Men, what are the Most Ridiculous DOUBLE STANDARDS You’ve had to Deal with? - Reddit Podcast
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Double Standards are probably one of the worst things that happened to men, so I'm glad people are stepping up.
i am stepping up loudly and fully. but sadly i am part of a contentcreator network and the guy who founded it, is a weakwilled woke sissy who wont take ANY facts except for those, who support his leftwing woke agenda... he also hinted at 'making me go' if i resume to speak openly like that... but i am too full of furious hate about these things.... we are being mocked, abused and robbed... all kinds of bullshit while these feminists are stuffing their pockets on our backs....
What about double standards for women lmao?
@@oasis808 almost non existant because women are the type to be behind your back and disgustingly gossip and stuff while men are straight forward and dont need that shit. women invented the double standard because they cant fight directly
@@oasis808 That too. This video is just focusing on men but I'm sure they're gonna do a video on women too if they haven't already
@@oasis808 yeah they are bad too but they are recognised more often and they are not as bad while men's double standards are worse and are not often recognised as just being double standards
I saw a video of two kids at a middle(?) school. A girl was getting in a boy's face taunting him, threatening him, slapping him, and daring him to hit her back. He constantly warned her that he'd fight back, yet she kept it up and said something along the lines of "you don't have the guts".
I should mention that, the whole time, there was an entire crowd of kids at this school watching the whole thing unfold and recording it on their phones. The VERY moment the boy reached the end of his patience and swung, EVERYONE ganged up on him. They knew full well what the context was--they saw the girl getting in the boy's face the entire time, yet only acted when HE swung (which he REPEATEDLY warned her about).
If that isn't sexist, then I don't know what is.
Bruh that is just rude because your a different gender you don’t have special privileges men and women are equal we need equality not men treated like 💩 and women treated like queens we need both equal
It’s extremely sexist, and that boy shouldn’t be accused of misogyny if he ever was. Men somehow can’t “fight back” or retaliate. That is a stupid rule. Girls have the consent that wasn’t asked for to assault boys, but boys can’t assault girls.
@@israeldiaz4189 yes. If they keep this whole thing going, then the whole oppressive situation that happened with women before will repeat all over again, except men are now the victims. It’s not gonna solve sexism, it’s just restarting it and adding fuel to the fire. Society sucks.
That’s disgusting
Bro the girls in my class are mostly sexist bitches and one time we were playing a game and a girl tried to get a boy out because he's a boy
Women sexually assaulting men is the most disturbing things for people to be okay with..
Sexual assault or unwanted touches are never okay, I don't give a damn what their nethers look like or what they identify as. Stop judging or shaming assault victims based on these things, and NEVER tell them to "take it as a compliment" or "appreciate the attention".
Absolutely. But I honestly believe that these sentiments come from people that don't have to deal with that crap and yearn for any kind of female attention. That's also why so many guys believe it's an honest to god compliment to sexually harrass a woman.
The double standard kicks in because there hasn't been as much attention brought to it. But that's luckily changing with different people of public talking about it.
My older cousin has been raped by two women, no one gave a fuck except his closest family which were mostly men.
Honestly I'm ok with woman sexually assaulting me or another man around me if there ready to get assaulted by me 🤷
@@ducklord5588 had us in the first half not gonna lie
Women can legally rape a child and sue him for child support
Imagine saving a child's life and getting criticized and fired for it...
Society fucking sucks.
Guy at a store with his girlfriend: Let's have s*x.
Girlfriend: No.
Guy: *Begs and pleads
Everyone else: *Approaches to stop the guy
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Girl at a store with her boyfriend: Let's have s*x.
Boyfriend: No.
Girl: *Begs and pleads
Everyone else: You don't know what you're missing.
LITERALLY YES, i hate these double standarts!!! like, what am i missing?? the opportunity to cheat on my fiancee with a random creep who cant stop stalking me?? NOPE, nope nope!
Meanwhile I a girl, say no, and I get told 'you don't know what you're missing'. So um.... Am I secretly a boy despite the very girly (bumpy, bleedy) body? XD
I know if I have short hair, cover up in baggy clothes and don't talk people have addressed me as Young Man (I'm a dwarf even in my 30's) and asked if I was my mother's son. So maybe I am???
The CPR story is absolutely disgusting beyond the parents being insanely sexist: the school fired their only *CPR trained employee* because the parents of a girl he saved were freaked out that a guy gave their daughter CPR. Just... think about that for a second. The parents basically said they'd rather their daughter be dead than saved by a man and the school essentially agreed by terminating him over it. That means the school values the insane ideals of mentally-unhinged, sexist parents over the wellbeing of the students under their care.
Nah, but if he left her to die, he’d be blamed for it, and he’d deserve it too for the reason stated previously. Parents had the guy’s fate in their hands and chose violence.
If I had a daughter who was saved by another man I would at a minimum buy him a case of beer and buy him a nice steak dinner.
I saved a woman's life once. I'm not bragging, but medical staff said she only saw the next sunrise because I intervened. Some fool bystander said I "SA'ed" the unresponsive patient when I verified her airway was clear, verified that breathing was happening, and checked her pulse before sending someone to call EMS (textbook first aid rendered, all on surveillance camera). If I ever see a choking woman I don't know, she might just stay choking because of this incident and the aftermath in which my actions were fully vindicated by the ER staff and yet I was still mocked as a "r*pist". For the crime of being the only person around with military first aid training and the balls to save someone's life. After this, I'm halfway to "not my problem". I shouldn't be afraid to save someone's life.
You realize that the purpose of free education is to instill the exact values you're surprised about?
At a bar, I once had a woman I wasn't at all attracted to at all flirt and ask me for a dance. I politely declined not wanting to be rude. She followed me around the bar everywhere I went until I had to get more stern and straight up with her.
When I told people a lot of them said "Oh, well. She was probably lonely and you should have just humored her." Um, no if I am not interested then I am not interested.
My sister basically made me accept this womans social media request. I planned to just play it cool and not interact with her much. I wanted to do a video project once about a series with a female stalker. She direct messages me saying "I'll be your stalker."
Imagine if a guy said that to a girl.
Your sister is an a**hole man. You should tell her that what she did is absolutely disgusting and wrong.
I would've told them to do it if they insist on me humoring her. Watch as they decline. Then I'd say, "How do you think I feel now huh?" Humble them. Also your sister has no right to tell you what you can and can't do. Decline, block, mute, the whole nine. Don't let others persuade or force you to do something you don't wanna do.
That just sounds disturbing, I hope you blocked and separated yourself from them.
If my sister was trying to force me to accept that woman, I would tell her to piss off and stay OUT of my personal business.
I personally know the chief of police in my town and he tells people "if you have to shoot someone hand the gun to your wife because if a man shoots a man it's investigated as a homicide but if a woman shoots a man it's a self defense investigation"
Isn't self-defense also homicide? Maybe I'm getting terms confused, but homicide is any act of killing a person and murder is an act of intentional and unjustified homicide.
@@JKBDTS Self-Defense is when you kill someone you believe will kill you. Homicide is a general term for murder.
@@Olimar92 So self-defense is not homicide?
It is technically but not punished if it was neccaerrcy@@JKBDTS
@@JKBDTSHomicide is a broad term that applies anytime a human being kills another human being. As a general rule (though, there are some exceptions, like the felony murder rule), murder is intentional homicide, manslaughter is negligent homicide, and killing another in self-defense is justifiable homicide, with the latter, due to being justifiable, not being a crime (although the cause of death on the death certificate will nevertheless still be homicide).
What makes a homicide justifiable lends to explaining why it would be easier for a man who killed someone in self-defense to hand his gun to a woman and say that she did it. There is a level of subjectivity in determining when the use of lethal force is justifiable. In order for use of lethal force to be justifiable, together with whatever other requirements local law might set out (such as if you're in a state where duty to retreat is a thing), the use of force has to be proportionate-in order to justify the use of lethal force, you have to demonstrate a reasonable belief that the deceased would have killed you if you didn't use lethal force against them. Considering people generally view women as the weaker sex, it's a lot easier for a woman to get a jury to agree that she had to kill someone in order to protect herself from possibly being killed.
When a man is mentally struggling he is looked down upon. When a woman is struggling, all her friends will circle around her and make sure she gets better. This happens in my office
This happened in my school, to me, from the male teacher I saw as an uncle. I never again saw him as a valuable man, and I hope he gets some insight while raising his son.
Yep.. I am a single Father of two children I use to get stares and glares when shopping for Christmas presents for my daughter or just waiting for her to get out of the bathroom at public places. Get all the "oh baby sitting duty huh?" I would stare and lift my arm up and said "yes.. my meth addicted wife and mother to them both hit me with a frying pan ran off with them to California and overdosed in prison and died. So baby sitting with out pay for 5 years" I Never told them she died until they were in their teens. I kept the wedding ring on my finger and it seemed to make woman want to flirt with me more, my son who just turned 18 is now on the army after ROTC. Daughter just got a scholarship for medical school. My current girlfriend of 2 years is supportive but I get looks when in public she made the first moves and is 26 I am 38 she has one kid from a previous life and the father died in combat. Oh the scathing looks I get
Fuck people it’s fun to tell people to shove it you sound like a good dad
Wow
111th 👍
Respect for you king, you raised your kids even with the stares. Legendary
Give them scathing looks back!Throw insults & spit in their face!Do not be ashamed for retalating you glorious knight in shining armor!
Society: Men are allowed to be open about their feelings and take breaks to improve their mental health.
Men: I'd like to take a break to improve my mental health.
Society: Tough luck. Man up. It's the nature of the industry.
Men: Bruh...
No one ever said that lmao
@@oasis808 Yeah, because men aren't allowed to ask at all. If we do we get strongarmed into "dealing with it", "manning up" or being told that the other colleagues aren't complaining about it so I should be too (spoilers: they don't like it either. Silence isn't consent).
A girl asks and management rolls over faster than a dog.
@@PlebNC lmao dude these days no one will say "man up" to u. Men showing emotions r pretty much accepted by a lot of women today. The ones who will say "man up" to u are the other men, so the problem is u☺
@@oasis808 Oh look, responding to guy's emotional problems by dismissing their existence.
No double standards there whatsoever.
I wonder how you'd react if I was a women instead?
@@oasis808 How to blatantly prove one's point in one post.
Woman here. I used to volunteer to teach traumatised kids to read at a local primary school. On my first day, I was led by a female deputy principal to an enclosed back room of the library with no cameras and no supervision and told that this is where I would be teaching the kids INDIVIDUALLY AND ALONE!
I refused and instead taught them in the middle of the library where everyone could see. But, since then, I have taken notice of how I am automatically more trusted with children.
My own aunt used to expect me - as a child and teenager - to supervise and entertain my younger cousins (over 10 years younger than me) at family gatherings, but never expected any of the male cousins to do the same. One of them nearly drowned and she got mad AT ME for not knowing where *HER OWN KID* was when the ENTIRE EXTENDED FAMILY was also there and she was too busy talking to notice that he went under.
Sounds like a her problem. Terrible parenting.
I feel sorry for the husband & child.
That deputy thinks little humans are just Tamagochis,& should be treated as such.
The amount of double standards that men have to deal with, especially when it comes to emotions, is aggravating. I want a guy who feels comfortable enough to share his feelings with me. I’m a girl so I haven’t experienced this personally but I’ve been a witness to this and it’s unacceptable. Especially the way people view men who get S.A.ed, like people believe them but say they’re not man enough if it happens to them.
The thing with opening up inner feelings is allowing yourself to be vulnerable. All it takes is one bad partner to ruin a guy's trust for years.
This reminds me of a guy who got a job at a day care or a pre school. They had a lot of kids so they were separated into classrooms, and when he arrived at his he found a female in there who was his "room assistant". He shrugged it off and went on about his day. At the end of the day he met with his co-workers, who were all female as he was the only male there. when he asked about their room assistants they looked at him in confusion saying they didn't have anyone else in their room besides the kids. It was then he realized that since he was a male they sent someone to monitor him because they thought he would do something inappropriate with them.
Another time this guy was flying on a plane, and he paid extra for a seat in the front so he can have leg room. Well it was then an unaccompanied minor was on the flight, and his seat was next to the man. The Flight attendant saw the guy and went up to him and asked if he could change seats with someone else. He said no, as he paid extra for the leg room, but the flight attendant persisted and kept asking if he would change seats. Apparently he realized they were going to have him swap seats with a female passenger. The guy complained to the airlines about this, as they were basically accusing him of being a predator indirectly.
Say make the minor move
@@ked49 No pun intended
I love this because you can do the math and the risk of any individual man being a predator is statically negligibdl
If I were the man, I would ask for the extra money that was used for that seat and only let them keep what they'd have you pay for a normal seat and force the female passenger to pay the extra for that seat. Either that or what I would do is stay sitting there and tell them no and don't put that kid next to me. I'm no babysitter. Screw you if you think I'm terrible. I paid for my seat, not her. And for the complaint, I'd let them know that I didn't want the child next to me. So they either need to stick to their jobs or add a rule about seat swapping. Ik lotta people will be less likely to pay for their services.
this is all blatant sexism!!! i hope such people get fired. you know, the best we can doin these situations is explain how stupid it is for these workers to assume such tuings of us, aka we should reverse the roles and see how dumb this is.
its fisgusting that people assume these things of people that are just like them, just because of whar they have between their legs.
its like backstabbing, especially in the first story, where the male worker trusted the female co workers that they trusted him and that they all were equal, aftwrwards getting stabbed by this sexism. if telling such people to "reverse roles and see how we feel about it" wont work, im just gonns go straight up to accusing women of being predatory pedos. im sick of this discrimination and these horrific accusations.
My husband is a stay at home dad and for the first little while when he took our son to school or pick him up, my husband was looked at suspiciously. My husband is a large hairy guy so it isn't surprising, but it is a double standard. My husband is a wonderful father and and does a great job caring for our son. Father's can be better stay at home parents than mother's. My husband is much better than me.
Considering children without dads have a huge chance to become criminals yeah
@@thatundeadlegacy2985some kids without Dad's or moms yes it will happen but all the time no also that is stereotyping, cause how do you know that some kids need their dad's in their lives, in order to be happy or even have a happier life? And Since we are on the topic, what about kids who are orphans/Foster or kids who have both parents but be neglected by them, or kids who are abused by one parent and the other either watch it happen and do nothing about it, or leave the child to the abusive father or mother or how about narcissist parents who play favorites kid while the not favorite kid have to do their best to get out that situation and cut all contact with those type of people, and by the way someone children who are raised by both good parents ten to because criminals or terrible person anyway.
@@sukaidoreikudaleyangel9347 No people are perfectly fine without mothers, mine nearly killed me.
they jsut need fathers.
@@thatundeadlegacy2985 okay I sorry that happen to you, but the truth of the matter a kid need both parents and sometimes they don't need both parents, one parent can raise their children well regardless of their a father or a mother what matters is the child well being over all, and just cause you was raise by your father doesn't mean every father going be like you're, and it's sucks cause every kids don't have that luck sometimes, and cause some father don't ever want to meet their kid or be in their lives.
I went to the shop a few years back, these two members of staff started making sexual remarks about me. I was very uncomfortable. If it was the other way around, it would have been sexual harassment. But the people around me who heard it didn't care. I was 14 at the time, which makes it 10x worse.
When I was a kid; I was the 'quirky' one who liked to wear sandals. They felt so much better for my feet than constrictive shoes. But then 2 older girls in the school started to stamp on my toes and the school's response was "I had to wear proper shoes then it won't be a problem" so no punishment 'because I was asking for it'.
That's when you drop something very heavy on there foot
@@ducklord5588 yeah but then you get suspended because you’re a man
Lawfare sue them into hell
@@robinjameson4261 oh yeah that too
bro, i'm pretty sure that's fucking battery, which is a felony 💀
Closeted lesbian comes out to straight spouse: "Yaaas queen! live your truth! such a true hero and if he has a problem, he's a homophobic misogynist!"
Closeted gay comes out to straight spouse: "I understand that it is hard to come out but it is NEVER okay to destroy a woman just because you don't know who you really are or are too afraid to admit it!"
thechnically they are both kinda bad, not because gay but becasue the spouse
As a woman, I make an active effort to avoid treating men with unfair double standards.
We're all human, we should just treat each other decently
If you're a big man, they think you're intimidating.
If you don't have a deep voice, they think you sound cute.
If you're shy, they think that's adorable.
If you're all 3, they think you're a weirdo.
What if you're a small, shy man with a deep voice
@thatrandomweeb if you add a beard, they make dwarf references
@@thatrandomweebserial killer
@@rogers.5 If you have a beard and are small, you ARE a dwarf by definition
This is a plain example of why all double standards need to be done away with. They literally help nobody.
...except for extremist politicians who make bank off political divides.
Incidentally, feminists seem to object to these sorts of discussions. I wonder why?
Varying depending on where you live, they help the people who can play into and take advantage of them.
they help half the people in the world
@@btf_flotsam478Feminists are domestic terrorists. They can't be reasoned with. They're enemies of the people.
YOU HAD TO GET POLITICAL 🙄@@btf_flotsam478
When women say 'Guys should be emotional, its natural!'
But then when they see a guy hurting, crying etc, the same women go 'Ew, no!'
Double Standards are the worst, regardless of whether they’re targeting women or men. And double standards affecting men aren’t talked about enough in the mainstream gender equity conversation. I’m glad that they’re getting some attention/recognition here.
I remember the amount of times the cops were called on my house for domestic disputes, and at first the cops assumed my dad was the abuser, and to this day a few cops still do believe it in that shit town.
My mom should have been locked away years ago for all the shit she did and put us through, but my dad was the one who was on the police radar.
i feel this so freaking much. and i mean, my mom abused me and my sister and tried to hurt my dad once, which JAILED HIM for 1 day. i always wanted my mom to go to jail for what she did and for the fact that our dad, withiut the custody of us both, still tried his best to make our lives happier: every week or so bought us lots of sweets, took us to places to hang out in or overall just go and have fun in. he cared about us and yet... my family viewed dad as the bad guy and my mom, who was also a consistant drunkard alongside a manipulative abuser, as a hero who "survived something".
and so to speak, my fiancee isnt the type of a woman who would bea very loving mother to their kid and would, in some way, accidentally neglect them even a bit. while i am the type that would take perfect care of children and cook food, treat childish injuries, take care and spend time with them all the time. its always men who are painted as evil, when most are not. im very sorry your town's sexist police cant get who is the good parent and who is the bad parent there. but maybe your mom will ever get the punishment?
@@markfaites It's messed up how much of a bias there is against men when it comes to stuff like this and how often women get away with horrible crimes like that too.
It really sucks that men are painted as bad when women are just as capable of being cruel.
@@bombdotcom2168 awfully true you are. thats also the reason why my fiancee has no morals which i try to talk to her about. i mean she understands basic equality and that everyone are humans but because of her "female status" she literally sees no bounds as to murder someone. me, as a lawful good person, am trying to reason with her about whats bad and whats good while giving her examples of it. the only reason she didnt yet commit any murder is because im with her, and we are deeply in love, and she knows i have been severely traumatized and i severely fight for equality for everyone and believe that every person's life matters as equally as another's, so killing someone is like if someone killed yourself but from a 3rd perspective. i guess she starts getting it time by time, but its really saddening that i, a guy, have to explain basic morality to her. its like the world has taught her to be cruel because... well.. she is a woman and she wont be punished as severely or even maybe not get punished at all. i also really hate it that when i am all optimistic and happy, people say that i am somehow... manipulative. because i am not a horrible person. and also in one chat once, where when i had a panic attack(when i have them and i have any current access to chat and things, my mind just goes finger bashing my emotions, feelings and thoughts out into this horrific ramble with many grammar mistakes, and i cant do anything about it.), i couldnt get my phone and the chag away from me before the panic attack itself, which resukted in you already know what. and people afterwards in the chat said things like "why chat while youre having a panic attack in the first place?" which is a stupid question on its own, considering that panic attacks just shut off all rational thinking and make you go full on panic. oh and afterwards i accidentally overdosed on sleeping pills so more horrendous rambling. so those people have accused me of victimizing myself, manipulating everyone, or even maybe being a mental abuser to everyone in the chat group, when i continuously apologised for all the things i have written while in that horrific state(it was nothing offensive, it was just like pure panic things written very floppily, things out of my mind that honestly maybe looked creepy to read at night, like this skewered text talking about [my mental issues] and stuff), and apparently, me apologising made it worse cause "um". i dont know why, but they just didnt like the idea of myself apologising for something that was entirely accidental, and also the idea of my mind just going rambles about my emotions and how bad i feel. like its the topic that nobody wants or needs to hear, like nobody SHOULD care about it. all the people in the chat group were also amazed with the fact that my fiancee, despite being a chaotic, is also a good, and she pretty much explained to them that she tries her best to avoid my panic attacks by helping me and things like that, and once she didnt supervise, i was belittled by 4 people and threatened and also accused of being a horrible person. they didnt understand a concept of a woman taking care of a man who needs some mental support. yes my fiancee has little morality but most of the stuff about murder that she says are jokes and im pretty sure that she would never do it. she is a very loving and caring person, but expresses it in her own way, because not all people are the same. to those people in that chat group, a concept of a relationship that is anything but traditional is alien-like. everything about my relationship with my fiancee stroke as weird to them, and i mean every. like me being a malewife or her being a careless girlbossy type, who actually cares alot about people who mean alot to her. to them, we were like some aliens, a good find in the desert. my emotions and panic attacks were used as a weapon against me and were used to belittle me as a human being. nobody in that chat group saw them as valid, they just thought that panic attacks are made to gain attention, or something.
@@bombdotcom2168 oh gee sorry for writing alot.... but atleast got that off my chest with someone who wont judge me for it.
@@markfaites It's all good. Honestly I hope you can get the help and support you need, and can have a genuine conversation with your fiancé about your side of the conversation because I think communicating that will help whither that's with showing her true colors toward the subject, or helping her understand your point of view.
That last story is the reason that women are more likely to die from not getting CPR than men.
If the rules were reversed she would be praised.
The first story reminds me of Sierra from Total Drama World Tour. She fits all the criteria of a stalker girlfriend, and yet, nobody cared about poor Cody.
Agreed
I think Chris commented on it once or twice.
@@nyotamwuaji6484she stalked him also
Ah, a core memory....
I am a little biased towards strange men, since I was sexual abused by a man as a kid. Though I try not to treat anyone any different. And abuse against men and boys is a serious issue that needs to be taken more seriously. Assault is assault.
I'm sorry to hear that. As a man, I can imagine that that'd cause some psychological trauma and I don't hold it against you. Hope you're doing well.
its unfortunate and very saddening that it had happened to you and i hope you have healed.
and also, i can relate! even though im a perfectual equalist who believes that equality is the key to utopia and stuff, i try to keep up with my own perfectual and happy wishes. i treat everyone equally, treat every situation not based on gender or any other differential aspect but on the... situation entirely, and etc. i overall just love equality, so non equalistic stuff like sexism/double standarts/racism/homophobia/transphobia/xenophobia or ANYTHING of this kind just ticks me off as i try to make the world a better place: try my best to make everyone's day better by being optimistic, cheerful and loving to everyone, giving out compliments and thanking everyone around me. because everyone deserves love and happiness! but... sometimes, its just hard to keep up with it all, even if thats what i truly want, as i am quite a problematic person mentally due to some bad life experiences. so i get creeped out when i see certain triggering things because trauma, which can ruin the whole cheerfullness and happiness that i have to give out, but im not getting into it in detail cause personal but also,
i am kindaa biased from the inside about women. like in general. and that goes from an equalist, who never judges by gender, ot anything. i never told anyone except my fiancee, so she tries best as she can not to act any sort of aggressive or dominant(even if she likes it) of sort because i was abused by my mother as a child, and due to havibg no power of stopping her from abusing me at the time, this is one of the things that pyshed me to spreading perfect equality. sometimes people, who dont see the full picture, assume that the reason i feel a bit uncomfortable around women is, in their imagination, goes something along the lines of "im a single virgin who holds a grudge on women for not liking me". and again, i have a fiancee. i wont ever stop treating all the people equally because i understand that most women do face serious problems themselves and discriminating against ANYONE due to personal experiences with one person is horrible. humans are humans, so why would i treat others different due to one of such being manipulative, abusive and outright ebil and sexist to me? there are many good people aswell!
i still try my best to spread positivity without being seen as some creep who lures children in with my friendly manner and supportiveness. i just want everyone to be seen as human and no less no more, why is it so difficult?
oh jeez i wrote aloooot of my thoughts here- i never usually do that, but if you read allot this, i sincerely thank you, this means alot!
also, such traumatic experiences should be treated! i hope you have gotten mentally well and better from that time onward and get the mental support from your loved ones aswell!
I hope you’re doing OK nowadays.
One of the things I like to do is go to sci-fi and anime conventions. I admit I'm a bit older than the other people around me. There have been times when people have come up to me and said "oh, you're an older man. You MUST be a pedophile." As a hobby I run a panel at conventions, but that doesn't matter to them. One time, I nearly got kicked out by a Karen who insisted that I was undressing her daughter with my eyes. I couldn't have cared less about either of them. It took me going to one of the con officials who vouched for me not to get kicked out. However, Karen took her and her child out of the convention, saying the place catered to pedophiles. Of course, a woman my age at those same conventions is called a "concerned parent" that is "responsibly taking care of her children."
Your profile picture is hurting your case.
@@kurtmatteson4914 Those are characters I made, and the youngest one is 25. They're like daughters to me.
Yea, I (middle-age male) do the cons as well. It's weird in a few minutes time to get groped by someone wanting a picture and then accused of being pedo when that person's daughter who wanted a picture with me just groped me during the picture. Some times I think they are just trying to see if they can set people off.
@@kurtmatteson4914 Being a dumbass is hurting your case.
did they say that to you verbatim
This shit is why in public I look down and don't interact with anyone for any reason.
After working in a pizza place where it was like 15 women and just 2 guys - me and another guy - I refuse to work anywhere I'd be alone with a woman as I was sexually harassed constantly despite having a girlfriend and constantly telling them to stop (which I was punished for).
I’m so sorry for what happened to you. I hope you’re doing OK out there nowadays.
I'd say the most ridiculous double standard is where young boy victims of older female predators have been forced to pay child support. this has happened three times in the US.
That last one was sad, and probably part of the reason why CPR is now only the chest compression and no longer the breath of life (and also the fact that it ends up being relatively just as helpful).
That’s why i dont do cpr to women (or any children) anymore.
I wont risk my job but instead get a female to get do it instead
Almost every state in the U.S. has repealed the "good samaritan" laws that used to protect people from prosecution after saving a life. Now that most of them are gone it's best to just let people die. Hell even firemen are getting sued for saving people. Not to long ago a woman sued a dude for groping her while he was carrying her out of a fire..... I'm sure that's what he was doing inbetween protecting your from fire, dodging falling debris and trying to get onto the ladder from your 3rd story fucking building.
I'm well trained in CPR, but unless it's my own child I'm going to let you die and I'll still sleep like a baby.
My brother is a stay-at-home dad, and hope for the sakes of others (because I would go Jotaro Kujo on them) that nobody treats my brother with disrespect for staying home with my nephew.
Ora Ora Ora Ora Ora!
I broke down during a school lesson, the teacher took me out of lesson and told me I was a man and to behave my age.
*I was 12 and I have autism.*
My response: You are a woman and I am a man. Why should I listen to the lesser gender.
Before anyone gets their underwear in a bunch due to my comment, this references how tradition perceptions of gender can be completely ignorant and/or stupid (e.g. men cannot cry or show emotions; women should always follow the rules of the man).
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I hope you’re doing OK out there nowadays.
18:30 I tell my friends “society is sexiest” all the time and they never believe me. THIS IS MY POINT! DUDE LIKE WHAT IS WRONG WITH THAT TOWN GOVERNMENT!?
Nothing wrong with a sexy town government
@@braeden4878 ... if this isn't a joke I hope you have wet socks for a day
2:32 are we just going to ignore this guy's talent in voice acting?
Thats how he got that job
I was looking for someone... Who commented the same as me.. You are the someone.
I have no doubt that if the teacher from the last story could time travel, he'd go back and let that girl die
Nah, he'd get blamed and fired for that too
@@logan83243 but at least he wouldn't be called a "guy who sexually assaulted an unconscious teenage girl".
And I've just read what I put. THAT is how people could make "performed CPR on a student" turn very ugly very quickly
Every woman I've ever rejected, no matter how easily I let them down, even the ones I've accidentally rejected (Men-we don't know what we did), has done something horrible to me, usually spreading rumors about me. They know no non-wealthy person has the money to file defamation lawsuits they probably won't win (very hard to prove all the elements of defamation), for probably pitiful damages even if they do. I can't throw money away like that. They know there won't be any consequences. Its funny, because I've heard the exact same people talk about how messed up it was for men to spread rumors about women who rejected them. I don't spread or even listen to rumors, ever, about anyone. Like, are you taking revenge on me for things other men have done?
Woman: touches man
Its a compliment
Man: touches woman
Straight to jail and public execution
Pretty much. It's stupid
#3 needs a T-shirt that says "SINGLE DAD, DOING DAD THINGS" to wear to places. Or if he's really pissed off, have it made into a sign and wear it on a headband stuck to his head. Just for a while. Til it sinks in. Some people will think it's funny, some people will be angered, and those are the people he doesn't want to talk to anyway.
Shit I should print those shirts. PATENT PENDING! PATENT PENDING!
Shit, they actually make them, and they look great on big muscly dudes! Dreamdaddy!
A person shouldn't need to wear a sign to do ordinary things.
@@PlebNC No, they shouldn't. Not in a world full of sane and reasonable people. And therein lies the problem.
Honestly, our society needs to learn that when Men are stay at home spouses/fathers, it’s typically because the other spouse is either A. Has a better (higher paying) job, Or B. Is the only one able to work.
Or C. *OOF*
Accountability. Men are held to it 100% of the time, are reprimanded and judged if they screw up. Women face accountability maybe 10% of the time and usually can’t handle it when that happens.
Dude I know this doesn’t really have much to do with the video itself, but you gotta become a voice actor, you can do such good voices!! I’ve even noticed that your normal voice almost sounds like the Roger Craig Smith version of Sonic in a way. Idk, just something to consider :)
Hey man thank you so much! I am a voice actor haha. I do audiobooks atm but I’m working up to it! Happy to be on board for these vids!
@@freddieheinz5721 Oh nice! Y’know if you’re interested I could keep you in mind for a future project of mine, I’m working on an animated series atm, though it’s crazy early in development lol
So I'm a fairly masculine gay man, went to a bar, the drunk chick started hitting on me and I told her gently I was attracted to the same gender. Her slurred drunken response? "I can change you!"...., No honey unless you packing more meat than an Italian deli, I ain't interested, -.-'
NOT THE MEAT
Had a gay friend once complain about how he wished that the fetishisation of gay couplings, yaoi and straight women being disqustingly creepy received as much attention as the fetishisation of lesbian couplings, yuri and straight men being disqustingly creepy. The words "I can change/fix you" sound just as abhorrent to me no matter from whom i hear them from. And while i have nothing against straight people watching homosexual NSFW content (i mean, it's only natural to have a two-for-one of what you're into put together), i do still very much begin to understand the disqust women have of how some men regard lesbians, whenever i see a bunch of creepy perverted girls obsessed with anything even remotely affectionate between two men to the point where not even healthy platonic masculine relationships are safe from their ear-screetching voices.
You don't normalise something by shining a spotlight on it and glorifying it. Neither gays or lesbians are animals at a zoo for you to marvel at. Both di#heads and bi#ches need to learn that already!
The biggest instance that I had to go through was for my college competitive swimming team. Had to get my physical inspection done, and it was by a woman. I'm a guy. Pretty sure people would make a big deal about it if women had to just expose themselves and let a guy feel up their no no square just to get on a swim team. But I guess the other way around it's just normal and accepted?
Still feel awkward about it.
There’s literally no reason for them to do physical inspections for swim anyways. Like what are you gonna do? Operate a propeller in your pants beside your genitals?
The fact a woman could literally get very close to a kid and a guy is screamed at being in a 30ft radius of them is horrid
One time my dad took me to the park my dad is a pretty big guy and I’m a tiny little girl at the time it looked really weird but he was just kind of watching me from the bench as he was talking to a fellow father when this one very concerned looking mom rushes up to me and is like are you OK are you hurt is that man hurting you I’m scared because she’s grabbing my shoulders she’s trying to pull me away from where my dad can see me so I just start screaming and I scream until my dad runs up and literally snatches me away from this girl who has an iron grip on my shoulders The fellow Dan runs over being extremely concerned and that was his wife the fellow dad apologized so profusely we were sure he was gonna start crying when he was done but he didn’t he was so nice and calm about everything about how his wife can be dramatic but I didn’t feel like you could solve that with us sorry she acted like my dad dragged me and smacking me hitting me throwing me when he was literally holding me because I didn’t wanna walk
Sorry about my grammar and lack of punctuation. I use the voice text. 😔
Thanks for sharing. But could you please use punctuation in the future? Makes it easier to follow a relatively long comment like this.
Reading this made me feel dumber.
Stop being lazy and PUNCTUATE
to be a man means that no matter what you will never be good enough, it means you have to provide or your an outcast, you have to be worried at being called a creep at your every move when around women, and if you have a family and your significant other decides she doesn’t think your good enough, she can take your kids and money
Which is exactly why I left the game and the plantation so to speak, I just do my own thing and I’m happy with that. But you’re exactly right
When I was 16 my ex and I were at a festival. He was walking in front of me, holding my hand and guiding me through the crowd when a chick grabbed his crotch and winked at him. He kicked her with his knee as a sort of reflex her face going down was priceless, but switch the genders and we would have a war....
W ex, he did a self defense
Okay, how the hell did the girl in the first one get looked at as being quirky, I saw the double standards between the genders my entire life, but guy’s, and girls would still call out red flags, unless the person is somebody they care about.
My first job when I was 18 and fresh out of high school was at this office and apparently that was how the older overweight female go worker who was assigned to train me was exactly the into because she would call me into her office way too often, she would touch me inappropriately and would text and call and at hours of the day and even tho I reported All of this nothing was ever done so I just ended up quitting
they should go to prison for same time as man would have
Punctuation is your friend, it's the difference between asking your grandfather to dinner, or eating him.
Let's eat Grandpa!
Let's eat, Grandpa!
There’s this one girl in my school who keeps on asking if I want to be her boyfriend and last year, took pictures of me without my consent. Even looked up my parents on facebook. But you know how much I would be killed if I did that to her?
Too bad the jumper cable guy didn't send a cop to her place, on grounds of wasted police resources, and false accusations. Or at least a lawyer.
To the guy who's drunk girlfriend beat him over the head and tried to have you arrested. Why in the hell would you bail her out?
I was at a salvation army store with my mom and sister and the lady behind the register asked me if I wanted to have sex with her. I said no and it was really awkward but my mom and sister thought it was funny and the lady behind the register kept doing it over and over. She was about 500 pounds by the way and incredibly unattractive. Everyone acted like it was the funniest thing in the world and I can only imagine had the genders been reversed that not one person would have been okay with that.
What was your age at the time of the incident?
@@ked49 my thirties
@@skittlemenownow reverse the role with your sister, just fucking laugh
She hulk is a great example of double standards in action. And before you think
“Oh, what a great show, teaching the audience (mainly kids) how to avoid double standards”
No. The show is literally cruel remark after cruel remark
they had us in the first half, ngl
the last one made me rage, personally I would have said to them "would you prefer her dead then?"
For some reason its okay to sexually harass, rape (yes it is and in some countries they dont believe that can even happen to a man) attack, beat up ans abuse men if you are a woman. And the moment he attempts to defend himself, HE gets in trouble.
The dad getting plowed for buying his daughter toys probably was like that to start but became worn down over time. Stones will bow to the waves if enough time passes.
i read this in another way, and i feel like that would be very good, in the other way
I always tell husband to express his emotions. It is stupid that boys and men are told to keep them in check. It’s mentally draining and mentally unhealthy and if we have sons we will help them deal with there emotions the right way
he is not going to do that, he knows it will be used against him when you are angry at him.
@@keybored67 actually my husband is vary open bout his emotions with me especially since he’s on the autism spectrum. High functioning but I don’t use his emotions against him
The woman who called the cops on OP for asking to borrow her jumper cables *should* have been arrested for filing a false police report!
I was eating breakfast with my fwb at a hotel her job paid for. My boss called me to ask a question at the same time the server came with the check. Apparently she tried to hand it to me but I wasn't paying attention obviously and my fwb tried to take the check to pay the server looked at her like she was crazy and tried to had ot to me again until my fwb just snatched it from her hand and put her card in it. This is to say sometimes guys can be treated to meals too and not expected to pay for everything.
Ps. I do pay for stuff as well. We alternate paying for outings
That is why any sever I see is put onto the table
I was sitting next to a female friend awhile ago, and her boyfriend and other friend were across from us.
This girl was going to buy my food to pay me back for something I had done for her previously, but when it came time to split bills and the waitress found out she was paying for me:
Waitress: "Ooohhh! So you're paying for the MAN?"
As if it was some sort of "gotcha moment." No one stood up for me, and the waitress went about her day without being corrected because I'm shy and didn't care to explain.
@SaramadHill that sucked that nobody said anything. I used to be a server so I know how to be snarky back. I would have said "yup just like ur the WOMAN who has to work instead of being taken care of like I am"
Love the voice acting, keep it up!
8:36 I would just respond with "What? You haven't seen a dad proud of his children?"
EMOTIONAL DAMAGE
As a middle schooler who has normally high grades, half of my family treats me like a price of property if I get below an 80 but if I get an A I am treated like a normal person
@@studiouskid1528 it's still very annoying
A woman can literally wear anything she wants, and do her hair up anyway she wants but if a guy puts on just one feminine-looking article of clothing (like nylons) it's considered "cringe." I'm a guy and I have long(ish) hair and anytime I wear it in pigtails, people stay away from me on the subway or the street. Even my own girlfriend thinks I look like a psycho with pigtails.
I'm pretty open minded, but pigtails,,, on a guy,,, really now? I've had long hair most of my life, and after half a century THE ONLY MEN THAT WEAR PIGTAILS are comedians and,,, to be nice, weirdos. So yeah I can see how you'd be frowned at. I don't care how big you are the first thoughts into my mind would be homo, predator, or soiboi who's "just friend" wasn't around to help put it into a bun.
I-
I’m not saying I agree or disagree about anything you just read, but why pigtails of all styles??
There are so many better hairstyles you could go with.
@@2ndbrain909 I guess I do it just to be 100% honest about my nonconformity. If someone's unusual in matters of the mind, sooner or later that will translate into one's outer appearance. Trying to look like others is not only a sign of weakness but it's also kind of dishonest. Everyone should literally "be themselves" and not try to be something he/she is not, like a different gender or whatever is the rage these days. I'm a VERY unusual person. Just the fact that I've immigrated EIGHT times in my life so far is highly unusual. Know anybody else who's done that? I started out with NOTHING in this World, but by the time 2004 rolled around I was living off interest income alone. Know anybody else who's done THAT? Without resorting to any criminal activity? I could go on and on.
That’s men putting that double standard on other men. Women didn’t create that double standard that men can’t dress “feminine “
The guy reading the stories, you can tell, that he likes his job.
These guys are the absolute best for my soul right now, as I've been seeing a lot of terrible "men" discussed all over the web and my fyp, it's nice to see and sympetize with some normal men for once after seeing how horrible people can be. No means no for everyone. E v e r y o n e. Poor guys. Or dads that love their daughters and buy them cute pink stuff??? who cares, I love my dad so much and when he got me pretty girly stuff once in a while (since I was more of a tomboy but occasionally liked barbies and cooking stuff), he was like of course, come on, I love love love dads.
And women wonder why men just stop giving a shit about even trying to do anything anymore... Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
My sister uses double standards as an excuse. She did something wrong? "I am a woman, I can do that, and men don't"
Society is completely fine with women wearing suits, tuxedos and other masculine clothes yet the moment a man puts on a skirt, society goes fucking mad at them
...because suits are boss. And skirts? Look dumb.
I am at the half of the video but WHAT THE HELL WAS THE FIRST ONE, how didn't she get fired?
How was she not arrested
Women need to stop getting special treatment when it comes to justice
I have to be honest I'm 13 and I'm about 5'6 kinda tall I think for my age and I grow fast afther hearing story 15 it makes me a bit nervous of my height to general people and considering I'm a guy so I'm a little scared to my OWN HEIGHT due to stoopid people who could ruin a child's reputation and career.
The narrator’s really good at those impressions.
Op should put something on the woman because at that point it’s just weird, and obviously other coworkers defend her by saying she’s quirky.
You are fourth
Congratulations
I may be 3 months late but something that happened to me was that I was in 5th grade at recess just talking with my friends and then this annoying girl I’ve been in the same class in since 2nd grade came and harassed me and my friends ( mostly me ). I kept telling her to stop but she kept pulling on my arm scratching me punching me. After recess ended I told a teacher and they did nothing but if I had retaliated I would have gotten in trouble. When I told my parents they just said “ oh she probably just likes you “ and “ she’s just playing around” it’s ridiculous and I still have her in most of my classes
Is it just me or the voice acting got +100 points??
Same
First story: that’s not being quirky, that’s legit being a psychopath and a stalker.
WHAT THE HELL ARE SOME OF THESE STORIES?!?! my god, we should really start spreading awareness that double standards harm both men and women...
MEN!!!
Men who like trains 🚂
Like me
To the last story, I know damn well if it was reversed, and it was a boy who got CPR all his friends will think he’s a lucky bastard
The more I hear stories of good moral ethical people saving a victims life only to get sued or fired for it, I’m never going to help anyone in trouble. No good deed goes unpunished.
Bro when was this absolutely hilarious 😂
"HE HE HEE here i come sonny WHOOOO" R.I.P gramma
Agreed! It was hilarious.
I love how he just goes insane after the first story, and then just keeps reading.
You put your heart and soul in story 1
These stories are just fucking tragic, and sadly, far too common. My brother's the dad of two little girls, and has similar issues. It's a nightmare sometimes.
I’m disappointed in humanity
So weird to hear “take it as a compliment” my man was probably not attracted to any of the women that touched him. Would it somehow be ok if he did? It definitely wouldn’t if it was the other way around just weird behavior overall, I’d leave too if so many weirdos did that.
Brother had the cop called on him when he took our niece to the park. When she was even telling them he was her uncle.
This happened 5 times
I think the worst or at least one of the worst is when people say men can't be sexually harassed or raped. I haven't been through that, nor anyone else I know, but I've heard plenty of guys share how when they say they were raped or harassed, people act like it's no big deal, or even flat out say they should've enjoyed it. It's like people think when a woman does that to a man, the man doesn't need to give consent. Hell, I've seen posts on R/iamatotalPOS of news stories about teens or children getting raped, and there's almost always a comment saying "he should have enjoyed it"
There are so many instances where women can get away with more stuff that men can. Women can do anything to men like assault them, treat them like nothing, and do horrible things to them and men are expected to "man up" from it. Now, if a man did that to a woman than a woman will be supported, comforted, and backed up. Men should have the same rights as women. This is why so much men are depressed and sad, and are always facing mental struggles. People need to stop treating men like crap. We need mental help too
"no means no, but only for chicks?" This made me sick 🤢. Men have Sucj little say in relationships now it's painful
The goblin gf intro is crazy 💀💀💀😳
If women abuse their husband and they cant prove it : No sentence
Men doesnt abuse their wife , wife says that he did : 50 years in prison
So, I got a bit of a story myself, it is actually a double standard held against people with mental disabilities. I am autistic, I have been diagnosed as autistic at the age of 4. Because of this diagnosis, the schools which I attended had to be informed of this to be able to provide for my needs. Unfortunately, this means that you become a target. I've been called the hard R by both children and adults back when I was in elementary.
I was literally beaten to a pulp on several occasions just because of my disability.
The damn principal had a vendetta against mentally disabled children (which I only found out after asking a few other people which I also had back when I had IEP), and she threatened both me and my dad (which now that I think back, man, parents were also dicks to him for being the custodial parent). Hell, she called the cops on US on a few occasions. I felt horrendous and hated my own identity because of it. It literally took my dad acting like a therapist just to help me out to be a semi-functional human being (because we couldn't afford therapy and neither of our insurance would cover it)
Alas, this experience makes it difficult for me to show my autistic traits in public, merely out of these events around 10 years ago. I literally fake my own personality just to fit in. So please, be gentle to those who you meet in public, and especially don't look down upon those who speak of their disabilities, us speaking about it in a safe space makes us more comfortable with living, backlash just rises the chances of an action which shall not be mentioned happening.
I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. It's a messed up world we live in where people can act that way toward someone with a disability. Your dad is a good man, supporting you when you needed it. I hope he, and you, are doing much better now.
This only further exemplifies my "kinda bad time, trans people" argument by making clear that WE HAVEN'T FIXED THE SEXISM PROBLEMS YET.
I need to keep everything I say or do tempered with "Nobody else cares, and if you give them reason to care, they will respond in the worst way possible, without exception," solely _because_ I'm a guy - or, in double-standards terms, *nobody.*
I can't talk hobbies (except in very limited contexts), can't hang out in several places without basically being isolated, and I absolutely am _not_ going to talk about my relationship with my relatives, because the people that know don't care, and the people that don't know will think me either fake af, and/or problematic af.
The internet has basically become my social life, outside of real-life obligations. The pandemic allowed me better insight through realizing that I'd been sabotaging myself until I was given leave to actually embrace my "less-social" approach.
At least here, anyone from more vandal-focal areas aren't gonna give enough of a damn to try to tear me down (or now they might as a mercy, idk, also kinda don't care anymore).
Sure, I miss the feeling of touch, but at the same time, the pictured ideals of men are so far-removed from what I am, I know better than to even _try_ - after all, nobody else cares, right?
I want to believe the sexism problems aren't that bad, _but I keep seeing nothing but affirmation._
Afew years ago i asked for a tricorn for Christmas my dad bitched and moaned about how I couldn’t be normal, then his girlfriend’s niece asked for a tape recorder and tapes and he just want on about “You’re just an old soul and so quirky”
i had to make self-defense taki powder to prevent a girl who was KNOWN to be trying to manipulate me at a CHURCH camp.
the people i knew said "idrc but youre gonna get in trouble"
Oh my god, you did amazing at the start with your self input, too bad the stories got darker each time so (still good though)
I'm skinny and I have long hair. People are usually really friendly with me... until they realise that I'm a man. Then they get really nervous and creeped out. It's not my fault that I'm built like a Norse fertility goddess.
The opposite happens too. Once I mention that I'm a lot more feminine than most guys, my dms are flooded with older men sending me creepy messages where they want to trade pics or something.
Hearing these stories make me afraid to take my child out on a father/ daughter day. People need to mind their business unless something seems off. There are great dads who just love their kids.