NON NEGOTIABLE STANDARDS OF A HIGH VALUE WOMAN by RC Blakes
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- Опубліковано 19 вер 2021
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In this session we are discussing NON NEGOTIABLE STANDARDS OF A HIGH VALUE WOMAN with RC Blakes.
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1. will not settle for a man who does not understand her love language
2. She needs a man that maintains an even temperament. Emotionally mature. Even when he gets upset you will never feel unsafe
3. When a man knows who he is, he serves her, his church, his community. He's mature and humble.
4. She requires a man who lives his life based on principle. She will test his manhood
5. She does not linger with men who bring low effort. It is the man's job to do the hard pursuing. Never chase a man!
6. She needs a man that is financially secure. She won't settle for a man who is too little mentally to accommodate her
7. She can't deal with a man who is all potential with no goals
8. She will not deal with a man who is inconsistent, doesn't regularly call, etc
Thank you for the notes, Miss Jackie. 💝
Thank you
Thanks 👑
Amen to all of this.
Thanks for the update.
"Just because I love you doesn't mean you deserve me."
So true
AMEN
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
a word.
BOOM! That right there!
"Inconsistency is the foundation of manipulation."
Love this one ‼️💯💯
It screams Mind games while breaking one’s esteem
thisssss whewwww
Omg 🔥🔥🔥
HEAVEN KNOWS
“Inconsistency is the foundation of manipulation.” -R.C. Blake’s
Whew! That’s how you know…
“…an inconsistent man doesnt deserve me anyway, i dont care how much I love him, doesnt mean he deserves me.. so I’d rather take my time getting over you, than to commit my life to an inconsistent man & then living… an inconsistent life…” ~Mrs. Lisa Blake’s High Value Mind
Yes! Amen
Confirmation for me🙏🏽🙌🏽
Omg yess!
Yess omg.. Glory to God.. I rather took the time to get over the man, process the emotions so that i no longer like him than to suffer and put myself in the hand of the man who doesn't want me and will discard me when he finds someone that he wants
If people can listen to HOURS of Kevin Samuel then surely we can listen to HOURS of you speaking positivity and spirituality into our lives So 🗣take your time !! God Bless you ❤️❤️🙌🙌🙌🙌
KS is always contradicting himself. He’s now trying to get black men back in the church
@@gdisprint2928 lol
Anyone that has a worldly view will fail
@@Rodrasroom 🙏🏾 amen
@@gdisprint2928 wait what? 😳🤣🤣🤣
The worst situation you can find yourself in, as a women PERIOD, is being with a man who can not control his temper at home, or out in public!!!! This right here is a DEAL BREAKER!!!
@mlempolk It's a run Forest run exit stage right 2.
I was engaged to one. It too almost a year and 4 months for him to reveal his dark side...but guess what...my disclaimer...You change I move on...period...end of discussion..
its narcissism overload. afraid to go home. u live in fear.
A Man must be able to financially manage his own lifestyle..don't expect to move in with me and complain about maintenance costs or travel costs. A Man should pay for his and her travel, at least most of the time. Can't deal with a gaslighter mentality. Get your own $#%t.
10000 facts
"Value doesn't have a ceiling, but it absolutely has a floor" - Pastor RC Blakes. I don't know about you, but that phrase in and of itself is a praise break moment!!!
It WAS a praise break moment for me! PRICELESS! I bless the LORD for Bishop! He is the BUSINESS!!!
U HEAR MEEEE
@@chrystalwells1816 That he is!
@@nikkyshamz2696 If Bishop had a mic, that moment, when he spoke that phrase, would have been perfect to drop it and exit the building!
@@lakeshabrown6275 no lies told 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I’m literally in tears😭 I thought I was the issue and all along I was not trynna compromise what’s healthy. . this really hits me hard because I suffered with depression because folks gaslighted me to thinking I was not gd enough or difficult for requiring the things you speak of. Ty so much for allowing God to help set me free today 🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️
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Me too😂
❤️ Same! Love and light to you beautiful!
Girl I been there done that. Even women in my family tried to convince me to settle just because he didn't beat me or live off of me. It's okay though because the wisdom we gained in those situations is invaluable
@@jasminebryant4772 my goodness 😖. That’s terrible advice. Keep your head up,
A diamond goes through a lot of hidden pressure and stays hidden. In the protection of the case, a 💎 doesn't sit begging someone to buy it. It shines until the one who can buy and appreciate it makes the purchase. There's no wear now and buy later either. 😘
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This is A PERFECT ANALOGY! wow revelation sister!
In the protection of God the Case, lol shine baby shine until he’s sent… by the Holy one of Israel.
Love this!!! 👑💎😍
I'm going to remember this counsel.
"There is no wear now buy/(invest in it) later, either."
Clown's with Crowns I'm starting to recognize them more and more. Grateful for you R.C. Blake. I'm growing in Grace. I'm patiently waiting on my King
💯💯💯💯 me too!!
You can’t turn things down that’s beneath you until you know you are above it...🙌🏻🌹
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My father just transitioned. I’m reminded of the high standards he set for the men who I chose to date. Daddy knew my value, now I must OWN it. I can’t wait to receive your teaching!
Condolences love.
How blessed you are to have had your dad in your life. *Rest very well, Sir. 🙏🏾
Sorry for your loss
My condolences 💐
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"Just because i love you does not mean you deserve me ." I love it .
HVW DOES NOT INTERTAIN INCONSISTENCY . 100% TRUE .
"Just because I love you doesn't mean you deserve me". wow preach pastor
And to think I believed I was requiring or asking for too much. The reality is I was asking a clown in a crown. Thank you for this revelation.
Amen!!! I was doing the same!! Thought 💭 I was asking for too much just wanting my EX to show me some attention and to spend some time with me, instead of hanging out with the guys. And it’s crazy because whenever I would try an bring it up and talk to him about it, he would always make me feel like I was asking too much of him! 🙄
My first time here❤️his teachings. Very few men/women of God minister to the singles. Thank you Sir!
FACTS
He said, "You can't sell it until you own it!" You betta preach!
When I tell you that Pastor RC Blakes, Jr. has changed my perspective about relationships... I have evolved! Be Conscious & Cautious!!!!
Agreed 💯🙌🏾
I just received peace right now. A load lifted up off of me. There is safety here. I'm in the right place here
This is good. I was told I intimidated men because I don't settle for less. Thanks for confirming I am on the right track..bless
Value always comes with limits...you cannot turn down something beneath you if you don't know you're above it! What a priceless nugget!
Because we’re always growing mentally and spiritually , then we know that “ the value of yesterday is not the value today! Price just went up “( in Fat Joe voice)
Pastor Blakes, you're more of a counselor than you know. The Lord bless you and your family
Start seeing yourself as God sees you, not how the world sees you. You are wonderfully and beautifully made in His image.
I'm so thankful for your ministry, it has opened my eyes to a better understanding of what a healthy God centered relationship should look like. I am going through a difficult time right now, i pray the message tonight will help me.
May God bless u Queen continue to hold to His hand ❤️🙏🏽
Mine is Comeing in Due Season an Time
You will come to yourself in which way you should go. Keep listening.
I totally agree with you sis😇. I am also learning and realizing who I am, who I belong to and how to behave like the queen God created us to be Amen!!💃🏿💃🏿We queens have to support and encouraged each other!! What we learned from the streets and social media is not the correct way to behave!!!
May God continue to bless you Queen😇👸🏾
As someone that saw her mother stay in a 'relationship' for 10+ years, waiting for a man to come around and love her again, your talk is so incredibly needed. I realized I was doing the same, staying because I truly loved someone that didn't realize my worth. Now I know that it doesn’t matter how much you love someone, if they aren't treating you right, you leave - no matter how hard it is. It might take a long time to move on, but it's better to cut it off now than later when more damage has been done. It's time to stop wasting time and allow only reliable, consistent men. Thank you for your teachings, they're giving me confirmation that I'm making the right choices AND that I am on the right path.
“Inconsistency is the foundation for manipulation.” C’mon, Bishop Blakes! We can end the video right there! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I'm patiently awaiting to learn and listen in on what are Pastor RC. Blakes Teaching women of all ages..Gracefully for the Man of God and Wife Lisa Blakes❤🙏
Amen
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Ca ib I
Amen: From an Elder who is yet being Divinely nourished. Thank U Sir RC Blakes 🙏🏾💙💎
“If you have to tell a man your love language, they either lack the intelligence to discern it or the interest to pay attention”
Pastor RC, this is SPOT on!!!! I left a toxic relationship a few weeks ago and one of the main challenges in our relationship was that he didn’t care about my love language and only showed up through his love language. He never gave me words of affirmation, I never knew where I stood in the relationship and after multiple conversations of me telling him what I needed he couldn’t bring that to the table. Never again will I be with someone where I’m questioning my worth every day. The next guy will show AND TELL me how he feels about me and I won’t settle for less than that! Thanks for your wisdom and counsel, pastor. You truly are a gift from God.
Many blessings to you and Lisa!!❤
A masculine man is identified by his confidence n security in hi position.when a man knows who he is he serves. Matthew 3:11-12,thankyou and may God bless you for sharing the wisdom 🙏
I was unconscious before but now I'm wide awake. Thank you for awakening my queen consciousness.
In agreement with this whole message and psalm 139:14, proverbs 31:31, proverbs 31:10-12, colossians 3:19, ephesians 5:25, matthew 23:11-12, proverbs 8:22, 1 timothy 5:8, proverbs 31:23-24, james 2:18-20 I loosen to become a high-value woman, binding to hell every lack of standards in my life (binding to settle with a man that does bot know my love language, binding to settle with a man that does not have an even temperament, binding to settle for a man who is not willing to serve, binding to settle for a man that is not committed to his own manhood and principles, binding to settle for a man that puts in low effort in pursuing, binding to settle for a man that is not financially stable and is willing to provide, binding to settle for a man with potential but no goals) in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!
Just want to let you know how much you have been a blessing to me in my life. I don’t care what UA-cam says about you talking too much I could never get enough. Thank you and may God Bless you 💖
Amen 🙏
Amen!!!!
“Just because I love you doesn’t mean you deserve me” 🙌🏽👏🏽🙌🏽👏🏽
You do not talk too long Pastor. We are learning not to make the same mistakes twice. Praise God. 🙏🏾
That was the line for me “Your value doesn’t have a ceiling, but it absolutely has a floor!” Rc preach and teach this message!! God bless you abundantly 🙏🏽❤️✝️
Thank you.
A lot of married couples are also lost! I spoke to a couple that were together a long time and it was clear that they thought of their relationship in a business type of way and yet it had no real value. I’m glad you still love and are in love with your wife RC and you have so much knowledge to give. You are so valuable
Well that's common for people to live so much longer these days, making " the long country walk hand-in-hand" " quite a long tiring walk with that same old guy. Boring? haha
This is gonna be another good one, as usual. You are such a blessing to many. It's never to late to learn. Every since I saw the video on L.E.T and a Never Ignore a Man's Energy, I have been watching ever since. I feel that I didn't run across these videos for nothing. There's a reason. Blessings to you and Lady Lisa.💜💜💜
Valuable Good Gods Nuggets information💜💜💜🖐🏾✋🏿🙏🏾🙏🏾!!!
Sir, you're classy and your ministry is an AMEN!
This has been so incredibly affirming for me to listen to and reflect upon. I recognize now that those who told me I was asking for too much, or insinuated I was asking for perfection, were not in alignment with the woman I am becoming (and in many ways, the woman I have always been). I remember staying up late a few nights ago, just laying in bed thinking about my experiences with men thus far. I remember feeling at a loss, and I remember almost being convinced that my standards were ridiculous. This video has arrived just in time; I cannot possibly thank you enough for this.
🙌 yes! The low effort man part of this segment resonated with me. “ It is not the man’s role to sit back and be pursued, like he is a little girl. A high value woman is not going to entertain that .”
💗🤗👏👏🌠🌠🙌!
💯! Just got out of a toxic relationship and rebuilding myself. I am quarantining myself from the virus (toxic man.) This message helped to strengthen my resolve to never go back. Will need to listen to it a couple more times, so I don’t forget. Thank you for all that you do!! BTW, you do not talk too long… love the fact that you are completely yourself.
Thank you pastor you have changed my life tremendously no more settling for inconsistent man, deadbeats and abusive men. I was once asleep but now I am fully awake. If I had a thousand tongues I could not thank you enough for your life changing words. I know know who I am and I know my worth and I will not settle for anything less even if that means being comfortable with myself for the rest of my life
Pure gold!!! 12:34 ⭐️⭐️⭐️Values …they’re certain level you can’t go beneath… value doesn’t have a ceiling but it’s certainly has a floor…your values are limitless ⭐️⭐️⭐️
Oh, Daddy Blakes, you preached beautifully. Thank you, for restoring virtue in both genders.
This was awesome, I love how straight forward you are, never sugar coat anything. Folks need that so they are not repeating the same cycle over and over again. Thanks for sharing.
("He either lacks the intelligence - or lacks the interest"). I always take note if a man is curious about me. If he isn't - I do not waste my time. Amongst many other things I pay close attention to are his patience levels - how does he treat people he doesn't know such waiting staff at a restaurant or a checkout person etc.... Is he empathetic - kind and mannerly - what is his nature. Here's hoping that High Value Women attract High Value Men.
Right. I pay close attention to how much he asks me about me, and if he is even listening to the answers. Most just ask as if they are checking a box, like an interview, rather than asking follow up questions.
For example, I will let a man know that I am a veteran. He might say "Oh Ok. What's your favorite color?" 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ Never once asking which branch I served, where or when did I serve....
@@ButterCookie1984 Thank you - good point - I will check if he asks follow up questions.
@@jaalahford1637 👍👍
Thank you for staying genuine and consistent!! These UA-cam people are getting overboard. Thank you for listening and following the way of God when you provide us advice and insight. We all appreciate you and love you and Lisa!!
Pastor Blakes, I truly thank God for you as He imparts wisdom within you to give to His people in order to help free them from bondage. Thank you for your intentionality and love for what you have been purposed to do.
I separated from a guy that did not believe in God. For 6 years I was celebant...I regret that I fell short and gave in to him...I asked God to forgive me. 😥
God has forgiven you! You have to forgive you. Move forward and try not to replay it over and over in your mind. We all make mistakes. All you can do is learn from it. And not make the same mistake again! I pray your true love from God comes soon
@@takingmehigherministry2712 Thank you... and I truly believe that...🍂
@@itsyourseason7701 you’re welcome 🙏🏾
So proud of you for making the hard decision to leave the guy. God will restore you and set you up for success just trust him to never settle again. Blessings Sis.
@@michelleharper7020 Yes it was a very tough decision because you can't change a person but I was thinking that he would eventually come around my spirit was burdened and heavy and it hurt me .. because he was hurt. He did not understand The Bible.... that being unequally yoked it's not what God would have for us
Just because I love you, doesn’t mean you deserve me 💯
Thank you so much for this message💓 You can be the strongest person, but sometimes society tries to get the best of you and doubt starts to creep in, but this video brought me right back. You just described me. Thank you for reconfirming that I am a high value woman and I refuse to settle for anything less than greatness. I so appreciate all your videos and good counsel, but this particular message was right on time.
May God continue to bless you, your family and every person watching this video 🙏🏾
I forevermore feel bless founding this channel! It’s changing my life and possibilities for me on so many levels! Love You!
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Pastor, I just dumped a man last week for almost all of these reasons. I'm not putting up with any of that. I bring too much to the relationship than to be with someone like that. You have encouraged my soul and confirmed that I did the right thing. Thanks!
Thank you Jesus for using this man to speak truth, and bring help & healing♡
Lord I thank you for Pastor Blakes. God bless you pastor. I just ended a relationship with someone who literally fits every single low value attribute you shared tonight. My dads not really In my life, so listening to you is literally like having a father-daughter talk. Thank you for sharing these powerful messages. And giving women like me guidance in the area of dating and relationships.
Yes Gary Chapman I read his book on 5 love languages it was a good read and I incorporated some of his points to my life. I am now reading the 5 love languages of teenagers because I have two boys and daughter. I will be purchasing some of his books. Another amazing video😊❤🙏
Thank you for the message pastor. This helped make concrete my decision to leave my ex who’s inconsistent , selfish, not concerned with my love language alone.
Thank you.
Hey Pastor! I'll be listening and learning.
I am so thankful for this teaching! I am in my single season learning to trust God
Always a blessed time to hear the wisdom for me an all women that GOD is using YOU for HIS SERVICE.
I TURNED 68 September 20, 2021. Men's are always playing games. It is always great an wise to ahead of the game. Thank You my Brother an my Sister Blakes. Taking all in an healing greatly an wise as I keep walking an living with my faith an trust in GOD.
Once he starts talking, I can’t stop listening- thank you 🙏🏾 🥳🥳🥳
“Just because I love you doesn’t mean you deserve me “ ☝🏾 inconsistency is never an option
STRAIGHT TO THE POINT, I LOVE IT !
This is so good. Thank you Bishop and Lady Blakes 💜💜
Perfectly articulated Pastor! This is so good and hit the nail on the head.
Every single point noted. Thank you for the confirmation and validation. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
As always ....a true blessing. So grateful to have found this ministry!❤
This is GOLDEN! Your detication is phenomenal 🙏🏽. Thank you ~
Blessed be this ministry, blessings Bishop RC Blake’s!!! You ALWAYS preaching such great things. I adore your compariisons
I’m so blessed by your ministry. This is a great teaching. God Bless you and Lady Lisa!!
Thank you. I needed to hear this and I'm sharing with my daughter as well. ❤
Amazing and timely words of wisdom!
Great words of wisdom, revelation, and knowledge!!! Thank you!!!!
Thank you so much for your channel. I love to hear a mature man who understands that connecting and a relationship is about so much more than just looks.
Outstanding description of a high value woman!!...Thanks for taking it “ out of the box” and expanding & expounding on the concept!! I, personally, appreciate this solid-well -rounded perspective!!
I love the wisdom from your videos so much knowledge. I have cut off so many men walking my path of high value many lessons learned but I love the principles you teach Thank you!
Amazing Counsel - Definitely assigned and administered from Above!! Thank you!
I was shared this video, and it had single handedly set the tone for my day.🙏
I am always taking notes Bishop! Praying that when the next man pursues, I will b led by God to approve. Thank you for that ! ♥️♥️
Love the transparency!!
Another powerful word. I’m grateful for all the teachings that I can apply to my life & learn from. Blessings 🙏🏾
LOVE your new intro on screen--Gold script on an anthracite background---So elegant and powerful
You are an EXCELLENT Pastor/Teacher….. praise God!!🙏🏾
This was good. Pastor thank you for the jewels. I'm most definitely learning as I embrace my Queening.
Thank you Pastor Blake. Again right on point. I wish I had this last year to share with my daughter.
God bless you pastor🙏🙏 Thank you sir for your wonderful wisdom. May the lord continue to use you and first lady💖
I love listening to you we need this kind of teaching because I share it with my daughter’s so we can love ourselves more than a man and his mess and what he tries to bring to women they think is weak for them thank you Mr RC
I absolutely love that this message can register and will reach our younger society. Pastor has a great queen for a wife. Amen 🙏
I like it when you talk long… blessed information has no time limited. Thank you!
Wow! This was such powerful, clarifying and moving content! Thank you 💗
Pastor Blakes I truly thank God for you!! You have really helped me with my healing process. Thank you for sharing!!🙌🏾❤😊
God Bless You Mr. Blakes. I found you on You Tube about a month ago, and I just can't get enough of your extremely significant teachings/messages.
I thank God for putting you in my path right when I needed it. At the most delicate tipping point in my life monumentally . I value your wisdom sir. 👍 Thank you
A VALUED WOMAN LOVES A MAN THAT HAS RESPECT FOR IS MOTHER
Amazing🙌🏽 U definitely started preaching! Thank you pastor
Thank you Pastor Blakes, I’ve learned so much from you in such a short amount of time. I truly appreciate all of your content and it has made me reflect deeply within myself and learn to adjust. I’m happy I came across your channel. God bless. ❤️
😭😭 so excited for this!!
Much 💗 to you and your family ... Thankyou for breathing life in me.. Thankyou so much for all the framework you Mr. Blakes Instil into our consciousness... And your wonderful healing prayer 🙏 your energy, your grace, , your breath and precious wisdoms is very much appreciated. Thank you so much 🌟
This message truly blessed me. That consistency one was the one I really needed to hear!
Thank you, RC for another amazing teaching!!!!
This speaks to my spirit and confirms what I know is TRUTH!!!
Thank you Jesus for your timing🥰