I Quit Drinking for a Year | Why You Should Stay Sober

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  • My return to content creation after 1 year of sobriety. This is a video dedicated to anyone with an addiction or a vice. You don't buy your vices, you rent them! We can get through this together. Drop your vices!
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    0:00 Intro
    0:20 Addiction to vices
    1:30 My Journey
    2:28 The beginning of the addiction
    2:48 Toxic Work Culture
    5:04 Self Awareness
    6:20 Masking
    7:12 I'm NOT doing this anymore
    8:25 Show Up Everyday
    10:00 Most days are Mehhhhh
    11:59 How I feel now
    13:40 Words of encouragement
    14:50 Outro
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  • @jpowell2603
    @jpowell2603 Рік тому +35

    3yrs sober here Im loving it! No more drama no more acting like a dickhead in front of my friends and loved ones such embarrassing memories for me NEVER AGAIN!! If you're drinking stop it before its too late. Happy new year guys love from New Zealand ❤👌

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +2

      Much love to New Zealand! Appreciate you. Congrats on 3 years, that's AMAZING!

  • @blockiana9714
    @blockiana9714 Рік тому +57

    Being a 27 y/o female, I always thought no way I can’t be an alcoholic this is just how young ppl party, but once it became binging every weekend, needing alcohol before anything…predrinking before a pedicure, before the movies, before the mall 💀 feeling like I can’t talk to dudes unless I’m lit, feeling like girls wouldn’t like me unless I’m lit, liking my drunk personality more than my regular personality, said “today im sad” so I get drunk, I said nah it went to far, im definitely gaining weight, constantly sick and hungover, calling off work mondays because the weekend messed me up too much …it went too far
    I’m on my journey to being sober , im only 3 weeks in but going to multiple parties + new years refusing alcohol is something I never imagined for myself
    Working to quit all of 2023 -> onwards

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +5

      I TOTALLY get that. I used to feel like being sober would affect how people liked me as well. I used it as a crutch and social lubricant but you don't gotta get lit just to talk to people and have a good time. I also know what it's like to pregrame before EVERYTHING. You know you're drinking too much when you're pregaming before normal everyday activities.
      Congrats on your sobriety journey! You got this! I believe in you!

    • @stretchpropertymaintenance2561
      @stretchpropertymaintenance2561 Рік тому +2

      Good luck and stick to your journey. I wanted to quit alcohol at the start of 2023 as well; I lasted 2 weeks and then I fall to the cravings. Getting back on the challenge now. God bless and hope you accomplish everything you wish.

    • @paulhamrick3943
      @paulhamrick3943 Рік тому +1

      I’m 43 and if I could go back and tell my 27 year old self to stop drinking you better believe I would. I moved from Ohio to Atlanta for a job and so I “went out” as much as possible in the hopes of making friends and meeting women. It didn’t work and it made me a worse person.
      I should mention, by 27 I was already a functional alcoholic. I went to a party school and by the time I was done I was drinking 3 beers per day, minimum.

    • @blockiana9714
      @blockiana9714 Рік тому

      @@stretchpropertymaintenance2561 Thank you i wish you the best on your journey as well!
      I passed the date of my 1 month mark, i'm really hoping to make it the full year ; nothing better than waking up NOT hungover

    • @blockiana9714
      @blockiana9714 Рік тому +1

      @@paulhamrick3943 haha oh man i totally get that, last year i would say i was trying to become a functioning alcoholic, going to the liquor store on my lunch breaks, and trying to find any excuse to get hammered after work or on the weekends
      i'm 1 month sober now and I definitely feel alot better mentally and physically & FINANCIALLY haha liquor is not cheap 🤣 waking up in regret/pain/depression after drinking is the worst as well

  • @timshenk4731
    @timshenk4731 Рік тому +4

    Yes! 'Deal with it' is what I think now. Sober for almost 4-months after a decade of nearly daily drinking. My family members all have their reasons for drinking, and I want to tell them that it's weakness, selfishness, and there is no excuse. They almost laugh at my choice not to drink, as if it is a weakness. Nothing beats the benefits of not drinking, as you know.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +2

      Congrats on your 4 months, that's amazing! Glad to hear that you're on that path. In all seriousness, the drinking never solved my problems back in the day. It would just mask the issues instead when I needed to just deal with it!

  • @seansayer7684
    @seansayer7684 Рік тому +17

    "Some days are just 'meh', deal with it!" - wise words.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +2

      That's life! Not every day can be exciting. But making the most out of each day can be create excitement.

  • @andracadicecrawford4256
    @andracadicecrawford4256 Рік тому +20

    SALUTE BRO!!! I HAVE 7 MONTHS...TAKING IT ONE DAY AT A TIME. I SAY EVERY MORNING...MAAAN I DIDN'T DRINK YESTERDAY! WHEN I GET THISE URGES....I THINK ABOUT HOW I WILL FEEL THE NEXT MORNING. I NEVER UNDERSTOOD..WHEN I WOULD HEAR PEOPLE SAY THEIR CLEAN TIMES MEANS SOOOOO MUCH TO THEM....NOOOOW I DO...I DON'T WANT TO MESS MY CLEAN TIME UP FOR NOTHING OR NOOOBODY! GREAT VIDEO

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      I feel you on that! The bad feeling the next day isn't worth the great feeling staying clean will give you. Stay strong brother! Much appreciated for taking the time to watch!

  • @ryanhumor
    @ryanhumor Рік тому +8

    “You don’t gotta destroy yourself because today is just meh….deal w/ it”….. 💯💯💯 thank you, Bruh.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Hard lesson to learn but so valuable! Thanks for watching!

    • @mikec4487
      @mikec4487 Рік тому +1

      @@Just_Judah alcohol has braught me so much more pain and suffering then joy, Im in a tough spot because I ve always been able to not drink on work nights and even stay in on 1 weekend night but going out drinking 1 night a week has gotten me multiple stints in jail, 2 DUIs, two different assault and battery charges (1 of those a felony), I ve ended up in the hospital several times for broken bones alcohol poising, I ve lost friends, embarrassed myself, I m barred from several establishments, I ve spent prob over 200,000 dollars at this point on cars, lawyers, court fees, ubers, nights out drinking ect... I ve lost many sundays to hangovers, ect ect ect.... And currently I am on a portable scram breathalyzer and I keep thinking about when I get off the scram how Im going to start drinking again, its insane and I dont get why Im not petrified at the thaught of having one drink.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      @@mikec4487 That's a hell of a wrap sheet due to boozing it up. You gotta let it go man! It's doing you more harm than good.

    • @susyryan
      @susyryan Рік тому +1

      Meh. Is everday for me

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      @@susyryan We can always work on that!

  • @jonb3848
    @jonb3848 Рік тому +3

    "thats amazing you took the time to listen" haha that made me smile. Thanks for posting a video man.. really... not thanks for listening, thanks for being a voice for people TO listen to.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Appreciate you for that! I'm just glad the message has been helpful!

  • @sixteenstringjack
    @sixteenstringjack Рік тому +3

    2 months ago I quit smoking and drinking and I have no intention of going back to it. Now I'm working on cleaning up my diet. This video was great. I found it incredibly motivating and I like the straight-talking. You seem like a really great bloke. Thank you, from England. Very best to you

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Congrats on your 2 months! That's a huge deal! I'm sure you're already seeing some results now. Just take it day by day. Thank you though, I really appreciate it. Just trying to help anyone I can with the message. Sending positivity your way!

  • @AdamMeyer78
    @AdamMeyer78 Рік тому +17

    I'm 6 months sober and I have some much clarity these days. I completely relate to your message. I appreciate this video.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Clarity is the key to starting to have a better life. I don't ever wanna lack clarity again. Thanks for watching!

  • @atelerix969
    @atelerix969 Рік тому +21

    10:53 Super important. Booze floods us with dopamine and makes it hard to deal with the reality of life: it’s not always a party. Not always rough either, just a-okay. Another important thing I’ve realized in sobriety is that good god my life was boring. All I did to have fun was drinking. It dawned on me that if I’d like to stick to this, I should find some actually enriching things to do. Joined a book club, started hitting the gym, and I’m planning to get a bass with the money I’m saving and learn how to play it. Thanks for sharing, man, it’s helpful to hear from folks who have gone down this road and found it was actually a pretty good decision.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +2

      That is so true! You never realize just how sterile your life is when you're caught in that addictive cycle when you could actually be doing something to enrich your life and bring more value. Keep on fighting the good fight!

  • @Sunjamaa
    @Sunjamaa Рік тому +20

    Thanks for this! im exhausted and need to heal. Haven’t had a drink in 12 days and feel much better already ❤ The list of reasons I’m done with it is so long.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +2

      Keep going strong! You'll feel so much better as time goes on, I promise!

  • @montanastranger
    @montanastranger Рік тому +14

    Congratulations bud! Alcohol is a cruel mistress that is brutally hard to be done with. Truly happy for those of us that have done it. Thoughts and prayers go to those who are still in that quicksand.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +3

      Absolutely! It can really wreak havoc on your life if you aren't careful. Hoping a lot more people pull themselves out of that hole!

  • @johnknox5751
    @johnknox5751 Рік тому +1

    The salty soggy on purpose to kill time resonates with me. Thank you.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      I've done it a million times and I've finally realized just how much time I've wasted doing just that. Worst part is that it doesn't even make you feel better, it makes you feel worse!

  • @anthonyshaw8698
    @anthonyshaw8698 Рік тому +6

    Great video brother!!
    It's good you gave it up at a young age. You will have a better quality of life. I'm 65 now. Drank for 50 years. Currently 2 years sober.
    It has definitely been a struggle in the past, but life is good now.
    I am thankful/blessed, that I'm still in good health. It usually, doesn't turn out that way for most. Hitting the gym 3x a week. Eating healthy.
    Gettin it done!!
    P.s.
    Don't ever want to re-visit, those dark days. It sneaks up on ya!!
    Stay safe, stay sober!!
    God bless

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Hey man, it's never too late to take control of your life and make changes. I'm just glad you decided to make that choice! Congrats on 2 years of sobriety with more years to come! Peace brother!

  • @baronvonchickenpants6564
    @baronvonchickenpants6564 11 місяців тому +1

    To all you wonderfull quitters out there keep strong, ive been watching UA-cam videos by people with end stage liver disease, it's terrifying and face it folks is where we're all heading if we carry on drinking this poison, im 40 days sober today, love your message keep it going you're helping people save themselves

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  11 місяців тому

      You're absolutely right! If we don't stop, there's nothing good waiting on the other end of that road. Appreciate you!

  • @mkf628
    @mkf628 Рік тому +3

    The 'high' of quitting the drink, being sober and healthy in mind and body, winning the battle of it having a grip on your life, infinitely outweighs the temporary buzz you get from throwing booze down your hatch all the time just to numb yourself for a short while.
    Never has just not doing something been so greatly beneficial.
    And to those who encourage you to drink or who somehow coerce or belittle you.. you are far stronger than them and they simply can't handle it.
    Try quitting. One day at a time.. before long, the benefits will make you forget the drink entirely and it will not be a part of your life any more.
    You will be happier, healthier, fitter, more energetic, have more time, have clarity, feel your real feelings, process your emotions better, drop excess weight easier and save money.
    It's possible.. so take the first step!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      This ^ a thousand times this. This is GOLD.

    • @mkf628
      @mkf628 9 місяців тому +1

      👊@@Just_Judah

  • @zulubeatsprince
    @zulubeatsprince Рік тому +4

    Something i think helps me is just realising you were happy without it and just being confortable with yourself without any alcohol or drugs makes life so much less stressful, easier youre just more balanced and calmer.. and energy goes through the roof

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +2

      I totally agree. It took me a long time to realize that there was once a point in life where I was happy without a substance, in fact way happier without it. So I just gotta reprogram my mind to get back to that place.

  • @yraval01
    @yraval01 Рік тому +8

    Dope video dude. I’m 5 years sober from the hooch, and I can’t begin to explain the difference is everything that is life. I was in a hospital bed and the docs telling me transplant or hospice. But people don’t quit. I actually did, and my body recovered. No meds now. Best shape of my life, got a bachelors in comp sci, mba in entrepreneurship, 6 figure cyber management job.
    And I’m a dumb dude homie. I guess this video got me hype and I couldn’t get the basic point across. Taking ur advice and listening to what you say closely not only makes u a better person, it gives u a mental edge. A small one at first, one sober Friday night may not feel like much, but when they start compounding…,miracles homie. Miracles

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Congrats on the 5 years of sobriety, getting in shape, the degrees and new job. That's so freaking amazing man, I'm happy for you!

  • @Mike-yg2ru
    @Mike-yg2ru Рік тому +38

    I have been struggling with staying sober for a while. I just got off a major binge last Saturday at 9pm from last Wed to then. I spent over 800 on only fans content, alcohol and junk food. I said some messed up sexually harrasing things to the women in my life who I've now lost from my life which I deserve. It's never been this bad for a long time. So it's day 4 now and I'm doing everything I can to stay away from my triggers and just listen to people who are sober around me and trying to do the aa thing plus therapy. I'm so ashamed of myself.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +17

      Shame is natural. You're human, so it's unavoidable to feel shame about SOMETHING in your life from some point in your life. You just don't have to let it rule you. There is always redemption. There is always the room to create a better version of yourself and live out life as that better version of yourself. It'll take time and dedication, but you can escape that cycle! I believe in you. Sending prayers, peace and positive vibes your way.

    • @waynebeaton6990
      @waynebeaton6990 Рік тому +4

      I couldn't put it any better than the previous comment from the Dat Daily Bread. Stay strong and believe in yourself.

    • @lemaitrethemonk
      @lemaitrethemonk Рік тому +6

      It's always darkest before the sun rise. BUT, THE SUN WILL RISE AND SO SHOULD YOU!

    • @JackFHerrera
      @JackFHerrera Рік тому +5

      I just went through something very similar to this and in that hangover mode right now. We got this man

    • @Mike-yg2ru
      @Mike-yg2ru Рік тому +14

      Thank you for the support. I'm at almost a month sober now. Will be one month next Monday.

  • @omaribrown7591
    @omaribrown7591 Рік тому +1

    The algorithm blessed me with this one today. I never ever eeeeeever like, subscribe, or turn on notifications(sorry, I'm a bad UA-camr) but my boy was spitting facts, it was relatable, and didn't come in cocky like he knew everything. I respect that wholeheartedly. I'm liking, subscribing and hitting the notification bell. Pleaaaaase keep going Judah. The culture need to hear this

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Yoooooooo thank you so much for that, I really can't tell you how much I'm happy to hear that. I'm just trying to help, y'know? I've been down some bad roads and wanna help people get off theirs! Bless up!

  • @kevincasey8367
    @kevincasey8367 Рік тому +41

    Love this, thanks for putting this out in the world. Stumbled across this at the right time in my life and needed to hear this. Moving to Seattle next week from Atlanta and not taking the alcohol with me.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +5

      I'm happy to hear that! Congrats on the move and the big decision with alcohol as well. I promise it's so much better on the other side of sobriety.

    • @themaestro5946
      @themaestro5946 Рік тому +3

      Update? Did you buy alcohol when you got to Seattle?

    • @bumface1810
      @bumface1810 10 місяців тому

      Still sober?

  • @lancesinger8243
    @lancesinger8243 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for sharing your story, can relate very much, nice to hear that I'm not alone

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank you for letting me know that, I'm glad it connected! You are not alone!

  • @peterbouds5478
    @peterbouds5478 Рік тому +8

    I made it from 4/4/21 to 7/18/22 which is when I went on a vacation at an all inclusive resort , have been drinking every evening since . Since starting again my blood pressure and glucose levels have increase 20% , gained 24 pounds and sleep like shit again . Thanks for this post

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +4

      Hey Peter, it's never too late to stop drinking again. You can fix it all, you just gotta take it day by day. You got this! Don't let that substance beat you.

    • @grimlockarts8386
      @grimlockarts8386 Рік тому +1

      You just slipped in the mud on the side of the path. You're flopping around in the mud focusing on being in the mud. Stop thinking about the mud and focus on the path that's right there next to you. Remind yourself to hate alcohol MORE than you crave and enjoy it. Redefine it in your mind, get disgusted of it. It's piss, it's bleach, it's nothing more than phuq up juice... Truly hate it and you will never let it control you again!!!

  • @scottydoes8940
    @scottydoes8940 Рік тому +3

    I've watched a ton of these sober vids since quitting a month ago (they seem to help reaffirm the mission), and gotta say this one's got some real Yoda sh!t going on in it. Just a very direct and real, no BS assessment filled with nugget after nugget of wisdom. I was functioning like you, but I needed to test a theory that most of my problems in life stem from this constant attachment to drinking and the inability to stop, and turns out I was pretty much right. Literally everything's been better since stopping. I also read a book called "This Naked Mind" in the beginning, can't recommend it enough to peeps who wanna quit or need some help along the way. Really solid read that gets right to the heart of removing our desire to drink. Knowing what I know now, I don't think I ever wanna go back to drinking again and giving away my power to that poison. Anyways, thanks for the solid vid man and best of luck on your journey!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Hey I appreciate that man, I'm glad that it was able to reach you! I gotta check out that book, it sounds powerful. Seriously though, my life has transformed tremendously just by choosing to stop giving in to the poison and make a change. I'm just hoping everyone can get over that hump! Congrats on your sobriety!

  • @blueprince2330
    @blueprince2330 Рік тому +3

    This is one of the better videos I've watched on this topic. Very well done. I've been a heavy drinker for about 20 years. Started with domestic light beer, then strong craft beer, and finally on to bourbon. It got to the point where I could drink an entire fifth in one sitting. My ex-wife cheated, divorced me, and took my 2 sons. I didn't know how to process how I felt, and discovered that if I drank enough it would shut down my brain function, and I could sleep.
    I'm giving sobriety a go. I don't like who I've become, and it's all because of alcohol. Thank you for the video, there's some solid advice and takeaways in it.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      I know exactly how alcohol can numb you and take away the negative thoughts for a bit in exchange for a buzz but it never really solves the issues. It's never too late to improve and change the person you've become! I believe in you! Peace brother.

    • @blueprince2330
      @blueprince2330 Рік тому +1

      @@Just_Judah thank you, brother. I appreciate the encouraging reply.👊

  • @jareno5496
    @jareno5496 Рік тому +4

    Only 2 weeks sober but pretty happy about it since I drank way too much the past 4 years and always got bad "hangxiety". It's great seeing another young person speak about giving up vices (I'm 23), I feel that society makes out that drinking is almost synonymous with being in your 20s.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      I'll be 31 next month but my best advice for you at your age is to slow down on the drinking as soon as possible! It isn't going anywhere, so you don't have to constantly drink it. I wish I would have recognized that sooner.
      It's good that you're recognizing early how it makes you feel and how you want to change that. Kudos to you! Congrats on your 2 weeks, wishing you the best on your journey!

  • @tylermanley2933
    @tylermanley2933 Рік тому +4

    Congrats man, very inspiring. I really relate to your story, I’m 35 in Tacoma and am starting a new union job soon and want to rid myself of my vice to alcohol for a long period to see what happens in my life :) thanks for some inspiration friend and keep it up

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Thank you! Congrats on your new job! It's totally possible to stop that bad habit and continue to improve your life. Happy that I was able to give some inspiration. Good luck on the journey!

  • @DMystic1
    @DMystic1 Рік тому +3

    great video, i truly do think your advice is heartfelt and genuine and provides decent advice to those in our position. i asked my dad the other day how come as a teen why never really smoke or drank, despite growing up in the peak hippie era, he told me because he was always fine with himself, never saw a need to get high/drunk, and often had a natural 'life' high. it surprised and almost shocked me i hate to say, because then and there i realized i have never once experienced that in my almost 20 years of age. it really did make me stop and consider what i am doing, beyond that this video was the icing on top to this put things more into perspective. thank you for your video and for your advice, continue to make videos to inspire people

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for sharing! That really puts things into perspective on my part as well. The people that are truly happy with themselves and their life usually aren't people that smoke or drink. They're "high on life".
      We all had a point where life was enough for us but at some point we pick up a habit that makes us feel like it isn't anymore. I'm just glad I realized I needed to get back to life being enough. Good luck on your journey! Peace!

  • @paqii8359
    @paqii8359 Рік тому +4

    Thank you man, needed to hear this right now

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for watching! Glad I could help you out!

  • @ericjohnson868
    @ericjohnson868 Рік тому +4

    This has been the most real, impactful video I’ve watched on this issue. Very helpful. Thank you for putting this out there!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank YOU for watching! Appreciate you for taking the time. Glad I could help out, I just wanted to be open and honest.

  • @PartyMcFly
    @PartyMcFly 11 місяців тому +1

    136 days alcohol free today. The hardest part for me getting over alcohol was not wanting to drink instead of feeling like i'm not allowed to drink. Once I got that mindset it made it easier. To anyone else watching this video and reading comments thinking 'I can't do this.' You absolutely can.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  11 місяців тому +1

      Congrats on 136 days, that's amazing! That's definitely a great mindset shift to make. I feel like it was the same for me. Not wanting to drink is totally different than feeling like you're being restricted. Once you no longer really want it, everything becomes so much easier to manage.

  • @wilbingtonromero9805
    @wilbingtonromero9805 Рік тому +1

    Amazing! Thank you brother!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank YOU for watching. Appreciate you!

  • @kelsieauger33
    @kelsieauger33 Рік тому +4

    I was not sober for alot pf my teen years i started to get sober in 2016 then fully went completely sober in 2019 i feel like a million dollars i couldnt go back to that life . Good for you for making videos that actually help people

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Congrats on your sobriety, I'm really happy that you're feeling much better!

  • @hearanecho
    @hearanecho Рік тому +1

    I went two years abstinent and dry.
    Most peaceful two years. Something happened and I went somewhere that brought back old trauma. Drank broke my abstinence, grandma died, and used drinking to cop with my heavy work days. Gained a ugly soul tie continued for 6 months. Until lost two jobs quitting but mainly cause I was over worked tired miserable and drinking my time off away.
    Now I'm on day 34 sober, reclaiming my abstinence. Cut off the soul tie, received a new way to income produce. & I'm finally back at peace.
    Drinking goes hand in hand with abstinence for me. Lord the past 6 months were horrific. But I'm trying not to beat myself over it.
    Just focus on becoming a better version of myself. Cause the drunk me is not it!
    I started using ashwghanda which is a vitamin and has helped me alot with my anxiety and other triggers. I take it faithfully everyday.
    It may only be 34 days. But I'm aiming for another YEAR minimum.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      I'm happy to hear that you're back on the right track. My condolences to your grandma as well, may she rest in peace.
      34 days and beyond! You can do this for that year, just keep choosing the abstinence and sobriety. I'm glad that you cut that bad soul tie and stopped drinking. A bad soul tie can be pretty horrific. And I'm glad that you got a new source of income!
      Ashwaghanda is fire as well! Been taking that and other herbs and vitamins lately. Best of luck on your journey! Bless up!

  • @CoopDogg18
    @CoopDogg18 Рік тому +5

    Good stuff man. Speaking the truth. Been a year and a half for me and I've never felt better. Can't say that I have the same highs all the time but i certainly don't have the extreme lows that came with it. Much love.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +2

      Man those extreme lows are NOT worth it at all. I'd rather things stay level than experience being down so bad when it all comes down. Thanks for watching!

  • @gjonesii
    @gjonesii Рік тому +1

    Brother you really have it going on! You got this. God bless you.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      I really appreciate you saying that, truly! Thank you so much for watching.

  • @Thatguyyoumettoday
    @Thatguyyoumettoday 2 місяці тому

    Great meeting you tonight on the pod!

  • @char988
    @char988 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for this!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      I'm glad you liked the message! Appreciate you for watching!

  • @terriharrigan891
    @terriharrigan891 Рік тому +2

    Well said. Great video. Clear and concise!!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching, appreciate you!

  • @josmyth5579
    @josmyth5579 Рік тому +3

    Hi. Just found your channel. Thank you. Had a rough day yesterday, day 15 AF and Im at home in scotland visiting my family and boy it was tough as I miss home, but I didnt drink! I let the emotions sit, and now its Sunday and Im still here! I got thru those unvomfotable feelings without drinking!!🤩

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Wow that's so amazing to hear! I'm proud of you and you should be proud of yourself! That's a huge step to let emotions sit and not get the better of you to make you drink. The more you sit through those uncomfortable feelings, the easier it gets! Congrats on day 15, to 15 and beyond!

  • @nathanconlon738
    @nathanconlon738 Рік тому +1

    Love this - some very important wisdom here!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Thank you! It took a couple years of messing up to gain that wisdom. Appreciate you for watching!

  • @jessabelle9807
    @jessabelle9807 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks so much. This video gave me so much clarity and insight.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  9 місяців тому

      I'm glad that this was helpful! Good luck on your journey!

  • @greglowery65
    @greglowery65 Рік тому +7

    I've watched tons of videos about this and I must say that your video hit me harder than any other video I've watched. keep up the good work and thank you for this!!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      I'm so glad that my story could help. I really appreciate that! Thanks for watching! Stay strong, we'll all make it through.

  • @irrelevantideology9640
    @irrelevantideology9640 Рік тому +1

    My man, your insight is awesome. Keep it up dude. And thanks.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Most definitely will. Thank you for watching, appreciate you!

  • @kristinsmith873
    @kristinsmith873 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for your openness and this was really motivating and comforting to hear. Keep the positive advice about life coming!!!!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Hi Kristin, thank you so much for watching! I'm glad this was able to reach you and provide some insight and positivity. Working on some new stuff to come soon!

  • @pacmanmum
    @pacmanmum Рік тому +3

    I’ve been so hungover I literally just sat in my armchair staring into space and couldn’t face even moving ,sober 14 days , so far better sleep ,and more motivated ,felt flat at first ,not drinking ever again after binge for lots of years ,first got drunk at 12 now 50.thanks for this video ,only just spotted it , my liver function is borderline and has been in liver disease reversible stage so don’t want to get worse .

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Congrats on your 14 days. 14 days and beyond! Best of luck with the liver disease, hope it is able to reverse fully. Sending tons of positivity your way!

    • @pacmanmum
      @pacmanmum Рік тому +1

      @@Just_Judah thankyou

  • @christophergriffith3420
    @christophergriffith3420 Рік тому +1

    Well said Brother, Well said!! AWESOME video!!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Much appreciated, thanks for watching! More to come soon!

  • @Majorbanjo
    @Majorbanjo Рік тому +1

    Nailed it in his opening statement.....It's fun, until it's not!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Seriously. It's such a trick!

  • @immanuel7776
    @immanuel7776 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing bro 🙏🏽

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for watching fam! Much appreciated!

  • @leeryan3813
    @leeryan3813 Рік тому +6

    This is such a well thought out and amazingly worded video. Well done mate. Educational and inspirational. It’s criminal it’s got less than 1000 views and lost to the noise. It’s amazing how life can pull you from good health/long term goals to very seductive short term impulsive guilty pleasures if you let it

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +2

      Thank you, I really appreciate that! I know how destructive these short term pleasures can be over time but it's always reversable. It's what you choose to engage in over time that matters.

  • @banksundervision
    @banksundervision Рік тому +1

    Great message! The truth was spoken! Proud of you!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching, seriously appreciate it!

  • @KitKat9370
    @KitKat9370 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for wise straight talking words. I’m 7 days alcohol free. It’s a good attitude to say you’ll never say never - that way it’s not so much pressure. It’s your choice not to as opposed to ‘I cant drink’ I read This naked mind by Annie Grace, brilliant philosophy of we chose not to drink with no deprivation feelings just positivity around the journey.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Exactly! To say I'd never drink again would be fake. But to choose not to until I do choose to gives me power and accountability. Congrats on your 7 days, hopefully many more to come!

  • @hungariancottageadventure77
    @hungariancottageadventure77 Рік тому +5

    im 14 months no alcohol and 2 months no sugar and wheat...loving it

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +2

      Feels pretty great doesn't it? Keep on keeping on!

  • @patrickk5370
    @patrickk5370 Рік тому +2

    Great video. These help stay on track

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Hey Patrick, thanks for watching! I'm glad that it can help!

  • @duderserious
    @duderserious Рік тому +1

    Great video! Thanks for sharing your journey. I’m at 96 days sober. Take car, man. 🤙☯️

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank you, appreciate you watching. Congrats on your 96 days, that's an amazing feat! Keep fighting the good fight!

  • @JumpRopeVeteran
    @JumpRopeVeteran Рік тому +5

    Thanks for sharing your story, brother. Stay strong. Respect. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for watching! I really appreciate it.

    • @JumpRopeVeteran
      @JumpRopeVeteran Рік тому +1

      @@Just_Judah you bet. Keep getting after it.

  • @jdr1080
    @jdr1080 Рік тому +2

    This was a great video my dude. Thank you.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +2

      Appreciate you for watching! Peace brother!

  • @marcuswilliams1540
    @marcuswilliams1540 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for your story and advice

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching, really appreciate it!

  • @anthonyharrison5366
    @anthonyharrison5366 Рік тому +1

    Right on man! I’m 7mo the clean from everything. I hope next generation stays away from the loop cycle of growing up

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Congrats on 7 months, that's such a huge achievement! I hope they can avoid it as well!

  • @mjcoz4720
    @mjcoz4720 Рік тому +1

    Wow one of the BEST videos out ther thank you!!!❤

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank you for saying that, I really appreciate it! Thanks for watching!

  • @Bicyclesidewalk
    @Bicyclesidewalk Рік тому +4

    1.5 years into my sober days. Stopped drinking on my 45th b-day. 25 years of beer drinking. Great video, thanks for the talk.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Congrats on your sobriety! That's a huge accomplishment. Keep fighting the good fight!

    • @themaestro5946
      @themaestro5946 Рік тому +1

      Did you lose weight? If so, how much

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      @@themaestro5946 I lost about 30-40 pounds altogether. Still working on it though!

    • @Bicyclesidewalk
      @Bicyclesidewalk Рік тому

      @@themaestro5946 I have never really been overweight or underweight. Many, many benefits if you stop drinking - actually the benefits completely crush any good point one might think alcohol provides. I have been able to hit times I did when I was in my 30's - doubt that would have happened if I continued downing beers.

  • @llewellynsmith9086
    @llewellynsmith9086 Рік тому +2

    I find myself in the life stage where I’ve seen enough and experienced enough. To know that any vice is negative and trying to stay the course is the one thing that will lead us all to redemption and triumph. I salute you on your journey and wish to attain the like. God bless #SouthAfricaCapeTown

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Much appreciated! I wish you the capacity to get through any vice! You got this!

  • @nxgdeezy7406
    @nxgdeezy7406 Рік тому +1

    I appreciate your honesty!!! Keep it going!! I’m 15 days sober!! I’ma continue to keep it going!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Congrats on 15 days, 15 days and beyond! Stay strong. I believe in you!

  • @One-More-Light-Org
    @One-More-Light-Org Рік тому +1

    Well said my dude. Had the realization myself after 22 years. 4 days down and the rest of my life to go. A life I'm excited about now.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Congrats on your 4 days, that's a big accomplishment. Any amount of days after doing it for so long is a big accomplishment. Wishing you the best of luck on your journey!

  • @prestonthomas5399
    @prestonthomas5399 Рік тому +2

    Needed this, thank you sir

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +2

      You're welcome. Glad I could help! Appreciate you for watching!

  • @OrganicallyYahs
    @OrganicallyYahs Рік тому +2

    Similar story and I’m finally done. All praises to the most high for calling his people out of the darkness and into the marvelous light🙏🏽

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      I'm glad to hear that! Agreed! All praises to the most high for helping us see the light!

  • @zoraidaiglesias934
    @zoraidaiglesias934 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much young man. I have forwarded this email to my son. He suffers from alcoholism and depression. God Bless you and keep up the good work

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      I am so glad that this is a helpful message. I truly hope and pray he overcomes his alcoholism and depression, it's such a terrible thing to go through. God Bless you as well! I will continue to put videos out there!

  • @robertthornton543
    @robertthornton543 Рік тому +1

    Wow awesome! Thank you.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching! Appreciate you!

  • @AVENTUS7777
    @AVENTUS7777 Рік тому +1

    This is inspiring. Thanks bro

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      I'm glad it was inspiring! Thank you for watching, much appreciated!

  • @dustinvanderhoff2044
    @dustinvanderhoff2044 Рік тому +1

    thank you so much for this. i really needed this

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      I'm glad I was able to help! Thanks for watching!

  • @alanthomas2296
    @alanthomas2296 Рік тому

    Great video, direct and to the point

  • @nelsongarcia4763
    @nelsongarcia4763 Рік тому +2

    Thank you man . Great info.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching! Appreciate you!

  • @Andrew66632
    @Andrew66632 Рік тому +2

    All the points you make are right in the money!
    Sometimes I get the feeling that some of my friends feel slighted or secretly jealous that I can refrain from drinking. The truth is when I’m sober for months and months I have more crystal clarity. It’s worth it.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      It is so much more worth it than the couple hours of feeling good followed by hours of NOT feeling good. It's not worth the energy exchange!

  • @leafexchange4044
    @leafexchange4044 Рік тому +1

    This is an awesome video. Thank you

  • @21skinsfan
    @21skinsfan Рік тому +1

    bro this is a great video - keep up the good work!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching, appreciate you!

  • @Birder100
    @Birder100 Рік тому +2

    This is hands down one of the best videos I have seen on reasons to stop drinking and how to remain alcohol free. Thank you for such a well thought out and honest discussion.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for saying that, I really appreciate it! I just wanted to be as honest as possible about my journey and try to help people overcome their vices! We can all get through it if we just choose to every day!

  • @sherry4157
    @sherry4157 Рік тому +1

    Thank you! Thank you!

  • @lhza8570
    @lhza8570 Рік тому +2

    Keep em comin bro

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching, I truly appreciate it! I'm working on some new stuff so stay tuned!

  • @chuckhartwig1717
    @chuckhartwig1717 Рік тому +2

    This is a very good video it's what I need to hear God Bless you all

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank you, glad to hear it was helpful!

  • @makefoxhoundgreatagain842
    @makefoxhoundgreatagain842 Рік тому +1

    I was completely straight edge from July 2016 - September 2022 - not even a sip of beer then I had five months of drinking. Jan 13th this year I decided to go back to that way of life as its my default state and stick to it until death. I don't mind alcohol but the lack of control and hangover and what it does to your brain and memory just isn't appealing to me. I'd rather face this life sober. After a while it isn't even difficult you just don't know any different.
    Great video dude!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Wow, that was a long period of being a straight edge! But if you could do it for that long, I have no doubt you can stick to it lifelong. Once you make that decision and stick to it, you'd just live life as if it's not an option to drink! Good luck on the journey!

    • @makefoxhoundgreatagain842
      @makefoxhoundgreatagain842 Рік тому +1

      @@Just_Judah thanks man this video popped up at such a weird time as well the AI / algorithm is evolving surely? All the best! And thanks for the video!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      @@makefoxhoundgreatagain842 I'm glad it was able to reach you! The algorithm sure is something.

  • @IvanJohnsonMedia
    @IvanJohnsonMedia Рік тому +1

    Very good talk. I wasted many years wrestling with vices. It's surprisingly easy to quit most habits once you put your mind to it. I quit smoking after 46 years, for instance.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      WOW. That's actually incredibly impressive. Takes a strong mind to quit something you've done after that long. Kudos to you for that!

  • @mikekusmick6390
    @mikekusmick6390 Рік тому +3

    Coming up on one year no alcohol too…best decision ever made….getting a tattoo to commemorate the decision n to be a reminder to never go back!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      The juice isn't worth the squeeze. Glad you've taken that big step! Congrats!

    • @justinpennington7682
      @justinpennington7682 Рік тому

      What damage the alcohol didn't do to your liver the ink will .

  • @jkmorph9268
    @jkmorph9268 Рік тому +1

    Just what I needed today, I'm in the UK thousands of miles away from you sir and I don't know you personally but thankyou God bless.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Hey I'm glad that my story was able to help you! Stay strong and keep fighting the good fight!

  • @cf8476
    @cf8476 Рік тому +3

    Great video mate!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Much appreciated! Thank you for watching!

  • @quintonwilson3127
    @quintonwilson3127 Рік тому +2

    Life always better sober

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Agreed. You have a whole life before you ever start drinking, so its not necessary to continue!

  • @abec8929
    @abec8929 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing man

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thanks for watching, really appreciate it!

  • @chandlerrodgers5415
    @chandlerrodgers5415 Рік тому +1

    That cassette in the background is perfect. I need one of those

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      I got it from here ikonick.com/ I saw it on instagram and just knew I had to have it!

  • @hambonefitnesslifestyleand996
    @hambonefitnesslifestyleand996 Рік тому +2

    The video was dope and well said.

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thanks for watching, appreciate it!

  • @culturedmoth2748
    @culturedmoth2748 Рік тому +1

    Great video! Thxs

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching, appreciate you!

  • @lawrencefunderburk8214
    @lawrencefunderburk8214 Рік тому +1

    Great message sir. I'll be 40 this year and I'm finally practicing some type of restraint

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Congratulations! Doesn't matter when you start, it just matters that you start. Peace brother!

  • @gracesunshine6716
    @gracesunshine6716 Рік тому +1

    this convicted me, God bless

  • @Pkrplayer31
    @Pkrplayer31 Рік тому +1

    Great video. Thanks

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching! Appreciate you!

  • @Bmcdaniel88
    @Bmcdaniel88 Рік тому +1

    im going thru a similar point in my life now im 34y/o and i look back from when i was 21 and nothing has really progressed in my life...crazy how distracted u get on alcohol...but trying to change now disgusted in myself in terms of health goin from ripped to 60/70lbsd overweight and not happy with job even tho it pays decent...thanks for the video it helps hearing someone else who went through something similar get thru it and change for the better

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Trust me, I TOTALLY get that. I wasted so many years of my life boozing it up and holding myself back. Working all these crappy jobs, letting my health go to shit, I was disgusted with myself as well. I felt like I was hustling backwards. But it's never too late dude! You can always turn it around. You got this! Just start!

  • @Illmatic25
    @Illmatic25 Рік тому +5

    Took me one too many trips to the ER because of withdrawal for me to finally get sick of getting sick. Good point on “the higher you go up” part. Theres no free lunch, you will pay the consequences the longer you go.
    Im blessed for it though became I would still be drinking if I didnt get sick from it. I hope no one has to go that route but I came to terms with the fact im definitely not a “normal” drinker

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      I never made it to that point, thank God, but I definitely let it take me places I never needed to go.
      I'm glad that you got out of that groove and escaped the trap! Keep fighting the good fight!

  • @nenewalker_
    @nenewalker_ Рік тому +1

    Congrats on one year!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Thank you, much appreciated!

  • @JohnHenrySheridan
    @JohnHenrySheridan Рік тому +1

    Good vibes brother!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Thanks so much for watching, so much appreciated. Peace brother!

  • @dannyb7166
    @dannyb7166 Рік тому +1

    Rooting for you bro, you said some realshit

  • @tomasmuller5702
    @tomasmuller5702 Рік тому +1

    love this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!thanks!!!!!!

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Glad to help! Thanks for watching, appreciate you!

  • @tombrownrigg8794
    @tombrownrigg8794 Рік тому +1

    Good job. Thank you

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому

      Thanks for watching! Much appreciated!

  • @hayleyhawkins
    @hayleyhawkins Рік тому +1

    Couldn’t agree more 💖

    • @Just_Judah
      @Just_Judah  Рік тому +1

      Thank you! Appreciate you watching!