THE CUCKENING!!

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  • i talked to 51 cucks about sexuality & politics. here's what i learned!
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    SUMMARY
    In episode 3 of The State of Sex, Laci Green interviews explores the sexual politics of cuckolding.
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  • @Shoe0nHead
    @Shoe0nHead 6 років тому +1488

    i think compersion describes a good part of my sexuality. i learned something today. good video.

    • @Elispoon23
      @Elispoon23 6 років тому +67

      Do you breathe

    • @TheRainbowSpecial
      @TheRainbowSpecial 6 років тому +214

      Finding you in other youtubers comments is like finding an Easter eggs! 🥚

    • @pauldejean7899
      @pauldejean7899 6 років тому +70

      God damn June you are extremely online.

    • @jayviolentmob8309
      @jayviolentmob8309 6 років тому +28

      Even the sound of the word, compersion, is kind of sexy. TIL.

    • @symbolicmeta1942
      @symbolicmeta1942 6 років тому +42

      Shoe0nHead one could read so much into this comment. Your bf is a lucky man.

  • @nickkingofearth
    @nickkingofearth 6 років тому +552

    Your chair looks like French Toast Crunch

  • @HiveFleetUlfang1
    @HiveFleetUlfang1 5 років тому +225

    Cuckolding is referenced in medieval literature such as the Canterbury tales. The origin of the term is not racially charged. It means a man with an adulterous wife (the name supposedly relates to cuckoo birds laying their eggs in the nests of other birds).

    • @COrraThereal0ne
      @COrraThereal0ne 4 роки тому

      You reference the same medieval literature that explains why it's GOOD to rape women and those who do will receive a more beautiful woman?(The Wife of Bathe's tale)

    • @crassenti
      @crassenti 4 роки тому +26

      @@COrraThereal0ne Why does that matter? He's merely pointing out the proper use of the term and it's origin, mostly to counterbalance the whole "letting some black guy do my wife" stereotype being thrown around in the comments. He's not suggesting that the Canterbury tales is a guide for behaviour nor is he even casting a moral judgement on the term itself.

    • @coldwater5814
      @coldwater5814 3 роки тому

      Racially charged? Tel me moreeee

    • @90skidrockin
      @90skidrockin 2 роки тому +3

      @@COrraThereal0ne are you trying to invalidate him by assuming he would be interested in another piece of literature only based off the time frame it originated.

    • @hatoftricks7132
      @hatoftricks7132 2 роки тому

      Nothang wrong wit lettin yo wives n daughters play wit dis BBC whilst yo watch.

  • @TheSteelEcho666
    @TheSteelEcho666 6 років тому +383

    To each their own, but the thought of cuckoldry makes me sick to my stomach.

    • @ajaxrao6042
      @ajaxrao6042 6 років тому +11

      TinnedTommy This is an ultimate betrayal that normally can be found in hentai doujin

    • @Tkimba2
      @Tkimba2 6 років тому +15

      TinnedTommy "to each is own" thank God l found an intelligent comment here!
      If it makes them happy and doesn't harm us, let them be!

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 4 роки тому

      It's fun

    • @docducttape9270
      @docducttape9270 4 роки тому +3

      @SUPERNATURAL MAN Weird how you just jumped in when small dicks were brought up.
      Hit a nerve?

    • @coffinfeeder7732
      @coffinfeeder7732 4 роки тому +2

      It’s cool, not all of us can suppress the more primitive, largely useless neural responses our brains produce.

  • @cutris1234
    @cutris1234 6 років тому +482

    Chirs....... do you need to talk buddy

    • @nikolademitri731
      @nikolademitri731 6 років тому +25

      I hope my boy Chris enjoys some good cuckolding.. Frankly, as long as you’re secure enough in your relationship and your own sexual prowess, it doesn’t represent any threat. Obviously, one has to have some degree of voyeur/exhibition going on to be into it, but yeah, I don’t at all get why folks make a big deal out of it.
      In my experience, only those too insecure in their relationship, or sexual abilities, have an issue with it. That, and/or their just dicks who can’t wrap their brains around anything outside monogamy, and are threatened by those who can, thus they shame it. Don’t get me wrong, monogamy is great, but we can all have the kinds of relationships and sex lives we want and that work best for our relationships (assuming that it’s always consensual and not terribly dangerous), without having to constantly criticize and/or critique those who engage in kinks or dynamics that aren’t personally interesting. ✌🏼

    • @MK-ex4pb
      @MK-ex4pb 6 років тому +26

      Nikola Demitri cuckolding is reproductive suicide. You're letting your mate be possibly impregnated by someone else and then you might care for that child. Your resources go to someone else's genes and offspring. That's why it's taboo

    • @nikolademitri731
      @nikolademitri731 6 років тому +2

      DickDickstein It’s not completely different at all, though, my friend. You mentioned being ok with a three way, well, that’s kinda what it is to people into it, it’s just that those people are voyeurs and/or exhibitionists, thus they don’t require rubbing their genitals against the two who are fucking. It’s just a three way where one of the people who are dating/married, are sitting on the side and masturbating the whole time, and that’s gonna pretty much always be part of a three way at some point anyway.
      Have you ever been in a three way, ever? (I’m guessing not, based on your comment) In a three way, part of the turn on is watching your partner do sex stuff to another person, and watching your partner get that other person off, and watching your partner get off, and watching your partner watch you, and knowing your partner is enjoying the other person, and knowing your partner is getting off on being watched thus getting you off, etc etc.. I’m sure you get the point. In a good three way, you cannot be in competition with your third for your partner’s anything, it’s just not going to turn out enjoyable. That means you’re going to have to be okay with the third using your partner’s hole, or taking your partner’s dick, etc., to your temporary, if only momentary, exclusion. You see where I’m going with this? You follow these dynamics to the point of sitting on the sidelines, and just getting off on watching, while your partner is getting off, not just on the third, but the fact that you’re enjoying what your watching... this really isn’t the wild or crazy thing that so many people make it out to be. It’s not even that wild of a kink. It’s just a particular type of three way or gang bang really.
      Honestly, if you’re only into monogamy, more power to you, dude. I was only into monogamy for a long time, most of my sex life, but once you open up that door, and begin to explore, you find that a lot of “wild” things that we’re conditioned by society to find taboo, really aren’t anything like you were told, or imagined, and often they’re pretty fun. I was terrified by the idea of anything non-monogamous at one time, but after years of trust and love being built up, confidence in my relationship, confidence in my sexuality, etc., my partner and I decided to try new things together, and ultimately, that’s what’s left out of the “cuckolding is crazy, man!” conversation: that this is usually something being shared and enjoyed between two partners/spouses, because their trust, love and confidence in their relationship is ironclad to the point that other cocks or pussies coming to the party, aren’t a threat, and if you can only get past that threat, it’s pretty damn nice to have other people cum to the party. You often hear stories from people about how much more they love and appreciate their partner’s when they open things up, including their one on one sex lives getting that much hotter, and I can definitely attest to all of that.
      Anyway, I’m done harping on it. I’m not trying to convince you to do it, or to try opening your relationship, etc., I’m just trying to explain it in a way that helps someone who’s monogamous understand why a couple might enjoy these types of things. Maybe I didn’t help a single bit, maybe I planted a seed that will grow into you having sex parties with your significant other, I don’t care. I just want people to understand that cuckolding isn’t what they usually think it is. ✌🏼

    • @thomasna5158
      @thomasna5158 6 років тому +2

      Michael King
      I don't see how that follows.
      Using contraception to not have any children at all is not stigmatized.
      You could even argue that choosing to adopt instead is even seen with respect.
      And that would be real "reproductive suicide" while cuckolding merely dents your ability to have children of your own.

    • @zachh1513
      @zachh1513 6 років тому

      No, he just wants to watch. Shhhhh...

  • @Pantograph_1
    @Pantograph_1 6 років тому +502

    I just got a vasectomy and my wife’s boyfriend bought me a switch 👌👌

    • @holdtehmayo
      @holdtehmayo 6 років тому +30

      ✋🏻 hi-five

    • @Pantograph_1
      @Pantograph_1 6 років тому +18

      thanks friendo

    • @DontJinxItYet
      @DontJinxItYet 6 років тому +73

      Well, You gave him your wife so it's only fair if he gives you something too

    • @DontJinxItYet
      @DontJinxItYet 6 років тому +20

      FatalPies He's not hurting anyone I don't see what's the problem

    • @gannonkendrick9343
      @gannonkendrick9343 6 років тому +37

      +FatalPies I hope you're trolling, if not you don't deserve a Switch or a vasectomy.

  • @DruzaCardonikc
    @DruzaCardonikc 6 років тому +65

    This ruined my day.

  • @juamu1132
    @juamu1132 2 роки тому +105

    D E G E N E R A T E S

  • @eddieryan7246
    @eddieryan7246 6 років тому +54

    Poor Chris... I knew it

  • @Blktxdom2004
    @Blktxdom2004 6 років тому +5

    Welcome back to UA-cam, Laci...
    I am a Black male who has been CUCKED by a soon to be divorced wife (White woman), and NOT BY CHOICE!
    I can’t explain...but my 5-year-old son is involved...he and I were upstairs sleeping when she slept with her new lover downstairs. I lost sleep and almost lost my job because of them.

  • @MrKvace
    @MrKvace 6 років тому +1

    Wow your videos have improved so much! Please keep making more :)

  • @gemini88miller
    @gemini88miller 6 років тому +181

    Compersion is now a word that I will use.

    • @phoenixwiseman4018
      @phoenixwiseman4018 6 років тому +5

      Raphael Miller same!!! A permanent part of my vocabulary

    • @Astromyxin
      @Astromyxin 6 років тому +1

      Eh, it has no use in my vocabulary.

    • @gemini88miller
      @gemini88miller 6 років тому

      This is definitely a kink that I don't think I can ever understand. I have a friend who is in an open relationship because he takes medications that kills his sex drive. If you think about it. The reason why I can't fathom this type of behavior in my sex life is because my hormones do not allow it, while someone else'e hormones are non existent and therefore they come to the logical conclusion that they need to have extra-relational affairs.
      Not saying that cuckold is like that. all parties are involved. but its interesting to think about.

    • @ExplosiveBrohoof
      @ExplosiveBrohoof 6 років тому

      Be warned that it is almost always used in association with polyamory.

    • @ajaxrao6042
      @ajaxrao6042 6 років тому

      Doctor! If you are looking for a new companion to travel through time with the TARDIS, YOU ARE IN LUCK AND I DON'T WANNA LIVE THIS TIMELINE!

  • @justingreen8572
    @justingreen8572 6 років тому +152

    And the fall of Rome begins again.

    • @ZechsMerquise73
      @ZechsMerquise73 6 років тому +11

      It's all because of them sexual deviants. Should have burned them all at the stake or pushed them into the bog.

    • @avykh99
      @avykh99 6 років тому

      Because America is comparable an ancient kingdom of drunken savages that believed their Gods were chilling out on a mountain, nailed people to crosses, and were cool with child marriage.

    • @cirriusrogue
      @cirriusrogue 6 років тому +3

      As with Rome it started with the women.

    • @abranezhprezawdnaheia8244
      @abranezhprezawdnaheia8244 3 роки тому

      @@ZechsMerquise73 this will destroy relationship!

    • @coldwater5814
      @coldwater5814 3 роки тому +1

      @@avykh99 same people? Same way of life, same look, same concepts. You not much different from them

  • @dijonjohn1011
    @dijonjohn1011 6 років тому +269

    I am stoked that Laci is back to doing videos on these sorts of subjects, while still not avoiding the political/societal aspects of it all.
    Not many UA-camrs are capable of remaining so none'biased, while also having the education needed in order to ask the correct questions.
    Please keep it up Laci!

    • @Straker9063
      @Straker9063 6 років тому +3

      Dejion Jon what political aspects? Why does it always have to get political???

    • @dijonjohn1011
      @dijonjohn1011 6 років тому +7

      I guess I meant political/societal aspects.
      And in this case, it has to do with people using the term to shame certain men that they perceive to be weak/feminine.

    • @IT_ODIS
      @IT_ODIS 6 років тому +10

      I wouldn't say non biased. She very obviously had a bias. But it is very good commentary. She makes great point you know.

    • @dijonjohn1011
      @dijonjohn1011 6 років тому +2

      Yeah I agree that she does obviously have a bias, but the video was an attempt at being non-biased. If that makes any sense haha.

    • @IT_ODIS
      @IT_ODIS 6 років тому

      true

  • @rookregent5623
    @rookregent5623 6 років тому +5

    i might actually sub to your patreon if i had the money, just to hear those interviews. i love open honest conversations.

  • @GMCSA440
    @GMCSA440 6 років тому +18

    I remember a time when ppl cared what Laci said..

    • @christopher9979
      @christopher9979 2 роки тому

      She has a nice rack, otherwise who cares what she says.

  • @VaillancourtSquared
    @VaillancourtSquared 6 років тому +21

    Adore you. I c[h]uckled

  • @jmh1189
    @jmh1189 6 років тому +3

    Fan of Crowder here. Amazing talk! Keep on truckin!

  • @Dragontrumpetare
    @Dragontrumpetare 6 років тому

    I am really starting like kinda like Laci's videos. Just keep theese comming. They're really good.

  • @madamehussein
    @madamehussein 6 років тому +7

    Re: cuxkholding and feminism
    Cuxkolding isn't only about being "nice". It's about selling out all of your own needs/wants/principles in order to get female or feminist approval.
    About not standing up for yourself
    Se also:
    Steve Shives

    • @freesiahevnosey6124
      @freesiahevnosey6124 Рік тому

      it's a false equivalency tho. . . think about it. rescuing the trees and the women sounds like a hero to me. wealthy authoritarians frequently exploit men's insecurities by falsely attributing their courting failures to somehow helping women. i do not understand how saving the trees or a woman from another aggressive man has anything to do with a cheating wife. it's a false equivalency

  • @tysonasaurus6392
    @tysonasaurus6392 6 років тому +49

    Compersion? Wow that is like an incredibly useful word I’ve never been taught before!

  • @TheHassan2098
    @TheHassan2098 6 років тому +15

    wtf have I just watched? 😂😂

  • @onwerslament
    @onwerslament 6 років тому

    I LOVE YOU LACI
    ♡♡♡♡ seriously love all these vids. Very informative

  • @alangivre2474
    @alangivre2474 6 років тому

    I support you!!!! I always love your videosss

  • @dmand2353
    @dmand2353 6 років тому +5

    Caring in and of itself is not a bad thing, caring too much to everyone else's detriment is.

  • @justthelettersio2979
    @justthelettersio2979 6 років тому +226

    I always thought that the white man being emasculated by the black man was to do with the black guy being superior not the other way around. I was under the impression that the emasculation came for the fact that the back guy was supposed to bigger, stronger and better at sex then the white guy.

    • @MCL198027
      @MCL198027 6 років тому +50

      Ayo bigger dick, hence the emasculation. Laci being dumb again.

    • @mikel4025
      @mikel4025 6 років тому +6

      ReginaFera
      would a man fucking the wife not see the woman as a means to and end, too? He just fucks her, then gets home, probably doesn't stay for dinner with her and her husband anyways. So why should people in such a scenario feel necessary to include insecurities of a person? What should the person be insecure about?

    • @PlutoTracks
      @PlutoTracks 6 років тому +13

      Mijochda It is presumptuous of you.

    • @friedrichschopenhauer2900
      @friedrichschopenhauer2900 6 років тому +17

      I don't know about that man, the strongest men on earth are typically Nordic, not black.

    • @friedrichschopenhauer2900
      @friedrichschopenhauer2900 6 років тому +3

      MrKockNoker Truth well said.

  • @WaywardBunnyy
    @WaywardBunnyy 6 років тому

    Btw your hair looks great in this video!! 😊 love all the content you put out

  • @baileyduryea3168
    @baileyduryea3168 6 років тому

    I feel like a long time ago there was this stigma around your channel that kept me from watching your videos. I honestly kinda regret that now, because I feel like I agree with you on a lot of stuff, and your content is so informative and well-made. Much love Laci, sorry I let the haters get to me

  • @Back_Lash
    @Back_Lash 6 років тому +6

    It's a real life Meg from Family Guy

    • @j.h.4711
      @j.h.4711 2 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @EmmelyE
    @EmmelyE 6 років тому +6

    This is such a good and informative video. Keep it up Laci!

  • @rsethc
    @rsethc 6 років тому

    I thought this was going to be a simple rant about not using the word or something, but it was so much more! Good video, it was informative, and provides fresh perspective.

  • @abgangswarte
    @abgangswarte 6 років тому

    I really enjoyed the conversations

  • @MajesticDemonLord
    @MajesticDemonLord 6 років тому +183

    Quick comment - there's nothing wrong with Caring, there's a lot wrong with EXCESSIVE Caring.
    If you insist of helping everyone and not letting them help themselves, you end up infantalizing people.
    This is why Masculinity places such a premium on self-reliance.

    • @Macheako
      @Macheako 6 років тому +15

      Thank you. Women honestly believe they fucking "own" caring.....but they're just too fucking up their own ass to......well.....care to see if they're wrong lol
      god i hate women.....

    • @kylem1112
      @kylem1112 6 років тому +6

      Live Evil
      Wrong. liberals are called cucks because they want excessive government and regulations, i.e a nanny state, were you are submissive and dependent.

    • @kylem1112
      @kylem1112 6 років тому +3

      ok well you can beleive in whatever theory you want, i don't agree with the far left and classic conservatives are old an dying, that's why i'm a middle right leaning libertarian

    • @MajesticDemonLord
      @MajesticDemonLord 6 років тому +8

      Aurelia - Oh, you mean like "Women and Children first"? Or female advocacy groups being taken seriously and not being labelled as Misandrist? Or that we spend significantly more on Women and Womens issues (both in terms of Tax and Medical expenditure) AND that this is paid for exclusively by Men?
      Put it this way - We value a Womans life and her happiness. We value a Mans strength and the output of his labour.
      Privilege as an intersectional concept is one that I (and many others) reject as BS. If you want to experience Male privilege - go get a job down a Mine or on an Oil Rig.

    • @MajesticDemonLord
      @MajesticDemonLord 6 років тому +9

      Aurelia
      I've heard that statement before - It's demonstrably false due to 2 objective realities and there is 3rd reason it's silly due to your scenario.
      Firstly - let's assume that you hate me (and I inversely hate you) and we are on a plane that is going to crash and there is a single Parachute - If you truly hate me, are you going to give me the parachute so that I may survive? Of course not.
      So, How can Mysoginists (People who hate women) willingly sacrifice their lives, so that Women (those they supposedly hate) can live?
      Next - is the Evolutionary argument - Humans existed in extended Familial groups (aka Tribes) for most of our history - The strength of the Tribe is dependent on Size. Since a Woman can only have a child from a single Man every 9 months, but a single Man can impregnate multiple women at a time - Women have a higher value for the continuation of the Tribe.
      Lastly from your scenario - If Women can't take care of themselves - and we have an accident were women and children go first and all the Men die - Who is going to take care of the Women? So that refutes that statement.
      Feminists can be Male - and yes, most Male feminists do hate themselves - have you wondered why there has been a multitude of high profile male feminists who have been convicted of Sexual crimes?
      As for the Financial info - it's 2fold First up is the study from New Zealand:
      Here is the graph from the plotted data:
      nkilsdonkgervais.files.wordpress.com/2016/08/cumul.jpg?w=574&h=272
      Here is the Study: www.victoria.ac.nz/news/2014/research-shows-disparity-between-tax-paid-by-women-and-men
      Secondly is the reality that to break even (ie pay more tax into the system than you take out) in NZ is about $50,000 a year - and pretty much that means that only people in full time employment are net-tax payers (ie they pay more into the system than they consume in services) - and most of the people are in Full time Employment are Men so....
      In regards to the Medical comment:
      prostate.org.nz/2014/01/men-die-earlier-womens-health-gets-four-times-funding/
      So to conclude - the claim that Women and Children first is due to a hatred of women is fundamentally false. You don't willingly sacrifice your life for people you Hate, only for those you love.
      and
      My rectum is not the source of my figures, they are provided by Reality.

  • @MrPAULONEAL
    @MrPAULONEAL 5 років тому +3

    It's about wanting your significant other to be sexually satisfied.

  • @MrNoCandles
    @MrNoCandles 6 років тому

    I freaking love your intro.

  • @jeffmclowry
    @jeffmclowry 5 років тому +2

    Laci, I am curious about how you honestly feel about cockolding?
    Is it detestable or do you think, under the right circumstances, it could be ok - for you?

    • @timmythistle6615
      @timmythistle6615 5 років тому +1

      If it's not causing you or anyone harm, it is then fine. However I don't think it should be embraced because it's an abnormal sexuality and there is nearly always a deep dark reason why some people are like this. Something traumatic in their childhood ect. It works as their protection to never get hurt again and the pain turns them on instead of hurting them . It's a form of masochism. It doesn't make them a bad person and they can absolutely live a great life but I don't think the fetish should be embraced.

  • @OmniphonProductions
    @OmniphonProductions 4 роки тому +3

    "Compersion," and, "Angle," covered everything I was going to say with regard to _why._ (Thanks for teaching me that new word, by the way!)
    As for the humiliation aspect, from a FemDom point of view, wherein a male enjoys being "put in his place" _by_ (or handing over control _to)_ a woman, I can see how having a woman trash-talk him _while_ she has sex with somebody else...is a natural extension of that. On top of that (no pun intended) I can't help wondering whether somebody who enjoys cuckolding for _this_ reason (humiliation) might actually be TURNED ON whenever _anyone_ insults them _especially_ with a word that directly references such an experience. Irony is funny.
    P.S. Is Jealousy the opposite of Compersion, or is Shadenfreude (pleasure at others' misfortune) a better opposite?

  • @ryanboyer6630
    @ryanboyer6630 6 років тому +8

    I've always been of the stance that as long as it's consensual, what adults do is their own business. Personally, I would never be into something like this, even if I was the guy having sex while the other watched, I enjoy role-reversal, letting the woman take charge and enjoy some good compersion myself (Thanks for that new and useful term, by the way, ^_^) I guess my biggest problem with this is that widespread practice will just increase the mentality in women that putting commitment and value in their sexual relationship isn't necessary, and if they meet someone out there that's not okay with this, they can just go out and find someone who will. Part of this problem is caused by guys who are like, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" but the same can be said about the pig and sausage. When I was dating, I was relentlessly committed and made many sacrifices to bring comfort and happiness to my mate, I don't think it's toxic to expect a degree of exclusiveness and respect in exchange for that.

  • @i-am-evil-morty6710
    @i-am-evil-morty6710 2 роки тому

    Thank you for raising some awareness!

  • @Peertje304
    @Peertje304 6 років тому

    This is all quite new to me, I learnt somehing, thnx Laci!

  • @Oridan1
    @Oridan1 6 років тому +3

    you're doing a great work Laci, keep It up!

  • @lam-ben-yam4015
    @lam-ben-yam4015 6 років тому +5

    4:55
    "Is there anything more forbidden than a gay Nazi?" - Milo Yiannopoulos
    *W E L L*. . .

  • @zorthal1628
    @zorthal1628 6 років тому

    Well you are doing good work to help these guys feel more comfortable about telling people I think. Good job

  • @edwardteach7425
    @edwardteach7425 6 років тому

    Heya Laci, i've got a video suggestion:
    Truscum vs. Tucute.
    It's kind of a new thing, and there's a lot to talk about.
    I love your videos, and would like to hear your opinions on it.
    Love, Shmuel

  • @georgem2334
    @georgem2334 6 років тому +24

    Laci, glad you're back! We missed you!

  • @tysonasaurus6392
    @tysonasaurus6392 6 років тому +29

    Well if we normalize too much they can’t get off by it, if you stigmatize it too much people will be legitimately ashamed of themselves

    • @Joelivingsten1667
      @Joelivingsten1667 6 років тому +1

      why not just have sex?

    • @ZechsMerquise73
      @ZechsMerquise73 6 років тому

      +|3054 What's sad is that you refer to any ideology as stemming from or related to "college." A good college experience gives people exposure to a lot of different ideas. You know there are wholly conservative and religious colleges, right? That's the opposite of what you describe.
      Do you think someone goes in for Computer Science and comes out a Trotskyist? Where are they getting the far left exposure there? You're making a terrible anti-intellectual generalization which could discourage other like-minded people from pursuing self-improvement.

    • @ZechsMerquise73
      @ZechsMerquise73 6 років тому

      That all sounds pretty reasonable. I'd jut suggest not to make the connection between college and the far left so flippantly in the future.
      On debt, though, if someone does their research and gets into a lucrative field through a college which isn't too expensive, college debt is negligible to lifetime earnings. Otherwise, there are lots of scholarship/grant programs and ways to get paid through college. The really taxing thing, I think, is how that person manages to spend enough time to not become indebted through their pursuits without becoming burnt out and ineffective.

    • @FerociousPaul
      @FerociousPaul 6 років тому

      l3054 Do you go to college? I always hear people yapping and complaining about how SJW colleges are but I've been in college for like 4 years now, I've taken more than a few social science classes and poly sci classes, and the whole experience has been pretty vanilla and middle of the road ideologically. I feel like college has become this weird boogeyman to a lot of people eho haven't actually gone to one and it's represented entirely by the SJWs they see in cringe compilations. When in reality it's pretty mundane. And I live in the most diverse city in California.
      Now yes it's a total waste of money for a ton of majors and the whole system needs to be uprooted in that regard but is it voraciously spreading radical left ideas? Idk about that. Left wing ideas, especially radical ones have manifested in college aged kids forever, it's pretty natural for most young people to lean a little left and start to lean more to the right as they get older. That's why young conservatives feel like they're a part of some counter culture and that they're going against the system, when really it's a natural pattern we see among humans in our economy. If you're young and broke, you're probably gonna lean a little more left because you need as much help as you can get.

    • @FerociousPaul
      @FerociousPaul 6 років тому

      l3054 It was two paragraphs dude lmao. I've heard nothing about safe spaces or anything about harmful speech that extends beyond the regular code on harrassment. How is the UK fucked in this regard? What major changes have they made to their speech laws?

  • @Puppysimbacute
    @Puppysimbacute 6 років тому +1

    "They even hug the trees" 😂 lol

  • @harborseal54
    @harborseal54 6 років тому

    Thanks for this great video! So interesting.

  • @georgeschlaline6057
    @georgeschlaline6057 6 років тому +8

    the sickening

  • @MisogynyMan
    @MisogynyMan 6 років тому +96

    Plot twist, the guys being interviewed were all mgtow.

    • @TheElitedeath
      @TheElitedeath 6 років тому +17

      MGTOW is anti-marriage not anti-relationship. Although if you want to be a grand wizard MGTOW you have to give that up too and basically secede from society.

    • @theblackbaron4119
      @theblackbaron4119 6 років тому +1

      wisemage0 shots fired, we need an ambulance .

    • @danytiger373
      @danytiger373 6 років тому

      Misogyny Man wtf is MGTOW?

    • @frbe0101
      @frbe0101 6 років тому +8

      MGTOW have ranging opinions on what is acceptable and unacceptable risk taking with women, all mgtow agree marriage is a bad joke, but after that individual mgtows range from sex friends to voluntary celibates to no-fap monks. The philosophy has no fixed "ways".
      You know how there are all different kinds of feminist from the moderate "I'm an independent women" type to the radical "all men are evil, only lesbian sex is not rapt" type? Well mgtow is the the same thing only flip the sexes and replace the general goal of "demanding the world change for you" with "change ones self and hope the world fucks off".

    • @BrazilianGaucho
      @BrazilianGaucho 6 років тому +4

      No, they are all incels. And so were their fathers and their grandfathers.

  • @natalie4328
    @natalie4328 6 років тому

    Hey laci! I know I’m super late to this, but I think u r amazing for looking at both sides. It seems to me (as a young gay guy) that I really only have 2 choices when is comes politics, but I find valid and worthwhile topics and opinions out of both. All my life I’ve wanted to b neutral and not have biases against certain ppl cuz of certain aspects abt them, and hear what everyone has to say. Thank u, thank u, thank u for being so open minded and showing that it’s not just one side u have to b on!!!!!

  • @jorge6804
    @jorge6804 6 років тому

    I've seen how you've come as a open minded person and as a conservative, really appreciate and have a newfound respect for you. A year ago I thought I'd never would, but here's another sub 👌. (Just saw your steven crowder interview)

  • @chrismoore9997
    @chrismoore9997 5 років тому +4

    The skin color has nothing to do with the origin of the term which dates from "Old French" prior to the 1800s

  • @artrosis56
    @artrosis56 6 років тому +60

    I like watching my partner having a good time feeling pleasure, but only if it's because of me.
    I never understood why would you want your partner to be with another person. The sheer thought alone makes me cringe so hard.
    But I gotta respect the kinks if they're not immoral.

    • @drsnova7313
      @drsnova7313 3 роки тому +7

      Well, I never understood what possible point it would have to treat my partner's vagina as my personal property. I'm not into cuckolding (i.e. drawing pleasure specifically from one of my partners sleeping wih someone else), but I also just don't have a problem with them doing that. Monogamy or jealousy has always been bizarre to me.

    • @cooljnetwork3857
      @cooljnetwork3857 2 роки тому +5

      Man, just my thoughts I think most of the time it was initiated by females to avoid the guilt of cheating. And suppose you are married man and unfortunately born in a country where if you cheat or cheated on no matter what you lose your 50% property, then what will you can do to keep your hardwork? I am lucky for not being born in such countries.

    • @SonGoku-ep4wj
      @SonGoku-ep4wj 2 роки тому

      @@drsnova7313 ur children would spit on ur face

  • @poozizzle
    @poozizzle 6 років тому

    You're the new Dr. Ruth Westheimer! Thank you for talking about sex in a frank manner. Keep on!

  • @jeffreybarnes6965
    @jeffreybarnes6965 2 роки тому

    Great video Laci. But I am curious about your thoughts on the lifestyle?

  • @akirashiori6265
    @akirashiori6265 6 років тому +9

    Remember when you reported a smaller channel for using a thumbnail that you used, claimed it was infringing copyright, and then backed out and claimed your lawyer suggested you report it? Ah, good ol' Laci

  • @jimjones2772
    @jimjones2772 5 років тому +65

    Sounds very healthy. House, picket fence, car, well behaved kids, and a black guy plowing my wife on a Saturday night while I watch.

    • @Michaelmarkss
      @Michaelmarkss 4 роки тому +5

      😂

    • @Michaelmarkss
      @Michaelmarkss 4 роки тому +1

      @CATHY B Hello! 😊

    • @Tkimba2
      @Tkimba2 4 роки тому +4

      The only difference is that you might not watch. So don't try to be snobbish

    • @daniellobo1680
      @daniellobo1680 3 роки тому +1

      Hell yeah. That's beautiful

    • @LouisLombardoJr-ed4rm
      @LouisLombardoJr-ed4rm 3 роки тому +1

      the problem with this logic is that our vows are not only to our spouse, they are to God. As well, we vow to abide by God’s rules for marriage, not by our spouses rules. We do not have the authority to go changing God’s laws, His guidelines for our lives

  • @FoxAzureOfficial
    @FoxAzureOfficial 6 років тому

    This was informative. Thanks Green.
    EDIT: thanks for going to bat for the kink community

  • @joecarroll3371
    @joecarroll3371 2 роки тому

    Love the Schoolhouse Rock inspired logo, Laci.

  • @seltin1988
    @seltin1988 6 років тому +5

    nice vid, i learnd someting new!

  • @TheBurgerkrieg
    @TheBurgerkrieg 6 років тому +151

    God damnit Laci I wanted to make this video. I literally started the script months ago.

    • @minrominro9986
      @minrominro9986 6 років тому +18

      Do it anyway, I love your videos so I'm sure I'd enjoy your's more.

    • @MirraHays
      @MirraHays 6 років тому +13

      Im sure you have your own perspective to share (theres no reason why you cant)

    • @ty2010
      @ty2010 6 років тому +50

      #CuckedByLaci

    • @Wooplot
      @Wooplot 6 років тому +7

      that's what u get for being slow

    • @brandoneverhardt3192
      @brandoneverhardt3192 6 років тому +2

      Dooo et niggggaaa.

  • @sharpuslf
    @sharpuslf 6 років тому

    Hi Lacey, I just saw you on Crowders channel, great interview BTW. Would you mind giving me ONE example of how society is re-enforcing boys to be violent? Just one tangible link or searchable example? Thanks!

  • @louiseckstark31
    @louiseckstark31 6 років тому

    not a youtube video i was expecting to watch today

  • @franktaku9121
    @franktaku9121 6 років тому +41

    Well I guess we know what Chris is into now.

    • @JimJones-ih1er
      @JimJones-ih1er 6 років тому +1

      Franktaku
      Bahahahahahahhahahahaha

    • @Ramidemi710
      @Ramidemi710 6 років тому +3

      Why do you think Tom Sweeny lives in his house?

  • @mattj1232
    @mattj1232 3 роки тому +27

    The fall of the western man

  • @MellyNicky
    @MellyNicky 3 роки тому

    Nice!! Thanks for clarifying!

  • @EvilDigDig
    @EvilDigDig 6 років тому

    9:04 i was expecting to hear "that's pretty gooooooddd"

  • @Katt1n
    @Katt1n 6 років тому +21

    I dont agree that snowflake is synonymous with woman or gay man. It means that someone is arrogant and considers themself to be super special and above everyone else, kind of like a snowflake, because there are only one of each.

    • @ni-yp6pn
      @ni-yp6pn 6 років тому +7

      yeah, so i guess conservatives and liberals both fall into the category. honestly, the people who use the term are snowflakes themselves. people will be annoying. people will be sensitive. lmao, welcome to Earth. so why cry about it ourselves?

    • @bromponie7330
      @bromponie7330 6 років тому +2

      I was of the impression that snowflake refers to 'softies' & are easily offended.

    • @afpbrisbane
      @afpbrisbane 6 років тому

      @Brom You are correct Brom, hence SJW's being snowflakes. But both cuckservatives and lefturds are libtards, and in that sense, they are all weak snowflakes and cucks. Nationalism and the 3rd Position stands in strength, not weakness and pathetic cowardliness (exponential decay and ultimately death of civilization).

    • @ValensBellator
      @ValensBellator 5 років тому +1

      I always thought of "snowflake" as being applicable to people across the political spectrum.
      In my mind it referred to people who get outraged and offended by every little darn thing, and every side has an army of such people ready to whine and insult on the internet lol

  • @mateusc5199
    @mateusc5199 6 років тому +7

    Yep, this is going to my cringe compilation

  • @silverbracelet6
    @silverbracelet6 6 років тому

    I see you uploaded on April 28 and I only now got the notification on April 30th? 😞 Yooouutubbbeeee?!? 😲

  • @alexanderstuart7801
    @alexanderstuart7801 6 років тому +1

    "Does the intro have Laci walking on stage with a Hitachi? Oh... no. It's a mic. I'm just a pervert." (Mic buzzes.) "Welp... guess I'm not the only one."

  • @TheBluePilledPebric
    @TheBluePilledPebric Рік тому +4

    Straight men don’t care what other men think of them lol… I haven’t had male friends since I was 15 I’m 32 now

  • @hyperslow3810
    @hyperslow3810 5 років тому +38

    EVERY. SINGLE. VOICE.... was wimpy and void of all masculinity. I am totally surprised /sarcasm

    • @hyperslow3810
      @hyperslow3810 5 років тому +14

      @@bellamilano662 there's nothing to get over it's just a simple observation that cuckolds are feminine. It explains why they are the way they are. It seems like it's you who needs to get over something nobody is attacking you for being a sissy.

    • @prometheus5405
      @prometheus5405 4 роки тому

      @@hyperslow3810 There's alot of them.
      My friend is one.
      He said he gets turn on by jealousy.. hence increase his self-control.
      He doesn't look like a beta at all.
      He's good-looking and hung too.

    • @hyperslow3810
      @hyperslow3810 4 роки тому +5

      @@prometheus5405 So he is a masculine looking, big donged, Asian, ...cuckold? Cool story bro.

    • @prometheus5405
      @prometheus5405 4 роки тому

      @@hyperslow3810 yeaa..15 cm I think is quite long

    • @prometheus5405
      @prometheus5405 4 роки тому

      @@hyperslow3810 they can't help it..
      Jealousy turns them on.
      Especially someone they're in love with.
      Some kind of Sexual Jealousy I think

  • @dylanthehopelessrema
    @dylanthehopelessrema 6 років тому

    Great great episode

  • @jakemccurdy7531
    @jakemccurdy7531 5 років тому +2

    Can you do a video on chastity devices?

  • @sageohio1864
    @sageohio1864 5 років тому +21

    I would like to watch my wife with . . . Laci, is that the same?

  • @raptordaraptor7861
    @raptordaraptor7861 6 років тому +5

    Helping others is not a weakness inherently. It is a weakness when it hurts you to do it.

  • @Okivison6046
    @Okivison6046 6 років тому

    I just Subscribed to you after watching your interview with Steven Crowder from louder with Crowder to get a new viewpoint and Balance out my opinions I found myself agreeing with some
    Of your viewpoints and thought it was a great interview to start a discussion and hope to see many more like it :)

  • @Utomneian
    @Utomneian 6 років тому

    nice work :)

  • @dr.slumped7374
    @dr.slumped7374 6 років тому +35

    When I was little Laci Green was my inspiration. WHAT WAS I THINKING.

    • @ArtisChronicles
      @ArtisChronicles 5 років тому

      Gami Okami what were they thinking when they made these games?

    • @JohnConnor12
      @JohnConnor12 5 років тому +1

      She grew up, so her views changed. When you grow up, yours will too.

    • @j.6230
      @j.6230 4 роки тому +1

      @@JohnConnor12 Passive aggressive lol

  • @GTBAnime
    @GTBAnime 6 років тому +30

    two steps forward 2000 steps back

  • @user-pz6qn4gq7i
    @user-pz6qn4gq7i 5 років тому +2

    "Sissy" - P2 Dude

  • @jacksonshakur
    @jacksonshakur 6 років тому

    Could someone please give me instructions on how to block Lacigreens channel so her videos don't take up space on my YT home page?

  • @ham1672
    @ham1672 6 років тому +16

    Interesting video, I know ya gal isn't much into kink shaming but I rear on the side of caution somewhat when it involves that of fetishes. I think it'd be enlightening for Laci to go into the psychology into why individuals develop fetishes as for many I believe that come from a rather impure or rather unhealthy place in the form of trauma. Fetishes or philia are like the opposite of phobias but have their origins i the same place with some sort of (normally childhood) trama, from the most mundane as Spanking to the most depraved and damaging as paedophilia. Spanking of course being maybe a by product of the trauma of being spanked as a child to of course being sexually abused at a young age resulting in paedophilia.
    Now granted this isn't at all saying that the two are in the same ball park but I'm simply pointing out they have their origins in the same place. Also I will preface as well that these factors are not of course would never be the be all to end all factors. Now I haven't figured it out myself why exactly fetishes/philias arise rather than becoming phobias but I imagine it could possibly have something to do with a coping mechanism if it was inflicted by negative trauma or equally came about by receiving a feeling of pleasure although of course perverse in nature.
    Now I'll be a little honest here but I myself have a urination fetish so this is helping me were i'm basing my theories from. Even from the earliest stages of puberty I found myself aroused by either attractive women urinating or said attractive women being urinated upon or vice versa to a lesser extent. Now I believe this comes from a experience I had as a child around the age of 5/6 in which I when at school burst in on the toilet cubical while it was in use urinating all over a female classmate. Now I am perturbed to the fact that I have no memory of events directly afterwards, although it is more than likely that these have been repressed as they pose as terribly traumatic. Now of course the greater context of this event was that we had only unisex toilets but I didn't feel comfortable urinating in front of others and there was only one cubical to maybe 10 to 20 kids who all needed to go at the same time, basically it was inevitable.
    Now why do I tell you all this, well of course in the wide world of
    fetishes I myself will argue that yes most as innocuous as spank or even tho odd and extremely memey as foot faggery, I would like to question however on maybe thing like cuckoldry or to wider things like gender dysphoria having a lot of their origins in childhood trauma, like we all here about the mothers who wanted girls and it's only pure coincidence that their sons end up being a bit more feminine or vice versa, I've know people who are tomboys and have practically spelled out why they're like they are without even knowing it, in this example being of course the parents not wanting any girls while simultaneously having only male siblings.I just wonder that some fetishes and of course with most philias are disadvantaging people in their social lives and rather than be promoted as not a problem in fear not to shame but rather the happy middle ground of not shaming into silence but not accepting of them. I pity cucks more than anything because their behaviour isn't in eyes entirely voluntary if they've been conditioned to enjoy it, same with trans people. And if we argue that we can't rework their conditioning or even they don't want it to be rather I'd be at least more comfortable that not just themselves but outsiders understand why they are like they are or rather like the things they like as this would be far more towards the step of tolerance than blind acceptance.
    I appreciate anyone who has read all of this and would enjoy discussing any feedback from what i've just written. ty bg

    • @tonydimeo1882
      @tonydimeo1882 6 років тому +2

      H M I have an enormous urination fetish. I think it’s because I have had a lot of accidents urinating

    • @ham1672
      @ham1672 6 років тому

      And I think that's an important thing to acknowledge, because if it's effecting your social life in a large way then you need to get some sort of help with that. A summery of my criticism of these videos is basically it's maybe a little closed minded and maybe don't see the wider picture of people's fetishes. I really only hope for more people to acknowledge this and have a real discussion into it.

    • @ham1672
      @ham1672 6 років тому

      usucdik I'm open to constructive criticism.

    • @wowomah6194
      @wowomah6194 6 років тому

      Ignore these twats. The first one was a troll trying to mock your statement about the role of trauma in developing kinks and the second, waste of breath. I agree with what you're wondering about too. I'm very, very hesitant about certain fetishes. Just because someone likes something and two people agree to do something, it doesn't mean it promotes a normal psychology nor that it comes from a healthy place. I genuinely worry for people who enjoy others having at their partner especially when humiliation is involved. If you sexually enjoy humiliation, it sounds like some neurons got crossed and your pain and pleasures receptors are lighting up wrong.

  • @catalickconverta6823
    @catalickconverta6823 2 роки тому +7

    Freak world

    • @kentuckyfriededgar
      @kentuckyfriededgar 2 роки тому +3

      I hate it

    • @catalickconverta6823
      @catalickconverta6823 2 роки тому +2

      @@kentuckyfriededgar you aint the only just hang in their keep doing what makes you happy and forget about all the bullshit

  • @catymarvelous1226
    @catymarvelous1226 6 років тому +2

    So disagree with much of your conclusions, but love YOU to bits! Lovely openness

  • @WaywardBunnyy
    @WaywardBunnyy 6 років тому

    At 0:04, girl your CC lmao 🤣

  • @SeanieVoiceOver
    @SeanieVoiceOver 6 років тому +3

    I got as far as "Toxic Masculinity"
    HATE SPEECH
    Misandrist

  • @sonsique
    @sonsique 6 років тому +9

    Maddox

  • @MineralGarbage
    @MineralGarbage 6 років тому

    that animation was pretty cute

  • @silverbracelet6
    @silverbracelet6 6 років тому

    I first learned about compersion from Conor & Brittany:) Something I would like to get better at but won't shame myself if I'm just not feeling it lol!

  • @goldenlebel1493
    @goldenlebel1493 2 роки тому +5

    It's a form of BDSM mixed with BBC Worship, thus the Black Man in the dominant and anybody else within the BNWO is basically a submissive to the Bull. Its BDSM's BBC Worship flavor. ♠️

  • @Venomous-white
    @Venomous-white 6 років тому +17

    I may not agree with laci green on much, even this. But from every thing I've seen of hers you can't say she isn't a decent person.

  • @Toninmile
    @Toninmile 6 років тому

    I love your ability to allow people to grow though thought

  • @Imightbesam
    @Imightbesam 6 років тому

    Compersion is a interesting term I've never encountered before. I'm not interested in cucking at all but the idea of getting more pleasure when you know your parent is getting pleasure is a dominant part of my intimate relationships. It's not enjoyable unless everyone is having fun in suppose.
    I was curious if you think this can manifest itself in a negative way at all? Like if your partner knows this is how you get off, do you think it can create the expectation that they should be exhibiting exaggerated pleasure or fake pleasure when they aren't really enjoying themselves? Perhaps it gets in the way of communication between partners or could get in the way? Curious what you think.

  • @dbell92
    @dbell92 5 років тому +3

    Thank you so much for having real conversations Laci, and doing feminism right! You're so inspiring!!!!

    • @nathanknight6042
      @nathanknight6042 2 роки тому +2

      Male orbiter, male Fem!n!st much?

    • @dbell92
      @dbell92 2 роки тому +1

      @@nathanknight6042 Male orbiter? Are you literally so sexist that you analyze every case where you see a man complementing a woman as a covert attempt to win that woman's favour due to repressed sexual desires? That is wild messed up, what a twisted, perverse worldview.

  • @electroboy314
    @electroboy314 5 років тому +12

    The idea of chuck holding just makes me sad. Idk why it just doesn't feel like it could ever be a positive experience without some negative emotion involved.

    • @guyfawkes6428
      @guyfawkes6428 4 роки тому

      @Rachel P A slavish, submissive person, that is

  • @greatestevershea2122
    @greatestevershea2122 6 років тому

    So you and Chris finally coming out about it.

  • @cookiebandit18
    @cookiebandit18 6 років тому +1

    I really appreciated this video Lacy. It's nice to see that you've held to your convictions.