FIVE THINGS A MAN IS LOOKING FOR IN A WOMAN

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  • @Dentist2100
    @Dentist2100 3 роки тому +1423

    Love and honor my wife. My pride doesn't mean anything when it comes to her needs. God Bless.

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 3 роки тому +108

      Not many out here thinking like you. Glad your here to testify Men like you exist in these UA-cam streets. Amen

    • @finesseg5259
      @finesseg5259 3 роки тому +38

      Amazing...god bless you!!

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  3 роки тому +62

      Thank you for sharing my brother

    • @yolandasmith6474
      @yolandasmith6474 3 роки тому +15

      Amen

    • @takeilaf1433
      @takeilaf1433 3 роки тому +16

      Amen 🙏🏽

  • @hishandywork55
    @hishandywork55 3 роки тому +1964

    A king looks for a woman who:
    1. She EXCLUSIVE to him
    2. She REPRESENTS herself well
    3. She ENFORCES her boundaries
    4. She is capable of creating a high-value partership with
    5. She is RESPECTFUL to her husband

    • @Aritul
      @Aritul 3 роки тому +34

      Thank you!

    • @Andre25167
      @Andre25167 3 роки тому +55

      well said, many women are not exclusive the ones that are or the loyal ones God will bless even more

    • @charmedlife6378
      @charmedlife6378 3 роки тому +15

      Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @conceptualelegance
      @conceptualelegance 3 роки тому +16

      only agree with 2, 3 is redundant 5 is a consequence not a relevant measure, 1 false, 4 is vague

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 3 роки тому +10

      Thank you so much for this valuable information!!!!

  • @nadinedavid1501
    @nadinedavid1501 3 роки тому +1904

    I had a “King” for my husband but I chose wisely. He passed in 2020 but I’m so blessed to have had him as my husband and father to my two children. We were married almost 22 years. 💕

    • @nadinedavid1501
      @nadinedavid1501 3 роки тому +9

      @Alicia Hope Alexander thank you 🌺🌸

    • @1972jojodancer
      @1972jojodancer 3 роки тому +33

      Oh how precious sister Nadine! Your beloved king had his queen. So many of us wait a whole lifetime for this bond in Father's Love.

    • @annieschmitz9145
      @annieschmitz9145 3 роки тому +24

      Nadine am sorry for that loss be strong and hold on the bond he left with you in its well and God is your strength

    • @darlenedijon6820
      @darlenedijon6820 3 роки тому +14

      Sorry for your loss.

    • @everydaylifebyrozy6174
      @everydaylifebyrozy6174 3 роки тому +12

      Sorry for the loss.

  • @mannalawson432
    @mannalawson432 Рік тому +85

    “He is a man that honors a woman so well that submission is her natural response.” Yessir. 👏🏽 🔥

    • @JeanGardner-Cato
      @JeanGardner-Cato 8 місяців тому

      Most men do not understand this; perhaps they did not have role models especially from a father's, the friends they had, other family members, the mothers not teach their sons the value of a woman & the marriage & family institution ordained by God Almighty Jesus Yeshua Christ Jesus hallelujah and soon coming king! R.C Blake's is a real God sent; to promote the education & change so much of our men need & women; it is both sides balance . Most family need Christ character in their hearts, in truth in the lives; not just 'profession' bug to walk thecwslj; talk the talk; live the life; in accordance to st John chapter 14 & verse 6 & 7. Ephesians chapters 6; we are not wrestling with flesh & blood... to understand Galatians chapter 5 , those who practice such things will not inheritance the kingdom' of God. And Absouletly understand II Timothy chapter 3. ' 'Perilous times shall come" it here & now. Individuals will be lovers of pleasures; themselves more than lovers of God. Love will be waxed cold, without natural affection, law breakers, ferce...On so on read for yourselves & let no man deceive you.. says Christ Jesus hallelujah! Yeshua . ❤and appreciate to you all the body of Christ; for all the gifts abilities & talents; the calling; service & ministries; diversity that Jesus Yeshua Christ Jesus hallelujah and soon coming king have blessed his people with. May you all, seek his face now in true humility, repentance, love & obedience; faith & righteous; holiness which is lacking in the body of believers/ church hence the lack of real power & shining light before men; to glorified our father in heaven. Prsy God me as I continue to pray for you all! Because my hope is built on nothing less; than The merits of Jesus Yeshua Christ blood & righteousness; than blood will & cannot loose it power, so simple to the cross I will cling❤
      ;

    • @yuu_miran
      @yuu_miran 8 місяців тому +1

      Reverse manipulation?😊

  • @lovensjeanpierre4294
    @lovensjeanpierre4294 2 роки тому +261

    I heard this : " Men need to be respected. Women need to be cherished. " Thank you RC BLAKES !

    • @tranishaguzman-lopez7054
      @tranishaguzman-lopez7054 Рік тому +4

      So a women don't need respect also but to be cherished...Sounds kind of unusual 🤔

    • @treelover1050
      @treelover1050 Рік тому +12

      A woman needs to be respected as well.

    • @Happey67
      @Happey67 Рік тому +2

      @@tranishaguzman-lopez7054 Tell and say that again.

    • @cletusthemysterious
      @cletusthemysterious 7 місяців тому +2

      At what point does a woman being cherished mean she’s being disrespected? Smh

  • @ninad8543
    @ninad8543 3 роки тому +1156

    “He’s a man who honors his woman so well that ‘submission’ is her natural response”

  • @valencialundy8857
    @valencialundy8857 3 роки тому +307

    KINGS and QUEENS do not have time to waste they do not play relationship games

  • @bradblades4245
    @bradblades4245 2 роки тому +55

    “When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear.” - Thomas Sowell

  • @WatupGable
    @WatupGable 3 роки тому +78

    5 things a woman is looking for in a man: 1. FAITHFULNESS 2. A FREE MAN who IS INDEPENDENT OF PLEASING THE CROWD. 3. A MAN WHO SUPPORTS HER CAREER OR INTERESTS AS WELL AS HIS OWN. 4. A MAN WHO DOES NOT SEE HER AS A BODY PART. 5. A MAN WHO SEES HER IN HIS FUTURE WHEN HE LOOKS IN HIS MIRROR.

    • @ARareGEM2890
      @ARareGEM2890 Рік тому +11

      6. A MAN OF GOD WHO FEARS AND LOVE GOD.

    • @karenbell3900
      @karenbell3900 9 місяців тому +6

      7. A man who is respectful and kind, loving and gentle, not abusive and evil !!! A man who will respect the woman if she has children, and will help her to raise them if he loves her enough to do that. A man who has the strength to do the right thing ALWAYS; and NEVER needs to follow the crowd!!!💯💜🙏

    • @sharonshaw3907
      @sharonshaw3907 9 місяців тому +1

    • @shinep9658
      @shinep9658 7 місяців тому +1

      A man who is not into substance abuse like alcohol and cigarettes, a man who is emotionally controlled, a man who has wisdom and maturity.

  • @jennyelliott7735
    @jennyelliott7735 3 роки тому +865

    I was in such a bad place drinking way to much upset about my past and just so lonely, I decided to stop drinking and would go to bed and tell myself stay on your path One night I was looking for some calming music and I saw you so I listened to what you were saying . You Sir have helped me so very much , the way you speak to women and the truth behind everything you talk about. I just want to thank you so very much for all you have showed me so far

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  3 роки тому +102

      Thank you 🙏🏽 I can’t tell you how much this means to me. 😊♥️

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 роки тому +28

      I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus name.

    • @pastorroxannemcgrone3630
      @pastorroxannemcgrone3630 3 роки тому +8

      💝💝

    • @monicacalais1039
      @monicacalais1039 3 роки тому +7

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @tiabanks5585
      @tiabanks5585 3 роки тому +12

      You just touched my heart young lady this word has also blessed my life

  • @jerushadowdy7094
    @jerushadowdy7094 3 роки тому +156

    A man wants a woman who will represent him well 👏👏

    • @jenasaisquoi9202
      @jenasaisquoi9202 3 роки тому +6

      First herself.

    • @6georgiapeach
      @6georgiapeach 2 роки тому +1

      A woman wants a man who will represent well and protect her always

  • @ghutchin33
    @ghutchin33 2 роки тому +122

    1. He knows who he is. 2. Where he is going. 3. Who he needs. THAT PART ! This is a man who knows his purpose and with whom he needs to align so as to allow God to get glory from his life.

  • @valencialundy8857
    @valencialundy8857 3 роки тому +238

    The quality of a man woman is basis on how he treats her. So how a KING treats his QUEEN is a reflection of him.

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 3 роки тому +4

      REAL TRUTH AMEN!!!!!!👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥💚🙌🏿👐🏿💜

    • @crystalclearfam6444
      @crystalclearfam6444 3 роки тому +4

      I cant agree more. 💯✔️

    • @melissam.6054
      @melissam.6054 3 роки тому +12

      And how a QUEEN treats her KING is a reflection of whether she's taken responsibility for healing herself in Christ, to ensure she's not speaking or behaving from a place of woundedness or toxic Feminism.
      This is a two-way street of two adults owning & taking responsibility for becoming emotionally integrated, to be able to treat each other with mutual respect & love within the boundaries of their God-designed roles, so they can be a Kingdom Couple who adorn the gospel. 💜🙏💜

    • @kamed.
      @kamed. 3 роки тому +1

      FACTS!

    • @waitwhat6882
      @waitwhat6882 3 роки тому +3

      That is the exact truth.

  • @patsyoliver1237
    @patsyoliver1237 2 роки тому +7

    A real King takes his time observing and already prayed to God about you before approaching. Real Queens only pay attention to real Kings.

  • @simplymynz2683
    @simplymynz2683 Рік тому +26

    Now that is deep. A King honors his woman so good that his woman naturally submits to him. 💕I love it, & believes it's true. It's her free will and how she shows her love for him.

  • @darknluvly702
    @darknluvly702 3 роки тому +138

    No pimps or simps.....I NEED A KING!! 👑❤️🙏🏾

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 2 роки тому +1

      Goodafternoon real good man will sacrifice for you make you happy n also ask what ‘s you need help with seriously n what ‘s your future goals . A real good man willing take burden off you n also send you roses , help with bills , communications is the key n trust , get away weekend , make you first in his life . He going to honor you n value seriously, a lots men doesn’t take this seriously n do a lots of talking but not actions . It’s simple things too keep a woman

    • @Gloryfied
      @Gloryfied 2 роки тому

      Oh yes hun we need kings 😁.

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 2 роки тому

      Goodevening I take this seriously

    • @maxinefisher178
      @maxinefisher178 2 роки тому

      Be a Queen.

  • @JaneInThisThang
    @JaneInThisThang 3 роки тому +298

    “Queens draw the line.” God has been molding and teaching me that this year. It feels empowering to have stern boundaries

  • @kathyberven9579
    @kathyberven9579 2 роки тому +64

    Thank you so much!!! I am 33 and Single. I am working on my healing process. Waiting for a King that God will put in my path. Thank you for this clarity.

    • @kwameantwi4229
      @kwameantwi4229 7 місяців тому

      Hi dear my name is Kwame from Ghana I want to be your King I do it

  • @roxanacupsan
    @roxanacupsan 2 роки тому +64

    I’m manifesting a husband like you, a marriage like yours…right now 🧘🏼‍♀️
    Sending you some love and thank you for your work!

  • @marilyndenham7039
    @marilyndenham7039 3 роки тому +91

    1. Exclusivity
    2. A king values a woman that represents herself well
    3. A king waits for a woman that draws the line
    4. A king needs a woman to create a high value partnership with
    5. If you respect him you can have anything

    • @fatikay5735
      @fatikay5735 3 роки тому +12

      Thank you! I always look for the blessed person who summarized the video into a bullet list! :D

    • @angieayala6867
      @angieayala6867 3 роки тому +3

      Same here.♥️

    • @Aritul
      @Aritul 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @yk8301
    @yk8301 3 роки тому +511

    You are the father I wish I had growing up ❤️ thank you for teaching women how to value themselves like queens ❤️👸🏻

    • @TransitionToRetirement
      @TransitionToRetirement 3 роки тому +5

      I just adopted him today!

    • @sharonmathis-washington3455
      @sharonmathis-washington3455 3 роки тому +4

      I jus happened to click on your message about a woman should not pursue a man. You were so right Bishop Blake's. I want to thank you for allowing me to fess up to myself about a previous relationship that was just as you stated. I now have a man that I have never met (he is an Orthopedic Surgeon serving our country in Bagdad , Iraq). We met on line, we communicate by text and he calls often. I don't call him he calls me quite often. He has asked me to marry him as soon as he gets home. He has never asked me for anything with the exception of loving him. He does not let me have my way all the time. He steps up to the plate and puts me in my place. You know sometimes we women like to try a man to see how far her man will let her. I'm so happy he is a man that I can love and respect.
      Thanks for your knowledge and scriptural influence on my life. Glad I took the time to listen to you tonight. I will continue to listen to your programs.

    • @discerningtruth6848
      @discerningtruth6848 3 роки тому +1

      "When my mother and father forsake me, its the Lord that will take me up. "God knew parents aren't perfect people..follow by their with their struggles...with brokenness leads too
      disfunction...uncertainty hopelessness and despair. The Bible says ",when not hypothetically speaking...not if but when means there's going to be challenges..heartbreak and pain.

    • @yvonneyoung7443
      @yvonneyoung7443 3 роки тому +6

      @@sharonmathis-washington3455 Be careful of this man you have NEVER met. Long distance relationships often times don't work out well.

    • @roses4me451
      @roses4me451 2 роки тому +4

      @@yvonneyoung7443 "He does not let me have my way all the time. He steps up to the plate and puts me in my place." "He has asked me to marry him soon as he gets home". Met online, never met him, communicates by text, he calls often. RED FLAGS!!!! Beware!

  • @brandy4522
    @brandy4522 2 роки тому +62

    Thank you being obedient to the holy spirit and using your voice. You are giving many women a well needed Father - Daughter talk that some never got, and some that needed reminded of.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  2 роки тому +5

      Thank you Brandy 😊🙏🏽♥️

  • @kelliew.4285
    @kelliew.4285 2 роки тому +30

    A woman represents a man better than he represents himself. Wow. Thank you for putting importance back on what's inside. I think there are some things I can change now to attract the man I want.

  • @TheLuvlfe
    @TheLuvlfe 3 роки тому +256

    A KING mindset is so rare these days. I have faith and patience that there are a few still left.

    • @lesliethomas5088
      @lesliethomas5088 3 роки тому +6

      I’m with you Sis.

    • @robinahninsiima6976
      @robinahninsiima6976 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah rare i have one in my inbox ,now finally on my WhatsApp but i don't know how to behave❤bt trying to be me and pray when time is right all works out well

    • @katalinmcewan
      @katalinmcewan 3 роки тому +1

      There are, but very few of them.

    • @queenjazmyne
      @queenjazmyne 3 роки тому +5

      I have found one, its beautiful sis. Prayer and wait ,he will find you.

    • @deliafrye7753
      @deliafrye7753 3 роки тому

      I'm waiting and seeking for my king

  • @camilla4783
    @camilla4783 2 роки тому +85

    "A woman that says before I disrespect myself and get in this masculine energy...I will find my happy place within myself which is the only place it resides anyway, I will live my life with purpose and fulfillment and I will be a blessing to the world for all of my years before I come down off my place of virtue."
    Thank you for your guidance!! God Bless you and your family.

  • @barbarahull1987
    @barbarahull1987 3 роки тому +490

    This was very informative. I considered myself as being a virtuous woman and my husband prospered because of it. Then he decided he could get a better family because financially and socially he was a "King" and I needed to be more submissive and then he became abusive physically and mentally toward me and the children. The very person he wanted, he tore down. Some men just don't know what they want. Now he wants his family back, which will never happen. I thank God for rescuing me and healing me.I might be torn, but I'm not broken.

    • @caroliner2029
      @caroliner2029 3 роки тому +43

      Sweetie, what a heartache 💔
      It sounds like you were ensnared by a Narcissist.
      I have experience with them, and I'm learning about Narcissism through reading and being in professional therapy.
      God bless you, and continue to comfort and heal you. You're precious to Him.❤️

    • @barbarahull1987
      @barbarahull1987 3 роки тому +36

      @@caroliner2029 Hello. I most definitely was involved with a "narc" and his mom supported him all the way because money was involved for her. Now she wants to be in her adult grandchildren lives, which they won't call her or anything.They probably blame that on me too, but they remember her not calling and sending gifts for Christmas. Now she's trying to assist her son into getting back to me. Crazy, huh?. We all are well and I do wish him the best as well as her; but as for me and my children, we will stay away from them. Our emotional state depends on that. Thank you for your concern and have a blessed day.

    • @staceynorton5308
      @staceynorton5308 3 роки тому +20

      Be very discerning about what you see.

    • @katalinmcewan
      @katalinmcewan 3 роки тому +12

      @@caroliner2029 I was going to say the same. Have you checked out Dr. Ramani’s channel and Lisa A. Romano’s? I have had a terrible experience and spent the past almost 3 years learning about NPD. I own nearly 30 books on this topic. I love Shahida Arabi’s books and the latest book from Dr. Ramani. I listen to them on audio all the time. I’m sorry you had to go through something so awful! Sending you love and light!

    • @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
      @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD 3 роки тому +11

      @@katalinmcewan these are two amazing channels. I agree. Dr. Ramani and Lisa A Romano have helped lead me to some powerful revelations regarding narcissists and narcissistic abuse.

  • @carolmitchell7137
    @carolmitchell7137 3 роки тому +8

    I too was physically,emotionallly and verbally abused by my ex husband I was so torn. I was a submissive wife but he was so unfaithful. I lost all respect for him. I'm free from him now. Thank God. Don't think I will ever get married again.

    • @tempiedemps5179
      @tempiedemps5179 2 роки тому +1

      May God Bless you when the Blessed man shows up in your life, to know it and accept God's gift Amen

  • @keiexperience6919
    @keiexperience6919 2 роки тому +31

    For a few months I’ve seen you on my timeline and had the nerves to roll my eyes because I’ve had no desire for a relationship… however today I’ve started listening and I’m stuck. Thank you for checking and directing me for when I am ready.

  • @lyssadaqvxxn
    @lyssadaqvxxn 3 роки тому +117

    yea i 100% messed up on who i had a kid with. 😔 y’all pray for my son Elias please, and his father too. 🙏🏼 God bless. praying for every woman here watching this too

    • @lyssadaqvxxn
      @lyssadaqvxxn 3 роки тому +3

      @@lala5061 i’m sorry girl. it really, really, REALLY sucks. 🙁 i’ll pray for you sis 💜 love you so much. hang in there. Romans 8:28

    • @clarissegomez9275
      @clarissegomez9275 2 роки тому

      That's makes 2 of us 😓

  • @fazeelafazal8615
    @fazeelafazal8615 3 роки тому +234

    Love what you said when a man honours his wife and takes care of her, submission is her natural response. When a man treats a woman well she fall in love with him more and want to be closer to him 😊

    • @caroliner2029
      @caroliner2029 3 роки тому +13

      Absolutely!
      When we feel protected, not exploited, but valued, we feel relaxed and excited at the same time.
      The pleasure felt is greater, and we fall in love so completely.

    • @kazadimwamba183
      @kazadimwamba183 3 роки тому +7

      True ,love is reversible not irreversible, when you sowed is what you will reap

    • @bettybartlett5410
      @bettybartlett5410 3 роки тому +1

      XR cuz

    • @louisewilliams9279
      @louisewilliams9279 3 роки тому +1

      @@caroliner2029 p

    • @WarriorQueen1962
      @WarriorQueen1962 3 роки тому +2

      AMEN!!!🙌🏻

  • @user-fr5se1hd2g
    @user-fr5se1hd2g 10 місяців тому +16

    I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS AND THEY'RE ALWAYS WELL WORHT MY TIME. Thank you for all of your knowledge. Spoken like a true king. You and your wife give the rest of us hope knowing that this type of blessing does exist and isn't just in fairytales. Thank you again 💝

  • @cassandranarcisse2915
    @cassandranarcisse2915 2 роки тому +10

    A king does not share! Shout out to you Mr Blakes, you hit the nail on the head.... Preach!!!!! Great message

  • @thommydavis2396
    @thommydavis2396 3 роки тому +292

    Thought it was just me and wouldn’t put it out there. “A woman is happy and polite.” This was so important to me. When I met my wife she was so delightful and respectful to everyone that she captivated me. I said to myself “That is who I want beside me!”

    • @patriciawhite9509
      @patriciawhite9509 3 роки тому +33

      Some men sees that in a woman, and only intend to tear her down.

    • @deewils381
      @deewils381 3 роки тому +3

      💝

    • @gloriousjohnson1807
      @gloriousjohnson1807 2 роки тому +14

      Yes! A MAN 'recognize' a gift from GOD!🙏😉

    • @gloriousjohnson1807
      @gloriousjohnson1807 2 роки тому +18

      @@patriciawhite9509 : PLEASE! DON'T confuse a MAN with a 'pair of pants.'😢👀

    • @patriciawhite9509
      @patriciawhite9509 2 роки тому +7

      @@gloriousjohnson1807 i hear you loud and clear.

  • @valencialundy8857
    @valencialundy8857 3 роки тому +171

    KINGS do not share neither do QUEENS

  • @TytianaBurgess
    @TytianaBurgess 2 роки тому +36

    God led me to your teachings and I look forward to watching your teachings daily , you are the earthly father I didn’t get the opportunity to have to sit down and teach me these important lessons … I was taught the worldy way but now that I am saved woman of God , I feel God has used you to teach me the Godly way 🙏🏾 God bless you Bishop

  • @gertrudebuck366
    @gertrudebuck366 2 роки тому +18

    I TRULY DO LOVE THIS “A MAN CHERISHES HIS WOMAN AND THE WOMAN RESPECTS HER HUSBAND!” THIS INTERTWINES AND GOES BOTH WAYS! HALLELUJAH AND AMEN 🙏🏾
    A MAN IS LOOKING FOR A WOMAN WHO RESPECTS HIM!!

  • @destinythomas2129
    @destinythomas2129 3 роки тому +317

    I’m 22 years old and I’m taking in all this wisdom from your videos, it help me in my journey of becoming of virtuous woman of God, setting the example for my daughter❤️❤️❤️ thank you

  • @harrietthornton5328
    @harrietthornton5328 3 роки тому +188

    Submission is her natural
    Response, so true. My father
    Was that man. My father had
    Standards for us, enforced
    By example and love. We
    Never wanted to disappoint
    Him. We had a treasure in
    Him.

    • @nikbks8637
      @nikbks8637 3 роки тому +14

      You are blessed. My father was argumentative, forceful and angry more than anything else. So I entered into some very abusive relationships with my last one almost killing me. We learn from our fathers. So true.

    • @harrietthornton5328
      @harrietthornton5328 3 роки тому +14

      Thanks for your
      Reply. My father was
      Loving, and taught me
      To take care of myself.
      However he didn't teach
      Me about abusive men.
      Therefore I married
      Not a physically abusive
      Person but emotionally
      Abusive person, because
      They hide they're true
      Selves until after you
      Come to love and trust
      Them. What I am relearning
      Is balance self love.
      Just left the doctors office
      To begin getting my health
      In order to live better.
      I'm on my journey. As soon
      As you can start your
      Journey. I can understand
      The things you may have
      Endured. Their are so
      Many of us who care about
      Our neighbors. I'm
      Your neighbor , don't
      Give up for yourself and
      Those that love you.

    • @gloriousjohnson1807
      @gloriousjohnson1807 2 роки тому

      Amen.🙏💋

  • @nzingahoney
    @nzingahoney Рік тому +10

    Pastor Blakes, you have really helped me to understand my whole disastrous romantic history with this one video. I have always been a queen, but lacked patience because of the dire lack of kings in my circles, in tandem with my biological clock. I am from Trinidad and Tobago, aged 42. I have been a question asker from childhood, a voracious reader and strong thinker, and I was always interested in creating high value children and a high value visionary partnership with their father. I always had a style that was self-respecting; I always felt my body was only to be seen by my king. No booty shots for me, and no decolletage or pum pum shorts, either. But I could never respect or give exclusivity to a man who did not cherish, honour, commit to and demonstrate king-leader qualities both in his own life and with me. I just don't know how to do that. And my boundaries haven't always been clear, especially the older I got. So now I know exactly what work I have to do and I also know what the man who would be my husband must be able, by his lifestyle and character, to inspire in me. Thanks a million. The Force is really strong with you.

  • @lindarichardson2878
    @lindarichardson2878 3 роки тому +20

    Thank you for your teaching. You sound so much like my dad when I was a young girl teaching and telling me what to look for I a man. He passed away at 83 years of age, and I miss so much talking and listening to him. It's like hearing him thru you thank you and your wife. I send this teaching to my 3 sons. Keep it up people need to hear these messages.

  • @fromdoormattoflyingcarpetw407
    @fromdoormattoflyingcarpetw407 3 роки тому +45

    “My spouse represents me better than I represent myself.”

  • @keadearmond5511
    @keadearmond5511 3 роки тому +61

    I finally found my king in Africa.This Queen couldn't settle for less

  • @nikkilong7377
    @nikkilong7377 10 місяців тому +8

    Thank you for this. After my husband passed I have been on the celibacy ride and just chug a long in the life I have been led to. Recently I have been thinking if I were to be in a relationship I want a king. A man who sees me as his partner in life. I have met someone and he seems to have begun to meet my needs. I appreciate your words Bishop.
    I continue to listen to you and I have I trounced him to your videos.
    Love and light to you and your family💜

  • @tonyamarieable
    @tonyamarieable 3 роки тому +13

    This anointed teaching is needed in our church & schools today.

  • @valencialundy8857
    @valencialundy8857 3 роки тому +70

    Just how some women can not handle a king likewise some man can not handle a queen

  • @skylafragrances
    @skylafragrances 3 роки тому +146

    “And another thing I love about my wife.” Ladies isn’t that just so precious?❤️

    • @einotilarashi6178
      @einotilarashi6178 2 роки тому +2

      It is😍

    • @InTheBeginning83
      @InTheBeginning83 2 роки тому +3

      I love to hear men speak well of their wives.

    • @sfcc-itsanewday6389
      @sfcc-itsanewday6389 2 роки тому +2

      Pastor Blake’s be saying “sorry this is my last time talking about my wife”. Me: “Nuh-uh, she got the sauce! We love her!”

    • @InTheBeginning83
      @InTheBeginning83 2 роки тому +2

      @@sfcc-itsanewday6389 we are here for it Pastor Blakes

    • @kelleybright3113
      @kelleybright3113 2 роки тому +1

      Yess the boss loves the queen

  • @19lbrown
    @19lbrown 3 роки тому +7

    I Love the way he Loves his wife!! 💝💝Amen!! A King and Queen relationship!! Let the church ⛪ say Amen! Amen! Amen!

  • @charlenecasoli568
    @charlenecasoli568 2 роки тому +4

    Exactly you’ve got to be a queen to atract a man with integrity

  • @purposedpatience6597
    @purposedpatience6597 3 роки тому +156

    “A great man is governed by his hearts integrity ““ 🙌🏽💯 RC Blake

  • @davinadrayton7269
    @davinadrayton7269 3 роки тому +87

    Representation is everything! This is the message that Monique have been speaking about , woman coming out in public with bonnets and pajamas. It's crazy how she's getting bashed for her message!

    • @n.b.0212
      @n.b.0212 3 роки тому +8

      I seen a woman while out grocery shopping, in boy shorts with both her cheeks exposed 😳

    • @lyhmedia5225
      @lyhmedia5225 3 роки тому +3

      Just crazy... the children you will raise sad commentary about society; she is just stating the truth.

    • @BB-ll2ih
      @BB-ll2ih 3 роки тому +4

      Monica? Says the woman who has an open relationship Yea ok.

    • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
      @durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 роки тому +1

      On point 👍

    • @lindaclark4242
      @lindaclark4242 3 роки тому +2

      @@BB-ll2ih Monique the comedienne not R&b singer Monica but hey yt has been playing on comments/spelling heavy lately

  • @chir401
    @chir401 2 роки тому +22

    Another gem. Thank you for the priceless lessons, Pastor. You are a blessing to us all, especially those who did not have a father figure.

  • @elizabethakalizzy
    @elizabethakalizzy 2 роки тому +4

    36:49 caught me off guard 🤣😭 his sense of humour is priceless like yes he’s serious with the things he’s saying but jokes here and there it adds to the teaching 😂👏🏾‼️

  • @oksanadobryshina76
    @oksanadobryshina76 3 роки тому +64

    I am Russian and I just love all what you saying every day watching 😍

    • @light75777
      @light75777 2 роки тому

      Yes, me too
      It's really a blessing for me to find your channel here, Pastor!

  • @simonswamy688
    @simonswamy688 3 роки тому +35

    For all the people out there always remember couples don't complete each other they only unite in the physical realm it's god and god alone who completes them in an institution of marriage and marriage is not a contract it's a covenant made by him so let's honour it .

  • @DelmarBD
    @DelmarBD 2 роки тому +5

    Mr. Blakes, my father is a great man. The love of my life. But he was not equipped to offer these lessons. Thank you for stepping into the role of father and mentor in this regard. It means the world to me. God Bless you and your family.

  • @allthingspositive4990
    @allthingspositive4990 3 роки тому +18

    This is literally the most sober word and instruction I have ever heard on this subject. Thank you so much for taking your time and including relevant scripture! God bless you!

  • @missladybug9055
    @missladybug9055 3 роки тому +201

    Your ministry❤️is RELEVANT and VERY MUCH NEEDED inside and outside the body of Christ‼️ Thank u Sir. Dallas, TX🙋🏾

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  3 роки тому +15

      Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @paulthomas4569
      @paulthomas4569 3 роки тому +4

      GLORY TO GOD I,AGREE & AMEN!!!

    • @MTortillaKitt
      @MTortillaKitt 3 роки тому +6

      I don’t know what I would have done without Mr. Blake’s, I’m grateful to have found him. So many things learned through his ministry, so much comfort to the heart after we accept what he and Gpd have to teach us. 🙏🏼

  • @chandraanderson8924
    @chandraanderson8924 3 роки тому +66

    Submission is her natural response... I love this!! 💜❤️

  • @carlaarnold1612
    @carlaarnold1612 2 роки тому +19

    Your teachings quench my thirst for knowledge and wisdom and empowers me to practice healthy boundaries. Thank you so much for ministering to my friends and I... you're loved and appreciated ❤

  • @vernareddish3544
    @vernareddish3544 2 роки тому +14

    Thank You !!!!! Pastor you put this Education in Perspective. I am a very humble women who lost her king to covid-19 Nov 5. I know that my heavenly Father will provide me another King. Amen

    • @thehitmaster102
      @thehitmaster102 Рік тому +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss

    • @jklmnoqr
      @jklmnoqr Рік тому

      @verna reddish
      I'm sorry for your loss. I pray that in His time, G-d will grant you a new and worthy king.
      Take care, Barbara 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

  • @travism3307
    @travism3307 3 роки тому +113

    Thanks! Pastor! I really enjoyed this sermon! I have never been Married so I have stopped all things regarding to my own flesh instead I’m waiting on the right woman by the grace of “GOD” waiting on the “LORD”🙏🏽

  • @ritadoran5039
    @ritadoran5039 3 роки тому +64

    I wish more men trying to figure females out and how they feel and need to be treated WOULD watch
    These videos and read your books
    Boom problem solved 💯💯💯

  • @einotilarashi6178
    @einotilarashi6178 2 роки тому +9

    All the way from Tanzania East Africa...listening to your teachings bring out the best in me..thank you may God bless you😇

  • @user-uu7ub5gb6l
    @user-uu7ub5gb6l 2 роки тому +6

    Honestly this is the most incredible and honest talk about women. So many of us (women) forgot about self-respect trying to sell themselves quickly by showing off their body.

  • @lynnmcmillian5137
    @lynnmcmillian5137 3 роки тому +38

    Life is so Beautiful. I gave my life to Jesus when I was 19 and Ive not regretted that, but I have made some wrong decisions along this journey but I will not allow them to define me!

    • @izabelazielak8963
      @izabelazielak8963 3 роки тому

      OMGJESUS!what/\who can fix the problems You have caused for Yourself?

    • @katherlenepatterson5243
      @katherlenepatterson5243 2 роки тому +2

      As we shouldn't let errors in life define us. Live Learn Improve.

  • @cheshahale
    @cheshahale 3 роки тому +157

    This was SO GOOD! If this ain't preparation, I don't know what is. One of my prayers has been, Lord teach us about relationships and how to go about this thing. Well, Pastor Blakes is the voice for this hour and helping us to understand how to present ourselves. He's talking to the KINGS and helping them as well!! "He who has an ear...let him listen, understand, take into consideration!! Thank you Pastor Blakes and Lady Blakes! Appreciate you both GREATLY!!

  • @deerich5198
    @deerich5198 3 роки тому +2

    Thx brother we need these words I am n no way perfect I’m widowed 18 yrs n my king is dead he treated me like the queen I am n I never let a man disrespect me not in the past r today I don’t believe in perusing a man I will be solo long as necessary thx 🙏

  • @georgianakargbo7956
    @georgianakargbo7956 3 роки тому +7

    At 49 just realised my mistakes. Thank you and God bless you for this discussions. High standards and drawing the line

  • @anointed2bnatural
    @anointed2bnatural 3 роки тому +46

    Listen you are hitting everything that needs to be said this day and time!! This is a right now message. And I'm so tired of social media and television teaching us how we should be as women. But they are not teaching us how to be Kings and Queens. My husband and I talk about these things all the time. We are that power couple!

  • @ajack7122
    @ajack7122 3 роки тому +44

    I missed it Bishop in my 20's, but God is opening my eyes and healing me. Thank you.

  • @wisdom1273
    @wisdom1273 2 роки тому +18

    I just had time to listen to this video. All I can say the wisdom in this message is great. Thank you.❤

  • @LeciaLane-ek2cs
    @LeciaLane-ek2cs Місяць тому +2

    My mom is almost 87 and much of what you are teaching was taught to us years ago. She and my dad was married over 50 years before dad died. It would hurt her feelings if dad left the house in dirty, wrinkled or torn clothing..... she always said it was a reflection on her......

  • @angeliquechronicles3579
    @angeliquechronicles3579 3 роки тому +53

    Discerning how woman carries herself it’s plus when she has wisdom like Proverbs 31 wise woman.

  • @bellamocanaturalsllc
    @bellamocanaturalsllc 3 роки тому +98

    This means no bonnets in public😄 Thank you so much for this Pastor Blakes❤

  • @gmartin6033
    @gmartin6033 2 роки тому +8

    This is the first time I have been on your channel and I’m very impressed with the way you explained well. I’m a sixty plus and my mama told me to always respect yourself . I’ve been married to my king for thirty-six years. We are a team and I let him be a great man and share with me our love and be an example for other couples. The children love a good father and mother with great values. You are explaining the biblical words. My husband when we have been in social circles. He would always next his bosses and I would be happy to show him that he has a good wife with morals and respect of him.

  • @vedonnawilliams8357
    @vedonnawilliams8357 2 роки тому +21

    Thank you Pastor Blake. I have been going through a tough time now, but to hear your words are a wonderful expectation to me and to listen to every thing that God has called me to be. I am a woman that has no relationship with any man until God has let me know that he is for me. I can't be the woman I was years ago, that doesn't work for me. I Praise God for you everyday!😇

    • @kwameantwi4229
      @kwameantwi4229 7 місяців тому

      Hi dear hope you doing well take care of yourself okay

  • @nolaclarke253
    @nolaclarke253 3 роки тому +28

    This is some REAL grown folk conversation.

  • @shells6683
    @shells6683 3 роки тому +14

    I like what you said about "A King waits for A Woman that draws the line." Too many women do not have the self-respect for themselves to enforce this. This is good preaching! Thank you for speaking the truth!

  • @corinnebate5181
    @corinnebate5181 2 роки тому +11

    I'm so impressed with you. Your messages are so profound and accurate. Just perfect for this time frame, a message for required learning for happiness.

  • @deemusicbmiscott1576
    @deemusicbmiscott1576 3 роки тому +3

    I WON'T BE SEEKING & LOOKING 4 him!! MY 1st LOVE has to have that Man Find Me, after He has FOUND & Seek GOD,cause WISE MEN STILL SEEK HIM & FIND HIM!! WORD to Every Woman, Don't You Seek Him, by the flattery of your words or your OUTTER adoring & by the way you dress. Let Your godly Character win the Heart ❤️ of the Man GOD has prepared for you since BIRTH! AGREED! Good WORD

  • @childhoodluv
    @childhoodluv 3 роки тому +86

    My reminder is set!.. my mind and ears are OPEN!!!...Lord Jesus help me fully understand the message you've given Bishop to rely.

  • @sharonwilliams393
    @sharonwilliams393 3 роки тому +54

    I seriously thank God for allowing him to use you by teaching us how to be Godly women/ Godly wife.. it’s very well needed. Help me Lord!!!

  • @kblroaychkee8636
    @kblroaychkee8636 2 роки тому +5

    Wow this speaks to my soul. Thank you for pulling me from such a dark place and showing abs teaching me what it is to be a godly woman who deserves a king of a man because I have queen mentality!

  • @wizzerwizly
    @wizzerwizly 3 роки тому +12

    Thank you so much for your words of wisdom and for acknowledging YES WE ARE ON TOP AND GOING HIGHER. This put an even bigger smile on my face.
    When I see one of your videos that I think would be particularly helpful to my children in their own marriages, I always send them out....this is going to all of them. You’ve outdone yourself here. So interesting and so truthful. Thank you again, these reminders are so much needed in this day and age.

  • @davinacarrell2427
    @davinacarrell2427 3 роки тому +39

    My man is fully governed by his integrity. He’s all about his unspoken and sometimes spoken code!

  • @kuaquitaanderson5223
    @kuaquitaanderson5223 3 роки тому +26

    If GOD loves me for who I am, any man he has for me also will.

    • @cadyg2531
      @cadyg2531 3 роки тому +2

      Amen!

    • @royalisrael7475
      @royalisrael7475 3 роки тому +3

      That is true but remember there is the spiritual side also, the devil also can send wolf in sheep clothing that appears to be from TMH God and if we his children do not test the spirit of that man first we sometimes can get blindsided.

  • @chrystalwells1816
    @chrystalwells1816 11 місяців тому +4

    Wow! Wow! Wow! I cannot believe I missed this message two years ago!
    This message was THOROUGH and beyond ON POINT! I'm glad Bishop took his time instead of doing "sound bites!"
    I have to say, this is one of Bishop's best teaching messages. I think many men can learn from this message as well, regarding how a man should want to present himself, showing self respect in the process.
    Hats off to you Bishop! You are so effective with your Queen by your side. Thank you, Black King!
    I pray God continues to anoint you to bring forth many more powerful messages. I am passing this on to many 🙏🏼

    • @janellamurphy4212
      @janellamurphy4212 11 місяців тому

      ON POINT MESSAGE BISHOP BLAKES🙌🏾🎤💙

  • @marjoriemischeaux9337
    @marjoriemischeaux9337 2 роки тому +3

    Such great wisdom. Thank you for assisting us in being our best version in our role as wives. 🙌🏾💞💜

  • @giselleromo1254
    @giselleromo1254 3 роки тому +147

    I cannot express with mere words how grateful I am for all that you have taught me to better myself. You are truly my spiritual father and for this I will always give thanks to God. I wish I could have been blessed to have had a father like you to help guide me as a young girl. Better late than never Bishop and I will ensure my daughter is very familiar with all you have taught me in order to put that crown back on my head and straighten it! Love ya and Beautiful Mrs. Lisa Blake’s -2 beautiful souls Helping millions of people in need of the Lord’s guidance

  • @opalbeach9626
    @opalbeach9626 3 роки тому +26

    Love that, dont come on a Bentley lot looking for a Ford. A King need a woman he can respect and can run things in his absence.

  • @elizabethalexis907
    @elizabethalexis907 2 роки тому +1

    Coming from the heart and
    Soul of a man that has a Queen beside him.

  • @pelagiaholder7622
    @pelagiaholder7622 2 роки тому +6

    This is the first time I am listening to you. I will say that I have been married for 31 years and can say everything you said is on point. I agree Amen.

  • @dennajohnson3177
    @dennajohnson3177 3 роки тому +18

    “ Maybe you’re not supposed to be on this Bentley lot.. Move on to Ford, or Chevy” I love it! PREACH!!! PREACH!! Absolutely Pastor Blakes.

  • @candacesmith5572
    @candacesmith5572 3 роки тому +59

    Its good to talk about your wife it comes from of place of love, respect, and admiration. Never stop we should all recognize when God gives us a treasure.

    • @devine_inspirations
      @devine_inspirations 3 роки тому +3

      Word of wisdom ,this is some good stuff all wife and husband need to know save couples

    • @angelajoseph1983
      @angelajoseph1983 3 роки тому +1

      Tks you Bishop,but some men get married to a woman and still want their mother to be in his life daily some men put their mother before their wives and turn their marriage inside out sad sad sad

    • @angelajoseph1983
      @angelajoseph1983 3 роки тому

      When I was young I built a man older than I made accomplish a lot in life when he became happy and comfortable he turn beast so did I some of them turn are out to be ungratful Human beings you open some men eyes 👁️ and turn their backs to you.

  • @zukiswanhase6289
    @zukiswanhase6289 2 роки тому +2

    I'm super blessed to have listened to this teaching. What a great lesson!
    Thank you, Pastor Blakes 🙏

  • @shirleywiley3440
    @shirleywiley3440 2 роки тому +17

    I really appreciate you and your wife Mr Blakes. I love your teachings, and your teachings are Bible based. I know that some people may get offended, but I know that you are teaching us all the absolute truth. You're only doing what God allows and maybe something that you have experienced or have seen other people experience. I love this teaching because there is strength, and no compromise and that is what we all need in order to be kings and queens, and cannot just except anything in our lives that will hinder real unconditional love, and serving the Lord with spirit and in truth. Also be encouraged Brother and Sister Blakes, and keep up the great work that you have been doing for the Lord. I love you both.

    • @ellafludd6368
      @ellafludd6368 7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you Mr. Blake for such an enlightening video. It made feel so good as a Queen. May God continue to bless you and your family. ❤

  • @wendlinacasey2268
    @wendlinacasey2268 3 роки тому +7

    “God” blessed me with my King of 31 years!!! He passed away in 2018 of ALS… We have 5 grown children that are still finding there way in this world of Kings and Queens 💕

  • @breeze6103
    @breeze6103 3 роки тому +33

    “Kings will never share”

  • @sunshinekitty3618
    @sunshinekitty3618 2 роки тому +1

    I love when you talk about your wife! It never gets old! It'd be nice to see her face!

  • @patriciarobinson9661
    @patriciarobinson9661 2 роки тому +8

    Bishop, your broadcasts are so valuable. I have met someone and really determined to go into this God's way and if he's not ready to reciprocate I will move on.