The Secret I Kept From My Wife Until Our Wedding Day

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  • @hjewkes
    @hjewkes Рік тому +4021

    Well shit, I follow a guy for random health and fitness content and here I am tearing up over one of the best wedding speeches I’ve ever heard. Well done and congratulations

    • @chocice12
      @chocice12 Рік тому +43

      Same here!

    • @pop.alexandru88
      @pop.alexandru88 Рік тому +29

      Romanian guy in the same situation. ❤

    • @BenCarpenter
      @BenCarpenter  11 місяців тому +219

      Haha, thanks mate.
      I wasn’t even sure I would post this but when I watched the videos back it made for a nice story so I edited them together 🙂❤️

    • @imfirstatachaijr.johnner4240
      @imfirstatachaijr.johnner4240 11 місяців тому +11

      Me either

    • @charlesadams8279
      @charlesadams8279 11 місяців тому +44

      @@BenCarpenterhey man i just randomly saw this video somewhere and came here to watch the full thing. I can tell you will be a great husband, God put y’all together for sure. Seek The Lord, and He will bless y’all!

  • @jameslambert4487
    @jameslambert4487 9 місяців тому +1452

    When her father gets up and goes and hugs him, It was the moment I knew he's made a great choice in life. Congratulations Ben.

    • @snuffywitow1915
      @snuffywitow1915 4 місяці тому +33

      My son is Korean and I’m very connected to Korean culture. Hugging like that is unusual so it means a lot. Very moving

    • @robertoseveno
      @robertoseveno 4 місяці тому +6

      Beautiful. Respect. Welcome under my wing and tutelage young man, hugs

    • @Axatar
      @Axatar 3 місяці тому +6

      you could early tell with his slow up and down head nod

  • @GrupoChucumite
    @GrupoChucumite 10 місяців тому +1212

    His in-laws already approved of him, but that speech in Korean showed massive respect to the family and they were obviously very moved by it. Beautiful.

  • @hugohackenbush1554
    @hugohackenbush1554 9 місяців тому +1146

    64 year old grumpy and grizzled old biker here. Mate, you brought tears to this old f****rs eyes with your eloquent, heartfelt and genuinely moving speech. Learning Korean on the ‘quiet side’ was a truly loving move. I wish you both well and may your giggles never stop.
    From Chelsea, London, England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧

    • @Outdoorswithmikey
      @Outdoorswithmikey 9 місяців тому

      well looks like old f**kers like us still have our hearts in the right place.

    • @v22u
      @v22u 9 місяців тому +16

      Wow, that was wonderful!❤

    • @murrayjgreene621
      @murrayjgreene621 9 місяців тому +9

      How mine should have been but l married the wrong person 59 yrs ago! I carry that every day and admire guys like you. Sophie must be one helluva woman

    • @Tigs2
      @Tigs2 8 місяців тому +7

      Strange Hugo, but you sound EXACTLY like someone i know that lives literally next door to the stadium in Chelsea. If its not you then i know another 64 yr old grumpy grizzled old biker that you could meet down at one of the pubs by the tube.

    • @hugohackenbush1554
      @hugohackenbush1554 8 місяців тому +7

      @@Tigs2 Can't be that many 64 year old [65 in 3 month] grizzled old bikers living by SB.

  • @dianebalch5369
    @dianebalch5369 8 місяців тому +313

    I'm a 74 year old who's attended many, many weddings. This is the best and most memorable wedding speech that I've heard!

  • @imfirstatachaijr.johnner4240
    @imfirstatachaijr.johnner4240 11 місяців тому +2512

    You know, in Asian cultures, a gesture like this carries immense meaning. It truly exemplifies the best way to honor and show respect for her family. Beautiful moment! 👍❤️

    • @Jaco3688
      @Jaco3688 10 місяців тому

      Yeah, it nullifies that hack-job of a haircut he’s got

    • @georgemason9947
      @georgemason9947 10 місяців тому +54

      Yep, him learning that in Korean carried big weight!

    • @SuperDonegal1
      @SuperDonegal1 8 місяців тому +3

      😂

    • @adspur
      @adspur 7 місяців тому +8

      Love can make you learn a new language for wonderful reasons

    • @bellakim9404
      @bellakim9404 7 місяців тому +23

      He stepped up with actions & words . A gentleman at the core.

  • @melancholiac
    @melancholiac 9 місяців тому +132

    My goodness. What an eloquent, charming man he is. I wish them both all the very best.

  • @juniorrdrz7660
    @juniorrdrz7660 9 місяців тому +45

    You honored her so well. When her father got up after you spoke Korean was priceless, you showed him when it comes to her there is no boundaries. May your childrens children have many grandchildren

  • @kimkaragiannis848
    @kimkaragiannis848 10 місяців тому +986

    He made it all about his bride!! What a wonderful husband!! ❤

    • @peaceBWY101
      @peaceBWY101 10 місяців тому +9

      This might sound skeptical...But only Time will tell. But one Truly feels happy for them on this particular occasion, regardless of what life may have in store for them.

    • @nevswain478
      @nevswain478 9 місяців тому +7

      all about his bride......... why does it have to be all about her?

    • @BernhardSchwarz-xs8kp
      @BernhardSchwarz-xs8kp 8 місяців тому +4

      What else dude?

    • @andrejsurdevics6476
      @andrejsurdevics6476 8 місяців тому +5

      @@nevswain478 Yes, he could have talked for 5 minutes about the cake.

    • @JoshPhoenix11
      @JoshPhoenix11 8 місяців тому +3

      ⁠@@peaceBWY101I did notice that she kept pretty dry eyed, it appeared like she was only making it look like she was holding off tears. Largely because her maid of honor really was fighting the tears back and she couldn't be seen reacting less emotional than her.
      And in the moments she knew she needed to make reaction, the ones she gave didn't seem to fit the context and were slightly odd. Not exactly the right matching expressions for the context.
      You could tell what she was trying to do with the bottom lip reaction, but it seemed to be all she was relying on and it started to reveal just a hint of unaffectedness behind the outward display.
      It could just be an Asian thing though, who san say..

  • @herbertvanrensburg6411
    @herbertvanrensburg6411 8 місяців тому +25

    My good man, that was by far the best speech to a bride that I have ever heard, bravo! The fact that you refer to Sohee as not only your lover but also your best friend certainly tells me that you two will be bound together for eternity! Love and behold her presence daily!

  • @kirbyourenthusiasm
    @kirbyourenthusiasm 10 місяців тому +713

    Don’t know why this showed up in my feed but now I’m sitting here crying over a wedding speech for two people I’ve never met. I want to show this to every single woman I know (including my two youngest daughters) and tell them to find a man who will love you like this.
    Beautiful speech and beautiful couple. Congratulations! Wishing you many many decades of happiness together.

    • @Y7BRO
      @Y7BRO 9 місяців тому +13

      What the heck!!! Exactly the same thing. Just doing a menial task and playing videos as I work. Then, this video and bam. The tears started flowing.

    • @Rose88116
      @Rose88116 9 місяців тому +8

      Same here, in tears! So beautiful!

    • @lynntuckwell6481
      @lynntuckwell6481 8 місяців тому +2

      Me too. X ❤

    • @SuperLegionnaire
      @SuperLegionnaire 7 місяців тому +1

      says it all,really.

    • @oliviastar3812
      @oliviastar3812 3 місяці тому +2

      It is beautiful, and makes me think of all the men who aren't as eloquent as him but who still show their love through years of commitment and just 'doing' the right thing. Both ways are lovely, though action speaks louder than words every time.

  • @nualarosth8448
    @nualarosth8448 9 місяців тому +10

    That was the most beautiful speech I’ve ever heard,she is a very lucky woman

  • @CDWaite
    @CDWaite 10 місяців тому +477

    What a man. And what a gorgeous bride. Easily the best wedding speech I've ever heard. Thanks for making a grown man cry!

  • @Ficktao
    @Ficktao 8 місяців тому +9

    Holy Sh*t! That was a very, very good, great speech! Not only do I envy his eloquence and great delivery, but also (mostly!) the great love he seems to have found.

  • @Dis_aisa_guy
    @Dis_aisa_guy 11 місяців тому +362

    What a speech! One of the best speeches by a groom I have ever heard and the respect you showed her family and culture to learn your speech in Korean. Your a legend mate!!

  • @walterheiliger667
    @walterheiliger667 8 місяців тому +7

    Wow! What a man with a loving heart. That was truly beautiful.

  • @DmacDomage
    @DmacDomage 11 місяців тому +167

    As a happily married Man of 30 years I wish the bride and groom all the best. A wonderful speech. Blessings

  • @1tommyday
    @1tommyday 6 місяців тому +34

    Nice to see a man truly adore and love his new wife.
    So sweet. I cried.

  • @djlhobbies2579
    @djlhobbies2579 10 місяців тому +414

    You won't regret it mate. Met my Korean bride on a city bus in Gunsan...still married 42 years later. Great speech, and good on you for learning Hangul. Congrats and good luck.

    • @busfahrer09
      @busfahrer09 10 місяців тому +13

      This sounds like a Hollywood movie in the making.

    • @red-inmy-50s-temper-dont-match
      @red-inmy-50s-temper-dont-match 9 місяців тому +10

      Oh goodness I've just stopped crying from the video, and now your comment started me again lol!! How wonderful, I'm so happy for you both X much love jacq X in the UK

    • @jryland6
      @jryland6 9 місяців тому +2

  • @moparman1962
    @moparman1962 9 місяців тому +8

    Ouch!...that one got me right in the heart! He did VERY well with his wedding speech about his wife and love, nailed it!

  • @sdprescott324
    @sdprescott324 10 місяців тому +153

    Beyond doubt, the most humble, heartfelt, and loving tribute by a husband ever ! When a guy loves and cares with that kindness and sacrifice, he is guaranteed a happy wife and home of love. Well done !

  • @lisaredford6462
    @lisaredford6462 10 місяців тому +10

    That is the best speech to and for his new wife I’ve ever heard. If everyone were to be so fortunate to find a love like this then the world would be a much happier place indeed ❤

  • @ofkgjsl
    @ofkgjsl 10 місяців тому +65

    I am moved to tears by his beautiful speech. What a wonderful man. This woman is lucky to have him. This is the best he could do to show respect to her and her family

  • @HollieWatts-w6g
    @HollieWatts-w6g 9 місяців тому +5

    This speech was perfection. He was gracious, humble, recognized everyone and paid tribute to his bride in such a beautiful way. Really beautiful to witness.

  • @Gonzonurse72
    @Gonzonurse72 11 місяців тому +200

    The best wedding speech and proclamation of love, I have ever heard. I think everyone wants to feel that type of love. ❤️

  • @sylviarowlands1883
    @sylviarowlands1883 8 місяців тому +6

    Such a splendid speech, so eloquently articulated, very well done. Wales UK🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

  • @nw101971
    @nw101971 11 місяців тому +282

    I did exactly the same as you when I got married in Hong Kong just 3 weeks ago. I had been learning Mandarin on an app on my iPad for just over 3 years & spoke in front of my wife’s family in Mandarin as most of them do not speak English. I wanted to do it to show respect to them & thank goodness they understood what I was trying to say & I secretly learnt a Chinese song to sing to my wife & I sang it in front of her family It was one of the most nerve racking thing I’ve ever done but I’m so glad I did it.

    • @akakong88
      @akakong88 11 місяців тому +9

      But they speak Cantonese in Hong Kong…

    • @nw101971
      @nw101971 11 місяців тому +23

      @@akakong88 I know they speak Cantonese in Hong Kong but the majority of my wife’s family live in China hence the reason why I spoke Mandarin to them.

    • @Pangcah88
      @Pangcah88 11 місяців тому +9

      And then he got to the wedding and realized they all spoke Cantonese.... shit!

    • @nw101971
      @nw101971 11 місяців тому +2

      @@Pangcah88 some did but the majority spoke Mandarin.

    • @Pangcah88
      @Pangcah88 11 місяців тому

      @@nw101971 開玩笑的啦!

  • @johnrose2348
    @johnrose2348 9 місяців тому +8

    That was a beautiful speech about someone you absolutely love. Bravo! BTW: She does have a beautiful smile!!

  • @Dethikah
    @Dethikah Рік тому +77

    Holy smokes dude, that is a speech and story of dreams, thank you for sharing this moment with all of us ❤.

  • @2075jman
    @2075jman 3 місяці тому +6

    Wow, that was a wonderful speech, and I really felt as though he meant every word. Such respect to learn the language of your wife's family.

  • @nurseattle
    @nurseattle 10 місяців тому +272

    This video appeared randomly and for no particular reason , I clicked on it. I have never heard such a wonderful tribute to anyone EVER before. I can only imagine what it would feel like to be loved that strongly. I will never know. Congratulations to both of you for having what it takes to create your love story. May you have many, many happy years together. ❤

    • @pauline-glitterbugcrafts
      @pauline-glitterbugcrafts 9 місяців тому

      I've been married twice and wish one of those men had half of the love for me that he shows for her and maybe we would still be married. I too will never have love like this. They are lucky to have each other and I wish a long and happy life for them both.

    • @nurseattle
      @nurseattle 9 місяців тому +3

      @@pauline-glitterbugcrafts I hope that you will be surprised and feel that kind of love one day.

    • @AliHowse
      @AliHowse 7 місяців тому +1

      Never say never ... it stops the possibilities ... be open to finding this kind of love. 🎉😅❤

    • @nurseattle
      @nurseattle 7 місяців тому +2

      @@AliHowse Well, if I meet someone wonderful, I will certainly take notice! I agree with your statement but at age 70, it is very unlikely. I appreciate you for caring enough to comment. Thank you.

    • @Wrecksall66
      @Wrecksall66 3 місяці тому

      If I can be of any encouragement to you, please know that “finding” that kind of deep felt love is not something that just happens…Love is a “choice”, and learning and embracing the “True Definition” of what Love Is, is key. Please be encouraged to know that there IS someone out there for you who is capable and willing to love you the way YOU DESERVE to be loved. The true definition of love is found in embracing the truth according to the Bible. Jesus said “I Am the Way the Truth and the Life”…the way means the way to Heaven, the Truth means that He can be Trusted with all your heart, mind, soul and spirit, the Life means when you give your heart to Jesus He will guide you in to a life of true love, meaning and purpose. And as you learn to “become” the person and live the life you were meant to live, you will then realize that you ARE and always have been a person who deserves to be unequivocally loved by that special man. I encourage you to invite Jesus in to your heart(if you haven’t already done so…) and ask Jesus to mold you and your future spouse to become like Him and learn to love the way Jesus loves us. It doesn’t happen overnight but you will find that as you love people the way Jesus loves you, you become a person who’s love is so radiant that men will want to be with and fall in love with you. Then you will have more opportunities to be loved. And the icing on the cake will be that you will attain the wisdom to seek out that someone special. A man who also loves Jesus the way Jesus loves you and He will be the one who will love you the way you were meant to be loved… I share this with you because it has taken me over 40 years to become that man. Not that it would take you that long, but when I realized just how much Jesus loved me, that He would give His life for me on the cross, I learned that that is what I must do for me beloved and betrothed. I must give my life for her and live a life of sacrifice in order to love her the way she deserves to be loved. Without the humility and willingness to sacrifice one’s life for another, true love cannot be…

  • @craigshrimpton5765
    @craigshrimpton5765 10 місяців тому +111

    I saw the short to this and am happy there was a tip that there was this nine minute video. I loved it when Sohees parents got up to hug him and show their appreciation and acceptance.

    • @billdeburgh
      @billdeburgh 10 місяців тому +2

      Same here.
      The Short was highly insufficient and made me search for "grooms speech in korean".
      Et voilà, here we are.

    • @shannonslack4448
      @shannonslack4448 7 місяців тому +1

      Me too me too!!

  • @sandygray2280
    @sandygray2280 9 місяців тому +3

    Beautiful speech. Beautifully articulated. Made me all teary….i wish them many years of happiness together

  • @patrickhartman6818
    @patrickhartman6818 10 місяців тому +55

    Can't help but being emotional when a person bares there soul in love and honor. God Bless this couple.

  • @juliekendrick-finn707
    @juliekendrick-finn707 10 місяців тому +71

    The best wedding speech I have ever heard. Hell that's probably the best wedding speech I'm ever going to here in my whole life, ever.

  • @s4e-stirbys4empowerment26
    @s4e-stirbys4empowerment26 9 місяців тому +6

    This is the most romantic wedding speech. The best I ever heard! Thoughtful, heartwarming and in a word excuded LOVE. Congratulations on your happy future together! 🥰💖🥳

  • @divergentone777
    @divergentone777 10 місяців тому +45

    If you put that much effort into the wedding speech, then I can only imagine the effort you will put in to your relationship.
    Congratulations to you both. Thank you for sharing this moment with the world

  • @wyndiefeatherstone948
    @wyndiefeatherstone948 10 місяців тому +5

    Oh my goodness, that was absolutely beautiful!!!! God Bless them both all the days of their life!

  • @KyLoxoxo
    @KyLoxoxo 11 місяців тому +106

    For all the horrible things I see on the internet everyday I really needed this sweet wholesome amazing moment thank you for sharing such a special moment of ur life with us it’s truly touched me congrats on happily ever after ❤

  • @Chichioco1986
    @Chichioco1986 2 місяці тому +2

    His "speech" skills are impeccable...from tbe heart. ❤❤❤

  • @kayorca
    @kayorca 11 місяців тому +57

    I’m not crying…I’m sobbing. That was beautiful.

  • @brianbaird9968
    @brianbaird9968 9 місяців тому +3

    WOW! That was the best speech ever, awesome job! Your not only a great writer, but have a gorgeous bride. Congratulations!

  • @linaUSAUK
    @linaUSAUK 11 місяців тому +81

    What an eloquent and thoughtful act and speech. The bride is absolutely beautiful however I was so very taken with how beautiful and elegant the mother of the bride was.
    I hope they have many years of health, happiness, joy and adventures ❤

  • @Rose88116
    @Rose88116 9 місяців тому +5

    When something like this makes people they’ve never met cry so many tears, it really proves we are all connected! We feel your joy!! God bless you all!

  • @Pinkdaimonddragon
    @Pinkdaimonddragon 10 місяців тому +31

    I don’t even know him personally. And he made me cry. He really has a big heart and he must love his wife very much. In my book , he has earned my respect.

  • @gemmel3197
    @gemmel3197 9 місяців тому +3

    You just can't beat a speech from the heart. I wish you two all the best in your life together.

  • @Mary200-61
    @Mary200-61 10 місяців тому +34

    That was absolutely beautiful. I don’t know these people and I was crying like a baby. Lol I hope they have a beautiful life together!!!

  • @stuartgray5877
    @stuartgray5877 3 місяці тому +37

    As the horror of most of the people in the room realize "He has understood what we were saying behind his back for MONTHS!"

  • @fsavage2001
    @fsavage2001 Рік тому +69

    Ben is such a outstanding human being! Congratulations to you both!

  • @markynorthy1878
    @markynorthy1878 3 місяці тому +1

    Mate , absolutely brilliant speech you knocked it out of the park especially went you started talking Korean I just melted with tears and her dad & mom giving hugs respect 💯both of you live long and a happy happy life 💯❤️👏👏👏👏

  • @F08OWP
    @F08OWP 10 місяців тому +21

    I'm bawling my eyes out. What an incredible speech man.

  • @elainegreen430
    @elainegreen430 4 місяці тому +2

    The very best wedding speech I've ever heard. You will have many, many happy years together. Congratulations to you both.

  • @user-vt5hx1kz7l
    @user-vt5hx1kz7l 11 місяців тому +24

    I have no idea how I got here, but I am so glad I am. What an amazing gesture of love and dedication. Thank you for sharing such a personal and vulnerable moment. ❤

  • @tomnelson203
    @tomnelson203 3 місяці тому +2

    Well...this was one of the coolest speehes i have ever listened too. Thank you for sharing this. Wonderful thing to see.

  • @pimpawanlaprabang212
    @pimpawanlaprabang212 11 місяців тому +20

    I cried my tear out. That was such a beautiful speech!

  • @Lori-b5q
    @Lori-b5q 8 місяців тому +2

    I hope you two have a beautiful long life together , with much health and happiness to you both

  • @crackerbarrelkid-52
    @crackerbarrelkid-52 10 місяців тому +15

    You are an absolute legend, mate. Wishing you both the best life possible.

  • @CuriousCat777
    @CuriousCat777 3 місяці тому +1

    U can feel the appreciation and love in this speech. Outstanding expressions of love.

  • @markrosolini2934
    @markrosolini2934 10 місяців тому +18

    Just beautiful, and what a man to go and learn Korean, that would literally be the highest form of respect to her parents ❤️ 👏 bravo what a legend

  • @dougdiplacido2406
    @dougdiplacido2406 9 місяців тому +2

    A very heartwarming video. The husband showed so much love and respect for his wife's family.

  • @localbod
    @localbod 10 місяців тому +9

    What a lovely and heartfelt speech. The best of luck to the both of them.

  • @Rumination_Vertex
    @Rumination_Vertex 10 місяців тому +13

    I have a Korean wife and I always thought about learning Korean to talk to her father whom I respected dearly but I never did it and he's since passed. I feel like shit now (for not doing the same) but what you did is a sign of true love! Great job brother!

  • @cassiehyre4903
    @cassiehyre4903 10 місяців тому +12

    That is the most amazing and loving speech I have ever head. Congratulations and lots of happiness to you both

  • @deanwarde7126
    @deanwarde7126 10 місяців тому +48

    Last year my daughter was married here in Cyprus where we've lived since 1999. Making speeches is not done in Greek weddings but I spent 2 months writing/translating/rewriting & rehearsing it & not only shocked the guests but delighted them too especially my new son in law.
    Hats off to you young man. 🥂😎

    • @clapiotis
      @clapiotis 4 місяці тому +1

      It is a very nice custom to do wedding speeches. Too bad Greek weddings do not follow it.
      Greetings from Athens, Greece.

  • @Duzzii_
    @Duzzii_ 3 місяці тому +1

    This is truly a touching speech and I know her father is at peace and knows his daughter is in the best hands 🥲

  • @reneecampsall1898
    @reneecampsall1898 9 місяців тому +2

    Best heartfelt wedding speeches ever!! ❤Prayers for life long of that !!! 🙏

  • @maxinesymmons9711
    @maxinesymmons9711 10 місяців тому +30

    My marriage ended badly nearly 16yrs ago and I've become bitter about "there's no such thing as true love" (a little bitter)🤣 ....oh my goodness he proved me wrong ❤ I really do hope they stay that loved up for the rest of their lives ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @braddiggens5389
    @braddiggens5389 6 місяців тому +4

    And being a happily married man of 43 years, to my best friend and most 8:12 wonderful wife, who sometimes drives me crazy, lol, I wish these two a wonderful life together. Wonderful speech.

  • @robt510
    @robt510 11 місяців тому +14

    After seeing the UA-cam Short of his Korean speech, I just had to look up the complete video.
    Well worth the effort.

  • @BarbaraDavison-u5v
    @BarbaraDavison-u5v 8 місяців тому +1

    This is the most heartfelt and beautiful wedding speech i have ever listened to and it was done with such sincerity. I have watched this a few times and i wish them all the luck in the world .

  • @deeocdismay7657
    @deeocdismay7657 Рік тому +20

    I sobbed. Congrats to the both of you.

  • @Ocean-zj2jf
    @Ocean-zj2jf 8 місяців тому +1

    🥂🍾 congratulations to you both 🥂🍾 "to the Groom,.... Your speech was the best ive ever had the pleasure of listening to 🌹🫶🏽 thankyou for sharing your special day with all of us ❤️ may your lives together be always blessed 🙏🏽

  • @Edwin582
    @Edwin582 10 місяців тому +5

    Saw this on a youtube short and came to watch the full video, fantastic speech wish you guys a full life of happiness!

  • @Mayaa7Maya
    @Mayaa7Maya 2 місяці тому +1

    Mad respect for you to learn your wifes language out of respect for her culture and her parents. Not many people like you out there this days so be proud of yourself 💚 and i wish you a great life togheter 💯

  • @chronologie4
    @chronologie4 9 місяців тому +4

    Now THAT is a great speech. God bless you both and God bless you with a long and happy marriage

  • @sof5858
    @sof5858 11 місяців тому +11

    And that my friends, was one fuckin great speech.
    You even had stone heart here tearing up in the end.

  • @Linda98671
    @Linda98671 3 місяці тому +2

    I hope and pray after hearing this heart loving declaration of love that their life is long and blessed with unbounded devotion and great happiness.

  • @Bears2024
    @Bears2024 11 місяців тому +27

    I saw the youtube short of this and had to find the whole video, that was such an amazing thing to do for your new in-laws and showed the most devotion possible to honoring your wife and her family

  • @Betty-c6p
    @Betty-c6p 4 місяці тому +1

    What a wonderful respectful man. God bless you and your bride.

  • @GuidetteExpert
    @GuidetteExpert Рік тому +15

    Congratulations. How can anyone be skeptical of marriage when people celebrate their birthday? Love is one of the holiest thing you experience in life.

  • @williamthomson7820
    @williamthomson7820 9 місяців тому +1

    I hope the road ahead of them is full of health, wealth and happiness.

  • @MitchFPT
    @MitchFPT Рік тому +13

    Beautifully put and the surprise was wonderful, really wasn't expecting to tear up slightly around lunch haha
    Congrats to you too.

  • @Lavenderrose73
    @Lavenderrose73 9 місяців тому +3

    Ben, very kind words! May God bless you both! 😊💐🥂

  • @HRIDAY6
    @HRIDAY6 Рік тому +16

    Congratulations 🎉 both of you! May this association lasts forever 🤟❤
    You made the tears roll man!

  • @maryjohanna257
    @maryjohanna257 9 місяців тому +1

    So beautiful, she’s a lucky woman. Many blessings to you both. 🙏🏻

  • @MilliNox69
    @MilliNox69 Рік тому +12

    What can I say... I'm following you for years now and always appreciated your bluntness and honesty. Especially in an industry that more often than not lacks those qualities. Never would I have guessed that you could raise said qualities to an even higher level. I'm moved beyond words. Thank you for sharing this moment and all the best to you, Sohee and your families. Cheers mate!

  • @BG-nj7kf
    @BG-nj7kf 4 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful bride, solid dude. I wish y'all an eternity of happiness!

  • @tiffinyharrington9307
    @tiffinyharrington9307 10 місяців тому +11

    No idea who you are nor why this video popped up or why I clicked, but I did and I’m glad. Truly the sweetest groom’s speech and sweetest story of two people falling in love and the speech for the in-laws, well, that was just the cherry on top. Best wishes to you, Mr Carpenter, and to your lovely bride! I’m thinking you’ll be alright;)

  • @Mr60minor
    @Mr60minor 8 місяців тому

    Excellent communicator giving a beautiful speech from the heart. What a fortunate bride. Best wishes.

  • @RedPillShaman
    @RedPillShaman 10 місяців тому +4

    WOW! What a ginormous sign of respect!! The time and effort you put in is incredible. It is inspiring.

  • @StepbyStepbyMiriam
    @StepbyStepbyMiriam 5 місяців тому +2

    His wedding speech was so full of Love Honor and Respect.

  • @tazeking8033
    @tazeking8033 Рік тому +32

    Good on you mate! Learning Korean is definitely difficult as hell! Also, showing that commitment must have been a huge gift!
    I'm lucky that I have to learn Samoan for mine. Nowhere near as many learning resources. But apparently nowhere near as difficult as Korean.

  • @michellepajot3414
    @michellepajot3414 6 місяців тому +1

    This guy's a keeper! God bless you both in your life together 💗

  • @rafaelpaimtrabalho
    @rafaelpaimtrabalho 11 місяців тому +11

    Thank you for sharing your effort to speak Korean and also your true love for your wife!
    I was very moved by your beautiful words. We could feel the strong love and affection you feel for your wife.
    I wish you all the happiness in the world and may your dreams come true in the beautiful life you will build together.
    God bless you every day 🙏🏻

  • @nealparkinson6779
    @nealparkinson6779 6 місяців тому +2

    What a wonderful speech!

  • @clubbizarre
    @clubbizarre Рік тому +25

    My wedding vows were eerily similar. I was sure a wedding/marriage was never something for me, nor useful, before I met my wife.
    Also HUGE KUDOS for learning Korean !!! Didn't see that one cominh

  • @TheIndian373
    @TheIndian373 9 місяців тому +1

    What a surprise and what a wonderfully beautiful speech.God bless your life together ❤

  • @LionWolfTactical
    @LionWolfTactical 11 місяців тому +4

    What a beautiful speech and moment. I hope they last forever together and the fairy tale lives on. Congrats on your marriage and the feelings you share are "rare" and a miracle in many ways. Good luck guys. I don't know you, but good luck! 🎉🙏🏼

  • @elliebrabham5910
    @elliebrabham5910 6 місяців тому

    What a beautiful speech and toast to your beautiful wife. How awesome to learn Korean just to show so much respect to her parents and culture. God Bless you both and I pray you will have the most wonderful life together.

  • @jonny-b4954
    @jonny-b4954 11 місяців тому +10

    2:25 love the pops like "yeah, its definitelt frowned upon. But you're cool"