Best of the parenting tip by Sudha Murthy! How to convince children?

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  • @5050sotf
    @5050sotf Рік тому +40

    I think todays parents r way more understanding than parents of 80s and 90s kids.... because as 90s kid we know what we have gone through.

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому +2

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Yeah it is true that awareness is more nowadays. But there are many examples today as well. Please stay connected for such content

  • @riddhishah9574
    @riddhishah9574 Рік тому +14

    Sudha ji's ordinary attitude makes her extra orninary.
    i have seen wives of industrialists, successful ladies, all talk in stylish way full of glamour.
    but Sudha ji ekdum ordinary lady speech de rhi ho waise dete hai. koi unnecessary dikhawa nhi.
    Great

  • @SBTV-p8w
    @SBTV-p8w 7 місяців тому +3

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Congratulations wonderful 👍👍👍👍👍

  • @shiddhivinayak2736
    @shiddhivinayak2736 Рік тому +23

    Yes, Madam you are RIGHT
    Children should have CONFIDENCE that they can SHARE OR CONFINE their THOUGHTS & OPINIONS to their Parent.

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts over video. 🙏🏻

    • @shiddhivinayak2736
      @shiddhivinayak2736 Рік тому

      @@taneeshmehare2018 🙏🌺

    • @SankitDas.
      @SankitDas. Рік тому +1

      But I don't have confidence, sometimes I get irritated or getting fear to tell or by their preoccupied mental thoughts (sometimes) !

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому

      Hello sir, thanks for your response. We can relate, it happens with many of us. Irrigation a few times is natural, it's because of external factors at that time. But one thing to be noticed is that our parents know us 9 months more than anybody else. Parents suggest us based upon their experiences in life, many times it helps. We should not hesitate or fear to speak.

    • @shiddhivinayak2736
      @shiddhivinayak2736 Рік тому

      @@SankitDas. It happens sometime, that is when you can wait for right time to put forward your thoughts or take HELP of a family person(whom they look upon or trust) such person can convey your thoughts on your behalf.

  • @Callummullans
    @Callummullans 6 місяців тому +5

    Discipline is not just do as your told, it also entails integrity of character.

  • @SunilGore-d3k
    @SunilGore-d3k 7 місяців тому +3

    God blessed u to say the truth

  • @AdmirerofthecreationCrea-de8pj

    Absolutely! That's a great trick...being friendly with children will solve 99% of the problems + we can push the age gap concept...just put into their shoe so that they open up and then pull them back to our shoe..

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому +2

      Thank you for review. Please stay connected for such content 🙏🏻

    • @mayataware5286
      @mayataware5286 2 місяці тому

      Well said. But my experience tells me there are times the kid pulls me in her shoe and I realise she is correct .

  • @anjalinicholas4441
    @anjalinicholas4441 9 місяців тому +3

    Great🎉🎉

  • @pratibhamartialartsqueen1467
    @pratibhamartialartsqueen1467 Рік тому +14

    I was scared to tell my dreams and passion to my parents, so without any permission I started working on my dreams.. yes I made it. Now I'm the only Indian who trained in Many Martial Arts and Combat Sports, I Achieved 5 International Gold Medals in 5 Different Sports. I made World Records.. I'm proud of my journey and all the Hardwork I did for myself 🥹

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому +1

      We are happy and admire your journey. We are proud to know your success in life. We just wanted to make a point here is, as a child one should always be open and clear with Parents. Sharing our likes and dislikes is not always means taking permission. On the other hands parents has to keep channels open to understand their child. We agree that there could be exceptions!

    • @pratibhamartialartsqueen1467
      @pratibhamartialartsqueen1467 Рік тому +2

      @@taneeshmehare2018 I'm from a Rural Background that Girls are not allowed to dream, they only meant for Marriage.. Education also dream for so many Girls there! Huge Discrimination Between Male and Female; I just wanted to break all the Barriers and yeah I made it happen. My journey simply says that Never found excuses, with or without support make Dreams Happen..

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому

      Hi mam, we duly respect your achievement and thinking towards equality. We are trying to make a different statement here, to have better communication between children and parents. There are many children who don't have the courage to talk with parents which sometimes leads to unfortunate events. Expressing yourself and healthy communication solves many problems in life. Cheers!

  • @subhasmondal5488
    @subhasmondal5488 6 місяців тому +3

    Joyguru suprovat subha NABABARSHA ❤❤MAA...APNI AMADER PRONAM NEBEN SATADHIK PORMAYU HOK APNAR.....EI PRARTHANA KORI DAYALER SRICHORONE 😊❤❤

  • @gracypereira315
    @gracypereira315 Рік тому +7

    Beautiful msg. More than children parents need counseling.

  • @anjalinicholas4441
    @anjalinicholas4441 9 місяців тому +2

    Wonderful 🎉🎉

  • @ashasinha6007
    @ashasinha6007 6 місяців тому +3

    I totally agree mam

  • @amarnatha1614
    @amarnatha1614 Рік тому +2

    Thats why she is sudha Murthy.. thank you madam

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому

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  • @asharaju4169
    @asharaju4169 Рік тому +5

    True....kids should be open to their parent

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому

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  • @gouriraval3500
    @gouriraval3500 Рік тому

    Beautiful message ❤

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Please stay connected for such content 🙏🏻

  • @beforeexams5198
    @beforeexams5198 8 місяців тому +2

    🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @sushmakhandat4244
    @sushmakhandat4244 Рік тому

    Beautiful message for children and parents, Mam

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому

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  • @SwatisRecipeandBeauty
    @SwatisRecipeandBeauty Рік тому +2

    True Parents should behave like friends in case of discussion or suggestions to help children they should be born counselors as, well, Don't search outside it's within u parents ❤love and support ur children always but in positive manner, not unnecessary demands

  • @umabati2690
    @umabati2690 5 місяців тому +1

    👍❤️🥰

  • @swatichavan2576
    @swatichavan2576 8 місяців тому

    Sopuperp❤

  • @sudhayerbagker7395
    @sudhayerbagker7395 5 місяців тому +1

    🙏

  • @manojdhole885
    @manojdhole885 Рік тому +3

    Every parents should listen and understand child bcz firstly they trust you... And trust brokes they never tell you anything. That's worst.

  • @mistitalukdar
    @mistitalukdar Рік тому +3

    I am my daughter 's friend. She tells me everything.,..everything. But she treats me like a friend. Does not listen to me. Even after I have explained why it is bad. She is a total mobile addict. More than 10 hours of mobile. She refuses to reduce her hours on mobile. She understands but can't give up her addiction. Exactly like alcoholics. She is not scared of us, her parents. If she had been afraid I think it would perhaps have been better.

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому

      Hi mam, mobile addiction is a common problem for almost every parent. We even went through the same. But luckily we managed to get rid of it. Today Taneesh is 4.5 years old and he does not touch mobile phone. This is what we tried and worked for us. This could differ from child to child and as per their age.
      Any addiction can't be stopped suddenly. So we shifted Taneesh to television in order to set a particular distance from the screen. Big TV screens are less harmful that tiny mobile screens. Today smart TV can be controlled from our mobile so we easily come to what is playing on tv and we can also remotely close it. Parental control could be set on smart tv We make him visit dummy victims like security guards, maids etc and his pediatrician who told him disadvantages of mobile in a more severe manner.
      Again I will repeat that it may vary child to child and his/her age.

    • @mistitalukdar
      @mistitalukdar Рік тому +1

      ​@@taneeshmehare2018 thank you for answering me. My daughter is almost an adult by now. As a teenager she completely defied me. I noticed that the children who were afraid of their parents could be controlled better from ruining their lives like this. I regret being a friend from the beginning. As a child it was great. But not after she became a teenager. She expects me to be an equal, a friend who will understand her addiction. Unfortunately there's no rehab for mobile addiction like other addictions. It is much needed in today's world.

    • @padmav.s3221
      @padmav.s3221 Рік тому

      Parents should always be strict, and behave like that only.... There will be many friends good or bad out side.. Only parents can be good guide for life

  • @pritisingh-i3q
    @pritisingh-i3q 5 місяців тому

    bhut sunder❤..lekin agar ap ye hindi m bole to har mata pita apki baat samajh sake aur sheekh sake🙏

  • @rlprabha
    @rlprabha Рік тому +1

    ❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🌹🌹

  • @sangeetayadav7342
    @sangeetayadav7342 Рік тому +1

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому

      Thank you for the comment, please stay connected for such content

  • @mdevi8705
    @mdevi8705 Рік тому +1

    3 child born
    1 girl
    2,3 boys
    Very rich family
    2,3 boys education doctor
    1 girl no education, poor person marriage
    When girl gave birth
    No one of them take care
    Because she is a girl
    That much partiality from parents
    Received for me

  • @jayshrichavda6093
    @jayshrichavda6093 Рік тому

    ❤👍

  • @charmaine8512
    @charmaine8512 11 днів тому

    Children have to know boundaries, discipline, respect but parents should never ever be authoritarian. Tone matters as speaking to a child with a disrespectful or authoritative tone is a no no. Children should never feel that their parents are playing favouritism

  • @madhuchandapaul7272
    @madhuchandapaul7272 Рік тому +1

    That 💔

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому

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  • @subramaniankalee9577
    @subramaniankalee9577 Рік тому +1

    I love you man your wisdom, simplicity
    great

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому

      Thanks for your comment and support. Please stay connected for such content 🙏🏻

  • @VedSP-vm3um
    @VedSP-vm3um Рік тому

    Mother 🙏🙏

  • @narasimha5566
    @narasimha5566 3 місяці тому

    Madam 🙏🏻..always daughter..what about daughter in law

  • @mpallim5192
    @mpallim5192 Рік тому

    Ask questions to people of your status. Her daughter is pms. Wife

  • @kothamaramnikhila4324
    @kothamaramnikhila4324 Рік тому +1

    These genaration kids don't even like to see the channel they don't like . There is no thought at all the things and work they should like nothing parents decision work on them parents have to be come in their line and version to mould it in a soft butter to ghee phase.🥰 Strightness and pressure and ruled towards to these genaration kids is wast of time and they are naturally clever of acting and skip and jump to other situation.

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому

      Nicely said mam! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Please stay connected for such content

  • @harshagubbala9552
    @harshagubbala9552 Рік тому +1

    🙏🙏🙏🤝🤝🤝👌👍💝

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому +1

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  • @kalpakamjandhyala5574
    @kalpakamjandhyala5574 Рік тому +1

    Meeru maaku adarsam madam.

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому

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  • @kanakadurgadantu5469
    @kanakadurgadantu5469 2 місяці тому

    Always personal aggrandizement! Very boring.

  • @Atomist82
    @Atomist82 Рік тому +4

    This lady made a fortune. Was in the right place at right time. Bargains with vegetable vendors. Can you believe it. Just wants to hit limelight

    • @taneeshmehare2018
      @taneeshmehare2018  Рік тому +1

      Hi sir/mam, we are really not aware nor read of such an incident of Padma Shri awarded Sudha ji. we should always look at the brighter side of everyone's story. 🙏🏻

    • @lawdale
      @lawdale Рік тому

      100% true what you said, just want attention from people saying that she is middle class, why the hell will she buy vegetables from outside, that too she'll have a huge farm house 😂