The mysterious murder of Stacy Feldman [True Crime Documentary]
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- Опубліковано 24 лис 2024
- 44 year old wife and mother Stacy Feldman was pulled lifeless from her bathtub on a Saturday afternoon in March, 2015.
It seemed that she had collapsed in the shower, water still running, and had not gotten back up.
Her cause of death: undetermined.
No one could say with any certainty what had happened to Stacy -not her family, not the medical examiner and not the Denver Police Department.
But speculation was rampant: a medical complication, a drug overdose, a tragic accident … and a police investigation that despite scant evidence, was convinced Stacy’s death had to be a homicide. And if so, they knew exactly where to find the killer.
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I cannot wrap my head around partners that murder the mother or father of their own children!! I mean, murder itself is already horrible enough but to take away the parent of your child and subject them to such pain and sorrow and a life time of grief is just beyond me.
Thanks Kevin. I am always so excited to see your uploads on Sundays.
Unfathomable to me too.
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Just goes to show you how pathologically selfish some people are.
It’s really not hard to wrap my head around. Family courts wouldn’t bled him dry, he probably wouldn’t be able to live with his kids and the promise of a life insurance payout. Same ‘ol story 😢
They choose to orphan their children
A husband who doesn't look for his wife until three hours after she is missing is highly suspect.
Depends if you like each other or not. Some people stay in relationships for the children
Not really. Just missing for 3 hrs? I go missing far longer and if I was reported missing everytime im late or not responding I'd be reported every 3-5 business days
Who would go to a Carnival for hours when you know your wife is missing and failed to pick up your children from daycare ? THAT IS THE ONLY CLUE THE POLICE NEEDED.
Exactly first thing I was thinking. GUILTY!!
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I was thinking the same thing 1 red flag 🚩
Somebody wanting a good alibi, that’s who.
Somebody that knows there is a lot of people at a carnival, probably lots of cameras too.
Plus he he knew she was dead in that house.
Imagine murdering your spouse partly for the insurance money, than having to use that money to hire attorneys and you still get convicted and go to jail. If that isn’t karma I don’t know what is.
Exactly. Well put .
that's a narcissist for you,...they always think they are right!
It's too bad that there wasn't much money, if any, to help with the care and education of the children.
Now they don't have a loving mother and their Dad is a convicted murderer. So sad 😢
I know. Such a horrible person to do such a terrible crime to your own spouse and the mother of your children. He deserves never to be free.
I thought the same thing.
I've watched many cases, glad the EMT and detectives are so clever and followed their intuition ❤ thanks Kevin, RIP Stacey, hope the kids are doing okay 🙏🏼
It was very unfair that the courts allowed the insurance money to be used for the lawyers fee. The money should have gone to the children.
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Morally it is but if he is innocent until proven guilty. He is the beneficiary and has the right to use the money. Unfortunately by the time they had a guilty ruling the money was gone. I never have one beneficiary and I make sure I have funds set aside for my children. You can’t always trust 1 person to do right after your gone.
It's also current law that accused murderers of spouses can legally own their remains and deny the family a proper burial or cremation.
Laws need to change ASAP.
Ya the lawyer were putting greed over morality
They tried appealing to the Probate Court, but that court's purview is limited once funds are dispensed. They may could have pursued an injunction in the Superior Court to freeze assets, at least in the amount of that whose distribution is put into question by virtue of the murder charge.
It’s a shame he was allowed to squander a sizable portion of his murdered wife’s life insurance rather than it going to his children which I am sure she would have wanted.
she should have listed her children as beneficiaries.
Yep!!
@@ginaharden2111That's some fascinating victim blaming. Kudos!
The insurance didn't benefit the accused but the lawyers.
@@ginaharden2111when you're in a marriage you usually list your spouse
Thank goodness for Susan McBride reporting her affair to Crime Stoppers. Bob clearly thinks that "rules" don't apply to him. Bob is where he needs to be.😡😖
When it got to the line that Susan McBride called crime stoppers, tears formed in my eyes. She wasted no time standing up for her. I found it really touching and heartbreaking at the same time.
Wow, the woman this weirdo dated who is seen near the end describing her encounter, looks just like his ex-wife. Everything about this guy is completely creepy
Exceedingly creepy!
Yes!
..women like creepy men 😂😂😂
..women like creepy men 😂😂😂
I noticed that too & came straight to comments to see if anyone else noticed! Weird!
Great work by everyone involved, EMTs, detectives,etc. for making sure this man didn’t get away with murder. RIP Stacy, it is so sad to see another wife/mother murdered 😢
Kevin, You do a fantastic job covering these cases. Your voice is so soothing 🌸
Interesting story, well told. Finally, someone gets the proper sentence for murder - life without parole. Thanks Kevin for. you great work.
Thanks for being here!
I'm already suspicious of Bob that he picked up the kids from school and carried onto the Carnival...like oh well missing wife whatever! 😳
Right! I stopped the video to comment.
totally agree…that hit me immediately!!
Yeah, and like going home to change in the laundry and not stopping to acknowledge to her that you are there...
Also if you work out, wouldn't you want to take a shower and who changes in the laundry room?
@@solitairestarr5516 Yeah, like it's really that hard to say hi to someone else in your home, not to mention one's wife?!? It wasn't like they lived in a mansion, and it would be a pain in the hiney to locate the person.
You, my friend, never disappoints. Thoughtful & well-researched material, narrated truly empathetically. All the best!👏🏼
Thank you very much!
Yes keep going Kevin. Your presentation is thoughtful without dramatics. My favourite true crime. You should be collecting awards.
So much agree! Thank you Kevin and regards from Switzerland! ❤️
Kudos to the mistress. If she hadn't looked him up 3 months later none of this would be known. Without her Bob would be a free man.
Yes - or if the police had done a better job and checked the victim’s email log.
@@nicolew4877 I know, I was wondering about that, but maybe there needs to be just cause to dig into phone records or it's harassment and requires a search warrant. Similar things come up with autopsies, what to search for or whether the situation even warrants one to be necessary.
Maybe with all her existing medical conditions the police felt they better not push it or be possibly sued by the "grieving" shlub. That said, if someone like a mistress can unprovoked volunteer information changing the equation to "suspicious" then you may have justification to dig further and build a case. Just imagining there must be a protocol.
Yeah, Susan is gold.
In fairness, I would not call her a mistress. It sounds like she went on a few dates with him rather than a long-term relationship. More importantly, she did not know he was married and he went out of his way to hide it. She was a victim too. Mistress has slutty, home wrecker connotation.
Even though the husband is the one in the wrong, I don't think the potential mistress should have called the wife because it's not like they became intimate as yet. Their relationship wasn't a thing and she just found him to be a liar. I wouldn't have stirred a pot by calling the wife. She would just have to find out by herself about other future mistresses.
The thing that stuck out to me first was that Bob picked up the kids after they couldn't get the mom, but after he picked them up, he went to a carnival. Strange! If I knew they couldn't get a hold of my partner when he was supposed to pick up the kids, I would be zooming home while trying to call. I would be panicked.
KEVIN, thank you as always for covering the cases "that really make us think". I feel like a broken record, but we all appreciate the thorough, unbiased / both-sided viewpoints you bring to the table in your investigative work and story-telling. Thank you for making Sundays amazing with your drops! EDIT: Everyone please HIT THAT LIKE BUTTON to keep Kev's content coming.
Appreciate the nudge for everyone!
suspenseful. Kevin seems backed in a corner
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The father didn't go home to check on his wife, who failed to pick up their children from school... but just went with the kids to a carnival, instead? Not suspicious AT ALL!! 🤔
For real...
That's how I knew he'd killed her.
Ikr? I was like.....if I get a call saying my wife was a no-show literally the first thing I'd do after collecting said kids is to check on her wellbeing. Heck, I might even make arrangements for a trusted family member to collect the kids so I could prioritize finding out wtf happened. 🤷♀️
My thoughts exactly. Once that was mentioned, I knew Bob did it.
I know right !! His wife missing & he only changes his clothe !! Never checks on his wife
Why the fuck would an insurance company payout to a beneficiary on trial for murder???
Mind-blowing.
Exactly !!!!!!
@@easygoer1234 - …for all the legitimate times people needed their claims but got rejected on some stupid technicality . . .
Dumbos . That's why premiums are so high.
Not convicted!
@@TravelAlwaysOfficial - all they have to be is a suspect to void benefits, until officially cleared
What a horrible, selfish and stupid man. To rob his children of their Mother is unforgivable. R.I.P Stacy.
And to use the insurance money for his attorney and not for the children future needs. 😮😮
I can't help wondering about the children. I hope they were brought up by their mother's family and that their father had no part in their upbringing before he went to prison. I hope too that they received at least some of the life insurance money. It was disgusting that he was allowed to use it to pay for his defence attorneys.
Sounds like he pretty much blew through all of the proceeds defending himself. I wonder if he even cared about his children at all.
@@loveforeignaccents A man who would kill the mother of his children after cheating on her, does not love his children. He may have love for them, but he loves himself most of all. I hope the kids are doing good though.
@@coriiiiii2558 a killer narcissist😡
Ahhh, America, when you're not rich, no lawyer, no doctor.
@Dilley_G45 You get a lawyer. But they don't have the same time and resources as an expensive law firm does.
Thank goodness for Susan…a suspicious female will always find information quicker than the FBI or MI5 🙏🏻 poor Stacey 💔
If it was not for her Stacey probably would be alive today😔🙏🏻🕊
@@melluques8475 The only person to blame here is the husband. Sarah was not responsible at all.
@@melluques8475Sarah thought she was dating a man who was separated. The woman is not only blameless, she's a hero for coming forward with the information!
Do we mean Susan?
@@loveforeignaccents 🤦🏼♀️ I’ve edited it..thank you 🙏🏻
i hate, really hate when cheaters kill their poor partners who are daring to be upset and want to leave said cheater. i mean, you've already messed up why take their lives too? just really horrible narcissistic people. also, big kudos to susan mcrbride. she could have kept quiet once she learned of the wife's death.
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Agreed! He was a horrendous POS. Instead of giving his wife’s insurance money to his children he spent it all on his defense. Absolutely selfish! Not to mention him continuing to meet women online and creating fake profiles and assaulting one of them. Dude was just awful.
I would hope most people would call the police
In the uk, it’s not up to the family whether an autopsy happens or not, it’s up to the coroner. Thank goodness!
I'm Jewish. Autopsies are considered desecration of the body. However, it is acceptable if the person did not die a natural death and murder is suspected.
There is a case unfolding here in the US where the husband, who was some sort of poison control expert, didn't want his wife to have an autopsy, but they -- the coroner? -- refused, and lo and behold guess why she died? Yep, she was poisoned!
@susiefoxy8130 but you will know that in the UK Orthodox Jews do not have internal autospys they have scan autopsy. The Feldmans were Jewish as they referred to the attending Temple. It might be the reason why he would not have wanted an autopsy. I would also prefer a scan autopsy.
That’s the case here. There are exceptions - especially on religious grounds. Stacy and Bob are Jewish. Traditional Jewish law requires burial within 24 hours of death. (The same is true for Muslims.) However, this is obviously waived in appropriate circumstances (such as a possible homicide or a death from a contagious infection.)
Objections to autopsy are waived when public policy concerns outweigh private religious objections.
Sama in Australia thank god…
So excited when you have new episodes you are definitely one of the best true crime channels thank you
I am always so thrilled to receive a notification that you have a new video. You, certainly, have the best crime videos on the internet!!!! You ROCK, Kevin!!!!!!!!!
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Definitely one of the best channels on UA-cam amd quickly becoming a favorite!
I really hope her poor children and other family members find some sort of peace in all of this. So incredibly sad, she seems like she was such a kind and fun mum.
Thank you for conscientious people like Susan. 🙏 RIP Stacy
Yet again such a sad, and compelling story. Appreciate the efforts you're doing in making these video's Kevin..📲🙏🏻
It's wild that it took 7 years for a trial on such a serious matter.
I just wanted to express my gratitude for your recent video. I’m a huge fan of crime content, and your videos truly resonate with my interests. Your clear storytelling and balanced format are a breath of fresh air. Unlike some crime videos that tend to sensationalize, yours offer a grounded and engaging perspective, making them a perfect addition to my workday playlist😌
No woman leaves a silver and gold dress watch on in a shower.
And the bathroom floor wasn't wet, as it should have been if he had pulled her from the bathtub.
Police don't seem to have common sense 🤦♀
Kevin, you have the voice of a story teller, this is your true calling!!
I like this channel. He gets right to the story and not bore us with the history of the state or the city 😊
I love how well these videos are put together. The framing of the backstory gives more context and shows how shocking the crimes are.
This one was horrible. What a disgusting man, Stacy seemed like such a good person.
You're the best true crime channel on UA-cam. I enjoy your content very much. Respect!
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Hi ss..IKR…
What about that incompetent medical examiner? She didn't notice any strangulation marks during the autopsy? It took an outside expert to conclude the cause of death. The state is lucky the defense didn't use the autopsy for reasonable doubt.
Was the incompetetant examiner demoted or fired?
This guy is better than 48 hours and Dateline and 20/20, all put together. In 20-30 minutes he describes the crime and investigation and outcome of the case, without constantly rehashing the details. I can’t believe some network hasn’t picked this guy up.
Thank you for the wonderful stories.
That’s because networks want established journalists and presenters to make it more dramatic and easy to digest for the average human viewer. Rehashing the details is done because they have to do so to make room for advertisers.
He wss bori g.
Why is it so hard for ppl to get a divorce and move on with their lives? They acting so much like divorce is so much worse than a murder charge. I don’t get it.
I totally agree but, in this case, there was a fairly substantial amount of life insurance money involved.
Greed never pays, but the perpetrators never think of that before it's too late.
He wouldn't have gotten the 750k; she would have been entitled to half the marital assets, plus child support.
So many just think they will get away w/murder. Luckily that mistress came forward, and there was proof of that.
@@loveforeignaccents splitting your assets 50% is still better than life in prison without a possibility of parole or the death penalty
@@shawnba2294 Oh, no doubt!
Sad 😔 to say but it is mostly if not all about greed. Motive is money. They don't want to lose it or fork it over. Tragic but 😔 sad and usually true 😢😢😢😢.
Thank you for always bringing us the best stories!
Thank you for all the videos. Best true crime channel ever created! phenomenal content, video after video.
Nice job putting this episode together. The narration, in particular, was well done. I will watch more videos from this channel. 🍁
Another fantastic case presentation. Thanks for the video 😊
My man, good stuff as always. Just out of curiosity, after deciding on the case/subject, how long does it take to write, edit, etc? Keep up the good work.
Thanks Vince. Each video takes between 40 - 50 hours on average to put together. Some come together easier than others….and some there are unexpected issues that come up. Appreciate the support 🙂
Wow, this was really incredible. Always great Kevin!
Cheers 🙂
I knew when he picked the kids up, and didn't check on his wife that he killed her. Anyone else would rush home to check on their wife.
Yep!
Thank you for your channel & your very concise and thorough explanations of the cases you present. This case was handled very well.
The fact that this oaf cheated on this stunning woman is dumbfounding.
Men like sex from different & better 😉
Remember even beyonce got cheated on 🤔
Remember keep telling yourself what you need to stay deluded.
User, always trying to start drama! Never fails, week after week.
If you only knew……
24:47 It's so creepy and weird that the woman he assaulted strangely looks very similar to the wife that he killed. This lady is lucky she got away, very horrible that she was assaulted though. What a pathetic human being he is...
He definitely had a type.
She gives zero details of him assaulting her. He had a pool in his backyard. The end.
Ok I'm sorry the woman he "allegedly" assaulted? -- excuse me 😮💨😐
@@NeonZebraSpots Maybe because it was "allegedly" she didn't want to talk about it? It was pointless of them to even bring it up. She does look like the wife though...maybe Bob was fantasizing about reliving murdering his wife.
@@TawnyC_ absolutely I completely agree it's her right if she wants to talk about it or not and I'm not getting into whether they should have brought it up or not, I'm clearly just making an observation.
Lawyers: “We believe in the innocence of our client and will vigorously defend him.... as long as we can financially exploit him”.
Rt, as long as the $ keeps coming
I am not sure why you argued or didn't argued about that the shock of the email was the reason she felt down? Need more?
She OD
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It’s very disappointing that he could use the life insurance from her murder to pay for his defense!!! Does anyone know how much was spent ?
Your videos are so easy to listen to! Thank you!
You are so easy to listen to. Thank-you for your care and careful understanding of these cases......
Thank you, Kevin, well done presentation.
Cheers 👍🏻
I've herd about this case before. JTL, told it in greater detail. Great job Kevin
Thanks Kevin. Great channel, presentation, and narration.
RIP Stacey. 🕊️🙏
Kevin, good case & thanks. Only thing I was really frustrated with was the time it took to convict him. 7+ years...lots can happen in that space. Relatives of the victim could pass & never see the justice. Just frustrating, but in the end justice did prevail.
I wondered throughout where the children were. I suppose they were with him until he was convicted? And afterward with the mother's family?
Sometimes that's just the way the cookie crumbles. Of course, the pandemic didn't help anything.
@@solitairestarr5516 Yeah, I wonder what their thoughts even were during that time period... if they in fact thought their father was responsible for their mother's death. Hope they are doing as well as possible.
Kevin, you present these crimes with such class and dignity toward the victims.
Your very clear and precise in your presentation of the cases you talk about. It shows that you do research. Thank you.
Presentation is super; true to the stated mission for delivery. Even cases I am familiar with are deserving of a listen here. Love the kitty, and the fireplace to clever logo as well
Thanks for this well researched episode. First one I've seen but I'll be watching more of your work.
At 16:26 the husband says: The day she collapsed. How does he knows that she collapsed if he wasn’t there. The paramedics or coroner never use that word or term. What would he?. He said that to detective in his phone call. I am surprised the detective didn’t catch that. And ask him more details why he said or thinks that she collapsed.
Thank goodness Susan McBride followed her instincts and contacted Crime Stoppers which resulted in justice for Stacy Feldman. So many lying, Players out there. R.I.P. Stacy.
so disgusting move..!
using his murdered wife's life insurance to hire a high-end attorney!!..
how awful and disgusting is it...!!!
I think that is what Kouri Ritchsen's is doing after being charged w killing her husband. And she has 6 attorneys! Case is currently out of Colorado.
I feel sorry for the children who have to grow up with this horrific tragedy. It’s terrible enough for one human being to kill another, but murdering the mother of your children (or a father) puts it on a whole other level. Now, they have neither parent. I wish they are able to find some peace in their lives moving forward
It's so very Heartbreaking for the Children! They always Suffer the most! 💔💔💔💔🙏🙏🙏🙏
In glad to see that you've done away with the opening tag line, "JTL is the channel.... converting cases that really make you think." Your channel is great, and that tag line just wasn't necessary. I really like the formula you follow in your videos. Being succinct makes listening to these cases really easy to follow.
This guy is disgusting. My heart goes out to the children and family of Stacy. 💜
Why didn't you like the tag line? Can you elaborate, I'm genuinely curious because I used to think about thqt phrase a lot.
I don't normally follow these cases, but after listening to a few of your cases and analysis, I think Kevin does an amazing job in remaining in the background and letting the case and actors speak for themselves.- Very impressed with the tone and patience of the presenter- well done!
Dead in a bathtub is ALWAYS the spouse. Interesting indeed...
18:29 did anyone else think it was creepy how similar the wife and the girlfriend looked?? He definitely had a “type”… And the other lady who was assaulted on a date too!! Wow. Wow. Wow 😮
If it wasnt for the mistress, this man wouldve walked free.
If it wasn't for the mistress, Stacy would not have been murdered that morning, she should have challenged Bob rather than spring the affair on Stacy, she turned a cheater into a killer.
He was always a killer. The fact that she challenged him finally brought it out of him, and he finally killed her!! Everyone has the potential to kill. It is the morals and values we all have that do not make the rest of us cross that line!!
Thank you, Kevin, very nicely done.....just found you, subscribing from England. You're just my cup of tea!!! 😊😊
This precious woman should still be living her life.
Absolutely senseless.
Me, being a fan of crime documentaries, i really enjoy your videos, you earned a subscriber..
Its crazy to see a lively woman and then hearing she had two fentanil patches on her. In NL, these patches are used in palliative care mostly.
Drugo
I’m a new subscriber. I’m glad I clicked on your video. I will be binging on watching them this weekend. Thank you for creating a unique show!
Welcome Bernadette! Glad you found us 🙂
Happy Sundays everyone, thank you Kevin God Bless you all ❤🙏🇨🇦
Thanks Heather 🙂
How sweet... and right back at ya, sis!
Very well presented Kevin. You have a very good narrative voice. You have another subscriber! Thanks.
Great video, thank you Kevin. Would like to know what happened with the children though out all this - waiting for trial period and after sentence.
Saw an article from this past June, and their whereabouts are unknown; probably why Kevin didn't mention it.
Thank you Kevin for another fantastic video
Thanks. I am so glad I found this channel.
Beautiful diction. Crystal clear and perfectly paced.
Thanks for the upload Kevin
7 extra years of freedom AFTER being arrested for murder! Smh
Well done Kevin. (Your voice is outstanding.)
NEVER MEET A DATE IN PRIVATE! ALWAYS A PUBLIC PLACE!!!!
Somehow it is cheeky of the courts to only conduct a murder trial after 7 years. Because after so many years, a murderer has a huge emotional distance from the crime.
The good thing is that the life insurance money didn't help him or his lawyers
The emotional distance, and eyewitness testimony starts to get a little fuzzy.
Great channel to binge on!
The lady who did the internet searches and found out all the information she needed is fantastic! I give up after two searches 😂
what an awful precedent to set that you are allowed to benefit from your spouse's murder as long as you receive the insurance money before you are arrested for their murder.
I can remember a tragic murder case, the entire family was shot, the parents died, the kids survived but had to sell their family home to pay for hospital treatment & the two kids had to be raised separately as the extended family could not take them both. So the kids lost their parents & family home & any savings. All gone in an instant.
Love love love your channel. My new fave true crime podcast!
Always a dignified presentation from JTL😊
Kevin, you're so awesome, my friend. Keep on with your excellent videos. Sad for her family. Love and prayers 🙏❤😢
What a horrid man
His wife seemed beautiful, warm person.
What a horrible person he is! Thankfully, not as smart as he thought he was! Thanks for your, as always, deep and thoughtful examination!❤
Excellent. Finely told. Fine Woman, and very very sad.
I can't imagine a child losing her/his mom to later find out that their own father murdered her. Just horrific.
Just discovered your program - really enjoyed it.
Love your channel. Keep it up Kevin. Thanks