Karen 3 - Smaland [SLOWED] To Be Loved Is To Be Changed TT

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  • @z6ppa325
    @z6ppa325 Рік тому +77

    that quote “oh to be loved is to be changed” always makes me cry. i have this teacher who was the first person to ever really be nice to me and ever really listen to me and understand me and make an effort to help me out, and it was at a time when i really needed it. ive grown so much as a person because of him. and now that ive grown so much, im not as dependent on him anymore. and i think that speaks volumes about how much he helped me. he helped me so much that now i know how to help myself.

    • @funemis
      @funemis Рік тому +1

      I'm proud of you ❤️‍🩹

  • @alostwitch835
    @alostwitch835 Рік тому +36

    You know what saddens me the most about this saying 'To be loved is to be changed'? It's the fact that I realize I haven't changed... After so many years of struggle with mental health, body image, self-hatred... I haven't changed. I have not made any progress despite the attempts. People from middle school see me and say 'You haven't changed'. Family members say the same, I even say the same when I go to therapy. 'To be loved is to be changed' also means 'To be left out is to rot' and rotting I am indeed.

    • @deadsail95
      @deadsail95 Рік тому +5

      I love you

    • @unfoundederrorsmilk
      @unfoundederrorsmilk  Рік тому +6

      A lot of us struggle with mental health issues but we can do this, times may be hard but don’t give up. ❤

    • @noahferny2644
      @noahferny2644 Рік тому +2

      I've haven't related to something in a long while like this. My heart goes out to you and I hope it gets better for you. ❤ one kindred spirit to another.

    • @fenikkusu98
      @fenikkusu98 Рік тому +1

      I love you homie

    • @souldevourer4526
      @souldevourer4526 7 місяців тому

      Perhaps you can start changing by loving yourself first :) and maybe other doors will open for you

  • @bethellia5704
    @bethellia5704 5 місяців тому +10

    Love can change you terribly or beautifully. Be careful who you let in.

  • @rafaelpresseault7344
    @rafaelpresseault7344 Рік тому +15

    "Nobody truly dies, they always will exist in others' memories"

  • @mrblackandwhite5104
    @mrblackandwhite5104 5 місяців тому +6

    Didn't think i could be loved, life proved me wrong :) ❤

  • @JessicaWilliams-uk1dx
    @JessicaWilliams-uk1dx Рік тому +8

    this song makes me appreciate everything in my life

  • @Tearsinmylegoeyes
    @Tearsinmylegoeyes 2 місяці тому +3

    I remember I listened this exact video (the video was pretty fresh that time) when my childhood dog died.. this video was made a year ago, can't believe it's been that long..

  • @j3nn8f3r
    @j3nn8f3r Рік тому +8

    Everyone you value in your life eventually creates a new piece inside of you, leaving a part of themselves engrained into our beings

  • @ThatoneEva
    @ThatoneEva Рік тому +20

    Oh to be loved

    • @kaitlynnmay3171
      @kaitlynnmay3171 Рік тому +2

      Is to be changed

    • @sunsettropical
      @sunsettropical 11 місяців тому

      Cute pfp

    • @ThatoneEva
      @ThatoneEva 11 місяців тому +1

      @@sunsettropical ty

    • @ThatoneEva
      @ThatoneEva 11 місяців тому +1

      He’s starting to ignore me and not be loving to me anymore like the old times again he’s always online but never talking to me

  • @Willow115.34
    @Willow115.34 5 місяців тому +4

    what a beautiful picture

  • @polly_213
    @polly_213 Рік тому +7

    oh, to be loved is to be changed

  • @RandomNicePerson
    @RandomNicePerson Рік тому +6

    Oh to be loved, Is to be changed...

  • @ThatoneEva
    @ThatoneEva 3 місяці тому +3

    To be loved is to be changed

  • @zimbie_dog_1
    @zimbie_dog_1 Місяць тому

    When I listen to this I feel like I'm at my own funeral 😢

  • @AlfredsBud
    @AlfredsBud 2 місяці тому

    I DIED when listening to this.

  • @sunsettropical
    @sunsettropical 11 місяців тому +3

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @badb666
    @badb666 2 місяці тому +1

  • @MusicANTO-ls9wr
    @MusicANTO-ls9wr Рік тому +3

    tôi biết bạn ở đây.

  • @ThatoneEva
    @ThatoneEva 28 днів тому +2

    Just found out he has cancer

  • @ThatoneEva
    @ThatoneEva Місяць тому

    Baka

  • @LilyXianLovesCat
    @LilyXianLovesCat Рік тому +11

    I'm glad you still post to this day, do you remember me from 2 years ago? Yes, I am still the same person! Please do keep up the good work, I am sorry for not posting for years. I hope we can still enjoy being friends and spending time together if that is possible. 🫠

    • @fenikkusu98
      @fenikkusu98 Рік тому

      Were you able to spend time lately you two?

  • @zimbie_dog_1
    @zimbie_dog_1 Місяць тому

    When I listen to this I feel like I'm at my own funeral 😢

  • @zimbie_dog_1
    @zimbie_dog_1 Місяць тому

    When I listen to this I feel like I'm at my own funeral 😢

  • @zimbie_dog_1
    @zimbie_dog_1 Місяць тому

    When I listen to this I feel like I'm at my own funeral 😢

  • @zimbie_dog_1
    @zimbie_dog_1 Місяць тому

    When I listen to this I feel like I'm at my own funeral 😢