I don't usually comment but I always watch your videos. You are a treasured friend and you encourage me in ways you'll never know. Both of you! I am in my 60's and past this season of life but your family and your deep faith as a couple is an island of peace in this chaotic world. God Bless You
Same here. Retirement is all exploring what you enjoy and I’m a long time subscriber here. Let’s all take a minute to pray for the Florida mom with a 17 yr old son who is struggling. Surely with all of us lifting her up He will listen and make a way. 🙏
Oh guys, internet critics!!🙄 people need to just do their own life and stop trying to do yours. I made plenty of mistakes raising my kiddos and thank goodness I wasn’t being critiqued at every turn. Anyone can see that you are a happy and balanced family with love and respect for each other. And all you armchair critics, remember, not every thought you have needs to spoken! Take care Tribe🥰
As my grandmother used to say…In one ear and out the other. Don’t let those negative comments take up any space in your mind. You guys are a beautiful loving family and we appreciate you sharing your life with us. Blessings to all of you! 😘❤️
I want to say thank you to both of you for saying how you pray when you and your spouse are not on the same page. My husband and I disagree on some things and I never thought to pray for a change in his heart or mine. So thank you for this. I just recently started going back to church with my 8 year old and I thought I knew everything about praying but I see that it’s not just what you pray for it’s how you pray for it. That was a real eye opener for me, so thank you!!
I am a very confrontational person but the Lord has shown me lately how I have won more battles on my knees in prayer than I have through an argument. I now have a peace of mind that I never had before. If someone irritates me, I just pray in my heart for them and for me, and the atmosphere just begins to change.
I will never understand why people waste their time leaving nasty comments and spreading negativity. Its biazrre ..I am single and I have no children but i love your content Sarah and Solo and I come here for the down to earth common sense approach to life, the warmth of the family and the wholesome content in general. ❤ Love to you all from Qatar
I’m claiming that your house is already sold! The fact that you had more that one party interested is amazing!!! So congratulations 😁👏🏽 🎈🎉🎊 !!! I also liked the fact that in your decision making you took into account that the new family would be a good fit for your old neighborhood! God bless you for that and praise God for answered prayer🙏🏽!!!
Love you guys , I don’t usually comment but sweet lady you can tell by just seeing your sweet kids that they are very well fed. I love how you share your lives with us. Can’t wait to see y’all start your new home.
I am trusting God that he has sent you a qualified buyer. We listed our home on Nov. 16 ,2023 and received 1 offer at open house on that weekend. They were thrilled, and excited that it was move in ready. We had the closing 2wks later. They move in on Dec. 14th! trust God he is a way maker!🙏🏼🙏🏾
„He leads, we follow“ Yes! 😀 You guys are wise and kind and you seem very authentic. I love how naturally you share your faith, without pushing it too much. I can tell that is is your life and you love to follow such a good God. Some people are just so rude when they write on social media. I love how your mom and Solo protect your heart Sarah.
I admire your parenting skills! You certainly have wonderful children. I am looking forward to watching you build your new home on your dream plot of land! Blessings!🌲
I can definitely relate to the woman with the anger problem. With my wife going through a medical issue right now and me working 2 jobs being the sole breadwinner, I get agitated a lot. What helps me is that when I'm at work and get irritated, I ask myself "Who am I doing this for?" Then I remember that my family depends me and it gets me motivated and stay focused.
When my daughter is in time out or doesn't want to go to bed at night, she literally cries and screams "I'm hungry!!" over and over. I live in an apartment so my neighbors probably think I'm starving my kids. 😅
It’s always very clear that your kids get plenty of good healthy food! I have a relative who’s a child who would eat nothing but rolls if given the chance. Kids don’t always make the best choices without parent supervision. Like Solo said, they have to eat a balanced meal. You’re doing a great job Sarah!
Homeschooling mom of nine here...I think “an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure”. My kids aren’t perfect by any means, but when a parent chooses to disciple and have their kid’s whole heart from a very young age, keeping them CLOSE, there aren’t as many band aids to put on in the teenage years. My husband and I are loving the teenage years with four of them. Good advice though Solo and Sarah for those who have not had the privilege of discipleship from the beginning. May God bless this ministry! (I can’t believe you had to explain about the steaks! Hats wild. My kids aren’t allowed two steaks in a sitting.😂) merry Christmas!!!
I loved hearing you answer these questions . Parenting young adults is a hard time that a lot of people don’t discuss . They are at such a crossroads in their own life . Will be praying for this mom and her children . As the mom of 21 and 20 year old daughters and then a caboose who is 13 I totally relate .
I’d be on edge too if I saw comments about my children or parenting especially when it’s shown they’re very much cared for. Love your family!! Thanks for sharing 💝
Sarah, GREAT advice on the 17 year old boy!! Relationship helps soooo much! That mother needs strength, because if he son senses that he can overwhelm and dominate things then he will.
So Excited & Encouraged for "ALL" of you as you enlarge and expand the blessed territory our Great Father God has given you. I love seeing the beginning of the Homestead with the cows, kittens, chickens, & ducks. Thank you for the many homemade healthy recipes that makes our lives a little easier. May "The Blessing" with much Joy continue to rest upon you as you move forward.
I knew it! The Lord whispered to me, to watch you guys this morning... I would receive your word in a question someone else asked! The question of being overwhelmed with caring for others and their needs...I needed help with that! LOL!! Sometimes, I feel stretched to the limit, and I don't know how to be there for ALL of my loved ones. I don't have any little children, but my husband is losing his vision and I have two older children with physical and mental challenges, that depend on me a lot. Thank you both, Sarah and Solo, for being here...💖💖💞💞 Good luck with the sale of the BIG house! May the good Lord continue to bless you!🙏🙏
My heart goes out to the newly divorced mother of teenagers. You are doing well to help your child through this difficult time. Mine had some real rough patches but now, at 41, is a wonderful family man who loves the Lord. This is a season, it's not the end.
Trigger for me. What people also don't realize is when you eat clean you get more satisfied and the kids don't need as much as kids that fill up on junk
WOW! You having to explain what your kids are eating is really sad! There are boundaries for EVERYTHING in life, including FOOD! I'm really sorry you "needed" to "explain" that! 😢 Sending warm thoughts! ❤😊
We are currently building our forever home on acreage and my advice is whatever timeline you think it is going to be double it. It is a long slow process building a new custom home. We thought we were going to be in by Thanksgiving this year and now we are shooting for Valentine’s Day.
Thank you for having hard conversations. Communication is difficult. Thank you for sharing what a godly family looks like. Continue to be light in darkness. ❤
7:34 ,Parents should help limit their children’s consumption of food. Many times kids eat as long as the food tastes good-they don’t understand that it takes a while for the body to register satiety. It is our job to help them learn. Helping children to understand that is education, not deprivation.
Your family is amazing. I don't know how you have time to do all you do including all the extras. Even with all the chaos of having many kids they are all so lovely and well behaved. A nice thing to see in today's world. ❤
You both offer so much wisdom. We are great-grandparents now and raising children is behind us. Today you reminded me of the servant heart and how it affects what I do. Remembering that it not only blesses them, but it blesses God as well. That is precious. Thank you.
you feed your children better than most!! I've loved watching your journey to slowly changing to healthier things... it's been an encouragement to me and I often use you as an example! Sara you are not afraid of making changes and learning new things but you are very smart about how you implement these changes ... slow and steady so there isn't overwhelm! you are doing an amazing job!!! Solo, you are the father every kid needs!
We have to help structure our kids healthy habits and eating habits. They don’t have the self awareness for many things, especially food wise. We don’t let our children get too much of one thing until they eat more of other things on their plate. We aren’t depriving our kids by not letting them eat too much of one thing! It’s a balance! We are just helping them find that balance! As parents that is our job!
I love you guys so much and you feel like lifelong friends! Your entire family feels like that to me. Nana and papa, the kids, the animals! Thanks for sharing your sweet life with my family! Blessings to you all! Praise God for His help in selling your home!
To the newly single mom of the 17 yr. old son. I too am a single mom of a 21, 19, 17, and 9 yr. old. My kids are doing great and following the Lord. I completely agree with Sarah about focusing on the relationship. Here are some "rules" I have written out when it comes to raising teens: Make sure they know you love them unconditionally! Make sure they know there is nothing that they could do that would stop you from loving them. Make sure they hear you say, “I love you” every day. Expect great/honorable things from them. They will rise to it if they know you believe in their capability to reach it. Be willing to have the argument. Don’t bank down. Don’t leave things unresolved. As soon as you recognize, you are wrong admit it to them and apologize, regardless of what they do. Listen more than you speak. In the midst of an argument, do not get sidetracked. Stay on topic. Don’t let them try to deflect and derail. Fully, hear them out, even if you don’t like what is being said. Always be honest with them, but make sure to do it with kindness. Hold them accountable. Do not let attitudes go unchecked without calling them out and if need be, consequences. When they don’t like something you are doing/requiring, make sure you let them know that their best interests and character are your top priorities. You are not making decisions just to make them miserable. Follow through with the consequences. Calmly, don’t back down from what you have said is going to happen. However, always be willing to change something if you see that you might be being unreasonable. It is a delicate balance. Show genuine interest in their interests. Check yourself and make sure that you are not disciplining or giving consequences out of anger, or trying to get back at them in any way. Realize that they are going to do/say things that will be hurtful to you. However, you need to choose forgiveness for things that they won’t understand until they are far into adulthood. When they really mess up in a big way, and they know it. Extend tons and tons of forgiveness and grace. Be willing to answer any and all questions. There is no topic off-limits. When answering these make sure to ask questions to find out what they’re truly wanting to know. Don’t just assume and then overshare. Don’t be surprised if a topic comes up that you never thought about before. Have fun with them!
@@magentared5822 I am actually currently going through training to become a biblical counselor. I wrote these a long time before making that decision, though. I am so glad you find them helpful and want to share them! It has been through a lot of prayer and tears that the Lord has taught me these things. I feel extremely blessed that my children are doing so well despite the odds, and I attribute it all to the Lord's faithfulness!
Sarah & Solo, I am in that season of life where I’m taking care of and doing a lot of things for my mom. She no longer drives and has many health problems. Your advice to others today spoke to me even though different circumstances. Thank you for taking time to answer viewer questions and advising in a Godly way.
I don’t think those people are confused, that’s so sweet Sarah. They are just looking to be negative or they are ignorant. Not confused lol. I would guess they are not made of money and are just commenting to make comments. If they want to provide your family with unlimited steaks, let them :-) I love watching you and Solo! Never edit yourself. I’m pregnant with baby number 6 I’ve just accepted most people will never understand. It is a bit different since I am not putting out videos on my life. I just want to encourage you both to always be yourself and who the Lord has created you to be. It really is a double whammy because ministry is so tough and your life is on UA-cam so there’s a lot of pressure for you I can imagine! We love and appreciate your great example of a loving Christian family and I pray the Lord continues to bless you in every way. ❤
I literally guffawed when you said someone didn’t think you feed your kids enough. 🤦🏼♀️ You are literally my favorite channel on UA-cam and really any show out there. You have truly helped and inspired me in my growth as a Godly wife and Mother. So grateful for you all.
OMGosh, you feed your kids such an Amazing variety, and culturally diverse, of good clean foods. You do an excellent job of feeding your children within your budget despite the times we live in…I’m always blown away!!
Great news about the house! I love how the testimony of waiting in God and listening to him shines through! Thank you for choosing to deal with the negative so that you can share so many great things with us! ❤❤
Hi!! I watch you weekly. Don’t worry about the negative comments. I’ve learned that some people would be negative no matter what. It could be jealousy or mental instability. I am happy for you and your family. I told my daughter the other day… I was like I got a great recipe my friend posted on UA-cam. My daughter laughed at me. I think you are so encouraging and friendly that you feel like a friend. I think you have a lot of friends that you are a testimony and witness to. God has given you a platform to almost be a missionary right where you are showing his love. Thank you for that.
I love that you brought this up. When I watched that video I knew someone was gona think that…… They honestly don’t follow y’all or haven’t for long. Your children are healthy and loved and anyone that has followed along can see that!!🥰🥰🥰🥰 Love you guys!!!
I love you guys and you truly are one of the most spiritually uplifting people I know jealousy and envy are horrible don’t pay them any kind keep up the fantastic jobs as parents and UA-camrs!! Your property looks so gorgeous!
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As weird as this sounds I really struggle with mom guilt over what I think other people think about my parenting, and it was so validating to hear that you have your times with that too because you’re such a wonderful mother and kind person and I have so much admiration for you.
As a mom I deal with it too. We homeschool as well and have gotten so many negative comments from family and friends and it can get into your head after a while. I think it adds to the pressure we as parents already feel to do our best, and the eventuality of mistakes we will make along the way can compound on that pressure. I think this is true especially when you have an alternative approach to parenting. That's why it's so vitally important to have a support network and friends who share your values.
I have been watching your videos for a while now and I don't know how you have so much energy to do so much, your lives are full of learning, trying new things, travel, and more! Quite awesome! What a great family to be a part of.
Such a wonderful answer to the mom struggling with her teen. It can be such a hard time for all! I wish i had done more of that. I was a bit overreactive - my brother had died in a car accident when he was 23 that involved drinking. I was so afraid that something like that would happen to my son that I probably just made demands rather than discussed. The past and fears can certainly cast a shadow over your thinking! I think prayer would have helped! Thanks for your wonderful answer to other moms struggling!
I had to laugh at the Eli and steak comments you shared. We have boys and my husband always regrets giving them bites of his food because the cheap cuts of meat have now grown to prime rib or t-bones and don’t even mention the time he shared his lobster with them. Now, it’s no longer cheap to eat out. Extra sides are always encouraged. I love these discussions you are sharing with us.
Oh please. Why do some people have to find fault with everything? You are doing a fantastic job raising your family. You cook and bake such healthy foods.
Please continue to just be who God has blessed you to be. Some people will never understand your lives and that's ok. Please disregard those negative comments. I pray that my walk with God becomes closer daily so that can help others come to know Him. Peace and Blessings to you during this season of your lives. I truly love you all to Life 💞💖💞
I'm a Florida homeschooling mom with 3 kids in college. We, the parents, issue the high school diploma and it carries the exact same weight as a school- issued diploma. You are 100% right that the transcript and SAT/ACT test schools are really the important part. And by important, I mean for admission and scholarships in competitive colleges. For non-competitive colleges, it matters less.
Your kids are so blessed with all the food and all the attention they get from you as a mom, Solo, grandparents. May Lord continue to provide and all the Blessings to all of You! 🙏🌺🌼🌸
for my 17 year old boy some things were negotiable and some things there was a clear line in the sand that you did not cross - we are teaching our children to become good adults and being an adult is somethings hard - we have to teach our kids how to cope with life and all it's curve balls - my now 27 year old is now a Dad and great at it and he said to me I can here you (me) and Joycee (my mother) when he talks to his kids
Good to hear about your house is in the process of being sold. That’s awesome! I’m sure you all will be glad to start building your new house. Your property and lake is very beautiful. I always enjoy all your videos. Don’t worry about some things, just keep being yourself on UA-cam etc. I saw that comment. People can be very hurtful sometimes and don’t know the whole situation. It’s like, if I make a good comment on a public forum most will “like” it and agree, while others can be so mean and say cruel things to me. It can be so hurtful. It can be crazy on Social Media etc. May God bless you both and your beautiful family!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
Don’t give negative people your time or energy. We watch your channel regularly, we know your children are loved and cared for. If you know something isn’t true do not feed into it. Continue with the awesome work you are doing.
Mama of 9 here. We always have limits on main dish or meats. The kids are always aloud to fill up on salad & veggies. Many Americans over eat. So much love to you Sarah and your family.
Thankyou for your council , you are both very gentle with your opinions and very generous with your advice , thank you for the kind way you deal with sensitive subjects , and it is evident from you both how deep the love is between you and for your family xxx have a fabulous trip Sarah , and good luck Solo ! I am sure you will be hugging and kissing Judah to make up for all the missed months xx I look forward to you breaking ground on your new house. , what a very exciting season this is for you and the season coming up too ! Thank you again 🙏❤
I am one of eight children. Growing we ate smaller portions of food. When I got married and I would make a casserole for dinner my husband would serve large portions so we finished the casserole (he did not care for leftovers). I body adjusted to eating more. I wish now I could eat the way I did when I was younger. There is nothing wrong with eating small portions. Watching your videos, you are the healthiest cook I know. Keep up the great work
Sarah you and Solo are giving great advice. Love your channel and your big family! I wish I would have had you guys to refer to when I was raising my family. God Bless and take care
Sara and Solo, you do not owe these people an explanation. Your family is so wholesome. Fresh meals from scratch and when your dad comes the kids cook along with him as well. i see your pots/kettles and they are huge. Dont let that bother you. Hoping I run into the Pappa while I'm here for the winter. (South Florida)
“A day without prayer is a day without blessing, and a life without prayer is a life without power.” Happy Tuesday beautiful family, People will always have something to say about your family. Please simply ignore the negativity. You two people are such beautiful parents to your children and to each other. I don’t always comment but I watch you faithfully. Continue being the loving and inspiring people that you are. Love always outweighs negativity. Have a safe and blessed day ❤️
❤ I set an intention to be kind and patient. I remind myself of that during my day both at home and work. Remember verbalizing to those around you when you get frustrated etc and how you disassemble and re-ground yourself helps those around you to also do this. It has become easier with time and practice
Merry Christmas Family!! Spread that wisdom thick!! This world needs it, especially people with children and not a clue how to raise them! Gotta make you wonder sometimes, huh??
We are not here to judge anyone's life and decisions. I believe in my heart you guys are doing a great job! Prayer is the answer to any situation! Have a wonderful day!
I come from such a different background - I am Jewish and in my 40s and have 2 boys - but I love watching your videos very much. You are such an inspiration with your down to earth, balanced, thoughtful advice. You have built a wonderful channel that is all about your family without exploiting your children. Thank you for being a wonderful part of my days.
I admire your relationship with each other and the Lord. You are setting a great example for your children. Your children will seek spouses based on your relationship as a couple and how you treat each other. ❤️
Praying 🙏🏽 for the best Divine Path on this chapter for your family! Have y'all thought about manufactured home building? It could be a more cost effective route
Anyone who thinks you don’t feed your kids well, obviously doesn’t watch your videos on a regular basis. You are great parents.
They need to watch the Dougherty dozen and then comment!
Love how you all cook and feed all of your family such healthy food. ❤️
Greatest scammers! Thank the lord they dont have to answer to us
Tell me how these 2 bozos afford 2 houses @ 17K in taxes a yr? Shisters should be ashamed of yourselves. Pathetic stop scamming people stealing
@@outbackchick5111so agree. That woman is beyond words
I don't usually comment but I always watch your videos. You are a treasured friend and you encourage me in ways you'll never know. Both of you! I am in my 60's and past this season of life but your family and your deep faith as a couple is an island of peace in this chaotic world. God Bless You
❤️❤️❤️ thank you for that.
I agree!
Same here. Retirement is all exploring what you enjoy and I’m a long time subscriber here.
Let’s all take a minute to pray for the Florida mom with a 17 yr old son who is struggling. Surely with all of us lifting her up He will listen and make a way. 🙏
Oh guys, internet critics!!🙄 people need to just do their own life and stop trying to do yours. I made plenty of mistakes raising my kiddos and thank goodness I wasn’t being critiqued at every turn. Anyone can see that you are a happy and balanced family with love and respect for each other. And all you armchair critics, remember, not every thought you have needs to spoken! Take care Tribe🥰
Agree!
❤️❤️❤️ your comment has encouraged this mama very much even though it wasn’t intended for me. Thank you for sharing.
Amem!!!
Unfortunately, being on youtube opens one up to criticism. I'm thankful not to be on youtube for that and many other reasons.
Well said!!!!!!!!
People are awful. Please ignore any negative comments. I love watching your family. My son loves watching you guys as well! Happy Birthday!!!
As my grandmother used to say…In one ear and out the other. Don’t let those negative comments take up any space in your mind. You guys are a beautiful loving family and we appreciate you sharing your life with us. Blessings to all of you! 😘❤️
I so agree with you 💯 percent. I love this family so very much ❤️ 💖 💜
@@shirleyschutt3959 🥰
Your children are obviously well cared for and growing appropriately! Thanks for sharing your family!
I want to say thank you to both of you for saying how you pray when you and your spouse are not on the same page. My husband and I disagree on some things and I never thought to pray for a change in his heart or mine. So thank you for this. I just recently started going back to church with my 8 year old and I thought I knew everything about praying but I see that it’s not just what you pray for it’s how you pray for it. That was a real eye opener for me, so thank you!!
That's awesome. Thanks so much for sharing!
I am a very confrontational person but the Lord has shown me lately how I have won more battles on my knees in prayer than I have through an argument. I now have a peace of mind that I never had before. If someone irritates me, I just pray in my heart for them and for me, and the atmosphere just begins to change.
I will never understand why people waste their time leaving nasty comments and spreading negativity. Its biazrre ..I am single and I have no children but i love your content Sarah and Solo and I come here for the down to earth common sense approach to life, the warmth of the family and the wholesome content in general. ❤ Love to you all from Qatar
I’m claiming that your house is already sold! The fact that you had more that one party interested is amazing!!! So congratulations 😁👏🏽 🎈🎉🎊 !!! I also liked the fact that in your decision making you took into account that the new family would be a good fit for your old neighborhood! God bless you for that and praise God for answered prayer🙏🏽!!!
Amen!
Love you guys , I don’t usually comment but sweet lady you can tell by just seeing your sweet kids that they are very well fed. I love how you share your lives with us. Can’t wait to see y’all start your new home.
I am trusting God that he has sent you a qualified buyer. We listed our home on Nov. 16 ,2023 and received 1 offer at open house on that weekend. They were thrilled, and excited that it was move in ready. We had the closing 2wks later. They move in on Dec. 14th! trust God he is a way maker!🙏🏼🙏🏾
Rest assured Sarah, your limits are not unreasonable at all! I also love that you try not to focus on the comments ....I love your authentic self!
„He leads, we follow“
Yes! 😀
You guys are wise and kind and you seem very authentic. I love how naturally you share your faith, without pushing it too much. I can tell that is is your life and you love to follow such a good God. Some people are just so rude when they write on social media. I love how your mom and Solo protect your heart Sarah.
I am too!
So refreshing to hear that God is first and his will be done. Sarah stay true to yourself and keep being you.
Solo, you are so right. Praise God for the wisdom advice you have given this mom about her son. Beautiful, well said🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Your children look well taken care of, and well feed plus lots of fruit and vegetables are always out. I think you and Solo do a fabulous job.🙏👍
I admire your parenting skills! You certainly have wonderful children. I am looking forward to watching you build your new home on your dream plot of land! Blessings!🌲
I can definitely relate to the woman with the anger problem. With my wife going through a medical issue right now and me working 2 jobs being the sole breadwinner, I get agitated a lot. What helps me is that when I'm at work and get irritated, I ask myself "Who am I doing this for?" Then I remember that my family depends me and it gets me motivated and stay focused.
Oh don’t pay any attention to the negative things. Please be your beautiful self. ❤
The look of love Solo has on his wonderful face when he looks at you is just the best.❤
When my daughter is in time out or doesn't want to go to bed at night, she literally cries and screams "I'm hungry!!" over and over. I live in an apartment so my neighbors probably think I'm starving my kids. 😅
Sarah, I love your channel and one big reason is that you are genuine! It’s clear to see and very rare!
Your children have such a wide varied diet they are very lucky to be able to try all these different cuisines. You are excellent parents xxxx
It’s always very clear that your kids get plenty of good healthy food! I have a relative who’s a child who would eat nothing but rolls if given the chance. Kids don’t always make the best choices without parent supervision. Like Solo said, they have to eat a balanced meal. You’re doing a great job Sarah!
You both are doing a great job with your children…don’t ever change ❤
Homeschooling mom of nine here...I think “an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure”. My kids aren’t perfect by any means, but when a parent chooses to disciple and have their kid’s whole heart from a very young age, keeping them CLOSE, there aren’t as many band aids to put on in the teenage years. My husband and I are loving the teenage years with four of them. Good advice though Solo and Sarah for those who have not had the privilege of discipleship from the beginning. May God bless this ministry! (I can’t believe you had to explain about the steaks! Hats wild. My kids aren’t allowed two steaks in a sitting.😂) merry Christmas!!!
I loved hearing you answer these questions . Parenting young adults is a hard time that a lot of people don’t discuss . They are at such a crossroads in their own life . Will be praying for this mom and her children . As the mom of 21 and 20 year old daughters and then a caboose who is 13 I totally relate .
I’d be on edge too if I saw comments about my children or parenting especially when it’s shown they’re very much cared for. Love your family!! Thanks for sharing 💝
Sarah, GREAT advice on the 17 year old boy!! Relationship helps soooo much! That mother needs strength, because if he son senses that he can overwhelm and dominate things then he will.
She's demanding obedience would love to know her actual attitude with him.
So Excited & Encouraged for "ALL" of you as you enlarge and expand the blessed territory our Great Father God has given you. I love seeing the beginning of the Homestead with the cows, kittens, chickens, & ducks. Thank you for the many homemade healthy recipes that makes our lives a little easier. May "The Blessing" with much Joy continue to rest upon you as you move forward.
I love every member of your family. I truly cannot think of a negative comment. Just love...
I knew it! The Lord whispered to me, to watch you guys this morning... I would receive your word in a question someone else asked!
The question of being overwhelmed with caring for others and their needs...I needed help with that! LOL!!
Sometimes, I feel stretched to the limit, and I don't know how to be there for ALL of my loved ones.
I don't have any little children, but my husband is losing his vision and I have two older children with physical and mental challenges, that depend on me a lot.
Thank you both, Sarah and Solo, for being here...💖💖💞💞
Good luck with the sale of the BIG house!
May the good Lord continue to bless you!🙏🙏
My heart goes out to the newly divorced mother of teenagers. You are doing well to help your child through this difficult time. Mine had some real rough patches but now, at 41, is a wonderful family man who loves the Lord. This is a season, it's not the end.
Trigger for me. What people also don't realize is when you eat clean you get more satisfied and the kids don't need as much as kids that fill up on junk
Children need to know limits even when it comes to food. Some people have to find negative. You guys are doing great.
WOW! You having to explain what your kids are eating is really sad! There are boundaries for EVERYTHING in life, including FOOD! I'm really sorry you "needed" to "explain" that! 😢 Sending warm thoughts! ❤😊
We are currently building our forever home on acreage and my advice is whatever timeline you think it is going to be double it. It is a long slow process building a new custom home. We thought we were going to be in by Thanksgiving this year and now we are shooting for Valentine’s Day.
Thank you for having hard conversations. Communication is difficult. Thank you for sharing what a godly family looks like. Continue to be light in darkness. ❤
7:34 ,Parents should help limit their children’s consumption of food. Many times kids eat as long as the food tastes good-they don’t understand that it takes a while for the body to register satiety. It is our job to help them learn.
Helping children to understand that is education, not deprivation.
Your family is amazing. I don't know how you have time to do all you do including all the extras. Even with all the chaos of having many kids they are all so lovely and well behaved. A nice thing to see in today's world. ❤
You both offer so much wisdom. We are great-grandparents now and raising children is behind us. Today you reminded me of the servant heart and how it affects what I do. Remembering that it not only blesses them, but it blesses God as well. That is precious. Thank you.
Thanks! That is so good!
you feed your children better than most!! I've loved watching your journey to slowly changing to healthier things... it's been an encouragement to me and I often use you as an example! Sara you are not afraid of making changes and learning new things but you are very smart about how you implement these changes ... slow and steady so there isn't overwhelm! you are doing an amazing job!!! Solo, you are the father every kid needs!
We have to help structure our kids healthy habits and eating habits. They don’t have the self awareness for many things, especially food wise. We don’t let our children get too much of one thing until they eat more of other things on their plate. We aren’t depriving our kids by not letting them eat too much of one thing! It’s a balance! We are just helping them find that balance! As parents that is our job!
I love you guys so much and you feel like lifelong friends! Your entire family feels like that to me. Nana and papa, the kids, the animals! Thanks for sharing your sweet life with my family! Blessings to you all! Praise God for His help in selling your home!
Happy Birthday Sarah!!!!!! God Bless you.
I just love you guys!!! I struggle daily with a negative narcissist for a husband, it's exhausting so watching y'all makes me happy
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16:56 say what you mean and mean what you say. I loved Sarah and Solo response to this question! Bonding and boundaries ❤❤❤
To the newly single mom of the 17 yr. old son. I too am a single mom of a 21, 19, 17, and 9 yr. old. My kids are doing great and following the Lord. I completely agree with Sarah about focusing on the relationship. Here are some "rules" I have written out when it comes to raising teens:
Make sure they know you love them unconditionally! Make sure they know there is nothing that they could do that would stop you from loving them. Make sure they hear you say, “I love you” every day.
Expect great/honorable things from them. They will rise to it if they know you believe in their capability to reach it.
Be willing to have the argument. Don’t bank down. Don’t leave things unresolved.
As soon as you recognize, you are wrong admit it to them and apologize, regardless of what they do.
Listen more than you speak.
In the midst of an argument, do not get sidetracked. Stay on topic. Don’t let them try to deflect and derail.
Fully, hear them out, even if you don’t like what is being said.
Always be honest with them, but make sure to do it with kindness.
Hold them accountable.
Do not let attitudes go unchecked without calling them out and if need be, consequences.
When they don’t like something you are doing/requiring, make sure you let them know that their best interests and character are your top priorities. You are not making decisions just to make them miserable.
Follow through with the consequences.
Calmly, don’t back down from what you have said is going to happen. However, always be willing to change something if you see that you might be being unreasonable. It is a delicate balance.
Show genuine interest in their interests.
Check yourself and make sure that you are not disciplining or giving consequences out of anger, or trying to get back at them in any way.
Realize that they are going to do/say things that will be hurtful to you. However, you need to choose forgiveness for things that they won’t understand until they are far into adulthood.
When they really mess up in a big way, and they know it. Extend tons and tons of forgiveness and grace.
Be willing to answer any and all questions. There is no topic off-limits.
When answering these make sure to ask questions to find out what they’re truly wanting to know. Don’t just assume and then overshare.
Don’t be surprised if a topic comes up that you never thought about before.
Have fun with them!
@coralloyd5705, your advice/suggestions are amazing! Do you teach parenting? Or are you a counselor? I plan to share this with several people.
@@magentared5822 I am actually currently going through training to become a biblical counselor. I wrote these a long time before making that decision, though. I am so glad you find them helpful and want to share them! It has been through a lot of prayer and tears that the Lord has taught me these things. I feel extremely blessed that my children are doing so well despite the odds, and I attribute it all to the Lord's faithfulness!
Sarah & Solo, I am in that season of life where I’m taking care of and doing a lot of things for my mom. She no longer drives and has many health problems. Your advice to others today spoke to me even though different circumstances. Thank you for taking time to answer viewer questions and advising in a Godly way.
“God, change that woman “ made me LOL! Y’all are wonderful together. Merry Christmas to both of you and the tribe.
You both are amazing. Thank you for your presence in my life. So much enjoyment.
People can be and are awful..so sorry they direct that behavior towards you and your family. Happy Holidays..and much love to you all.❤
I don’t think those people are confused, that’s so sweet Sarah. They are just looking to be negative or they are ignorant. Not confused lol. I would guess they are not made of money and are just commenting to make comments. If they want to provide your family with unlimited steaks, let them :-) I love watching you and Solo! Never edit yourself. I’m pregnant with baby number 6 I’ve just accepted most people will never understand. It is a bit different since I am not putting out videos on my life. I just want to encourage you both to always be yourself and who the Lord has created you to be. It really is a double whammy because ministry is so tough and your life is on UA-cam so there’s a lot of pressure for you I can imagine! We love and appreciate your great example of a loving Christian family and I pray the Lord continues to bless you in every way. ❤
@Blessedfamilymama, I love your comment, and pray blessings over you, baby # 6, and your entire family. Children are a blessing! 🙏❤
My gosh. I cant believe people pick at such silly things. You are brilliant!!!
I literally guffawed when you said someone didn’t think you feed your kids enough. 🤦🏼♀️
You are literally my favorite channel on UA-cam and really any show out there. You have truly helped and inspired me in my growth as a Godly wife and Mother. So grateful for you all.
Thanks for your comment!
OMGosh, you feed your kids such an Amazing variety, and culturally diverse, of good clean foods. You do an excellent job of feeding your children within your budget despite the times we live in…I’m always blown away!!
Happy birthday, Sarah !
I personally think it's none of those people business. Your doing a great job. God Bless
Great news about the house! I love how the testimony of waiting in God and listening to him shines through! Thank you for choosing to deal with the negative so that you can share so many great things with us! ❤❤
Hi!! I watch you weekly. Don’t worry about the negative comments. I’ve learned that some people would be negative no matter what. It could be jealousy or mental instability. I am happy for you and your family.
I told my daughter the other day… I was like I got a great recipe my friend posted on UA-cam. My daughter laughed at me. I think you are so encouraging and friendly that you feel like a friend. I think you have a lot of friends that you are a testimony and witness to. God has given you a platform to almost be a missionary right where you are showing his love. Thank you for that.
How could anyone be negative about your family. You are wonderful.
I love that you brought this up. When I watched that video I knew someone was gona think that…… They honestly don’t follow y’all or haven’t for long. Your children are healthy and loved and anyone that has followed along can see that!!🥰🥰🥰🥰 Love you guys!!!
I love you guys and you truly are one of the most spiritually uplifting people I know jealousy and envy are horrible don’t pay them any kind keep up the fantastic jobs as parents and UA-camrs!! Your property looks so gorgeous!
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As weird as this sounds I really struggle with mom guilt over what I think other people think about my parenting, and it was so validating to hear that you have your times with that too because you’re such a wonderful mother and kind person and I have so much admiration for you.
I do think a lot of moms deal with it. You and I are in good company 🤣
Thank you and Solo for all of your wonderful advice. It is so incredibly appreciated.
As a mom I deal with it too. We homeschool as well and have gotten so many negative comments from family and friends and it can get into your head after a while. I think it adds to the pressure we as parents already feel to do our best, and the eventuality of mistakes we will make along the way can compound on that pressure. I think this is true especially when you have an alternative approach to parenting. That's why it's so vitally important to have a support network and friends who share your values.
You two are the best parents. ❤❤❤
You both are amazing! Thank you for sharing your journey it is so inspiring!
Hi, its so sad that their is negative people. Do what you do, you know the best for your family! Love ❤❤❤
I have been watching your videos for a while now and I don't know how you have so much energy to do so much, your lives are full of learning, trying new things, travel, and more! Quite awesome! What a great family to be a part of.
Such a wonderful answer to the mom struggling with her teen. It can be such a hard time for all! I wish i had done more of that. I was a bit overreactive - my brother had died in a car accident when he was 23 that involved drinking. I was so afraid that something like that would happen to my son that I probably just made demands rather than discussed. The past and fears can certainly cast a shadow over your thinking! I think prayer would have helped! Thanks for your wonderful answer to other moms struggling!
you guys are great,,, you do you and do not worry what people say....God Bless Your Family
Regarding the lady with the anger issues...don’t forget to ask for help or accept the help from others. 🦋💕🙏
I had to laugh at the Eli and steak comments you shared. We have boys and my husband always regrets giving them bites of his food because the cheap cuts of meat have now grown to prime rib or t-bones and don’t even mention the time he shared his lobster with them. Now, it’s no longer cheap to eat out. Extra sides are always encouraged.
I love these discussions you are sharing with us.
I love you both. Thank you for always keeping it real!
Such a good talk. To all the parents struggling, handle everything with love and care. Do the best you can and remember to love yourself 💛✨️
Oh please. Why do some people have to find fault with everything? You are doing a fantastic job raising your family. You cook and bake such healthy foods.
The way you guys look at each other is priceless ❤. Happy holidays to you and your beautiful family
Please continue to just be who God has blessed you to be. Some people will never understand your lives and that's ok. Please disregard those negative comments. I pray that my walk with God becomes closer daily so that can help others come to know Him. Peace and Blessings to you during this season of your lives. I truly love you all to Life 💞💖💞
I'm a Florida homeschooling mom with 3 kids in college. We, the parents, issue the high school diploma and it carries the exact same weight as a school- issued diploma. You are 100% right that the transcript and SAT/ACT test schools are really the important part. And by important, I mean for admission and scholarships in competitive colleges. For non-competitive colleges, it matters less.
Everyone has an opinion, thankfully it is not everybodies! Do your thing...it is working ❤
Your kids are so blessed with all the food and all the attention they get from you as a mom, Solo, grandparents. May Lord continue to provide and all the Blessings to all of You! 🙏🌺🌼🌸
for my 17 year old boy some things were negotiable and some things there was a clear line in the sand that you did not cross - we are teaching our children to become good adults and being an adult is somethings hard - we have to teach our kids how to cope with life and all it's curve balls - my now 27 year old is now a Dad and great at it and he said to me I can here you (me) and Joycee (my mother) when he talks to his kids
Happy Birthday Sarah, Princess 😊 Long life and good health 🙏👍🏽🎄
Good to hear about your house is in the process of being sold. That’s awesome! I’m sure you all will be glad to start building your new house. Your property and lake is very beautiful.
I always enjoy all your videos. Don’t worry about some things, just keep being yourself on UA-cam etc. I saw that comment. People can be very hurtful sometimes and don’t know the whole situation. It’s like, if I make a good comment on a public forum most will “like” it and agree, while others can be so mean and say cruel things to me. It can be so hurtful. It can be crazy on Social Media etc. May God bless you both and your beautiful family!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
Don’t give negative people your time or energy. We watch your channel regularly, we know your children are loved and cared for. If you know something isn’t true do not feed into it. Continue with the awesome work you are doing.
Mama of 9 here. We always have limits on main dish or meats. The kids are always aloud to fill up on salad & veggies. Many Americans over eat. So much love to you Sarah and your family.
Thankyou for your council , you are both very gentle with your opinions and very generous with your advice , thank you for the kind way you deal with sensitive subjects , and it is evident from you both how deep the love is between you and for your family xxx have a fabulous trip Sarah , and good luck Solo ! I am sure you will be hugging and kissing Judah to make up for all the missed months xx I look forward to you breaking ground on your new house. , what a very exciting season this is for you and the season coming up too ! Thank you again 🙏❤
I am one of eight children. Growing we ate smaller portions of food. When I got married and I would make a casserole for dinner my husband would serve large portions so we finished the casserole (he did not care for leftovers). I body adjusted to eating more. I wish now I could eat the way I did when I was younger. There is nothing wrong with eating small portions. Watching your videos, you are the healthiest cook I know. Keep up the great work
Sarah you and Solo are giving great advice. Love your channel and your big family! I wish I would have had you guys to refer to when I was raising my family. God Bless and take care
QUESTION: Homes too close to the water could get water damages! Beautiful property and beautiful family!!!!!!
There are ways to build it to where water damage won't exist.
I am sure they will get the right people who are professional about lake houses.
That’s not a question…
Sara and Solo, you do not owe these people an explanation. Your family is so wholesome. Fresh meals from scratch and when your dad comes the kids cook along with him as well. i see your pots/kettles and they are huge. Dont let that bother you. Hoping I run into the Pappa while I'm here for the winter. (South Florida)
“A day without prayer is a day without blessing, and a life without prayer is a life without power.”
Happy Tuesday beautiful family,
People will always have something to say about your family.
Please simply ignore the negativity.
You two people are such beautiful parents to your children and to each other.
I don’t always comment but I watch you faithfully.
Continue being the loving and inspiring people that you are.
Love always outweighs negativity.
Have a safe and blessed day ❤️
❤ I set an intention to be kind and patient. I remind myself of that during my day both at home and work. Remember verbalizing to those around you when you get frustrated etc and how you disassemble and re-ground yourself helps those around you to also do this. It has become easier with time and practice
Merry Christmas Family!! Spread that wisdom thick!! This world needs it, especially people with children and not a clue how to raise them! Gotta make you wonder sometimes, huh??
We are not here to judge anyone's life and decisions. I believe in my heart you guys are doing a great job! Prayer is the answer to any situation! Have a wonderful day!
I come from such a different background - I am Jewish and in my 40s and have 2 boys - but I love watching your videos very much. You are such an inspiration with your down to earth, balanced, thoughtful advice. You have built a wonderful channel that is all about your family without exploiting your children. Thank you for being a wonderful part of my days.
Thanks!
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When Solo said he prays “God change that woman” I laughed SO hard 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I admire your relationship with each other and the Lord. You are setting a great example for your children. Your children will seek spouses based on your relationship as a couple and how you treat each other. ❤️
Praying 🙏🏽 for the best Divine Path on this chapter for your family! Have y'all thought about manufactured home building? It could be a more cost effective route
You guys are amazing parents, with beautiful children, please ignore negative comments,sending love from Australia 🇦🇺.