Our recent miscarriages and thoughts on birth control

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  • @elisabethhopkins4453
    @elisabethhopkins4453 6 місяців тому +393

    I've been married 20 years and have not yet been able to get pregnant. Yet, still i believe God can work a miracle in mine and my husband's body. While we've been waiting, we have adopted 3 beautiful children ❤.

    • @keshahenry8449
      @keshahenry8449 6 місяців тому +10

      Amen I’m in agreement with you

    • @k.downing3663
      @k.downing3663 6 місяців тому +39

      Believe! I had mine after 20 years of marriage 3 adoptions multiple miscarriages. Im 47 with a healthy 16 month old I birthed!

    • @dianaott2662
      @dianaott2662 6 місяців тому

      ​@@k.downing3663 Wow that is so wonderful! Congratulations! ❤🎉

    • @chriskoenig6513
      @chriskoenig6513 6 місяців тому +19

      I just celebrated my 18th anniversary and am 8 months pregnant. Don't give up!

    • @gaylekerr5769
      @gaylekerr5769 6 місяців тому +6

      Wish you the best of luck,don't ever lose hop,it will be in God's own time.My aunt was married 3 times.She never got pregnant,she was in her 40s,God decided it was time❤️

  • @allisonbd
    @allisonbd 6 місяців тому +135

    "Not making decisions out of fear, but out of faith" love that!

    • @handsfulladventures
      @handsfulladventures 6 місяців тому +4

      Me too!

    • @ctgctg1
      @ctgctg1 2 місяці тому

      How about respecting that God gave us a brain and medical break through. It’s called contraception. Why keep having babies when God enabled contraception through empowering humans with personal choice. If these individuals are having 13 kids, then they are deciding that. It has nothing to do,with God. It’s their choice.

  • @agathareimer2924
    @agathareimer2924 6 місяців тому +103

    Last year we decided we were done with having more children. We hadn't had a baby in almost 5 years and the last birth was hard and traumatic for me. When our oldest who was 10 at the time passed away from a tragic car accident we changed our minds. We realized how blessed we were and that we wanted more blessings. I miscarried this year as well but we're praying that we'll be blessed with another baby again. So yes we shouldn't make decisions to soon. Sometimes we've gotta wait 5 years for the trauma of birth to pass. Thank you so much for your encouragement.

    • @brookidy
      @brookidy 6 місяців тому +10

      Oh I am so very sorry for your loss.

    • @martyburrows288
      @martyburrows288 6 місяців тому +1

    • @suzysantana6033
      @suzysantana6033 6 місяців тому +2

      I am so very sorry for the loss of your child I pray the lord blessed you with hearts desire to have another child

    • @maricelaflores8674
      @maricelaflores8674 6 місяців тому +3

      Thank you Sarah and Solo for sharing your loss of your precious blessings. I know it ain't easy. I lost 2 of my blessings. One a full term beautiful baby boy whom we named Emmanuel born sleeping in 03/1988 and our second was our youngest I was carrying identical twin boy's born at 8 months born on 08/1995 we named baby a Ezekiel and baby b was born sleeping 4 mins after we named him Angel. I was 27 years old at the time. To me it still feels like it happened yesterday. I know god had better plans for my 2 boy's. I know my angels are always with me. God bless you both and your family. ❤

    • @agathareimer2924
      @agathareimer2924 6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for all your kind words.

  • @meganb6543
    @meganb6543 6 місяців тому +91

    I'm so sorry for your losses. I have a beautiful almost 24 yr old daughter with 2 babies of her own. I always wanted more, but unfortunately miscarried my 2nd, and never got pregnant again. I am thankful every day for my daughter, grand babies, and can't wait to meet my lost child when the good Lord takes me home.❤

    • @Mejiaelis
      @Mejiaelis 6 місяців тому +5

      I have an only child too (a beautiful daughter). We chose not to have more because I experienced severe issues during pregnancy that even affected my sight. I am still very confident in our decision and I love every minute of being Faith’s mom (that’s my daughter’s name).

  • @morganpierpont
    @morganpierpont 6 місяців тому +517

    I’m pregnant with my first after 4 years of infertility. I’m so excited! Children are such a blessing 💛

    • @mirembesarah9840
      @mirembesarah9840 6 місяців тому +6

      Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 as someone on the same journey, I'm so excited for you. Praying for God's blessings on your journey.

    • @windy42305
      @windy42305 6 місяців тому +9

      Congratulations!!!!!!! (From someone who has never been able to conceive). God bless your family!! ❤

    • @carmarasmussen8118
      @carmarasmussen8118 6 місяців тому +2

      Wonderful!! 😊

    • @kelseyteter7217
      @kelseyteter7217 6 місяців тому +2

      CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!! 💜💜

    • @connihudson1578
      @connihudson1578 6 місяців тому +2

      Praise the Lord 🎉

  • @soniauk4284
    @soniauk4284 6 місяців тому +54

    As a Christian single woman of 51 yrs young. I'm still hopeful that I will find a Christian man who is filled with the Holy Spirit and we will be joined together. I am no longer able to have children biologically but the Lord has given me such a heart of hospitality for all ages.
    God is good whether married, single , children or childfree. As long as we are serving him wholeheartedly and walking in obedience and humility xxxx
    Lots of love to you dear brother and sister ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ewafredriksson5826
    @ewafredriksson5826 6 місяців тому +3

    After depression two times during pregnancy and one psychosis, and endometriosis I decided to not have any more. I believe God does not see that as a sin.

  • @gracecoffeeandchaos.3446
    @gracecoffeeandchaos.3446 6 місяців тому +32

    We're expecting #5, and we're so thankful. We only ever anticipated 4. 😂😂

  • @LeahFairfield
    @LeahFairfield 6 місяців тому +739

    This is why people need to STOP asking if she’s pregnant or when she’ll have baby #12! It’s not okay!!! You do not know what someone is going through that they’re not talking about! Do better!!

    • @linhaton4957
      @linhaton4957 6 місяців тому +95

      I wouldn’t care because it’s not my business. 11 or 12 children makes no difference to me. I’ll watch Sara anyway. However, when you put yourself out there, others can ask whatever they want to. Remember it’s their job and they earn money from this channel. That’s the downside of this job. No job is perfect.

    • @corianne2099
      @corianne2099 6 місяців тому

      ​@@linhaton4957but this is personal and nobody's business so it does cross the line

    • @janinemaggacis6286
      @janinemaggacis6286 6 місяців тому

      ,)

    • @saphahmelkisedek9762
      @saphahmelkisedek9762 6 місяців тому +10

      Absolutely!!!

    • @linhaton4957
      @linhaton4957 6 місяців тому +23

      I don’t know why anyone would ask or care. Sara’s channel is interesting to me. I love watching the children and the move to farm keeps me watching. When you put yourself our there, I would guess you get lots of comments and questions that you might not like. I don’t think you can stop it, but you don’t have to answer rude questions. Have a wonderful day.❤️

  • @chrisna336
    @chrisna336 6 місяців тому +106

    When I first tuned in, I was looking for home tips from large families, not because I have one, but because nothing else seemed to work. I fully expected to see somewhat of a freak show, but a functional house. I'm not even Christian, but I stayed because of the peace I felt watching without drama or scandal. From you I've learned that chaos doesn't have to be chaotic in your mind. You can just lean in and enjoy without being perfect. You can always make time whether you have 1 child or 20. I've become a much more patient mother and wife since I found your channel. Your family has been such a blessing for my mind and my heart.

    • @OurTribeofMany
      @OurTribeofMany  6 місяців тому +5

      Thanks so much!

    • @serena201288
      @serena201288 6 місяців тому +2

      I don’t believe in god either; I believe in evolution and the power of the mind and energy - what you put out is what you receive. I find listening to them trusting in something I don’t believe in is difficult at times, but I stay for the peace and smiles too 😁❤️
      Beautiful family regardless of their beliefs!!

    • @Ebeez504
      @Ebeez504 6 місяців тому +2

      Im also not a Christian, but I love the way they all love each other. Yes, the way you describe the peace in their household is so true…it inspires me with my 3 children and my husband❤️

    • @rebeccasible6631
      @rebeccasible6631 12 днів тому

      That's wonderful to hear! Social media can encourage and educate us. I, too, have gained perspective on my home and family from watching Sarah.

  • @marthacheek3412
    @marthacheek3412 5 місяців тому +5

    One of the families in our community had 16 children! Mind you it was back in the 60’s and 70’s, they didn’t have a lot of money but they had so much love in their little house.

    • @catloverfurever00
      @catloverfurever00 5 місяців тому

      My friends mother was born in the late 1940s and she’s one of 27 children.

  • @eileenparthemore5456
    @eileenparthemore5456 6 місяців тому +10

    78 year old. 2 boys 3 grandsons. As I look back on my life I wish we would have had more children. It was our decision to stop at 2. They live 3 hours from us and we don’t see them often.. grandson is 23 and a nurse so he is working. 20 year old going to college so is busy. 17 year old in high school. Must just live our lives together and be thankful when we do see them. Oh, will be married 59 years in January.

  • @carolynmeaux6356
    @carolynmeaux6356 6 місяців тому +110

    I love my extended family! My dad came from a family of 16 children. Only 12 made it to adulthood and all of them have died now. My mom was one of 6. We have so many cousins and it’s wonderful. I had fertility issues and was never able to conceive and I adopted 2 children who are siblings and have been a true blessing in my life. I am 70 now and I love our large family.❤

  • @Babylandy1
    @Babylandy1 6 місяців тому +81

    I believe whole heartedly that my children were meant to be here. I used three different types of birth control and because pregnant on each of them. After that I just stopped using birth control. I now have 6 kids and they are all such a blessing.

    • @kindnessmatters4068
      @kindnessmatters4068 6 місяців тому +4

      I had a IUD and it moved on me... so I miscarried 2021... We had our rainbow baby at 31 weeks gestational, August 10th... she's been home a month now.❤ My 2nd girl (4yrs) was a twin... I lost her twin Christmas Eve at 10.5wks.❤
      I am not using birth control, unless the doctor tells me I can not safely have anymore. All my pregnancies have been high risk... But if the Lord wills, I would like one more.❤

    • @faukerconsulting835
      @faukerconsulting835 6 місяців тому

      I was pregnant when on 2 different birth control methods and my kiddos were complete blessings in more ways I could have ever imagined😊

  • @anahiirios3046
    @anahiirios3046 5 місяців тому +24

    I’m 15 minutes in and I’m sobbing 😭 I NEEDED this video. I have been struggling with my faith & im currently pregnant with my second child and was considering abortion because of how much I’m struggling financially right now, but this is the video I needed. Thank you so much, I have to have faith and trust in GOD.

    • @melindahernandez1224
      @melindahernandez1224 5 місяців тому +1

      How wonderful for your new precious life within you. You are a courageous mother. May God Bless you!

    • @naturaldyer
      @naturaldyer 5 місяців тому +1

      Bless you! Sending love.

    • @melindahernandez1224
      @melindahernandez1224 5 місяців тому

      Since I posted this , our newest grandson was born...the very first night he started having a seizure. He is at a NICU at a big hospital about an hour and a half from where we live. God is good. There is always a human struggle of some kind. People we don't know are praying for him. It is amazing that we are feeling God's love being pored out amongst us and the healing of our grandson. Thank you to everyone out there! ❤️

  • @danidavis3716
    @danidavis3716 5 місяців тому +9

    First of all, thank you for letting the world into your private lives. Creating content, editing, posting, following UA-cam rules, and more all while raising a family is commendable!!
    I apologize for those in the world who ask far too personal and inappropriate questions.
    I don’t understand others who feel justified to leave nasty comments!!
    I hope you don’t allow such negativity to get to you!!
    You’re amazing people and I don’t feel should be required to address such hateful things!!
    ❤️🙏

  • @tiffanytenney9514
    @tiffanytenney9514 6 місяців тому +44

    Such a beautiful video. I had my first child when I was 20 and was terrified to tell my parents because I was not married and I was 19 when I became pregnant. Fast forward a couple years and my husband and I were trying nh to conceive and could not. We/I saw many specialist but were told to be calm because we were both in our 20’s and we had already conceived once on our own that it will happen. After 12 years I finally found a doctor who listened and ran tests and found out I had severe endometriosis and that my husband had a low sperm count so we would probably never conceive on our own again and the fact that we had was a miracle and that I had carried full term was also a miracle. We embarked on IVF and now have 2 more children. All 3 of my children are miracles in my eyes. When we decided to embark on IVF I was again terrified to tell my parents. My father responded as I expected, we shouldn’t do it because we can’t afford another child, but my mom reprimanded him and explained that if we waited till we could afford a child financially we would never have children. My mother dotted on my first 2, unfortunately she passed from cancer when I was pregnant with my third child and my father who was against has seen his grandchildren maybe 6 times since she passed away 9 years ago. This is his loss because my kids are AMAZING and he will never know them.

    • @vickycash1643
      @vickycash1643 6 місяців тому

      That is so sad and heartbreaking for your father to embrace your children! You are right, he is really missing out!!

  • @tracismith7247
    @tracismith7247 6 місяців тому +66

    I'm sorry for your losses. Thank you for being so incredibly open. I always dreamed of a large family but infertility and miscarriages happened instead. Finally came to some peace and understanding about it with the grace of the Lord that this isn't forever. Remarried as an older person and became a stepmother, grandmother and great-grandmother. Never imagined these blessings in this life but have learned to stop thinking I know everything and control it. Thank you❤

    • @kimberly25christinesmith72
      @kimberly25christinesmith72 6 місяців тому

      Letting God decide the sizzle of ur family is like letting God decide ur health and not going to the Dr ever. The duggars believe that too

    • @carolinacooper7068
      @carolinacooper7068 5 місяців тому

      ​@kimberly25christinesmith7. No there is no correlation there at all. I chose to have 5 live children though I had many miscarriages. We took them all to the doctor and saw them all through to adulthood. What the Duggars do or don't do have nothing to do with the decisions of others who choose large families.
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  • @judykelly5358
    @judykelly5358 6 місяців тому +2

    Aww so lovely seeing the early videos of the children, thank you!

  • @Tia-vj9ox
    @Tia-vj9ox 6 місяців тому +23

    Thank you for sharing such personal incites! So much guilt and mis conceptions have been imposed on people. Your sensitivity and empathy are gifts to many❤

  • @LargeFamilyHomestead
    @LargeFamilyHomestead 6 місяців тому +73

    Thank you for your candid responses as always! As a momma of 10 in a small house, I completely understand the noise and the need to find a quiet place. When we did full-time missions work, we all lived in a small RV for five years! Our house feels like a mansion. 🤣
    Also, I have to tell you that the snow is refreshing to look at, but I am happy that I live in Texas. We are originally from Pennsylvania, and we don't miss shoveling snow at all. ❄❄ May the Father continue to bless your path.

  • @sarahbarr99
    @sarahbarr99 6 місяців тому +13

    Love these videos! Thank you for sharing!

  • @juststeph6940
    @juststeph6940 4 місяці тому +6

    Thank you for making this video. I just found your channel and I have been just going back and watching your videos.
    I’m a Christian and I’m a shamed to say that my attitude about motherhood has been my kids are a burden, I have been hating motherhood, I have 2 kids with very hard behavioural challenges and I’m also chronically ill. Motherhood has been so hard and frustrating and so many days of crying out saying I don’t know what to do with them.
    This video just struck me when you said if you keep your mind as they are a burden it will catch up to you, yes they are a blessing I struggled with infertility and all I wanted was children and now I’m sitting here wishing I didn’t have kids.
    So thank you this video is really showing me my heart issue. I also ask if anyone is reading this is a Christian please pray for me and my family.

  • @rockymountainhomesteadwith8092
    @rockymountainhomesteadwith8092 5 місяців тому

    Wow! Looking at those throwback pics are so sweet and a reminder of how fast time flies! Children are such a blessing, and you both are truly blessed! ❤

  • @TracyShead-Stamey
    @TracyShead-Stamey 6 місяців тому +20

    I got pregnant twice on hormonal birth control. When my son was born I got my tubes tied. There was no way we could have supported more than the three we had. On the subject of birth control my body didn't process it right. I'm just happy I'm through menopause now. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Missbayka
    @Missbayka 6 місяців тому +34

    Its been 5 years since my last child and while we havent been activly trying for another I still find myself greiving that I may not have another.
    I really do want more children ❤

    • @carolinahenn3126
      @carolinahenn3126 6 місяців тому +1

      I think every woman has a “child she never had” and carry it inside her forever and ever. Because there is just some abiding kind of sadness once you have had your last pregnancy.

    • @cynthiafisher9907
      @cynthiafisher9907 6 місяців тому +2

      @@carolinahenn3126I felt that way until I had my fifth and last child. Then I felt fulfilled and done.

  • @reneephilmon
    @reneephilmon 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm so sorry for your losses.
    Thank you for sharing everything that you did in this video.

  • @tess5564
    @tess5564 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for so openly and honestly sharing your thoughts and experiences in life. It in so valuable to me. I truly find so much strength comfort and happiness in your videos

  • @christyathome8585
    @christyathome8585 6 місяців тому +85

    Our culture truly doesn’t value children. When we adopted our 4th child we had family comment things like “well, you shot yourself in the foot with this one.” It was so hurtful because we were so excited and felt so blessed to become parents again. It’s all about perspective I guess.

    • @cjdflkj
      @cjdflkj 6 місяців тому +5

      Damn, that’s cold.

    • @kalonmontgomery8213
      @kalonmontgomery8213 6 місяців тому +8

      I agree. People's opinions can be hurtful. All children are a blessing.

    • @blissfuljoy6049
      @blissfuljoy6049 6 місяців тому +6

      Isn't it sad? Children are absolute blessings.

    • @mymemories237
      @mymemories237 6 місяців тому +7

      That's a spiteful reaction if you are happy and they are truly not and have a sour heart they will say things that hurt you and make them feel better about their sad self. Ignore them comments and pray for them.

    • @dzejnalukovic9920
      @dzejnalukovic9920 6 місяців тому +4

      ​@@mymemories237 I would add....... keep your children away from those negative commenting ninnies. Adoptees have enough to deal with without pure and true love and unconditional support.

  • @lisamartin8606
    @lisamartin8606 6 місяців тому +21

    I was only pregnant once and had miscarriage..my mom said she didn't need anymore grandchildren when I told her I was pregnant..I was really hurt over comment and than I had miscarriage..I had to really pray hard to forgive her..

    • @carolinem1800
      @carolinem1800 6 місяців тому +3

      Sometimes mother's say mean things. Don't take it to heart. Follow your heart and do what pleases you for yourself.

    • @OurTribeofMany
      @OurTribeofMany  6 місяців тому +2

      So glad you have forgiven her and thanks for sharing this.

  • @nataliebloxom299
    @nataliebloxom299 6 місяців тому +1

    I’m glad to see your pond back before the winter, so you can see the snow coming down over the lake. It’s going to be beautiful seeing the birds on the lake.

  • @melissasallard7642
    @melissasallard7642 6 місяців тому +26

    I am here because I was pregnant and afraid. My Elias is one month older than Seth. When I didn't know how to navigate a milestone I checked this channel. You have gotten me through a lot ❤❤

  • @vanessavanderkramer6588
    @vanessavanderkramer6588 6 місяців тому +9

    Your heartfelt chat yesterday was very open and one that could have been difficult for many, but you both have such a wonderful down-to-earth way of handling things it didn’t seem awkward. I’m sorry you’ve suffered some miscarriages. Your eleven children however are all such lovely young people and the tiny tots, Seth and Peace are so very sweet. I loved seeing the photos and clips of the children when they were younger. ❤

  • @JaniceKonstantinidis
    @JaniceKonstantinidis 6 місяців тому +6

    Sending love. Thank you for sharing.

  • @meghankelie2107
    @meghankelie2107 6 місяців тому +1

    Pregnant with my third and it’s such a blessing. I love you guys and your faith!

  • @Theshoemarkable
    @Theshoemarkable 6 місяців тому +2

    Love this chat. I am so sorry for your losses. I love your perspective and beliefs. I also love that you added that some women do need to be in control of pregnancy’s with birth control, for example, their own health or mental health. Women know deep down what is right for their bodies and families. Thank you for always sharing ❤

  • @jamieliik4927
    @jamieliik4927 6 місяців тому +14

    Even if you don’t have a large family medical people are not always accepting of family size. I have 2 kids who are very close in age (Irish twins, 11 months and 1 day apart) when I went back to my OB for my second pregnancy, one of the OB’s in the practice definitely made it known that she was not supportive of having back to back babies.

  • @autumnj6397
    @autumnj6397 6 місяців тому +3

    The grocery story was so touching ❤

  • @colleenbrewer4453
    @colleenbrewer4453 6 місяців тому

    I love all the flash back video of the children in this video. This made my day!

  • @stephaniedosier7854
    @stephaniedosier7854 6 місяців тому +2

    This video was definitely amazing I felt like I was sitting and having a conversation with the both of you and getting to know u a bit. I believe in a lot of what u guys spoke on and I have ppl tell my husband and I that we have enough kids and don't need to have anymore. But I feel that I was made to be a mother to more and I am so happy when I bring new life into the world and the fact that I was blessed and chosen to be the mother to each one is the greatest feeling. Only have 4 kids now ages 16, 13, 11, 5. Only God knows what is going to happen in our life and I'm always ready to embrace whatever he has in store for me.❤

  • @teacherstreet
    @teacherstreet 6 місяців тому +4

    Having 6 kids myself, I definitely sense that we are different. So many people say, “Wow, you’re busy!” So thankful for each of them and the love they have for each other, can’t imagine not having each one.
    ❤ from Iowa

  • @marieneu264
    @marieneu264 6 місяців тому +31

    I love when Solo does Q&A’s with Sarah. He always shares so much wisdom. I would love to be a member of their church if I lived in Nebraska, but the church UA-cam channel will have to suffice, and it’s great!

    • @handsfulladventures
      @handsfulladventures 6 місяців тому +1

      Agreed!

    • @medinatabor6492
      @medinatabor6492 5 місяців тому +2

      Hi, hun! If you don't mind, could you share the UA-cam Church channel? I always feel a sense of peace and calm when I listen to Solo's enlightening words.

  • @anahis7592
    @anahis7592 6 місяців тому

    Wow thank you so much exactly what i need to hear!❤ Dont make long term decisions based on short term circumstances! ❤️❤️

  • @shinewithsheryl6056
    @shinewithsheryl6056 6 місяців тому

    Thank you both for sharing this video. I appreciate you and your family for being a light in the world.
    I am so sorry for your losses. That is so hard. 😔 God bless you all.

  • @megroux
    @megroux 6 місяців тому +20

    My condolences to you both. We suffered a miscarriage after my husbands’s vasectomy. It was so heartbreaking. Wishing you peace.

  • @ginastannard9614
    @ginastannard9614 6 місяців тому +40

    Hi guys , it does not matter how many children you have , as long as you bring them up to have respect and lots of love and compassion , then you can’t go wrong ❤

  • @pamfrey6785
    @pamfrey6785 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you, I really enjoyed this topic and I really enjoy watching your family. There is so much love in your home. Yes there is a lot of love and joy being expressed to you. I just love seeing Noelle peeking over your shoulder making faces, doing bunny ears. There were 6 children in my home growing up. I remember hearing well they have so many children I know this was hurtful. Merry Christmas

  • @teresamiller8861
    @teresamiller8861 5 місяців тому +5

    My mother was one of 16 and Grandma went from having the 16th, she went right into menopause. I guess their quiver was full. When Grandpa passed away, there were still 11 at home. She was a precious and godly woman, and my grandpa was a pastor as well. I just came across your channel tonight and intend on following you. God bless you dearly and Happy New Year, a bless year.

  • @AmericanAkitaClub
    @AmericanAkitaClub 6 місяців тому +11

    Hey Sarah and solo!! Thanks for sharing such a heartwarming video!
    God bless you all ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @deniseclendening5381
    @deniseclendening5381 6 місяців тому +8

    I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE watching your family. I’m the second of 10 siblings, now reaching older age (70’s). I have five of my own children, nine grandkids and two great grandchildren. As we watch you, my husband will say “how do they do it”. I remind him I came from a huge family. We just did it, it was our normal ordinary life.

  • @karenkissick6884
    @karenkissick6884 6 місяців тому +1

    Amen Solo and Sarah....so we'll spoken. I always say I love you all and
    My thought first and foremost follow your heart.
    There were 7 of us and momma said everybody had something to say about how many children they had in 10 years BUT that she never felt complete until my baby brother who is 6 years younger than me. Speaking of which he came and spent the afternoon with my husband and me, he is a blessing to me. I have told him of you all. Today you all made me very happy in your message.
    Sarah the picture of you view out the window of yours and Solos quiet place needs to become a Christmas Card ....simply beautiful.
    All ways in my prayers and extra for Juda to come home filled with all the goodness one receives from spreading God's word and love.

  • @annacastillo1663
    @annacastillo1663 6 місяців тому +2

    You guys are truly blessed with your beautiful family ❤❤❤

  • @jenniferking3119
    @jenniferking3119 6 місяців тому +9

    We had a miscarriage between our third and fourth children. The number of times I heard from others that it was ok or no big deal because I already had three children didn’t make it hurt any less. We struggled to get pregnant again after the miscarriage and when we had given up (actually given up to the point that we gave away our crib) we found out one month later we were expecting our fourth.

  • @juliamikeg413
    @juliamikeg413 5 місяців тому +3

    We have 7 children and in the process of adopting our grand child to make 8, I love your big family. God bless you all

  • @susanr791
    @susanr791 3 місяці тому +1

    I liked what you said - no accidental children but accidental parents. Thank you for that.

  • @ladyt3182
    @ladyt3182 5 місяців тому

    Awesome conversation y’all!

  • @NennaLena
    @NennaLena 6 місяців тому +41

    Oh my goodness! The old clips of the kids made my heart melt. Seeing Judah so small was such a wow moment. Haha

    • @OurTribeofMany
      @OurTribeofMany  6 місяців тому +17

      He was so small!!!! These clips make me so happy I started vlogging. ❤️😭🥰

  • @thisnthatmamma1617
    @thisnthatmamma1617 6 місяців тому +5

    Children are a blessing for sure. I have the utmost respect for large families as well as the people who don't want kids. There are some people who should never have been parents, my mother was done being a parent when I was 10 . I'm the oops baby and the youngest of three, I'm 10 years younger than my sister. Happy Holidays

  • @jessicarupert8815
    @jessicarupert8815 6 місяців тому +1

    Only halfway through and already SO encouraged. Thank you for this word 🙏 we don't have anyone in our circle who thinks this way and I really needed this encouragement.

  • @patriciagrissett2923
    @patriciagrissett2923 6 місяців тому +1

    Love your family. Children are such a blessing.

  • @jacklynnsmith5668
    @jacklynnsmith5668 6 місяців тому +13

    You guys are so Spirit- filled and truly make this conversation Spiritual.
    Thank you!
    I am sorry for your losses.

  • @tracydownie169
    @tracydownie169 6 місяців тому +8

    So sorry for your miscarriages.
    Love that there are not accidental children but accidental parents.
    I was adopted as a baby and I am blessed with the family that chose me.
    I had many years go by & not fall pregnant…ended up going IVF and had twins born on Christmas Day…they were definitely my blessed and gift from God

  • @judithcoe7551
    @judithcoe7551 6 місяців тому +1

    I am sorry about your miscarriages. Thank you for sharing about your beautiful family. God has blessed you all so much!❤🎉😊

  • @Onewiththewindd
    @Onewiththewindd 3 місяці тому +1

    Honestly my heart SMILESSSS. You have a man that loves you unconditionally and his family!! ♥️♥️♥️
    God BLESS YALL 🎉

  • @reneemoran8574
    @reneemoran8574 6 місяців тому +15

    Imagine had you only had 4. You'd almost be empty-nesters. Have you ever sat back and thought of all you'd have missed had you kept to a max of 4 kiddos.
    My husband and I have 8 children collectively. His, mine, an angel, and ours. When our daughter was born, we thought she would be our blender baby. Bringing our family together, but she died at 10 days, 10 hours and 20 minutes old. We couldn't end our family on a tragedy, so we tried again and had a sweet baby boy. This was followed by another baby boy and a decision that our family was complete. Only to be surprised by the Lord with our beautiful daughter.

    • @OurTribeofMany
      @OurTribeofMany  6 місяців тому +7

      We talk about if we had stopped at 4 what our life would be like and it makes us happy we didn't!

  • @gtac37
    @gtac37 6 місяців тому +3

    Seeing Hope as a baby ❤. Her beautiful giggles drew me to your channel.

  • @sherrieoday6848
    @sherrieoday6848 6 місяців тому +1

    Sarah, I loved you and Sol talking like this… the love Sol has for you is extremely evident ❤ and the way you look at him❤.. the both of you are just so very blessed on many levels❤

  • @icunurse1976
    @icunurse1976 4 місяці тому

    I have been watching your family for years. I absolutely love the purity you represent and your kids are all adorable!

  • @blessed_jess_4eva
    @blessed_jess_4eva 6 місяців тому +3

    My husband & I have a lot of kids too. We have also suffered loss. Losing a child is beyond hurtful, devastating, & traumatizing. My heart goes out to y’all.❤❤❤

  • @eiffeltower1266
    @eiffeltower1266 6 місяців тому +5

    Definitely! "Always question authority" and do your own research before trusting any "professionals". They may not like it, but at least you're discussing important issues with some knowledge, at end "whose life is it anyway!". Taking responsibility of our lives is a must. With some professional opinions and advice of course!

  • @melissaeisener6896
    @melissaeisener6896 4 місяці тому

    Wow I am loving this!! Thank you for sharing. ❤️

  • @Jane5720
    @Jane5720 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for this conversation

  • @deannadieckmann196
    @deannadieckmann196 6 місяців тому +11

    I love how you look at and speak to one another. You can feel the love and respect in your relationship.

  • @edithwarria4794
    @edithwarria4794 6 місяців тому +14

    Hello Sarah and Solo , good you to see you both👍🌈🌺🦋❤️💙🙏🏻from Edith in cairns Queensland Australia 🇦🇺

  • @oksanasolo6842
    @oksanasolo6842 6 місяців тому

    I'm so happy you are open with us. For sure God blesses those that multiply. I know the pressure is real, in every corner. But stand strong.

  • @melissastark3003
    @melissastark3003 5 місяців тому +1

    Soooo sorry to you both on your losses. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻. I’m one that wants children…. But can’t. Praying for a miracle! I’ll never give up!

  • @evieartsandcraftlover1079
    @evieartsandcraftlover1079 6 місяців тому +29

    Announcing my fifth pregnancy and seeking health care for my pregnancy is really difficult for me, thankfully so far my experience is ok so far - but I haven’t told many people yet 😂

    • @agathareimer2924
      @agathareimer2924 6 місяців тому

      Congratulations! Such a great blessing!❤️🫂

    • @danik1146
      @danik1146 6 місяців тому +1

      Congratulations, I'm so happy for you!!!
      (We had 4 and then stopped, I've regretted it ever since)

    • @evieartsandcraftlover1079
      @evieartsandcraftlover1079 3 місяці тому

      We lost our baby last week at 24 wks,

  • @maraemartinae5772
    @maraemartinae5772 6 місяців тому +8

    I truly believe our stories have already been written and we’re just here to turn the pages. We certainly don’t have the control we like to think we do. You two were blessed with your beautiful family, if another baby is in your story,the lord will provide. My Great grandmother had 24 kids ( that made it to adulthood) and one grandmother had 16, the other 13. I’m so thankful for the crazy amount of relatives I have. My kids are always amazed when I show them their cousins on Facebook they didn’t know they were related to. Last count there were 14 sets of twins.

  • @tiffanygerke9063
    @tiffanygerke9063 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your views and core values. I personally have been struggling with the idea of another little one and the thought of starting over. Your words have touched me in such a uplifting way I can't even explain it in a few words. I just wanted to express my gratitude for being here at this time to hear what you and your husband explained. Thank you

  • @karynkelly-michael4089
    @karynkelly-michael4089 5 місяців тому

    Each of you are beautiful beings; together you are breath-taking!

  • @rebekah3483
    @rebekah3483 6 місяців тому +3

    Great chat! Non judgemental and open! I appreciate your takes on these and respect them! I'm sorry for your losses! ❤

  • @LindaASJ
    @LindaASJ 6 місяців тому +11

    On taking ANY prescription or other drug, doctors have one semester of pharmacology, pharmacists have 5 years of pharmacology. No matter what drug you’re prescribed, it’s best to talk to your pharmacist on the drug and why you’re being prescribed that drug and if it makes sense.

  • @amykemerink1246
    @amykemerink1246 6 місяців тому

    Love this video. Thanks for sharing ❤️❤️

  • @erinbroderick2819
    @erinbroderick2819 6 місяців тому +1

    it is so nice to see Solo smile at the beginning of the video.

  • @lindseybaker8985
    @lindseybaker8985 6 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for sharing your family story, I think some times people who have larger families get the assumption from others that it’s easy and no loss ever, and that’s just simply not always the case! Just because you have a larger family doesn’t mean it was easy to get pregnant or there wasn’t loss and heartache along the way!

  • @katiebrower5552
    @katiebrower5552 6 місяців тому +6

    Thank you so much for sharing. We have struggled to get pregnant. We have two wonderful blessings in our arms and I'm very sure we lost one last Oct. We would love a house FULL of children but the Lord is in control❤.

  • @MissyDcherrydaisypie25
    @MissyDcherrydaisypie25 4 місяці тому

    Having walked thru 7 miscarriages on the way to our 3 children here on earth I can so relate. Will put you on our prayer list and pray for Gods blessing again

  • @MyArnette
    @MyArnette 6 місяців тому +2

    You two are so very blessed and that makes me joyful. You are doing a great work for Him. Thank you for all you do and you are helping so many❤😭

  • @jjs2080
    @jjs2080 6 місяців тому +20

    I'm so sorry about your losses! Years ago you shared a book called "I'll hold you in heaven" and it has been such a blessing and tool on my healing process of miscarriage. Hope our Lord will bring you comfort and peace 🙏🏻 Also, just wanted to say how happy you guys make me to be able to see the amazing family that you have and that the impact of your legacy to this world is beyond belief! Imagine how each one of your children will be such a light out there, having had the opportunity of being raised in a loving Christian home, with unbelievable parents who are bringing up wholesome children. Oh my, hallelujah, yes bring on more babies please!!! It makes our hearts happy and hopeful and I'm sure it puts a huge smile on God's face. I love it! Thank you for being you and for blessing us in more ways than you can imagine 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 May your light continue to shine bright ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @OurTribeofMany
      @OurTribeofMany  6 місяців тому +2

      Love that book! Thanks for sharing.

    • @carolchapman9320
      @carolchapman9320 6 місяців тому

      I have that book and a stack of others that I used for my journey just in the last three months!

  • @myimperfectlifewyattfamily1079
    @myimperfectlifewyattfamily1079 6 місяців тому +4

    I follow you because we also are a large family we have 10. I love seeing how other families work.

  • @teresaryan4956
    @teresaryan4956 6 місяців тому

    So sorry about the loss of all your babies xx

  • @mmec.3554
    @mmec.3554 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your hearts and scripture! I’m sorry for your losses.
    We currently have six children and we have not heard from God one way or the other about more children so we are content and listening. One thing I wrestle with when it comes to discussing the blessing of children and God providing, is that there are cases where children starve, people struggle to live each day, etc. I have more thoughts but am leaving it here because I don’t know how to finish. We continue to pray and as Solo said, there are things we won’t understand this side of eternity. God bless you all!

  • @LindaAndrews-of9io
    @LindaAndrews-of9io 6 місяців тому +3

    Thank you Solo and Sarah for such wonderful topics and guidance

  • @vickihoughton1123
    @vickihoughton1123 6 місяців тому +11

    Great video. I had two children while taking the pill. I’ve always said they are my miracle babies not mistakes. I believe god decided two children wasn’t enough for me. My husband and I are now 65 years old and are so very happy that we were blessed with 4children, soon to be 9 grandchildren and 1 great grandchild. Our life is very full and wonderfully happy.

  • @trinadeerhodes
    @trinadeerhodes 6 місяців тому

    I love watching you guys. Thank u for inviting us in. I started with the grocery hauls butclove all the videos. God bless u

  • @beachgranny8355
    @beachgranny8355 6 місяців тому +1

    Just wanted to say thank you. You and your family have been such a blessing to me so many times. What a blessing to see a family living out life with Jesus the way that y’all are. God bless❤️❤️❤️

  • @leep7439
    @leep7439 6 місяців тому +5

    We were made to feel extremely guilty for having our 3. My sil point blanked asked us the day after giving birth to our daughter if i had gotten my tubes tied. And when i said no she had a few choice words to say about that. We of course did decide not to have any more though i always wanted more kids. The guilt still hits me even though I'm passed the age of even being able to try. That being said my oldest aon and his wife want a large family and rhat is such a joy for me. Grandbaby no 2 is due in January. This Grandma is beyond blessed.

  • @cheriepanter9333
    @cheriepanter9333 6 місяців тому +6

    Coming from someone who can’t have children, I love your family vicariously 😅🇦🇺

  • @lisaremy4817
    @lisaremy4817 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing this video. ❤

  • @kaypowell407
    @kaypowell407 5 місяців тому

    I love your talks - Scripture, everything