More happy marriage ahead, Ghib! Thanks for sharing this day with us. I have to comment that you're no typical Japanese husband. You approach your marriage with an open heart and do reflections with your wife. This is one of the main keys to a successful relationship. Credits go your missus too. Look at her willingness to be open with you in the video. I dare to say that not many spouses do that. Bless the both of you with many more joyful years to come.
I'm married to my Japanese husband for 7 years now with a kid. I must say cultural miscommunication was the thing to overcome like what is ok to say or sensitive sometimes we don't get each other but we will try to explain once we cool down. Also he is not the kind to give me surprises or show outward affection but I'm ok with it. It is true once you have a kid, things change because there is an additional responsibility and another life depends on you two. But the kid does help diffuse tension or becomes a topic to talk about. I started going back to work part-time and my husband had to pick up the kid and prep dinner on days that I work, so he does chip in since we don't have help from parents or a helper. He cleans the toilets weekly and his cooking is definitely better than mine. As with any relationship, international or not, there has to be the understanding and stepping in for each other without comparison. Cheers to your 5 years and many more to come!
I am impressed by the communication between the 2 of you. There is a bond, an intelligent, caring attitude. But. Start a family. Kids add joy and more love.
I feel enlightened by this video, I am married for about 5 years plus, I totally agree that both parties need to put in effort to communicate effectively in order to make the marriage work. 🙏
Heartiest Congrats Ghib Ojisan n Wife on your 5th wedding Anniversary. It's very interesting that all your fanss gets the opportunity to watch both of you appearing your candid commenrs in the open.Best of success and happiness to both of you and your family both in Osaka and Singapore
Congratulations!! to your 5 years anniversary!!🎉🎉🎉Thank you for sharing! I think what you did is a great process of healthy marriage. Keep listening to each other needs😁We have been married for 45 years.
14:42 Ghib san i think you should maybe start cooking videos one day cause i am interested in some of the dishes you made and happy 5th anniversary as well
I don't know anything about Japanese husbands. But you sound very different. You are open and funny. You have also adopted a Singaporean accent. I have been married to my husband for 33 years. We have an interracial marriage. I am Chinese and he is an American. The secret to a good marriage is forgetfulness. I always forget so I don't get angry for long. It may not work for all but it works for us. You two look like you will have a long and happy marriage. Happy anniversary. Your simple homemade dish looks warm and welcoming. God bless.
Hello friend, I always feel intrigued by your amazing videos, happy wedding aninversary. 😊 There are many cultural differences but glad that you guys work out these differences. 🙏
Happy 5th wedding anniversary Ghib..Your wife has a real sense of humour..liked her one line humour punchlines..reference to the Boat Quay review of the worst- rated restaurant in Singapore..lol
happy 5th anniversary Ghib san!! I still remember when I clicked on your video for the first time back in 2019, when you were touring Yishun 😁. Awesome to see where you are at now!
@@GhibOjisan thanks for taking the time to reply :) I think it’s a really great quiz not just for couples but human relationships in general hahaha been through a lot the past few years working my ass off as a corporate slave in Japan and yeah 人間関係 is really the worst thing ever as a foreigner who not only has a language barrier but also cultural barrier 😭 I started applying things I learnt from dealing with my husband who’s a little inflexible and in turn the approach helped with 融通効かないおっさん at my work too hahaha hope everyone get to have happy and sustainable relationships ❤️ Really nice to see that you seem to be enjoying your Singapore life with your wifey who has a really cute voice hehehe!!
oh ghib..may you and your wife have many many more healthy happy communicative years ahead..! Love watching the both of you communicate..the part of apology is so true in many marriages!
Congratulations on your 5 year anniversary! We love watching your videos but have yet to see your wife. Any plan for having children? Cheers from Australia
Happy Anniversary Ghib san. All your “‘meh” and “eh” really blends in, hahahaha! For wifey : my hubby and I worked really hard in the past, now when we are older, we no longer have the energy and health to go travelling. Don’t procrastinate, enjoy life dear. ❤️
Happpppy happpppy 5th Wedding 💒💍 Anniversary Mr & Mrs Ojisan!!!💪🥳🎉👍👏🫶... Work yur marriage,communicate often, Accommodate one another...changed yourself, don't expect frm him or her....put away yur rights...that will go a loooong way...till death do us apart!
If you want something or not happy, just be direct and say it out but be gentle if it is harsh news. Stop expecting your partner to mind read and do exactly what you want with 100% accuracy. And when wrong or misread, blame them for not loving you enough to already know it. That’s just childish and waste of time. Sometimes love is also not expressed in words but in actions. Learn to notice the little things that your partner does only for you. Those are easily taken for granted and seen as a norm after being together for long while. Ask yourself if a stranger or family would do the same for you and in the way you like it done?
Happy Anniversary🙂 Well, regardless of how it looks, I believe whatever food we have on our table is always nice, especially when it's shared with someone we love. It's about cherishing the moment and being grateful for what we have, rather than focusing on external appearances or extravagant spending. So, whether it's leftover food or a gourmet meal, it's all part of the celebration and should be appreciated, which I know you both do. You've mentioned that you cannot be too Japanese. It's a mutual thing. We are all brought up from different cultures and family backgrounds. It's not just about you not being able to be too Japanese; your wife also cannot be too Singaporean. It's a two-way street. If you believe you cannot be too Japanese, your wife also can't be too Singaporean either. It's about being grateful for what we have and understanding each other's cultures with empathy. It's a beautiful journey of mutual respect and appreciation for our differences, infused with humour and love. Both of you are funny and humourous. I love how you call your wife "Wifey" ----- lmao🙂
I hope you have signed a pre-nup bro. Once you get super famous, 50% is hers unless you do a Achraf Hakimi. He give all his wealth to his mother. She gets nothing. 😁😁 Oh, since you are in Singapore, do you still give all your salary to wifey like Japanese man???😆
@@NEAAFFAIRSyes i get that but not all ppl will take it as such... i think personally its a bad joke... some ppl will take it lightly... but ya... just my opinion n i fully respect urs as a joke... maybe mrs ghib did not appreciate it OR she laughed about it... who knows exactly lol
More happy marriage ahead, Ghib! Thanks for sharing this day with us.
I have to comment that you're no typical Japanese husband. You approach your marriage with an open heart and do reflections with your wife. This is one of the main keys to a successful relationship. Credits go your missus too. Look at her willingness to be open with you in the video. I dare to say that not many spouses do that. Bless the both of you with many more joyful years to come.
😊 thank you
"This couple exudes a down to earth charm, with genuine warmth, relaxed demeanor, and a humble, easygoing nature."
I'm married to my Japanese husband for 7 years now with a kid. I must say cultural miscommunication was the thing to overcome like what is ok to say or sensitive sometimes we don't get each other but we will try to explain once we cool down. Also he is not the kind to give me surprises or show outward affection but I'm ok with it. It is true once you have a kid, things change because there is an additional responsibility and another life depends on you two. But the kid does help diffuse tension or becomes a topic to talk about. I started going back to work part-time and my husband had to pick up the kid and prep dinner on days that I work, so he does chip in since we don't have help from parents or a helper. He cleans the toilets weekly and his cooking is definitely better than mine. As with any relationship, international or not, there has to be the understanding and stepping in for each other without comparison. Cheers to your 5 years and many more to come!
I am impressed by the communication between the 2 of you. There is a bond, an intelligent, caring attitude. But. Start a family. Kids add joy and more love.
Thank you for the quiz, what a way to celebrate this milestone! 🎉
Huat ah!!
I feel enlightened by this video, I am married for about 5 years plus, I totally agree that both parties need to put in effort to communicate effectively in order to make the marriage work. 🙏
Heartiest Congrats Ghib Ojisan n Wife on your 5th wedding Anniversary. It's very interesting that all your fanss gets the opportunity to watch both of you appearing your candid commenrs in the open.Best of success and happiness to both of you and your family both in Osaka and Singapore
Thank you very much!
Wishing you both a very happy 5th anniversary! おめでとうございます!
Thanks always paecpc!
I can totally relate to this topic, haha. You two really seem to complement each other well. Happy wedding anniversary!
I think so too. Thanks!!
Congratulation to your 5th Marriage Anniversary, Ghib san🙏🏽🙇🏻♀️
Thank you for sharing this valuable information
Thank you too!
Many more anniversaries to come!!!
Huat ah!
Congratulations to both of you! Happy 5th Anniversary! May you both have a peaceful and happy life together for a really long time.
Thank you! You too!
Congratulations!! to your 5 years anniversary!!🎉🎉🎉Thank you for sharing! I think what you did is a great process of healthy marriage. Keep listening to each other needs😁We have been married for 45 years.
45 years is amazing!
Both of you sound very genuine!
My husband & I try to communicate more & spend more time together. 😊
14:42 Ghib san i think you should maybe start cooking videos one day cause i am interested in some of the dishes you made and happy 5th anniversary as well
Thanks! But cooking is only hobby🤣
Congratulation my friend, love your video so so so much ❤
Thank you so much 🤗
Congratz! Wishing more happiness, blessings and marital Bliss!
Happy anniversary!
😆😆😆
Happy anniversary to you and your wife! 🎉
Thank you so much 😀
Everlasting love to both❤❤❤🎉
I don't know anything about Japanese husbands. But you sound very different. You are open and funny. You have also adopted a Singaporean accent. I have been married to my husband for 33 years. We have an interracial marriage. I am Chinese and he is an American. The secret to a good marriage is forgetfulness. I always forget so I don't get angry for long. It may not work for all but it works for us. You two look like you will have a long and happy marriage. Happy anniversary. Your simple homemade dish looks warm and welcoming. God bless.
Forgetfulness or forgiveness? ❤
Happy 5th Anniversary! You two!
Happy 5th anniversary and mine 31st anniversary , both our anniversaries fall on the same day🎉 blessed with good health, good wealth and happiness ❤😊🎉
31 years is amazing! Huat ah!!
I thought ghib had 3 million subscriber but actually only 300k... so underrated
Happy 5th anniversary. Blessed year ahead, together with your wifey!! 💐
Thank you so much!
Hello friend, I always feel intrigued by your amazing videos, happy wedding aninversary. 😊 There are many cultural differences but glad that you guys work out these differences. 🙏
There's no perfect marriage but perfect understanding of imperfections in each other..to me that's love
Happy anniversary🎉
5周年ってことにびっくり‼︎😳
いつまでも仲良くお幸せに✨
ありがとうございます😊
Blessed anniversary, thanks for ur sharing, God bless
Thanks so much
Congrats on your anniversary!
Thank you so much Eumi!!
Happy Anniversary!
Happy Anniversary
㊗️💐💐🤍❤️
Thank you so much 😊
Happy 5th wedding anniversary Ghib..Your wife has a real sense of humour..liked her one line humour punchlines..reference to the Boat Quay review of the worst- rated restaurant in Singapore..lol
happy 5th anniversary Ghib san!! I still remember when I clicked on your video for the first time back in 2019, when you were touring Yishun 😁. Awesome to see where you are at now!
Thank you for supporting the channel since the beginning. I hope I can continue to make interesting videos for you 😁
Planning for my wedding in April with my Japanese husband and I’ll definitely make him do this quiz with me 😂 maybe for one of our 余興
Yeah I recommend! It’s a good way to start discussing important matters
@@GhibOjisan thanks for taking the time to reply :) I think it’s a really great quiz not just for couples but human relationships in general hahaha been through a lot the past few years working my ass off as a corporate slave in Japan and yeah 人間関係 is really the worst thing ever as a foreigner who not only has a language barrier but also cultural barrier 😭 I started applying things I learnt from dealing with my husband who’s a little inflexible and in turn the approach helped with 融通効かないおっさん at my work too hahaha hope everyone get to have happy and sustainable relationships ❤️
Really nice to see that you seem to be enjoying your Singapore life with your wifey who has a really cute voice hehehe!!
Happy anniversary 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you so much 😀
Happy 5 anniversary🎉🎉🎉
the question on values about money, is not so much gender based but influenced by our upbringing. Happy Anniversary!
oh ghib..may you and your wife have many many more healthy happy communicative years ahead..! Love watching the both of you communicate..the part of apology is so true in many marriages!
Thank you😁
Congratulations on your 5 year anniversary! We love watching your videos but have yet to see your wife. Any plan for having children? Cheers from Australia
Ghib chewing the candy when he is panicking haha
The candy saved me
Happy 5th wedding anniversary Ghib and Wifey ❤🫶😀🥂
Thanks always kez 😁
happy 5th anniversary!! its my 7th year soon -(not marriage yet😅) just being together..
you guys should try love language test as well!
That test sounds fun too 😆 congrats on 7 years!!
Respect for each other's differences. Accommodation and compromise. Although a couple, they are still two different people.
For sure!!
got that GOV SG sponsor
Happy Anniversary Guys!🎉
Thanks 😆
Happy 5th wedding anniverary❤😘 Always remember , be nice n patience to one another , all problems will be solved❤
Happy Wedding Anniversary 🌹🌹🌹❤❤❤
5 years already, time for wifey face reveal! 😂
Happy 5th Anniversary to you both 💐🥂🎉
Thanks 🥰
How did you & your wife meet? 😊
Happy Anniversary Ghib san. All your “‘meh” and “eh” really blends in, hahahaha! For wifey : my hubby and I worked really hard in the past, now when we are older, we no longer have the energy and health to go travelling. Don’t procrastinate, enjoy life dear. ❤️
Appreciate your insight! 😀
No lah..you are not too Japanese lah! You actually openly speak about both your relationship ah!
Hi Ghib, is it easy for foreign men to date Japanese girls? It seems very hard right?
I like your clock!! Where did you guys get it??
It’s a handmade clock bought at Florence, Italy, one of our fav cities on earth😁
It is interesting that when your wife is angry it means you have done something wrong. That she will not be angry by mistake.
もう結婚五周年なんですね✨めっちゃ早い！おめでとうございます😆
時間，あっという間ですよね🥹ありがとうございます！
Haha so need or no need? 😅😢 This couple is so cute and lovely ❤🎉 happy anniversary
So practical....
I maintain happiness by staying single.
Happpppy happpppy 5th Wedding 💒💍 Anniversary Mr & Mrs Ojisan!!!💪🥳🎉👍👏🫶... Work yur marriage,communicate often, Accommodate one another...changed yourself, don't expect frm him or her....put away yur rights...that will go a loooong way...till death do us apart!
Thanks for advice 😆
When Couplets fight, they need to Talk. I married to German and we tried to talk.
結婚五年目、おめでとうございます！
Anyway what are the other sensitive questions that Singaporeans tend to ask which you feel are sensitive?
I think the baby part? Haha
Hi Ghib n wife,, 結婚 記念日 おめでとう㊗️ これからもう もと幸せになってね，体もう いつも元気でいてね，来週 もう お誕生日ですね，double おめでとう🎉🎉ね😅😂。㊗️👍🍾
スジャニさん、いつもありがとうございます！
@@GhibOjisan , こちらこそ，今 ジャカルタに行く 所､i asked my stylist that cut my hair to subs to your channel Ghib hehe
If you want something or not happy, just be direct and say it out but be gentle if it is harsh news. Stop expecting your partner to mind read and do exactly what you want with 100% accuracy. And when wrong or misread, blame them for not loving you enough to already know it. That’s just childish and waste of time. Sometimes love is also not expressed in words but in actions. Learn to notice the little things that your partner does only for you. Those are easily taken for granted and seen as a norm after being together for long while. Ask yourself if a stranger or family would do the same for you and in the way you like it done?
Great insights!
Happy Anniversary🙂 Well, regardless of how it looks, I believe whatever food we have on our table is always nice, especially when it's shared with someone we love. It's about cherishing the moment and being grateful for what we have, rather than focusing on external appearances or extravagant spending. So, whether it's leftover food or a gourmet meal, it's all part of the celebration and should be appreciated, which I know you both do. You've mentioned that you cannot be too Japanese. It's a mutual thing. We are all brought up from different cultures and family backgrounds. It's not just about you not being able to be too Japanese; your wife also cannot be too Singaporean. It's a two-way street. If you believe you cannot be too Japanese, your wife also can't be too Singaporean either. It's about being grateful for what we have and understanding each other's cultures with empathy. It's a beautiful journey of mutual respect and appreciation for our differences, infused with humour and love. Both of you are funny and humourous. I love how you call your wife "Wifey" ----- lmao🙂
Thanks for your input 😁
Hi ! May I know where you get the monkey from ?
Singapore zoo I believe
From parliament. Lots of them there
Two dark ones From IKEA, the lighter one from friend 🥰
Congrats Ghib san... the only thing we all hope is to see a glimpse of your wife... haha
Maybe one day? 😇
Happy 5th wedding anniversary ❤❤🎉🎉 every time the wife talks, you zoom on th monkey 😂😂 aiyaaa lawak la
Ghib: oooo Happy 5th Anniversary...... *inside his mind, I survive for the 5th year !!!!!* LOL🤣
🙏🏼😊
Interesting tropics 😅
Happy 5th marriage anniversary. While you enjoy marrying Singaporean girl. How’s Japanese girl view towards Singaporean male? 😂
I think Rich and kind 😇
@@GhibOjisan filthy rich 🤌🏼🤭
Hoping one day will showing ur wife's appearance!
woo-hoo congrats
So five years, is baby in the future?
Ohh no...less then 2 yrs to 7 yrs itch....hehe 🤭😲🤣
are you all expecting? guessing from the monkey baby :o
My monkey twin
this one orrhhh
Hı broo show your wife face plz then we Will see how beautiful she is regards to you
Why is your wife hiding?
She shy, not hiding 🙈
Ganbatte
When intending to have baby😂
Japanese Wife better 😂
goes without saying
I guess you didn't get the memo: everyone wants a Japanese girlfriend but no one wants a Japanese wife! lol
Maybe you both can take a fertility test as I have friends who try IVF many times but still no chance. Sometimes, it is fated.
i feel so sorry for you
I hope you have signed a pre-nup bro. Once you get super famous, 50% is hers unless you do a Achraf Hakimi. He give all his wealth to his mother. She gets nothing. 😁😁
Oh, since you are in Singapore, do you still give all your salary to wifey like Japanese man???😆
dont think thats any of ur concern or business..... if i was a wife n read that id be seriously offended...
@@joshualee8151 u do realise its a joke right
@@NEAAFFAIRSyes i get that but not all ppl will take it as such... i think personally its a bad joke... some ppl will take it lightly... but ya... just my opinion n i fully respect urs as a joke... maybe mrs ghib did not appreciate it OR she laughed about it... who knows exactly lol
such a tasteless comment. shows the quality of human you are.
5 years no kids? Why?
Happy Anniversary!
Thank you so much 😀
It is interesting that when your wife is angry it means you have done something wrong. That she will not be angry by mistake.