch and hope it works out well.
I’m sorry but if my groom says that to me on our wedding day, i’m literally calling it quits. Practice self-love early on ladies and gentlemen before you enter a relationship. Love yourself, know your worth. No man is “too good” for you. No one can tell me otherwise.
Weddings are getting out of hand. From child-free being told to people at the last minute, to MILs wearing white, to exs now being invited into the wedding party. This is also just tasteless and gross
The officiant gave him so many chances but the groom couldnt deliver
The "female rage" is so true. As women, we all know that one friend, one sister, one mother, one female colleague who would do anything for her partner, who has her whole heart set on him, and yet he gives so little in return.
But this (sorry, not sorry) first piece of garbage of a guy dares to say he's going to smack her a**? This is problematic on so many levels and not just a joke at all. He didn't understand how much she meant her words and the fact that he wasn't thinking about her and how his words would make her feel shows that there wasn't a single cell in his brain. Yes, I took that sentence personally on a meta-level as I believe many women have been or are in that situation. She didn't deserve to get such a weak response to her love. And it hurts to see others go through this. Maybe this is projecting, but still a but of truth we can all see in this situations.
And the second piece of garbage with his obscene vows is a human disgrace. If the purple-haired lady is happy with him, so be it. But still, he could have said some nice things about her. Seeing other clips of beautiful vows, won't let me accept anything different.
(Of course, this situation also exists for men, but this is about us women.)
L😊mk Lo ppl
My husband and I just said the classic vows to each other. We’ve been married 21 years. Maybe at our 50th wedding anniversary we’ll write some.
Wonder how funny it will be when it’s their turn to pay for their daughter’s weddings and that’s the speech the groom gives.
My husband cried like a baby when he read his beautiful vows ❤ I didn't only because I paid alot for my makeup 😂
That is why I did my own makeup… I couldn’t stop my tears!!! They stopped the ceremony to get me a box of tissues! 😂😂😂 I’m a cryer.
Marriage is a huge joke for most people. It’s like getting a yoga membership for a month. Once the trial is over, if you find you don’t like it, it’s easily abandoned.
I wouldn’t want my kids to go to the second wedding due to the vulgarity I definitely would not want to explain the nuance of the grooms words to kids who are 7 and under
9:43 “ it’s one thing to invite your ex to your wedding. It’s another thing to let them make a speech, I’m not ready for that level of maturity” 😂😂😂
Still better than the groom who told his bride in front of everyone “tonight you can decide if you want to be a toaster stroodle or a twinkie. I would leave him right there
Yeah that was distasteful and crude..
And the "as long as my balls are empty" wasn't as crude? The whole speech was horrifying.
Yep this one seemed tame in comparison to that one.
Cringeworthy and awful. It’s the reason I plan on getting married in a courthouse.
“The one thing you can’t control… the groom.” You 100% have control over the groom. Make sure you are marrying someone that will not embarrass you.
That second guy was cringe af. Now that was embarrassing!
First Groom totally disrespected not only his bride but everyone there.
I was in a secually abusive realationship noone that told me he was off or weird convinced me. I thought only I could understand the meaningful and respecting relationship between us. He always said he'd chase while crying crocodile tears. Ofcourse he never changed but I could have never seen it on my own. It hard to realize manipution when your in that deep.
That's why it's so hard to reach women like these. Oftentimes the creep they're with has to destroy their lives first before they wake up 😔
@@nomdeguerre247 not only that, if you’re a good friend and you try to warn her, you get cut off, not the guy. I lost a good friend over just warning her of what I saw was going on with him. And what I said and feared and discussed with her eventually came true. I learned the hard way that’s why people say nothing.
He's a child.
ew, well thank these ladies for taking these men away from being disrespectful to anyone else…that’s why they’re together cause he’s disrespectful and she allows it
I really hope this is a huge misunderstanding and he just froze up under pressure. I’ve done that on stage before and it’s excruciating for everyone 😖
The first guy I think that is more plausible. 2nd guy is a pos
The officiant responded on Reddit, the bride is his niece & said Cody is extremely socially awkward and hates the attention on him.. he also said the ex and the bride used to be best friends before she got with him
that doesn’t excuse his behavior.
Hates the attention on him. Has the most attention grabbing vows possible. Buddy should've thought it over.
if he was socially awkward... HE WOULD HAVE WRITTEN A SCRIPT - it doesn't make sense?
Still ew.
Respect for your spouse is non-negotiable. Awkward or not
My MIL forced my husband to invite both of his exes, and it was so weird.
why does the second guy sound like he’s doing a school presentation 😭
Some people are happy rolling around in sh*t. They shouldn't be surprised when others judge them.
If people say “ you’re not gonna last” and you do but no one is like “I love the progress”. It doesn’t mean your breaking the odds…. It means you’re weak, conditioned and stuck. You deserve better than someone making a joke out of your life.
Exactly
And you know these people's private lives? You are just concern trolling to make yourself feel important. lol
@@ANPC-pi9vuI love my husbands money so much. I’m so happy to get it all. That’s my vows
His last name tells you where she found him-"Shein"🙃
Do people still say "man and wife"? Gross, what is this, the 1950s?
PRIEST: "Well, alright, it's YOUR funeral....for which I'll be available for a nominal fee."
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I used to spin fire at the near University campus, near to a hall that they rent out for weddings. One time a wedding party came out to watch us and infront of the Bride, the Groom turned to me and said "This is the best thing to happen to me all day".... Cue the Bride turning and walking off.
I wonder if they are still together?
They're your wedding vows, not open mic night.
Nah, those vows were cringe as all and I am definitely with the internet on this one..Yikes
9:25
Dad: I thought he'd never make it this far
Son: No one did!
😂😂
Why are all these videographers posting these on their social media? Do they ask for permission or not because I can't imagine blasting something so intimate online and criticizing it like that without knowing them
Believe it or not, they own the content! It’s in the contracts of every photographer and videographer. You need to edit the clause before signing.
What more do you need to know?
Those are knowingly recorded moments of a treasured moment between friends and family, were the grooms said "f@ck it, let's humiliate her".
Do you think they turned into the epitome of romanticism afterwards?
@@user-ph4nj1ds3n What are you talking about?
When a man shows you who he is, believe him.
Everyone complains about rom-coms giving us unrealistic expectations about love and romance. But there is also a very common trope that romanticize disrespect and rudeness in relationships - when partners (one partner or both) always put down, insult, prank, "humble" and humiliate each other. I've seen it multiple times in movies, tv shows and books. In real life as well. Most people praise this type of behavior as healthy, wholesome, a sign of true love and good humor. A lot of people who outraged with these vows are the same people who call celebrity couples trolling each other on twitter or couples in tv shows always insulting each other "charming" and "couple goals". Let's be honest, if it was a Ryan Reynolds' tweet to Blake Lively most people would've found it "cute" and "romantic" but as some random guy's wedding vows it's disgusting and red flags. We praised this kind of behavior left and right for many years and than got extremely mad because someone had the bad taste to choose a very inappropriate time and place to express it. I personally know several quite young couples who literally play-act British tv show "Vicious" in their relationships. I don't get it but it's not my place to judge as long as everyone is happy and on the same page.
I died when you spoke about the other bad groom vows viral wedding at 11 minutes into the video because I was thinking of that literally the whole time lol 🤣
Now "you saying "aww, look at that dog" about every dog you see" is a cute and appropriate joke!
At the end of the day, it is her life. And if she is happy or content with her decisions. Then that’s all that matters.
Right? It's so weird seeing people forcing not just their opinions in her face and down her throat, but telling her, and commanding her to do one thing or another.... Like if you don't have anything nice to say then don't go shoving your nose in places it doesn't belong... There are women who are in actual need and asking for help that need this type of energy, not happy women who don't need nor want help.
Well, it was broadcasted, So people stated how they felt, that's what the world revolves around. To me God and the vow of marriage is not taken seriously. You can joke and all, but that was way too much. I just pray they turn to Jesus. We all need him to be our Savior. A spiritual Man judges all things the Bible says.... Think about it. God bless 🙏🏽
@@jernisharichard5032 you are entitled to your opinion, and I am entitled to mine. I’m not going to argue or go back-and-forth over it. It’s not that deep. I’m not engaging anymore about this. If you have issue with my opinion, then that’s on you not me. Have yourself a wonderful day.😊
She's not happy, she's attached. He's clearly a narcissist
@@bloodsucker228 honey you have yourself a wonderful wonderful day. I’m not even going to entertain that nonsense. Unless you have the degree to diagnose someone as a narcissist, and keep that to yourself again have yourself a blessed day.😊
People need to learn to know when their partner hates them. Just because someone is with you or married you doesn’t mean they love or respect you. Too often people are in relationships for many self reasons that have nothing to do with love & respect for their partner
I loved the vows from corpse bride and we will be using that
Man just recently on an Insta post we gathered with a bunch of people wondering what had happened with this woman... Thanks for this!
guys heres a tip: u can marry someone without a wedding. just in case u just want your partner and not need to embarrass yourselves. u can just do the paperworks.
No weddings are family reunions and people rarely get together especially an entire family weddings aren't for you they are for the grandmas and cousins
@@exoticalBecky_Miami weddings are purely for the couple
The audience's laughs were not an expression of joy, but of discomfort.
I remember i wrote my horrible ex bf a note much like her vows... Looking back i was brainwashed and didnt know i deserved better. I didnt know better. She'll probably divorce him one day.
Michael… in front of your mom? Have some class omg.
He's high af.
OMG A SHUT UP RING 😂😂😂😂
As a woman who is finally coming out of a marriage with a “funny man”…..those jokes are NOT jokes.
How did I just now realize the "smach that @$$" groom and the "ya I dated the groom" controversies were from the same wedding.
He acted as if he is on some Love Island episode 😮
I can feel the cringe in all the guests.
The people defending his blatant disrespect and her desperation are only delulu