@@Mattmannthegod No one. But Something apparently wrong mentally; but she's dead now. They actually said the Dude that Murdered the People in Buffalo had mental issues; but wrote an manifesto of a particular RACE Theory; and excused it as mental health. Even though she's dead..........who are we to know what the cause and effect is whithout personal and empathetic reasoning.
My heart goes out to her. I understand her feeling all to well. I lost my daughter the same way. And I'm raising her baby girl. My daughter had a C-section 4-21-21 and passed after months of complaining to her doctors. That she wasn't feeling like herself. And after several admissions to the hospital. I found her deceased in her bed. After leaving her the doctor one or two days later. My daughter never came back around after having her baby. Sending her hugs and prayers. God will see her through this situation.
I am so sorry !! I did not know it then however, during hard labor and pushing for many hours my uterus was about to burst !!!! My doctor also told me if I was wheeled in the Operating Room 1/2 hour later I would not have made it !! My son was born emergency C Section !! Doctors make HUGE mistakes daily !!!! God bless you and your family. RIP beautiful mom .
Exactly! It doesn't matter what the grandmother wants, if one of their fathers wants them then there's nothing she can do. It's not their fault or problem that Nikita had 12 children by various men.
@@leolennox1209you can be the best parent but your children gonna do what they want my mom had 4 children and out of all of us one of us had 7 children so.what about 19 and counting 😳
@Leo Lennox no, she doesn't need to explain anything to you, her actions say enough about her character, and she is a great person and grandma to take on that responsibility.
TWELVE!!! She was heading down a hard road where her heart and body tolerance was concerned. Childbirth is the hardest wear on a woman's body without a doubt.
Yes indeed it is but it also may have been a factor of quality of care. I hate to bring up race but Black and brown women have marginally higher numbers of maternal mortality during and after childbirth in hospitals than other races. They just don’t care for us in the same manner. Check out the documentary Aftershock on Hulu. It’s an eye opener. Tell me how can a white woman have 19 kids and counting and make it through (yes with complications but she’s still alive to tell the story). Everyone’s body is different, perhaps it was just her time, but the stats don’t lie.
Naw. They were having 19 kids back in my great grandparents days. The woman is BUILT TO HAVE MANY CHILDREN. This is why we are born with so many eggs!!
Father take this family into your arms of mercy. Please, watch over these babies and the grandmother with your grace and provide them with every blessing you can extend thru your anointing love. Thank you for everything now and forever. 🥰
Poor children. I cannot imagine the strain of having 12 kids and the difficult battle that this grandmother has ahead of her and without her own daughter. Such a sad case.
She should have had some life insurance theres zero excuse to have that many kids and no life insurance and I bet you it's obvious she don't own a house nor a man mentioned and now the kids got to deal with losing their mom losing their house and struggling like these women are f****** ridiculous get on birth control get a vasectomy get yo tubes tied n burned! 35 12 kids she almost had a kid every year from adulthood that's ridiculous her body never had time to recover
Omg, I wish I had the money. I would buy this grandma a 15 passenger van and a house! My God, he don't make any mistakes, let's all Pray for this family. I hope a MILLIONAIRE sees this story & help this grandma and all her grandchildren. 🙏🏻 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🕊
God may not make mistakes in your beliefs, unfortunately stupid people do, repeatedly! Reality is after the money raised by donations it's going to be a hard life for all of them and unless one of the fathers steps up, grandma likely won't be alive to see the youngest ones grow into adulthood. Stop justifying horrible decisions by bringing religion into this mess!
@@sarcasticallyrearranged You need to stop it. She is suppose to pray for those children and their grandma. Are you perfect? None of us are so stop judging people.
This is so sad. May she rest in peace. 35 and 12 children, the oldest being 19 means she had him/her at 16. All these kids I hope they heal and grow up to be successful in Jesus Name amen.
Amen. and may God continue to keep his protective shield around all her babies and her beautiful Mom!! and may her journey be a very peaceful journey. 🙏🙏💕
I can't handle two kids, so 12 is definitely a no go for me.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I sure hope this lady gets help from the family. Lord cover those children and their grandmother.
I have one, and had her at age forty. She’s four and her dad and I have been married going on twenty yrs in may. I prayed for one and ask God not to give me any more. Yes protection is key. I mentally cannot do it.
The Lord should've prevented that idiot from birthing 12 kids straight into a life of struggle. Maybe the Lord knew she would continue to be irresponsible so he took her dumb ass out to prevent more struggle lives from being born
I don't know what we would do without grandmothers God is going to Bless you in a mighty way for taking care of your grandchildren God Bless You❤
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this only happens in ghetto poor families because when my mom or aunts and uncles are sick the spouse takes care of the kids only in poor ghetto household grandmothers take care of children in upscale homes like mine we take care of our own children aint no need to come back with bullshit because it's true only ghetto poor families bunch of kids grandmothers pitching in no man around notice no grand father only mother and aunts lol pathetic no life insurance
Girl no man is going to step up and claim that he Slipped in the section 8 house to knock the blocks off of her and get her pregnant, and I don’t blame them.
@@shariabrown9211they need to because guess who’s paying the bills for all those children…. YOU! So while your over here blaming a dead woman, your completely abolishing accountability from the sperm donors. …. Idiotic
You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible .Dr Thomas Sowell. Look at the miss match socks and little girls dirty finger nails !!!!!
THIS IS A TREND, , , YOUNG GIRLS POPPING AS MANY BABIES WITH DIFFERENT GUYS, TO KEEP THE WELFARE FLOWING!!! AND THE BABIES SUFFER!!!!! SHE WAS GROWN , AND SHE TOOK A BAD RISK!!!!!!
@Sarcastically Rearranged God also said not to bring children into the world if you can not take care of them but I guess nobody remembers that it's always be fruitful and multiple
God bless this grandma because it seems that's all the kids have. May she live a long life to see them grown enough to be successful one day take care of her. 🙏🏾
That little girl looks so sad, I just want to hug her. Please if you are in the area help this family. Praying they can find support, love and joy in their lives.
He's a boy with a head full of hair...but still what you said is true he looks soo sad it's pitiful all of them. Lord wrap your arms tight around this family give them strength in the days ahead. I hope they get help.
These adorable kids, little hearts. ♥️ I am happy someone did a gofundme for them, they need it. When days will come they miss their mom I hope everyone will tell them she love them and that they are extremly precious.
I’m feel sorry that the grandma has to take care of all 12. This business of having multiple children without a proper plan in place needs to be discouraged. These kids will not get equal attention and guidance and could stray down a troubled path...
Totally agree. Don’t have more kids than you can realistically care for. I’ve often heard people say that accidents happen which is true, but if bc is being used correctly, ain’t no way you’re going to end up with 12 kids. This was a choice. Any way, I hope the mother is resting in peace and the grandma receives support.
My heart goes out to all of them. My family friend had an IUD and still got pregnant. After birth she bled out and died. She was a mama of 4 babies. RIP Lisa 🕊️
Sorry for their loss, Moms are irreplaceable but I am so glad the Grandmother is there to step in and help and take over for them. I pray all help that's needed comes her way. May the Most High bless her and the children richly!
So so sad... the look in the older boy's eyes says so much. The fact they have a loving Grandma, and hopefully memories of their mama will help them. I pray the Dad(s) will step up and help. Those kids need it! God bless Grandma, may she live long and see them through to adults. 🙏💕
I commend this grandmother for stepping up to care for her grandchildren. She can't grieve because she's taking care of her grandchildren and their grief. This is so sad.
@@queenjanee6290if the father is not there then maybe the relationship was just sex and nobody thought about the children or their future and the woman has total control of that outcome….now if the courts gave fathers custody out the womb then you would not have to worry about absentee fathers….but since the courts give so much to single mothers it’s no incentive to be a father when the women uses the system to raise them so ……
@@bayradionews415 those guys knew who they were sleeping with so it's no excuse not to step up and take which ever child belong to them and take care of their responsibilities!
Grandma is gonna need a lot of help, it’s literally gonna take a village. I pray that male and female mentors will get involved and help this grandmother out by providing guidance and making sure those kids are involved in positive things. Prayers and condolences to this family.
This 35 year old woman left her mother with 12 kids and no stability for those kids? Now grandma have to raise all of them with no help? This is so sad of our community. Wow
I feel awful for this woman and her grandbabies... People really need to stop being so damn irresponsible... No one needs 12 damn kids. Wtf. Especially when you're hopping from baby daddy to baby daddy. Jesus.
She raised her to be a hood rat who just had unprotected sex with any old Tom Dick and Harry so what do you think? None of them kids have a chance .. and until we stop the welfare train this will keep happening
If you have so many kids you need mad savings and a life insurance of at least $2M. This is a disaster and the father(s) of those kids have everything to do with it as well. Obviously this woman was not right in her mind to keep having kids like this, they knew, yet still impregnated her. Where are they now and most of all where is the child support and physical support helping to raise THEIR kids?
@@misshoneynevercame4832 I hope grandma can send them to court if they can find the sperm donors responsible for all of these children. They should be made to pay child support or sit in jail. This crap has gotten so out of hand it should be illegal.
We have got to start educating each other as women about the risks of having multiple pregnancies back to back. Your body isn't invincible, and you MUST keep that in mind. Prayers to those sweet babies.
My effin heart! 💔 God bless this grandmother and these perfect babies that lost their mother. I can’t imagine that pain! I will keep them in my prayers!
She is not going to be able to take care of 12 children it's to much.. There father need to be helping... Children lose out where there to many someone is not going to get the attention they need.. I took care of four and it was to much.. Boy turn into men girls turn into women.. Personally change.attitue change.. She not going to be able teach that boy child how to be a man. Am sorry it's to much. From my own experience..
I feel so bad about this grandmother, I got two grandkids, and I couldn't imagine having to raise them. It was hard enough raising my two sons. Where are the fathers to these kids? She should be getting child support, or some of them should be raising their child. I hope she gets all the help she needs..❤🙏🏾
Grandmother to grandmother, my deepest sympathies, the grands/you, are in my daily prayers, may your daughter rest in paradise!!!! May our HEAVENLY FATHER, continue to provide you with strength/wisdom, may GOD orchestrate a support network to stand with you. I thank GOD, that in the name of JESUS, a flood gate of Blessings/resources will be bestowed upon the children/you!!!!!! GOD with you always!!!!!
Having babies is no joke. I had one at age 18 and almost died. Lost allot of blood had to get a transfusion. My husband had a vasectomy at age 20. We are both almost 50 now and our son is 30. Blessings 💞
My heart goes out to this grandmother ❤️. I know too well what she's going through. I raised my two grand boys, and they are grown and ungrateful. I pray these kids love their grandma to the fullest 🙏.
@@enishalihoward8119 I'm sorry did you really direct that comment to me without fact checking that? ✔️ seriously and while we're at it 👊🤷🧑🎓don't comment smart azz remarks to me assuming something you don't know, and if I decided to send clothes, cash and whatever else....that's my business 😉. So again 👊 stay in your lane. And be easy... if I asked who else in here making an ass of themselves assuming things would you be so quick to comment 🙄...I think not. Be a kind f'n human or keep those thoughts to yourself please. Happy Black History Month! Peace and Love ❤️
@Enisha Li Howard she never said that..she wants whatever anyone can help with..rather monetary, clothing...food..house..w.e..I'm sure she would be grateful and thankful
This is so heartbreakingly sad. You can hear the hurt, pain, sadness, fear in the grandmother's voice. She is not young and may have some health issues of her own. This is such a daunting task for her. I hope the father of the children step and help. Twelve children in these days - too much. Poor babies. Such a sad and tragic story.
Wow this is heartbreaking this is my WORST fear carrying a child and not coming home. I’m so sorry 😢💓 as a community we should all come together and help if we can! I hope one of those shows that build houses sees this and build this grandma a house I couldn’t imagine 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This is so heartbreaking. I hope that this Grandmother is able to get the help and assistance that she needs. Those poor kids. Their Mother went to the hospital to have her baby and only one person made it home. My hearts aches for her children. 💛💐💛
God will provide for this grandmother and her grandchildren. I can't judge her but from looking at one of her older sons holding his sibling he looks very respectful and a gentleman.
Praying for the grandmother's strength to look after all 12 kids and praying that those kids be kept safe mentally, emotionally, physically, financially and most of all spiritually... They need to get a lawyer and I bet the hospital will be telling all then.
Dear Lord, 12 children at the age of 35, I feel so bad for them all, but where is the father or fathers? They need to pay child support. Elder children need to help out also. These children lost their mother, and I pray they get the help they need 🙏
*Why do the fathers "need" to do anything? Her body, her choice... she brought them into this world, she should've thought about her kids' wellbeing before she gave birth!!!*
@@johhanwindsalor9478 the fathers need to raise their children because they helped get them here, period. I'm tired of evil men like you who want free sex without consequences . You need to repent or the lake of fire will be your permanent home.
@@rainbowradian1 Thank you! Helping is fine but making him pay for 'adults' mistakes is unfortunate. He needs to be stable and at this point if full involved in helping around, he will not be able to have cash to do anything in personal improvement. This includes attending college and starting a career, dating and starting his own family until he is about 33 as the others mature and help around as well. He would have to work from around 8am to maybe 5 or 6pm unskilled labor, then come home to everyone needing something. That pressure shortens life significantly and making it past 45 without at heart attack is close to impossible.
I'm sorry for your loss grandma and kids. God bless each and everyone of you and pray that you keep your grandkids. You can see the love in the young man holding the baby. Lots of hugs and love from The Great Navajo Nation.
This grandma has the heart of love for her grandkids I hope she gets all the help she needs. Especially the part where she says she wants to keep them together with her.... SUPER IMPORTANT
Lord bless this poor Grandmother and these beautiful babies. She looks to be doing the best she can. She said she wants to try and keep them all together. Lord please bless this family with the basic necessities they need to get through day to day. I pray for strength for Grandmother and the older siblings who will have to help her out.💔😩🙏🏾
The children look so broken it hard to watch 😢😢. God bless her and give her the strength to go against all odds and raise those children. This story needs to be made more public so this woman can get the help she needs.
They are hiding out and I don’t blame them I wouldn’t want anyone to know I went after that many men,women in the red light district sometimes don’t even get that much action
That's right grandma. Keep you grandchildren together. My mother did the same for her grandchildren when their mothers were on drugs. She did not give them up. Be strong and of a good courage . GOD will make away for all of you. Much love
I ask God to bless this family help this Grandmother to make a way for herself and her grandchildren. I as God to give them peace comfort and strenght to get throught this.
Dear LORD! Please take care of this family-THOSE GORGEOUS CHILDREN… with sad eyes, it hurts to watch but they are so loved and God will provide through the loving hearts who see this. God bless you Mama and your grandkids! You’ll be ok! ❤
Sad! Because he is a child himself, this where that bs comes from making their young child of a son man of the house crap! Lord have mercy! Ain't that much effing and letting any and every man nut up in you without protection. Like dang she was playing with her life!
@@1college100 I totally understand where you're coming from...but he really is about to start thinking like a young man so he could break that cycle... Who knows? It's definitely sad it has to happen this way.
Yeah which is what happens in most black families…..the children have to make up for the things the parents didn’t do….so they have to grow up fast and that’s not fair but neither is life
Exactly. Grandma didn't seem like she probably was the best mother herself frankly, understandable that her daughter started having babies as a high school teenager and never stopped smh the fact that there was ZERO mention of a father or multiple fathers or even one of the fathers relatives to come take some of the burden makes this news story really trifling to me.
Unfortunately, we are going to be attacked for speaking up and not just say Poor them… at what point this woman said let me get on birth control or have my tubes tide to stop having children. No father around and I don’t mean they necessarily need to be married but be around caring for their children… how do you find the time to have a man and continue to procreate with so many children ??? I have one, her father and I broke up and I demanded that she spend 50% of the time with him rather than getting child support. She is 13 now and I been single for 6 years don’t want a relationship and I don’t want more kids it is hard enough with her…
How about if both parties are not interested in having children then both parties should be actively, consciously and consistently involved in preventative child producing measures when sexually active with each other. This, it all falls on the woman to prevent getting pregnant is sheer ignorance. Y'all spoil these men and give them too much leeway...that's what's up 👀
How about women star caring for themselves and start protecting themselves by first, stop procreating with low life loser that won’t be around to care for the child, how about we stop saying is a two way responsibility is the man’s responsibility too of course it is but if we leave it up to other and don’t take control of our own life and care we will be the ones at lost here, for centuries women are the one who are left to care for the children… so how do you stop that ??? By having common sense If I see that one or two baby daddy did not stay why would continue to have 12 children ??? Come now make it make sense !!! And stop excusing this irresponsible behavior!
God bless those beautiful children ❤️ the little boy holding his baby brother reminds me of my son 😞 God Lord Jesus in Heaven please protect and guide these babies, your children ✝️💗🙏
RIP to the victim. I pray that the kids can remain together. I hope the father/fathers are helping/in their kids life. BM do better!!!. 🙏🏾she gets the help she needs.
R.I.P Nikita Washington. 😔🙏 I really hope the grandmama gets all the assistance that she is requesting since caring for 12 beautiful babies is a LOT for any person. My condolences to Nikita Washington's family, especially her 12 babies that have to live without her. ❤
Sometimes we have to give our bodies a break it's a beautiful gift to be able to have children I pray 🙏 for the children and Mother for strength and healing
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she wasn't married so a break is out of the question she was a bum no life insurance everyone in my family has life insurance
Pray God 🙏keeps health and strength by the grandmother's side .... and that these kids walk the straight and narrow way, my heart ❤ is hurting for them.... hope the girls can hold their own, and not add insult to injury... pray 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
So sad for the kids and grandma...it's important to have life insurance because you never know when that time will come. Don't want to leave your family struggling and relying on donations.
Her body couldn't manage so many children. Beautiful children. Hope they're emotionally healthy. Grandma needs to take care. She could die from the stress of raising 12 kids. By the way, where's the dad.
Interestingly Coco Chanel's mom had only six kids and she died after the sixth. I think the second to last was the one that died as a baby. Coco, however, was the second born, when her mom was still strong. They were poor and nutrition wasn't good. For sure, 12 is over the top.
@@sweetdreamzX AMEN AMEN say it again for the one's in the back🗣️🗣️🗣️. My grandmother had 21 children and lived to be 89 just saying. That's not the issue. Twelve children are MOTHERLESS. Grandmother and children needs prayers🙏🙏love and support not judgement. Just show love please😘💞👼😇🙌🙏
This sucks so bad. 12 kids!!? I’m struggling with my daughter’s three, I couldn’t imagine her having 12. Blessings to this woman and her grand babies. ❤😢😢😢
wow I can’t even begin to imagine ! this is so heartbreaking. God please bless this woman and her grandkids and give the kids and the grandma peace & comfort at the same time💛💛 RIP Nakita 🕊️🕊️
Who can afford 12 kids nowadays like this is so sad. Now grandma is left to raise them. I hope family pulls together and helps her out. Rip Nakita.
Amen
what about the guys she made them with wtf man smh
@@Mattmannthegod No one. But Something apparently wrong mentally; but she's dead now. They actually said the Dude that Murdered the People in Buffalo had mental issues; but wrote an manifesto of a particular RACE Theory; and excused it as mental health. Even though she's dead..........who are we to know what the cause and effect is whithout personal and empathetic reasoning.
Damn 12
The tax payers pay for people like this …
My heart goes out to her. I understand her feeling all to well. I lost my daughter the same way. And I'm raising her baby girl. My daughter had a C-section 4-21-21 and passed after months of complaining to her doctors. That she wasn't feeling like herself. And after several admissions to the hospital. I found her deceased in her bed. After leaving her the doctor one or two days later. My daughter never came back around after having her baby. Sending her hugs and prayers. God will see her through this situation.
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I am so deeply sorry for your loss 💔.
Where is the father of the baby?
I'm so very,very sorry for your great loss may GOD bless you and your family from Vonda in Dallas Texas
I am so sorry !! I did not know it then however, during hard labor and pushing for many hours my uterus was about to burst !!!! My doctor also told me if I was wheeled in the Operating Room 1/2 hour later I would not have made it !! My son was born emergency C Section !! Doctors make HUGE mistakes daily !!!! God bless you and your family. RIP beautiful mom .
Out of 12 kids, none of their fathers were willing to take in their own children. That's sickening
The Grandmother said: She dosen't want them separated.
Those Children just experienced a painful loss, they need each other..
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They told you this ?
Exactly! It doesn't matter what the grandmother wants, if one of their fathers wants them then there's nothing she can do. It's not their fault or problem that Nikita had 12 children by various men.
@@yeverett4533 I didn't hear how many baby daddies she had did you?
@@zeeechanged5352 true! But if I'm being honest it seems she possibly had multiple 🤦🏾 regardless a mother lost her life
Those poor babies. Nothing needs to be said but a prayer or some uplifting words for 12 children who lost their Mother... 💔
You are so right
Love your comment. GOD BLESS this young ladies mother & children & GOD BLESS you & your family as well🙏💝🙏.
Amen
Where are the daddies!
Yes indeed 👏
I'm glad the Grandma is getting help. She needs it.
She needs to explain how she raised her daughter.
@@leolennox1209you can be the best parent but your children gonna do what they want my mom had 4 children and out of all of us one of us had 7 children so.what about 19 and counting 😳
@Leo Lennox no, she doesn't need to explain anything to you, her actions say enough about her character, and she is a great person and grandma to take on that responsibility.
@@leolennox1209 What she got explain for that don't have nothing to do with .
Condms is what they needed...
I’m gonna donate to the family. Just seems like the right thing to do. Feel for that grandmother and those kids.
Get LIFE insurance and have sex responsibly.....Contact the Father(s)
God bless you
Good for you😊 and God bless
@@Skylar_cookie697 likewise
@@Ncognito579 thank you and likewise
I pray this grandmother finds the strength and courage to get through the days that’s ahead of her.
AMEN
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Kids make you younger ; 🙏for her and the family
I hope the family will pitch in also, and their fathers,especially
Don't pray for her, donate to her
TWELVE!!! She was heading down a hard road where her heart and body tolerance was concerned. Childbirth is the hardest wear on a woman's body without a doubt.
I said the same thing. Her body gave out. Period!
Yes indeed it is but it also may have been a factor of quality of care. I hate to bring up race but Black and brown women have marginally higher numbers of maternal mortality during and after childbirth in hospitals than other races. They just don’t care for us in the same manner. Check out the documentary Aftershock on Hulu. It’s an eye opener. Tell me how can a white woman have 19 kids and counting and make it through (yes with complications but she’s still alive to tell the story). Everyone’s body is different, perhaps it was just her time, but the stats don’t lie.
Exactly and I wish more people understood that. Having multiple births is risky.
Naw. They were having 19 kids back in my great grandparents days. The woman is BUILT TO HAVE MANY CHILDREN. This is why we are born with so many eggs!!
@@RealityContradiction 💯 and to think that was with less or no technology. They had midwives and did it on their own.
Father take this family into your arms of mercy. Please, watch over these babies and the grandmother with your grace and provide them with every blessing you can extend thru your anointing love.
Thank you for everything now and forever. 🥰
Why do people like you feel th3 need to type prayers in comment sections why not just pray privately and sincerely?
Amen! 🙏♥️
Amen🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😔😔😔
AND LOTS AND LOTS OF WELFARE AND FOOD STAMPS!!!!!
please prayer lol you should prayed for this girl to keep her twat closed
Poor children. I cannot imagine the strain of having 12 kids and the difficult battle that this grandmother has ahead of her and without her own daughter. Such a sad case.
She should have had some life insurance theres zero excuse to have that many kids and no life insurance and I bet you it's obvious she don't own a house nor a man mentioned and now the kids got to deal with losing their mom losing their house and struggling like these women are f****** ridiculous get on birth control get a vasectomy get yo tubes tied n burned! 35 12 kids she almost had a kid every year from adulthood that's ridiculous her body never had time to recover
Amen ❤️🙏🏽
Whoever the father(s) are will be given precedence over the grandmother for custody. Sad situation and I pray all involved gets therapy.
@@kellibelle7171 if the father, fathers are willing to Step Up and do what needs to be done all I can say is AMEN!
Hope some of the father have good jobs to help
Omg, I wish I had the money. I would buy this grandma a 15 passenger van and a house!
My God, he don't make any mistakes, let's all Pray for this family. I hope a MILLIONAIRE sees this story & help this grandma and all her grandchildren. 🙏🏻 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🕊
Hope they get the help too.
Also, don't take the sh0t no matter what
Me too! If I won the lottery, I would help her.
God may not make mistakes in your beliefs, unfortunately stupid people do, repeatedly!
Reality is after the money raised by donations it's going to be a hard life for all of them and unless one of the fathers steps up, grandma likely won't be alive to see the youngest ones grow into adulthood.
Stop justifying horrible decisions by bringing religion into this mess!
@@sarcasticallyrearranged You need to stop it. She is suppose to pray for those children and their grandma. Are you perfect? None of us are so stop judging people.
Lord give this Grandma strength, she’s going to need it.
This is so sad. May she rest in peace. 35 and 12 children, the oldest being 19 means she had him/her at 16. All these kids I hope they heal and grow up to be successful in Jesus Name amen.
Humanity gone wrong. Song birds don't attempt to raise their fledglings alone.
AMEN
In Jesus Mighty name amen 🙏🏽 Amen
Amen 🙏🏽.
Amen.
and may God continue to keep his protective shield around all her babies and her beautiful Mom!!
and may her journey be a very peaceful journey. 🙏🙏💕
I can't handle two kids, so 12 is definitely a no go for me.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I sure hope this lady gets help from the family. Lord cover those children and their grandmother.
Amen.
I have one, and had her at age forty. She’s four and her dad and I have been married going on twenty yrs in may. I prayed for one and ask God not to give me any more. Yes protection is key. I mentally cannot do it.
@@SONYARenee that baby kickin yo ass at 40+ 🤣. You will be good, you have plenty life experience lol
The Lord should've prevented that idiot from birthing 12 kids straight into a life of struggle. Maybe the Lord knew she would continue to be irresponsible so he took her dumb ass out to prevent more struggle lives from being born
WELFARE, , WELFARE!!!!!
I don't know what we would do without grandmothers God is going to Bless you in a mighty way for taking care of your grandchildren God Bless You❤
this only happens in ghetto poor families because when my mom or aunts and uncles are sick the spouse takes care of the kids only in poor ghetto household grandmothers take care of children in upscale homes like mine we take care of our own children aint no need to come back with bullshit because it's true only ghetto poor families bunch of kids grandmothers pitching in no man around notice no grand father only mother and aunts lol pathetic no life insurance
Where are the daddies to ALL those kids.Why her momma have to take them. This is trifling on so many levels
Exactly. Where is the fathers smh
I don't think she even remembers who the father's are.
Girl no man is going to step up and claim that he Slipped in the section 8 house to knock the blocks off of her and get her pregnant, and I don’t blame them.
@@etoileshine1011they know exactly where they stuck their raggedy penis’s at. The need to be held accountable and pay for their kids
@@shariabrown9211they need to because guess who’s paying the bills for all those children…. YOU! So while your over here blaming a dead woman, your completely abolishing accountability from the sperm donors. …. Idiotic
DAMN!! 12 KIDS!! im single NO KIDS work fulltime but still struggle sometimes. I cant image 12 kids of all ages 😱🤦♂️
@Truly Miracle If they had an active father, or fathers they wouldnt be at grannys. So sad
@@trulymiracleI doubt there’s one father. Usually women will pick the same type of men over and over. Tyrone doesn’t care.
She’s on welfare. At least $4000 a month
@@DarthKater311 That ain't worth a damn with 13 ppl in a house. Stop it!! You don't know her financial situation.
@@meshab6049 there’s no way she’s wasnt on aid. Be real.
Beautiful children
Not 1 father in sight. My condolences to the family and praying for a miracle for them.
You're a close relative that knows everything about them huh? Your first name is Mo and last name is ron.
You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible .Dr Thomas Sowell. Look at the miss match socks and little girls dirty finger nails !!!!!
Oh they are going to start coming out of the woodwork if they think a lawsuit will be filed on behalf of the children.
@@JohnRangel-if2qm enlighten us please
Yep damn shame not one f****** daddy can't be found it's a pitiful situation not sad this is pathetic
12 kids when you don't have the money or knowledge... is absolutely ridiculous!!! But keeping them together with family... Is paramount!!!
THIS IS A TREND, , , YOUNG GIRLS POPPING AS MANY BABIES WITH DIFFERENT GUYS, TO KEEP THE WELFARE FLOWING!!! AND THE BABIES SUFFER!!!!! SHE WAS GROWN , AND SHE TOOK A BAD RISK!!!!!!
19 yrs old barely hit adulthood now taking care of his younger siblings hits hard prayers for the family
Well that's life. It's time to get it now. Either jump in the workforce or military, either way he's got to push it forward and help granny now.
at 19 i was in college a virgin okay smh ghetto life sucks
Absolutely terrible, prayers for all her beautiful babies and rest in peace beautiful mama 🙏
No wonder the community is such a mess when so many people won't look in the mirror but appeal to some god.
@Leo Lennox if people were more Godly then things like this wouldn't happen.
"More Godly?"
God says to be fruitful and multiply.
If everyone believes and follows just that line it'd be much worse!
@Sarcastically Rearranged God also said not to bring children into the world if you can not take care of them but I guess nobody remembers that it's always be fruitful and multiple
God bless this grandma because it seems that's all the kids have. May she live a long life to see them grown enough to be successful one day take care of her. 🙏🏾
YEA RIGHT!!!!!
12 kids, this is beyond sad. Her mom is amazing those kids absolutely need her, and she needs them.
Nope don't get it twisted granny needs to rest let the daddy step in and take these damn children
@@wello5839 right, she already raised her kids, these are gonna put her in an early grave with all the issues I am sure they have
That little girl looks so sad, I just want to hug her. Please if you are in the area help this family. Praying they can find support, love and joy in their lives.
He's a boy with a head full of hair...but still what you said is true he looks soo sad it's pitiful all of them. Lord wrap your arms tight around this family give them strength in the days ahead. I hope they get help.
I felt his pain
These adorable kids, little hearts. ♥️
I am happy someone did a gofundme for them, they need it.
When days will come they miss their mom I hope everyone will tell them she love them and that they are extremly precious.
I’m feel sorry that the grandma has to take care of all 12. This business of having multiple children without a proper plan in place needs to be discouraged. These kids will not get equal attention and guidance and could stray down a troubled path...
Totally agree. Don’t have more kids than you can realistically care for. I’ve often heard people say that accidents happen which is true, but if bc is being used correctly, ain’t no way you’re going to end up with 12 kids. This was a choice. Any way, I hope the mother is resting in peace and the grandma receives support.
I am sure this is a great teaching moment for the dead woman of 12 children...not.
@@satsukikiryuin1667 for the ones still alive. We can learn from other people's mistakes sometimes
The tongue is Powerful! speak Greatness over their lives in Jesus name amen.
Any child can go down the wrong path and both parents can be alive and in their life.
My heart goes out to all of them. My family friend had an IUD and still got pregnant. After birth she bled out and died. She was a mama of 4 babies. RIP Lisa 🕊️
Sorry for your lost
Wtf 😳
Sorry for their loss, Moms are irreplaceable but I am so glad the Grandmother is there to step in and help and take over for them. I pray all help that's needed comes her way. May the Most High bless her and the children richly!
MY MOM KILLED MY BROTHER, BELIEVEING IN SATAN!!!!!
R.I.P to the woman who lost her life. Deepest condolences to her family and friends.
So so sad... the look in the older boy's eyes says so much. The fact they have a loving Grandma, and hopefully memories of their mama will help them. I pray the Dad(s) will step up and help. Those kids need it! God bless Grandma, may she live long and see them through to adults. 🙏💕
I commend this grandmother for stepping up to care for her grandchildren. She can't grieve because she's taking care of her grandchildren and their grief. This is so sad.
Children are born with a father. Father or fathers unavailable???? ☹️😥 it's wonderful that they have such a loving, unselfish grandmother.
Black men aren't capable of being present fathers.
@@IllObserveAndReport and I bet you now since she died not one father stepped up to be there. So I wonder what the excuse is now.
@@queenjanee6290if the father is not there then maybe the relationship was just sex and nobody thought about the children or their future and the woman has total control of that outcome….now if the courts gave fathers custody out the womb then you would not have to worry about absentee fathers….but since the courts give so much to single mothers it’s no incentive to be a father when the women uses the system to raise them so ……
@@bayradionews415 those guys knew who they were sleeping with so it's no excuse not to step up and take which ever child belong to them and take care of their responsibilities!
Right like where tf is there dads. I'm so angry at these men that refuse to take accountability. It's sickening.
Blessings to the 12 children and, grandma 🙏🏾💪🏽🖤
Thank God for such a devoted, loving Grandmother. God bless her 🙏
Lord come thru for this family give them the resources they need in this lifetime for a lifetime 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Grandma is gonna need a lot of help, it’s literally gonna take a village. I pray that male and female mentors will get involved and help this grandmother out by providing guidance and making sure those kids are involved in positive things. Prayers and condolences to this family.
SHE GETTING LOTS OF WELFARE!!!!!
35 years 12 kids God have mercy hope the kids get proper care Grandma may you get strength and wisdom to raise this 😇 Angels may you never lack
WELFARE, , , , WELFARE!!!!!
0:51 You can see the hurt, feel it even, coming off that poor child. So freakin heartbreaking. 💔
God bless this grandmother bec so many extended families these days would not step up ❤️
This 35 year old woman left her mother with 12 kids and no stability for those kids? Now grandma have to raise all of them with no help? This is so sad of our community. Wow
I feel awful for this woman and her grandbabies... People really need to stop being so damn irresponsible... No one needs 12 damn kids. Wtf. Especially when you're hopping from baby daddy to baby daddy. Jesus.
@@MorgueRat exactly.
She raised her to be a hood rat who just had unprotected sex with any old Tom Dick and Harry so what do you think? None of them kids have a chance .. and until we stop the welfare train this will keep happening
If you have so many kids you need mad savings and a life insurance of at least $2M. This is a disaster and the father(s) of those kids have everything to do with it as well. Obviously this woman was not right in her mind to keep having kids like this, they knew, yet still impregnated her. Where are they now and most of all where is the child support and physical support helping to raise THEIR kids?
@@misshoneynevercame4832 I hope grandma can send them to court if they can find the sperm donors responsible for all of these children. They should be made to pay child support or sit in jail. This crap has gotten so out of hand it should be illegal.
Beautiful Family ... Blessings 🙏 to Grandma ❤️ and Condolences for Daughter ... God will take care and deliver help to keep Family together.
This is so sad. I hope the father is helping this grandmother for the kids underage. Grandma needs all the love and support.
We have got to start educating each other as women about the risks of having multiple pregnancies back to back. Your body isn't invincible, and you MUST keep that in mind. Prayers to those sweet babies.
THIS IS JUST HOW IT GO!!!! THE MORE BABIES THE MORE WELFARE!!!!!
Yeah well guess what's coming with Donald dumps abortion bans
My effin heart! 💔 God bless this grandmother and these perfect babies that lost their mother. I can’t imagine that pain! I will keep them in my prayers!
Prayers that this grandma is able to keep them all together. RIP with sincere sympathy to her daughter that passed.
She is not going to be able to take care of 12 children it's to much.. There father need to be helping... Children lose out where there to many someone is not going to get the attention they need.. I took care of four and it was to much.. Boy turn into men girls turn into women.. Personally change.attitue change.. She not going to be able teach that boy child how to be a man. Am sorry it's to much. From my own experience..
That is not the prayer we need to pray at all. I'm praying the opposite and God's will be done.
My comment is just that--MINE!! You seem to be a sorry mess!!!!
Grandmother you are so sweet , caring and blessed !
May God keep you with your grand children also keep all of you strong and healthy !
God bless her. This grandmother is definitely a blessing.
I feel so bad about this grandmother, I got two grandkids, and I couldn't imagine having to raise them. It was hard enough raising my two sons. Where are the fathers to these kids? She should be getting child support, or some of them should be raising their child. I hope she gets all the help she needs..❤🙏🏾
Grandmother to grandmother, my deepest sympathies, the grands/you, are in my daily prayers, may your daughter rest in paradise!!!! May our HEAVENLY FATHER, continue to provide you with strength/wisdom, may GOD orchestrate a support network to stand with you. I thank GOD, that in the name of JESUS, a flood gate of Blessings/resources will be bestowed upon the children/you!!!!!! GOD with you always!!!!!
Having babies is no joke. I had one at age 18 and almost died. Lost allot of blood had to get a transfusion. My husband had a vasectomy at age 20. We are both almost 50 now and our son is 30. Blessings 💞
Same happened to me only I was 24. Lost so much I was green. I than had our son and now I'm saying I'm done.
NOBODY FORCED YOU TO HAVE A BABY!!!!
Oh my heart. I just want to hug them all. They all look so sad. God bless them and keep them safe.
My heart goes out to this grandmother ❤️. I know too well what she's going through. I raised my two grand boys, and they are grown and ungrateful. I pray these kids love their grandma to the fullest 🙏.
Maaannnn whaaat! Starts packing up baby clothes!! Pack and play!!! Ssshiiidd Thank You God for allowing me to see this! I CAN HELP!!
She wants money not clothes 🤦🏼♀️
@@enishalihoward8119 I'm sorry did you really direct that comment to me without fact checking that? ✔️ seriously and while we're at it 👊🤷🧑🎓don't comment smart azz remarks to me assuming something you don't know, and if I decided to send clothes, cash and whatever else....that's my business 😉. So again 👊 stay in your lane. And be easy... if I asked who else in here making an ass of themselves assuming things would you be so quick to comment 🙄...I think not. Be a kind f'n human or keep those thoughts to yourself please. Happy Black History Month! Peace and Love ❤️
@@enishalihoward8119 why does it matter? What you given?
@@enishalihoward8119 she actually needs help in everything. Obviously!
@Enisha Li Howard she never said that..she wants whatever anyone can help with..rather monetary, clothing...food..house..w.e..I'm sure she would be grateful and thankful
Beautiful baby... I hope the family can stay together.
I hope she has gotten a bigger home and car. I donated.
This is so heartbreakingly sad. You can hear the hurt, pain, sadness, fear in the grandmother's voice. She is not young and may have some health issues of her own. This is such a daunting task for her. I hope the father of the children step and help. Twelve children in these days - too much. Poor babies. Such a sad and tragic story.
I'm definitely going to donate to help her out 🙏
If you can post the link I want to donate too
Same
If anyone needs help, they do. Prayers to this grandmother and those sad babies 😢
WELFARE...WELFARE!!!!!
Wow this is heartbreaking this is my WORST fear carrying a child and not coming home. I’m so sorry 😢💓 as a community we should all come together and help if we can! I hope one of those shows that build houses sees this and build this grandma a house I couldn’t imagine 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Let’s do it
I agree 💞💞💞🎯
SHE GETTING LOTS LOTS OF WELFARE!!!!!
This is so heartbreaking. I hope that this Grandmother is able to get the help and assistance that she needs. Those poor kids. Their Mother went to the hospital to have her baby and only one person made it home. My hearts aches for her children. 💛💐💛
Beautiful kids ,May God be with them Grandmother yo aye the tops.
The kids fathers should help
God will provide for this grandmother and her grandchildren. I can't judge her but from looking at one of her older sons holding his sibling he looks very respectful and a gentleman.
God be with this strong and beautiful family ❤ you're an amazing mother and grandmother to those babies. Never forget.
Praying for the grandmother's strength to look after all 12 kids and praying that those kids be kept safe mentally, emotionally, physically, financially and most of all spiritually... They need to get a lawyer and I bet the hospital will be telling all then.
WELFARE TO THE RESCUE!!!!!!
Dear Lord, 12 children at the age of 35, I feel so bad for them all, but where is the father or fathers? They need to pay child support. Elder children need to help out also. These children lost their mother, and I pray they get the help they need 🙏
Fathers? They are using your tax dollars to be fed in and out of prison. What decent man would want a woman like this I mean seriously
*Why do the fathers "need" to do anything? Her body, her choice... she brought them into this world, she should've thought about her kids' wellbeing before she gave birth!!!*
The children are not the elder eldest one responsibility it,s just one too many kids .
@@johhanwindsalor9478 the fathers need to raise their children because they helped get them here, period. I'm tired of evil men like you who want free sex without consequences . You need to repent or the lake of fire will be your permanent home.
@@rainbowradian1 Thank you! Helping is fine but making him pay for 'adults' mistakes is unfortunate. He needs to be stable and at this point if full involved in helping around, he will not be able to have cash to do anything in personal improvement. This includes attending college and starting a career, dating and starting his own family until he is about 33 as the others mature and help around as well. He would have to work from around 8am to maybe 5 or 6pm unskilled labor, then come home to everyone needing something. That pressure shortens life significantly and making it past 45 without at heart attack is close to impossible.
This is so sad. The children are blessed to have a loving and wonderful grandmother. Sending many blessings her way.
I hope the daddy step up and help grandma
The daddy’s already stepped up got some cutty and left that’s the only stepping up they did!
I'm sorry for your loss grandma and kids. God bless each and everyone of you and pray that you keep your grandkids. You can see the love in the young man holding the baby. Lots of hugs and love from The Great Navajo Nation.
This grandma has the heart of love for her grandkids I hope she gets all the help she needs. Especially the part where she says she wants to keep them together with her.... SUPER IMPORTANT
Please help this grandmother with these 12 children… so sad that they lost their mother 😢. 🙏
Lord bless this poor Grandmother and these beautiful babies. She looks to be doing the best she can. She said she wants to try and keep them all together. Lord please bless this family with the basic necessities they need to get through day to day. I pray for strength for Grandmother and the older siblings who will have to help her out.💔😩🙏🏾
The children look so broken it hard to watch 😢😢. God bless her and give her the strength to go against all odds and raise those children. This story needs to be made more public so this woman can get the help she needs.
Where are father's of those children,they need to step up now.i am glad the grandmother is taking care her grandkids with them not beening separated.
They probably won’t sadly maybe one will at most.
They are hiding out and I don’t blame them I wouldn’t want anyone to know I went after that many men,women in the red light district sometimes don’t even get that much action
Too bad child support isn't enforced. 12 kids in 19 years isn't healthy. Very sad for the kids.
WELFARE, , , , WELFARE!!!!!
That's right grandma. Keep you grandchildren together. My mother did the same for her grandchildren when their mothers were on drugs. She did not give them up. Be strong and of a good courage . GOD will make away for all of you. Much love
I ask God to bless this family help this Grandmother to make a way for herself and her grandchildren. I as God to give them peace comfort and strenght to get throught this.
Amen!
Bless this woman and all them babies! Gods with you all!!!
God?...Oh sure...that's why God took their mom away?
Dear LORD! Please take care of this family-THOSE GORGEOUS CHILDREN… with sad eyes, it hurts to watch but they are so loved and God will provide through the loving hearts who see this. God bless you Mama and your grandkids! You’ll be ok! ❤
That boy is going to make sure his siblings are cared for from here on out.
Sad! Because he is a child himself, this where that bs comes from making their young child of a son man of the house crap! Lord have mercy! Ain't that much effing and letting any and every man nut up in you without protection. Like dang she was playing with her life!
@@1college100 I totally understand where you're coming from...but he really is about to start thinking like a young man so he could break that cycle... Who knows? It's definitely sad it has to happen this way.
Yeah which is what happens in most black families…..the children have to make up for the things the parents didn’t do….so they have to grow up fast and that’s not fair but neither is life
He also has his own future to take care of. He needs to be applying to school or get trained in a trade.
NO HE AINT!!!! WELFARE WILL!!!!!
The kids are beautiful and so precious.
Ahhhh wow she have some beautiful children’ I can see the hurt in the little one sitting on the couch
What kind of "mother" has a dozen kids that she knows she can't provide for, not even the basic necessities? This is so sad on so many levels...
Exactly. Grandma didn't seem like she probably was the best mother herself frankly, understandable that her daughter started having babies as a high school teenager and never stopped smh the fact that there was ZERO mention of a father or multiple fathers or even one of the fathers relatives to come take some of the burden makes this news story really trifling to me.
Unfortunately, we are going to be attacked for speaking up and not just say Poor them… at what point this woman said let me get on birth control or have my tubes tide to stop having children. No father around and I don’t mean they necessarily need to be married but be around caring for their children… how do you find the time to have a man and continue to procreate with so many children ??? I have one, her father and I broke up and I demanded that she spend 50% of the time with him rather than getting child support. She is 13 now and I been single for 6 years don’t want a relationship and I don’t want more kids it is hard enough with her…
How about if both parties are not interested in having children then both parties should be actively, consciously and consistently involved in preventative child producing measures when sexually active with each other.
This, it all falls on the woman to prevent getting pregnant is sheer ignorance. Y'all spoil these men and give them too much leeway...that's what's up 👀
How about women star caring for themselves and start protecting themselves by first, stop procreating with low life loser that won’t be around to care for the child, how about we stop saying is a two way responsibility is the man’s responsibility too of course it is but if we leave it up to other and don’t take control of our own life and care we will be the ones at lost here, for centuries women are the one who are left to care for the children… so how do you stop that ??? By having common sense If I see that one or two baby daddy did not stay why would continue to have 12 children ??? Come now make it make sense !!! And stop excusing this irresponsible behavior!
@@kasun1752 well congratufuknlations .. do you want a cookie?
God bless those beautiful children ❤️ the little boy holding his baby brother reminds me of my son 😞 God Lord Jesus in Heaven please protect and guide these babies, your children ✝️💗🙏
You're a great person and a wonderful grandmother. God be with you.
RIP to the victim. I pray that the kids can remain together. I hope the father/fathers are helping/in their kids life. BM do better!!!. 🙏🏾she gets the help she needs.
God bless her with long life to raise all children and may they find comfort
Omg...strength grandmother...you have an handful...may God provide for you all..
R.I.P Nikita Washington. 😔🙏 I really hope the grandmama gets all the assistance that she is requesting since caring for 12 beautiful babies is a LOT for any person. My condolences to Nikita Washington's family, especially her 12 babies that have to live without her. ❤
12? Where are the fathers?
Right - FatherS 🙄
@@Citrusfruits50 you forgot there’s a thing called an apostrophe. More than one would be apostrophe’s
Sometimes we have to give our bodies a break it's a beautiful gift to be able to have children I pray 🙏 for the children and Mother for strength and healing
she wasn't married so a break is out of the question she was a bum no life insurance everyone in my family has life insurance
Pray God 🙏keeps health and strength by the grandmother's side .... and that these kids walk the straight and narrow way, my heart ❤ is hurting for them.... hope the girls can hold their own, and not add insult to injury... pray 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Lord have mercy, I’m so sorry. 💔
Lifting you all up in prayer and holding you and these precious babies in my heart tonight.
The baby boy is just gorgeous!!❤️
So sad for the kids and grandma...it's important to have life insurance because you never know when that time will come. Don't want to leave your family struggling and relying on donations.
Especially with that many
Her body couldn't manage so many children. Beautiful children. Hope they're emotionally healthy. Grandma needs to take care. She could die from the stress of raising 12 kids. By the way, where's the dad.
Good question 🤔 the dad?
Dad's. Plural.
@@henrykirk4457 probably 12 of them out there.
Interestingly Coco Chanel's mom had only six kids and she died after the sixth. I think the second to last was the one that died as a baby. Coco, however, was the second born, when her mom was still strong. They were poor and nutrition wasn't good. For sure, 12 is over the top.
@@sweetdreamzX AMEN AMEN say it again for the one's in the back🗣️🗣️🗣️. My grandmother had 21 children and lived to be 89 just saying. That's not the issue. Twelve children are MOTHERLESS. Grandmother and children needs prayers🙏🙏love and support not judgement. Just show love please😘💞👼😇🙌🙏
This sucks so bad. 12 kids!!? I’m struggling with my daughter’s three, I couldn’t imagine her having 12. Blessings to this woman and her grand babies. ❤😢😢😢
WELFARE GOT UM!!!!
wow I can’t even begin to imagine ! this is so heartbreaking. God please bless this woman and her grandkids and give the kids and the grandma peace & comfort at the same time💛💛 RIP Nakita 🕊️🕊️
You can see the sadness in those kids eyes💔💔💔....so sad