How to Help Your Client Overcome Limiting Beliefs

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  • Опубліковано 4 лип 2024
  • If you're a therapy practitioner, you will have no doubt heard negative limiting beliefs like the examples in this video time and again. An artful reframe can help people to think differently, but for a reframe to 'take' it needs to be delivered in the right way, and at the right moment.
    In this video I'll share some example situations where a reframe can be so effective, and I'll also give 3 cognitive therapy techniques to rapidly reframe unhelpful negative ideas.
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    ++About Mark Tyrrell++
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    Video highlights:
    00:00 Introduction
    00:18 'I know exactly what's going to happen!'
    00:55 Cognitive reframing is an art, as well as a science
    01:42 Examples of cognitive distortions we need to reframe
    04:36 The problem of negative certainty
    05:42 3 ways to sow uncertainty in a client's limiting beliefs
    05:52 Tip 1. Cast doubt with a subjective frame
    06:55 Tip 2. Have them 'modify their position'
    08:32 Tip 3.Where is the evidence'

КОМЕНТАРІ • 34

  • @demetriusturner8472
    @demetriusturner8472 4 місяці тому +3

    At my counseling internship right now and your videos have been super helpful for me. Thank you for making these.

  • @silvermoonuk
    @silvermoonuk 2 роки тому +9

    Hi. could you do a video series on acceptance and commitment therapy techniques please? I have long term health conditions including autism/fibromyalgia/fatigue issues... I'm struggling to accept my disabilities and how they profoundly affect me. I've read act therapy techniques are good. Thanks 😊

  • @subhasharma4425
    @subhasharma4425 Рік тому +2

    I want to join your course, I am a psychology student from Nepal, working as an addiction counselor at the moment and seeing how CBT is not that useful for anger management as it requires clients to set aside from the situation got me here. Thank you you are the best teacher that i could ask for. Your eyes reflect so much empathy.

  • @venusdoom90
    @venusdoom90 2 роки тому +7

    Another great video Mark! Could you possibly make a video on nightmares and repetitive dreams? I have no problem with falling asleep but that is what I have been struggling from for many years and I haven't come across of any videos covering these particular topics. Thank you in advance.

  • @andymontan4118
    @andymontan4118 2 роки тому +8

    This was soo good!

  • @lauraroberts2250
    @lauraroberts2250 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you, Mark, I always find your talks helpful.

  • @lawandahuffman8847
    @lawandahuffman8847 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you so much for your teachings. I am learning so much from you! Thank you for offering these videos free of charge! You are the best! You have truly helped me to grow as a therapist. I truly, truly appreciate you! Blessings!

  • @raewilson9815
    @raewilson9815 Рік тому

    Gee - I like your concepts. I'm glad I found you!

  • @MagicLute
    @MagicLute 9 місяців тому

    This is not funny for a client who is suffering and you first have to get them out there, but as I listen to him it really makes me laugh at myself! How many times have I fallen into this pit myself! Mark, thank you!

  • @shift_my_subconscious
    @shift_my_subconscious Рік тому

    brilliance.

  • @dv123abc
    @dv123abc 2 роки тому +3

    Useful. Invaluable. Amazing as always 🙏🏻

  • @paintingzoneart4026
    @paintingzoneart4026 2 роки тому +2

    Very helpful and clear ideas, thank you

  • @theresaredmon6168
    @theresaredmon6168 2 роки тому +1

    Excellent! Thank you.

  • @correlian1155
    @correlian1155 2 роки тому +1

    thank you. I like the reframing of believing something is true to feeling it is true.

  • @suryadeepsinh8757
    @suryadeepsinh8757 2 роки тому

    Omg i can't be more thankful

  • @allthatis1458
    @allthatis1458 2 роки тому +1

    Great advice and very practical .

  • @hz7988
    @hz7988 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you. You are really a master in your field 🙏

  • @salimr4718
    @salimr4718 2 роки тому +2

    Your voice and tone is appropriate for a therapist.

  • @tatianahawaii13
    @tatianahawaii13 2 роки тому

    Thank you for your work Mark

  • @alexpodolski4068
    @alexpodolski4068 2 роки тому +1

    very interesting , Marc! thanks

  • @andreatilio
    @andreatilio 2 роки тому

    Thank you Mark!

  • @scourneene
    @scourneene 2 роки тому

    Wow brilliant!! Thank you!

  • @yetiquabaug6498
    @yetiquabaug6498 2 роки тому

    That was terrific! Super.

  • @sammieb9009
    @sammieb9009 11 місяців тому

    I admire and respect your therapeutic skills. I like to be half as good as you are,🤗. Any advise how I can improve my clinical therapeutic skills? Thanks for what you do to help advance our skills.

  • @coffeebot7016
    @coffeebot7016 2 роки тому +2

    I love this channel and these videos, been a fan for years. Could you possibly do one on some of the psychology behind addiction? Thanks for the hard work!

  • @NutriTalkInspiration
    @NutriTalkInspiration 2 роки тому

    Thank You for giving me another free therapy session because I have been struggling with, and now starting to overcome, self doubt and limiting beliefs since I was a child. I would gladly pay to receive your services If i wasn't completely broke because I could use it.

  • @thedave9749
    @thedave9749 2 роки тому

    THANK YOU

  • @cloverajazz6743
    @cloverajazz6743 2 роки тому

    thank you

  • @TrappedInTheNorth
    @TrappedInTheNorth 2 роки тому +3

    The worst thing about my depression is the lack of Concentration and focus, my mind has no peace I cant even study or read for a long period what should I do regarding the lack of concentration ?

    • @etrebelle9812
      @etrebelle9812 2 роки тому +4

      procrastination is a stress release tool. try to set yourself on a task for no more than 5 minutes(with a timer). as things stand for you now, you would do more in those 5 minutes than in a week. see it yourself. and encourage yourself always.

    • @Nyx773
      @Nyx773 Рік тому

      @@etrebelle9812 I agree, timers are a great tool. Sometimes even 2 minutes is helpful.
      I plan on hanging a cuckoo clock so that every 15 minutes I am reminded to start or stop a task.

  • @raewilson9815
    @raewilson9815 Рік тому

    I'm curious if you are familiar with The Work of Byron Katie. I see may principles she uses in what she calls "The Work" - is it true? Can you really know that it is true? Great info.

  • @etrebelle9812
    @etrebelle9812 2 роки тому +1

    you are part of the good of the world (not the goody-goody)

  • @mmc0729
    @mmc0729 2 роки тому

    hi mark. i sent you an email. looking forward to hearing from you