I only know her from those youtube shorts that I would get a few years ago. It's wild that someone I thought was simply annoying because of her incorrect facts actually has so much more controversy going on
People are not as dumb as you paint them to be, minimal age on tiktok & yt is 13 and old people should know better to use tiktok and take fake medical trivia as FACTS and ACT ON IT. Getting outtaged over fake info on the internet is the dumbest thing i saw today. Duty fullfilled keyboard warrior, rest well.
its weird that you see someone on internet for a while and then they disappear from your socials only to show up on anarchist video with a satisfying downfall title lol
right! i only saw her videos when she first started and still had the long hair and did the mirror videos. so it's been years and years but i immediately recognized her
As someone with adhd, I can assure that 1: adhd does not make you racist 2: anyone with a job, regardless of adhd, should be checking their email. If you gotta job, you gotta check your email lol adhd isn't a excuse for shit, it's just a hurdle you need to overcome
I agree with #1, but ADHD can make it difficult for people to respond to emails or do many other things EVEN if they have a job. However, in this case it obviously seems like an excuse to get away with something and not the probable cause. 😭
@@curtisthatcher2577 do you have ADHD? I do and it can be debilitating. What you commented makes you look ignorant. ADHD isn't quirky or fun, it's a neurological disorder that makes day to day living difficult and in some bad cases almost impossible. She may be a terrible person and use it as an excuse, that doesn't make the disorder itself an excuse. Thank you for perpetuating this very unhelpful and very much hurtful stereotype.
@@sillyshark-s4s i have ADHD and is just recently on medication, i got diagnosed late and thru out my life even while struggling i was never a racist and ALWAYS checked my email from important senders, because i always see the notifications whenever. So her reasoning is actually damaging for the ADHD community
As someone with ADHD and knows a lot of people with ADHD, it can be really hard to remember to do things like check emails without help, but both me and my friends/family have ways to remind us (such as alarms, sticky notes, etc.) to check emails since it is important. We don't use ADHD as an excuse; when we mess up we let them know why we did but we still apologize
@@curist8411 This isn't excusing anything she did, but there are very different types of memory issues. With ADHD you have a ton of problems remembering tasks, but are great at remembering things like movie scenes, book sentences etc. Those are different parts of the brain that keep those memories, just like people with aging dementia usually have short term memory issues long before the long term memories are affected.
knowing she took off posting "social engineering" tricks her saying she has memory issues might just be another "social engineering" skill (she's a manipulator)
@@maddyc2412 most of his content is about his cat or bringing fast food secrets to life, he has some of the most original content on the platform and he doesn't react to content as much as he gives a response to it
Damn, that tantrum in the car was something else. I have diagnosed ADHD aswell, so honestly, yes remembering stuff can be very hard but if youre gonna promise something to the entire internet you better make sure to keep it. Living with ADHD can be hard, but not impossible and you cant blame everything on it.
even if she actually has ADHD it just comes off as super dishonest when she made a huge deal about how she's going to make it right by promoting a black creator and adhd or not, completely not prioritizing any aspect of working with her at all, even just an email saying "we're still doing this, I'm just dealing with stuff right now"
I have ADHD too but I do try to deliver if I say I'll do something at a specific time. If I was late at doing something I would still try to deliver ASAP and not let it drag out to the point someone does make seven videos on it or has the chance to complain multiple times. Also don't think her screaming about it and not just calmly explaining helped matters. Comes across as just using ADHD or whatever else a person deals with as a crutch or to gain sympathy.
I wholeheartedly forgot about her. I'm so glad she's having this downfall, ngl. I never found her life hacks super accurate, but they were interesting enough to keep people engaged. It'd be a 100% more cool, if she was creative enough to create her own scripts. Like it's one thing to read an article, get info from it, and use it in a video (in your own words obviously). A completely different thing to steal someone's article, find the info interest then use it as a script word for word and claim it as your own.
@@thempressevergreen The only good thing she ever did was informing everyone in the world that instead of flipping the food to turn it, you can flip the pan.
As somebody with ADHD, I completely understand the forgetfulness and time blindness. It's not something we can control and it does cause us to fuck up on occasion. That's not the issue, it's the way she's saying it. Nobody is going to listen to somebody screaming something, because that's an incredibly disrespectful and unproductive way to communicate. Don't post shit like this while angry, it'll only make things worse. That video would have received a lot less negative attention if she'd toned it down. But she didn't.
Yeah… I can easily lose track of time (not due to ADHD it just kinda happens) and yeah; it’s a pain the the ass, but just refusing to do anything about it annoys people. It happens and that’s okay, but if someone does wait way too long to do something, even if it’s because of time blindness, an apology would still be nice, especially when it affects other people.
I have the opposite issue. I have time anxiety. Time goes way too fast for me and I never loose track of it. I tweak a lot on how much I can cram in a day and how long it takes for each task.
staying relevent after fame is easy all you got to do is follow this 5 steps 1. stay away from controvercial topics 2. be kind 3. dont be racist 4. dont touch kids 5. dont start a crypto
Can't relate to 4 hr essays but I when a video is anything below 5 mins there's no chance I'm gonn watch it but anything over 30 mins is being added to playlist and watched Also how does anyone else manage to watch Oppenheimer with the attention spans they got??
It’s like she keeps missing quick save after quick save and the game is giving her chances to save her characters but she eventually just kills all of them it’s crazy😭
@kingkoof116 No they aren’t giving her chance after chance. They asked her to apologize. Her mistake was thinking that was ever what they really wanted.
@@Alex-tm4th You're complaining about someone in the comment section of a UA-cam video. You clearly need to log off, go outside, touch grass and hug a tree. After that, go take your meds, because you clearly forgot to
11:50 YOU CANT BLAME EVERYTHING ON ADHD I HAVE ADHD AND I WOULD NEVER FORGET ABOUT IT BECAUSE ITS A GIANT CONTROVERSY ON THE INTERNET AND I WOULD BE TO PARANOID DONT GIVE ADHD A BAD REP JUST CAUSE YOU CAN OWN UP TO YOUR MISTAKES
@collector153 my ex and I have ADHD, too. Mine is much more severe but I chose to learn about my brain and how to leverage my unique "quirks". I made it a habit to not leave the house without a pen and notebook (literally the only thing I won't forget on my way to the car... Without keys lol), start showing up places 45 min early so I wouldn't be late, etc. I recognized the impact my ADHD was causing to other aspects and people in my life, I didn't like what I saw, and I worked my butt off making changes. My ex however. Boy oh boy. He recognizes it's a problem but I feel like he's learned that he can hide behind "I'm ADHD" and have other's adjust and cater to him. It's actually why we didn't work out. Some people would rather play a victim, hiding behind a diagnosis and blame everyone else instead of taking accountability and rising to the occasion. It's sad but unfortunately more common than you'd think. :/
I have diagnosed ADHD but when I forget something, I don't have a screaming hissy fit. I say "oh golly jee. I forgot to eat for several days. I'll go make a sandwich" (I'm British we all talk like this.)
To be fair, someone didn’t make 7 videos calling you a racist and ruining what you tried to fix because you didn’t eat. I also have ADHD, and not checking my email is something I’m incredibly guilty of. I’ve gone weeks without checking it causing me to turn in assignments late. Especially with everything that was going on with her and the controversy I wouldn’t be surprised if she missed her emails for a month. I think the other person over reacted, and because onlyjayus clearly has anger issues I could totally see this as something that someone who can’t properly manage their anger would do. Because you don’t try to fix this with anger issues, you try to make yourself feel better. And let’s not forget the other person did this same exact thing, 7 times, not because she was called a racist or had what reputation she was trying to fix get destroyed, because she didn’t respond to her emails.
@@boblobster5126im not good at checking my emails, but there’s something called notifications. I have ADHD as well (medically diagnosed) although im not that impacted by it. If i do something i shouldnt because of it, i own up to it, i dont act like the other person is a bad person for being upset with me. Obviously i expect some understanding, but still. Also in this case, there’s a very high chance jayus was just trying to pull a fast one, considering she showed no sincere remorse for what she said. And even if she did intend to collab, it was her responsibility to follow through, and not crash out when the other person called them racist (something they are right to assume given previous evidence), for failing to do so.
I always hated her stupid pop-psych segments “life hacks”..they were always like she attended 1 intro psych class and spewed the most basic watered down psych concepts and made it her own personality.
She made her entire career off reading recycled screenshots of shitty lifehack threads from 4chan and Reddit like it was her own content. People did the exact same thing with icebergs and creepypastas, but she was somehow even more obnoxious about it
@@ohheyemmi Right? It's like the people who can't have a conversation without making pop culture references. Making Rick and Morty your entire personality is just sad.
Just to pop this here - she had a sh!t life growing up
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because? You think people should be infallible? I'll drop you a hint: no one is infallible. I read what she did.. And I have to say... I make racist comments. I don't mean any of them. I like how dark they are and how ridiculous the utterance sound once you hear them back. I regularly have that kind of banter with all my friends. We love how absurd it is that there are people who actually believe those things. But I know how it can be misconstrued or taken personally by fragile people.. Note, someone leaked personal chats.. Context is important and we have none for the messages. She was bashing on another person, but conveniently the other side's interaction was omitted from the leak. I don't think any of the things she did so far warrants people calling for her removal off a platform.. You see.. The baker down the street who slapped his kid in anger when their kid accidentally dropped their vase is still serving bread.. Should we destroy their life over a mistake? Give people the room and opportunity to grow. Stop being so vindictive like you're all saints without sin.
I'm from Brazil and I work with comedians. The amount of jokes that they take from Facebook/Instagram memes is absurd. I know one comedian in particular that his whole show it's just memes, he tells the meme and that's it. He is one of the most well-paid comedians here..... That says a lot...
I knew someone who wanted to become a social media influencer. First she asked us to engage and comment to her posts with the promise of links for freebies. Her followers grew exponentially. With that rise in fame, she took in paid content review and needed even more engagement. Then she took jokes and memes from our group chat and posted it outside. People think they are sooo funny and smart lmao. Then the groupchat got disbanded due to drama (from who else) and her social media posts became boring and bland.
Gotta hate it when ppl using ADHD or other mental health issue as an excuse esp when they are overexaggerating it. Ppl with actual ADHD and want/are responsible and sound ppl would not use that excuse, I think most of them would just bury it deep within them so they can actually work and earn money.
as a neurodivergent person myself (specifically im autistic, but i also come from a lineage of people with adhd), my issue with that situation was less of her using adhd as an excuse, but rather her not clarifying her disorder to her collaborators AND also not taking accountability for her actions . . . i leave messages on read all the time myself, and i can confirm that its quite hard to always remember to respond to things on time since my mind always had a bunch of thoughts going on at once. but i still try my best to respond when i can and actually *apologize* and properly explain when any sort of issue happens … not record myself crying and screaming as a sour attempt at accountability. even just seeing that few-second clip gave me SO much second hand embarrassment i had to pause the video. its crazy
@@yukimisouzou3036 i have diagnosed adhd and it’s hard but it’s not as if i can’t function so her using it as an excuse makes me sad because it paints us with it in a bad light.
11:39 as someone with adhd… This makes me VERY upset If you know you have adhd and you know your gonna forget, do something about it, I’ve learned from experience “it’s because of my adhd” won’t work
I'm 21, and just found out i have adhd, recently Lost's of family stuff, but and i started to think of stuff over the course of my life and why I'm just finding out now, and how it effected things and signed myself up with help i need despite how its going to change things now when it should have been corrected but, now im making instant chances, to better myself and owning to my mistakes, with out telling others, i have it, cause i won't make excuses just cause i didn't know. Instead im seeking help and bettering myself, too just watch this video now after just finding out is mind-blowing to me
As someone who has possible ADHD(?), I get anxious everyday thinking if I really forget something. I lose focus most of the time to the point that it made people think I'm dumb for forgetting stuff easily. I can't even solve a math equation using my brain coz I get distracted and forget easily, losing count. I had to use fingers. I'm also super hyper. Very hyper. It also caused me to have problems with socializing with my peers. Having this type of thing makes me hate myself. Even though I forget easily, especially with plans. I always find ways to solve it. Having this type of stuff isn't an excuse.
@@Before_GTA_VI you’re one of the first people I’ve seen to say something like this and it’s really refreshing to see. I feel like there’s too many people with a super defeatist attitude towards their mental issues who just give up on trying to move past them or are to busy letting them rule their lives. It’s hard, it sucks, but we can always pick things back up and keep moving forward
I really hate when people blame everything they do on neurodivergence. “Oh, it’s my ADHD” “Oh, it’s my autism” “Oh, it’s my dyscalculia” PLEASE. SHUT UP. NEURODIVERGENCE ISN’T ONE OF THOSE CUTE LITTLE BLUE SLIPS OF PAPER YOU GET WHEN YOU’RE TARDY TO SCHOOL.
@@merryavant lately on snap shes been posting more "risky" Pics of herself. So thats probably why she stills gains followers cause shes showing some stuff she knows people would love to see
@@MrShanester117 Right, like - on the surface I can get a laugh out of it, but buying a book that helps you analyze and work through your own internalized racism is actually a great step into not failing. A person who realizes they need help not being racist and takes action is a person who's improving.
I have memory issues myself, but that collaboration was important and I work really hard not to forget important things. Especially when it comes to any “deals” I make. She really dropped the ball.
I am halfway through the video, and I honestly can only think "Why? Why do I even bother? I can just turn off the pc and all the drama is gone." Internet influencers are taking so much space that we rather make an entire biography of someone that became famous for saying "Did you know you can flip things in a pan just by flipping the pan?" than mind our own business and do whatever makes us happy. Not shaming the Internet Anarchist, what he does is basically journalism, I respect that.
@@zetto156 she never had a Rolls-Royce, she just attached some lights to her car celling I think it's was a red Honda at the time(2021 April). Btw she just got a new car like month ago but I'm not sure what brand it is
Arguing copying creators on the internet is bad and called out, on platforms which are just built off the trend of creators copying each other, is the wildest part. She is just mad because her content is no longer trending, which is a problem she created.
OnlyJayus grew up in my town. She was adopted, and for some reason she didn't go to the same school as her siblings, but they went to the same school as me, and they were all incredibly stuck up rich kids. None of them were my age, but my younger sister was in the same grade as one of their girls, who bullied my sister. I'm not surprised she turned out this way.
@@GThunder_Gaming I'm guessing her adoptive/foster family didn't treat her the same as the rest of the kids, there was some reason (one I never knew) that they didn't go to the same school, the family had a huge Mercedes van that they took all their kids to school in, but Bella (OnlyJayus) was never with them when they'd drop off and pick up the other kids.
I used to work with a guy who would say the most heinous stuff, but according to the supervisor it was ok because he had ADHD. Joke's on him, I have it as well. Doesn't make me treat people like crap.
Anyone remember when OnlyJayus dated that other UA-camr Mattie? The relationship went 100-0 so quick! Everyone was shipping them for ages, so they dated and it all seemed good till it wasn’t apparently. Then they broke up and that was it. Now I can see why, Mattie seems so much happier with the new girlfriend.
Projection. If people do a thing, they usually assume other people capable of it too. If you're rational and kind, you presume most other people to also be ratonal and kind. If you hate yourself, you assume other people hate you. If you're cheating on your partner, you assume they could also be cheating on you etc
They can’t help it because they’re egos are too big. Like they already got away with it so they put attention to someone else thinking they are untouchable.
honestly as someone with adhd i understand jayus' reaction to that callout about missing emails.... but she really should've kept that video private. maybe sent it to someone she trusted and gotten help making a better response.
@@TheFiteShow meh, i understand marginally - i also have adhd and really bad time blindness so i forget stuff all the time. but i think that if the entire internet accuses you of being racist, and you say “i’m going to do x to fix this!” you can’t just… *not* do x, and then get mad when people are upset that you didn’t.
@@dawdle9175 It’s just a little insane to me people can be so entitled, the black creators on this situation are completely delusional and weaponized by their ideology to seek to seek validation by humiliating and shaming white people. It’s such a blatantly arrogant and entitled attitude no one really points out.
@@dawdle9175 I would 100% agree if it wasn't for when she said her address got leaked and she was busy with moving, that 110% takes priority over addressing the damn internet, and besides for something like that if she had rushed to get it done before moving everyone would complain it was rushed, yeah she should have let the other creator know but one/two weeks is nothing, especially when you're mid moving house.
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@@dawdle9175 yeah.. I agree.. Not doing what you say you're going to do is bad. But.. I don't even understand why you would propose doing such a thing... Sticks and stones...
Tiktok users complaining about stolen content is hilarious. Most of what is posted is copied and repeated ad nauseum or a "trend" done over and over and over again with usually very little variation.... so copies.
21:20 dang- this alex guy really did some digging. respect to him for using his intelligence and staying chill the whole time. even observing the resolution of the screenshot is super impressive. he deserves a follow from me!!
Go viral -> dye/cut hair-> buy influencer items -> Self-destruct. I love to see it, time and time again. What was that definition again? Something something but expecting a different result? Cluster b is one hell of a drug.
I think onlyjayus being such a hot head and always playing games really ruins it the vibe. Onlyjayus then plays the victim, then the hero, and then the bystander in all conflict. They are only human, but then again, we never see improvement in their character. If we do, it is minor, then we see a melt down. I think that the fact onlyjayus cannot commit to becoming someone they promise to be ruins every chance of redemption. Overall, onlyjayus is a strange person.
@griffinmeyer37 onlyjayus uses They/Them pronouns. Even if they did something bad, that doesn't give anyone the right t misgender them. If you were a man, and I got mad at you for something you did wrong, does that mean I get to call you a woman and use She/Her pronouns for you?
Ive had severe ADHD my whole life. Its made everything i do a struggle. Every job i work every task i do is 10x harder. I have BPD and generalized anxiety. But i have never said to anyone else besides my mother "its because my ADHD" i do everything in my power to not let my mental health control everything and i definitely dont use it as an excuse for my shitty actions.
Literally the exact same besides the fact that my personality disorder isn’t BPD but Antisocial. I 100% agree, blaming your mental health on stuff you can learn to deal with is childish asf.
I 100% agree!! I also have SEVERE ADHD, and it makes things so so difficult! But I have NEVER used the “it’s my ADHD” excuse except towards my best friend and it’s usually as a joke and I for sure haven’t used it as an excuse to throw a temper-tantrum.
They don't teach, they indoctrinate in ways where everything is forced making it more likely for people to do the opposite of what they're taught. They teach not to bully but teach otherwise and encourage it under the hood.
As someone with ADHD, seeing people use ADHD as an excuse when they get rightfully confronted for making mistakes annoys me, like go ahead, say beforehand "Hey I have ADHD, it means XYZ", but don't come and say you've got ADHD A F T E R you get done for something
Yeah "it makes me forget to do things, but yet remembers to keep posting videos. Yes I can overlook things but I also be responsible and do things to help set alarms, big post-it notes on doors as I head out. Calenders. There are ways, especially if it's something you promised to do and especially if you were using it as a way out. That's the one thing you'd think she'd try and remember
""Most of her recent UA-cam videos have terrible like to dislike ratios."" How do see the number of dislikes? It doesn't appear for me and I want to see this resource again.
Ngl for how people talk about OnlyJayus you'd think she did a massive crime and went unpunished or something, then you look into it and it's her being racist in a private conversations, being a general dick, and plagiarizing other people's work- which I'm not condoning. She's a scummy person. I'm not wishing her downfall, I just think she's just an idiot, y'know? People like that cause their own "downfalls". Kinda crazy people have such little to do day to day to wish the downfall on a random woman they'll never met. It's all so visceral for what's minor/petty shit tbh. It feels like people are more comfortable in 2025 with the thought of a youtuber/favorite creator being a p e d o or an abuser, or a racist- than a plagiarizer, or even worse annoying.
They are acting as if she committed crimes against humanity or smt. Some of the stuff she did is not even a big deal. To forget to look at your emails while moving houses in a hurry because you got doxxed is totally normal - With or without adhd. To accuse someone of racism because of the delay is absurd and anti professional. Anyways, ppl could put that level of commitment and attention to details to politics.
Microcosm of this channel ngl. The downside of doing a video every week is you really scrap the bottom of the barrel but have to present it as if it came from the top shelf.
That last sentence doesn’t make any sense when you have numerous people ridicule the likes of Dr.Disrespect; EDP, Kris Tyson, Mini Ladd, Cody Ko, Sienna Mae, Colleen Ballenger, Shane Dawson, Onision, etc.
Tbh if it weren't for the videos about her playgerizing, I would not realize she was playgerizing. If you showed me the videos that she playgerized, I would've just thought that they both Googled their information. Also, I apologize for bad spelling, I am very shitty at spelling some words
Damn, dude hitting her with the "the screenshot you showed has a higher resolution than any phone from the supposed time frame was capable of displaying" is another level of evidence gathering. Mad respect bro.
Yeah so why are we attacking her. She's still basically a child. This is too much pressure. Why why why. She's just a person who is trying to learn but people demand things happen at an unreasonable pace. She's a person mate
Call someone out for plagiarism (they aren't even plagiarizing) and then people look into your past and realized you've been plagiarizing your entire career
She totally plagiarized it and i'm about to go on a drunken rant here, but I've always wondered where do you draw the line of plagiarism? There's this thing called the library of babel. It's a collection of an infinite random combination of words where everything that can possibly be written already exists. Everything that was created in this video was already written by the library of babel almost 100 years ago. So would this video be considered plagiarism since everything said in it already exists word for word? I don't know, maybe I just want an excuse to talk about it and my vision is kind of blurry oops hold on my fish sticks are done brb.
@@Horible4 I mean, there's only so much 'plagiarizing' you can do when every single person in your creative neighborhood is just word-for-word reading the same 4chan/reddit screenshots as you. Is Wendigoon a plagiarist for making a career quoting iceberg threads from ten years ago? Would someone be plagiarizing Wendigoon by quoting that same thread in their own video? It's all lazy slop content, there's no need to act like any one person in the neighborhood is any more upstanding than anyone else.
@@Pinkie-Red-Studios same, I'm still subscribed to her but I'm reconsidering. I gave her a superchat on a short she did a few days ago saying goodbye to tiktok, but it's blocked or she banned by account. lol ok(?)
I've been a fan of her since 2021 and I never thought I'd become so obsessed with a content creator, never been a whole week without thinking abt her.. I probably have some issues
Christ help me, this is the most ad breaks I’ve ever experienced on a 25 min video. They’re like every 45 seconds, the slog continues but I don’t know how long I can keep holding on…
@@Taladrane most people watch YT in the IOS app these days, much harder to get a free trustworthy adblocker on here. But yeah Firefox + Ublock Origin has been a godsend for me on my laptop. I haven’t gotten a single ad on this video and I don’t have adblocker on my phone. OP you had some awful luck.
That the edits are clean. just like they are here. i dont care who did it. we need to support editors more because they never get shown the love they deserve. and it does make a huge difference in the video industry.@@ronnydee34
The exact opposite happened to me... watched one clip and immediately felt the charisma, been watching her videos for 3 years now since I was 14 and I can't stop, even though ik she's a bad person
@@Itsmaxwhodiditshe is polluting your mind with information she have already stolen from other content creators she don’t credit pretty much has brainwashed you
@@qvzxn-8d9j06 yknow his Amazon Prime show Beast Games? not only is it dystopian, weird and disturbing (like he's pretty much just the Front Man from Squid Game at this point), but there have been DOZENS of allegations that the contestants were barely fed, some were denied things like medical treatment, tampons, etc. and some were even hospitalized due to injuries sustained on the show. on top of that, he's hired several PDF files while KNOWING that they were RSO's, he's engaged in s3xual talk involving minors, he's hosted illegal lotteries, he preys on his child audience and indoctrinates them to buy merch and chocolate etc with the bait of money...then of course there's the whole Lunchly thing, what with being unhealthy despite him claiming it to be healthy, and loads of the cheese being moldy...he also fakes videos with CGI, including his Philanthropy videos, which is just fucked because he's literally lying about doing charity work...he's a terrible, terrible person, money-driven and power-driven, hiding behind the belief that being charitable and philanthropic means he can't be shitty.
Oh I love to the see the day he falls but like the comment above you said, he’ll need to start a crypto and scam his followers, be racist, be mean, support the rainbow people, dive head first into controversial topics, oh and touch kids but i think he already does that.
@@Mal-honey For real. If ut was truly that important to her, she would have checked her emails in spite of her ADHD because she would have remembered the second she had a calm moment. But she didn't care. She never did.
Ive had memory loss issues from an attack in Afganistan on my second deployment. You know what I did? I buy daily organizer calendars and always keep it in my pack. Dr. Appointments, reminders to call family and friends, my phone number and address, and peoples names. But she's had ADHD her WHOLE life and doesn't know how to adapt? I call bull on that one
@@Boe_Jidens_Hair_Sniffing I got ADHD and sometimes my techniques for remembering don't work and I forget. So, what do I do? I just accept it, apologise if needed and work to fix the situation. It's pretty simple.
@@klaytonalexandermatthews2047 Google Keep Notes is a good app that I use for reminders, documenting events, etc. I would highly recommend it for people with STML or ADHD. That and the pocket calendar that has pages for each day is a great combo I found out
Did you do it while moving houses because in a hurry because your address got doxxed, so you were receiving threats and concern for you and your family? Context matter too. Plus in which professional setting is normal to react to a delay in answering to your email with publicly exposing the person as racist? That part I honestly don’t think the fault is at OJ.
I think the thing about dark humour is this, yes some people engage in dark humour about their situation (disabilities, trauma, gender, sexuality, race) and this almost all people would find it ok (though some may ask not to have it around them). But when it comes from outside the situation its harder, because yes some people might feel "these are jokes I make so its fine" but some might be feeling "I've heard these jokes before to belittle me". When its dark humour coming from within the situation we can be more sure that the empathy and understanding is there, that there is no ill intent. But when its outside the situation how can we know they understand,? or even worse if they mean it in caring way at all? Not exactly dark humour I remember frequently joking around that "everyone was a little autistic" and I didn't think much of it until I tried to tell a friend I was autistic and she said it to me as a way of telling me I was wrong. I remember being so offput and upset because I didn't know why it bothered me until years later she actually apologised, she'd been studying psychology and remembered the conversation. When your existing in the situation, the belittling humour is a way to downplay things, make bad or hard things a joke, but from those outside the situation it makes our problems small without a true understanding of how big they are.
The important thing about dark humor isn't the topic, it's whether or not it's just meant. I know a guy who's autistic (I'm too dw) and who's special interest is legitmately history/military and makes edgy ww2 jew jokes. Has always been the most welcoming person towards women and gay people and dosen't get prissy when it's "his" group being insulted. I trust that guy but the dudes making "little dark age" edits give me the creeps.
@chestnut4860 Its all context. You have the context so it makes it easier to accept if still a little offputting. When it comes to strongly personal things like disability or trauma the context for someone in that group is deep and layered. No one has to be ok with dark humour though... even if the speaker has the right context, I think people have the right to say "I know you don't mean it badly but that makes me uncomfortable" and be listened to. Of course online its harder and I don't expect people to please everyone but, a thought. After I wrote my original comment I summed up my thoughts about dark humour in a vague social media post that I want to share here: "We use dark humour to make our problems feel smaller. Others use humour to make our problems feel smaller. There is a difference, can you see it?"
This is why I've begun to distance myself from the gallows humor. It's just too messy and sensitive to shake a stick at---and asking everyone what their boundaries are so that you can confirm you can joke in front of them is would get extremely tiring after a while...
Yeah I don't believe you can make dark humour about something you have never experienced. That's just called being a shitty person, making jokes about sensitive topics
Seeing how OnlyJayus blamed that collab situation on her ADHD is so sad and ridiculous to me. I have a subgenre of ADHD and yes, I forget things too and I procrastinate and I missplace things and all that jazz, but I still remember to do them. That's why you set reminders on your phone and your calender. And that's why you write your tasks down on a white board or a sticky note or even your hand, so you don't forget to do them. I learned that ADHD is not a valid excuse for anything, so instead of trying to pin the blame on something else, you only have yourself to blame, and accept your poor decisions and mistakes.
Bruh wtf do you mean "subgenre of ADHD?" Everyone has different struggles and severities of adhd. Some of these strats work but they're not going to completely prevent issues... Hence that it's a disorder people struggle with to the point where they need medication to function. You don't know what it's like to actually struggle with it and try things to fix it that don't work. It's only not a valid excuse if you don't try to fix the problem at all.
She was doxxed, harrased and scared cause she didnt have an income anymore. If normally emails were at the bottom of her to do list, now it reeeally was
@ yeah that is what people seem to not understand. She was clearly going through it. Deserved or not, I don’t blame her for freaking out in her car like that.
Nothing said about that black girl coming up with any ideas for collab and she clearly just wanted a piggyback ride. So there was nothing to answer for really.
Girl.. cool, it works for you but it doesn't for everyone. I last checked my email in summer. I only just, watching this video remembered i have an email. And wtf is a "subgenre of ADHD"
WOW I was active on TikTok during her 2021 racism controversy, but somehow I completely missed ( or maybe forgot ) about her calling somebody a “n-word lover” like we’re back in the 30’s. Jesus Christ the fact people forgave her for that is upsetting
@MotzKotz3 way of usage and what words are used is completely a valid reason to go nuts wtf? "Then I ***** you and your family and *** your..." etc. (fill gaps) is only a string of words and shouldn't be bad too. Words are expression of your mind, what you say is completely a valid reason to be canceled bruh.
*Gets called out for not communicating through emails and people assume it's because she's just using POC as a way for people to get off her back* *Has the option to explain that it was due to her not checking her emails frequently and has ADHD* *Decides to scream like a child and tell people to F**k off* ...Yeah that checks out. Definitely what an adult and a person diagnosed with ADHD would do. Mhm. Totally makes sense /sar
As a disabled person who loves dark humor I agree that kind of a joke wouldn't upset me coming from most people, but when you have shown yourself to be a terrible person you can't blame people for giving you zero benefit of the doubt. People are gonna pick at any thread you give them, and I can't blame them.
And I'm black, I don't care if a horrible person said something racist to me. I don't like OnlyJayus because she just sucks. I don't care about dark humor or touchy jokes. I'm not moved by anything 99.9% of people say. My family are only people that say anything I consider. A bad person is a bad person, a bad person saying something bad should be expected.
@drjonesey5 you put your crappiness out there, expect people to comment on it. It didn't bother me, because I didn't know about her before this crap and I am gonna forget about her after, but I understand why she upset some people. it's great if you are able to ignore everyone, but not everyone can.
The fake pregnancy was the most painful mistake and so disrespectful to women and men who experience loss of their babas or people who are unable to have children.
I know how she did a few things wrong. But honestly, everyone is human. Whoever you are, we all have our own struggles. She has handled things in a questional way certain times, but nobody is perfect. I feel like socially attacking someone isn't helping anyone. If you disliked her, don't watch her content. She has the right to be upset when everyone is ridiculing her. She obviously has personal priorities and problems aside from social media, as does every creator. I don't believe in all the things she does / says. Some i totally disagree with. But she is a person too at the end of the day
I think another big Problem with OnlyJayus was the group of tiktoker friends she was in, they were pretty controversial as a whole and had a multiple dramatic situations with one another, falling out, break ups, ect. Oh yeah, plus OnlyJayus Posted a lot of Videos with false information that was just completely fake.
@@Itsmaxwhodiditif you don’t recall such events then you haven’t watched her since 2019 bc clearly a lot of people know about her breakup situation with Maddie, and the circle she’s been around, why do you feel the need to desperately defend a racist, she steals information from different content creators. You think you’re going to learn something from her, well youre not. Clearly you need some maturing to do because you still watch her, she doesn’t even average 1milliom views like she did back in 2022
Do you think OnlyJayus can make a comeback?
@@InternetAnarchist FIRST
No she can’t I honestly can’t believe her
@@Demon_slayer74 yh
ok
Is this a re-upload?
I don’t know why I’m so attracted to videos about the downfalls of people I know nothing about
I don't know why either but look up CreepShow Art if you don't know who that is. Her downfall was hilarious.
Bro, u can say that again 😂😂
It makes you feel better that at least 1 person has it worse than you.
SAME!
Same I love watching them
"The only people that talk about her are the people that hate her......Hi I'm the internet Anarchist"
Hi ... wtf hater name. So let me get this. ijetgemini8905, hmm, catchy.
@@ijetgemini8905 “and I hate her too” 🤣
😅😅😅
Gotta love the self-awareness lol
Little internet hateful fishwife bully isnt he... fr
when I saw this I said out loud "tf did she do now!" because I haven't seen anything about her in like a year
same!
Since her last "downfall"
Same here, she needs to get off the Internet and social media indefinitely
Facebook shorts still shows me some of her trash. she's still making content. she just wont go away
@@SuperLifestreamthat’s how i found out she’s still making content! i blocked her on fb the first time they tried to push her reels. no, thank you!
Also you missed the fact that SHE POSTED FALSE MEDICAL FACTS on the daily
im pretty sure one of the facts were was just so weird, it was like "if you are stressed, just think about s**" like what?
I only know her from those youtube shorts that I would get a few years ago. It's wild that someone I thought was simply annoying because of her incorrect facts actually has so much more controversy going on
Who in their right mind take medical facts from some tiktok girl who is clearly not a professional. This outrage shows stretch marks..
@ Oh I dont know maybe someone new to the internet, children and old people. The most vulnerable people on the planet
People are not as dumb as you paint them to be, minimal age on tiktok & yt is 13 and old people should know better to use tiktok and take fake medical trivia as FACTS and ACT ON IT. Getting outtaged over fake info on the internet is the dumbest thing i saw today. Duty fullfilled keyboard warrior, rest well.
Was she the "Did you know you can flip a pan by flipping the pan" girl?
@@nicolefrancisco4272 yes
@@ashleymurphy7614 makes sense with her lack of common sense
Ugh....don't remind me. I'm still suffering from brain cell loss because of that infinitely stupid video.
Lets just ignore the oil in the pan
@@shreyaskumar9175 I think about the oil in the pan every time I see the video. Whoooo cooks in a pan without adding oil????
Why is nobody talking about the guy who proved OnlyJayus's plagarism using reddit and freaking PIXEL RESOLUTION? The man's a genius
@kojimo5942 I think I actually saw his video a while back and I thought more people saw it.
Lmao yeah, absolute legend. Exposed her for the lying for attention piece of trash that she is.
Time stamp?
@@memyselfandi1511 21:48
@@memyselfandi1511 somewhere around 21:00 but you should still watch the whole vid
its weird that you see someone on internet for a while and then they disappear from your socials only to show up on anarchist video with a satisfying downfall title lol
That is so true, she hasn't been on my feed for months, now she's all of a sudden another one of those "exposed influencer" crap thing
so true!!
right! i only saw her videos when she first started and still had the long hair and did the mirror videos. so it's been years and years but i immediately recognized her
@@aluisfar4154 there was already a whole drama with her a year or two ago
Real
As someone with adhd, I can assure that
1: adhd does not make you racist
2: anyone with a job, regardless of adhd, should be checking their email. If you gotta job, you gotta check your email lol
adhd isn't a excuse for shit, it's just a hurdle you need to overcome
I agree with #1, but ADHD can make it difficult for people to respond to emails or do many other things EVEN if they have a job. However, in this case it obviously seems like an excuse to get away with something and not the probable cause. 😭
@ilovetheearth7065 i disagree. Thats just another way to use ADHD as an excuse. “I have ADHD so i wasn’t able to respond to your emails.”
@@curtisthatcher2577 do you have ADHD? I do and it can be debilitating. What you commented makes you look ignorant. ADHD isn't quirky or fun, it's a neurological disorder that makes day to day living difficult and in some bad cases almost impossible. She may be a terrible person and use it as an excuse, that doesn't make the disorder itself an excuse. Thank you for perpetuating this very unhelpful and very much hurtful stereotype.
@@sillyshark-s4s i have ADHD and is just recently on medication, i got diagnosed late and thru out my life even while struggling i was never a racist and ALWAYS checked my email from important senders, because i always see the notifications whenever. So her reasoning is actually damaging for the ADHD community
As someone with ADHD and knows a lot of people with ADHD, it can be really hard to remember to do things like check emails without help, but both me and my friends/family have ways to remind us (such as alarms, sticky notes, etc.) to check emails since it is important. We don't use ADHD as an excuse; when we mess up we let them know why we did but we still apologize
For someone with memory issues, she's really good at memorizing posts word for word
Loooooooool
@@curist8411 This isn't excusing anything she did, but there are very different types of memory issues. With ADHD you have a ton of problems remembering tasks, but are great at remembering things like movie scenes, book sentences etc.
Those are different parts of the brain that keep those memories, just like people with aging dementia usually have short term memory issues long before the long term memories are affected.
@@TemariNaraannaschatz Oh I know 100% I just thought it was funny lmao
knowing she took off posting "social engineering" tricks her saying she has memory issues might just be another "social engineering" skill
(she's a manipulator)
UMZU lol
I just automatically despise creators that repeatedly zoom in and out while filming themselves parroting shit in front of mirrors anyway.
Jordan the stallion of the only one i like
@@rare_name420 nah even he's not that good, he's not original at all and most of the time you can tell he's faking a reaction to stuff
@@maddyc2412 your clearly out of touch or need to touch grass.
@rare_name420 nah he's annoying asf with that "come here" stuff
@@maddyc2412 most of his content is about his cat or bringing fast food secrets to life, he has some of the most original content on the platform and he doesn't react to content as much as he gives a response to it
Her throwing a fit in her luxury car. Really irked me.
Right... months isn't a few hours. Few days or few weeks.. she's a liar and that blk dude shouldn't have helped her w an apology 😒
Entitled Privileged White Liberal Woman, that's what she is.
Amma throw fit on my 2000 Subaru and filmed it. :(
Jokes aside, I don't even have a car...
Another Entitled Privileged Whitegirl Liberal Throwing a Fit, she needs to Grow up.🤦
It’s like her tears are gold 😅
Why won't we go after our lying politicians like a tic tock creator? Maybe our priorities are out of whack
Fr world is collapsing but we care more about a tik tok creator
@@monikatiwari3117 how is the world collapsing? are you just mad at the 47th president or..
@Acheron-IX because it is
@@IsabelleSelimGallo i would love for someone to elaborate
@Acheron-IX everything happening around the world is more than enough elaboration unless you're a child and or live under a rock.
I blocked her once she started advocating for "preventative botox" to her mainly younger female audience.
Rightfully so, body modification is an endless pit which ruins everything.
@dj-protoOfficial it really has caused serious damage to several generations of young women.
I've never heard of that before! That's a horrible thing to advocate, as it doubtlessly could feed into self-image issues among young people.
Botox only ever makes people look older tbh I don't understand the point
The use of botox among grown adults is horrifying enough already. Advocating for *_children_* to be treated with that stuff is just plain insane.
Damn, that tantrum in the car was something else. I have diagnosed ADHD aswell, so honestly, yes remembering stuff can be very hard but if youre gonna promise something to the entire internet you better make sure to keep it. Living with ADHD can be hard, but not impossible and you cant blame everything on it.
even if she actually has ADHD it just comes off as super dishonest when she made a huge deal about how she's going to make it right by promoting a black creator and adhd or not, completely not prioritizing any aspect of working with her at all, even just an email saying "we're still doing this, I'm just dealing with stuff right now"
I have ADHD so I can speak for everyone that has it... this whole thing annoys me so much at the hypocrisy of these videos.
I have ADHD too but I do try to deliver if I say I'll do something at a specific time. If I was late at doing something I would still try to deliver ASAP and not let it drag out to the point someone does make seven videos on it or has the chance to complain multiple times. Also don't think her screaming about it and not just calmly explaining helped matters. Comes across as just using ADHD or whatever else a person deals with as a crutch or to gain sympathy.
Yeah, that's why i never make promises
I guess writing it down somewhere on the wall, or on a fridge, or on her phone wallpaper or anywhere else you can think of was simply too hard huh?
I wholeheartedly forgot about her. I'm so glad she's having this downfall, ngl. I never found her life hacks super accurate, but they were interesting enough to keep people engaged. It'd be a 100% more cool, if she was creative enough to create her own scripts. Like it's one thing to read an article, get info from it, and use it in a video (in your own words obviously). A completely different thing to steal someone's article, find the info interest then use it as a script word for word and claim it as your own.
It's also unbelievably lazy 😂 AI exists! She could have at least used that.
@@Miss_Kisa94 While I agree using Ai would have been better. It would still be incredibly lazy, since it requires no research or creativity.
@@thempressevergreen The only good thing she ever did was informing everyone in the world that instead of flipping the food to turn it, you can flip the pan.
@@thempressevergreen Agreed but it's at least something.
"I'm so glad she's having this downfall" is a hilarious sentence.
As somebody with ADHD, I completely understand the forgetfulness and time blindness. It's not something we can control and it does cause us to fuck up on occasion. That's not the issue, it's the way she's saying it.
Nobody is going to listen to somebody screaming something, because that's an incredibly disrespectful and unproductive way to communicate. Don't post shit like this while angry, it'll only make things worse.
That video would have received a lot less negative attention if she'd toned it down. But she didn't.
Yeah… I can easily lose track of time (not due to ADHD it just kinda happens) and yeah; it’s a pain the the ass, but just refusing to do anything about it annoys people. It happens and that’s okay, but if someone does wait way too long to do something, even if it’s because of time blindness, an apology would still be nice, especially when it affects other people.
Thank you for saying this. People being mean because of that makes me dizzy from anger and hurt, even though not directed towards me....
I have the opposite issue. I have time anxiety. Time goes way too fast for me and I never loose track of it. I tweak a lot on how much I can cram in a day and how long it takes for each task.
I dont have adhd but I am also very forgetful. I agree with you that she was overreacting and acting kind of crazy.
staying relevent after fame is easy all you got to do is follow this 5 steps
1. stay away from controvercial topics
2. be kind
3. dont be racist
4. dont touch kids
5. dont start a crypto
@@novazaz sometimes ego and greed blinds people from these obvious things, sadly.
youtuber don't break one of these rules (IMPOSSIBLE CHALLENGE)
Instructions unclear: I am now serving a life sentence.
@ what did u do
@@refluxking i can name some people but yeah but not many sadly
I HATE that 8min is considered "long form," in 2025. Over here watching 4hr video essays lmao.
the few 🎉😂
Those are rookie numbers mate, bump it up.
Can't relate to 4 hr essays but I when a video is anything below 5 mins there's no chance I'm gonn watch it but anything over 30 mins is being added to playlist and watched
Also how does anyone else manage to watch Oppenheimer with the attention spans they got??
I remember watching one guy which would do livestreams assembling 3D printer kits and some of those streams would be over 10 hours long.
@@CuriousLayperson Well I watch 24 hr live streams during lunch
It’s like she keeps missing quick save after quick save and the game is giving her chances to save her characters but she eventually just kills all of them it’s crazy😭
That's a great comparison, I love it😂
Go outside and stop relating everything to video games.
@kingkoof116
No they aren’t giving her chance after chance. They asked her to apologize. Her mistake was thinking that was ever what they really wanted.
@@Alex-tm4thI personally found this comment funny, relatable and a real neat simile. whats wrong with it?
@@Alex-tm4th
You're complaining about someone in the comment section of a UA-cam video. You clearly need to log off, go outside, touch grass and hug a tree. After that, go take your meds, because you clearly forgot to
11:50 YOU CANT BLAME EVERYTHING ON ADHD I HAVE ADHD AND I WOULD NEVER FORGET ABOUT IT BECAUSE ITS A GIANT CONTROVERSY ON THE INTERNET AND I WOULD BE TO PARANOID DONT GIVE ADHD A BAD REP JUST CAUSE YOU CAN OWN UP TO YOUR MISTAKES
@collector153 my ex and I have ADHD, too. Mine is much more severe but I chose to learn about my brain and how to leverage my unique "quirks". I made it a habit to not leave the house without a pen and notebook (literally the only thing I won't forget on my way to the car... Without keys lol), start showing up places 45 min early so I wouldn't be late, etc. I recognized the impact my ADHD was causing to other aspects and people in my life, I didn't like what I saw, and I worked my butt off making changes. My ex however. Boy oh boy. He recognizes it's a problem but I feel like he's learned that he can hide behind "I'm ADHD" and have other's adjust and cater to him. It's actually why we didn't work out. Some people would rather play a victim, hiding behind a diagnosis and blame everyone else instead of taking accountability and rising to the occasion. It's sad but unfortunately more common than you'd think. :/
@collector153 exactly! Own up to your mistakes and handle things. Don't blame it on ADHD. I have it and manage very well despite that fact
I have diagnosed ADHD but when I forget something, I don't have a screaming hissy fit. I say "oh golly jee. I forgot to eat for several days. I'll go make a sandwich"
(I'm British we all talk like this.)
You don’t forget to eat for several days.
To be fair, someone didn’t make 7 videos calling you a racist and ruining what you tried to fix because you didn’t eat. I also have ADHD, and not checking my email is something I’m incredibly guilty of. I’ve gone weeks without checking it causing me to turn in assignments late. Especially with everything that was going on with her and the controversy I wouldn’t be surprised if she missed her emails for a month. I think the other person over reacted, and because onlyjayus clearly has anger issues I could totally see this as something that someone who can’t properly manage their anger would do. Because you don’t try to fix this with anger issues, you try to make yourself feel better. And let’s not forget the other person did this same exact thing, 7 times, not because she was called a racist or had what reputation she was trying to fix get destroyed, because she didn’t respond to her emails.
Boblobster is telling truth
@@boblobster5126im not good at checking my emails, but there’s something called notifications. I have ADHD as well (medically diagnosed) although im not that impacted by it. If i do something i shouldnt because of it, i own up to it, i dont act like the other person is a bad person for being upset with me. Obviously i expect some understanding, but still. Also in this case, there’s a very high chance jayus was just trying to pull a fast one, considering she showed no sincere remorse for what she said. And even if she did intend to collab, it was her responsibility to follow through, and not crash out when the other person called them racist (something they are right to assume given previous evidence), for failing to do so.
Bit different if you were being publicly attacked for forgetting something though?
When she was in the car screaming about “TIIIME BLIIIIND!!!!” I swear i was about to cry😭😭😭😭😭shordy tweaking😭😭😭
I hope it's not a Rolls Royce seeing the stars up on the roof 😂
Because time blindness is a real thing? 💀💀 dude just do your research
@@kittysoftpaws3677 it’s really not..
@kittysoftpaws3677 it's real, but it's such a non-issue that it's embarrassing to use it as an excuse. There are 1000 ways to work around it.
@@kittysoftpaws3677 she definitely didn’t have it
I always hated her stupid pop-psych segments “life hacks”..they were always like she attended 1 intro psych class and spewed the most basic watered down psych concepts and made it her own personality.
She made her entire career off reading recycled screenshots of shitty lifehack threads from 4chan and Reddit like it was her own content. People did the exact same thing with icebergs and creepypastas, but she was somehow even more obnoxious about it
Right? Like every video amounted to "Hey I heard this cool thing on Reddit." If Buzzfeed was a person.
@@ohheyemmi Right? It's like the people who can't have a conversation without making pop culture references. Making Rick and Morty your entire personality is just sad.
Her life isn’t ruined. The internet is ruined for her. She can just stay off and live happily
She's literally a child who discovered a little bit of fame and got cocky.
@@victherocker i agree with you
Yeah, that's the dangerous thing with social media and fame overall, their perception of reality fucks off
She calls people n!gg3r lovers I'm on her side for no reason.
Just to pop this here - she had a sh!t life growing up
because?
You think people should be infallible?
I'll drop you a hint: no one is infallible.
I read what she did.. And I have to say...
I make racist comments. I don't mean any of them. I like how dark they are and how ridiculous the utterance sound once you hear them back.
I regularly have that kind of banter with all my friends. We love how absurd it is that there are people who actually believe those things.
But I know how it can be misconstrued or taken personally by fragile people..
Note, someone leaked personal chats.. Context is important and we have none for the messages.
She was bashing on another person, but conveniently the other side's interaction was omitted from the leak.
I don't think any of the things she did so far warrants people calling for her removal off a platform..
You see.. The baker down the street who slapped his kid in anger when their kid accidentally dropped their vase is still serving bread..
Should we destroy their life over a mistake?
Give people the room and opportunity to grow. Stop being so vindictive like you're all saints without sin.
I hated her from the moment she told me I could just “Flip the pan, and not the food”
Bro💀
I knew before her and honestly for omelets it’s amazing
@ get better and learn how to flip instead of getting oil and grease everywhere with that 😂😂😂
@@HalfBlaked97 are u talking to me or the other person?
@ if your cooking with that much oil and grease that’s the start of your issue.
I'm from Brazil and I work with comedians. The amount of jokes that they take from Facebook/Instagram memes is absurd. I know one comedian in particular that his whole show it's just memes, he tells the meme and that's it. He is one of the most well-paid comedians here..... That says a lot...
@@LifeBehindTheLens365 Afonso, Nil ou Thiago? Kkkkkkkk
Does he write for Family Guy?
Ele faz pose de quebrada também?
I knew someone who wanted to become a social media influencer. First she asked us to engage and comment to her posts with the promise of links for freebies. Her followers grew exponentially. With that rise in fame, she took in paid content review and needed even more engagement. Then she took jokes and memes from our group chat and posted it outside. People think they are sooo funny and smart lmao. Then the groupchat got disbanded due to drama (from who else) and her social media posts became boring and bland.
Honestly hack AF, but takes balls lmao
We are getting Tiktok Banned before OnlyJayus .... wait... where is my GTA 6?
That platform brings and promotes the worst of people around the world
Oh my. That total meltdown in that car about ADHD was the moment where she was completely cooked.
Gotta hate it when ppl using ADHD or other mental health issue as an excuse esp when they are overexaggerating it. Ppl with actual ADHD and want/are responsible and sound ppl would not use that excuse, I think most of them would just bury it deep within them so they can actually work and earn money.
as a neurodivergent person myself (specifically im autistic, but i also come from a lineage of people with adhd), my issue with that situation was less of her using adhd as an excuse, but rather her not clarifying her disorder to her collaborators AND also not taking accountability for her actions . . .
i leave messages on read all the time myself, and i can confirm that its quite hard to always remember to respond to things on time since my mind always had a bunch of thoughts going on at once. but i still try my best to respond when i can and actually *apologize* and properly explain when any sort of issue happens … not record myself crying and screaming as a sour attempt at accountability. even just seeing that few-second clip gave me SO much second hand embarrassment i had to pause the video. its crazy
@@yukimisouzou3036 i have diagnosed adhd and it’s hard but it’s not as if i can’t function so her using it as an excuse makes me sad because it paints us with it in a bad light.
@@LTGnothingahhh so just because you have adhd and have no problems functioning means nobody with adhd has problems functioning? Interesting take lmao
Disabled or not, you stilll take accountability for yourself and your actions - especially if they affect others.
@@RockYoMomsWorld pancakes and waffles tweet 😭
11:39 as someone with adhd…
This makes me VERY upset
If you know you have adhd and you know your gonna forget, do something about it, I’ve learned from experience “it’s because of my adhd” won’t work
ADHD isn't real, bruh, that's just normalcy. Big Pharma has a pill to sell.
I'm 21, and just found out i have adhd, recently Lost's of family stuff, but and i started to think of stuff over the course of my life and why I'm just finding out now, and how it effected things and signed myself up with help i need despite how its going to change things now when it should have been corrected but, now im making instant chances, to better myself and owning to my mistakes, with out telling others, i have it, cause i won't make excuses just cause i didn't know. Instead im seeking help and bettering myself, too just watch this video now after just finding out is mind-blowing to me
As someone who has possible ADHD(?), I get anxious everyday thinking if I really forget something. I lose focus most of the time to the point that it made people think I'm dumb for forgetting stuff easily. I can't even solve a math equation using my brain coz I get distracted and forget easily, losing count. I had to use fingers. I'm also super hyper. Very hyper. It also caused me to have problems with socializing with my peers. Having this type of thing makes me hate myself.
Even though I forget easily, especially with plans. I always find ways to solve it. Having this type of stuff isn't an excuse.
@minsooi been there… it sucks 😮💨 a lot……
@@Before_GTA_VI you’re one of the first people I’ve seen to say something like this and it’s really refreshing to see. I feel like there’s too many people with a super defeatist attitude towards their mental issues who just give up on trying to move past them or are to busy letting them rule their lives. It’s hard, it sucks, but we can always pick things back up and keep moving forward
I really hate when people blame everything they do on neurodivergence.
“Oh, it’s my ADHD”
“Oh, it’s my autism”
“Oh, it’s my dyscalculia”
PLEASE. SHUT UP.
NEURODIVERGENCE ISN’T ONE OF THOSE CUTE LITTLE BLUE SLIPS OF PAPER YOU GET WHEN YOU’RE TARDY TO SCHOOL.
my favorite is "Time Blindness" hahaha
Internet 101: There's no apologies, only confessions.
I can’t lie the hate can be too much sometimes, but she brought it upon herself by constantly stealing content and always lying.
@@BigOwl51I feel like she either bought followers/subscribers or people forgot to unsubscribe/unfollow her.
The racism was far worse than the thievery.
@@merryavant lately on snap shes been posting more "risky" Pics of herself. So thats probably why she stills gains followers cause shes showing some stuff she knows people would love to see
@@merryavant I forgot to unsubscribe lol
"If you need a book on how not to be racist, you already failed" Charlie/Penguinz0 is so funny man 😂😂
@@mdog9677 exactly 🤣🤣
Not really.
@@MegaOZX yes he is
That’s the absolute MOST generic response possible. It’s only “so funny” because you are in a parasocial relationship with Charlie.
@@MrShanester117 Right, like - on the surface I can get a laugh out of it, but buying a book that helps you analyze and work through your own internalized racism is actually a great step into not failing. A person who realizes they need help not being racist and takes action is a person who's improving.
I have memory issues myself, but that collaboration was important and I work really hard not to forget important things. Especially when it comes to any “deals” I make. She really dropped the ball.
I’m crying, she was in the PASSENGER SEAT while making her video. The poor person in the drivers seat that had to witness/listen to that 😭
Possibly the most uncomfortable Uber ride ever?
i'd assume she just sat in the passenger seat of her own car
@ghosterfox i thought that too, but the car is moving from what I can tell
@@johnstronz4672 which video are you guys talking about?
@ holy shit it is lmao, poor driver
I am halfway through the video, and I honestly can only think "Why? Why do I even bother? I can just turn off the pc and all the drama is gone." Internet influencers are taking so much space that we rather make an entire biography of someone that became famous for saying "Did you know you can flip things in a pan just by flipping the pan?" than mind our own business and do whatever makes us happy.
Not shaming the Internet Anarchist, what he does is basically journalism, I respect that.
@@Danadop yeah, too much of this is unhealthy and depressing.
@@Danadop this
@@Danadop im so glad that we're all waking up. It's such a waste of time like who cares...
@@omw2cry While I did click this video out of curiosity, I have to agree. Its why I try not to watch these things if I can help it.
You know what? You're right. I'll follow your example
11:28 Screaming about how hard it is to check her email from inside a Rolls-Royce
lol
Bentley?
@@Itsmaxwhodidit You're right, it's Rolls-Royce with the constellation headliner
@@zetto156 she never had a Rolls-Royce, she just attached some lights to her car celling I think it's was a red Honda at the time(2021 April). Btw she just got a new car like month ago but I'm not sure what brand it is
Come on, we've all done it 😁
me when I scream inside my 2013 Ford Explorer after Wendy's get's my order wrong
Arguing copying creators on the internet is bad and called out, on platforms which are just built off the trend of creators copying each other, is the wildest part.
She is just mad because her content is no longer trending, which is a problem she created.
What is it with plagiarists who accidently expose themselves by accusing others of plagiarizing them?
People LOVE to project because they think it'll distract others from what THEY'RE doing... Always remember that...
Think of them as drug dealers, they don't want other drug dealers around their territory.
Isn't obviously its a Bot🤦
@OverWatxh no
Study the shadow in jungian psychology. Every accusation is a confession.
OnlyJayus grew up in my town. She was adopted, and for some reason she didn't go to the same school as her siblings, but they went to the same school as me, and they were all incredibly stuck up rich kids. None of them were my age, but my younger sister was in the same grade as one of their girls, who bullied my sister. I'm not surprised she turned out this way.
@@kj64gaming19 so she is a product of her family understood
Nice fan fiction comment, I'm surprised 45 people liked this.
@@BenShapirosLowerLip
Stop making up stories.
Why tf would she work at best buy then?
@@GThunder_Gaming I'm guessing her adoptive/foster family didn't treat her the same as the rest of the kids, there was some reason (one I never knew) that they didn't go to the same school, the family had a huge Mercedes van that they took all their kids to school in, but Bella (OnlyJayus) was never with them when they'd drop off and pick up the other kids.
I used to work with a guy who would say the most heinous stuff, but according to the supervisor it was ok because he had ADHD. Joke's on him, I have it as well. Doesn't make me treat people like crap.
good for you buddy
You sound hurt and fragile.
Seems like the rest of the commenters like treating people like crap too! Damn!
@@answerman9933
Uh-huh? You think that you *_don't?_*
@@stickiedmin6508 you do thou
Anyone remember when OnlyJayus dated that other UA-camr Mattie? The relationship went 100-0 so quick! Everyone was shipping them for ages, so they dated and it all seemed good till it wasn’t apparently. Then they broke up and that was it. Now I can see why, Mattie seems so much happier with the new girlfriend.
Soooo ... OnlyJayus is single? Asking on behalf a frenemy. 😁
What is it with plagiarists and accidentally outing themselves by accusing OTHER people of plagiarizing them?
Fr like Illuminati
Probably the same underlying issues as cheaters always accusing their partners of cheating....
Projection. If people do a thing, they usually assume other people capable of it too. If you're rational and kind, you presume most other people to also be ratonal and kind. If you hate yourself, you assume other people hate you. If you're cheating on your partner, you assume they could also be cheating on you etc
Crazy 🤪 right
They can’t help it because they’re egos are too big. Like they already got away with it so they put attention to someone else thinking they are untouchable.
Onlyjayus went straight past not seeing race to not seeing time 😔⏰
@@oh6063 bruhhh 🤣🤣🤣 she really said she was Ray Charles to father time himself 😭😭😭😭😭
Holy shit this gave me an asthma attack wtf man
@@SilverHairCare AYYYYOOOOO
honestly as someone with adhd i understand jayus' reaction to that callout about missing emails.... but she really should've kept that video private. maybe sent it to someone she trusted and gotten help making a better response.
@@TheFiteShow meh, i understand marginally - i also have adhd and really bad time blindness so i forget stuff all the time. but i think that if the entire internet accuses you of being racist, and you say “i’m going to do x to fix this!” you can’t just… *not* do x, and then get mad when people are upset that you didn’t.
@@dawdle9175 It’s just a little insane to me people can be so entitled, the black creators on this situation are completely delusional and weaponized by their ideology to seek to seek validation by humiliating and shaming white people. It’s such a blatantly arrogant and entitled attitude no one really points out.
@@dawdle9175 bruv honestly that point is so fucked up. shes absolutely right that she doesnt own this random individual anything
@@dawdle9175 I would 100% agree if it wasn't for when she said her address got leaked and she was busy with moving, that 110% takes priority over addressing the damn internet, and besides for something like that if she had rushed to get it done before moving everyone would complain it was rushed, yeah she should have let the other creator know but one/two weeks is nothing, especially when you're mid moving house.
@@dawdle9175 yeah.. I agree.. Not doing what you say you're going to do is bad.
But.. I don't even understand why you would propose doing such a thing...
Sticks and stones...
Tiktok users complaining about stolen content is hilarious. Most of what is posted is copied and repeated ad nauseum or a "trend" done over and over and over again with usually very little variation.... so copies.
>Long form video essays
>All 7-8 minute videos
You know these latest generations don’t got a good attention span lol
@@Tetrabiblo no he kept yapping about her channel instead of getting to the actual problem
@@mumbernume4948 did you expect anything else by the the title of the video?? Man these attention spans really be fickle 🙄
@@Tetrabiblo i expected him to get to the problem.
@@mumbernume4948 he did… u might not have seen since u probably clicked away at the 10sec mark
21:20 dang- this alex guy really did some digging. respect to him for using his intelligence and staying chill the whole time. even observing the resolution of the screenshot is super impressive. he deserves a follow from me!!
No kidding, this guy is a pro, especially the resolution find, that's crazy.
there was a team of people BTS who found everything. was pretty neat
Go viral -> dye/cut hair-> buy influencer items -> Self-destruct.
I love to see it, time and time again. What was that definition again? Something something but expecting a different result?
Cluster b is one hell of a drug.
insanity :D that's the definition :)
doing the same thing over and over again but expecting a different outcome
Wokeism is dying now
Legit are eating each other alive because some one was not woke for every breath of their life.
Insanity is doing the exact same fucking thing over and over again, expecting shit to change. That is crazy.
lesbian smh
i love when my annoyance for a specific creator is venerated.
I think onlyjayus being such a hot head and always playing games really ruins it the vibe. Onlyjayus then plays the victim, then the hero, and then the bystander in all conflict. They are only human, but then again, we never see improvement in their character. If we do, it is minor, then we see a melt down. I think that the fact onlyjayus cannot commit to becoming someone they promise to be ruins every chance of redemption. Overall, onlyjayus is a strange person.
she is always playiong the victim
You're a strange person as well
What I find a bit tragic is that this seems very commonplace for most (not all) 'influencers' 😮💨
@griffinmeyer37 onlyjayus uses They/Them pronouns. Even if they did something bad, that doesn't give anyone the right t misgender them. If you were a man, and I got mad at you for something you did wrong, does that mean I get to call you a woman and use She/Her pronouns for you?
@sgomez1527 it's all misogyny, males do worse and get worse and play the victims and they don't get canceled
Ive had severe ADHD my whole life. Its made everything i do a struggle. Every job i work every task i do is 10x harder. I have BPD and generalized anxiety. But i have never said to anyone else besides my mother "its because my ADHD" i do everything in my power to not let my mental health control everything and i definitely dont use it as an excuse for my shitty actions.
@@PotHead98 I don’t care that you have ADHD
Literally the exact same besides the fact that my personality disorder isn’t BPD but Antisocial. I 100% agree, blaming your mental health on stuff you can learn to deal with is childish asf.
I 100% agree!! I also have SEVERE ADHD, and it makes things so so difficult! But I have NEVER used the “it’s my ADHD” excuse except towards my best friend and it’s usually as a joke and I for sure haven’t used it as an excuse to throw a temper-tantrum.
@@llamaboy1991 who are you? lmao
@@Toxic8arbarianopenly admitting you're a psycho is a weird flex
It’s like she wanted to make a AI voiced channel but forgot the AI.
She's the og AI voiced channel format
Or, she just forgot ANY level of intelligence at all.
Nothing intelligent about her
yall i think my teacher fucked up... my teacher say "don't copy n past type it in your own words" someone did that and had a HUGE downfall noted -_-
This is why they teach in high school to not plagiarize
Highschool? I got that drilled in me in 2nd.
They don't teach, they indoctrinate in ways where everything is forced making it more likely for people to do the opposite of what they're taught. They teach not to bully but teach otherwise and encourage it under the hood.
5:30 OnlyJayus predicted Trump getting shot
@@adosgamesk SO!!!!
Getting shot at is entirely different than getting shot.
@@SblmnlCrmnl I think his ear got hit so it would be shot not shot at
@@SblmnlCrmnl still pretty close. He didn't get shot but he could've
Too bad they missed.
As someone with ADHD, seeing people use ADHD as an excuse when they get rightfully confronted for making mistakes annoys me, like go ahead, say beforehand "Hey I have ADHD, it means XYZ", but don't come and say you've got ADHD A F T E R you get done for something
My ADHD made me raçïst, sorry guys. /s 😂
@brookelynnwu8016 my 2-in-1 combo of autism and ADHD also made me racist😊
I resemble this remark 🫶 40 years of adhd for me
Yeah "it makes me forget to do things, but yet remembers to keep posting videos. Yes I can overlook things but I also be responsible and do things to help set alarms, big post-it notes on doors as I head out. Calenders. There are ways, especially if it's something you promised to do and especially if you were using it as a way out. That's the one thing you'd think she'd try and remember
@boffgirl it reminds me to say my daily slur😊
""Most of her recent UA-cam videos have terrible like to dislike ratios.""
How do see the number of dislikes? It doesn't appear for me and I want to see this resource again.
Ngl for how people talk about OnlyJayus you'd think she did a massive crime and went unpunished or something, then you look into it and it's her being racist in a private conversations, being a general dick, and plagiarizing other people's work- which I'm not condoning. She's a scummy person. I'm not wishing her downfall, I just think she's just an idiot, y'know? People like that cause their own "downfalls". Kinda crazy people have such little to do day to day to wish the downfall on a random woman they'll never met. It's all so visceral for what's minor/petty shit tbh. It feels like people are more comfortable in 2025 with the thought of a youtuber/favorite creator being a p e d o or an abuser, or a racist- than a plagiarizer, or even worse annoying.
They are acting as if she committed crimes against humanity or smt. Some of the stuff she did is not even a big deal. To forget to look at your emails while moving houses in a hurry because you got doxxed is totally normal - With or without adhd. To accuse someone of racism because of the delay is absurd and anti professional.
Anyways, ppl could put that level of commitment and attention to details to politics.
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Microcosm of this channel ngl. The downside of doing a video every week is you really scrap the bottom of the barrel but have to present it as if it came from the top shelf.
That last sentence doesn’t make any sense when you have numerous people ridicule the likes of Dr.Disrespect; EDP, Kris Tyson, Mini Ladd, Cody Ko, Sienna Mae, Colleen Ballenger, Shane Dawson, Onision, etc.
Tbh if it weren't for the videos about her playgerizing, I would not realize she was playgerizing. If you showed me the videos that she playgerized, I would've just thought that they both Googled their information.
Also, I apologize for bad spelling, I am very shitty at spelling some words
Making up a screenshot to cover your stealing and getting caught lying by the pixel amount is WILD. Cheers to whoever noticed and knew that! lmao
Is it or is it totally mental? Why are you so interested in a person that you decide to investigate a person like that.
@@OctoMatoe anything between boredom to a sense of justice🤷🏽♀️
Damn, dude hitting her with the "the screenshot you showed has a higher resolution than any phone from the supposed time frame was capable of displaying" is another level of evidence gathering. Mad respect bro.
Fr that was so badass
Absolutely, it was something game theory would pull to fund out the timeline of the game 🙏
He's probably a pi
Yeah so why are we attacking her. She's still basically a child. This is too much pressure. Why why why. She's just a person who is trying to learn but people demand things happen at an unreasonable pace. She's a person mate
The plagiarism reminds me of Illuminati
Call someone out for plagiarism (they aren't even plagiarizing) and then people look into your past and realized you've been plagiarizing your entire career
She totally plagiarized it and i'm about to go on a drunken rant here, but I've always wondered where do you draw the line of plagiarism? There's this thing called the library of babel. It's a collection of an infinite random combination of words where everything that can possibly be written already exists. Everything that was created in this video was already written by the library of babel almost 100 years ago. So would this video be considered plagiarism since everything said in it already exists word for word? I don't know, maybe I just want an excuse to talk about it and my vision is kind of blurry oops hold on my fish sticks are done brb.
@@Horible4 I mean, there's only so much 'plagiarizing' you can do when every single person in your creative neighborhood is just word-for-word reading the same 4chan/reddit screenshots as you. Is Wendigoon a plagiarist for making a career quoting iceberg threads from ten years ago? Would someone be plagiarizing Wendigoon by quoting that same thread in their own video? It's all lazy slop content, there's no need to act like any one person in the neighborhood is any more upstanding than anyone else.
I just remembered her too, I question myself what’s happened with her lately.
@@Pinkie-Red-Studios same, I'm still subscribed to her but I'm reconsidering. I gave her a superchat on a short she did a few days ago saying goodbye to tiktok, but it's blocked or she banned by account. lol ok(?)
Honestly I forgot about OnlyJayus until I clicked this video
I've been a fan of her since 2021 and I never thought I'd become so obsessed with a content creator, never been a whole week without thinking abt her.. I probably have some issues
Christ help me, this is the most ad breaks I’ve ever experienced on a 25 min video. They’re like every 45 seconds, the slog continues but I don’t know how long I can keep holding on…
@@pinacoleadas1912 2 at a time too smh
Do yourself a favor and get the ublock origin extension on firefox
Just use an adblocker through chrome extensions? Haven't watched an ad for like 5 years
@@Taladrane most people watch YT in the IOS app these days, much harder to get a free trustworthy adblocker on here. But yeah Firefox + Ublock Origin has been a godsend for me on my laptop.
I haven’t gotten a single ad on this video and I don’t have adblocker on my phone. OP you had some awful luck.
Buy premium??
Can I just say that your editing is so smooth! It’s so amazing… thanks for your dedication to this channel!!
Nah bro, your edits are getting crazy clean. Shine some light on the good editing/structure. Its insane 🔥🔥🔥
Thank you!
Meanwhile there's a typo at 4:02
@billybob1831 I saw it too, but it's not that serious
what do you expect when you pay a graphic artist thousands to edit your videos? lol
That the edits are clean. just like they are here. i dont care who did it. we need to support editors more because they never get shown the love they deserve. and it does make a huge difference in the video industry.@@ronnydee34
I remember seeing one or two clips of her and immediatly not liking her i could just tell she was annoying
@@simonSeysz same, day one ... Gut feeling
Ikrr
Her community posts are also annoying and filled with toxic users.
The exact opposite happened to me... watched one clip and immediately felt the charisma, been watching her videos for 3 years now since I was 14 and I can't stop, even though ik she's a bad person
@@Itsmaxwhodiditshe is polluting your mind with information she have already stolen from other content creators she don’t credit pretty much has brainwashed you
0:0:11 not only jayass
onlyjackass
I came to the replies just looking for this comment
I remember when she started posting videos at the very beginning, they were actually pretty fun... Then she just suddenly switched
My dumb self thought this said "The Satisfying Downfall of OnlyFans" 🤣
I saw 'OnlyJesus' and was wondering what I missed this time
Keeping in mind that men are the ones buying OF content, this would be a pretty hypocritical idea lol
@@CassandraY that silly Jesus and his feet pics
Why do I get second-hand embarrassment watching these adults throw temper tantrums. It doesn't affect me in any way.
I’ve had some of her videos pop up, but I’ve never heard anything about her at all what did she do?
Bruh you literally described me, never seen one of her videos but know her by stealing content and being a crash out “victim”
Hope we get to see "The Satisfying Downfall of MrBeast" video some day, can't wait
Ma popcorn is ready. 👍
what did he do?? idk cuz ion watch him
@@qvzxn-8d9j06 yknow his Amazon Prime show Beast Games? not only is it dystopian, weird and disturbing (like he's pretty much just the Front Man from Squid Game at this point), but there have been DOZENS of allegations that the contestants were barely fed, some were denied things like medical treatment, tampons, etc. and some were even hospitalized due to injuries sustained on the show. on top of that, he's hired several PDF files while KNOWING that they were RSO's, he's engaged in s3xual talk involving minors, he's hosted illegal lotteries, he preys on his child audience and indoctrinates them to buy merch and chocolate etc with the bait of money...then of course there's the whole Lunchly thing, what with being unhealthy despite him claiming it to be healthy, and loads of the cheese being moldy...he also fakes videos with CGI, including his Philanthropy videos, which is just fucked because he's literally lying about doing charity work...he's a terrible, terrible person, money-driven and power-driven, hiding behind the belief that being charitable and philanthropic means he can't be shitty.
@@qvzxn-8d9j06 sooooo much stuff dude
Oh I love to the see the day he falls but like the comment above you said, he’ll need to start a crypto and scam his followers, be racist, be mean, support the rainbow people, dive head first into controversial topics, oh and touch kids but i think he already does that.
The second I saw this I was like "another one?"
deja vu
I thought that too but I just realized I was thinking of the SunnyV2 docs
You are literally doing the same thing she did, I'm pretty sure I've seen this video like a year ago.
11:21 the way she's crashing out...😃😄😃
@@Mal-honey I know right!?
That's a real CRASH OUT 😅😅😅
@@Mal-honey no fr how are u going to sit there are record yourself crashing out LOL. attention seeking much man
@@Mal-honey For real. If ut was truly that important to her, she would have checked her emails in spite of her ADHD because she would have remembered the second she had a calm moment.
But she didn't care. She never did.
@@Mal-honey Instantly reminded me of Dream ngl
Ive had memory loss issues from an attack in Afganistan on my second deployment. You know what I did? I buy daily organizer calendars and always keep it in my pack. Dr. Appointments, reminders to call family and friends, my phone number and address, and peoples names. But she's had ADHD her WHOLE life and doesn't know how to adapt? I call bull on that one
Thank you for your service ✊
@@Boe_Jidens_Hair_Sniffing I got ADHD and sometimes my techniques for remembering don't work and I forget. So, what do I do? I just accept it, apologise if needed and work to fix the situation. It's pretty simple.
@@ALL_that_ENDS Thank you man, I'd go back if I could
@@klaytonalexandermatthews2047 Google Keep Notes is a good app that I use for reminders, documenting events, etc. I would highly recommend it for people with STML or ADHD. That and the pocket calendar that has pages for each day is a great combo I found out
Did you do it while moving houses because in a hurry because your address got doxxed, so you were receiving threats and concern for you and your family? Context matter too. Plus in which professional setting is normal to react to a delay in answering to your email with publicly exposing the person as racist?
That part I honestly don’t think the fault is at OJ.
I think the thing about dark humour is this, yes some people engage in dark humour about their situation (disabilities, trauma, gender, sexuality, race) and this almost all people would find it ok (though some may ask not to have it around them). But when it comes from outside the situation its harder, because yes some people might feel "these are jokes I make so its fine" but some might be feeling "I've heard these jokes before to belittle me". When its dark humour coming from within the situation we can be more sure that the empathy and understanding is there, that there is no ill intent. But when its outside the situation how can we know they understand,? or even worse if they mean it in caring way at all?
Not exactly dark humour I remember frequently joking around that "everyone was a little autistic" and I didn't think much of it until I tried to tell a friend I was autistic and she said it to me as a way of telling me I was wrong. I remember being so offput and upset because I didn't know why it bothered me until years later she actually apologised, she'd been studying psychology and remembered the conversation. When your existing in the situation, the belittling humour is a way to downplay things, make bad or hard things a joke, but from those outside the situation it makes our problems small without a true understanding of how big they are.
The important thing about dark humor isn't the topic, it's whether or not it's just meant. I know a guy who's autistic (I'm too dw) and who's special interest is legitmately history/military and makes edgy ww2 jew jokes. Has always been the most welcoming person towards women and gay people and dosen't get prissy when it's "his" group being insulted. I trust that guy but the dudes making "little dark age" edits give me the creeps.
@chestnut4860 Its all context. You have the context so it makes it easier to accept if still a little offputting. When it comes to strongly personal things like disability or trauma the context for someone in that group is deep and layered. No one has to be ok with dark humour though... even if the speaker has the right context, I think people have the right to say "I know you don't mean it badly but that makes me uncomfortable" and be listened to. Of course online its harder and I don't expect people to please everyone but, a thought.
After I wrote my original comment I summed up my thoughts about dark humour in a vague social media post that I want to share here:
"We use dark humour to make our problems feel smaller. Others use humour to make our problems feel smaller. There is a difference, can you see it?"
This is why I've begun to distance myself from the gallows humor. It's just too messy and sensitive to shake a stick at---and asking everyone what their boundaries are so that you can confirm you can joke in front of them is would get extremely tiring after a while...
Yeah I don't believe you can make dark humour about something you have never experienced. That's just called being a shitty person, making jokes about sensitive topics
Some people seriously have not enough happening in their life for starting to hate someone as irrelevant as a tik toker😂😂
not her absolutely crashing out at 11:29
Real
Seeing how OnlyJayus blamed that collab situation on her ADHD is so sad and ridiculous to me. I have a subgenre of ADHD and yes, I forget things too and I procrastinate and I missplace things and all that jazz, but I still remember to do them. That's why you set reminders on your phone and your calender. And that's why you write your tasks down on a white board or a sticky note or even your hand, so you don't forget to do them. I learned that ADHD is not a valid excuse for anything, so instead of trying to pin the blame on something else, you only have yourself to blame, and accept your poor decisions and mistakes.
Bruh wtf do you mean "subgenre of ADHD?" Everyone has different struggles and severities of adhd. Some of these strats work but they're not going to completely prevent issues... Hence that it's a disorder people struggle with to the point where they need medication to function. You don't know what it's like to actually struggle with it and try things to fix it that don't work. It's only not a valid excuse if you don't try to fix the problem at all.
She was doxxed, harrased and scared cause she didnt have an income anymore. If normally emails were at the bottom of her to do list, now it reeeally was
@ yeah that is what people seem to not understand. She was clearly going through it. Deserved or not, I don’t blame her for freaking out in her car like that.
Nothing said about that black girl coming up with any ideas for collab and she clearly just wanted a piggyback ride. So there was nothing to answer for really.
Girl.. cool, it works for you but it doesn't for everyone. I last checked my email in summer. I only just, watching this video remembered i have an email. And wtf is a "subgenre of ADHD"
WOW I was active on TikTok during her 2021 racism controversy, but somehow I completely missed ( or maybe forgot ) about her calling somebody a “n-word lover” like we’re back in the 30’s. Jesus Christ the fact people forgave her for that is upsetting
Your acting like thats extremly horrible, its just a word, and in private, alot more people use it than you think.
@MotzKotz3 way of usage and what words are used is completely a valid reason to go nuts wtf? "Then I ***** you and your family and *** your..." etc. (fill gaps) is only a string of words and shouldn't be bad too. Words are expression of your mind, what you say is completely a valid reason to be canceled bruh.
Don't have kids @MotzKotz3
@MotzKotz3so that makes it okay? Lmao bye
@MotzKotz3 Lmao found the racist
Wait isn’t this the girl that pretended to be pregnant? And fake a miscarriage or am I stupid?
*Gets called out for not communicating through emails and people assume it's because she's just using POC as a way for people to get off her back*
*Has the option to explain that it was due to her not checking her emails frequently and has ADHD*
*Decides to scream like a child and tell people to F**k off*
...Yeah that checks out. Definitely what an adult and a person diagnosed with ADHD would do. Mhm. Totally makes sense /sar
If i were in her situation, i would have crashed out too
damn she got cancelled like 3 times, was luckily enough to get a 4th chance and still fricked it up 😂
As a disabled person who loves dark humor I agree that kind of a joke wouldn't upset me coming from most people, but when you have shown yourself to be a terrible person you can't blame people for giving you zero benefit of the doubt. People are gonna pick at any thread you give them, and I can't blame them.
And I'm black, I don't care if a horrible person said something racist to me. I don't like OnlyJayus because she just sucks. I don't care about dark humor or touchy jokes. I'm not moved by anything 99.9% of people say. My family are only people that say anything I consider. A bad person is a bad person, a bad person saying something bad should be expected.
@drjonesey5 you put your crappiness out there, expect people to comment on it. It didn't bother me, because I didn't know about her before this crap and I am gonna forget about her after, but I understand why she upset some people. it's great if you are able to ignore everyone, but not everyone can.
u can't blame sheeps for being sheeps
@@drjonesey5is she a bad person or she did a mistake
so that’s why i stopped seeing her everywhere
I had her uncle as a substitue teacher three years ago, he talked about her and defended all of her actions.
@@spirktruthr how did she even get brought up in class anyways? If u don’t mind me asking.
Well yeah! I hope her uncle is trying to protect her. Its family...
Oof. That's rough... I would've tapped out in minutes from the second-hand embarassment
Not much but I love your content man💖 And love how your videos ARE SO CREATIVELYYY EDITEDSD(THIS IS NOT 100 DOLLARS ITS 2 DOLLARS)
@@nothing-sd7ug thats crazy how ths comment got swept under....
NOT MUCH?
@@ilovejinxx_x it's jst probably 1 dollar😭😭 it's 100 inr
@@ilovejinxx_x that's 100 indian rupee. that equals to 1 dollar and 16 cents
@@ilovejinxx_x Its 100 rupees, which is approximately 1 dollar
The fake pregnancy was the most painful mistake and so disrespectful to women and men who experience loss of their babas or people who are unable to have children.
She faked a pregnancy? You sure you aren't confusing her with Caroline Konstnar?
@ whoops!! Sorry they’re all bonkers!!
I know how she did a few things wrong. But honestly, everyone is human. Whoever you are, we all have our own struggles. She has handled things in a questional way certain times, but nobody is perfect. I feel like socially attacking someone isn't helping anyone. If you disliked her, don't watch her content. She has the right to be upset when everyone is ridiculing her. She obviously has personal priorities and problems aside from social media, as does every creator. I don't believe in all the things she does / says. Some i totally disagree with. But she is a person too at the end of the day
So many people give me validation for deciding to avoid tik tok
I feel that way too. Like UA-cam has its issues too but it seems slightly worse on TikTok.
I never see anything like this on tiktok i only see funny videos or videos about things i like
I think another big Problem with OnlyJayus was the group of tiktoker friends she was in, they were pretty controversial as a whole and had a multiple dramatic situations with one another, falling out, break ups, ect.
Oh yeah, plus OnlyJayus Posted a lot of Videos with false information that was just completely fake.
Care to give names? Or explain what u said? Bec I've been watching her content for 3 years now and I don't recall such events
@@Itsmaxwhodiditif you don’t recall such events then you haven’t watched her since 2019 bc clearly a lot of people know about her breakup situation with Maddie, and the circle she’s been around, why do you feel the need to desperately defend a racist, she steals information from different content creators. You think you’re going to learn something from her, well youre not. Clearly you need some maturing to do because you still watch her, she doesn’t even average 1milliom views like she did back in 2022
@@Itsmaxwhodiditlmaoo you’re brainwashed as hell and you seem like a very easy person to be manipulated
It blows my mind how many plagiarists get caught because they accuse other people of plagiarism.
I have no idea who this is but, all I learned is that people are too soft on tiktok.