Now here is another precious resource - at least for essential advice and enjoyable reading. Dr. Peterson's book “12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos” is finally available. You can find it here: amzn.to/2ipaBnQ (US) / amzn.to/2kpdXv9 (UK) / amzn.to/2jTRq67 (CA) Or just get the audiobook read by the man himself for FREE via the Audible Trial program! :) amzn.to/2D9maL2 The above are Amazon affiliate links.
I've broken quite a few promises in my life ... and I can tell you that it hurts like hell when you finally have to face the fact that you are not regarded as "trustworthy". To be trusted is right up there with being loved ... it's a sign of _authenticity_ - "realness", and if you lose the trust of someone you say you love ... that's a very big mistake.
This is exactly what I felt, my world was shattered and my past, present and future years changed in seconds. Afterwards I dug too deep in my own mind looking for an answer but made my own underworld, this speaks to me deeply now.
The shattering comes (5:05ish) when we put our trust or our invisible souls upon something unstable - not trustworthy. Then when it proves itself as untrustworthy - it is manifested in as Dr.Peterson describes as a 'shattering' of the 'stable' foundation that we have built upon. The problem is what we build upon. If we build upon solid things (and our level of accuracy of judgement - rooted in our own integrity - is the judge from which we reference this) then our house will remain...and i'd like to add to what Dr.Peterson says in that it isn't that other people can shatter our realities - in a SENSE - BUT... when they betray us - rather that our trust is severely hurt which is an incredibly painful thing, humiliating thing, brings one in touch with the visceral facts of the human struggle, but our own faith if we haven't subjugated that to the other person is what will keep us standing and our own head high during the low times - the valleys. Trust is a deep issue and it needs to be approached with all caution and wisdom and discernment and ALSO a healthy fear....but it will only be hurt but not broken if we have indeed build our trust upon the immaterial things which in turn are eternal/truly trustworthy as all the righteous people of every nation have ever done. But if we let fear rule us then the 'shattering' will break us - and to the degree we let it - will cause us to withdraw that little bit the next time. Once bitten - twice shy they say. Once we let this snake into our souls - it will consume as much as the one whom it has been allowed into to consume - even the whole house clean. It's desire for you - but you must master it (Genesis 4:7) that applies for all temptations which attempt to assault the soul. This is a universal principle. Those victorious will look at life from much different eyes to those consumed by it.
This is the very reason as to why I hate meeting new people. The fact that there is always a certain level of trust involved always puts me on edge. Those involved who abuse or break said trust are only met with scorn and malice by my behavior and actions, where it is at the point that I only wish pain and misfortune upon my newfound enemies. That being said, I try to avoid new people in public all together if possible. Putting trust into strangers are a bad idea to me.
Invest less emotion and energy into each interaction eh, most all of us are only acting in our own interest, but the best of us can work w others bc 2 scales much more than 2x, master mind idea, or at least idea that oneness comes from twoness, jp says ya know when u can learn something from someone, but as u know brotha be warey and v careful!! Butbut live dont miss the party that makes life more worthy to live dontchaknow
funny. I dont use any of these websites specifically because I cant trust anyone. Im slowly getting over it, but... been screwed over so many times in so many ways. Online trading included. ive been through this thought process of betrayal several times now. 3 times with relationships I had absolute trust in.
Try not hate- relate! When most incredible pain- HELP another! O.j.(s) not applicable! With NO name no character to investigate! ✔ AWARE! No injuries- boomerang!💫
kali mali thats your defination or is it....those who speak ill of others speak of self. love is the greatest resource. It is the language of god. Remember jesus loves you. That message echoes the fabric of space for time eternal.
I disagree. The most precious resource available to us is the time we have. Nothing else matters if that time doesn't exist. Everything you achieve is predicated upon the time needed to do so. Every moment you spend doing anything you love, everything you witness within that time-span, and everything you do, say, or feel is dependent upon time. Each moment of your life, once spent, can never be reacquired. No matter what else you achieve, how much wealth you amass, or how many mountains you scale-time can never be regained. Trust pales in comparison as a commodity! Hence the term "Spend your time wisely!"
Logical Lunatic Time is relative and without meaning, fun and experience with trust it's not worthwhile. We trust the economy will work, trust that our car will start, trust that we will wake up in the morning, trust that our job will be there and trust that they will pay us.
Simplification of people's identity based on what they say is a bad simplification. Trust is won, but never trust. Idk ebay, but the latinamerican version makes the users rate each other, so trust isnt the key to online trade non fraud
Cool, but in my humble opinion; How can we trust our illusions and projections? that is all they are. Our idea of the faithful partner is only that, an idea. That does not mean I won't trust, but if someone betrays, it's no big deal. The same goes for everyone in our life, they are human and can make mistakes or change their mind. We see our wife as if they are our property and they should be as faithful as our car, when they do not belong to us, and can change their mind at any moment or not!
rafael55 So you are saying there is no limit to fraud.. that there should be no moral compass regarding screwing people over? You think it's ok? What?? People like you are the problem.. arrogantly destroying humanity and our precious resource(s) So sad :(
Do you judge everyone so severely when you don't agree with them?? Also very sad indeed, but that's your own business . Maybe I did not explain myself well enough, maybe because english is not my main language. Maybe I should include that on a spiritual level II believe no harm can come to us with the terrible things that you say I say. I believe that our spiritual nature can't be harmed this that for you is very terrible, and people make mistakes, and we can forgive.
This is much more than just disagreeing with your opinion it's a matter of morality.. doing the right thing.. being kind to others.. sure some people especially men love to play the game of competition but when lying etc is causing harm to others then where do you draw the line on harming people. It's not fun constantly being on the losing end of deliberate silly competitive games that I don't like playing. I prefer the straightforward interaction and you prefer a game and there is nothing wrong with that as long as morality human rights are respected. I have been ripped of many many times and it feels bad :( I didn't mean to judge you in a negative way.. I understand how you are thinking
I really think you did not understand me, maybe I did not express myself in a way you could understand me. Nothing you say has anything to do with the way I am , or think. Best we leave it alone, ok?
Now here is another precious resource - at least for essential advice and enjoyable reading. Dr. Peterson's book “12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos” is finally available. You can find it here: amzn.to/2ipaBnQ (US) / amzn.to/2kpdXv9 (UK) / amzn.to/2jTRq67 (CA) Or just get the audiobook read by the man himself for FREE via the Audible Trial program! :) amzn.to/2D9maL2
The above are Amazon affiliate links.
Man, I clicked thinking i was going to get a vague shallow answer, but this is so deep I think im finding oil.
Ahh that feeling of betrayal... It's not anger at the betrayer that hurts the most, it's the self-hatred for allowing it happen that hurts the most
I've broken quite a few promises in my life ... and I can tell you that it hurts like hell when you finally have to face the fact that you are not regarded as "trustworthy". To be trusted is right up there with being loved ... it's a sign of _authenticity_ - "realness", and if you lose the trust of someone you say you love ... that's a very big mistake.
Those Civ V icons in the thumbnail tho
Clicked for the Civ V icons, stayed for Peterson.
Shut up freak. Wolololo
Noticed them right away...🤣
Iron is the most important, in order to build the Frigates and crush your enemies.
@@Skjeggspir Food man. High pop OP
This is exactly what I felt, my world was shattered and my past, present and future years changed in seconds. Afterwards I dug too deep in my own mind looking for an answer but made my own underworld, this speaks to me deeply now.
This is a great clip. Love this man, he’s such a force for good and helped countless of us. 🙂
The shattering comes (5:05ish) when we put our trust or our invisible souls upon something unstable - not trustworthy.
Then when it proves itself as untrustworthy - it is manifested in as Dr.Peterson describes as a 'shattering' of the 'stable' foundation that we have built upon.
The problem is what we build upon. If we build upon solid things (and our level of accuracy of judgement - rooted in our own integrity - is the judge from which we reference this) then our house will remain...and i'd like to add to what Dr.Peterson says in that it isn't that other people can shatter our realities - in a SENSE - BUT... when they betray us - rather that our trust is severely hurt which is an incredibly painful thing, humiliating thing, brings one in touch with the visceral facts of the human struggle, but our own faith if we haven't subjugated that to the other person is what will keep us standing and our own head high during the low times - the valleys. Trust is a deep issue and it needs to be approached with all caution and wisdom and discernment and ALSO a healthy fear....but it will only be hurt but not broken if we have indeed build our trust upon the immaterial things which in turn are eternal/truly trustworthy as all the righteous people of every nation have ever done. But if we let fear rule us then the 'shattering' will break us - and to the degree we let it - will cause us to withdraw that little bit the next time. Once bitten - twice shy they say.
Once we let this snake into our souls - it will consume as much as the one whom it has been allowed into to consume - even the whole house clean. It's desire for you - but you must master it (Genesis 4:7) that applies for all temptations which attempt to assault the soul. This is a universal principle. Those victorious will look at life from much different eyes to those consumed by it.
Because of this man I am studying psychology in college. I am 38 years old.
We need to promote the idea of Trust more.
This is great stuff
understanding is the answer.
Damn. I would have guessed oil. You need it for a ton of late-game units.
God damn mechanized infantry, the movement speed and health is just too good to miss out on. Not to mention the DPS!
I love You Jordan Peterson
I see Civ5 resource icons, I click.
This man is a singular person.
2:12 heard this on freedomtoons had no idea he actually said that!🤣
Trust.... is the most important thing in economy in relationship.... in every field of human ....😲😃🎆🎆🎆
This is the very reason as to why I hate meeting new people. The fact that there is always a certain level of trust involved always puts me on edge. Those involved who abuse or break said trust are only met with scorn and malice by my behavior and actions, where it is at the point that I only wish pain and misfortune upon my newfound enemies.
That being said, I try to avoid new people in public all together if possible. Putting trust into strangers are a bad idea to me.
Invest less emotion and energy into each interaction eh, most all of us are only acting in our own interest, but the best of us can work w others bc 2 scales much more than 2x, master mind idea, or at least idea that oneness comes from twoness, jp says ya know when u can learn something from someone, but as u know brotha be warey and v careful!! Butbut live dont miss the party that makes life more worthy to live dontchaknow
Fun fact: at 3:41 Mr. Peterson has been thinking about his own relationship and how it could've gone as he is holding his wedding ring.
You have an observant eye, Sir!
I was thinking the same thing. Such a visceral annotation
Regrettably China does not appreciate the concept of trust in commerce, in my humble opinion.
5:48 brain processing overload ‼️🧠♨️
love the civ icons lmao
does he talk more about this, where can i find it? Okay nvm all i had to do is look into the description xD
Water of course
Woah!,...thank you
funny. I dont use any of these websites specifically because I cant trust anyone. Im slowly getting over it, but... been screwed over so many times in so many ways. Online trading included.
ive been through this thought process of betrayal several times now. 3 times with relationships I had absolute trust in.
Try not hate- relate! When most incredible pain- HELP another! O.j.(s) not applicable! With NO name no character to investigate! ✔ AWARE! No injuries- boomerang!💫
Someone needs to make reviews on people . I trust Reviews.
I need 5 Star ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ people in my life not 1 ⭐️ people.
Relatable from an irresponsible teenager for getting his life on track to a country's diplomat pursuing soft power
I couldn't comprehend what he was saying from 6:20 acoustically. Could someone please explain ?
Snakes are those things which bite from the 'underworld'.
Which collection of books is he refering to when he mentions about the story of walled garden exists at the beginning of it?
Something to do with adam and eve, a quick google search would find out for you.
He's referring to the Bible (Genesis 2 and 3) - the Garden of Eden is the walled garden.
It's water.
Before I watch i'm gonna guess concrete.
*crickets*
Lobsters?
Solid choice.
ngl I thought it was chicken. But this. This is better.
I hope he isn't gonna say "friendship" or something like that.
Stay away from Room 237.
you mean 217
We both might be right.
I live in the underworld
love is the greatest resource.
Which kind of love? Eros?
Boom...nicely put Kali mali...and Mike Brownlee thought he could get away with some cliche!
kali mali thats your defination or is it....those who speak ill of others speak of self.
love is the greatest resource. It is the language of god. Remember jesus loves you. That message echoes the fabric of space for time eternal.
kali mali gods love has no conditions....gods love is your greatest resource.
contemplate that for a decade or so.
Mike Brownlee , yeah the love of money if you lean right.
I disagree. The most precious resource available to us is the time we have. Nothing else matters if that time doesn't exist. Everything you achieve is predicated upon the time needed to do so. Every moment you spend doing anything you love, everything you witness within that time-span, and everything you do, say, or feel is dependent upon time.
Each moment of your life, once spent, can never be reacquired. No matter what else you achieve, how much wealth you amass, or how many mountains you scale-time can never be regained.
Trust pales in comparison as a commodity!
Hence the term "Spend your time wisely!"
Logical Lunatic
Time is relative and without meaning, fun and experience with trust it's not worthwhile. We trust the economy will work, trust that our car will start, trust that we will wake up in the morning, trust that our job will be there and trust that they will pay us.
@@hekkenschutz We trust that our life isn't an illusion and that it has some form of meaning, and we trust that we have time. pog
Simplification of people's identity based on what they say is a bad simplification. Trust is won, but never trust. Idk ebay, but the latinamerican version makes the users rate each other, so trust isnt the key to online trade non fraud
Betrayal: Afghanistan.
The most precious resource is time.
Hmm, no thum nails for me.
Betrayal, yes, lowest evil, all sin is the betrayal of Christ.
A lotta cheese in these comments.
Best not to worship or demonize any Jew. Just laugh at their jokes.
Weed
Cool, but in my humble opinion; How can we trust our illusions and projections? that is all they are. Our idea of the faithful partner is only that, an idea. That does not mean I won't trust, but if someone betrays, it's no big deal. The same goes for everyone in our life, they are human and can make mistakes or change their mind. We see our wife as if they are our property and they should be as faithful as our car, when they do not belong to us, and can change their mind at any moment or not!
rafael55 So you are saying there is no limit to fraud.. that there should be no moral compass regarding screwing people over? You think it's ok? What?? People like you are the problem.. arrogantly destroying humanity and our precious resource(s) So sad :(
Do you judge everyone so severely when you don't agree with them?? Also very sad indeed, but that's your own business . Maybe I did not explain myself well enough, maybe because english is not my main language. Maybe I should include that on a spiritual level II believe no harm can come to us with the terrible things that you say I say. I believe that our spiritual nature can't be harmed this that for you is very terrible, and people make mistakes, and we can forgive.
This is much more than just disagreeing with your opinion it's a matter of morality.. doing the right thing.. being kind to others.. sure some people especially men love to play the game of competition but when lying etc is causing harm to others then where do you draw the line on harming people. It's not fun constantly being on the losing end of deliberate silly competitive games that I don't like playing. I prefer the straightforward interaction and you prefer a game and there is nothing wrong with that as long as morality human rights are respected. I have been ripped of many many times and it feels bad :( I didn't mean to judge you in a negative way.. I understand how you are thinking
I really think you did not understand me, maybe I did not express myself in a way you could understand me. Nothing you say has anything to do with the way I am , or think. Best we leave it alone, ok?
You are discussing yourself I am discussing the world I guess.. I hope for a peaceful and kind world and I hope you do too