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  • Опубліковано 9 гру 2021
  • Hey ❤️
    #SouthAfricanUA-camr #cultureshock #aupair#roadto2000subsribers
    This video Is overdue ! In todays video I’ll be talking about my culture shocks as a South African living in America !
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  • @Qharisma
    @Qharisma 8 місяців тому +12

    As someone who was born in America this video is hilarious. I've never considered how awkward it would be for someone from South Africa to visit America ... Now I totally understand.

  • @mohlatlegobeautysethosa6118
    @mohlatlegobeautysethosa6118 2 роки тому +132

    Please speak a bit slower😭😭😂hape o fast😂

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +11

      😭😭😭dude I promise you I don’t speak fast 🤣🤣do I speak fast in rl too ? 😳

    • @stonitangawizi1252
      @stonitangawizi1252 2 роки тому +22

      @@TimewithModiTime I had to listen to you at x0.75

    • @tebohonaphtali7938
      @tebohonaphtali7938 2 роки тому

      😂

    • @ladyvrega2670
      @ladyvrega2670 2 роки тому +4

      @@TimewithModiTime first time here but yoo girl you’re running jooo slow down try to speak normal don’t run.

    • @kagontleserutle5775
      @kagontleserutle5775 2 роки тому

      Yes u speak to fast,i can't hear u well#😂

  • @kaylalouw3041
    @kaylalouw3041 2 роки тому +32

    1. Driving on the other side of the road
    2. People only speaking english and not vernac
    3. No taxis and south african cars, no cabs, mostly found in the cities
    4. Calorie counts on all food
    5. Not having petrol assustants at petrol stations (filling up your car by yourself)
    6. How expensive it is to do hair
    7. People don’t relax their hair
    8. Most foods and items are in family size/bulk size
    9. Tax not being included in prices
    10. At restaurants they don’t have cards machines, they take your card to the back and make the payment
    11. Metric systems not being the same
    12. Travelling times are different (for example in SA 30 minutes away is far but in america it’s not that long at all)
    13. No walls around homes or only fences and you see your neighbors all the time
    14. Adjustment of how you say words and using slang
    15. The amount of self service available in america is different from sa

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +3

      haha thank you so much for the summary 🥺❤️

    • @morenakhaya655
      @morenakhaya655 2 роки тому +3

      🤣🤣🤣 thanks I won't watch da video

    • @rams228
      @rams228 Рік тому

      @@morenakhaya655 😅😅😅

  • @mohlatlegobeautysethosa6118
    @mohlatlegobeautysethosa6118 2 роки тому +7

    Loved this!was super interesting to hear

  • @boitumelonokgipa6336
    @boitumelonokgipa6336 2 роки тому +1

    Love your videos... Thank you so much for this 💕

  • @danellenoble6185
    @danellenoble6185 Рік тому +16

    I was Aupair coming from SA. Left 20 years ago and made America my home. Married and kids here. I too, had culture shock but I did adjust

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Рік тому +1

      Oh wow for 20 years ! where are you based now !

    • @danellenoble6185
      @danellenoble6185 Рік тому +1

      @@TimewithModiTime I'm in the Chicagoland area

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Рік тому +2

      @@TimewithModiTime you also need to settle there sis. SA is a nightmare especially with loadshedding and corruption. I'm also planning to move soon.

    • @Sky-dv8mj
      @Sky-dv8mj 10 місяців тому

      ​@@asiphejohnson6543uyakuthetha ukuny nontroi

  • @simphiwembatha1039
    @simphiwembatha1039 2 роки тому +16

    One that really shoooock me was the invincible fence for dogs.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +5

      Omg I forgot about that one 🥲it had me running so fast 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @Lindaaaaaaa2
    @Lindaaaaaaa2 2 роки тому +18

    I’m in india from SA In India it’s insane the stare is too much😂😂😂love you sissy all the best watching all the way from India

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Рік тому +4

      What are you doing in India and how is it for you 🥺

    • @stephanszitha8844
      @stephanszitha8844 Рік тому +2

      Lol i can imagine but you might have a cost of living advantage sometimes thats nice

    • @Lindaaaaaaa2
      @Lindaaaaaaa2 Рік тому

      @@TimewithModiTime I’m studying it been hell🤣🤣but I changed the state now I’m in Gujarati it’s better than Haryana

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Рік тому +1

      @@Lindaaaaaaa2 that's amazing sis. Please settle there or move to Europe because SA is a nightmare.

    • @j-groovy5339
      @j-groovy5339 Рік тому +1

      I experienced the major stares in India too, they stare like they are in a trance 😅

  • @caroline___
    @caroline___ Рік тому +2

    You have great energy. Love the video

  • @andreipretorius92
    @andreipretorius92 2 роки тому +26

    Great video. How I miss SA people. Love hearing your voice and mixing languages 😂😂. I hate the imperial system, we are used to metric system. The card at restaurants always freak me out. I miss having walls between houses. You have great energy.

    • @andreipretorius92
      @andreipretorius92 2 роки тому +3

      I also think the distance is weird. I complain driving 45 minutes and they think that’s nothing, it’s insane

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +2

      Girl there is no reason for them to be so extra haha 🤣🤣

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +2

      Its better in the city its not insane haha 🤣but in the Suburbs its just bad yoh it never made sense to me haha

  • @MJ31579
    @MJ31579 Рік тому +17

    I'd cry because of hair prices too 😅
    That is ridiculous
    In SA, for $90 you can get unbraiding, washing and braiding at a decent place

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Рік тому +4

      This is why I cut my hair haha because no way I was over it 1🤣

  • @erickwagithuku707
    @erickwagithuku707 2 роки тому +3

    Hi modi I have just watched your video clip I felt the same way you did when I came to this country as an African student.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому

      haha and I am so sure that every state is different too !

  • @karabomasela5387
    @karabomasela5387 2 роки тому +2

    Hahaha I was cracking up throughout this video, very informative 😂

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +2

      🤣🤣 still adjusting I think in the city its so different and I need to do a SF one haha

  • @rethabilemoatshe7255
    @rethabilemoatshe7255 2 роки тому +4

    Okare you're in heaven! Haibo the lighting!

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +2

      It was doing too much 😭😭the lighting washed me the camera washed me kori bona!!

  • @tumelomojapelo5577
    @tumelomojapelo5577 Рік тому +11

    Mara I like how unique we south Africans are it's like we live in our own planet we love freedom in complexity and it's in our DNA...it's funny how we work well in groups...put a south African in any group you'll enjoy the attention he/she commands...Pride in public freedom💁🏾‍♂️ normally rea phapha😒

  • @tebohokibe7555
    @tebohokibe7555 Рік тому +1

    Gumba-gumba pack 😅. Nice video ausi. I think Quantums are SA style taxis, manufactured in Durban. If possible, try to be slower when you speak. All your points are nice. Speedpoint machine, etc. 👌

  • @lindanizulu9436
    @lindanizulu9436 2 роки тому +1

    I love your Vlogs ❤❤❤

  • @poetalegalis3635
    @poetalegalis3635 Рік тому +9

    Open a class teaching native South African languages, and solve the problem. You will make a lot of money with no competition. Blessings and one love 🙏🇿🇦🇯🇲🇬🇭🇰🇪🇿🇼🇬🇲

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Рік тому +1

      This might really come in handy hey. Zulu was recommended as an additional language in the US curriculum for those who wish to learn it a few months back. 🇿🇦

    • @gidi3250
      @gidi3250 Рік тому +2

      @@asiphejohnson6543 they do force the collage kids who is trying to turn basketball into a professional thing to learn a language and the instructors and coaches order them to learn Swahili.

  • @mbalimahlangu1202
    @mbalimahlangu1202 2 роки тому

    I love the picture frame of you and your Ma 😍

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you 🥺❤️one of my favorite pictures ! It’s like she was there !!

  • @comfortskha2600
    @comfortskha2600 2 роки тому +2

    Lmao😂🤣🤣as for quantum and Polo GTI 😂🤣you cracked me up straight,I also struggled when I was working for United nation Hq

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +1

      😂😂dude I can count the amount of times I see a gti haha !!

  • @sagoralemel5492
    @sagoralemel5492 Рік тому

    Sounds like heaven 😍 ❤

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Рік тому

      😂😂the safety>> (depending on where you are is great)

  • @bettyboo9786
    @bettyboo9786 2 роки тому +17

    When you said nnete, nnete wow I enjoyed it. Motswana here in Toronto. Much love

  • @Nala-xf6rz
    @Nala-xf6rz 2 дні тому

    Nah 'not seeing Quantums, GTI's and a lot of Polos on the road' is freaking hilarious as a culture shock

  • @bassie.sebola
    @bassie.sebola 2 роки тому +1

    notification gang 🥺😍

  • @rethabilemoatshe7255
    @rethabilemoatshe7255 2 роки тому +3

    the card payment part did it for me !

  • @thayandamkalipi4765
    @thayandamkalipi4765 2 роки тому +1

    OOOO FAV 😍😍

  • @wmccormack4647
    @wmccormack4647 2 роки тому +7

    Turning right on red depends on where you live. It can vary by state and municipality.

  • @ntivokhoza
    @ntivokhoza 2 роки тому +6

    Chile I giggled throughout the entire video 😭🤣.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +2

      It’s all the little things that will make you miss home 😭🥺

  • @FransHattingh
    @FransHattingh Рік тому

    Girl, you're from Centurion?! No way! 😲 So am I! 💜

  • @khayalethumkhonza9964
    @khayalethumkhonza9964 2 роки тому +13

    we must take 10 million south africans,, proper ones with maPara included,, we shall restructure america,,, this will go to history,,, cause mzansi is thee country of countries,,

    • @kobe8034
      @kobe8034 2 роки тому

      How u going to do it tho??

  • @cindyhayward2066
    @cindyhayward2066 Рік тому

    I adore your video because you speak fast and you haven't learned the habit of saying "like" before each word!

  • @Thapppie
    @Thapppie 2 роки тому +5

    Enjoyed it ❤️. Time thing is almost like CT a 30mins drive here is not that much as compared to when I am in Limpopo it feels like I’m driving 2hours. 🤣
    Also Self service we have quite a number of self service stuff.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +1

      When we are home it feels like forever!! It’s the mountains 🏔! That’s why 🤣🤣

  • @alvinmarshall9446
    @alvinmarshall9446 8 місяців тому

    Wow you speak fast! Lol. Cool vid

  • @LungileNgcobo
    @LungileNgcobo 2 роки тому +1

    ♥️♥️♥️

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +2

      Aww love it you’re always here ❤️❤️🥺thank you !

    • @LungileNgcobo
      @LungileNgcobo 2 роки тому +1

      @@TimewithModiTime you’re so welcome boo! I love everything about you x

  • @ItsEntleMwelase
    @ItsEntleMwelase 2 роки тому +6

    Love the video ❤️😌
    But I'm still surprised by the payment of unbrading & washing your hair 😱 R1 260 😭. USA is so expensive bathong. So now do you braid your hair?

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +1

      Girl I was so upset Yoh I was mad ! I braided for my birthday ! And today I relaxed my own hair 🤣🤣the thought of braiding again at a salon makes me sad 🤣🥲

  • @bongimemeza9959
    @bongimemeza9959 2 роки тому +2

    We will miss you Mama, love from SOWETO

  • @lethaboswafo9639
    @lethaboswafo9639 2 роки тому

    I love ❤ your videos

  • @AFRICAGOODLIFE4993
    @AFRICAGOODLIFE4993 11 місяців тому

    Wow

  • @splashafrica
    @splashafrica Рік тому

    When you watch video and you here that "ja" it hits hard 🙂

  • @star_athlete
    @star_athlete 2 роки тому +1

    First one here 🥺🥺

  • @staciegreene2262
    @staciegreene2262 2 роки тому +1

    SISSSSSS you are in Georgia 🥰🥰. We need to hang . I’m about 45-50 mins away from Atlanta.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +1

      I dont stay in Georgia anymore I'm all the way in the West 🥺

  • @mbalimahlangu1202
    @mbalimahlangu1202 2 роки тому

    Speak on it!!!!

  • @DibweDesigner
    @DibweDesigner Рік тому +1

    the petrol service and speed point is stressing me out huh! yuh

  • @Emkayel
    @Emkayel 2 роки тому +3

    Is this video on fast forward?😄
    I watched it so fast🔥

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому

      I think maybe its because I spoke fast haha 😅😅

  • @incredibleconnections4980
    @incredibleconnections4980 2 роки тому +5

    I've heard another UA-camr complain and shocked by the braids prices.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +2

      It’s not cute at all 🥲🥲I know I’m a working hun mara ha ?!

  • @nosinkewana488
    @nosinkewana488 2 роки тому +6

    USA is expensive, I was there for a short while. Even buying bread was shocking, normal bread for about R30 back in 2002. Then there's this tax thing. As for hair, I refused. Braids were going for thousands of rands back then. I kept relaxing my hair until I came back home. As for snow 🥶🥶🥶😭😭😭 then we got invited to a barbecue, and we thought of Madea's cookout. Was it not a vienna braai 🤣🤣🤣🤣 the disappointment... Americans though

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +1

      the bbq part killed me oh no lol, if it was that amount back in 2002 I don't even want to convert it to now haha this tax thing us frustrating oh my goodness me !

    • @resegomolosiwa7659
      @resegomolosiwa7659 Рік тому +3

      Vienna braai 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @tracywalker244
      @tracywalker244 Рік тому +2

      Trust me what you had was not normal bread 😂🤣

    • @JustMe-rl5ym
      @JustMe-rl5ym Рік тому +2

      Vienna braai!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @coodie_coco4754
    @coodie_coco4754 2 роки тому +1

    it's giving accent❤️🤌🏽

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +1

      dude I don't have one all the people around me are getting changing accents nna new 😭😭

  • @Gxamalaza
    @Gxamalaza Рік тому +2

    Wow. I just googled how much 90 dollars is in rands. Yeesh! Ayingeke, ngamane uyeke. 😆

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Рік тому +1

      it sounds and looks bigger in rands but in dollars it isn’t 😭

  • @michiiey_s4232
    @michiiey_s4232 2 роки тому

    Please do more sit down videos

  • @vergespierre4271
    @vergespierre4271 2 роки тому +2

    English is a derivative of Greek and Hebrew- we speak a derivative of our mother tongue ( hebrew- Aramaic; which is not a "white" mans language due to popular belief/lies)- its a way deeper history to us as "black" Americans. That's something most people don't know or care to know due to mental conditioning and lies. So we speak our language- also English is the number one business language around the world- so many people speak it abroad: plus we never learn or are encouraged to learn anything other than english

  • @adolfmudau9956
    @adolfmudau9956 2 роки тому +1

    WOW.....chill ...your moving fast

  • @sylviagreybe672
    @sylviagreybe672 2 роки тому +3

    America is one of the few countries to still use the Imperial system (there's only 2 or so countries that do). It is left over from when the UK controlled the USA. You'd think they'd want to get rid of it because of the UK colonialism connection, but no. They still insist it's the "best" system, despite the opposite being so obvious all the rest of the world has changed to metric. Funnily enough, even the drug cartels in the US use the metric system! :) Everyone knows the metric system is better because of it's simplicity and elegance. The US was going to change to the metric system in the 60s, but the next president came in and abolished the law that said they had to change before it was enacted.

    • @hcalo
      @hcalo 2 роки тому

      America is NOT a country... American are everyone that live in all continent... North, South and Central America... thank you

  • @uMsubathi
    @uMsubathi Рік тому

    Can I please do a reaction video 😂😂😂🙆🏽‍♂️ Damn $90 for just hair 🤯

  • @phindandabula6010
    @phindandabula6010 Рік тому +2

    My shock was how many black cars are on American roads, it's like everyone drives a black car, in SA we don't like black cars, it is an obvious difference.

  • @molamoalbertus1294
    @molamoalbertus1294 2 роки тому +1

    You just spoke in my language Sepedi,where in SA are you from

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому +1

      Family is from Polokwane and born and raised in Pretoria

  • @ncedomagwebu7862
    @ncedomagwebu7862 2 роки тому

    English is Vernac there.

  • @sabrinamadison8769
    @sabrinamadison8769 Рік тому +1

    Yes. The braids in the USA is crazy

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Рік тому

      It makes sense to learn how to do braids but I’m lazy or to cut 😂😂

  • @busishauntelle
    @busishauntelle Рік тому +6

    The way I want to move to USA . I’m literally so tired of Asia😢
    Great video ❤

  • @mbalimahlangu1202
    @mbalimahlangu1202 2 роки тому +4

    I’ve never seen a Quantum 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 SAME SIS

  • @uMsubathi
    @uMsubathi Рік тому

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mclaren_nkoana
    @mclaren_nkoana Рік тому +1

    The testimony I have the day I had to put in gas for the first time 😭

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Рік тому +2

      I still struggle today and I forget which side I must pour the gas haha 🤣🤣

    • @mclaren_nkoana
      @mclaren_nkoana Рік тому

      @@TimewithModiTime 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Oarabile__M
    @Oarabile__M Рік тому

    They way I want to come to the us😭😭

  • @erickwagithuku707
    @erickwagithuku707 2 роки тому

    Hi sis

  • @Lindo_Makhaza
    @Lindo_Makhaza 2 роки тому +4

    This scares me😭😭😭

  • @maburwanemokoena7117
    @maburwanemokoena7117 Рік тому

    Ke rata Sepedi sa gago. Hope you enjoy yourself there♥️

  • @sibusisoattiemahlangu7088
    @sibusisoattiemahlangu7088 Рік тому

    Doesn’t venac mean language of the land???

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Рік тому

      This is the google definition it means "a language or dialect spoken by the ordinary people in a particular country or region."

  • @phaphamaricky2674
    @phaphamaricky2674 Рік тому

    I wanna go to the United States but I'll keep my xhosa culture

  • @uMsubathi
    @uMsubathi Рік тому

    Water pronunciation 😂😂😂🙆🏽‍♂️

  • @Emma-ey8cu
    @Emma-ey8cu 9 місяців тому

    OMG slow down!!!

  • @mbalimahlangu1202
    @mbalimahlangu1202 2 роки тому +1

    That’s why I do my own hair bcoz fok man

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому

      The ghetto with the prices friend 🙍🏽‍♀️🙍🏽‍♀️🧍🏾‍♀️

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому

      Yeah sure ! ❤️what would you like me to talk about 🥺

  • @dawnmiller6899
    @dawnmiller6899 Рік тому

    My God time difference really? That’s worldly

  • @tylerdurden3722
    @tylerdurden3722 Місяць тому

    Letting someone walk off to some backroom with my card is weird.

  • @harmtimmerman9309
    @harmtimmerman9309 Рік тому +1

    Dont't say robot, it is traffic light

  • @adolfmudau9956
    @adolfmudau9956 2 роки тому +2

    America and common sense....hey

  • @asiphejohnson6543
    @asiphejohnson6543 Рік тому

    You need to settle there sis SA is a nightmare especially with loadshedding and corruption. I'm also planning to move soon. 😊

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Рік тому +2

      You see when you guys say this I feel a bit of stress and pressure because I’m like where must I go or stay haha 😂😂🥲🥲

    • @LLEntertainment
      @LLEntertainment Рік тому +2

      Lol... stop with your politics, what nightmare are you talking about? if you want to leave please do and stop typing unnecessary things on the internet. i am tired of people making this beautiful country as if its the most horrible place on the planet. people are dying in some country and you are complaining about a few seconds you don't have electricity, grow up. this electricity thing will be fixed soon, then what are you going to complain about? i don't see my self living in any other country than South Africa. i will die for it if be.❤✌

  • @thaboturner1280
    @thaboturner1280 Рік тому

    people are leaving america n come to africa n you go there your really bold

  • @thinadlamini4671
    @thinadlamini4671 2 роки тому +1

    😂😂😂... Quantums are a South African thing that's what makes us unique. 😌😌😌

  • @rethabilemoatshe7255
    @rethabilemoatshe7255 2 роки тому +1

    Americans don't do Vrrrpha's like us sis, they have a different version

  • @vineshen3599
    @vineshen3599 Рік тому +2

    Yoh bra, why you speaking so fast? You got a rapping audition tomorrow? Sup from S.A👊

    • @kayteekon
      @kayteekon Рік тому

      She doe not speak too fast, it's jus you listen slow, lol just joking, she is a fast talker indeed

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Рік тому

      😂😂

  • @kingnews23
    @kingnews23 2 роки тому +3

    So undoing your braids and washing your hair cost was R1350 I can't deal.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 роки тому

      This is why I do everything on my own 😂😂😂

  • @thisguy4505
    @thisguy4505 8 місяців тому

    Store employees cannot sit down 💀

  • @tribalpeacock
    @tribalpeacock 2 роки тому +8

    How did you expect to hear African vernacular languages in America? Like duh!

  • @FransHerbst93
    @FransHerbst93 Рік тому +1

    just talk slower next time please😅

  • @allysonvine
    @allysonvine 6 місяців тому

    I love your video, but please talk slower... Whew

  • @onicamatidze5547
    @onicamatidze5547 Рік тому

    are u treated like a foreigner there,do they call u names sista,just like how us South Africans treats others

  • @greensistaruns7209
    @greensistaruns7209 Рік тому

    Pfft speaking vernac your in USA . Hehe Cece wake up

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Рік тому +2

      Even when I see a Afrikaans person I get excited and I start speaking in Afrikaans lol !

    • @greensistaruns7209
      @greensistaruns7209 Рік тому

      @@TimewithModiTime hehehehe girl it happens to all of us.

  • @lianaburgers1770
    @lianaburgers1770 Рік тому

    Enjoy your video, just speak a bit slower....

  • @sekgabimasobe9690
    @sekgabimasobe9690 17 днів тому

    Modisana you talk too fast slow down tog togi tog