CULTURAL SHOCKS/ LIVING IN AMERICA/ AMERICA VS SOUTH AFRICA

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  • Опубліковано 20 лют 2022
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    #livinginamerica #culturalshocks #newbeginnings

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  • @Dan13Speed
    @Dan13Speed 2 роки тому +276

    Welcome to America. Moved here when I was 9 from East Africa and its very different. First and most importantly is you are now "Black". You are no longer just a person, but you are constantly reminded about your Ethnicity. In Africa you may have been Zulu, Xhosa or whatever tribal affiliation you belong to. In America, they do not know or care about that. You are Black. Secondly, you notice people pay way too much attention to the way you speak, rather than what you are speaking about. In some extreme cases, Americans will ask you to repeat yourself because they did not understand you, even though you are speaking English. Anyways, all the best. Stay focused. Don't get caught up in the stereotype. Remember African immigrants do very well in America and become highly successful, because of our mindset..

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +17

      Thank you Dan

    • @lungile.v3505
      @lungile.v3505 2 роки тому +23

      Thank you for those encouraging word to our sister. Please take care of each other as Africa we all we got.

    • @lifeandtimesofsazi3192
      @lifeandtimesofsazi3192 2 роки тому +7

      The American system steers black immigrants to be successful as a means to spite the local black population it has nothing to do with our mindsets hence why we’ve managed to destroy a whole continent and decide to runaway

    • @Dan13Speed
      @Dan13Speed 2 роки тому +18

      @@lifeandtimesofsazi3192 You can have whatever opinion about this matter, but there are clearly certain behavioral issues that will continue to afflict our brothers in the African American Community if you could allow me to mention a few of them here: 1. Health - You have lost the concept of healthy eating. Our ancestors had a rich diet of electric foods, which you seem to give a fancy name of organic. The food sold in the black community is poison. It leads to obesity, diabetes and heart disease. How do you save any money when your loved ones are constantly in the hospital surfing from dietary health issues. 2. Over consumerism - If African American s were a country it would be in the G7 because this community has a GDP of over $1-2 trillion. In Georgia where I live the black economy is 25% -30% of Georgia’s GDP. Every major company in America knows this, however black people don’t see the power they hold in their hands and are constantly spending their dollars with people who don’t care about their well being. Going to the mall and buying up more than is needed. If you can reduce the over consumerism and invest that money within the black community there is no reason why Black America cannot be an economic power house in a decade or two. 3. Weaponization if the law: Too often do I see my African American friends in huge trouble because the law has been weaponized against you. If you have an argument with your spouse, calling 911 is as good as destroying your life,because the system will not solve your dispute it will criminalize you instead, destroying families and communities. This idea that I can raise my kids by my self is European Ignorance. You need the man in the home and you also need the community involved in the well being of our children.
      These are the mindsets I am talking about. Not some social program directed at immigrants. That is a myth. Every immigrant who comes to America signs a contract with the Government saying they will not be a public charge. For your Visa to be approved you need to have someone, a friend or relative fill out an affidavit of support saying that if you get into financial trouble they will Help you, not the government. So this is why you do not see immigrants at the welfare office.
      Again these are the mindsets I am talking about.
      Many times you see African Immigrants doing the worst jobs in America, because we face double discrimination, but collectively as a community you find that Mum who cleans toilets has $5000 or $6000 in her savings account, that factory worker has $10000 in savings. He is sending money to Africa to invest and help his family etc. Africans send $50 billion to $100 billion home to Africa from Abroad each year. That is from all the sacrifices we make here in America, Canada, Europe, Asia or Australia.
      That is the mindset I am talking about.

    • @lifeandtimesofsazi3192
      @lifeandtimesofsazi3192 2 роки тому +4

      @@Dan13Speed I get that then why not imply these systems and morales here back home, you talking about how FBAs have poor diets yet we have low life expectancy’s here in Africa yet Africa has the most fertile untouched land globally And don’t say it’s the government being corrupt because all that governments reflects is the current society that we have at our disposal. If the government is fucked up it always boils down to the society in which we inhabit being fucked up as well. Americans have gone through so much bro, from slavery, Jim Crow laws mass incarceration, bro it’s a lot all these are recent, for instance a 50+ year old American black person alive today probably had a great great parent who lived through slavery. These people haven’t healed yet the last thing they need is us talking down on their lifestyles

  • @lesegoyv
    @lesegoyv 2 роки тому +95

    When you said every single thing is big in this country I thought of my 600 lb 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +5

      Hahahahahaaa ayihlekisi hahahahaa

    • @lindileduma3811
      @lindileduma3811 2 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @itumelengmahaole5890
      @itumelengmahaole5890 2 роки тому

      😂 😂 😂 😂

    • @La_Nkosi
      @La_Nkosi 2 роки тому

      😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣

    • @siphokazileratomalinga2969
      @siphokazileratomalinga2969 2 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂🤣🤣I haven't been there but she ain't lying hai. I saw a pizza slice on some show recently. Magtig Lesego. A whole slice ke standard pizza size sa Debonairs 😭. Supersize Macd's looks like ke 1.25ltr😭😭.

  • @mrsoso5500
    @mrsoso5500 2 роки тому +24

    Lmao, when I heard "the robot" that is when I knew that no man, she really is still connected to South Africa.

  • @lunarose1066
    @lunarose1066 2 роки тому +26

    If there are alot of flags be careful in the area. It's usually an area that is not welcoming for certain people.

  • @justliving501
    @justliving501 2 роки тому +8

    I could never leave SA for America. No way hells no never!

  • @NICE-TO-BE-HERE
    @NICE-TO-BE-HERE 2 роки тому +22

    Was always wishing to experience America but now hell naw it's better to just visit there for music business only!
    South Africa is a beautiful and lovely country I'm not going anyway.

  • @tumusiimemusa6649
    @tumusiimemusa6649 2 роки тому +27

    Greatings from uganda East Africa. we are watching keep up the work let's lift this chanel to millions of subscribers.

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +1

      Aah 😄Thank you Tumusiime. Greetings in Uganda East Africa

    • @nkululekonazo5755
      @nkululekonazo5755 2 роки тому +2

      I agree with you ☺️😌 100% much love from South Africa 🇿🇦...I want to visit Uganda I know you guys got beautiful 🥰 women over there.😜

  • @motlatsiu4050
    @motlatsiu4050 2 роки тому +76

    I started watching because you're incredibly good looking, ended up watching the whole video because your vibe is even better. ❤
    When you said "robots" when referring to the traffic lights - I was so tickled because there's just nothing more South African 😂

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +4

      Lol… I’m too old to change. Thank you Motlatsi

  • @sybillamula
    @sybillamula 2 роки тому +1

    Tjo that muffin is huge, it literally fills your whole hand🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ramonrogers1734
    @ramonrogers1734 2 роки тому

    First-time watching a video from. Thank you to UA-cam for recommending your channel to me. #RSA 🇿🇦

  • @nompumeleloludidi9819
    @nompumeleloludidi9819 2 роки тому +9

    Love the content, keep the ball rolling 🥰🥰🥰

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому

      Thank you babes ❤️❤️💃🏼💃🏼❤️❤️

  • @bongekangubane8939
    @bongekangubane8939 2 роки тому +5

    I can't wait for this channel to grow.. Your aura is awesome.. I'm so glad YT recommended your channel... First time here... You just gained a new subbie😍🎉
    Love from Cape Town but originally from the South coast in Durban 😊

  • @comfortskha2600
    @comfortskha2600 2 роки тому +47

    I remember being there to visit my cousin,I ordered buffalo's wings,when they waitress brought them I was like.....yey I didn't order kalakune 🤣😂

  • @Stannely1
    @Stannely1 2 роки тому +28

    Another point is the fact that in SA we use the metric system & the US uses the imperial system (kilometers vs miles degrees celsius vs fahrenheit & liters vs gallons & centimeters vs inches).

  • @moffatmokgale1715
    @moffatmokgale1715 2 роки тому +3

    I could identify with the airport story! I tried to yank that thing off until someone who works at the airport yelled “5 dollars!” 😅😂🤣

  • @thamibokaba7090
    @thamibokaba7090 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you for this content. It’s interesting to hear the reviews from a fellow South African. Even though we’ve seen some of the stuff in the movies, it’s great to hear a firsthand experience from a black South African.
    P.S you’ve just gained yourself a new subbie 😍😍😍

  • @izanamiledwaba1330
    @izanamiledwaba1330 2 роки тому +6

    lovely. all the best.

  • @Stannely1
    @Stannely1 2 роки тому +20

    7:53
    Depression is a big deal here, unlike back home & there's huge competition among pharmaceutical companies. #RIPRikyRick 🕊️🙏🏿

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +1

      May his soul Rest In Peace

    • @bijou66
      @bijou66 Рік тому

      depression and mental illness are very real in the US. So if you are happy, Stay in your country

  • @thatoM3
    @thatoM3 2 роки тому +15

    Being a mom is a challenge and most ppl don't talk about it. Just subscribed, I think I might enjoy your content.

  • @Bongani_RSA
    @Bongani_RSA 2 роки тому +2

    Definitely enjoyed this video. I pray for consistency 🙏

  • @wandago1679
    @wandago1679 2 роки тому

    You just got yourself a new subscriber. All I can say about all this is the grass on the other side always looks greener.

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +1

      Oversaid but I think it’s greener where you water it.

  • @daphnelesige8909
    @daphnelesige8909 2 роки тому +5

    A big Shout out from SA. Keep pushing Moghal! we see you.

  • @jeffbillings-el6110
    @jeffbillings-el6110 Рік тому

    Love the music in the background! Nice melody @

  • @Gomlie1970
    @Gomlie1970 2 роки тому +7

    Love your channel I accidentally bumped into your video and I am here to stay and learn with you on your journey 🤌🏼🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😍

  • @jamesgrahamclas5204
    @jamesgrahamclas5204 2 роки тому +7

    Speaking of cultural references, when you started talking about the muffin and how big it is I couldn’t help but think of Michael Scott from the show The Office saying “that’s what she said” 😂🤣

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому

      😂 I don’t watch the office but I’m familiar with it. Will try and find the scene

    • @jamesgrahamclas5204
      @jamesgrahamclas5204 2 роки тому +1

      @@ntandoikemba6769 haibo! umngane uyaphuthelwa! 😂😂. Here is the link: ua-cam.com/video/ClzJkv3dpY8/v-deo.html. By the way, wena umuhle ngaphakathi nangaphandle 😅

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому

      @@jamesgrahamclas5204 😂

  • @nombulelondabana7547
    @nombulelondabana7547 2 роки тому +11

    I came across this channel today. Beautiful content ❤️

  • @karabo8847
    @karabo8847 2 роки тому

    Wanted to be the 100th subie😊❤
    All the best with everything else that you'll experience that side. We're here for the stories. UA-cam is great for sharing experiences.

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you Karabo. We are officially on a 1000 subies 😊

  • @preciousxulu4087
    @preciousxulu4087 2 роки тому

    Your vid just popped up on my UA-cam sis😍new subbie. Thoroughly enjoyed this. Umuhle ❤️ and thank you for sharing this with us. I was sooo intrigued 😍

  • @thapzxarnkwana3927
    @thapzxarnkwana3927 2 роки тому +1

    Great Content Ntando

  • @remom6308
    @remom6308 2 роки тому +2

    Subscribed I like your content keep it going..

  • @AllThingsLindo
    @AllThingsLindo 2 роки тому +3

    I'm new here 😍❤️ enjoying this already

  • @millybadze2117
    @millybadze2117 2 роки тому +9

    Ntando this was such a beautiful well articulated video and fun at the same time! It was like rewinding a tape lol of when I arrived here in the US. I wish you all the very best my dear!🧡💖..your Zimbabwean sis..new subbie

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому

      Thank you Milly. You’re so sweet

    • @millybadze2117
      @millybadze2117 2 роки тому

      @@ntandoikemba6769 You are so welcome Ntando! Aww thank you! Your sweet spirit comes through the screen too! Remain blessed!🙏🏾

  • @bonginhlanhlanxumalo6011
    @bonginhlanhlanxumalo6011 2 роки тому +37

    The date thing is really a problem especially for us working for American companies in RSA. It’s really confusing and sometimes we end up confusing customers 😹😹

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +3

      Hahaha the pits. I can imagine.

    • @Stannely1
      @Stannely1 2 роки тому +2

      Lol
      I've delt with Europeans & Australians at work who also find the date sequence confusing as well.

    • @andzaniritshuri6179
      @andzaniritshuri6179 2 роки тому +3

      Lol I can also attest to the date thing yoh….. I’m in SA and working for an American company

  • @rama30
    @rama30 Рік тому +2

    About the date - some places would say "the 12th of July" listing the day first and the month second. In America we would say "July 12th" listing the month first. It's basically the verbal order written down. Hope this helps!

  • @tebogomashigo3685
    @tebogomashigo3685 2 роки тому

    You just got a new follower. Hope to see more of this content.

  • @homeofsport9092
    @homeofsport9092 2 роки тому

    thanks for the time explaining the time, becoz i didn't understand why the New York market would open at 15:30 some months and 16:30 other month, most people didn't understand also

  • @kholofelomagana8797
    @kholofelomagana8797 2 роки тому +4

    New here and love your content. 👌🏽❤️✨Would love to start a new life in another country, but I wouldn’t know were to start !

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +1

      Welcome Kholofelo. Make sure you love the country and do tons of research before you make the decision. All the best

  • @lifeascelani
    @lifeascelani 2 роки тому

    I just found a new obsession, not only do you look
    Good but you seem very real. Love it 🥰

  • @jabumatsa6864
    @jabumatsa6864 2 роки тому

    Well done sis ❤ super proud right now....🇿🇦

  • @ConnectTheDeshes
    @ConnectTheDeshes 2 роки тому +4

    Your channel will grow big Sesi.

  • @AllThingsLindo
    @AllThingsLindo 2 роки тому +23

    Always interested in knowing why people decide to move. Do you share this in any video as yet?

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +11

      Hey Lindo. No I haven’t dedicated a video to it. I’ll explain in one of my videos. Mine is family related.

    • @AllThingsLindo
      @AllThingsLindo 2 роки тому +4

      @@ntandoikemba6769 oh okay, I hear you❤️ Thank you, share only what you are comfortable with, was just curious

  • @tan4kennedy177
    @tan4kennedy177 2 роки тому +21

    American is very different. Some foods can change you hormones and change your health. Stay healthy by watching for gluten and sugar.

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +2

      Sugar In everything. Will do. Thank you

    • @SteppingOut957
      @SteppingOut957 2 роки тому +1

      Try to stay away from processed food. Stick to organic fruits and vegetables and grass-fed and pastured meats.

  • @maburwanemokoena7117
    @maburwanemokoena7117 Рік тому

    Thank you for the video. I used to get surprised seeing houses that side being extremely expensive compared to South Africa. A family member who stays that side earned $4k per month and $2k went straight to rent, and had she was in SA she would've paid less than $250 dollars for the same size house.

  • @Stannely1
    @Stannely1 2 роки тому +42

    22:29 Please teach your children about their african roots & teach them isiZulu & other african languages. Instill our African pride in them

    • @realg7849
      @realg7849 2 роки тому +3

      Will it help them make money?

    • @nosihlekhumalo9200
      @nosihlekhumalo9200 2 роки тому +24

      @@realg7849 no but it will help them know who and what they are

    • @pmambongwe8640
      @pmambongwe8640 2 роки тому +3

      She's Ikemba though. Unless she married a foreigner in SA

    • @millybadze2117
      @millybadze2117 2 роки тому +5

      @@nosihlekhumalo9200 I totally agree! Very well said!💯💯

    • @lizobathembu9512
      @lizobathembu9512 2 роки тому +5

      @@realg7849 True Identity of self is directly correlated to successs...go try to tell Jews not to take pride in their identity....

  • @lerumomatlala1395
    @lerumomatlala1395 2 роки тому +17

    Hi. Just saying, your beauty is astounding ❤️! I also enjoyed your chilled, authentic personality (albeit on-screen), which immediately naturalises your engagement with your viewers. Best of wishes with your marriage, child(ren) and family as a whole. Thanks for the share lady ❤️

  • @tswinabongiwe2836
    @tswinabongiwe2836 2 роки тому

    You just gained a subscriber ❤ I enjoyed this video

  • @ennyj8834
    @ennyj8834 2 роки тому +9

    Just stumbled across your channel. When you mentioned you can turn on red at the traffic light I knew automatically you were in MD. Then you mentioned Gaithersburg. Welcome to Montgomery County it's a bit boring but safe.🤗

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +1

      Lol to boring… Thank you Enrica

    • @ennyj8834
      @ennyj8834 2 роки тому +1

      Most welcome

    • @Stannely1
      @Stannely1 2 роки тому

      You can turn right on a red light in california too, unless there's a "no turn on red" sign

  • @SoUThCReATiOn
    @SoUThCReATiOn Рік тому +1

    Excellent video!! Im African American and I made my big move from the states to South Africa last year and cant no other country in the world relate to us but South Africa with a few differences nothing here is a culture shock to me... I love to see my brothers and sistaz from SA experience America

  • @CcMum
    @CcMum 2 роки тому +2

    All the best to you and your family 🙏

  • @DJ_Ndiks
    @DJ_Ndiks 2 роки тому +3

    You are a very pretty lady and I can tell you also have a good heart. It was interesting listening to your culture shock in America. I wish you and your family all the best in America. Keep shinning and stay blessed.💜🇿🇦🇺🇸

  • @lilbadiejay1947
    @lilbadiejay1947 2 роки тому +35

    Here at home we get adverts zefuneral cover sisi.

  • @wonderfulfavour
    @wonderfulfavour 2 роки тому

    Nice one

  • @leratomatlala9716
    @leratomatlala9716 2 роки тому

    Loved it...

  • @Candice_Pope
    @Candice_Pope 2 роки тому +18

    You're beautiful and your skin is glowing

  • @BN-lw2cy
    @BN-lw2cy 2 роки тому +1

    I can relate to all the cultural shocks.I just moved to the Caribbean island(St Kitts) with my family a month ago.

    • @mbalenhlesibisi
      @mbalenhlesibisi 2 роки тому

      Omg that's so cool. My dream is to live in the Caribbean 😭

    • @bijou66
      @bijou66 Рік тому

      Hoping to move to St Kitts when i retire in a few years.

    • @qaqambamdliva3750
      @qaqambamdliva3750 Рік тому

      How is life there in the Caribbean coz I would love to move there in the near future.

    • @BN-lw2cy
      @BN-lw2cy Рік тому +1

      @@mbalenhlesibisi It’s really nice living here but you will need to adjust to the weather it’s summer all year round.

    • @BN-lw2cy
      @BN-lw2cy Рік тому

      @@bijou66 very nice and later back place to retire.it’s a true definition of paradise you would love it.

  • @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
    @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 2 роки тому +23

    Let's talk about the meds. We in the Carribbean and Africa are culturally shocked. Its too much, planting on the land is what we do. We are not depressed people, we are earth people. Haha, culture shock 101....

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +1

      Hahaha I see you there

    • @Blackflyer1
      @Blackflyer1 2 роки тому

      The American lifestyle is sedentary. Other countries get regular activity and excercise which can help prevent depression. People also lack regular interactions with family and friends. Caught in the rat race (work, family, work, sleep, repeat).
      Oh and everything varies from state to state. New Jersey does not allow you to pump your own gas. Americans experience culture shock too when visiting other states.
      As an American I have never seen a muffin that big from any bakery. Wow!

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому

      @@Blackflyer1It’s so interesting how different states operate so differently. I can’t wait to explore them. Thank you for the comment

    • @jasminepearls1047
      @jasminepearls1047 2 роки тому +1

      It's also cold most of the year in half the country its not always possible to walk around or stay outside.

  • @bohlalenchabeleng1370
    @bohlalenchabeleng1370 2 роки тому +2

    I once saw the time shifting thing in powerpuff girls (given that it's an American show) when I was a kid.

  • @slindsayharmon1086
    @slindsayharmon1086 Рік тому

    We have that in Zim we grew up on them in the 70s I candy cake coz it had frosting & was pink!

  • @penelopemngadi8502
    @penelopemngadi8502 2 роки тому

    Hi Ntando,Oh yes I agree with you when you say everything is huge 😂😂😂. Just the couch behind you is huuuuuuuge compared to mine here in SA ,I like it though.

  • @onicamatidze5547
    @onicamatidze5547 2 роки тому

    Hi! Ntando Ikemba,am from Limpopo SA,i just subscribed

  • @ntokotom147
    @ntokotom147 2 роки тому

    New subbie❤️❤️🇿🇦

  • @beingbett
    @beingbett 2 роки тому +1

    Loved this video. This was really eye-opening. I had no idea about some of the things you mentioned.

  • @Skolong_sa_lenala.
    @Skolong_sa_lenala. 2 роки тому

    New subbie🤟🤟🤟🤟watching from PTA.

  • @queenethngcungama9766
    @queenethngcungama9766 2 роки тому +9

    DST is a weird one, the advancement of the clock is a crazy way of taking advantage of the daylight and all. There's quite a few countries that practice DST. Why are they just not choosing one standard time instead of complicating things. One country observing different time zones. Good vid

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому

      Thank you Q. I think it works in everyone’s favor so that everyone can take advantage of daylight as you mentioned earlier. Also I think it’s the same thing within the country because it’s huge. Different states are literally like different countries just combined. I’m just still amazed by the concept of ‘shifting time’ backwards and forwards.

    • @bezisakala4623
      @bezisakala4623 2 роки тому

      Welcome to the DMV...
      Yho!! This winter DST is hitting different the older I get! Also, one thing about Arizona, is they do not follow DST rules so come tomorrow, they will be 3 hours behind us. That is another shocker on its own! I look forward to your settling down journey and enjoying your content.

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +1

      @@bezisakala4623 thank you Bezi

  • @BatsiraiMusuka
    @BatsiraiMusuka 2 роки тому +1

    Let me follow! 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @NtsakoShilubane
    @NtsakoShilubane 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Ntando. Love your videos. What is the name of te tune (Song) in the background

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому

      Thank you Ntsako.
      It’s called Looking for answers on the Videoleap editing app

  • @AnnaMuzaza
    @AnnaMuzaza 2 роки тому

    We use to have that in winter too, Namibia...so we had an hour behind

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +1

      In Africa oh wow… that’s interesting

    • @AnnaMuzaza
      @AnnaMuzaza 2 роки тому

      @@ntandoikemba6769 yeah…well we use to not anymore. Stopped about two years or so ago because it was not conducive for trade. But even Angola still does it I think

  • @nickyngwana
    @nickyngwana 2 роки тому

    The billboards as well are huge dear.

  • @MosesMatsepane
    @MosesMatsepane 2 роки тому +15

    Cape Town suburbs also don’t have Fences/Walls, similar to American Suburbs. In fact most towns in the Western Cape have that fenceless look in the suburbs . Gauteng is the problem when it comes to Giant walls and electrical fences. I was also shocked when I moved to Gauteng from the Western Cape… It looked scary with all the high walls and electric fences. I am used to it now…been here too long. 😅

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +1

      I’m happy to hear that there are places in SA that are fenceless

    • @eternallife6023
      @eternallife6023 2 роки тому +5

      That's so interesting. I've been in Gauteng all my life, I also had no idea that there are places that have no fences in Mzansi. 😅

    • @m2ranojaholo79
      @m2ranojaholo79 2 роки тому +4

      Which Cape Town🤣🤣🤣

    • @dumisamonakali9954
      @dumisamonakali9954 2 роки тому +1

      @@m2ranojaholo79 which Cape Town for real? Lmaooo

  • @vUvUgrl
    @vUvUgrl 2 роки тому +4

    Daylight saving is here in the UK too. Clocks are about to change here on Sunday and I’ve been here 20mins still can’t get used it. Your reaction to the portion sizes have me laughing 😂

  • @fadiadear7631
    @fadiadear7631 2 роки тому

    I have been to the USA.
    The many telephone networks for me wow.
    NY late sunset
    So many experiences
    Even the delicious ice creams
    My son went there and came back bigger.
    Like literally grown in two weeks

  • @kutlomasole712
    @kutlomasole712 2 роки тому

    New subbie here♥️.You are beautiful and great content

  • @rickjones1281
    @rickjones1281 Рік тому +2

    Yes in the U.S. they charge you for every thing you're lucky to get Air for free.

  • @reneilwemaibelo6491
    @reneilwemaibelo6491 2 роки тому +4

    Oh my gosh, I experienced the same thing with my luggage at the exact same airport😭😂 new subscriber here. I'm actually planning on relocating fully to the US in the next year or 2.

    • @afro-fairydezigns2780
      @afro-fairydezigns2780 2 роки тому

      Hi lovely...😊😁 we hve tge same name thats why i said hi

    • @el16ful
      @el16ful 2 роки тому

      I paid six dollars at new jersey airport, 9bucks in Atlanta, 4 bucks in Las Vegas. I moved from south Africa too

    • @qaqambamdliva3750
      @qaqambamdliva3750 Рік тому

      Hi guys, I'm South African too. Would love to know what made you guys want to relocate specifically and which state in the US are you relocating to?

  • @kaybeeMoAfrika
    @kaybeeMoAfrika 2 роки тому

    3 months is not long enough to give a thorough experience for such a big country. But I understand how some of the things here are so different from home. As someone who lived in Joburg before, I wasn't that surprised with the changes because there are so many similarities between the two countries.

    • @ncumisampongwana4961
      @ncumisampongwana4961 2 роки тому +2

      You normally notice things that shock you about the place in the first months. If you stay long they become normal and they become part of your culture. So filming culture shocks while they still shock you rather than when they have become normal. That's when you will articulate everything well.

  • @dennisreeve8859
    @dennisreeve8859 3 місяці тому

    Nice to meet you! Of course things are much different in the USA than S Africa! Hopefully a major improvement in some noticable ways! I'm a man of small towns and live in central Michigan! The cost of living here is more relaxed than in large cities, but America has built an infrastructure that allows goods and services to expand easily to rural areas! And stress levels are much lower than in urban areas! Don't be afraid to explore the expanse and variety of America and its muriad of people and geograghy. I think that the experience will be helpful in your understanding!

  • @rowensamuel2979
    @rowensamuel2979 2 роки тому

    I love baby, just complaining for attention. 😂🤣😂 too cute.
    God's Blessings and Love to You & Your Family.

  • @Eddy.user-pq5fg2bf7s
    @Eddy.user-pq5fg2bf7s 2 роки тому +34

    Trevor was also complaining about chicken portions 😂🤣

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +3

      Yep lol

    • @kaybeeMoAfrika
      @kaybeeMoAfrika 2 роки тому +1

      Lol! The pieces are definitely big, especially in Texas. What I find interesting though is that many African immigrants in SA think our chicken portions much bigger than what they are used to in their respective countries. SA is like the America of Africa.

    • @qaqambamdliva3750
      @qaqambamdliva3750 Рік тому

      @@kaybeeMoAfrika Do you live in Texas? If you do.....how is Texas?

    • @kaybeeMoAfrika
      @kaybeeMoAfrika Рік тому

      @@qaqambamdliva3750 I don't live in Texas, I live in Indiana but I go there every once and a while. Texas is a nice place, especially in places like Austin.

  • @lesegogaebeeyn4005
    @lesegogaebeeyn4005 2 дні тому

    Just seeing you I subscribed immediately

  • @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
    @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 2 роки тому +12

    I understand the Airport issues with the cart, and if you pay and it does not work. Then they don't refund you, because its a mass deceptive scheme. I am actually leaving in 3 to 4 years to South Africa. Listen to " The Real South Africa"........I wish you both the best of luck. Its very,very expensive and I live in the South where you get more space and more land. All the best though

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +3

      The cart system is knocker especially since it hits you while you just land.
      South Africa is beautiful. It’s diverse, mostly classy, it also has its quirks but it’s livable. All the best with your immigration

    • @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
      @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 2 роки тому +1

      @@ntandoikemba6769 Thank you. I was called to the nations. Jamaica, Africa and limited US.....utilizing the US dollars to ascend. I think it will be easy for me to adjust especially from Carribbean roots. Love your skin, I see you channel growing and I am here to support my people. Lol 😆

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you Queen

    • @BN-lw2cy
      @BN-lw2cy 2 роки тому

      Happend to us when we landed in Antigua with 10 big suitcases.imagine my husband had to find a ATM to pay the guys👀

  • @nickyngwana
    @nickyngwana 2 роки тому

    It happened to me in 2001,busy pulling the cart only to find out that l need a dollar bill. It was still cheaper than now.

  • @carree7942
    @carree7942 2 роки тому +4

    1st of all your skin 😍😍😍

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому

      Thank you

    • @carree7942
      @carree7942 2 роки тому +1

      @@ntandoikemba6769 do you have a skin routine or is it just naturally like that?

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +1

      @@carree7942 Strange enough I’d never describe myself as someone who has good skin. So I’d say it’s a routine that has improved it. I still get breakouts here and there and I’ve tried to stay clear of dairy products since my baby had gastric discomfort since I breastfeed. I’d say it’s trying to mind what I eat mostly. Thank you

  • @maditabammatli2884
    @maditabammatli2884 2 роки тому

    Heey dear sounds like an amazing experience,.. Just few questions.. are the biggest shops we have here also there.. Like your Spar and Checkers?

  • @benparamerica
    @benparamerica 2 роки тому

    New subscriber 👍🏽

  • @rbee2062
    @rbee2062 27 днів тому

    We pay for those carts here in the UK as well.

  • @azetilayi
    @azetilayi 2 роки тому +1

    Which camera do you use. The quality is amazing

  • @Kegakilwetshegofatso
    @Kegakilwetshegofatso 2 роки тому

    How much is fights from SA TO USA? Total amount

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому

      Realistically I’d say from a $1000 for a return flight which is about R15000

  • @dailydose3919
    @dailydose3919 2 роки тому

    I was wondering where is nok then realized ooh New York🤣🤣🤣

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому

      It’s actually Newark 😂it’s close to New York. I also found about it just before I left SA.

    • @jasoncoles9086
      @jasoncoles9086 2 роки тому

      It's in New Jersey

  • @fuzelihlengcobo625
    @fuzelihlengcobo625 2 роки тому +37

    ... As a child, I used to Dream about going to the US, and possibly even living there permanently one day. Fast forward to 2022, I don't even see myself visiting even for one day. All the Best in the States... Nevertheless, this video was enlightening.

    • @mfundisombhokane3052
      @mfundisombhokane3052 2 роки тому +7

      Yeah that's me . I can visit anywhere but the USA

    • @kaybeeMoAfrika
      @kaybeeMoAfrika 2 роки тому

      If you don't mind me asking,, why do you not want to visit America?

    • @hopebuhali3887
      @hopebuhali3887 2 роки тому +3

      Lol same. I find America scary now, don't think ill visit.

    • @kaybeeMoAfrika
      @kaybeeMoAfrika 2 роки тому +2

      @@hopebuhali3887 America is cool. Very safe in most areas. Police can be crazy sometimes but it's not as bad as the media portrays it. I never worry about being held at a gun point or car hijacked here. Racism is very subtle, so you may not see it unless you're looking for it. It's easier to live here if you're from South Africa, at least that's what I think.

    • @mommacare764
      @mommacare764 2 роки тому +2

      The horror stories you hear about America, racism from police. I wouldn't be comfortable even as a tourist. I'm scared of America

  • @jennifernsabiyumva7774
    @jennifernsabiyumva7774 2 роки тому +2

    Hahaha your first culture shock was the same as mines sisi!!! How they make you pay for airport trollies?!? I def subscribed!!

  • @beyond_9-5_dreams
    @beyond_9-5_dreams 2 роки тому

    That daylight saving time thing, apparently it used to be a war effort thing to preserve more work hours during wwii. I thought they'd passed a law that repealed it

  • @leeluv96
    @leeluv96 2 роки тому

    This is how the O'mas put babies to sleep (that like to stay awake). First from the time they wake up in the morning, NO NAPS. Even if they get cranky no naps for about a week or two to reset the sleep pattern. When they are awake you must remove the excess energy with play. Play with them physically all day. Teach them how to play by themselves during this time too. This will make you tired but remember it is temporary. Keep a regular schedule. If your schedule is all over the place, this may not work well for baby's inner clock. Next, about an hour after their last meal for the night, give them a bath in "Sleepy time" baby wash. Then rub them down really well with baby oil. Warm up some socks and put them on their feet. This will help to release any hidden gases that you didn't get with burping. OH and pay attention, take a few days to just watch your baby. You may find that they are light or sound sensitive. If they are either, you'll have to adjust a few things in your home. I won't say the last thing they used to do because I don't want to go to jail. Also it's not necessary.

  • @kabelolove
    @kabelolove 2 роки тому +1

    Can you please make a video about your visit to the salon

  • @kasikwagoma6740
    @kasikwagoma6740 2 роки тому +6

    Just came across your channel, your surname is also found among the igbo tribe.you are so beautiful.

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +6

      Thank you Kasikwa. My husband is Igbo so that makes me Igbo.

    • @kasikwagoma6740
      @kasikwagoma6740 2 роки тому +3

      @@ntandoikemba6769 wow I thought as much, because Ikemba is from the igbos. I am zambian(father) and my mother is Zimbabwean. Eversince I read "things fall apart" for my "A" level English literature along with Shakespeare, I became very interested in the igbos.do you know they even have the name Ngozi a name you find in Zambia, Zimbabwe.

    • @ntandoikemba6769
      @ntandoikemba6769  2 роки тому +1

      @@kasikwagoma6740 Yes of course. Ngozi seems to be a very common name. I’m sure it has different meanings in all the countries that you’ve just mentioned. I l, however, did not read “Thing fall apart”

    • @kasikwagoma6740
      @kasikwagoma6740 2 роки тому +1

      @@ntandoikemba6769 a very good igbo friend of mine told me Ngozi means blessings.

    • @itumelengkomana4390
      @itumelengkomana4390 2 роки тому +1

      @@kasikwagoma6740 Things Fall Apart is a lovely book. Love it so much when people reference it.

  • @felicitygumede3577
    @felicitygumede3577 2 роки тому +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 'OMG someone stole my luggage'🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ntando sejwayele amasela antshontshayo 🤷

  • @nothandontshalintshali4335
    @nothandontshalintshali4335 2 роки тому

    Please do a get to know you video . Also do we ever get to meet the rest of the family?

  • @bohlalenchabeleng1370
    @bohlalenchabeleng1370 2 роки тому +6

    You actually do look like a young doll, umuhle wena.

  • @kelebogilebesong2392
    @kelebogilebesong2392 Рік тому

    Speaking of big.. tell me about that bottle of milk😂😂😂😂

  • @uMsubathi
    @uMsubathi Рік тому

    Lol 🤣 can't wait to get to USA 🤞🏼 & experience the big things 😂

  • @DV-lr8ec
    @DV-lr8ec 2 роки тому +8

    Interesting you say you're so grateful to be here and not change it for anything 🤔..
    well, many people here would love to have changed positions with you and live in SA