There's a good portion of these women that I'm so happy that they were so superficial... Because they likely would have ruined a really good mans life... And all I can do is smile about it
LOl so you incels are mad because females are allowed to have preferences? Do you think only men are allowed to have preferences? Why don't you just go and date some fat ugly but NICE woman, be happy, and stop bashing other women? lol more manosphere twisted logic
For real, and women will say that men are picky and judgmental…sure we won’t date just anyone (well actually sadly with how well women have monopolized modern dating some men WILL date anyone and just thank their lucky stars a living breathing woman expressed some interest in them…) but at least we don’t disqualify women for ridiculous things like height, hair, job, etc. women like these are doing guys a huge favor by exposing themselves as shallow narcissists early on.
@TheGreatSalsaMan as a man i can understand wanting a man with good height/good look/good income. Etc but only if you want it for your kids. It's okay to want to have a secure life but that does not mean you make this your life goal because if you don't get lucky your just destroyed your life.
Almost like women only care about what a man offers monetarily rather than the emotional and spiritual benefits…if women actually cared about a man’s character and personality over what he provides you wouldn’t have so many men struggling to get a date
Girls who reject men: "oh no! He has money now and has no interest in me!!!" Guys who reject women: "she has 4 kids of 4 different daddies, she is still a single mom. Bullet dodged."
Basically....lol Then the be like you're still a man for raising another man's kids. They won't up getting cheated on and ran through in divorce court. Guys never be a woman's second choice. It never works out and you turn into Chad. The worst kind of man. The manly man. Like Andrew Tate.
Happened to me! I got bashed at work just because I went out to one date with this woman at work who asked me out and rejected her afterwards. I'm 27 and she is 43! And has 3 children (each with separate dads divorced twice and one deceased). People at work gave me flack just because I didn't want to date a single mother! Like helloooooo she has a daughter that's 19! I ain't gonna be a stepfather to a 19 year old and running through a possible harem lmao
yeah, much later...somehow he fails to understand that there would have been no alternative timeline accross all the multiverses where he would have her. She only ever got interested as soon as she couldnt have him no more. I hope he isnt dumb enough to divorce the wife and go back to her. We all know how that would end...
People: you should be friends first before you try and date. People after being friends: I don’t want to ruin our friendship. People later: why did you never ask me out again? (True story)
It’s so dumb. I’ve been friendzoned by quite a few girls in school. I’m 27 with a full time job now. I work weekends and hardly have time to go out. I recently moved to another state and have yet to make any in person friends. I’ve tried dating apps. Only girl i talked to for 6 months, blocks me. Even though we made plans on meeting up. I might stay single until i make some changes. We’ll see though.
@thrilla72 you know guy. This improvements things dont always work unfortunately. Your career cant be improvedi like that. Its not easy to get a good paid job. You cant just inrease your salary. Even if you try your best sometimes you reamin with the same work . Also "learn social skills is kinda cruel to say to people"
@@thrilla72because people have different personalities . You need friends to improve your conversation vocabulary . You cant just talk to anyone and expect to create a relationship. You have to find a thing that allows you and the other person to see each other often . And a reason for you to actually talk.
“Didn’t want to cheat on my boyfriend.” She must not know going on a god damn date with another guy, and letting him flirt with you is literally cheating. If you actually cared for your relationship with your bf, you would shut down any though of someone flirting with you, let alone going out with a guy 1 on 1. Never underestimate women’s ability to do mental gymnastics.
@@luckyflynt1646 bruh it’s not just us Americans dude. Shity women exist worldwide, or at least those that have been influenced by Western culture. Same problem in just about every country, wether it be the US, UK, France, Italy, Germany, and either China, or Japan can’t remember which one was bad lol.
@soullessginger9912 glad you saw the real her before it was too late, ie marrying her. Hopefully you can still find a decent woman (assuming you still want to seeing as you’re older lol).
My son hates the concept of relationships because he has had a lot of rejections. He just shuts down at the thought of it. Friend zoning is a horrible thing for men to go through. It makes a lot of men turned off to the idea of a relationship that they would rather be alone or have a dog. I can't say on levels I blame them. I can't say I blame my son either, and he's going to turn 27 very soon. He used to be fit and let himself go really badly. Like he gained over 120 pounds and doesn't care anymore and it breaks my heart as a mom. He's such a sweetheart to women and is always willing to help out in anyone's life regardless of the issue. Now, he just smokes E Cigs a lot and cries himself to sleep at times. I act like I don't hear it but it hurts me too. I pray to God that someone will see him as more than a friend but honestly, I don't know. It's sooooo different from when I dated and that was thirty years ago. Maybe he is right. Maybe his generation is destined to fail due to social media. God help us.
I pray that you and your family find peace and your son sounds like a lovely person! I remember my first time being friendzoned in 5th grade, I am now about to graduate. My advice is to just stay away from that stuff, its always better not trying to find your happiness in someone else and finding it in yourself before anyone else first!! Praying for much love and great things for you, your son and family ! 🙏🙏🙏
God..I'm living the exact same life as your son. Almost feels like my mom wrote it.Started smoking e-ciggs 2 months ago, even tho I've never smoked before. Girl I've met online and known for almost 6 months, broke up with me right before we were supposed to meet for the first time. We've talked almost daily, always had a lot of fun together bcs of the sense of humour we shared. And I felt like were really connected, we were always there for each other. She was the sweetest, smartest, funniest person I've ever met, she helped me through a lot and always tried to help with any problem I had. We shared all the high and also the lows together. And then, when I felt like on the top of the world, finally healed my past traumas, she broke up with me out of nowhere. Don't get it till this day, she never explained why or she did in a way that didn't really make sense to me. I thought maybe I put too much pressure on her because of the first date outside the online. But she seemed so excited when I asked her out, told me how she loves me and that she can't wait for it..And boom, all of it gone in an instant, all the memories together.. The e-ciggs I smoke rn serves as a memory of her in a way, because she was the one who smoked them and it's the only way I feel like she is still with me.... I sometimes imagine we are talking together. Whenever I'm dealing with something I'm thinking: "What would she say"?..Sounds crazy but that's how it is..But that's just life I guess. And the crying to fall asleep just hits home.. even crying right now writing all this.. Maybe it's time to just move on. Lay down the e ciggs alongside my love for her.. Maybe we all should just keep moving forward and stop wasting our time by crying over things we can't change anymore. It's hard but necessary. Thank your for your comment, writing this response made me realize lot of things. Be strong. And wish u and your son the best.
YES! EXACTLY! NAILED IT! THANK YOU! Their fragile egos can’t stand it when a good man doesn’t want them but a perfectly fine average guy wants them and they think they can do better…
I really don't mind it when a guy has options but the way a lot of men act when you have options and standards really doesn't make me feel bad when I say no to one.
I can't imagine rejecting someone in such a hateful manner. All you have to do is say "I'm very flattered but I'm not interested" or something like that. No need for EW NO NOT GOOD ENOUGH. What the hell, people?
Yeah I dealt with plenty if ghosting and fake excuses when asking them out. I understand most women can't say no. I rather have women lied about having a bf as a safe way to say no than to be ghosted
Potentially being laughed at and ridiculed or the girl making a scene is a huge barrier for me when I consider approching one. It never crossed my mind that they might care about not hurting a strangers ego.
My family wonders why I don't ask girls out but not know I have only gotten nasty rejections. I have heard to my face "ew you", "no, creep" and "you like a child molester". I would never dream of saying those things to someone's face but women seem to have no problem being hateful. I don't ask anymore, they have to ask me.
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Story 12 - The guy kept inducing his wife to think she blew up. Sabotaging his own relationship. She might have and she might never had though much about it. But he kept remembering her. I wonder how is their marriage. 🤔
Yeah. Any guy who goes around saying, "You screwed up. You could have had that," is just begging to have his wife agree with him and go in search of something better.
I grew up believing the lie society told me that men were the ones who are too superficial, and yes, everyone desires a good looking person, but after 30 years of observing relationships of the people close to me and the one not so much, I can comfortably say, that the ladies are the ones that only take looks into account, and men are actually way more open and flexible when the time to select a partner comes.... guess who ends up being happier in the long run.
Guy here, gonna play Devil's advocate. Let's be real, not ALL women are the superficial ones, that's an exaggeration. However, it would make a lot of sense that a life situation in which this is the case for a sizeable amount of men is fairly common. Common enough for it to seem like the norm. As for why, I have no idea, my personal theory is that men tried being superficial for the centuries that have passed and it went predictably badly over time. But regardless, vanity goes both ways, regardless of gender, but perspective makes a world of difference
"The ladies are the ones that only take looks into account" Come on, that's not true, there are examples in this video where the reason the women regretted it was because the men ended up in profitable careers, so you know only some of the ladies are about looks, the others are about money.
@@fracturedfuture370 Yes, I never meant all, but I'm referring to the common denominator which is why stereotypes, like the one of "men being superficial" existed, supposedly it was the majority of males, turned out to be that the roles are inversely proportional to the myth.
@@smashbother5684 I was talking specifically about looks, but if it makes you feel better to bring other factors into your argument go ahead, despite them being irrelevant to me and my point, I'm only focusing on the fallacy that men only care about LOOKS regardless.
If you're a dude in your early 20s, trust me on this: work on your career and get in shape. Men and women age differently, and you will have the *ultimate* revenge in your 30s 💯
Don't remember where i heard this one but i lived it and it is so true. "Regular guys will always be rejected by the women of their school, but once they are older, stable and successful, they will have the same women competing with their own daughters for him."
Exactly it’s something society doesn’t teach us but is a hard fact that most men if you work at it will age like fine wine whereas women can try every botox and booty lift they want but their looks will start fading fast after 30 and tend to age about as well as week old milk left out by a furnace.
It may be true but then you can't get a young 22ish girl. How can you have a large family then ? By the time a woman is 35ish her fertility has considerably diminished.
@@akiraraiku Brother trust me a good portion of young women want older men who are in better positions in their life. Although yeah I agree. 30s and having kids even as a man is getting a bit old. I'd rather be younger whilst my kids grow up so that I can do stuff with them.
Heh, yet even a life of pristine and integrity comes at a Cost. It doesn't always mean its the right thing to be, do or choose because life is funny. Take it from me, having built a life and becoming a pillar to the community people perceive me as too serious, too proper, strict, and that i am unwavering, and indeed its all true, but i appear as a wall they cannot scale or breach and dont even attempt to to just know me casually because i intimidate them. Its a loney life, and i envy those who never needed to fight so damn hard because life turned out differently for them, or that perhaps they lack so much self awareness that they feel no shame to just let it all hang out. I care too much about how i am perceived and being a good person has given me less and less. And i fear if i broke free from this, that i would be that one stupid shit to whom luck gives no favor, and whatever i do beyond myself will blow up in my face. Because it has before. So take it from, some things no matter how positive it may be known as in the minds of society, life will fk us over regardless. Its all artificial concepts anyway, and life doesnt give a damn how good or bad we are. Only that our stupidity sees us successful or dead, its all a roll of the dice.
@@53ns3i my friend seek your god, we don't live in integrity because we expect to get good things comes to us, we do it because the alternative is bad. If you are being a pillar and expecting good things to come, look into yourself and rethink your standing. Being good is hard, and its not about doing it so you can get back in return. If you are getting less and less perhaps it is not the best way to be good.... as for your final point "Its all an artificial concepts" or... perhaps... Its all real. Life doesnt care if we are good or bad, but your soul will. When you decide to be good, to be strong, dangerous but disciplined your soul, your being will be different. It is only from this position of good that we can make some incredible constructive progress in our own lives and in our society. Our life is short and it easy to think that it don't matter what we do,... but it does because you have to look at how rare life is, and see it as a gift not the just the burden, as the burden of life itself is a gift from the cosmo. To experience good and bad, to experience life.
I disagree, as a woman we should constantly look for someone better. It also puts pressure on your current guy to do better. Worked well for me so far!
@melon9680 late reponse, but what you're saying is completely true, and God tells us to take our failures with Grace. Without grace we become bitter and lose sight of what is really important especially when time gets hard or betrayal is met. This is to be expected with life as you say. But we can choose to take on these time with grace, to look at situation with optimism, so that we have courage to fight the battles that matters. Anyway I'm just a guy on the internet.
@paulinejackson5861 no real self-respecting man or woman would put up with their partner not committing to them fully, and thus they will not tolerate themselves committing to their partner fully. A good marriage is not 50/50 it's 100% from both side. If you choose to be with that person, you must help with the redemptions of his failures and he should do the same for you. To exploit your partners insecurely for a hope of finding another and better partner is just unreasonable. Why not leave, save the person the cut of the betraying knife.
I can't count the number of women that thought either I wasn't good enough or just a meal ticket. However,it only took one that wanted to work with me. By working together, we broke a net worth of 7 figures in 18 years.
@@User40919 A mutual friend introduced us. We talked for a while and then a couple weeks later, ended up at the same party. Went to breakfast after the party, and have been together ever since. 33 years together, 30 on paper.
It’s crazy how the nature of woman hasn’t changed , no matter the the generation . Focus on yourselves men & if you had a woman that was with you at your lowest do right by her ..period . Because the women who only come around when you’re successful only want one thing ….
@soullessginger9912 most women you idiots go after are like 18-21 yr olds that don’t know what they want while you’re a broke ass. That’s why most people don’t get married until they’re in their late 20s give or take bc women don’t wanna waste time on a cheating loser bum and Milne don’t wanna waste time on gold digging whores but both genders are too naive to tell the difference at 18 they just simp for everyone
Nah. My wife loved me when we were young, broke, and didn't have anything. Now we're both doing well financially and career-wise. Those women exist, they are usually snatched up young though (Early to mid 20s). People don't tend to break up with those women and those women tend not to break up for foolishness.
This world is a farm for evil being you're a crop you produce different wavelength of potent loosh energy which they feed off, this world is nothing but a metaphysical exile, there is a way out of this system and stop reincarnation here..
The best investment you could ever make is one on yourself. When you become a better version of yourself, give nothing to those who didn't believe in or give to you.
I dated a girl who broke up with me saying "you're just not a good enough catch for a girl like me" fast forward two decades. Until I blocked her number she was calling me almost daily begging me to take her back. Turns out she is BPD, a severe alcoholic, and her whole family has turned their back on her. She is currently doing three years in prison after receiving her fifth DUI. As for myself I haven't set the world on fire, but I own a small house and two decent trucks, all of which is paid off.
For real, we need to normalize that being rejected by a woman who didn’t even bother to get to know you over superficial reasons is a blessing in disguise.
I'm grateful to all the women who rejected me when I was young. It gave my hormones enough time to calm down so I could realize women are one of the worst investments a man can possibly make. If they had taken an interest in me my life would be so much harder today.
Agree bro! Been there an done with dating. No women in my life and i’m stress free, rich as fuck, money to myself, time to myself. I plan to use a surrogate at South East Asia someday to have kids to pass on my wealth. women these days can only offer 3 things… 1. Sex 2. Child bearing ability 3. Misery.
Thats exactly why they’re so selective, they know they have a very small window to lock down a good man so they create a ‘fear of missing out’ on men which forces us to seem like we need to lower our standards when in reality a pretty face is worth a dime a dozen.
@@alexjames3956just because someone rejected you doesn’t mean you had anything to do with it. Many women like self sabotage situations (I will never understand why) but that doesn’t mean YOU did anything wrong.
True. You really can't know whats going on in the girls mind. She might find u slightly interesting and willing to give you a shot under different circumstances.
@@toottootsonicwarrior5777it’s not on you to wait on her “under different circumstances”. The guy she wants can come to her in the worst circumstances of her life and bang her with no backlash and no consequences after, but you must wait for different timing ? Lol. Self respect 🫡
I already knew how most of these were going to be before I started the video and after watching, I was right. They regret not dating the eventual successful man because he has things now not because they were interested in him exactly.
In a long distance relationship, yet goes to a guy's room to hangout alone and pretty much starts an emotional affair with him. Fellas, do you just not love girl math?
So that last one, she said "put some distance between us" with no explanation other than "3 weeks later I went to his door...." it makes it seem like she ghosted and avoided him for 3 weeks.
Was best friends with the most amazing guy for over a year, and knew I loved everything about him, and could see that there was an attraction he had building towards me as well. Eventually he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I told him no. It was the most heartbreaking thing in the world to do, but I explained to him that while I wanted to date him, I wouldn't be a good girlfriend at the time. I was dealing with a ton of un-addressed trauma, fighting chronic illness, trying to finish my last semester of college, and was dealing with some seriously messy family issues. We stayed close and I did a lot of work on myself over the course of that year, graduated, finally found a solid treatment for my chronic illness, and got things sorted with family. Ended up telling him I was still in love with him, but would completely understand if he felt differently after all the time that had passed, and I was just thankful for his being in my life and would respect whatever he wanted fully. We met for breakfast the next day, and turns out he'd never stopped thinking about me either. We've been together for 7 years now and just got married last year. Glad I said no the first time, as hard as it was: I was in no mental place to give him everything that he deserved and it wasn't his job to "fix" me. We were still the right ones for each other after those months of healing and waiting, and I think our relationship started in a much healthier place because of my choice.
Wow, I’m really glad this turned around for the better. I truly think there’s a right time and place for it, even if it happens after the fact of meeting and catching feels.
For story 14, i felt that. I'm a guy but i have a similar story. I had a best friend for many of my school years. We had split apart for a while but during senior year we were being freindly to eachother like in the old days. I had developed feelings for her and i didn't say anything or go anyfurther with them. I didn't want to ruin our friendship and thought it was too later. I also wasn't sure if she had feelings for me and didn't want to make the same mistake i did with my first crush (long hateful story). I now realized that she did have feelings when we were younger and might have still. It has been 4 years and i'm still kicking myself you that mistake (among others). Even though i regret that mistake i wouldn't change it'l, because i don't think i deserve her.
True but with story 14: she has doesn’t want to move from her bf because you aren’t better than him. Or she doesn’t see it that way. Dude needs to stop wasting his time with that woman
@melon9680 Not always the case as people went out of their way to treat me like a mistake that should have killed itself years ago, or use me for what they want and then treat me like that.
As bad as it feels to get rejected, where would the guy end up if he wasn't? Most often rejection is a wake up call for us to gain focus and pay more attention to our purpose than our craving for sex
If you’re with someone and you actively think and have reason to believe they don’t care about you: you have no good reason to not break things off with them for someone better.
That… isn’t what I was talking about. I ain’t talking about someone better, I’m saying don’t stay with someone who has demonstrated they don’t care about you.
For some reason hearing this women feel regret brings a smile to my face. But the one about the shy girls and the one at the end kind of made me feel bad for those girls.
what a thoughtful video! it's interesting to hear everyone's experiences. personally, i feel like sometimes saying "no" can be more about timing than the person. like, what if he was the right one but i just wasn't ready? it definitely sparks conversation about how we often regret the chances we didn’t take.
i can sum this up: in this case she either rejects you to boost her own ego, or ur ugly, or she thoughts ur some normal looking wagie loser, but then u got into your sportscar or into your actual persona and she saw that ur rich af
Story 12 wow i never know a man can disrespect himself like that but he's right though the wife should leave him he's a low value male , wife blew it by being married to him .
a lot of these seem very superficial most are just "oh this guy is ugly and i don't want him" and then they realize they're extremely rich or they became hot "oh i made such a big mistake"
Absolutely..... he asked, i said no...and then 2 weeks later i received news that he had passed away. This guy was basically perfect. I said no because i just got out of a long and abusive relationship. At the time, i felt like i wasnt good enough because i had not moved on from that previous relationship and had not healed yet - was still picking up the pieces of myself and trying to get my life back together. This man was someone who would have been an incredible husband and i honestly really wanted to be with him but when he asked, i said no with the assuption there was still time in this world for us. Well, ive never been more wrong in my life, and id give almost anything to have even just those last 2 weeks with him. He was only 25, handsome, smart, fit, mature, and really listened when i spoke. He saw the real me when i couldnt even recognize myself.
Last story literally reminds me of mine. but instead of the guy's friend for this story, it was her friend who told her, he's not single anymore, she dated someone who is seemingly toxic, while I'm still in a good relationship with my girl, she knows everything.
Story 4: He did that on purpose. It was all calculated. Edit: wow, so many superficial women in this video. I'm glad that they regretted/felt misery for being so shallow.
Yes, he stole the backpack and PS3 intentionally because he is a criminal. He is a thief and a liar who won't have a good life. Not sure why there was any regret on the girl's part.
@@brandyraccoon1473 No doubt he's a criminal, but his motivations? He knew what he was doing, and it wasn't just petty theft. It was calculated to do damage to her. The "shallow/regret" comment was meant for other women's stories. Seriously, it's no wonder why men are disengaging from women now because of how shallow they are.
Dude should have been glad she chose him over the athletic superstar and didn't cheat. Now he basically just made her regret being with him. Dude is a just a cuck in waiting.
Sooo what I'm hearing is the moral of the story is: When a woman is gullable, she often misses out on either someone or something beautiful in their life that could have been. Women will pass up many things, but the things she passes up the most is always what she either desires most or needs most in their life at that point in time
The fact these girls are proudly saying they would rather be with the successful guy from highschool than. The person they are currently with is messed up.
What an incredible collection of stories! Each one showcases the twists and turns of life's "what-ifs" and missed opportunities. The emotional depth and raw honesty in these tales are truly captivating. It's fascinating to see how each decision, or lack thereof, shapes the course of our lives and leaves us wondering about the paths not taken. 🌟
@@jgrAnimations23 when you have 90% of men that are complaining about a similar problem(s) and difficulty when it comes to dating and/or women, odds are there is a correlation and it’s a highly accurate assessment…don’t need to meet every woman to tell they’re pretty much after the same endgame 🤷🏼♂️
Amazing how some of them in these stories don’t perceive talking romantically or being in romantic or intimate moments with people when IN a relationship as a issue. Just regrets. Be careful who you date is what these kinda stories teach you.
Not just women.. ppl when they were young are stupid. Prime age, high market value, shopping hard but no understanding of actual values.. so always this problem of chose too soon or overchoosy.
So many missed opportunities that could've turned out to be the greatest story of their lives. So many "could have been's" because we were too afraid to appear foolish. We all have these regrets. Both women and men should learn to take a chance on a possibility. You know in your gut if that person is good. See if it turns to great. Life is so short.
As you grow, there will always be the “what if’s” lingering in your mind. Stop dwelling in the past, focus on the present. Be aware of your surroundings, you never know if someone or something special is right in front of you.
I never asked her, and she never asked me, but she dropped mad hints that she was into me. She was a year older than me. At the time, I was in a ridiculous loves-me-loves-me-not dance with another girl who I later found out was a compulsive liar, even to me, so I didn't think about any other girl at the time. My friend was always good to me though and very supportive, even cooked for me when I visited her at her college campus one weekend. Anyway, after that was said and done, I ended up at a different college and we all moved on with our lives. 15 years later, she and I married different people and are happy. We haven't spoken in years, but I still wonder what could have been if I had been smart enough to cut off a toxic high school relationship sooner.
Thinking of other people while married or in a relationship is craaaazy, they shouldn’t be the least bit jealous of what their partners choose to do just for that
Story 16 seems like the genuine article. She didn't turn the guy down at the bus stop for any other reason than loyalty, and she's not leading her husband on by dreaming of another guy. That kind of devotion is rare. :)
I rejected a guy because I couldn’t deal with the age difference even when he was only two years younger than me. I was traumatised. I didn’t want to be like my uncle and aunt. After that, he got into sports and became an entrepreneur. People say that he’s egoistic but i think he’s just done being what everybody wanted him to be. I admire him for that. I wish we could’ve ended up like friends. He ignores me completely now tho so that ship sailed
I was rejected once she brutally said no so here I am now training calisthenics for years she even said if we wanted t rethink it but I said “No thanks”
9:55 Bro wtf is your problem? You're gonna keep telling the woman who choose YOU that she should've chosen the other guy because "he's better"? Doing that one time i can understand, but every fricking time? It shows me you don't really love her, you love the drama.
I don't feel bad for the women wo reject the men who became successful in the end, I like the fact that some of them stayed faithful to their partners.
I only know one girl from high school who probly doesnt. She made me seem like a stalker only because she wouldnt say Yes or No when i asked her if she'd wanna go on a date. It was always, " I'll think about it" or "maybe" i only asked 2 or 3 times which was once a week till i gave up.
I like story 17, she talks to guys she likes about freaking beast wars. If a girl can talk to me about how awful and yet funny character rat trap is, she’s got potential
really enjoyed this video, the stories were super relatable! but honestly, i think sometimes it's not just about the guy but also the timing. like, there are moments when we might be too focused on other things to see a good opportunity. ever felt like we might miss out because we're not ready? i mean, it's all about personal growth. what do you guys think?
Last Story, she took advice from a friend who convinced her to not commit a mistake and instead made it worse as she proceeded to literally ignore him stepping on his feelings in the process hoping he will wait 🤡 and then even gets back with her horrible ex 🤡🤡
this video is really thought-provoking and well done! i can totally relate to the idea of missed opportunities, but honestly, i think sometimes we romanticize those "what if" moments too much. maybe saying no was actually the best choice at the time? what do you all think?
I’m a girl I don’t regret it never been that type of individual, I look in the mirror and keep calm eventually and be myself, everything’s okay once you don’t overthink things! Find your own friendship where you don’t need to force nothing!
Is it me or these stories are either "stupid reason for a rejection but it wasn't me who rejected the guy" or "it was me personally but I had a good reason for rejection back then"?
These are a bit weird in the sense that most of them regret not being with a guy while being a relationship, isn’t that what you are suppose to do? Be loyal? I feel like I would be more proud about that, than regretting not dating some random girl. People are wild man.
I am girl I was confessed in high school by guy friend but I don’t know why but I felt nothing not joy, anger just nothingness. I really felt bad that I felt nothing because I know with a confession of love you are suppose feel something anything. The next day, I told the truth that I didn’t feel the same way and focusing on school and didn’t want to manipulate him he deserve better than that I seen that happen personally I didn’t want to do it on others. Months later, I went to a different community college then and found out from a former friend of his but a friend of mine that “He was a complete jerk in high school and I stopped being friends with him and he became even worse in community college the sister college of mine because his mom worked there. So I found out I dodged a bullet on that one. My heart was protecting me from someone not good for me.
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There's a good portion of these women that I'm so happy that they were so superficial... Because they likely would have ruined a really good mans life... And all I can do is smile about it
Are we related? lol
LOl so you incels are mad because females are allowed to have preferences? Do you think only men are allowed to have preferences? Why don't you just go and date some fat ugly but NICE woman, be happy, and stop bashing other women? lol more manosphere twisted logic
For real, and women will say that men are picky and judgmental…sure we won’t date just anyone (well actually sadly with how well women have monopolized modern dating some men WILL date anyone and just thank their lucky stars a living breathing woman expressed some interest in them…) but at least we don’t disqualify women for ridiculous things like height, hair, job, etc. women like these are doing guys a huge favor by exposing themselves as shallow narcissists early on.
It’s kinda sad, but true
@TheGreatSalsaMan as a man i can understand wanting a man with good height/good look/good income. Etc but only if you want it for your kids. It's okay to want to have a secure life but that does not mean you make this your life goal because if you don't get lucky your just destroyed your life.
A lot of these seem like they regret not dating the eventual hot and successful person rather than regret not dating the person.
damn you are right
EXACTLY!!! Women don't love us, they love what we can do for them
Crazy
Almost like women only care about what a man offers monetarily rather than the emotional and spiritual benefits…if women actually cared about a man’s character and personality over what he provides you wouldn’t have so many men struggling to get a date
@@TheGreatSalsaManI mean, shit you can tell that from people you turned down half a decade ago?
Girls who reject men: "oh no! He has money now and has no interest in me!!!"
Guys who reject women: "she has 4 kids of 4 different daddies, she is still a single mom. Bullet dodged."
Basically....lol
Then the be like you're still a man for raising another man's kids. They won't up getting cheated on and ran through in divorce court.
Guys never be a woman's second choice. It never works out and you turn into Chad. The worst kind of man. The manly man. Like Andrew Tate.
That is quite the difference...
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah…that’s usually not the case
Happened to me! I got bashed at work just because I went out to one date with this woman at work who asked me out and rejected her afterwards. I'm 27 and she is 43! And has 3 children (each with separate dads divorced twice and one deceased). People at work gave me flack just because I didn't want to date a single mother! Like helloooooo she has a daughter that's 19! I ain't gonna be a stepfather to a 19 year old and running through a possible harem lmao
Story 11: Obviously, she wanted to keep that guy in her pocket until later. Losing him to someone else wasn't in her script.
Yup.
Fatherless behaviour
Many such cases
8:18
yeah, much later...somehow he fails to understand that there would have been no alternative timeline accross all the multiverses where he would have her. She only ever got interested as soon as she couldnt have him no more. I hope he isnt dumb enough to divorce the wife and go back to her. We all know how that would end...
People: you should be friends first before you try and date.
People after being friends: I don’t want to ruin our friendship.
People later: why did you never ask me out again?
(True story)
It’s so dumb. I’ve been friendzoned by quite a few girls in school.
I’m 27 with a full time job now. I work weekends and hardly have time to go out. I recently moved to another state and have yet to make any in person friends.
I’ve tried dating apps. Only girl i talked to for 6 months, blocks me. Even though we made plans on meeting up.
I might stay single until i make some changes. We’ll see though.
@@jakewulgarImprove your career, improve your body, dress sense and practice social skills
@@jakewulgar Isn't worth it to tolerate the modern female. They're all monsters.
@thrilla72 you know guy. This improvements things dont always work unfortunately. Your career cant be improvedi like that. Its not easy to get a good paid job. You cant just inrease your salary. Even if you try your best sometimes you reamin with the same work . Also "learn social skills is kinda cruel to say to people"
@@thrilla72because people have different personalities . You need friends to improve your conversation vocabulary . You cant just talk to anyone and expect to create a relationship. You have to find a thing that allows you and the other person to see each other often . And a reason for you to actually talk.
Quite a few examples are from men who didn't take the "fear of ruining friendship" bait and successfully avoided being strung along.
Good for them
They’re weak.
@@MrEvldreamr🤡
wait what bait ?
@@MrEvldreamrretard comments from august 2023
“Didn’t want to cheat on my boyfriend.” She must not know going on a god damn date with another guy, and letting him flirt with you is literally cheating. If you actually cared for your relationship with your bf, you would shut down any though of someone flirting with you, let alone going out with a guy 1 on 1. Never underestimate women’s ability to do mental gymnastics.
the simps won’t listen
Americans. No further elaboration required or desired
@@luckyflynt1646morons*
There's still many of us that are nowhere near that stupid
@@luckyflynt1646 bruh it’s not just us Americans dude. Shity women exist worldwide, or at least those that have been influenced by Western culture. Same problem in just about every country, wether it be the US, UK, France, Italy, Germany, and either China, or Japan can’t remember which one was bad lol.
@soullessginger9912 glad you saw the real her before it was too late, ie marrying her. Hopefully you can still find a decent woman (assuming you still want to seeing as you’re older lol).
My son hates the concept of relationships because he has had a lot of rejections. He just shuts down at the thought of it. Friend zoning is a horrible thing for men to go through. It makes a lot of men turned off to the idea of a relationship that they would rather be alone or have a dog. I can't say on levels I blame them. I can't say I blame my son either, and he's going to turn 27 very soon. He used to be fit and let himself go really badly. Like he gained over 120 pounds and doesn't care anymore and it breaks my heart as a mom. He's such a sweetheart to women and is always willing to help out in anyone's life regardless of the issue. Now, he just smokes E Cigs a lot and cries himself to sleep at times. I act like I don't hear it but it hurts me too. I pray to God that someone will see him as more than a friend but honestly, I don't know. It's sooooo different from when I dated and that was thirty years ago. Maybe he is right. Maybe his generation is destined to fail due to social media. God help us.
I pray that you and your family find peace and your son sounds like a lovely person! I remember my first time being friendzoned in 5th grade, I am now about to graduate. My advice is to just stay away from that stuff, its always better not trying to find your happiness in someone else and finding it in yourself before anyone else first!! Praying for much love and great things for you, your son and family ! 🙏🙏🙏
God..I'm living the exact same life as your son. Almost feels like my mom wrote it.Started smoking e-ciggs 2 months ago, even tho I've never smoked before. Girl I've met online and known for almost 6 months, broke up with me right before we were supposed to meet for the first time. We've talked almost daily, always had a lot of fun together bcs of the sense of humour we shared. And I felt like were really connected, we were always there for each other. She was the sweetest, smartest, funniest person I've ever met, she helped me through a lot and always tried to help with any problem I had. We shared all the high and also the lows together. And then, when I felt like on the top of the world, finally healed my past traumas, she broke up with me out of nowhere. Don't get it till this day, she never explained why or she did in a way that didn't really make sense to me. I thought maybe I put too much pressure on her because of the first date outside the online. But she seemed so excited when I asked her out, told me how she loves me and that she can't wait for it..And boom, all of it gone in an instant, all the memories together.. The e-ciggs I smoke rn serves as a memory of her in a way, because she was the one who smoked them and it's the only way I feel like she is still with me.... I sometimes imagine we are talking together. Whenever I'm dealing with something I'm thinking: "What would she say"?..Sounds crazy but that's how it is..But that's just life I guess. And the crying to fall asleep just hits home.. even crying right now writing all this.. Maybe it's time to just move on. Lay down the e ciggs alongside my love for her.. Maybe we all should just keep moving forward and stop wasting our time by crying over things we can't change anymore. It's hard but necessary. Thank your for your comment, writing this response made me realize lot of things. Be strong. And wish u and your son the best.
Oh shit keep a close eye on your son hes close to killing himself
@@Jose_Doe He's not suicidal just depressed.
@@leticiamartinez4703 that can lead to suicide
"Why dont men pursue women anymore?"
Then reddit comes in clutch with hundreds of personal experiences😂😂😂😂😂
Because we were never supposed to, look at the animal kingdom, almost all mating processes involve the female approaching the male first.
Have you ever tought that everyday millions of people are being rejected. Most of them are men.
MILLIONS!! Everyday
I smell, incel!
Yet till this day you have none of your own. Do you know what confirmation bias is?
@@thuglaza4728dudes not wrong tho, why you being a dick about it? It’s like he insulted you or something
Women complain about men with options being superficial, but they do the same exact stuff to men they perceive to be below them. Damn hypocrites.
YES! EXACTLY! NAILED IT! THANK YOU!
Their fragile egos can’t stand it when a good man doesn’t want them but a perfectly fine average guy wants them and they think they can do better…
Chill
@@ThapeloMKTwe are. Stress free.
I really don't mind it when a guy has options but the way a lot of men act when you have options and standards really doesn't make me feel bad when I say no to one.
@@gabriellemeche992 What a surprise, women don’t like it when men act like they do…shocker 🙄🙄🙄
I can't imagine rejecting someone in such a hateful manner. All you have to do is say "I'm very flattered but I'm not interested" or something like that. No need for EW NO NOT GOOD ENOUGH. What the hell, people?
Yeah I dealt with plenty if ghosting and fake excuses when asking them out. I understand most women can't say no. I rather have women lied about having a bf as a safe way to say no than to be ghosted
Potentially being laughed at and ridiculed or the girl making a scene is a huge barrier for me when I consider approching one. It never crossed my mind that they might care about not hurting a strangers ego.
@@christiansnaturestudio6599Frankly i think its pathetic, because its such a fking low bar. Everyone is so damn afraid to speak their mind.
@@toottootsonicwarrior5777You trying to date 12 year olds?
My family wonders why I don't ask girls out but not know I have only gotten nasty rejections. I have heard to my face "ew you", "no, creep" and "you like a child molester".
I would never dream of saying those things to someone's face but women seem to have no problem being hateful. I don't ask anymore, they have to ask me.
Story 12 - The guy kept inducing his wife to think she blew up. Sabotaging his own relationship. She might have and she might never had though much about it. But he kept remembering her. I wonder how is their marriage. 🤔
Truth.
Yeah. Any guy who goes around saying, "You screwed up. You could have had that," is just begging to have his wife agree with him and go in search of something better.
That guy was 100% a cuck
Yeah, that dude is a moron.
Cuck vibes for sure
I grew up believing the lie society told me that men were the ones who are too superficial, and yes, everyone desires a good looking person, but after 30 years of observing relationships of the people close to me and the one not so much, I can comfortably say, that the ladies are the ones that only take looks into account, and men are actually way more open and flexible when the time to select a partner comes.... guess who ends up being happier in the long run.
Guy here, gonna play Devil's advocate. Let's be real, not ALL women are the superficial ones, that's an exaggeration. However, it would make a lot of sense that a life situation in which this is the case for a sizeable amount of men is fairly common. Common enough for it to seem like the norm. As for why, I have no idea, my personal theory is that men tried being superficial for the centuries that have passed and it went predictably badly over time. But regardless, vanity goes both ways, regardless of gender, but perspective makes a world of difference
"The ladies are the ones that only take looks into account" Come on, that's not true, there are examples in this video where the reason the women regretted it was because the men ended up in profitable careers, so you know only some of the ladies are about looks, the others are about money.
@@fracturedfuture370 Yes, I never meant all, but I'm referring to the common denominator which is why stereotypes, like the one of "men being superficial" existed, supposedly it was the majority of males, turned out to be that the roles are inversely proportional to the myth.
@@smashbother5684 I was talking specifically about looks, but if it makes you feel better to bring other factors into your argument go ahead, despite them being irrelevant to me and my point, I'm only focusing on the fallacy that men only care about LOOKS regardless.
None since it's a pairing game
If you're a dude in your early 20s, trust me on this: work on your career and get in shape. Men and women age differently, and you will have the *ultimate* revenge in your 30s 💯
Don't remember where i heard this one but i lived it and it is so true. "Regular guys will always be rejected by the women of their school, but once they are older, stable and successful, they will have the same women competing with their own daughters for him."
Exactly it’s something society doesn’t teach us but is a hard fact that most men if you work at it will age like fine wine whereas women can try every botox and booty lift they want but their looks will start fading fast after 30 and tend to age about as well as week old milk left out by a furnace.
It may be true but then you can't get a young 22ish girl.
How can you have a large family then ?
By the time a woman is 35ish her fertility has considerably diminished.
@@akiraraiku simple. Just go after a 22 year woman.
@@akiraraiku Brother trust me a good portion of young women want older men who are in better positions in their life.
Although yeah I agree. 30s and having kids even as a man is getting a bit old. I'd rather be younger whilst my kids grow up so that I can do stuff with them.
Girls who said no and didn't cheat on your boyfriend, you should have no regret. You lived with integrity 👏
Heh, yet even a life of pristine and integrity comes at a Cost. It doesn't always mean its the right thing to be, do or choose because life is funny. Take it from me, having built a life and becoming a pillar to the community people perceive me as too serious, too proper, strict, and that i am unwavering, and indeed its all true, but i appear as a wall they cannot scale or breach and dont even attempt to to just know me casually because i intimidate them. Its a loney life, and i envy those who never needed to fight so damn hard because life turned out differently for them, or that perhaps they lack so much self awareness that they feel no shame to just let it all hang out. I care too much about how i am perceived and being a good person has given me less and less. And i fear if i broke free from this, that i would be that one stupid shit to whom luck gives no favor, and whatever i do beyond myself will blow up in my face. Because it has before. So take it from, some things no matter how positive it may be known as in the minds of society, life will fk us over regardless. Its all artificial concepts anyway, and life doesnt give a damn how good or bad we are. Only that our stupidity sees us successful or dead, its all a roll of the dice.
@@53ns3i my friend seek your god, we don't live in integrity because we expect to get good things comes to us, we do it because the alternative is bad. If you are being a pillar and expecting good things to come, look into yourself and rethink your standing. Being good is hard, and its not about doing it so you can get back in return. If you are getting less and less perhaps it is not the best way to be good.... as for your final point "Its all an artificial concepts" or... perhaps... Its all real. Life doesnt care if we are good or bad, but your soul will. When you decide to be good, to be strong, dangerous but disciplined your soul, your being will be different. It is only from this position of good that we can make some incredible constructive progress in our own lives and in our society. Our life is short and it easy to think that it don't matter what we do,... but it does because you have to look at how rare life is, and see it as a gift not the just the burden, as the burden of life itself is a gift from the cosmo. To experience good and bad, to experience life.
I disagree, as a woman we should constantly look for someone better. It also puts pressure on your current guy to do better. Worked well for me so far!
@melon9680 late reponse, but what you're saying is completely true, and God tells us to take our failures with Grace. Without grace we become bitter and lose sight of what is really important especially when time gets hard or betrayal is met. This is to be expected with life as you say. But we can choose to take on these time with grace, to look at situation with optimism, so that we have courage to fight the battles that matters.
Anyway I'm just a guy on the internet.
@paulinejackson5861 no real self-respecting man or woman would put up with their partner not committing to them fully, and thus they will not tolerate themselves committing to their partner fully. A good marriage is not 50/50 it's 100% from both side. If you choose to be with that person, you must help with the redemptions of his failures and he should do the same for you. To exploit your partners insecurely for a hope of finding another and better partner is just unreasonable. Why not leave, save the person the cut of the betraying knife.
Turned down Stevie ray vaughn because he was short and weird. Then he went on stage then I was like hey..and he was like 🤣🤣 gtfoh
FR Dude was being nice to her and then he became sigma and told her to get lost 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wasn't he on drugs though?
I wouldn’t blame her lol. Tbh Stevie isn’t the best looking guy
Looked him up. Poor dude ended up dying in a chopper crash not too long after getting snubbed :(
@@miguelorozco6138 yet he has more money then you and her combined😂
I can't count the number of women that thought either I wasn't good enough or just a meal ticket. However,it only took one that wanted to work with me. By working together, we broke a net worth of 7 figures in 18 years.
How did you guys meet?
@@User40919 A mutual friend introduced us. We talked for a while and then a couple weeks later, ended up at the same party. Went to breakfast after the party, and have been together ever since. 33 years together, 30 on paper.
@@bigfoot14eee99 damnnn sir saluting to your happy relationship o7
@bigfoot14eee99 so basically friends then… what happened to cold approach?
If anything, this makes me realize a woman with Reddit is a red flag lmao
Right, they’re still regretting not dating some guy while either in a relationship, or married😐
A woman spending a significant amount of time on any social media site is a red flag.
huge red flag
Woman in general are like dat lmao, youll learn one day
Reddit in general is just better off avoided.
It’s crazy how the nature of woman hasn’t changed , no matter the the generation . Focus on yourselves men & if you had a woman that was with you at your lowest do right by her ..period . Because the women who only come around when you’re successful only want one thing ….
It’s almost like it ain’t women that are the problem. But men who are or something.
Men today are pathetic my dude.. that’s why they get walked on
@soullessginger9912 most women you idiots go after are like 18-21 yr olds that don’t know what they want while you’re a broke ass. That’s why most people don’t get married until they’re in their late 20s give or take bc women don’t wanna waste time on a cheating loser bum and Milne don’t wanna waste time on gold digging whores but both genders are too naive to tell the difference at 18 they just simp for everyone
@soullessginger9912 we are all more materialistic than we think, not just women
Nah. My wife loved me when we were young, broke, and didn't have anything. Now we're both doing well financially and career-wise.
Those women exist, they are usually snatched up young though (Early to mid 20s). People don't tend to break up with those women and those women tend not to break up for foolishness.
This world is a farm for evil being you're a crop you produce different wavelength of potent loosh energy which they feed off, this world is nothing but a metaphysical exile, there is a way out of this system and stop reincarnation here..
The best investment you could ever make is one on yourself. When you become a better version of yourself, give nothing to those who didn't believe in or give to you.
Moral of the story: TALK LIKE A NORMAL HUMAN BEING!
True moral is women are the most shallow short sighted creatures on this planet…
I dated a girl who broke up with me saying "you're just not a good enough catch for a girl like me" fast forward two decades. Until I blocked her number she was calling me almost daily begging me to take her back. Turns out she is BPD, a severe alcoholic, and her whole family has turned their back on her. She is currently doing three years in prison after receiving her fifth DUI. As for myself I haven't set the world on fire, but I own a small house and two decent trucks, all of which is paid off.
Boring.
@@SiD19884 ...simp
@@SiD19884...simp
Ay, you got your own.
That's all that matters.
@SiD19884 like your life?
These men are so lucky they did not get with these women
For real, we need to normalize that being rejected by a woman who didn’t even bother to get to know you over superficial reasons is a blessing in disguise.
@@TheGreatSalsaMan fair point
That's smart
At about the 8 minute mark that one summed it up....GIRL LOGIC 😆
Girl logic usually leads to drama
Why do people go back to shitty exes. That last story was hilarious 😂
Bu-bU-BuT I cAn tOtAlLy fiX tHeM!!!!
Masochism
I'm grateful to all the women who rejected me when I was young. It gave my hormones enough time to calm down so I could realize women are one of the worst investments a man can possibly make. If they had taken an interest in me my life would be so much harder today.
Agree bro! Been there an done with dating. No women in my life and i’m stress free, rich as fuck, money to myself, time to myself. I plan to use a surrogate at South East Asia someday to have kids to pass on my wealth.
women these days can only offer 3 things… 1. Sex 2. Child bearing ability 3. Misery.
Same, I finally realized this at 27.
Thats exactly why they’re so selective, they know they have a very small window to lock down a good man so they create a ‘fear of missing out’ on men which forces us to seem like we need to lower our standards when in reality a pretty face is worth a dime a dozen.
Incel comments
@@vince11harris cvck
One thing guys need to learn from this video is that rejection isn't always about you
Could you explain sir?
@@alexjames3956just because someone rejected you doesn’t mean you had anything to do with it. Many women like self sabotage situations (I will never understand why) but that doesn’t mean YOU did anything wrong.
@@kyreedavis2263 thanks man 💯
True. You really can't know whats going on in the girls mind. She might find u slightly interesting and willing to give you a shot under different circumstances.
@@toottootsonicwarrior5777it’s not on you to wait on her “under different circumstances”. The guy she wants can come to her in the worst circumstances of her life and bang her with no backlash and no consequences after, but you must wait for different timing ? Lol. Self respect 🫡
I already knew how most of these were going to be before I started the video and after watching, I was right. They regret not dating the eventual successful man because he has things now not because they were interested in him exactly.
A lot of women in a man with a successful lifestyle rather than being interested in a man himself
Indeed, it's hypergamy
In a long distance relationship, yet goes to a guy's room to hangout alone and pretty much starts an emotional affair with him. Fellas, do you just not love girl math?
15:38 finally someone actually said something loyal instead of "I love my spouse but-"
So that last one, she said "put some distance between us" with no explanation other than "3 weeks later I went to his door...." it makes it seem like she ghosted and avoided him for 3 weeks.
My man at 10:20 really did his best to try and cuckhold himself and make his wife regret marrying him, lol.
Was best friends with the most amazing guy for over a year, and knew I loved everything about him, and could see that there was an attraction he had building towards me as well. Eventually he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I told him no. It was the most heartbreaking thing in the world to do, but I explained to him that while I wanted to date him, I wouldn't be a good girlfriend at the time. I was dealing with a ton of un-addressed trauma, fighting chronic illness, trying to finish my last semester of college, and was dealing with some seriously messy family issues. We stayed close and I did a lot of work on myself over the course of that year, graduated, finally found a solid treatment for my chronic illness, and got things sorted with family. Ended up telling him I was still in love with him, but would completely understand if he felt differently after all the time that had passed, and I was just thankful for his being in my life and would respect whatever he wanted fully. We met for breakfast the next day, and turns out he'd never stopped thinking about me either. We've been together for 7 years now and just got married last year. Glad I said no the first time, as hard as it was: I was in no mental place to give him everything that he deserved and it wasn't his job to "fix" me. We were still the right ones for each other after those months of healing and waiting, and I think our relationship started in a much healthier place because of my choice.
Happy for you guys 🥰💯👏👍🏻
Wow, I’m really glad this turned around for the better. I truly think there’s a right time and place for it, even if it happens after the fact of meeting and catching feels.
You are a lucky woman.
He should’ve rejected you just like you did to him 😂
Wow I'm really happy for you two , my current situation is exactly like yours was that's why I'm not in dating circuit
For story 14, i felt that. I'm a guy but i have a similar story. I had a best friend for many of my school years. We had split apart for a while but during senior year we were being freindly to eachother like in the old days. I had developed feelings for her and i didn't say anything or go anyfurther with them. I didn't want to ruin our friendship and thought it was too later. I also wasn't sure if she had feelings for me and didn't want to make the same mistake i did with my first crush (long hateful story). I now realized that she did have feelings when we were younger and might have still. It has been 4 years and i'm still kicking myself you that mistake (among others). Even though i regret that mistake i wouldn't change it'l, because i don't think i deserve her.
True but with story 14: she has doesn’t want to move from her bf because you aren’t better than him. Or she doesn’t see it that way. Dude needs to stop wasting his time with that woman
@@usf1250 why was your last post 5 years ago, just out of curiosity?
Laddy, if people dont like or want to be with you, they wouldn't
A stick around
B be your fkn friend to begin with.
@melon9680 Not always the case as people went out of their way to treat me like a mistake that should have killed itself years ago, or use me for what they want and then treat me like that.
As bad as it feels to get rejected, where would the guy end up if he wasn't? Most often rejection is a wake up call for us to gain focus and pay more attention to our purpose than our craving for sex
Who says it always has to be about sex? Cant people long for a better half?
@@elseggs6504
I wish, but people these days just want the bedroom fun
You right rejection makes you reinvent yourself
What about physical imtimacy
@@christiansnaturestudio6599
Any of that needs to be earned starting with getting your life together first
Moral of the story .
Woman have to start aproaching guys instead of the other way around ...
He is so perfect, it would suck to lose him. I better reject him.
Women.
Modern day fools
If you’re with someone and you actively think and have reason to believe they don’t care about you: you have no good reason to not break things off with them for someone better.
Why? When someone better comes along, then break things off. It's always about the better guy
That… isn’t what I was talking about. I ain’t talking about someone better, I’m saying don’t stay with someone who has demonstrated they don’t care about you.
@@MotorcycleCheetah👍🏻
I love how SRV, one of the goats, dropped that on her!!!😂
I feel so bad for the guy who was very kind but had “ no ambition”
For some reason hearing this women feel regret brings a smile to my face. But the one about the shy girls and the one at the end kind of made me feel bad for those girls.
what a thoughtful video! it's interesting to hear everyone's experiences. personally, i feel like sometimes saying "no" can be more about timing than the person. like, what if he was the right one but i just wasn't ready? it definitely sparks conversation about how we often regret the chances we didn’t take.
i can sum this up: in this case she either rejects you to boost her own ego, or ur ugly, or she thoughts ur some normal looking wagie loser, but then u got into your sportscar or into your actual persona and she saw that ur rich af
Bruh
@@53ns3i furry joker
@@negative4928 Joker?, probably, Furry? Not at all. I despise furries.
Story 12 wow i never know a man can disrespect himself like that but he's right though the wife should leave him he's a low value male , wife blew it by being married to him .
Yup, beta behavior.
@@Toxic2T Very. He probably has her on a pedestal too.
Yeah, defo one of the stories where the girl would have had every reason to leave him.
a lot of these seem very superficial most are just "oh this guy is ugly and i don't want him" and then they realize they're extremely rich or they became hot "oh i made such a big mistake"
Absolutely..... he asked, i said no...and then 2 weeks later i received news that he had passed away.
This guy was basically perfect. I said no because i just got out of a long and abusive relationship. At the time, i felt like i wasnt good enough because i had not moved on from that previous relationship and had not healed yet - was still picking up the pieces of myself and trying to get my life back together.
This man was someone who would have been an incredible husband and i honestly really wanted to be with him but when he asked, i said no with the assuption there was still time in this world for us.
Well, ive never been more wrong in my life, and id give almost anything to have even just those last 2 weeks with him.
He was only 25, handsome, smart, fit, mature, and really listened when i spoke. He saw the real me when i couldnt even recognize myself.
I love that Larry Fitzgerald story, lol. "You blew it!" 😂😂😂
Damn, a lot of these women really are terrible people when it comes dating. They seem to be more focused on material things rather than the individual
If they were really in love with their then bfs why would they care how successful the others were?
2:30 bro was in his villain arc
Last story literally reminds me of mine. but instead of the guy's friend for this story, it was her friend who told her, he's not single anymore, she dated someone who is seemingly toxic, while I'm still in a good relationship with my girl, she knows everything.
That backpack story sounds more like a r/pettyrevenge thing, lol
Story 4: He did that on purpose. It was all calculated.
Edit: wow, so many superficial women in this video. I'm glad that they regretted/felt misery for being so shallow.
Yes, he stole the backpack and PS3 intentionally because he is a criminal. He is a thief and a liar who won't have a good life. Not sure why there was any regret on the girl's part.
@@brandyraccoon1473 No doubt he's a criminal, but his motivations? He knew what he was doing, and it wasn't just petty theft.
It was calculated to do damage to her.
The "shallow/regret" comment was meant for other women's stories. Seriously, it's no wonder why men are disengaging from women now because of how shallow they are.
@@KimPossibleShockwave Truth I thought the same
@@brandyraccoon1473Nah, more like he decided to get back at her for only valuing his looks
@@littlemoth4956Yeah, remember he was the "weird and annoying guy" yet the second he got fit she was fully willing to drag him into her bed.
You have a knack for turning ordinary moments into something extraordinary. 🌟
Story 12: That dude was aiming to get hurt with his joke. If it hurt him at all.
Dude should have been glad she chose him over the athletic superstar and didn't cheat. Now he basically just made her regret being with him. Dude is a just a cuck in waiting.
Sooo what I'm hearing is the moral of the story is: When a woman is gullable, she often misses out on either someone or something beautiful in their life that could have been. Women will pass up many things, but the things she passes up the most is always what she either desires most or needs most in their life at that point in time
Story 12 sounds like he REALLY wants to be cucked...
Nah I just think he was rubbing it in her face as a joke
The fact these girls are proudly saying they would rather be with the successful guy from highschool than. The person they are currently with is messed up.
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What an incredible collection of stories! Each one showcases the twists and turns of life's "what-ifs" and missed opportunities. The emotional depth and raw honesty in these tales are truly captivating. It's fascinating to see how each decision, or lack thereof, shapes the course of our lives and leaves us wondering about the paths not taken. 🌟
Kinda seems like a lot of these people just settled for the next person they ended up with
Reason to believe that every or any rejection can be a blessing in disguise
Kinda crazy to think about some ppl that wouldn't exist today if their parents or grandparents didn't reject them.
1:01 He lost nothing, as she was clearly in it for the money, 99% of women are.
Your math is a bit off, its more like 99.99, repeating of course, percent
Stop your cynicism, it's a big world full of 8 billion people, don't give up because of the few that may have disappointed you.
bro has not touched a woman in his life 😆
Damn you met every women on the planet?
@@jgrAnimations23 when you have 90% of men that are complaining about a similar problem(s) and difficulty when it comes to dating and/or women, odds are there is a correlation and it’s a highly accurate assessment…don’t need to meet every woman to tell they’re pretty much after the same endgame 🤷🏼♂️
Amazing how some of them in these stories don’t perceive talking romantically or being in romantic or intimate moments with people when IN a relationship as a issue. Just regrets. Be careful who you date is what these kinda stories teach you.
These stories are making my blood boiled lol. Women are such puzzles.
That's the Devil Inside of Her
Not just women.. ppl when they were young are stupid.
Prime age, high market value, shopping hard but no understanding of actual values.. so always this problem of chose too soon or overchoosy.
This video was a great reminder of why I'm going to stay single.
So many missed opportunities that could've turned out to be the greatest story of their lives. So many "could have been's" because we were too afraid to appear foolish. We all have these regrets. Both women and men should learn to take a chance on a possibility. You know in your gut if that person is good. See if it turns to great. Life is so short.
Remember guys, you still have to ask to be rejected. A women not asking you out is not a rejection.
As you grow, there will always be the “what if’s” lingering in your mind. Stop dwelling in the past, focus on the present. Be aware of your surroundings, you never know if someone or something special is right in front of you.
The guy saying “you blew it” sounds like he wants to get cheated on 🤨 next time around she’s gonna be like “am I blowing it again?” Lol
Yes, I rejected someone and he went to jail for sexually assaulting his family member for 7 years. It was a massive nuke dodged.
I never asked her, and she never asked me, but she dropped mad hints that she was into me. She was a year older than me. At the time, I was in a ridiculous loves-me-loves-me-not dance with another girl who I later found out was a compulsive liar, even to me, so I didn't think about any other girl at the time. My friend was always good to me though and very supportive, even cooked for me when I visited her at her college campus one weekend. Anyway, after that was said and done, I ended up at a different college and we all moved on with our lives.
15 years later, she and I married different people and are happy. We haven't spoken in years, but I still wonder what could have been if I had been smart enough to cut off a toxic high school relationship sooner.
Thinking of other people while married or in a relationship is craaaazy, they shouldn’t be the least bit jealous of what their partners choose to do just for that
Story 16 seems like the genuine article. She didn't turn the guy down at the bus stop for any other reason than loyalty, and she's not leading her husband on by dreaming of another guy.
That kind of devotion is rare. :)
"I couldn't dare a ginger"
Fair tbh
Bro. Stevie ray Vaughan is my literal guitar and life hero. Did not expect to hear his name in one of these videos lol. 🐐 🎸
I rejected a guy because I couldn’t deal with the age difference even when he was only two years younger than me. I was traumatised. I didn’t want to be like my uncle and aunt.
After that, he got into sports and became an entrepreneur. People say that he’s egoistic but i think he’s just done being what everybody wanted him to be. I admire him for that. I wish we could’ve ended up like friends. He ignores me completely now tho so that ship sailed
Girl number 4 deserved it for being superficial. Good on the guy for getting a bit of revenge. Petty, yes. But still funny
I was rejected once she brutally said no so here I am now training calisthenics for years she even said if we wanted t rethink it but I said
“No thanks”
The Fitzgerald Story was awesome! 😊
9:55 Bro wtf is your problem?
You're gonna keep telling the woman who choose YOU that she should've chosen the other guy because "he's better"? Doing that one time i can understand, but every fricking time? It shows me you don't really love her, you love the drama.
All the guys in this story dodged a massive bullet 😂
I don't feel bad for the women wo reject the men who became successful in the end, I like the fact that some of them stayed faithful to their partners.
I only know one girl from high school who probly doesnt. She made me seem like a stalker only because she wouldnt say Yes or No when i asked her if she'd wanna go on a date. It was always, " I'll think about it" or "maybe" i only asked 2 or 3 times which was once a week till i gave up.
Im so happy for the women saying no, they wouldve ruined the guys life.
I like story 17, she talks to guys she likes about freaking beast wars. If a girl can talk to me about how awful and yet funny character rat trap is, she’s got potential
really enjoyed this video, the stories were super relatable! but honestly, i think sometimes it's not just about the guy but also the timing. like, there are moments when we might be too focused on other things to see a good opportunity. ever felt like we might miss out because we're not ready? i mean, it's all about personal growth. what do you guys think?
Last Story, she took advice from a friend who convinced her to not commit a mistake and instead made it worse as she proceeded to literally ignore him stepping on his feelings in the process hoping he will wait 🤡 and then even gets back with her horrible ex 🤡🤡
Its always nice when the crappy people vet themselves
Man most of these women are openly sharing the fact that they would rather have been with someone else other than their own boyfriends. Romance.
14:50 they really thought he’d come back to the store he got rejected at. Lol. They were both out of touch with the effects of rejection.
There was a chick I was in love with in middle school she never gave me the time of day now she’s a single mom with no high school diploma 😂
Rip 🤣😂😂
Sure she is
@@jgrAnimations23 cope
@@troigcyusa alpha male cringe
@@troigcyusa eww an alpha male🤮
this video is really thought-provoking and well done! i can totally relate to the idea of missed opportunities, but honestly, i think sometimes we romanticize those "what if" moments too much. maybe saying no was actually the best choice at the time? what do you all think?
I’m a girl I don’t regret it never been that type of individual, I look in the mirror and keep calm eventually and be myself, everything’s okay once you don’t overthink things! Find your own friendship where you don’t need to force nothing!
One thing in life i learned is if you're not there first option its not meant to be.
Is it me or these stories are either "stupid reason for a rejection but it wasn't me who rejected the guy" or "it was me personally but I had a good reason for rejection back then"?
Nah I think that’s the majority of these stories: a bunch of rationalizations for bitter old bettys
Story 3 was a good one. She made the correct decision.
These are a bit weird in the sense that most of them regret not being with a guy while being a relationship, isn’t that what you are suppose to do? Be loyal? I feel like I would be more proud about that, than regretting not dating some random girl. People are wild man.
I am girl I was confessed in high school by guy friend but I don’t know why but I felt nothing not joy, anger just nothingness. I really felt bad that I felt nothing because I know with a confession of love you are suppose feel something anything. The next day, I told the truth that I didn’t feel the same way and focusing on school and didn’t want to manipulate him he deserve better than that I seen that happen personally I didn’t want to do it on others. Months later, I went to a different community college then and found out from a former friend of his but a friend of mine that “He was a complete jerk in high school and I stopped being friends with him and he became even worse in community college the sister college of mine because his mom worked there. So I found out I dodged a bullet on that one. My heart was protecting me from someone not good for me.
lol This is rationalizing BS. You didn't know anything you aren't Miss Cleo the fortuen teller.
It's actually impressive how many women ruin their own lives by not giving themselves a chance by agreeing to one date.