Best Locations to Meet Upper-Class Filipinas

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  • @Lifebeyondthesea
    @Lifebeyondthesea  5 місяців тому +2

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  • @RicasHomeySpace
    @RicasHomeySpace 5 місяців тому +37

    I have no idea why this video was on my feed but after listening, let me shed some insights since Im a middle class Filipina with female friends in the same level and up. Im talking upper management/executives to entrepreneur level that are still single.
    1. Coffee shops are NOT middle-upper class. Bos, starbucks, big NO. You only have pretentious young women there or working professionals that are low to mid entry with a "mass" mindset. Hotel lounges and restaurants mid morning to late afternoon, YES.
    2. Business events like expos, conferences, and even toastmasters.
    3. Sporting events like run clubs, muay thai boxing gyms, actual gyms near middle to upper class neighborhoods.
    4. Yacht clubs restaurants, resort lounges, golf clubs.
    Generally, any venue that would bill a minimum of 500-1.5k Php per person.
    As for those foreign men claiming that middle-upper class Pinay will not date foreigners, false. These sub-group of Filipinas will date foreigners BUT you also need to have something going on for yourself too since filipinos have a general stereotype of foreign men wanting cheap provincial filipinas. And that stereotype is what middle to upper class pinays are cautious of with foreigners because society might label them as cheap/gold digger filipinas.

    • @bu5761
      @bu5761 5 місяців тому

      @@RicasHomeySpace western men have learned, or not (the hard way) that (most) women these days aren’t in it for ‘love’ per say.
      Keeping up with the demands of an ‘upper class’ woman just isn’t worth the potential heart ache. Which is why the ‘successful’ westerner would likely avoid such a scenario. Men are simple beings to satisfy at the core and personally I would choose peace, simplicity and happiness over the feeling of being in competition any day of the week. Falling in love and being left bc you’re not ‘enough’ doesn’t sound like my kind of retirement.

    • @byronbolen72
      @byronbolen72 4 місяці тому +1

      Nice to hear your perspective.

    • @deanrotering879
      @deanrotering879 4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you

    • @iriethierry9802
      @iriethierry9802 3 місяці тому

      give me your whatass number

    • @anthonywatson2318
      @anthonywatson2318 2 місяці тому +2

      It's great to hear a Filipina's thoughts about this topic! I'm intrigued by what you said about your middle to upper - middle - class Filipina friends. I suspect that they are single for the same reasons why their American counterparts are unmarried.
      Here in the U.S., the more educated and accomplished women are, the more they require of men for marriage. Western women want men who have as much as they have or, preferably, much more. As a result, fewer and fewer men qualify for dating and marriage. Consequently, high-achieving women find themselves still single in their thirties, forties, and beyond. They often say, "I refuse to settle" for a man who does not have the resources/wealth that they require.
      Meanwhile, their biological clock keeps ticking until those women reach the stage of possible "high-risk" pregnancy. Often, when they DO find men who qualify, those men reject them because they are too old to safely bear children. Those men prefer younger, more fertile women who are more feminine, even if the women are less successful than their upper-class sisters! Western women refuse to accept the reality that super-successful men are not attracted by their high-level education or prestigious careers.
      Could this be what's going on with your Filipina friends?

  • @blackwonderBW
    @blackwonderBW 5 місяців тому +8

    Good advice. Fish where they're biting.

  • @enriquesoul5370
    @enriquesoul5370 5 місяців тому +5

    Ballroom dancing? Brilliant.
    When we going to see you on "Dancing with the Stars" Reekay?

  • @marcussomerville
    @marcussomerville 5 місяців тому +8

    The class system in the Philippines is far more pronounced than that of the US or Australia. A rich Filapina will probably never marry or date down it just doesnt happen that way. Men date and marry for love , status or companionship , women date or marry for protection provision and status.

  • @hoken706
    @hoken706 5 місяців тому +8

    Theoretically, ok..
    Practically, you need to go these locations frequently. Then start friendship gradually.
    They cautiously treat strangers as you treat single moms from province.😂😂😂

  • @rusco1948
    @rusco1948 5 місяців тому +3

    GREAT VIDEO

  • @bu5761
    @bu5761 5 місяців тому +22

    Province girl for the win 🥰
    I can’t imagine how any man from the US moving to another country would just hop back on the ‘look at me’ girl bandwagon 😖 and if you do - you obviously haven’t been single long enough to be tired of it!

    • @johndoh5182
      @johndoh5182 5 місяців тому +3

      Yeah, with a little bit of background checking, as in there are people that can vouch for a woman coming from a good family and is a decent person, I'd be going with the girl from the provinces, but expect there to be money issues because there always is especially when you meet that girl away from her province.

    • @ViceCoin
      @ViceCoin 5 місяців тому

      Poor and uneducated.

  • @deanrotering879
    @deanrotering879 4 місяці тому

    Very well thought out. Interesting

  • @ericoespinosa2033
    @ericoespinosa2033 4 місяці тому

    Good and informative video.

  • @ervinalexander1734
    @ervinalexander1734 22 дні тому

    Great video but i love my providence wife because she appreciate the small thing's in life 😊

  • @CLCIII
    @CLCIII 5 місяців тому +2

    Reekay. What, no Filapina vending machines? Just kidding of course. As Always, May God Bless you and yours! 😇

  • @coreyct86
    @coreyct86 5 місяців тому

    Great info 😎

  • @thebillyflintexperience119
    @thebillyflintexperience119 5 місяців тому +22

    The upper class Filipino women (in her late 20s without kids) don’t date foreigners... especially some dude over the age of 40, they will date and marry other upper class Filipino men! If she over the age of 40 with kids, then she may date a foreigner but most are already married.

    • @johndoh5182
      @johndoh5182 5 місяців тому +7

      No, there are upper class Filipino women that will date a foreigner, but that foreigner is going to have to be an upper class man, as status is important there just like it is in most countries.

    • @catsupchutney
      @catsupchutney 3 місяці тому +1

      That's my first thought.

  • @gobfranklin6759
    @gobfranklin6759 5 місяців тому

    Great content

  • @rusty-n4o
    @rusty-n4o 3 місяці тому

    GOOD VLOG

  • @troyelam8978
    @troyelam8978 5 місяців тому +2

    I’m curious about the tactic of staging yourself near a college campus and being swarmed by an ocean of Filipinas once class lets out. That certainly sounds like a viable strategy, but is it really affective if the guy looks over 50, and isn’t in Sparta shape? Or do you just have a bunch of young, pretty girls ignoring you?
    Also, in terms of going to a more expensive coffee house to find higher quality, women, wouldn’t coffee bean or Starbucks qualify? If I remember correctly, the coffee there were 250 or more, and pretty much out of a Filipina’s price range to have on a daily basis. Am I correct?

  • @FilipinaDelight
    @FilipinaDelight 5 місяців тому

    So true,

  • @patmer2087
    @patmer2087 5 місяців тому +1

    As others have said, upperclass have high standards. U better be like a (when he was young) good looking dude like Dr. Hayden Kho to attract and date them!😅

  • @easygoing4769
    @easygoing4769 5 місяців тому +7

    What is the advantage of dating upper class Filipina ? !!!!

    • @bu5761
      @bu5761 5 місяців тому +4

      @@easygoing4769 exactly - you’re just back in the saddle of being disposable.

    • @johndoh5182
      @johndoh5182 5 місяців тому +2

      I think the real target is more middle class, not a woman from a poor family.
      But, if a man wants a younger woman that is middle-upper class, that means formal relationships with the expectation that you're dating to move towards marriage and then children.
      The advantage is if you are a more wealthy foreigner because a woman isn't going to step down in class. The advantage is less chance of a woman trying to milk as much money out of you as they can for their family (parents, siblings, children, cousins, etc......)

    • @homebasebelgium359
      @homebasebelgium359 5 місяців тому +5

      That you won't be supporting her entire extended family!

    • @Chris-zo5ze
      @Chris-zo5ze 5 місяців тому +3

      I'd imagine the conversation would be a bit deeper if they are educated. Pop culture, history, politics, philosophy, etc...

    • @blackwonderBW
      @blackwonderBW 5 місяців тому

      She pays for her own load, for one thing. And the conversation is likely better.

  • @remley8877
    @remley8877 3 місяці тому +1

    I like Filipinas and I'm an intelligent, well educated successful man and I have a reasonable amount of money and I don't want a simply sex based relationship id like to meet a lady on my level who can converse on literature, history, philosophy and etc and I have enough money to support a Filipina lawyer in style in America. Id like to meet a suitable, intelligent and beautiful, preferably slightly younger lady, maybe a 40 year old Filipina lady and I stress lady.

  • @Liampo00
    @Liampo00 5 місяців тому +1

    Good video. Can a we University Courses in the philippines??.

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  5 місяців тому

      generally speaking, no. a foreign national (expat) on a tourist visa must first get a Student Visa, the 9F Visa, in order to attend classes at a university.
      it is possible 'some' colleges may waive this requirement. but even though it is allowed by the college, it is not allowed by PH Immigration and could result in problems. especially if a complaint is filed by an attending student or faculty.
      do so at your own risk, or apply for the 9F Student Visa.

  • @peraakeoerneving1955
    @peraakeoerneving1955 5 місяців тому +1

    Good advices for successful westerners under 30.

  • @bornonjuly7052
    @bornonjuly7052 5 місяців тому +2

    This is a great content. So tired on seeing videos about older expats dating younger, poor and uneducated Filipinas and later goes broke and ranting in the internet to get sympathies.

  • @booyaah82
    @booyaah82 5 місяців тому

    You know what Reekay, I might just enroll in a Gender Studies class soley for entertainment purposes...with the intention of failing 🤣

  • @anderskrusell9463
    @anderskrusell9463 5 місяців тому +2

    It's not rocket science 😊

  • @Jimmy-gl8cs
    @Jimmy-gl8cs 5 місяців тому +2

    I am looking for a Filipina sugar momma 🤣

  • @davidkaiser810
    @davidkaiser810 5 місяців тому +1

    Reekay you forgot about one category of upper class Filipinas, those with sugar daddy's...😊

  • @danmurray1143
    @danmurray1143 5 місяців тому +1

    I think this is the 1st time I've ever commented on one of your videos. I have a question for you Reekay. I bet most of the guys here are wondering the same thing:
    "Did we do something to upset you?" "Are you mad at us?"
    😆 Why would we travel to the opposite side of the plannet to get more of the same we're stuck with in the West?!
    We're trying to escape these kinds of women. I want my 1st Filapina girlfriend to be so poor she can't afford to say hi to me without taking out a loan.
    200 Pesos for a coffee? I'm looking for a girl making that per day harvesting rice for 12 hours. 😆 🤣 😂
    Whatever we did to you, we apologize. We are so sorry to have angered you so much. Please forgive us.

  • @hughbaker7597
    @hughbaker7597 4 місяці тому +1

    How do I find single women in there late 30 to late 40

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  4 місяці тому

      it's pretty easy in the PH. move here, get settled in. and then go for a walk. they are everywhere and open to conversation. conversation turns to getting her number.. that leads to dating and yadda yadda.
      it's a whole other dynamic, a better one, in the PH. it's dating as it used to be, 3 decades ago.
      ua-cam.com/video/h2g4t3G8WAg/v-deo.html

  • @rusco1948
    @rusco1948 5 місяців тому +1

    GREAT VIDEO