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Girls, Did You EVER Have A Guy That You Wished You Said Yes To When He Asked You Out?
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There's a good portion of these women that I'm so happy that they were so superficial... Because they likely would have ruined a really good mans life... And all I can do is smile about it
Are we related? lol
LOl so you incels are mad because females are allowed to have preferences? Do you think only men are allowed to have preferences? Why don't you just go and date some fat ugly but NICE woman, be happy, and stop bashing other women? lol more manosphere twisted logic
For real, and women will say that men are picky and judgmental…sure we won’t date just anyone (well actually sadly with how well women have monopolized modern dating some men WILL date anyone and just thank their lucky stars a living breathing woman expressed some interest in them…) but at least we don’t disqualify women for ridiculous things like height, hair, job, etc. women like these are doing guys a huge favor by exposing themselves as shallow narcissists early on.
It’s kinda sad, but true
@TheGreatSalsaMan as a man i can understand wanting a man with good height/good look/good income. Etc but only if you want it for your kids. It's okay to want to have a secure life but that does not mean you make this your life goal because if you don't get lucky your just destroyed your life.
A lot of these seem like they regret not dating the eventual hot and successful person rather than regret not dating the person.
damn you are right
EXACTLY!!! Women don't love us, they love what we can do for them
Crazy
Almost like women only care about what a man offers monetarily rather than the emotional and spiritual benefits…if women actually cared about a man’s character and personality over what he provides you wouldn’t have so many men struggling to get a date
@@TheGreatSalsaManI mean, shit you can tell that from people you turned down half a decade ago?
Girls who reject men: "oh no! He has money now and has no interest in me!!!"
Guys who reject women: "she has 4 kids of 4 different daddies, she is still a single mom. Bullet dodged."
Basically....lol
Then the be like you're still a man for raising another man's kids. They won't up getting cheated on and ran through in divorce court.
Guys never be a woman's second choice. It never works out and you turn into Chad. The worst kind of man. The manly man. Like Andrew Tate.
That is quite the difference...
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah…that’s usually not the case
Yessir, nobody wants leftovers
Story 11: Obviously, she wanted to keep that guy in her pocket until later. Losing him to someone else wasn't in her script.
Yup.
Fatherless behaviour
Quite a few examples are from men who didn't take the "fear of ruining friendship" bait and successfully avoided being strung along.
Good for them
They’re weak.
@@MrEvldreamr🤡
wait what bait ?
@@MrEvldreamrretard comments from august 2023
“Didn’t want to cheat on my boyfriend.” She must not know going on a god damn date with another guy, and letting him flirt with you is literally cheating. If you actually cared for your relationship with your bf, you would shut down any though of someone flirting with you, let alone going out with a guy 1 on 1. Never underestimate women’s ability to do mental gymnastics.
the simps won’t listen
Americans. No further elaboration required or desired
@@luckyflynt1646morons*
There's still many of us that are nowhere near that stupid
My last gf literally said this and I quote "I like testing boundaries" it's a fucking game to them and apparently a lot of women think like this and it's sick. Glad I'm done with her, and bitch had the nerve to try to crawl back to me and even tried to guilt trip me to get back together with her and she is in her late 40s and acts like she's fucking 15 years old. Women like to say "women mature faster than guys" and that may be true since woman hit the peak of their maturity before even turning 20 but that's why they act like they're a fucking teenager for the rest of their lives LOL.
@@luckyflynt1646 bruh it’s not just us Americans dude. Shity women exist worldwide, or at least those that have been influenced by Western culture. Same problem in just about every country, wether it be the US, UK, France, Italy, Germany, and either China, or Japan can’t remember which one was bad lol.
People: you should be friends first before you try and date.
People after being friends: I don’t want to ruin our friendship.
People later: why did you never ask me out again?
(True story)
It’s so dumb. I’ve been friendzoned by quite a few girls in school.
I’m 27 with a full time job now. I work weekends and hardly have time to go out. I recently moved to another state and have yet to make any in person friends.
I’ve tried dating apps. Only girl i talked to for 6 months, blocks me. Even though we made plans on meeting up.
I might stay single until i make some changes. We’ll see though.
@@jakewulgarImprove your career, improve your body, dress sense and practice social skills
@@jakewulgar Isn't worth it to tolerate the modern female. They're all monsters.
@thrilla72 you know guy. This improvements things dont always work unfortunately. Your career cant be improvedi like that. Its not easy to get a good paid job. You cant just inrease your salary. Even if you try your best sometimes you reamin with the same work . Also "learn social skills is kinda cruel to say to people"
@@thrilla72because people have different personalities . You need friends to improve your conversation vocabulary . You cant just talk to anyone and expect to create a relationship. You have to find a thing that allows you and the other person to see each other often . And a reason for you to actually talk.
Women complain about men with options being superficial, but they do the same exact stuff to men they perceive to be below them. Damn hypocrites.
YES! EXACTLY! NAILED IT! THANK YOU!
Their fragile egos can’t stand it when a good man doesn’t want them but a perfectly fine average guy wants them and they think they can do better…
Chill
@@ThapeloMKTwe are. Stress free.
I really don't mind it when a guy has options but the way a lot of men act when you have options and standards really doesn't make me feel bad when I say no to one.
@@gabriellemeche992 What a surprise, women don’t like it when men act like they do…shocker 🙄🙄🙄
"Why dont men pursue women anymore?"
Then reddit comes in clutch with hundreds of personal experiences😂😂😂😂😂
Because we were never supposed to, look at the animal kingdom, almost all mating processes involve the female approaching the male first.
Have you ever tought that everyday millions of people are being rejected. Most of them are men.
MILLIONS!! Everyday
I smell, incel!
Yet till this day you have none of your own. Do you know what confirmation bias is?
@@thuglaza4728dudes not wrong tho, why you being a dick about it? It’s like he insulted you or something
I can't imagine rejecting someone in such a hateful manner. All you have to do is say "I'm very flattered but I'm not interested" or something like that. No need for EW NO NOT GOOD ENOUGH. What the hell, people?
Yeah I dealt with plenty if ghosting and fake excuses when asking them out. I understand most women can't say no. I rather have women lied about having a bf as a safe way to say no than to be ghosted
Potentially being laughed at and ridiculed or the girl making a scene is a huge barrier for me when I consider approching one. It never crossed my mind that they might care about not hurting a strangers ego.
@@christiansnaturestudio6599Frankly i think its pathetic, because its such a fking low bar. Everyone is so damn afraid to speak their mind.
@@toottootsonicwarrior5777You trying to date 12 year olds?
My family wonders why I don't ask girls out but not know I have only gotten nasty rejections. I have heard to my face "ew you", "no, creep" and "you like a child molester".
I would never dream of saying those things to someone's face but women seem to have no problem being hateful. I don't ask anymore, they have to ask me.
Story 12 - The guy kept inducing his wife to think she blew up. Sabotaging his own relationship. She might have and she might never had though much about it. But he kept remembering her. I wonder how is their marriage. 🤔
Truth.
Yeah. Any guy who goes around saying, "You screwed up. You could have had that," is just begging to have his wife agree with him and go in search of something better.
That guy was 100% a cuck
Yeah, that dude is a moron.
Cuck vibes for sure
I grew up believing the lie society told me that men were the ones who are too superficial, and yes, everyone desires a good looking person, but after 30 years of observing relationships of the people close to me and the one not so much, I can comfortably say, that the ladies are the ones that only take looks into account, and men are actually way more open and flexible when the time to select a partner comes.... guess who ends up being happier in the long run.
Guy here, gonna play Devil's advocate. Let's be real, not ALL women are the superficial ones, that's an exaggeration. However, it would make a lot of sense that a life situation in which this is the case for a sizeable amount of men is fairly common. Common enough for it to seem like the norm. As for why, I have no idea, my personal theory is that men tried being superficial for the centuries that have passed and it went predictably badly over time. But regardless, vanity goes both ways, regardless of gender, but perspective makes a world of difference
"The ladies are the ones that only take looks into account" Come on, that's not true, there are examples in this video where the reason the women regretted it was because the men ended up in profitable careers, so you know only some of the ladies are about looks, the others are about money.
@@fracturedfuture370 Yes, I never meant all, but I'm referring to the common denominator which is why stereotypes, like the one of "men being superficial" existed, supposedly it was the majority of males, turned out to be that the roles are inversely proportional to the myth.
@@smashbother5684 I was talking specifically about looks, but if it makes you feel better to bring other factors into your argument go ahead, despite them being irrelevant to me and my point, I'm only focusing on the fallacy that men only care about LOOKS regardless.
Women only take men’s looks into account? You actually live under a rock. The reason guys seem like they’re more flexible is because most of them are just happy to get what they can. Attractive dudes with a lot of options are just as picky. If you don’t see that I then you don’t have the experience you think you do
I dated a girl who broke up with me saying "you're just not a good enough catch for a girl like me" fast forward two decades. Until I blocked her number she was calling me almost daily begging me to take her back. Turns out she is BPD, a severe alcoholic, and her whole family has turned their back on her. She is currently doing three years in prison after receiving her fifth DUI. As for myself I haven't set the world on fire, but I own a small house and two decent trucks, all of which is paid off.
Boring.
@@SiD19884 ...simp
@@SiD19884...simp
Should've turned into Superman and lead a revolt
Ay, you got your own.
That's all that matters.
My son hates the concept of relationships because he has had a lot of rejections. He just shuts down at the thought of it. Friend zoning is a horrible thing for men to go through. It makes a lot of men turned off to the idea of a relationship that they would rather be alone or have a dog. I can't say on levels I blame them. I can't say I blame my son either, and he's going to turn 27 very soon. He used to be fit and let himself go really badly. Like he gained over 120 pounds and doesn't care anymore and it breaks my heart as a mom. He's such a sweetheart to women and is always willing to help out in anyone's life regardless of the issue. Now, he just smokes E Cigs a lot and cries himself to sleep at times. I act like I don't hear it but it hurts me too. I pray to God that someone will see him as more than a friend but honestly, I don't know. It's sooooo different from when I dated and that was thirty years ago. Maybe he is right. Maybe his generation is destined to fail due to social media. God help us.
I pray that you and your family find peace and your son sounds like a lovely person! I remember my first time being friendzoned in 5th grade, I am now about to graduate. My advice is to just stay away from that stuff, its always better not trying to find your happiness in someone else and finding it in yourself before anyone else first!! Praying for much love and great things for you, your son and family ! 🙏🙏🙏
God..I'm living the exact same life as your son. Almost feels like my mom wrote it.Started smoking e-ciggs 2 months ago, even tho I've never smoked before. Girl I've met online and known for almost 6 months, broke up with me right before we were supposed to meet for the first time. We've talked almost daily, always had a lot of fun together bcs of the sense of humour we shared. And I felt like were really connected, we were always there for each other. She was the sweetest, smartest, funniest person I've ever met, she helped me through a lot and always tried to help with any problem I had. We shared all the high and also the lows together. And then, when I felt like on the top of the world, finally healed my past traumas, she broke up with me out of nowhere. Don't get it till this day, she never explained why or she did in a way that didn't really make sense to me. I thought maybe I put too much pressure on her because of the first date outside the online. But she seemed so excited when I asked her out, told me how she loves me and that she can't wait for it..And boom, all of it gone in an instant, all the memories together.. The e-ciggs I smoke rn serves as a memory of her in a way, because she was the one who smoked them and it's the only way I feel like she is still with me.... I sometimes imagine we are talking together. Whenever I'm dealing with something I'm thinking: "What would she say"?..Sounds crazy but that's how it is..But that's just life I guess. And the crying to fall asleep just hits home.. even crying right now writing all this.. Maybe it's time to just move on. Lay down the e ciggs alongside my love for her.. Maybe we all should just keep moving forward and stop wasting our time by crying over things we can't change anymore. It's hard but necessary. Thank your for your comment, writing this response made me realize lot of things. Be strong. And wish u and your son the best.
I can't count the number of women that thought either I wasn't good enough or just a meal ticket. However,it only took one that wanted to work with me. By working together, we broke a net worth of 7 figures in 18 years.
How did you guys meet?
@@User40919 A mutual friend introduced us. We talked for a while and then a couple weeks later, ended up at the same party. Went to breakfast after the party, and have been together ever since. 33 years together, 30 on paper.
@@bigfoot14eee99 damnnn sir saluting to your happy relationship o7
@bigfoot14eee99 so basically friends then… what happened to cold approach?
It’s crazy how the nature of woman hasn’t changed , no matter the the generation . Focus on yourselves men & if you had a woman that was with you at your lowest do right by her ..period . Because the women who only come around when you’re successful only want one thing ….
One thing I bring up is do you think all those women would have been throwing themselves at tiger woods if he didn't make bank for being one of the greatest golfers in the world? There's too many stories and things that I've personally experienced where women turn down guys and then when he makes bank they back pedal like "maybe I made a mistake." I saw a woman in the comments saying something along the lines of "maybe women don't wanna be with a bum" and my first thought was a guy doesn't need to be fuckin' rich to be well off. There's a reason why a woman wants a man with 3 Lamborghinis, two swimming pools and a mansion instead of a guy that has an okay car, a nice small home with an inflatable pool that he got from Walmart. Cause most Women are materialistic and all about status and she feels like being with a rich guy raises her status too and it makes her feel special or she just might divorce him and take most of what he owns for herself.
It’s almost like it ain’t women that are the problem. But men who are or something.
Men today are pathetic my dude.. that’s why they get walked on
@@soullessginger9912 most women you idiots go after are like 18-21 yr olds that don’t know what they want while you’re a broke ass. That’s why most people don’t get married until they’re in their late 20s give or take bc women don’t wanna waste time on a cheating loser bum and Milne don’t wanna waste time on gold digging whores but both genders are too naive to tell the difference at 18 they just simp for everyone
@@soullessginger9912 we are all more materialistic than we think, not just women
Nah. My wife loved me when we were young, broke, and didn't have anything. Now we're both doing well financially and career-wise.
Those women exist, they are usually snatched up young though (Early to mid 20s). People don't tend to break up with those women and those women tend not to break up for foolishness.
If you're a dude in your early 20s, trust me on this: work on your career and get in shape. Men and women age differently, and you will have the *ultimate* revenge in your 30s 💯
Don't remember where i heard this one but i lived it and it is so true. "Regular guys will always be rejected by the women of their school, but once they are older, stable and successful, they will have the same women competing with their own daughters for him."
Exactly it’s something society doesn’t teach us but is a hard fact that most men if you work at it will age like fine wine whereas women can try every botox and booty lift they want but their looks will start fading fast after 30 and tend to age about as well as week old milk left out by a furnace.
It may be true but then you can't get a young 22ish girl.
How can you have a large family then ?
By the time a woman is 35ish her fertility has considerably diminished.
@@akiraraiku simple. Just go after a 22 year woman.
@@akiraraiku Brother trust me a good portion of young women want older men who are in better positions in their life.
Although yeah I agree. 30s and having kids even as a man is getting a bit old. I'd rather be younger whilst my kids grow up so that I can do stuff with them.
These men are so lucky they did not get with these women
For real, we need to normalize that being rejected by a woman who didn’t even bother to get to know you over superficial reasons is a blessing in disguise.
Girls who said no and didn't cheat on your boyfriend, you should have no regret. You lived with integrity 👏
Heh, yet even a life of pristine and integrity comes at a Cost. It doesn't always mean its the right thing to be, do or choose because life is funny. Take it from me, having built a life and becoming a pillar to the community people perceive me as too serious, too proper, strict, and that i am unwavering, and indeed its all true, but i appear as a wall they cannot scale or breach and dont even attempt to to just know me casually because i intimidate them. Its a loney life, and i envy those who never needed to fight so damn hard because life turned out differently for them, or that perhaps they lack so much self awareness that they feel no shame to just let it all hang out. I care too much about how i am perceived and being a good person has given me less and less. And i fear if i broke free from this, that i would be that one stupid shit to whom luck gives no favor, and whatever i do beyond myself will blow up in my face. Because it has before. So take it from, some things no matter how positive it may be known as in the minds of society, life will fk us over regardless. Its all artificial concepts anyway, and life doesnt give a damn how good or bad we are. Only that our stupidity sees us successful or dead, its all a roll of the dice.
@@melon9680 my friend seek your god, we don't live in integrity because we expect to get good things comes to us, we do it because the alternative is bad. If you are being a pillar and expecting good things to come, look into yourself and rethink your standing. Being good is hard, and its not about doing it so you can get back in return. If you are getting less and less perhaps it is not the best way to be good.... as for your final point "Its all an artificial concepts" or... perhaps... Its all real. Life doesnt care if we are good or bad, but your soul will. When you decide to be good, to be strong, dangerous but disciplined your soul, your being will be different. It is only from this position of good that we can make some incredible constructive progress in our own lives and in our society. Our life is short and it easy to think that it don't matter what we do,... but it does because you have to look at how rare life is, and see it as a gift not the just the burden, as the burden of life itself is a gift from the cosmo. To experience good and bad, to experience life.
I disagree, as a woman we should constantly look for someone better. It also puts pressure on your current guy to do better. Worked well for me so far!
@melon9680 late reponse, but what you're saying is completely true, and God tells us to take our failures with Grace. Without grace we become bitter and lose sight of what is really important especially when time gets hard or betrayal is met. This is to be expected with life as you say. But we can choose to take on these time with grace, to look at situation with optimism, so that we have courage to fight the battles that matters.
Anyway I'm just a guy on the internet.
@paulinejackson5861 no real self-respecting man or woman would put up with their partner not committing to them fully, and thus they will not tolerate themselves committing to their partner fully. A good marriage is not 50/50 it's 100% from both side. If you choose to be with that person, you must help with the redemptions of his failures and he should do the same for you. To exploit your partners insecurely for a hope of finding another and better partner is just unreasonable. Why not leave, save the person the cut of the betraying knife.
I'm grateful to all the women who rejected me when I was young. It gave my hormones enough time to calm down so I could realize women are one of the worst investments a man can possibly make. If they had taken an interest in me my life would be so much harder today.
Agree bro! Been there an done with dating. No women in my life and i’m stress free, rich as fuck, money to myself, time to myself. I plan to use a surrogate at South East Asia someday to have kids to pass on my wealth.
women these days can only offer 3 things… 1. Sex 2. Child bearing ability 3. Misery.
Same, I finally realized this at 27.
Thats exactly why they’re so selective, they know they have a very small window to lock down a good man so they create a ‘fear of missing out’ on men which forces us to seem like we need to lower our standards when in reality a pretty face is worth a dime a dozen.
Incel comments
@@vince11harris cvck
Turned down Stevie ray vaughn because he was short and weird. Then he went on stage then I was like hey..and he was like 🤣🤣 gtfoh
FR Dude was being nice to her and then he became sigma and told her to get lost 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wasn't he on drugs though?
I wouldn’t blame her lol. Tbh Stevie isn’t the best looking guy
Looked him up. Poor dude ended up dying in a chopper crash not too long after getting snubbed :(
@@miguelorozco6138 yet he has more money then you and her combined😂
Moral of the story: TALK LIKE A NORMAL HUMAN BEING!
True moral is women are the most shallow short sighted creatures on this planet…
Why do people go back to shitty exes. That last story was hilarious 😂
Bu-bU-BuT I cAn tOtAlLy fiX tHeM!!!!
I already knew how most of these were going to be before I started the video and after watching, I was right. They regret not dating the eventual successful man because he has things now not because they were interested in him exactly.
A lot of women in a man with a successful lifestyle rather than being interested in a man himself
Indeed, it's hypergamy
As bad as it feels to get rejected, where would the guy end up if he wasn't? Most often rejection is a wake up call for us to gain focus and pay more attention to our purpose than our craving for sex
Who says it always has to be about sex? Cant people long for a better half?
@@elseggs6504
I wish, but people these days just want the bedroom fun
You right rejection makes you reinvent yourself
What about physical imtimacy
@@christiansnaturestudio6599
Any of that needs to be earned starting with getting your life together first
At about the 8 minute mark that one summed it up....GIRL LOGIC 😆
Girl logic usually leads to drama
If anything, this makes me realize a woman with Reddit is a red flag lmao
Right, they’re still regretting not dating some guy while either in a relationship, or married😐
A woman spending a significant amount of time on any social media site is a red flag.
huge red flag
Woman in general are like dat lmao, youll learn one day
He is so perfect, it would suck to lose him. I better reject him.
Women.
Modern day fools
One thing guys need to learn from this video is that rejection isn't always about you
Could you explain sir?
@@alexjames3956just because someone rejected you doesn’t mean you had anything to do with it. Many women like self sabotage situations (I will never understand why) but that doesn’t mean YOU did anything wrong.
@@kyreedavis2263 thanks man 💯
True. You really can't know whats going on in the girls mind. She might find u slightly interesting and willing to give you a shot under different circumstances.
@@toottootsonicwarrior5777it’s not on you to wait on her “under different circumstances”. The guy she wants can come to her in the worst circumstances of her life and bang her with no backlash and no consequences after, but you must wait for different timing ? Lol. Self respect 🫡
i can sum this up: in this case she either rejects you to boost her own ego, or ur ugly, or she thoughts ur some normal looking wagie loser, but then u got into your sportscar or into your actual persona and she saw that ur rich af
Bruh
Was best friends with the most amazing guy for over a year, and knew I loved everything about him, and could see that there was an attraction he had building towards me as well. Eventually he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I told him no. It was the most heartbreaking thing in the world to do, but I explained to him that while I wanted to date him, I wouldn't be a good girlfriend at the time. I was dealing with a ton of un-addressed trauma, fighting chronic illness, trying to finish my last semester of college, and was dealing with some seriously messy family issues. We stayed close and I did a lot of work on myself over the course of that year, graduated, finally found a solid treatment for my chronic illness, and got things sorted with family. Ended up telling him I was still in love with him, but would completely understand if he felt differently after all the time that had passed, and I was just thankful for his being in my life and would respect whatever he wanted fully. We met for breakfast the next day, and turns out he'd never stopped thinking about me either. We've been together for 7 years now and just got married last year. Glad I said no the first time, as hard as it was: I was in no mental place to give him everything that he deserved and it wasn't his job to "fix" me. We were still the right ones for each other after those months of healing and waiting, and I think our relationship started in a much healthier place because of my choice.
Happy for you guys 🥰💯👏👍🏻
Wow, I’m really glad this turned around for the better. I truly think there’s a right time and place for it, even if it happens after the fact of meeting and catching feels.
You are a lucky woman.
He should’ve rejected you just like you did to him 😂
15:38 finally someone actually said something loyal instead of "I love my spouse but-"
For story 14, i felt that. I'm a guy but i have a similar story. I had a best friend for many of my school years. We had split apart for a while but during senior year we were being freindly to eachother like in the old days. I had developed feelings for her and i didn't say anything or go anyfurther with them. I didn't want to ruin our friendship and thought it was too later. I also wasn't sure if she had feelings for me and didn't want to make the same mistake i did with my first crush (long hateful story). I now realized that she did have feelings when we were younger and might have still. It has been 4 years and i'm still kicking myself you that mistake (among others). Even though i regret that mistake i wouldn't change it'l, because i don't think i deserve her.
True but with story 14: she has doesn’t want to move from her bf because you aren’t better than him. Or she doesn’t see it that way. Dude needs to stop wasting his time with that woman
@@usf1250 why was your last post 5 years ago, just out of curiosity?
Laddy, if people dont like or want to be with you, they wouldn't
A stick around
B be your fkn friend to begin with.
@melon9680 Not always the case as people went out of their way to treat me like a mistake that should have killed itself years ago, or use me for what they want and then treat me like that.
If you’re with someone and you actively think and have reason to believe they don’t care about you: you have no good reason to not break things off with them for someone better.
Why? When someone better comes along, then break things off. It's always about the better guy
That… isn’t what I was talking about. I ain’t talking about someone better, I’m saying don’t stay with someone who has demonstrated they don’t care about you.
@@MotorcycleCheetah👍🏻
If they were really in love with their then bfs why would they care how successful the others were?
The best investment you could ever make is one on yourself. When you become a better version of yourself, give nothing to those who didn't believe in or give to you.
So that last one, she said "put some distance between us" with no explanation other than "3 weeks later I went to his door...." it makes it seem like she ghosted and avoided him for 3 weeks.
Story 12: That dude was aiming to get hurt with his joke. If it hurt him at all.
Dude should have been glad she chose him over the athletic superstar and didn't cheat. Now he basically just made her regret being with him. Dude is a just a cuck in waiting.
Story 4: He did that on purpose. It was all calculated.
Edit: wow, so many superficial women in this video. I'm glad that they regretted/felt misery for being so shallow.
Yes, he stole the backpack and PS3 intentionally because he is a criminal. He is a thief and a liar who won't have a good life. Not sure why there was any regret on the girl's part.
@@brandyraccoon1473 No doubt he's a criminal, but his motivations? He knew what he was doing, and it wasn't just petty theft.
It was calculated to do damage to her.
The "shallow/regret" comment was meant for other women's stories. Seriously, it's no wonder why men are disengaging from women now because of how shallow they are.
@@KimPossibleShockwave Truth I thought the same
@@brandyraccoon1473Nah, more like he decided to get back at her for only valuing his looks
@@littlemoth4956Yeah, remember he was the "weird and annoying guy" yet the second he got fit she was fully willing to drag him into her bed.
Kinda crazy to think about some ppl that wouldn't exist today if their parents or grandparents didn't reject them.
Kinda seems like a lot of these people just settled for the next person they ended up with
I feel so bad for the guy who was very kind but had “ no ambition”
For some reason hearing this women feel regret brings a smile to my face. But the one about the shy girls and the one at the end kind of made me feel bad for those girls.
Story 12 wow i never know a man can disrespect himself like that but he's right though the wife should leave him he's a low value male , wife blew it by being married to him .
Yup, beta behavior.
@@Toxic2T Very. He probably has her on a pedestal too.
Yeah, defo one of the stories where the girl would have had every reason to leave him.
I love how SRV, one of the goats, dropped that on her!!!😂
1:01 He lost nothing, as she was clearly in it for the money, 99% of women are.
Your math is a bit off, its more like 99.99, repeating of course, percent
Stop your cynicism, it's a big world full of 8 billion people, don't give up because of the few that may have disappointed you.
bro has not touched a woman in his life 😆
Damn you met every women on the planet?
@@jgrAnimations23 when you have 90% of men that are complaining about a similar problem(s) and difficulty when it comes to dating and/or women, odds are there is a correlation and it’s a highly accurate assessment…don’t need to meet every woman to tell they’re pretty much after the same endgame 🤷🏼♂️
Story 12 sounds like he REALLY wants to be cucked...
Nah I just think he was rubbing it in her face as a joke
That backpack story sounds more like a r/pettyrevenge thing, lol
There was a chick I was in love with in middle school she never gave me the time of day now she’s a single mom with no high school diploma 😂
Rip 🤣😂😂
Sure she is
@@jgrAnimations23 cope
@@troigcyusa alpha male cringe
@@troigcyusa eww an alpha male🤮
Last story literally reminds me of mine. but instead of the guy's friend for this story, it was her friend who told her, he's not single anymore, she dated someone who is seemingly toxic, while I'm still in a good relationship with my girl, she knows everything.
My man at 10:20 really did his best to try and cuckhold himself and make his wife regret marrying him, lol.
These stories are making my blood boiled lol. Women are such puzzles.
That's the Devil Inside of Her
Not just women.. ppl when they were young are stupid.
Prime age, high market value, shopping hard but no understanding of actual values.. so always this problem of chose too soon or overchoosy.
Sooo what I'm hearing is the moral of the story is: When a woman is gullable, she often misses out on either someone or something beautiful in their life that could have been. Women will pass up many things, but the things she passes up the most is always what she either desires most or needs most in their life at that point in time
The fact these girls are proudly saying they would rather be with the successful guy from highschool than. The person they are currently with is messed up.
I love that Larry Fitzgerald story, lol. "You blew it!" 😂😂😂
As you grow, there will always be the “what if’s” lingering in your mind. Stop dwelling in the past, focus on the present. Be aware of your surroundings, you never know if someone or something special is right in front of you.
Amazing how some of them in these stories don’t perceive talking romantically or being in romantic or intimate moments with people when IN a relationship as a issue. Just regrets. Be careful who you date is what these kinda stories teach you.
the girl in story 15 are another example of girls being straight up stupid, not even gave him 1 little chances!
What an incredible collection of stories! Each one showcases the twists and turns of life's "what-ifs" and missed opportunities. The emotional depth and raw honesty in these tales are truly captivating. It's fascinating to see how each decision, or lack thereof, shapes the course of our lives and leaves us wondering about the paths not taken. 🌟
Story 3 was a good one. She made the correct decision.
I like story 17, she talks to guys she likes about freaking beast wars. If a girl can talk to me about how awful and yet funny character rat trap is, she’s got potential
Story 16 seems like the genuine article. She didn't turn the guy down at the bus stop for any other reason than loyalty, and she's not leading her husband on by dreaming of another guy.
That kind of devotion is rare. :)
Guess I'll be single 4 life. I gave up 😂
Don’t give up foo. God Will reward u with one soon🙏🏾
@etheboiboi6839 I'm not a Christian. Soon = never I'm such a wicked man 😆
@@christiansnaturestudio6599 I’m 3 weeks late. But it’s never too late to turn and repent to God. He will forgive you 🙏🏾
Girl number 4 deserved it for being superficial. Good on the guy for getting a bit of revenge. Petty, yes. But still funny
I don't feel bad for the women wo reject the men who became successful in the end, I like the fact that some of them stayed faithful to their partners.
Last Story, she took advice from a friend who convinced her to not commit a mistake and instead made it worse as she proceeded to literally ignore him stepping on his feelings in the process hoping he will wait 🤡 and then even gets back with her horrible ex 🤡🤡
He stole her PS3 and backpack? I don’t believe any of that.
She rejected him, he came back in shape. She gave it up to him and he tossed her to the side and got her roommate too.
The weird awkward guy became a Chad and the best she could come up with was he stole her PS3 and backpack.
or maybe her story was true, wtf do you theorize that?
Sure andrew tate take your daily red pill
some people get the chance to ask out a girl and here i am 18 years old and still never even the slightest chance to even talk to a girl i liked normally. been always called ugly and so on.
Hell of a lot better than me. I’m 18 years old and I already have the sleep and work ethic of a 30 year old permavirgin. Whenever women try to talk to me I diffuse any conversation
I am girl I was confessed in high school by guy friend but I don’t know why but I felt nothing not joy, anger just nothingness. I really felt bad that I felt nothing because I know with a confession of love you are suppose feel something anything. The next day, I told the truth that I didn’t feel the same way and focusing on school and didn’t want to manipulate him he deserve better than that I seen that happen personally I didn’t want to do it on others. Months later, I went to a different community college then and found out from a former friend of his but a friend of mine that “He was a complete jerk in high school and I stopped being friends with him and he became even worse in community college the sister college of mine because his mom worked there. So I found out I dodged a bullet on that one. My heart was protecting me from someone not good for me.
lol This is rationalizing BS. You didn't know anything you aren't Miss Cleo the fortuen teller.
So many missed opportunities that could've turned out to be the greatest story of their lives. So many "could have been's" because we were too afraid to appear foolish. We all have these regrets. Both women and men should learn to take a chance on a possibility. You know in your gut if that person is good. See if it turns to great. Life is so short.
Absolutely..... he asked, i said no...and then 2 weeks later i received news that he had passed away.
This guy was basically perfect. I said no because i just got out of a long and abusive relationship. At the time, i felt like i wasnt good enough because i had not moved on from that previous relationship and had not healed yet - was still picking up the pieces of myself and trying to get my life back together.
This man was someone who would have been an incredible husband and i honestly really wanted to be with him but when he asked, i said no with the assuption there was still time in this world for us.
Well, ive never been more wrong in my life, and id give almost anything to have even just those last 2 weeks with him.
He was only 25, handsome, smart, fit, mature, and really listened when i spoke. He saw the real me when i couldnt even recognize myself.
Remember guys, you still have to ask to be rejected. A women not asking you out is not a rejection.
"turned him down because he was ugly but regretted it when i saw he became hot"
-_- looks aren't everything thing. I'd rather have a timid girl than one that has her phone book stored of every simp that she used her looks on. I had a girl that was love sick for me but the only thing that held us back from being a couple was her religion she's from a muslim background and everyone knows muslim girls aren't allowed to be into contact with any other race but their own while the muslim men can date anyone. Such dumb choices. Despite that crap me and her still had a nice time together. But ended up apart due to her father being that typical muslim stereotype that hits her daughter and tells her to never see me again. She had to oblige. Hate her parents for denying her the true happiness she was longing for through me.
Muslim isnt a race though
Its cause of the conversion thing, they fear if she marries into another faith she might leave her faith but the guy typically converts the girl into being a Muslim. That is why they don't like it.
9:55 Bro wtf is your problem?
You're gonna keep telling the woman who choose YOU that she should've chosen the other guy because "he's better"? Doing that one time i can understand, but every fricking time? It shows me you don't really love her, you love the drama.
I never asked her, and she never asked me, but she dropped mad hints that she was into me. She was a year older than me. At the time, I was in a ridiculous loves-me-loves-me-not dance with another girl who I later found out was a compulsive liar, even to me, so I didn't think about any other girl at the time. My friend was always good to me though and very supportive, even cooked for me when I visited her at her college campus one weekend. Anyway, after that was said and done, I ended up at a different college and we all moved on with our lives.
15 years later, she and I married different people and are happy. We haven't spoken in years, but I still wonder what could have been if I had been smart enough to cut off a toxic high school relationship sooner.
Damn story 3 is kinda crushing. That's a "in another life" typa scenario. But props to her for being commited to her relationship
Two-story 17: girl I could talk for hours about beast wars
15:48 "I thought so much of him that I turned him down"
Women...no logic whatsoever.
Bro. Stevie ray Vaughan is my literal guitar and life hero. Did not expect to hear his name in one of these videos lol. 🐐 🎸
The ones who said no cuz they were in a relationship at the time are real ones, sad that they stayed in shit relationships but still loyal and didn't cheat!
Women ☕️
For me I'm just tired of getting rejected especially during summer time
I only know one girl from high school who probly doesnt. She made me seem like a stalker only because she wouldnt say Yes or No when i asked her if she'd wanna go on a date. It was always, " I'll think about it" or "maybe" i only asked 2 or 3 times which was once a week till i gave up.
"I couldn't dare a ginger"
Fair tbh
Bro whoever is playing little big planet is pissing me off they missing all the secrets Xd
Damn I already loved SRV before this video and now he's even cooler 😂
a lot of these seem very superficial most are just "oh this guy is ugly and i don't want him" and then they realize they're extremely rich or they became hot "oh i made such a big mistake"
Guy: *is perfect*
Girl: *likes him back*
Girl: No thanks.
Story 9. Hope he says no
Why? She realised she made a mistake, and admits it to us and to him. She doesn't sound like a bad person, and doesn't seem to be entitled (anymore at least). So why do you wish her to fail or be unhappy?
@@leovk5779 this was over the course of years that she put the guy through this. Not like a week.
She realized her mistake but that is still a red flag behavior.
@@99batran She told him no years ago, and yes she distanced herself from him for years. Recently, they got close again. So no, she did not "put him through this over the course of years", like for example she would let him hope and give him false signals for years. She told him no, and he could have moved on. Maybe he has for all we know, and then he'll say no. If he's still interested he'll say yes and good for them. If he has moved on and say no, she'll also have to move on, that's life. But I'm certainly not wishing any of them to be unhappy, because in this story I don't see a bad person on either side, just complicated choices and life getting in the way.
@@leovk5779 Ofc but they are probably not best for eachother in this scenario. Don't forget she mentioned she avoided him whenever he tried to approach. Dunno how long he tried but from the way it's worded it's over the course of a long time. He probably did start a new life at this point so he shouldn't go back for her if seeing her makes him feel trauma or ache
@@99batran True. They might not be made for each other, and in addition to what you said, she felt he was a player and she didn't want to just be his next conquest, so if he's still like that it might not work out. Still, I feel the original comment was not for the intention "I hope he says no, because they are not good for each other", but more "I hope he says no, cause she doesn't deserve to be with him or deserve to be happy." I may be wrong though, I've seen many comments here in the style 'those woman are so superficial, they deserve to be unhappy to pay for that one mistake" that I might see everything darker than it is XD
Bruh, in HS I was hella smitten with this one girl. I was pretty direct as I am on the spectrum. I directly asked her out. She kept playing coy and would be real touchy with me. Those moments with her really recharged my affection for her.
Her excuse for not dating me was that she was saving herself for after HS. My friend group and her friend's group was really close... turns out they all were having sex and all kinds of fun. The inside joke was that I was 😐 oblivious. I will admit it was impossible at the time to understand subtle cues.
One day, I was passing notes for the friends group when I connected the dots... They all admitted they all had sex like 16 times, and they thought it was "cute" that I was oblivious. I still feel that epic embarrassment to this day. I quit the group, and after HS ended up going to prison for 9 years.
Near the end of my sentence, she started writing me. She had a set of twins a little girl and was 3 abortions deep. She sent me hot nude pics and I considered ef zoning her. She thought I was going to setup her address for my release to live with her... instead I secretly set my ma's address.
When I got out she was there... bruh... I couldn't believe my eyes. She was *OBESE* . Not thicc, not BBW, she was full blown wake apnea, medical shoe clad in a matching mumuu.
I told her directly that I never intended to live with her. I only wanted to eff but seeing her in that condition I mentioned that i couldn't even ef cuz she was so obese it wouldn't be enjoyable for me. She called me a pos and a jerk.
I since then started a few companies and am doing well enough to be seen and visible in my home town... She still called me after 10 years into my release wondering if she lost the weight would I reconsider... After declining, I thanked her for teaching me how rewarding it was to be a jerk to women. I was fresh out and eye candy to everyone.
I started an eff buddy situationship with this 19 year old in 2022 when the lockdowns eased up. The last time I came over she told me to come straight to her room because her mom is over. She said her mom was depressed because her latest boyfriend cheated on her, she was broke/ homeless and needed a place to stay so she was on the couch. The apartment was already hella tiny.
I came over like planned and was shuffling past the sofa... when I heard my name... her mom was my HS crush! Bruh, my heart started racing and I just pretended to not recognize her and apologized for waking her. Me and her daughter were doing the nasty when i noticed a weird shadow under the door... her fat ass was watching us from under the effing door! I stopped and told my homegirl that I saw her mom watching us, and she went ballistic. She bolted out there wrapped in a bedsheet to confront her mom, but her mom was a weaping balling mess. Describing her as "ugly crying" was an understatement.
Her mom gave some cliff notes on our connection. Then she turned to me and was screaming, "Why couldn't you love ME!"
Well, to conclude... it's been a year and a half since we ended our fun friendship. Good news is her mom used that rock bottom landing to motivate her to hitting the gym and is now employed at a really good job. A few more lbs to go and she'll be on the healthier side of thicc again 😭😭😭
They were banging since high school?
Moral of the story .
Woman have to start aproaching guys instead of the other way around ...
Im so happy for the women saying no, they wouldve ruined the guys life.
I once rejected a guy I really thought could be a good partner. It a because my father didn’t approve of him. I still think about what could have been, but would make the same decision regardless.
Your father was probably looking out for you, and trust me guys know guys better than girls can.
The guy you though could be a good partner was probably an asshole and your dad noticed that. Women's complete inability to pick good men is mindboggling.
@@Atheismo9760 Bruh women not picking you is not cause they dont pick good guys, its the opposite judging by your comment 🤣
17:38 The friend that gave her the advice couldn’t be more wrong. If he was truly smart and attractive than he would’ve perfectly understood her situation.
Most of them basically flirted or more while being in a relationship
Man the stories where the women are just blatantly outing themselves as shallow and only willing to give the guy a chance had they been attractive really rubs me the wrong way. It really does feel like they will latch to any old wifebeater or criminal, as long as they're eye candy.
Never let your girlfriend/boyfriend keep you from your wife/husband
Ummm.....
There’s one guy from high school. I didn’t even realize he liked me until long after the fact, but I regret that I liked his friend and didn’t give him a chance. He was the only genuinely nice guy I’ve ever been friends with. I saw on Facebook though that he found a girlfriend who really appreciates him, and that just made me smile. Hope everything goes well for him.
Sure you do
This video was a great reminder of why I'm going to stay single.
I just got rejected by a woman !!
But I still have my self esteem. No need to be co dependent. Imma go do something else now
The guy from story 11: she ain't your girl.
Guarantee that, so long as she's not a devout woman of God, she's fucked a guy who she just met before. "It's too fast" is just her saying "I'm happy with the attention and the money you're spending on me, let's just keep doing that and I can keep pretending it'll lead to you getting to bang me at some point"
Be happy with your wife. Hopefully she doesn't require you to pay for her.