THE SIGNS OF GROOMING
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- Опубліковано 28 чер 2024
- 💎 Wondering what is grooming someone well in this video I discuss about the signs of grooming behaviour and how to avoid grooming. The effects of grooming is significant and it is key we understand the signs when your being groomed, grooming behaviour online happens especially with young people and children which I don't go too depth about however its important we are aware on how to identify grooming behaviour online. Grooming in relationships can happen and in different environments. If you want to understand more on how to avoid grooming then you have come to the right video. I really hope this video is helpful.
** Disclaimer I am not a professional and I do advise to seek help immediately if you are a victim.
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This can be done at any age, even the elderly.
Yes also a good point too
I'm 17 and 5 years ago I met a man around 35 years old on a mlp forum. He took me in as his friend during the worst times of my life. My parents supported are friendship and no one thought it was weird. His friends would gift me things and i felt loved for once. He gave me all the attention I desired. Though there where weird sexual comments I ignored then for the special attention. Today I just had my first complet breakdown over him not responding I broke down crying for over an hour and finally realized how miserable I am without him... I'm extremely dependent on him and im still a teenager.. I feel like my life was robbed from me.. they are my only freind and I feel like there all I have...
So sorry to hear that this has your been your experience I really do advise speaking to a professional about this and remain safe
Very informative and in-depth video. Just wanted to add, I found
groomers often use tactics such as “gaslighting” to justify their actions I.e. getting you to question your reality so they can take advantage of you.
Yes very well said too thanks for adding
Thanks for highlighting this topic,sometimes a person can even be groomed and be unaware of it,and different forms of grooming 💫
You are welcome and yes I definitely agree
This is so helpful. Grooming can be so subtle so it's good to be aware of the signs
Glad it was helpful and thanks for taking the time to watch it
Yup I was blindsided. Never saw it coming. I see the signs now but didn't back then.
This is so important. I see how people are. It can go under the radar.
Exactly
@@OmoladeOkaiyeto Thank you so much for all of the work you do.
I had this sub teacher who subbed for almost the whole year. She got super close with everybody as the cool teacher. She dmed everyone on social but never gave out her number. She made comments to me like “you remind me of my husband” and she would always let me eat lunch in her room even tho it’s against the rules. On the last day of school she asked for my number and was like let me have your phone to put my number in. And then she was like “how far away do you live”
So sorry you experienced this I hope you spoke to your mum about this and reported it to the cops/police.
@@OmoladeOkaiyeto I always feel like I’m over reacting I mean everybody loves her and she has kids and a husband
Thanks for this vid! ❤️🙏🏾
Anytime and you are welcome 🙏🏾
This was extremely helpful and eye opening thank you so much for making this video
Glad it was helpful
Thanks for sharing this video
You are welcome 🙏🏾
Well done Omolade aka Selina.💫👏🏽 I have to share this one.💕🙏🏽 God bless you. Listening to this is just hurting my heart man.🥺God bless you for being a vessel and sharing gems to help others. #mindfulnesstip 👏🏽👏🏽 Listen I can TOTAL relate.🙏🏽 Now I'm out of co dependency on others, I feel totally lost. Don't know what to do with myself sometimes.😆 But small small I am definitely overcoming with God and healthy people.🙌🏾
You are welcome thanks for taking the time to watch it and sharing your experience on co-dependency like you mentioned small steps indeed
Great video !
Thank you so much for watching
Sounds like every relationship I've ever seen?
Oh no
You explained everything in 10 minutes.
you are welcome
I was groomed at the age of 7 and shortly after he started abusing me sexually. I'm glad I've healed from the experience. Thank you for sharing
So sorry to hear that this happened to you and glad you have healed from it as it must have been very difficult.
we need to teach power to our kids... Is beond me why we as parents dont give our kids the power to kids to jump and scream NOOO! stop!, i dont like that, I;m going to tell.... Most predators will get surprissed and stop.... We need to inpower our kids.
Your name sounds beautiful❤
Thank you so much
I'm definitely being groomed
oh no so sorry to hear that but the fact you have come to a realisation that is progress
An ex dropped me off at my place said he was gonna grab something took him an hour and 40 mins to come I felt sick so I took some cough and antihistamine meds I fell asleep. He texted me saying if I had somebody else I could have said that I was not cheating I was sleep he always is supposed to come on but takes more time than should told me it was fucked up I didn't answer. I didn't hear the phone not the door he had plenty time to come I'm not leaving my door unlocked for people. I told him what happened and that he took so long. I locked my door. Said I should have heard him and seen him calling said I should have called to see what happened. I'm tired of being accused like he is trying to reverse the situation on me
Sorry you experienced this and thanks for sharing your experience
I have an male english teacher that gives me attention. And every single attention he gives me, makes me even more attached to him. He makes me feel special & loved. He treats me better as he treats the others.. And someday after school we were randomly talking and my english teacher said "Where do u live?" Or "do u go riding to home,or do u take the bus?" Smh I find it odd that he asked that.. Does that mean that I'm being groomed by that teacher..??😟
So grooming is when someone builds a relationship, trust and emotional connection with a child or young person so they can manipulate, exploit and abuse them, if you feel this happening to you I will definitely advise you to speak to a professional you trust who can help