Some Parents Live Out Dreams Through Their Children. Sudha Murthy addressing parents.
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
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A new, first-of-its-kind study in PLOS ONE today discusses sports dads, stage moms, and confirms a popular psychological theory - parents live vicariously through the achievements of their children and in fact, desire their children to fulfill their own unrealized ambitions.
This lady should be nominated for next president of india
, exactly
Sudhamurthy..I would love to see her as President of India
Better to be the PM than be the President 😬.
I strongly believe so
Why you guys want to push her into this dirty politics ?.
Now she is doing good as mother, as wife, and also a good Idealogist.
So I don't want to see her as politician....
Each sentence of her speech is worth listening and adopting in life.
You are very down to earth and very practical and simple. God bless you maam.
Most knowledgeable ,simple ,perfect person of this era
Wonderful speech for learn to parents I'm totally agree every parent should think like that great lady 🙏 , she is just not a shuda Murthy but also inspiration to every mother and parents 💞 , love you a mam ,
I'm grateful that our India have this type of mahan aatma , pranam h apko mera 🙏
Sincere respect for the lady from the bottom of my heart..
Amazing voice and simplicity on her face...good to hearing her voice
Thanks Sudha Aunty for your inspiration. Essence of life which I have understood. Please correct me if am not.
- You do 1000000000000000000000000000 things and do only one and ONLY ONE mistake due to so many factors.
Everyone sees that ONE mistake that you didn't do you don't know how to communicate, and you doesn't know how to work or take care of home and have headweight after you joined the job.
No one understands mom's feelings.
Still mom is ready to learn the new ways and finally, I learnt
- do whatever you like
- zero expectations
- 10000 critics and saying I am wrong
- finally, I came to know best communication skills is MOUNAVRATHAM and stay in corner room at home all the time talking to urself inside voice only.
Sudha Murthy is my Idol ..I learn many books written by her..n too much impessed....
Nice thoughts ma'am..Thank you so much
The Child is the Extension of a Mother's Body.. ♥
I wish all the parents of young kids listen to you and spare their children to do their best out of their own potential and interest.Your child becomes what you do to them ,how you behave with them ,how you treat them ....How much exposure you give to them to allow them to think independently..Sudha ji... Awesome address to the parents 👍
A great personality. Her speech is like a sermon from the gospel. Parents should change. They should enjoy their parenthood.
It seems like that mr. Kalam is speaking
Really amazing dadi😇
I am Very very very thankful to a great teacher like you.
The word which you convey, that is 100% True mam
Yes, everyone should have their own knowledge.
Every parent are try to bring out thier children talent and encourage.
How good you are Madam. No words to say. You are great Madam. ❤❤❤❤❤👍
Precious words by Ma'am Sudha Murthy 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Love you madam for the golden words of wisdom.
Wow....I Bow to you..., Good speech Mam
Such a beautiful word and heart' touching.We all need keep in our mind. It's important for are next generation.
Mam but your company Infosys didn't allow to interview with less than 70% in 12th and distinction in degree and after that appti test, group discussion, technical round s, written test bla bla and back door entry for who pay lakhs of rupees
Ha.. Ha.. Super comment
@@Mounikaravi161 😀🙏
She should be The President of India. I have never heard a woman like Mrs Murthy.
Madam,
You are a great teacher and motivator
I respect Sudha Murthy for anything. But the fun fact is that, her own company rejects candidates on the basis of marks.😀
Great mother.
Really great and value oriented speech for every women
Overwhelmed hope every parent be like she said😇
Maam you are awesome. Lots of respect to you. Really an inspiration ✨
Being a mother, wife, daughter in law an employee or employer, is The toughest job now, one may have great dream before marriage or can advise to our parents, and relatives.
After marriage, playing these roles, it is like playing in the cricket field, without having any knowledge. We are trapped. Madam s these advises help parents to avoid making more mistakes. This is for every mother faces lot of mistakes while bringing their children. Nobody perfect about their words with their kids. Some follow their child's friend mother or competition with in their family. Only after the children are grown, we learn. I have done lot of mistakes as a mother like comparing. It is ofcourse unknowingly. Comparing is a sin which can never be forgiven by anyone. We do not know how to speak positively. School pressure is more.
Thank you Madam.
Wonderful guidance dear ma'am😘😘
Thank you mam I will try my best
I totally agree with you maam. U are an inspiration. Being a mother l have learned a lot from you. I have a problem in my daughter's school. I request you to give solution. My daughter is in VPM school, ln that school from 3years only 2students are given 1st and 2nd prize in all the competitions. Other students are also good but they are never even selected. What we should do
Thank you madam 🙏🙏
Beautiful!!!!🙏🏻
Very informative mam.
Thank you.
Great speech maam,I can relate myself to it .
Yes every people achieve goals from their ability.Every people have their own dream to success in their life
Good ideas
The coachings used to get to me just coz they want me to perform better
Your words are really very inspiring and every mother should follow . But it is a bitter truth of our society - marks are d criteria of a capable candidate .as a mother I am facing it . My son is an average in his studies but want a chace . He completed MBA in 2019 upto now he is unemployed . He did MBA from a reputed institution . He is average but laborious and want a chance. He is trying his best.
who are God gifted and blessed they will get themselves but what about them who needs some support . Jo chamkta h wahi bikta h jisme kum chamak h usko chamkane ki koi koshish nhi karta . It is happening in every field . Yahi sachchai h
Great madam
My mother also had same thought
Very very superb ma🙏
Excellent mam👍👍
Thanks mam please make a vide for un married boys and girls
Very usefull tips to parents 🙏🙏🙏
👌👌MATRU DEVOBAVA 🙏🙏
MOTHER SHOULD TEACH HERITAGE CULTURE SANSKARA
REMAINING THINGS AUTOMATICALLY CHILD WILL LEARN WHILE GROWING
****ONLY CIVILUSED MOTHER CAN CREATE CIVILISED PEACE HARMONY SOCITY ****
your own company will always ask for marks but they will not ask talent
Women with beauty, brain and simplicity... Hats off to her humbleness and wisdom!
👏amazing speech
#shrisha
#shrishafoundation
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Very correct
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"the child is the extension of her body" such a beautiful line
Exactly
Very true
I tell my husband the same thing. I feel my child is my body part only
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Very true...
Every child is unique 🙏🙏
Respect every child 🙏🙏
🙏👏👏amazing speech
#shrisha
#shrishafoundation
I am going to listen to her all day. This should be listened everyday like we listen to a Bhajan or sloka so it's instilled inside us. Thank you ma'am 🙏
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I was smiling the whole time! As mother of a 9 yr old and a 2 year old... I have learnt SO much
Thank you
Assalamu alaikum sister.may I Know how u cope up with stress during parenting.coz I get so much stress on handling them coz my first one is hyperactive..
@@straightpath8495 dont ask ppl such sensitive questions on youtube. consult a professional pls
@@dermatologist2152 have consulted specialist regarding but iam not satisfied ...It's ok to ask PPL with good experience on parenting coz parenting is a technique not a disease....
Me also was smiling 😄😄
Young parents should watch this video.
Yes. My Father never compared us. Each of us pursued our own interest. Today we extend the same to our children and grand children. Purpose of education is to handle situations wisely.
do not compare children, "every flower is beautiful in its own way", this had me crying !!!!
I totally agree. Parents aren't willing to extend their knowledge. But they are imposing their dream in their children. I m in my late 30s though I'm working but still educating myself with online courses.. parents Continue your ambition and learn new aspects. Don't set boundaries for education with age. Education is independent factor irrespective of the age. If parent haven't done any higher education they impose that on children. Parents - Get out of boundaries and achieve even if u reach that in age 50.
M 30 ND I have 9 years old kid. I have a question. What s imp for a child. Success or happiness? If it is Success, then I have to be little strict wit my kid. If it is happiness, then I should let my child do whatever she wants. Now a days My kid s feeling lazy ND I don't know what to do? I feel so sad, depressed. Wen I read your comment I thought u could give answer to my question
@@akshaya179 don't set limitations with him. Let him have his choice. success is not confined with education, school and scores. Try to spend valuable time with him like library. Take the child out of gadgets. This can be possible only if we are away from gadgets. We should read books along with child. Make him to take responsibility like sending him to grocery purchase, taking him to bank, etc. Don't have expectation from him about achievements. This will disappoint most of parents.
@@aquartz6348 thaks for the advoce😊😊
@@akshaya179 you have to make balance between success and happiness
She fills the void created by the demise of APJ kalam. As kalam always used to find every opportunity to strengthen the younger generation, she is also doing her best to teach guide younger generations.
Beautifully explained!!!Thank you ma’am🙏🏽
She should become the next Prime Minister of India
Child is extension of mother’s body such a beautiful line 👌👌
Agree. But we should not take that as an excuse to impose our wishes on the child because every life is unique and we should let them be themselves.
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Love watching you Mam.. as a parent always learning from you.. and yes how beautifully you described a mother and a child bond.. thankyou so much 🙏
I had such great voice and wanted to be a singer for sure..my music teacher told that I had voice like Lataji and have God gifted art...he appreciated me n taught me music and in school n colleges I won many awards...I thought I would pursue my hobby further and started working as software engr as my father wanted me to be one just like my elder siblings... one day i heard of indian idol auditions n i practiced a lot but my father didn't support n scolded n shouted n I couldn't go...I saw Sunidhi Chauhan,Shreya Ghoshal and Sugandha Mishra etc rise in the music industry...I had much better quality n melody in my voice..every sense of sur n taal...now after marriage n kids, even if I try singing the way it was,I can't now...i could have fought for my passion but who would've listened... i listen to good music as music is my soul
Tears and tears
Pahari family are very burden filled on their girl children.
Do not be born a Pahari
I had a Pahari music teacher. One day she said her children are growing up she can't spend so much time. She gets scolded by her husband for ignoring her household duties.
Try now sister
Age is just a number... Start ure passion now.. U can use social platforms to showcase ure talents.... U will surely become famous
Please don't give up dear. You can change your life at any point that you decide to change. Just take that decision. The power is only within you. Better late than never. Use social media, Things have high potential to change now than ever before. Don't give up.
But bitter real fact is companies hire based on percentage and marks scored...and Infosys is one of them . 😀..most of cuttoff marks
goes beyond 65 % and campus recruitment eligibility is for candidates falling in between 70-90 %. I think education tab in Resume or in careers portal they should strikeoff ,cut off marks atleast. One of the person I know scored just 43% in 12 th and 55% in engineering did not get eligibility in Infosys.. how can we oblige with the video 🙂
Well said
Marks r just like a ticket that gives an enter into platform once u enter into it that ur wish whether u have to take a train to Chennai or Delhi. U may go up or go down .any way
Best of luck brother ✌
@@prasanth5264 then obviously there is comparison with everyone.. that's why pressure is all around if yiu don't score well u will not pass through .. even you your feel. Everyone had passed through why I didn't qualify.. a distress environment
Even I thought the same. To be doctor, engineer, scientist demand marks.
Very true
I never compared my child with other child on anything. I never forced my child to score more. But I always told child to learn things, whatever we had learnt is like the thing inside our palms but many things to learn. Bcos each and everyone learn in life. But take it positive God is giving chance and we have to use it. Participating in competitions improve ur self confidence, especially erase ur stage fear. My kid goes for Elocution and wins it. No frequent practise of it. But I made the child understand what we try to convey to the society. The child started giving expressions and Judges were surprised.
So enriching. Thank you Ma'am 🙏. Children should be allowed to explore all options and parents too must be willing to adopt a newer thinking. Gone are the days when streams like science defined your intelligence and commerce and more so arts were for the low percentile students.
I'm blessed to have parents just like sudha Murthy... never compared me with anybody else.... allowed me to do whatever I wanted
Why Infosys asked for 65% marks ? People from Andhra can achieve 90% easily becoz of thier easy board . However I belonged to another state . And Infosys never called me becoz I have 64% . So Infosys never gave me JOb . I managed to get Job another org and my career went so well and later in my life Infosys called my for interviews becoz Infosys is clients of my current organisation. But that was my turn to reject Infosys .
Fabulous maam ... you teach the lesson in a wonderful manner...lots of respect from the bottom of my heart...
Such a beautiful strong mother. I love her. I really do believe in what she said. But the world (school) doesn't accept it. recently I've gone through the same situation for being a good teacher and parent. Not judging a kid by their grades or scores. I was demoted to pre primary class. After listening this.. I felt I was & I am right. I'll be the same for the rest of my life. Thank you so much for sharing this.. love & respect sudha ma'am 🙏🙏💐💐
Such a good lady& good mother she we learn many things from him
Yes Priyanka, be yourself. You have bright future
@@sunithagudur1524 thank you 😊😇👍
That is so sad. When you are demoted to pre primary just for not judging kids, you don't belong there madam. Look for a place of work where you beliefs and values are respected
@@sangeetharavindran87 sure dear
I wrote poetries in my school days...my mother saw that and she itself judged that I may be in love... when I was searching for my poetry note one day I can't find it...I was so upset I felt like I lost some part of me...I was also can't ask to my mother about it because she was not that friendly with me....one day I witnessed the ashes of my poetry in the area where we burn woods for hot water...my mother burnt my poetries...if she would have appreciated my poetries and acknowledged my talent for that...I would have been someone else today...it is very important for parents to acknowledge their child's talent towards any art apart from studies.... achievement of child is not only related with marks...hard thing is most of the parents think we brought up our child very happily we gave them good food studies money but still they can't realise these type of small appreciation matters lot!! And that is what a son or daughter excepts the most from their parents especially from mother....
yea acknoledgement is enough! no need to make it out a profession
SORRY to hear THAT..now you can START again your Hobby..all the BEST STAY HAPPY
"one day I witnessed the ashes of my poetry in the area where we burn woods for hot water."
My heart pained reading this...
Understand your feelings perfectly well. Some parents do such things out of their lack of experience and knowledge. All that we can do now is move on and forgive her for this one mistake she committed out of her ignorance.She might have surely done many more good things as well. You can start working on your poetry and bring it to even greater heights. And we will never be doing the same thing to the next generation. Hope the deal is not as bad as you thought ... Good luck!!!!
Wonderful speech ma'am
It is very easy to preach.. You need to study well unless you are
1) from a rich family
2) you have influencial people
3) you have reservation
Every one mark is important.
Imagine you are writing a competitive exam. You got 68 marks. Cut off was 70. Then only we realise value of each mark.
Those who got average marks in school days only succeed lot in competitive exams....it is totally different approach towards exam when u are child and adult...look around the friends u thought below average would be in banking sectors would be studying in IITs would be a PSU guy.. because when u are adult our approach changes we study with understanding not mugging up...rather than concentrating on marks if parents insist about understand and study the things that would help lot... because in our state boards the boy or girl who mug up will beat the student who understands and study the things in Exams....so don't compare the schooling with the competitive exams...
@@vigneshbvs6357
Even competitive exams test our memory more than understanding concept. I wish it should change
Parents and education system both should concentrate more on child ‘s growth and interest rather than marks . Junior classes marks and grades are not needed they should be taught in experimental way .
Our education system is flawed but as parents we shouldn't, the only thing she is saying is to open up your child's eye to the subject instead of mugging up,I teach in a academy where we conduct competitive exams and honestly I feel we are creating bookish nerds who cannot deal with practical problems or issues. So please approach the following video from that angle.
Few students can't get more than pass mark or 50 percent. It may be beyond their own capacity and interest. So parents should understand their other area of interest and encourage. Sudha madam wants to convey this.
The irony is i am watching this alone.. and cant show it to my parents..
Apt speech by Sudha maam...!
I heard same from a person in past beautiful motivating lines of being called flowers. Being mother is very strengthful.
Marks are not everything rather child comes out as good human being. Parenthood definitely most challenging.
👏amazing speech
#shrisha
#shrishafoundation
What wonderful thoughts and expressed so beautifully.
Excellent madam. Perfect advice to the parents and children as well.. Your idea of parenting is really essential now a days NOT to PRESSURISE kids for marks or ranks .Instead encourage them at their interest . Ma'am very well said life needs thali that includes money as well. So parenting should guide the kids for a complete life. 🙏
Excellent msg madam......i Love your simplicity,smile and confidence madam
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Baby is God's gift to us.our care for them is ,our gift to God.
With all due respect, Infosys recruits students who only get distinction. So, marks are important according to Infosys.
Remember no company wait for graduated fellows they only look for talented person who can lift their company ahead
But not everyone can become an engineer or doctor. Marks are important but everyone has their own capabilities and interests. I had a friend in my school who was good at everything other than mathematics. But society thought she was not good at all. She is doing very well in her field now. But at that time I am pretty sure she felt that she was no good at all. That is what leads to depression and sometimes suicide. What is worse is that I have observed parents who are not themselves very intelligent want their kids to be geniuses… that is so unfair for the kids. Some introspection as parents is necessary
Then let Infosys give opportunities to talented kids. Why have a cut off based on marks. My point is that. Marks cannot determine someone's capability. Infosys doesn't allow grads less than distinction to attend campus placement. Walk the talk is what am telling.
Does she know the percentage required for getting into the top universities? Stop blaming your parents. Tell universities and colleges to rectify their admission criteria then things will change.
I m a big follower nd admirer mam. Will ur Infosys gv my daughter a job in your company aa she's an average student or u select only 90% student. I lost my husband last year to cancer who was a ex employee of TCS no one helped me in getting a job. Swathi bangalore
Right question.
Any one who wants to help me in getting a job in TCS
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@@swathibammidi6411 connect with some recruiters. Updated your linkedin profile. Prepare for interviews.
Be strong. Something will work for you.
Create a LinkedIn profile. Upload your resume and join recruiters and job hunting groups.
Very good inspirational speech and needed for parents like us, thank you so much maam, I always love to listen to you and your speeches.
👌👏amazing speech
#shrisha
#shrishafoundation
Ma'am👌👌👌👌👌👌..
Golden words really an eye opener..
"Child is extension of her body🙏👌🙏👌🙏👌"..
The last comment (Enjoy your boy till 14 and girl after 19)..Awesome.. what a talk she had!!... Truly Inspiring Lady... Thanks Mam for sharing such valuable thoughts... 🙏✌❤
True words
Comparisons are major reason for more negativity in life
I very much agree to mam's point that we shouldn't pressurize and compare our children for marks. I regularly view her posts and look upto her for inspirational videos on parenting. On a lighter note, when I shared this video with my friend, the feedback I got was, though she says this all, in her very own Infosys, the hiring criteria is minimum 70% for freshers even to qualify for a written test, that too right from 10th grade :) :)
Absolutely
Irony of life
Wow I absolutely agree with her. Amazing video every parents must watch, who are making their children running behind marks.
Perfect speech mam.. every parent should view this and understand
Mam, you should become Education Minister of INDIA.
Words are so valuable to me as a Mother...thank you Ma'am ❤️
Also Infosys : percentage Criteria above 70% 🙂👍👏👏
I was literally crying while listening. Great lady.
That's the biggest thing for many parents and specially many mother may they have a job or not, they seem to live their live through the kid. The children are individual person that they brought here. They have a right in life and a life to lead. Just cause they gave birth to us many dad and mums tend to use us a steering wheel. I have a cousin of mine. I never saw him being able to live,,,, or having any healthy scopes in life... his mum barely talks about how one is and casual talk but always keeps on talking about his grades but my goodness I've never seen this boy being happy with grades and stuff but his mum is just blind and dumb
Amazing.. Explained so well .Loved listening to you Ma'am.
👏amazing speech
#shrisha
#shrishafoundation
But in Infosys why do they employ based on marks .. Does anyone with average marks get into campus placement of Infosys... Just a doubt ...... nothing else
Im blessed with parents who tried to provide me with more than they could their intention were always pure but i grew up with the pressure of saying yes to everything my father said and if i gathered the courage to say i want to do this differently i had to bear with a lot of emotional pressure thats why i never matured and had trouble making my own decisions was this right
Completely agree.....every child is unique in their own way ❤️❤️❤️❤️....loved the way you explain everything..........
What an insightful lady madam Sudha Murthy is! Absolutely loved her speech on raising the children and all the pressures that parents put on themselves and their kids. I feel better after hearing her advise on teenage girls becoming close to their mothers after 19 as I have a 13 year old who is just the way she explained.
👌amazing speech 👏
#shrisha
#shrishafoundation
Such a humble lady ..
Motivating line "child is the extension of a mother"
Mother a bond which is filled with infinite love do respect becoz we are filled with joy when the word maa is used for us
Excellent speech madem ಒಂದು request ನೀಮ್ಮ ಎಲ್ಲಾ ರೀತಿಯ ಭಾಷಣ ಮನ ಮುಟ್ಟುವಂತೆ ಇರುತ್ತೆ ಸಮೀಪದ ಪ್ರಜೆಪಿತ ಬ್ರಹ್ಮ ಕುಮಾರಿ ಈಶ್ವರಿಯ ವಿಶ್ವವಿದ್ಯಾಲಯ ಬೆಂಗಳೂರು ಮೂಲಕ ಮೌಂಟಬ್ ದಲ್ಲಿ ನಡೆಯುತ್ತಿರುವ ಭಗವಂತನ ವಿಶೇಷತೆಯ ಬಗ್ಗೆ ಒಂದು ಸಲ ಭೇಟಿ ಮಾಡಿ ತಿಳಿದುಕೊಳ್ಳಲು ಹಾಗೂ ಭಗವಂತನ ಬಗ್ಗೆ ಇಂತಹ speech ಕೇಳಬೇಕೆಂದು ತುಂಬಾ ಆಶೆ ಇದೆ ಇದು ನನ್ನ ಅನಿಸಿಕೆ ತಪ್ಪಿದ್ದರೆ ಕ್ಷಮಿಸಿಬಿಡಿ
I want to be a chor 😂😂
Beautifully explained with a hint of comedy lightened up the lecture..loved it totally 💞
I am speechless..she is such an intelligent,wise and kind lady and a super mother..hats off to you Ma'am