For the ppl that is loving the "I got rice" tick, it's like her signature one lol, she even sells t-shirts with that phrase and I'm all on it, it's just cool
@@Person_from_the_creek sometimes tics come from random events, no matter how small or big, or even convos. I know this bc my best friend has Tourette’s and for some reason I trigger them a lot so I’ve learned a lot about them lol. But sometimes they come from nothing, other times random events or big important ones. It rly ranges … there’s no set in stone reason for why a person gets the tic that they get
@@5hortStarz yeah true as long as the person in question isn’t angry it should be fine and of the person being the subject of the claim isn’t s affected then what right do the haters have to hate?
My crush has tics; she's adorable and we giggle whenever it confuses the teacher. (She whistles and does the Twitter notification sound.) It's a disorder I recommend researching; I looked into it for Ciel and now I understand her better :))
Go on man, ask her out. If y’all are that close that she isn’t offended when y’all laugh about the tics then you gotta shoot your shot I have facial tics and their the whole reason I’m with my gf, sometimes I wink without thinking and I did it while talking to her and she assumed that I was flirting with her. We also laugh out assed off when stuff happens because my face with just spaz out when I’m stressed
Although, one possible way that seems to be noticeable for some people is when someone seems to have “tics” at the most convenient times. Think for example of the infamous Tics and Roses where they literally make up tics as the situation calls for it. It is unlike Carly here where she consistently has similar tics that she has shown in previous videos and the tics aren’t orderly to specific times.
@@KL-ki8db i have tourettes and mine are completely inconsistent. i've had ppl outside my family say i'm faking my whole life bc they say my tics happens at "convenient" times. (according to them?) i've literally been diagnosed for as long as i can remember. you really can't tell if someone was faking it. someone who is consistent w tics may seem consistent bc their case is more severe. ppl with mild tics who tic less often are constantly told they're faking. if i was a youtuber ppl could see me go hours without ticing n claim i'm faking bc i don't ALWAYS tic and sometimes i do a lot. it's a random neurological condition. pls don't try to find "fakers", it just ends up hurting ppl who rly have tourettes like me :/
@@KL-ki8dbThis is not true, I have Tourette’s so I can confirm that while it is strange for people to suddenly get new tics that are specific to a situation, it’s not weird for a tic to be triggered by something, it’s actually quite common. Just don’t assume if someone’s faking, don’t even try to look for pointers, because everyone experiences completely different experiences. I’ve been fakeclaimed countless of times and even sent death threats because my tics seemed too fake to them and it hurts to see other people have the same thing done to them
@@Kitty_Onl1neI think what they meant was how it was pretty much always new tics and always fit the situation. I’m not too familiar with tics and Roses but I saw a video where someone pointed this out & in 1 clip the “tic” occurred when they were packing and it was them putting a box on their head and saying something like “send me to Canada” which the person in the video (who had Tourette’s) said that it was too bizarre, out of the blue, and conveniently situation specific to have been an actual tic especially since that was the 1st time it had ever happened. I’m not sure if I explained it well I think what they meant was it’s easier to tell when someone is faking if they are badly overdoing it not that tics aren’t ever triggered by situations but if it happens too often that’s suspicious. Idk if that makes sense. Also not trying to tell you you are wrong or not as you have Tourette’s and I don’t so you clearly know more about it than I do. That’s just what I think the person you responded to may have been referring to.
@@rosepuppy1984there was also another instance of them reading a children’s book and after every line they would “tic” a new line that perfectly rhymed. That just…does not happen. They also laughed at most of their tics. Tics can be painful, and the majority of the time, people don’t laugh at them because they’re so used to them, or they can be a bit embarrassed about them. Not covering their mouth laughing.
I have tourettes, and it's so harmful to constantly be nitpicked. I hate that, when I go in public, I'm more scared of some rando yelling at me for "faking" than the physical pain I'm in.
my tics are fairly mild in comparison to most and can be held back okayish, so there's ALWAYS the fear of being told it's fake. despite, y'know, a literal proper diagnosis. respect and trust MIGHT be earned, but there's always a base level you need to offer. this is covered by it. 💖
I also have tourettes and have had people also tell me I'm faking it. It sucks and is something I'm scared about when I'm not at home as well. I don't want people to rudely come up to me and tell me I'm faking tourettes when I'm not. It's similar to telling someone that they don't have depression and or XYZ medical condition. It's not nice and I get Tourettes Syndrome is getting popular on social media but it doesn't mean assume everyone who has it is faking it
@@user-ow1bv6zc2j there are many forms of tic disorders that are not Tourette’s. I don’t have all the knowledge to tell you much about them but I will say what I know. I have Tourette’s and I have tics all the time (although they fluctuate in intensity) But I know that I have a friend who has tics related to trauma from her past. I’m guessing you probably don’t have Tourette’s. But it is likely that you do have a tic disorder.
I don’t have Tourettes, but I have really bad anxiety that can leave me to have bad tics or seizures. Some people really out here saying I’m faking having Tourettes, when I have never once claimed to have it. So thank you for sharing your opinion. :)
Wait question sorry if this sounds rude but I myself have anxiety but never heard of anxiety tics up until now, how exactly do they work and what do they look/feel like? Again sorry if I'm sounding rude but I'm trying to figure out if I have them because I do these sudden movements and I want to figure out if it is normal or not with anxiety.
@@militarycrosssans6983 When I get really bad anxiety tics, it’s usually when my shoulder on my right side jolts upwards, and my head cocks down to hit each other in kinda a rolling motion. If that makes since. Another one is you know how when people nod there head up in a way of saying “What’s up?” My head will do that and get stuck twitching like that for a while. And when I has my NES, it starts with my hands, legs, and head shaking, then my eyes will start vibrating. I’m not entirely sure, because I’ve just recently found out about this. My mom all my life would say “We don’t claim anxiety in this house. It isn’t from God.” And would let doctors test me until recently. So sorry if I give off any misinformation, or explain it poorly. :)
@@inariloli6607 I see thank you, I think I may have them but I'm not sure as I can do like a similar thing but I also have like sudden full body jolts as well out of the blue but more when my anxiety is really bad. Thank you for the information though
When I get very bad anxiety i constantly feel like I need to crack my neck and kinda do a head tilt thing frequently. Im worried i look possessed 😅. But I also mix two thoughts together when talking or doing an action or forget the last 15mins completely then freak out. I also get massive jitters and paranoia and anxiety attacks. Then massive depression. Its scary but also happens worse during my menstrual cycle. Due to hormonal fluctuations. Im also an introvert and cant stand being in public.
I’m not sure what this is for me, but when I’m very anxious, the side of my mouth starts twitching. My eyes also twitch sometimes. And my elbow will jerk around, and my head turns on it’s own usually to the left. My should also does the same thing you are describing. Not sure if it’s from anxiety or what it is. I’ve always been curious though. My face also gets a weird vibrating (?) sort of feeling if that makes sense. Particularly in my cheeks. Any ideas?
faking disorders IS a problem. especially mental disorders like anxiety and depression. people faking it builds a bad reputation and makes it harder for people ACTUALLY suffering from the disorder to open up.
@@nerissarowan8119 Exactly. I feel like no one actually does that, or it's extremely rare. What really prevents people who have it from opening up is bc of other people constantly saying there's people faking it when in reality no one or almost no one actually does that. And yeah I also think there's way more people who fake being okay than the other way around, they often try to fake being happy/okay bc they're afraid of being judged for example "you just want attention" or "you're faking it" are really common things to hear sadly.
@@shaderchase2118I've been around for quite a few years and let me tell you, yes people will most definitely fake anything from a back injury to Tourette syndrome. And yes it's for attention, whether it's positive or negative they don't care as long as they're getting some kind of attention. Used to be a saying, "Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear" These days, you have to believe everything and you're not allowed to question it or you might hurt somebody's feelings, in an age where you can't believe anything you see.
In my opinion, while faking disorders can be a problem if you know the person irl, the bigger problem is the general public assuming that people faking disorders is a problem that general people will have to deal with, thus forcing people with disorders and disabilities to feel like they need to walk around 25/8 with "proof" that they really are experiencing what they say they're experiencing. This is an interpersonal issue that has gotten blown up for some people into a social issue, which has in my opinion made it harder for people with disabilities to connect and organise, as there is a current of suspicion in every interaction. And let's not forget, the most ardent "fake claimers" are usually bullies who are using it as a flimsy shield to excuse their behaviour towards people with disabilities (eg- r/fake disabilitycringe)
@@notlurking2128 fake disability IS cringe, but having the real thing is something that should be taken seriously. I agree with you. It makes people with actual disorders less validated. I've experienced this first hand
Thank you, this is exactly what I keep saying. Unless they’re your personal patient, you literally cannot tell, and pretty much anything you can choose to do voluntarily can be an involuntary tic, the brain is crazy complex!
This is SO true. My kiddo (11M) has TS but it isn't like what you see on TV or in movies. He doesn't have coprolalia. His only complex vocal tics are palilalia and echolalia so the only time he uses any expletives is if he's repeating something someone else has said (as a tic and so far there have been no F bombs). He isn't allowed on social media but if he were, he would absolutely be fake claimed 🙄 it drives me crazy that people who don't live with the disorder REALLY think they know more than those who do 🤦
@@britnytaylor4558 Exactly. And the crazy part is I’ve also heard the exact opposite, “You swear too much that’s not a real tic you’re fake”. I had a very young person with Tourette’s tell me coprolalia was impossible the other day because they don’t have it. People will fakeclaim based on any and everything and it’s usually contradicted by a simple google search. I don’t understand why people think it’s appropriate to tell any disabled person that their disability isn’t real without medical evidence.
@@SystemError1466 right?? And as far as the "let me see the diagnostic proof," my son was officially diagnosed around 4yoa but his pediatrician refused to put the actual word TOURETTE in his medical records - she just referred to a "tic disorder" and said that this was for his benefit because of the strong stigma associated with it and since many children grow out of it, she wanted to wait until absolutely necessary to include it. It wasn't until fairly recently that she kind of "threw in the towel," so to speak, and referred him to a pediatric neurologist because managing his TS and severe ADHD became too complex and was, admittedly, beyond her scope of practice that "Guille de la Tourette Syndrome" showed up anywhere in his medical records. There is so much that these people don't know or could even begin to TRY to understand. The absolute nerve is unreal 🤦
@@britnytaylor4558 I know how you feel, I’ve been trying to get a few different things diagnosed for years, but it’s hard when your parents are abusive and don’t even believe the things you’re already diagnosed with, let alone anything new. I can’t even get my insurance card or social security number from them even though I’m an adult, and I can’t physically do a normal job, so I’m probably not getting to a proper doctor any time soon. These people have no idea what it’s like just trying to get a diagnosis in the first place and it’s infuriating.
(Also I know it’s illegal for them to withhold that information from me, I plan on reminding them of that if they keep “forgetting” like they have been for the past year)
A funny little story I have, years before I was diagnosed with Tourettes I was speaking to someone and I was ticking and they started doing it to, I just tried to ignore us both doing it because sometimes others will have it as a stress thing or anxiety etc, until she said "can you stop doing that? You're clearly faking it just to set me off with Tourettes" she was never diagnosed and only just then in that moment had tourettes and admitted she was faking it to people, she knew about me being in the process of diagnosing (takes FOREVER in my country, was misdiagnosed as a young kid)
YOU ALSO GOT TO REMEMBER THAT TICS DON'T MEAN TOURETTES!! Some people say oh yeah I have tics but then get yelled at for faking it when they could just have tics and not torettes like myself I have tics due to anxiety reasons but I don't have torettes :)
Yeah! I had tics.. it was something I had to figure out, I would make faces without knowing and jeek my head back like she did unconsciously, now I'm able to limit it at times and I'm doing better, at the time when it wasn't something anyone talked about so every time people pointed it out it was strange to me, like I felt my face when I tic-ed but it was something I didn't think about. And I don't have tourettes at all..❤
I really dislike the internet's assumptions that if someone is not visibly mentally ill, disabled, etc. That they must just be faking it for attention. As if these people should not be allowed to create community online. My rule is I'm not someone's doctor and less it's completely obvious they are doing it as some soet or cruel "joke" or spreading harmful misinformation I'll believe them.
Fr the second people see a disabled person not in a wheelchair, or heaven forbid a wheelchair user than can walk 😱, they'll accuse them of lying and faking it. I'm not disabled but I'm so sorry to anyone who has been falsely accused by ignorant or rude people. People need to be educated on different disabilities and conditions, and hopefully more will be.
OMG CARLY THANK YOU FOR THIS cuz honestly it’s so annoying to constantly have people like “oh ur just faking it for attention cuz it’s a trend now” like no i don’t even have tourette’s i have anxiety tics it’s different and it’s real and it’s hard enough to deal with without people calling me a liar when they see it. thank you for spreading awareness, love your content girl keep it up 🫶
I agree! And the same goes for anything else. Depression and Autism are two I see called out a lot that I deal with and if I ever try to defend the person people are calling out on those fake disorder cringe subreddits then I get called fake too. It’s just another way of shutting down ND peoples voices. Don’t face because it discredits people who do have it but also the fault is so much on the people who make it their job to call out “fakers”
Totally agree. Its better to give someone attention for something they don’t have then to go at them for “Faking” cause if they did actually have Tourettes they would probably feel pretty shitty knowing people don’t believe them. Or if you think someone is faking just don’t say anything 🤷♀️
Yes! If you think someone is faking online just hit “don’t recommend” and/or keep scrolling. The culture we have (at least in the US) around assuming lots of disabled people are “just faking it” is super harmful
I heard a little fictional story about a man in conversation with another, interrupted by a panhandler.. The panhandler said they were dying of cancer and homeless, asking if the man had any money to spare.. And sure enough, the man handed him a $20, without question. The person the man was in conversation with said when the person left, “You’ve just been scammed. That person doesn’t really have cancer and they aren’t really homeless.” Unexpectedly, the man exclaimed joyously, “Oh, well that’s great news!” I really like that one. ☺️
@@XOChristianaNicole Yes exactly :) I mean unless someone is asking something from you that could actually put you in a really bad spot you should always give people the benefit of the doubt! You either lose a bit of something or help someone in need.
normal is just another stereotype, like no Patricia if im in a meeting im not going to sit as if looking professional was my whole purpose, im not even paying attention to the actual meeting's topic at that point and rather just thinking "is my posture correct?" "am i smiling okay?" "does my hair look good?" etc. etc.
I love when she tics "I got rice" and flips us off at the same time. It's like flexing that she has rice and we don't lol. Jokes aside, I recently discovered this channel and found it so interesting and educational as someone without the disorder. Keep doing what you're doing and don't listen to dumbasses that doubt you!
"I got rice, I got rice, I'm friendly" had me rolling on the floor💀 No hate to her she's amazing and unstoppable Edit: HOW THE HELL DOES THIS ALREADY HAVE 100 LIKES????
Also, not everyone who has tics has Tourette's. I have anxiety tics. I'm not pretending to have Tourette's, I'm just so anxious my brain short circuits occasionally. It's better to live and let live, than it is to dissect the lives of strangers over the internet. Because, sure, you might be right. But if you're wrong, you've just damaged someone's image and will being for nothing. You can think critically, but still be kind.
Also something to note! Every tic is the same when someone does it so if they do the tic a different way every time they are most likely faking it. Like the "I got rice" tic for example, if you notice, she is saying it in the same voice tone if that makes sense. But, like this person said, be kind to everyone!💗💗
^^^ oh also something else I forgot was after they tic they go right back to what they were doing and don't make it so obvious like "oh did you see I just did that", or "see what I just did?", etc
I agree with your reply but first comment isn’t necessarily true. Sometimes someone can have the same tic in different tones, or can affect it intentionally like when suppressing to tic quietly. As well as other factors that depend on the individual. Like she said, it presents differently for everyone.
This is not true (I have tics) and also I sometimes do the "see what I did" thing around new people so they get used to it/learn what is and isn't a tic (since some of my tics are just normal-ass sentences). So maybe it's best to just follow the advice of this person and not try to act like you can tell.
woahh no way this comment is not true pls don't listen to this. i've been diagnosed with tourettes my entire life and my tics sound different all the time. please stop trying to find fakers of literal neurological conditions! if you aren't an expert on tourettes you can't tell!
don't try to do these things to tell if someone's faking because again these things can vary between people with tourette's. i have an unspecified chronic tic disorder involving a motor and vocal tic and sometimes they vary in intensity or volume depending on a lot of factors
Somebody once saw me stimming (a voluntary movement or sound that alot of people with Autism or ADHD do to self regulate) and assumed that i was pretending to have Tourette's. (I barely knew this person, so they were pretty much just guessing that I didn't have it. They were correct, of course, but still. They didn't know me well enough to know that I have ADHD and Autism and therefore stim because of it). I then had to explain the differences between stims and tics. The thing that confuses me is why anyone would ever WANT to have Tourette's. My brother has it, and it seems like a nightmare to live with. I get that these people want attention, but still. . .
Could you explain further on what stimming is? I’ve never heard the word before, I don’t know that many people with ADHD or autism, so could you explain what it is for me? (Side question, could an example of stimming possibly include something repetitively twitching a part of their body, like their neck or jaw?)
@@CrazyFurby5907 I don't mind explaining at all! Psychology, and Autism in particular, is one of my special interests, so I'm always happy to rant about it lol. Technically everyone stims, even neurotypical people. If you have ever gotten antsy and started tapping your foot, clicking your pen, or twirling your hair, then you've stimmed before. It's just that stims, also known as self-stimulatory behaviors, are a lot more prominent in neurodivergent individuals. (Neurotypical people = people whose brains fit the norm. Neurodivergent people = people whose brains DON'T fit the norm. For example, people with ADHD or Autism.) For Neurodivergent people, stims are normally repetitive movements or sounds, and are done as a self regulatory behavior. Of course, what that means varies depending on which disorder you're talking about. For folks with autism it is a way to manage emotions, such as anxiety, anger, and even excitement. It can also act as a self-soothing behavior, as a way to help fight off sensory overload. (Since you mentioned that you don't know many people with Autism, I'll explain what that is just in case. Sensory overload is when a lot of sensory stimuli, such as loud noises or large crowds, going on around you causes you to feel overwhelmed and overestimated). Common Autism stims are Rocking back and forth, flapping your hands, repeatedly touching your fingers together , blinking really fast, chewing on things, ect. . For example, when I'm happy I shake my hands and make a little "eee!" sound. For people with ADHD, stimming is normally a way to help focus, or a way to let out excess energy. A lot of people with ADHD have trouble sitting still, so stimming can be a way to move without being disruptive. A lot of the sims are the same. Rocking back and forth, pacing, and making repetitive sounds are some examples. Not everybody with ADHD stims, but it is pretty common. A lot of other disorders cause stimming too. Anxiety, for example. Also, to answer your side question: Yes, it could. There are some stims that are more popular, but most people have different stims, and there are no rules on what can and can not be one. When I was younger I had a stim where I would repeatedly pop my jaw. So yeah. I hope I explained it well. Despite personally having both Autism and ADHD, I obviously don't know everything, and so I tried my best to do research. If you have any more questions, I don't mind answering. And if you do want to know more or happen to find the topic interesting, I would recommend doing some of your own research. (:
@@project__insanity I think i have stims. I just didnt know the word for it. I make this clicking sound in the back of my mouth. I think its quiet cuz no ones ever said anything to me about it. A lot of times when i realize im doing it ive already been making a mouth beat unconsciously for like an hour. And i do hand stuff a lot. Im quitting nicotine as of a few days ago. And im realizing that like the physical motions of smoking/vaping and having something in my hand/mouth to manipulate and play with is harder to quit than the nicotine. Its comforting
Okay I have Tourette’s too and I’ve been saying this for years. We have a culture of trying to “spot the fakes” on the internet. Obviously people do fake things like this and it’s gross that it happens, but honestly I think it’s a lot better just to give people the benefit of the doubt in this scenario. I had teachers stand above me in elementary school and tell me to “shut up” and “stop looking for attention” or tell my mom I’m a “hot mess” and need to stop “exaggerating”. I was relentlessly bullied by several kids in the class. I promise that no kid would have faked or exaggerated their disorder like that when they were constantly being attacked for it both emotionally and often physically. I would have given anything to hide it. To have people try to call me out as a fake or attention seeker when I am anything but caused a lot of trauma as a kid. I am working on getting past that fear of being watched, and of being judged. I do have mild ptsd though and am working on it every day. I am doing a lot better now as an adult who can speak up and stand up for myself. But please please don’t accuse others of faking a disorder when you genuinely don’t have any way of knowing. And please don’t fake a disorder, it really really hurts those of us that actually have to live with them.
I stumbled across a channel recently that seems to be hellbent on "exposing" Baylen Dupree as a faker. I remember watching your video about her, and I didn't doubt her condition. It just felt so terrible for this girl just going off on these videos about how bad she's "faking" 😔
@Teknikah I agree don't judge people super fast with these things and maybe you never knew that they actually have tourettes but you think that they're "faking" it because they might not have the really obvious tics but someone could have it.
I love your tick omg “I GOT RICE” 🥰 (Had to edit the emoji cause i finally figured out how, now can you PLEASE stop attacking me in the reply section!? It was a little mistake. Omg.)
And there are other people in the comments who are ACTUALLY making fun of her. Go attack them or something? I literally put the wrong emoji, small mistake.
I have tics due to trauma not tourette's and it usually happens when I'm happy, manic, stressed, sad, basically any intense feelings can cause me to have a tic. Some are normal like hand shakes or head twitching but my real bad one happens when I'm stressed I hit my head really hard repeatedly and sometimes even knock myself unconscious as a result of it. My therapist says it's my brain coping with trauma and I'm doing it subconsciously but I hate that it happens because I don't want anyone to think I'm being insensitive to people with tourette's. It makes me feel like sh!t whenever I have a tic and I tell myself "I'm just faking it" or "I'm doing it for attention" even tho it also happens when I'm by myself, It drives me nuts.
You aren’t doing anything wrong, and it’s not your fault that you have the tics that you do. Subconscious things can’t be helped, especially coping mechanisms for trauma. It must be hard with so many people getting hate because others believe they are faking disorders, but you should try to focus on yourself and your mental health. What you’re going through isn’t their business to be concerned about. Not sure if this helps at all, I’m not the best with pep talks, but I hope things get better for you in any way that they possibly can 😊
I appreciate the way that she closes off the phrases that were ticks So that no one gets confused about what is the actual dialog from the scripted video and what is just ticks
I agree, if they are not spreading missinformation, and just raising awareness, sharing their experience, i wouldnt want to ever assume wrong and make someone feel unseen, or disscredit their feelings, even if they are faking, maybe they are just going about other issues the wrong way. Giving the benefit of the doubt, showing kindness and getting educated on the issue with your own research is what i try to do.
So true. I have Tourette’s and have had it for over 18 years now. I constantly get this question from my friends about videos they see online and this is an amazing answer.
Totally agree! I think the best approach is to make sure the information people provide is good and helpful, you will never know if someone is really faking or what's going on personally but if they claim something debunked about a disorder, for example, you can call that out.
It is harming people outside the community though because of the social contagion of ticks and tourettes. Specific ticks and phrases get "multiplied" on social media that is something that was unheard of before social media like the beanz tick for example.
I just wanna let you know that there’s always going to be someone there for you, having your disability makes you very special, and I understand that It can be hard (even though I don’t have it). I will say it again I’m just letting you know that people are here for you and support you for who you are and not the negatives about you, have a great day😊
The thing is, usually with people who fake it, you are able to tell, amd they usually also, are like a mockery, that spread a false image of what tourettes is, the same applies for autism (I just came from videos that critize the work done on the film Music by Sia, so yeah, it can cause harm, and yes, I am austistic and things like this can be harmful...)
I actually thought the exact same thing. Just have faith in them! Also for anyone who’s interested in learning more about it, there is a book called “the insignificant life of a cactus” it’s about a girl named ave who was born without any arms. She moved and is navigating a new life, while unraveling a mystery of her past. She meets a kid who actually has Tourette’s syndrome. I have no clue if it’s accurate or not, but from what I remember it is! It’s a great way to kind of see more how Tourette’s can affect someone. I will say that I read it for a book club, and all of us (about 8 of us) rated it 5 stars. That’s the only one all of us gave full stars ever, and we have read around 50 books ^^
In my opinion, it's true that you should give most people the benefit of the doubt. However, for my experience around people with tourettes, and those that fake it, an easier way to tell is that tourettes are NOT completely situational. Sometimes tics can be triggered by the situation, but not EVERY tic is going to fit the situation. If someone never tics at an inconvenient time, or only tics when it's "funny" or "makes sense", then they may not really have a ticking disorder. Another one is if someone has a tic that is very obviously painful (such as a hitting or breathing tic) then I automatically assume they aren't faking, since most people who are wouldn't fake a tic like that. But in general, BE NICE. Don't feel like you have to demand proof, or assume everyone is fake until they prove it. All this does is hurt, not help.
No. I'm sorry. This girl needs to be seen. This needs to be the norm. This is exactly it. If all they are doing is raising awareness, leave off. It's like the benefit versus harm argument. There is some harm in the falsifying. To some people. But there is so much benefit in the awareness raised by these people that may be "more entertaining" or already fairly well-known. This is a very important thing to consider. Someone asking for money, using it to go Karen in public, you know, things that are actually causing harmful consequences for others. Those are the people to attack, if you feel the need to be a judgmental dick.....
I have tics but I am undiagnosed with any sort of disorder, (I am young and have not seen a professional) and I have this really weird hiccup tic where its almost exactly like a hiccup but it only happens once unlike hiccups and its so annoying bro
So, I'm not an expert, but from that I know that could actually be a few different things. It could very well be a mild form of Tourette's, but Anxiety and ADHD can also cause tics. You could also have an issue with your swallowing reflex. Keep an eye on the situations that cause you to do that, documents it, and speak to a professional when you're able to do so.
The biggest thing I've seen with people who actually have tourettes versus those who don't is pausing directly after a tick. A lot of people who have been exposed for faking tourettes, if you go back and look at their videos they will take a pause after a verbal tick and then proceeded to continue their thought. Someone who actually has Tourette's does not typically do that and will simply continue on with their sentence as if nothing happened.
As someone with DID i feel this exact way about my community too, often times the people bullying others about their mental health and what they think is real or fake does more harm then anything else
Agree with this one! People can also have tics and not Tourette’s. I have tics that do some things uncharacteristic for Tourette’s and some similar things. If I showed my tics online I’m pretty sure people would think I’m faking because of the bias
Honestly, people who don’t actually have this disorder but is only bringing awareness and just being like “this is what the disorder is, people who has this don’t have control.” Saying things that just bring more attention to this disorder makes it less stigmatized and more like “oh this is what people who have this deal with daily, we should give them some more care and more help then just being rude and ignorant.” Incase if the person curses and immediately are like “oh I have tics and I can’t control it. If i curse or do anything that is rude I’m sorry.” Then they’re very nice and nurturing to be around. (Speaking for a friend who has this disorder, he mainly says ‘beep’ and he’s the most coolest person to be here.)
I get told I'm faking sometimes bc my tics are hella cutesy (meows and little squeaky sounds and shit). It's so weird, like clearly it's not getting me any positive attention? And it's highkey insulting to feel like people think I need to fake a whole-ass disorder to be cute, like I'm adorable with or without my tics.
I feel so bad for people with tourettes, my friend has developed anxiety tic where she'll just shake her head and sometimes go "brrr", or uncontrollably move her fingers, and she said it's starting to get to the point where it hurts Props to anyone dealing with tourettes, you're a lot stronger than I could be.
I don't have tourettes but I have tics. Only realized what they were once my friend who has tourettes mentioned that the things id been calling "bad habits" (because that's what my mom had called them my whole life) behaved a lot like his tics. I brought it up with my mom and did research. Found out tics are common in people with ADHD and I have ADHD and literally fit the examples they gave to a t. I'm going to try to talk to my doctor about it next time I see them or my psychiatrist bc she handles ADHD related stuff but my mom keeps telling me it's uncontrollable but then changes her mind saying it's a bad habit that needs to stop and is annoying so yeah I think I'm gonna try to just go to a doctor rather than my mom who is confusing. But yeah. Every person with tics is different. I tic more than my friend that has tourettes and pointed the tics out but tic less than others. Some people need medication others don't, some have tourettes, some have autism, ADHD, or anxiety related tics (or other things) some say phrases and words will others grunt or swear. It's all different for each person and you can never judge what someone is going through just because it doesn't fit how you perceive it.
Honestly ticks can be really different every time, even just for one individual. Most of my ticks are entirely internalized in my head, but sometimes I randomly have outward ones and then none for the rest of the day, or they last all day. The inconsistency makes it kinda hard to tell who's faking and who's not
@wonderdrop_sparx no i've been diagnosed with tourettes my whole life, tics can absolutely change, my phrases change all the time, pls don't spread misinformation about tourettes :/ you can't tell if someone is faking if you aren't their doctor or an expert on tourettes.
@Crisspy G. that's a tic sound with their tourettes I may not have TS but I do watch some other people that also do have the same thing and I've noticed that this is a very common thing for people that have TS.
I just wonder when the line is passed? Tics and Roses were originally about education too but were revealed to be a faker, when did it become problematic?
I would say the moment T&R appropriated a mental illness for attention is the moment they became problematic. I can educate on a topic all day long without claiming or cosplaying said topic so you're led to believe my "performance" of said illness is what it should look like, or how it should appear.
My bestie has tics and she would always appreciate me standing up for her when people were telling her to stop and I'd be educating them, 4 years later I started having tics when I'd get extremely nervous and she's been helping me through it!!:3
One of the ways I can tell is people with who actually has Tourettes is you can tell they’ve dealt with it most of their life. Like in this video she has tics but she doesn’t stop to comment on them she just continues on with the convo
@chubby dumpling for the record i've had tourettes my whole life but i grew up in a family that shamed me for it so i got into a habit of apologizing for my tics and it's something i'm still struggling to not do. so no, it's still best to not try to tell when ppl are faking, you never know why they are doing that :/
Compassion and kindness are so important when dealing with anyone, especially the disabled. Don't judge us. Think about fun, positivity, and kindness for everyone. Because people who are negative and judgmental are a buzz kill.
@@dischorddynne yeah most people think Tourettes is all making sounds and and cussing. But most of mine are motor. I frown a lot and grunt so people think I'm unfriendly and noisy lol. It's not so bad, I'm grateful that it isn't super severe.
I agree with you on giving people the benefits of the doubt! I have seen this sort of contraversy around "fakers" show up in other communities in the past and to me it always seems that the crusade to harrass all of the fakers away does way, WAY more damage than any of the supposed fakers did in the first place. Its pretty much impossible to know whether someone you have never met on real life is faking something or not, so maybe just mind your own business?
Hi Carly, & ❤ from the UK. There are some people that will train themselves with these, "how to spot......." videos that don't suffer the syndrome to be more deceptive. I myself caught a liar where I talked to someone claiming they had tourettes & they were ticcing all the time with people around. I hid my phone in a room recording secretly while they were sat alone & I left the room for about 10 minutes. I entered the room & they started "ticcing" I let them see picking up my phone & I walked out the room. The phone recorded no tics or eratic movement & they were sat like a person in silent prayer. I entered the room with them "ticcing" again & I gave them a knowing look without saying anything. They immediately fell silent, & looked sheepish. They left the building without uttering a single sound. ❤ to you Carly & I wish you many calm days 😊 I have to disagree with you about fakers not harming the tourettes community, because they do 😮
It's so hard to find good people who have tourettes and aren't faking it recently.. and hard to find who to trust . I just was a tiktoker , I'm not gonna say who , who I really thought had ticks ... But when I looked into their other videos nothing added up and it hard to know who to support 😕
For the ppl that is loving the "I got rice" tick, it's like her signature one lol, she even sells t-shirts with that phrase and I'm all on it, it's just cool
Aww that's wholesome
this is awesome, 700th like
Why rice tho
NOT BEING RUDE I SWEAR IM NOT TRYING TO IM JUST CONFUSED ABOUT THAT TOPIC AND WHY!!
@@Person_from_the_creek sometimes tics come from random events, no matter how small or big, or even convos. I know this bc my best friend has Tourette’s and for some reason I trigger them a lot so I’ve learned a lot about them lol. But sometimes they come from nothing, other times random events or big important ones. It rly ranges … there’s no set in stone reason for why a person gets the tic that they get
Can signature ticks or phrases change to something else - like another phrase
Idk if it’s mean but the “I got rice 😎” was hilarious 😂😂😂
I think as long as the girls not angry by it i don't think it's in kind
@@5hortStarz yeah true as long as the person in question isn’t angry it should be fine and of the person being the subject of the claim isn’t s affected then what right do the haters have to hate?
Yeah I think it’s ok as long as you mean it with good intentions
I don’t think so
Ik
She is friendly because she’s
so kind and compassionate… and because she got rice.
STOP LMFAO
💀
lol 😂
“I’m friendly”
Teal
When someone says I'm hungry and then out of nowhere I got rice.
My crush has tics; she's adorable and we giggle whenever it confuses the teacher. (She whistles and does the Twitter notification sound.) It's a disorder I recommend researching; I looked into it for Ciel and now I understand her better :))
That's so cute, she sounds amazing! I definitely second the advice of learning more, or even watching more channels like ticcing together.
Go on man, ask her out. If y’all are that close that she isn’t offended when y’all laugh about the tics then you gotta shoot your shot
I have facial tics and their the whole reason I’m with my gf, sometimes I wink without thinking and I did it while talking to her and she assumed that I was flirting with her. We also laugh out assed off when stuff happens because my face with just spaz out when I’m stressed
Bro ask her out
I agree with them, shoot your shot
Aww, that’s so cute! Shoot your shot, she deserves someone who won’t be rude about tics! ☺️
I got rice? That's a first for me. Thanks for the giggle.
@@AstrxChaos people can thinks tics are funny they didn’t make fun of it(idk if this sounded rude sorry)
@@AstrxChaos tampon in sideways??? Get some Cracker Jacks already! It just might have a sense of humor in it!!! Have a good day friend!
@@chzyIsAwesome sounded perfect!!! Probably more sensitive than mine.
@LunaLovegoodlover0278 I guess I'm finally somebody with a number like that on a comment.
@@RubenFletcher lmao yours was funny to read and thank you
How to know if someone is faking tourettes: you don't.
Although, one possible way that seems to be noticeable for some people is when someone seems to have “tics” at the most convenient times. Think for example of the infamous Tics and Roses where they literally make up tics as the situation calls for it. It is unlike Carly here where she consistently has similar tics that she has shown in previous videos and the tics aren’t orderly to specific times.
@@KL-ki8db i have tourettes and mine are completely inconsistent. i've had ppl outside my family say i'm faking my whole life bc they say my tics happens at "convenient" times. (according to them?) i've literally been diagnosed for as long as i can remember. you really can't tell if someone was faking it. someone who is consistent w tics may seem consistent bc their case is more severe. ppl with mild tics who tic less often are constantly told they're faking. if i was a youtuber ppl could see me go hours without ticing n claim i'm faking bc i don't ALWAYS tic and sometimes i do a lot. it's a random neurological condition. pls don't try to find "fakers", it just ends up hurting ppl who rly have tourettes like me :/
@@KL-ki8dbThis is not true, I have Tourette’s so I can confirm that while it is strange for people to suddenly get new tics that are specific to a situation, it’s not weird for a tic to be triggered by something, it’s actually quite common. Just don’t assume if someone’s faking, don’t even try to look for pointers, because everyone experiences completely different experiences. I’ve been fakeclaimed countless of times and even sent death threats because my tics seemed too fake to them and it hurts to see other people have the same thing done to them
@@Kitty_Onl1neI think what they meant was how it was pretty much always new tics and always fit the situation. I’m not too familiar with tics and Roses but I saw a video where someone pointed this out & in 1 clip the “tic” occurred when they were packing and it was them putting a box on their head and saying something like “send me to Canada” which the person in the video (who had Tourette’s) said that it was too bizarre, out of the blue, and conveniently situation specific to have been an actual tic especially since that was the 1st time it had ever happened. I’m not sure if I explained it well I think what they meant was it’s easier to tell when someone is faking if they are badly overdoing it not that tics aren’t ever triggered by situations but if it happens too often that’s suspicious.
Idk if that makes sense. Also not trying to tell you you are wrong or not as you have Tourette’s and I don’t so you clearly know more about it than I do. That’s just what I think the person you responded to may have been referring to.
@@rosepuppy1984there was also another instance of them reading a children’s book and after every line they would “tic” a new line that perfectly rhymed. That just…does not happen.
They also laughed at most of their tics. Tics can be painful, and the majority of the time, people don’t laugh at them because they’re so used to them, or they can be a bit embarrassed about them. Not covering their mouth laughing.
“I got rice”
Me too girl, me too
Not funny it's obvious fake
@@mobfox6879no it’s not she has Tourette’s so don’t be saying stuff
I have tourettes, and it's so harmful to constantly be nitpicked. I hate that, when I go in public, I'm more scared of some rando yelling at me for "faking" than the physical pain I'm in.
i have some tick attacks from time to time like once between 1 to 3 to 4 hours idk if it is tourrette's or not
my tics are fairly mild in comparison to most and can be held back okayish, so there's ALWAYS the fear of being told it's fake. despite, y'know, a literal proper diagnosis.
respect and trust MIGHT be earned, but there's always a base level you need to offer. this is covered by it. 💖
I also have tourettes and have had people also tell me I'm faking it. It sucks and is something I'm scared about when I'm not at home as well. I don't want people to rudely come up to me and tell me I'm faking tourettes when I'm not. It's similar to telling someone that they don't have depression and or XYZ medical condition. It's not nice and I get Tourettes Syndrome is getting popular on social media but it doesn't mean assume everyone who has it is faking it
@@user-ow1bv6zc2j there are many forms of tic disorders that are not Tourette’s. I don’t have all the knowledge to tell you much about them but I will say what I know. I have Tourette’s and I have tics all the time (although they fluctuate in intensity) But I know that I have a friend who has tics related to trauma from her past. I’m guessing you probably don’t have Tourette’s. But it is likely that you do have a tic disorder.
You have ticsandroses to thank for that
I don’t have Tourettes, but I have really bad anxiety that can leave me to have bad tics or seizures. Some people really out here saying I’m faking having Tourettes, when I have never once claimed to have it. So thank you for sharing your opinion. :)
Wait question sorry if this sounds rude but I myself have anxiety but never heard of anxiety tics up until now, how exactly do they work and what do they look/feel like? Again sorry if I'm sounding rude but I'm trying to figure out if I have them because I do these sudden movements and I want to figure out if it is normal or not with anxiety.
@@militarycrosssans6983 When I get really bad anxiety tics, it’s usually when my shoulder on my right side jolts upwards, and my head cocks down to hit each other in kinda a rolling motion. If that makes since. Another one is you know how when people nod there head up in a way of saying “What’s up?” My head will do that and get stuck twitching like that for a while.
And when I has my NES, it starts with my hands, legs, and head shaking, then my eyes will start vibrating.
I’m not entirely sure, because I’ve just recently found out about this. My mom all my life would say “We don’t claim anxiety in this house. It isn’t from God.” And would let doctors test me until recently.
So sorry if I give off any misinformation, or explain it poorly. :)
@@inariloli6607 I see thank you, I think I may have them but I'm not sure as I can do like a similar thing but I also have like sudden full body jolts as well out of the blue but more when my anxiety is really bad.
Thank you for the information though
When I get very bad anxiety i constantly feel like I need to crack my neck and kinda do a head tilt thing frequently. Im worried i look possessed 😅. But I also mix two thoughts together when talking or doing an action or forget the last 15mins completely then freak out. I also get massive jitters and paranoia and anxiety attacks. Then massive depression. Its scary but also happens worse during my menstrual cycle. Due to hormonal fluctuations. Im also an introvert and cant stand being in public.
I’m not sure what this is for me, but when I’m very anxious, the side of my mouth starts twitching. My eyes also twitch sometimes. And my elbow will jerk around, and my head turns on it’s own usually to the left. My should also does the same thing you are describing. Not sure if it’s from anxiety or what it is. I’ve always been curious though. My face also gets a weird vibrating (?) sort of feeling if that makes sense. Particularly in my cheeks. Any ideas?
faking disorders IS a problem. especially mental disorders like anxiety and depression. people faking it builds a bad reputation and makes it harder for people ACTUALLY suffering from the disorder to open up.
I don’t think I’ve ever met someone faking anxiety or depression, but I’ve sure as hell met a lot of people who fake not having them.
@@nerissarowan8119 Exactly. I feel like no one actually does that, or it's extremely rare. What really prevents people who have it from opening up is bc of other people constantly saying there's people faking it when in reality no one or almost no one actually does that. And yeah I also think there's way more people who fake being okay than the other way around, they often try to fake being happy/okay bc they're afraid of being judged for example "you just want attention" or "you're faking it" are really common things to hear sadly.
@@shaderchase2118I've been around for quite a few years and let me tell you, yes people will most definitely fake anything from a back injury to Tourette syndrome. And yes it's for attention, whether it's positive or negative they don't care as long as they're getting some kind of attention. Used to be a saying, "Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear" These days, you have to believe everything and you're not allowed to question it or you might hurt somebody's feelings, in an age where you can't believe anything you see.
In my opinion, while faking disorders can be a problem if you know the person irl, the bigger problem is the general public assuming that people faking disorders is a problem that general people will have to deal with, thus forcing people with disorders and disabilities to feel like they need to walk around 25/8 with "proof" that they really are experiencing what they say they're experiencing.
This is an interpersonal issue that has gotten blown up for some people into a social issue, which has in my opinion made it harder for people with disabilities to connect and organise, as there is a current of suspicion in every interaction. And let's not forget, the most ardent "fake claimers" are usually bullies who are using it as a flimsy shield to excuse their behaviour towards people with disabilities (eg- r/fake disabilitycringe)
@@notlurking2128 fake disability IS cringe, but having the real thing is something that should be taken seriously. I agree with you. It makes people with actual disorders less validated. I've experienced this first hand
as a japanese person i am pleased to hear that she also has rice
"I'm friendly" Got me wheezing.
OMG I GOT SO MANY LIKES! THANK YOUUUUU
The "I'm friendly" threw my off the rails. I was not expecting that 😂
I'm friendly made me lose my mind for a hot second it was cute
frrr
It made me sound like a WINDEX bottle, but her tic really spoke on what she wanted to say. From what I see, she’s friendly
@@Rawrjoey for sure! 😅
Thank you, this is exactly what I keep saying. Unless they’re your personal patient, you literally cannot tell, and pretty much anything you can choose to do voluntarily can be an involuntary tic, the brain is crazy complex!
This is SO true. My kiddo (11M) has TS but it isn't like what you see on TV or in movies. He doesn't have coprolalia. His only complex vocal tics are palilalia and echolalia so the only time he uses any expletives is if he's repeating something someone else has said (as a tic and so far there have been no F bombs). He isn't allowed on social media but if he were, he would absolutely be fake claimed 🙄 it drives me crazy that people who don't live with the disorder REALLY think they know more than those who do 🤦
@@britnytaylor4558 Exactly. And the crazy part is I’ve also heard the exact opposite, “You swear too much that’s not a real tic you’re fake”. I had a very young person with Tourette’s tell me coprolalia was impossible the other day because they don’t have it. People will fakeclaim based on any and everything and it’s usually contradicted by a simple google search. I don’t understand why people think it’s appropriate to tell any disabled person that their disability isn’t real without medical evidence.
@@SystemError1466 right?? And as far as the "let me see the diagnostic proof," my son was officially diagnosed around 4yoa but his pediatrician refused to put the actual word TOURETTE in his medical records - she just referred to a "tic disorder" and said that this was for his benefit because of the strong stigma associated with it and since many children grow out of it, she wanted to wait until absolutely necessary to include it. It wasn't until fairly recently that she kind of "threw in the towel," so to speak, and referred him to a pediatric neurologist because managing his TS and severe ADHD became too complex and was, admittedly, beyond her scope of practice that "Guille de la Tourette Syndrome" showed up anywhere in his medical records. There is so much that these people don't know or could even begin to TRY to understand. The absolute nerve is unreal 🤦
@@britnytaylor4558 I know how you feel, I’ve been trying to get a few different things diagnosed for years, but it’s hard when your parents are abusive and don’t even believe the things you’re already diagnosed with, let alone anything new. I can’t even get my insurance card or social security number from them even though I’m an adult, and I can’t physically do a normal job, so I’m probably not getting to a proper doctor any time soon. These people have no idea what it’s like just trying to get a diagnosis in the first place and it’s infuriating.
(Also I know it’s illegal for them to withhold that information from me, I plan on reminding them of that if they keep “forgetting” like they have been for the past year)
A funny little story I have, years before I was diagnosed with Tourettes I was speaking to someone and I was ticking and they started doing it to, I just tried to ignore us both doing it because sometimes others will have it as a stress thing or anxiety etc, until she said "can you stop doing that? You're clearly faking it just to set me off with Tourettes" she was never diagnosed and only just then in that moment had tourettes and admitted she was faking it to people, she knew about me being in the process of diagnosing (takes FOREVER in my country, was misdiagnosed as a young kid)
YOU ALSO GOT TO REMEMBER THAT TICS DON'T MEAN TOURETTES!! Some people say oh yeah I have tics but then get yelled at for faking it when they could just have tics and not torettes like myself I have tics due to anxiety reasons but I don't have torettes :)
Yeah! I had tics.. it was something I had to figure out, I would make faces without knowing and jeek my head back like she did unconsciously, now I'm able to limit it at times and I'm doing better, at the time when it wasn't something anyone talked about so every time people pointed it out it was strange to me, like I felt my face when I tic-ed but it was something I didn't think about. And I don't have tourettes at all..❤
Yeah, I have motor tics lmao
“I got rice 🍚” made my day lol
huh I got rice 💀✨
I really dislike the internet's assumptions that if someone is not visibly mentally ill, disabled, etc. That they must just be faking it for attention. As if these people should not be allowed to create community online. My rule is I'm not someone's doctor and less it's completely obvious they are doing it as some soet or cruel "joke" or spreading harmful misinformation I'll believe them.
@@ghostbusters.... I'm confused how does wanting people to have community and not gatekeeping them cause negative comments?
for real!! people on the internet seem to want everyone with any issue to just spend their lives staring at the wall..
Fr the second people see a disabled person not in a wheelchair, or heaven forbid a wheelchair user than can walk 😱, they'll accuse them of lying and faking it. I'm not disabled but I'm so sorry to anyone who has been falsely accused by ignorant or rude people. People need to be educated on different disabilities and conditions, and hopefully more will be.
We can ticsandroses to thank for that
@@NoahQuinn06 ticsandroses left a huge negative impact for sure, it's infuriating
OMG CARLY THANK YOU FOR THIS cuz honestly it’s so annoying to constantly have people like “oh ur just faking it for attention cuz it’s a trend now” like no i don’t even have tourette’s i have anxiety tics it’s different and it’s real and it’s hard enough to deal with without people calling me a liar when they see it. thank you for spreading awareness, love your content girl keep it up 🫶
I agree! And the same goes for anything else. Depression and Autism are two I see called out a lot that I deal with and if I ever try to defend the person people are calling out on those fake disorder cringe subreddits then I get called fake too. It’s just another way of shutting down ND peoples voices. Don’t face because it discredits people who do have it but also the fault is so much on the people who make it their job to call out “fakers”
Totally agree. Its better to give someone attention for something they don’t have then to go at them for “Faking” cause if they did actually have Tourettes they would probably feel pretty shitty knowing people don’t believe them. Or if you think someone is faking just don’t say anything 🤷♀️
Yes! If you think someone is faking online just hit “don’t recommend” and/or keep scrolling.
The culture we have (at least in the US) around assuming lots of disabled people are “just faking it” is super harmful
@@Just_One_Tree exactly and would and has lead to real word discrimination :/
I heard a little fictional story about a man in conversation with another, interrupted by a panhandler..
The panhandler said they were dying of cancer and homeless, asking if the man had any money to spare..
And sure enough, the man handed him a $20, without question.
The person the man was in conversation with said when the person left, “You’ve just been scammed. That person doesn’t really have cancer and they aren’t really homeless.”
Unexpectedly, the man exclaimed joyously, “Oh, well that’s great news!”
I really like that one. ☺️
@@XOChristianaNicole Yes exactly :) I mean unless someone is asking something from you that could actually put you in a really bad spot you should always give people the benefit of the doubt! You either lose a bit of something or help someone in need.
There’s a kid in my class who has Tourette’s, a lot of people make fun of him. But he’s normal. He’s a normal kid. We shouldn’t treat him differently
@@HiIGuessYa That’s sad. Your class stinks
@@HiIGuessYa That’s so wrong :(
@@HiIGuessYa The only joke is your sickening attitude towards other people.
I'm not normal and that's fine too. Normal isn't superior.
normal is just another stereotype, like no Patricia if im in a meeting im not going to sit as if looking professional was my whole purpose, im not even paying attention to the actual meeting's topic at that point and rather just thinking
"is my posture correct?"
"am i smiling okay?"
"does my hair look good?"
etc. etc.
The fact that you note what is a tic in your subtitles is very helpful.
I love when she tics "I got rice" and flips us off at the same time. It's like flexing that she has rice and we don't lol. Jokes aside, I recently discovered this channel and found it so interesting and educational as someone without the disorder. Keep doing what you're doing and don't listen to dumbasses that doubt you!
"I got rice, I got rice, I'm friendly" had me rolling on the floor💀
No hate to her she's amazing and unstoppable
Edit: HOW THE HELL DOES THIS ALREADY HAVE 100 LIKES????
Literally unstoppable
you're doing alright, she's fine with people finding her tics funny, as long as you're laughing with her and not AT her
"I got rice" and "I'm friendly" are my faves.
How? She can't fucking help that
Also, not everyone who has tics has Tourette's. I have anxiety tics. I'm not pretending to have Tourette's, I'm just so anxious my brain short circuits occasionally. It's better to live and let live, than it is to dissect the lives of strangers over the internet. Because, sure, you might be right. But if you're wrong, you've just damaged someone's image and will being for nothing. You can think critically, but still be kind.
Also something to note! Every tic is the same when someone does it so if they do the tic a different way every time they are most likely faking it. Like the "I got rice" tic for example, if you notice, she is saying it in the same voice tone if that makes sense. But, like this person said, be kind to everyone!💗💗
^^^ oh also something else I forgot was after they tic they go right back to what they were doing and don't make it so obvious like "oh did you see I just did that", or "see what I just did?", etc
I agree with your reply but first comment isn’t necessarily true. Sometimes someone can have the same tic in different tones, or can affect it intentionally like when suppressing to tic quietly. As well as other factors that depend on the individual. Like she said, it presents differently for everyone.
This is not true (I have tics) and also I sometimes do the "see what I did" thing around new people so they get used to it/learn what is and isn't a tic (since some of my tics are just normal-ass sentences). So maybe it's best to just follow the advice of this person and not try to act like you can tell.
woahh no way this comment is not true pls don't listen to this. i've been diagnosed with tourettes my entire life and my tics sound different all the time. please stop trying to find fakers of literal neurological conditions! if you aren't an expert on tourettes you can't tell!
don't try to do these things to tell if someone's faking because again these things can vary between people with tourette's. i have an unspecified chronic tic disorder involving a motor and vocal tic and sometimes they vary in intensity or volume depending on a lot of factors
Somebody once saw me stimming (a voluntary movement or sound that alot of people with Autism or ADHD do to self regulate) and assumed that i was pretending to have Tourette's. (I barely knew this person, so they were pretty much just guessing that I didn't have it. They were correct, of course, but still. They didn't know me well enough to know that I have ADHD and Autism and therefore stim because of it). I then had to explain the differences between stims and tics. The thing that confuses me is why anyone would ever WANT to have Tourette's. My brother has it, and it seems like a nightmare to live with. I get that these people want attention, but still. . .
oh yeah, I do stimming too, it could be anything to making weird noises or just messing with your hands
Could you explain further on what stimming is? I’ve never heard the word before, I don’t know that many people with ADHD or autism, so could you explain what it is for me?
(Side question, could an example of stimming possibly include something repetitively twitching a part of their body, like their neck or jaw?)
@@CrazyFurby5907 I don't mind explaining at all! Psychology, and Autism in particular, is one of my special interests, so I'm always happy to rant about it lol.
Technically everyone stims, even neurotypical people. If you have ever gotten antsy and started tapping your foot, clicking your pen, or twirling your hair, then you've stimmed before.
It's just that stims, also known as self-stimulatory behaviors, are a lot more prominent in neurodivergent individuals.
(Neurotypical people = people whose brains fit the norm.
Neurodivergent people = people whose brains DON'T fit the norm. For example, people with ADHD or Autism.)
For Neurodivergent people, stims are normally repetitive movements or sounds, and are done as a self regulatory behavior.
Of course, what that means varies depending on which disorder you're talking about.
For folks with autism it is a way to manage emotions, such as anxiety, anger, and even excitement.
It can also act as a self-soothing behavior, as a way to help fight off sensory overload.
(Since you mentioned that you don't know many people with Autism, I'll explain what that is just in case. Sensory overload is when a lot of sensory stimuli, such as loud noises or large crowds, going on around you causes you to feel overwhelmed and overestimated).
Common Autism stims are Rocking back and forth, flapping your hands, repeatedly touching your fingers together , blinking really fast, chewing on things, ect. .
For example, when I'm happy I shake my hands and make a little "eee!" sound.
For people with ADHD, stimming is normally a way to help focus, or a way to let out excess energy. A lot of people with ADHD have trouble sitting still, so stimming can be a way to move without being disruptive.
A lot of the sims are the same. Rocking back and forth, pacing, and making repetitive sounds are some examples. Not everybody with ADHD stims, but it is pretty common.
A lot of other disorders cause stimming too. Anxiety, for example.
Also, to answer your side question: Yes, it could.
There are some stims that are more popular, but most people have different stims, and there are no rules on what can and can not be one. When I was younger I had a stim where I would repeatedly pop my jaw. So yeah.
I hope I explained it well. Despite personally having both Autism and ADHD, I obviously don't know everything, and so I tried my best to do research.
If you have any more questions, I don't mind answering. And if you do want to know more or happen to find the topic interesting, I would recommend doing some of your own research. (:
@@project__insanity Thanks so much. I was genuinely curious about the topic, so thanks for helping me understand 😊
@@project__insanity I think i have stims. I just didnt know the word for it. I make this clicking sound in the back of my mouth. I think its quiet cuz no ones ever said anything to me about it. A lot of times when i realize im doing it ive already been making a mouth beat unconsciously for like an hour. And i do hand stuff a lot. Im quitting nicotine as of a few days ago. And im realizing that like the physical motions of smoking/vaping and having something in my hand/mouth to manipulate and play with is harder to quit than the nicotine. Its comforting
I agree especially when falsely accusing someone of faking is extremely harmful.
I fully agree, Why do people care so much if they believe someone that’s faking it, it’s not like your thoughts make any difference to them
Okay I have Tourette’s too and I’ve been saying this for years. We have a culture of trying to “spot the fakes” on the internet. Obviously people do fake things like this and it’s gross that it happens, but honestly I think it’s a lot better just to give people the benefit of the doubt in this scenario. I had teachers stand above me in elementary school and tell me to “shut up” and “stop looking for attention” or tell my mom I’m a “hot mess” and need to stop “exaggerating”. I was relentlessly bullied by several kids in the class. I promise that no kid would have faked or exaggerated their disorder like that when they were constantly being attacked for it both emotionally and often physically. I would have given anything to hide it. To have people try to call me out as a fake or attention seeker when I am anything but caused a lot of trauma as a kid. I am working on getting past that fear of being watched, and of being judged. I do have mild ptsd though and am working on it every day. I am doing a lot better now as an adult who can speak up and stand up for myself. But please please don’t accuse others of faking a disorder when you genuinely don’t have any way of knowing. And please don’t fake a disorder, it really really hurts those of us that actually have to live with them.
I feel this, bone deep.
Thanks for sharing.
I stumbled across a channel recently that seems to be hellbent on "exposing" Baylen Dupree as a faker.
I remember watching your video about her, and I didn't doubt her condition. It just felt so terrible for this girl just going off on these videos about how bad she's "faking" 😔
@Teknikah I agree don't judge people super fast with these things and maybe you never knew that they actually have tourettes but you think that they're "faking" it because they might not have the really obvious tics but someone could have it.
I love your tick omg “I GOT RICE”
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(Had to edit the emoji cause i finally figured out how, now can you PLEASE stop attacking me in the reply section!? It was a little mistake. Omg.)
It might be funny for you but maybe for her it is hard so think about next time ❤
Bro. I literally said i love it. Im not making fun of her, and btw i put the wrong emoji. Like.. can you stop?
And there are other people in the comments who are ACTUALLY making fun of her. Go attack them or something? I literally put the wrong emoji, small mistake.
@@healed._love don’t worry about it. It is funny, Ik ur not making fun of her syndrome but the content of her tics so there shouldn’t be much harm
@@g100myy.y bro idk how
"Just be kind *huh*"😂😂
Keep going❤❤❤
“I got rice!” 💀
As a person who has facial tics and gets a lot of stares all of the time I find this inspiring
I have tics due to trauma not tourette's and it usually happens when I'm happy, manic, stressed, sad, basically any intense feelings can cause me to have a tic. Some are normal like hand shakes or head twitching but my real bad one happens when I'm stressed I hit my head really hard repeatedly and sometimes even knock myself unconscious as a result of it. My therapist says it's my brain coping with trauma and I'm doing it subconsciously but I hate that it happens because I don't want anyone to think I'm being insensitive to people with tourette's. It makes me feel like sh!t whenever I have a tic and I tell myself "I'm just faking it" or "I'm doing it for attention" even tho it also happens when I'm by myself, It drives me nuts.
You aren’t doing anything wrong, and it’s not your fault that you have the tics that you do. Subconscious things can’t be helped, especially coping mechanisms for trauma. It must be hard with so many people getting hate because others believe they are faking disorders, but you should try to focus on yourself and your mental health. What you’re going through isn’t their business to be concerned about. Not sure if this helps at all, I’m not the best with pep talks, but I hope things get better for you in any way that they possibly can 😊
I appreciate the way that she closes off the phrases that were ticks So that no one gets confused about what is the actual dialog from the scripted video and what is just ticks
I agree, if they are not spreading missinformation, and just raising awareness, sharing their experience, i wouldnt want to ever assume wrong and make someone feel unseen, or disscredit their feelings, even if they are faking, maybe they are just going about other issues the wrong way. Giving the benefit of the doubt, showing kindness and getting educated on the issue with your own research is what i try to do.
So true. I have Tourette’s and have had it for over 18 years now. I constantly get this question from my friends about videos they see online and this is an amazing answer.
Totally agree! I think the best approach is to make sure the information people provide is good and helpful, you will never know if someone is really faking or what's going on personally but if they claim something debunked about a disorder, for example, you can call that out.
It is harming people outside the community though because of the social contagion of ticks and tourettes. Specific ticks and phrases get "multiplied" on social media that is something that was unheard of before social media like the beanz tick for example.
You are beautiful carly you are too genuine and honest to be fake
I just wanna let you know that there’s always going to be someone there for you, having your disability makes you very special, and I understand that It can be hard (even though I don’t have it). I will say it again I’m just letting you know that people are here for you and support you for who you are and not the negatives about you, have a great day😊
Tics & Roses did so much damage.😢
The thing is, usually with people who fake it, you are able to tell, amd they usually also, are like a mockery, that spread a false image of what tourettes is, the same applies for autism (I just came from videos that critize the work done on the film Music by Sia, so yeah, it can cause harm, and yes, I am austistic and things like this can be harmful...)
“im friendly”
good to know ur tics are friendly 😄👍
I actually thought the exact same thing. Just have faith in them!
Also for anyone who’s interested in learning more about it, there is a book called “the insignificant life of a cactus” it’s about a girl named ave who was born without any arms. She moved and is navigating a new life, while unraveling a mystery of her past. She meets a kid who actually has Tourette’s syndrome. I have no clue if it’s accurate or not, but from what I remember it is! It’s a great way to kind of see more how Tourette’s can affect someone.
I will say that I read it for a book club, and all of us (about 8 of us) rated it 5 stars. That’s the only one all of us gave full stars ever, and we have read around 50 books ^^
I love that book 😊
My teacher read that to me and the class a few years ago! It's a great book
Seems like people trying to sniff out fakers does more harm than the fakers do.
In my opinion, it's true that you should give most people the benefit of the doubt. However, for my experience around people with tourettes, and those that fake it, an easier way to tell is that tourettes are NOT completely situational. Sometimes tics can be triggered by the situation, but not EVERY tic is going to fit the situation. If someone never tics at an inconvenient time, or only tics when it's "funny" or "makes sense", then they may not really have a ticking disorder. Another one is if someone has a tic that is very obviously painful (such as a hitting or breathing tic) then I automatically assume they aren't faking, since most people who are wouldn't fake a tic like that. But in general, BE NICE. Don't feel like you have to demand proof, or assume everyone is fake until they prove it. All this does is hurt, not help.
The "Huh 🦍 * bang bang *🦍I got rice" and the "Im friendly Huh" ticks had me dying
Love you content 😘 💕
Relatable, I have no control over my actions.
Great point. The way people are OBSESSED with outing people is weird af.
Definitely!!
"I got rice" is the best ive ever seen i love it
No. I'm sorry. This girl needs to be seen. This needs to be the norm. This is exactly it. If all they are doing is raising awareness, leave off. It's like the benefit versus harm argument. There is some harm in the falsifying. To some people. But there is so much benefit in the awareness raised by these people that may be "more entertaining" or already fairly well-known. This is a very important thing to consider. Someone asking for money, using it to go Karen in public, you know, things that are actually causing harmful consequences for others. Those are the people to attack, if you feel the need to be a judgmental dick.....
You are so kind. Thanks for this lovely message it brightened up my day.
The way girl just goes🙄🥴every single minute is CwAzY 🤣
My advice is....
*I got r i c e*
I have tics but I am undiagnosed with any sort of disorder, (I am young and have not seen a professional) and I have this really weird hiccup tic where its almost exactly like a hiccup but it only happens once unlike hiccups and its so annoying bro
do you got rice? since you have tics
@Ky B not everyone has the same tics when they have tourettes
@@fuckincringe oh I wish they had rice tho
So, I'm not an expert, but from that I know that could actually be a few different things. It could very well be a mild form of Tourette's, but Anxiety and ADHD can also cause tics. You could also have an issue with your swallowing reflex. Keep an eye on the situations that cause you to do that, documents it, and speak to a professional when you're able to do so.
I love your channel and how upfront and honest you are about ts
One of the other ways you can tell someone’s faking it, is if they don’t have rice
"I got rice"😂😂😂😂
I wish i had rice 😔
The biggest thing I've seen with people who actually have tourettes versus those who don't is pausing directly after a tick. A lot of people who have been exposed for faking tourettes, if you go back and look at their videos they will take a pause after a verbal tick and then proceeded to continue their thought. Someone who actually has Tourette's does not typically do that and will simply continue on with their sentence as if nothing happened.
"I got rice.*
Just awsome.
He 😈 I got ✨️rice✨️
As someone with DID i feel this exact way about my community too, often times the people bullying others about their mental health and what they think is real or fake does more harm then anything else
Agree with this one! People can also have tics and not Tourette’s. I have tics that do some things uncharacteristic for Tourette’s and some similar things. If I showed my tics online I’m pretty sure people would think I’m faking because of the bias
Her : i got rice
China man : what’s your location?
Honestly, people who don’t actually have this disorder but is only bringing awareness and just being like “this is what the disorder is, people who has this don’t have control.” Saying things that just bring more attention to this disorder makes it less stigmatized and more like “oh this is what people who have this deal with daily, we should give them some more care and more help then just being rude and ignorant.” Incase if the person curses and immediately are like “oh I have tics and I can’t control it. If i curse or do anything that is rude I’m sorry.” Then they’re very nice and nurturing to be around. (Speaking for a friend who has this disorder, he mainly says ‘beep’ and he’s the most coolest person to be here.)
U got rice?
@@mack1735 0-0. U wot m8?
@@sadgirl7321 "i want rice"
@@sadgirl7321 I got rice*
I can't help by wonder if she really does have rice
Nah clearly one of those rice ownership fakers if you ask me
I get told I'm faking sometimes bc my tics are hella cutesy (meows and little squeaky sounds and shit). It's so weird, like clearly it's not getting me any positive attention? And it's highkey insulting to feel like people think I need to fake a whole-ass disorder to be cute, like I'm adorable with or without my tics.
I feel so bad for people with tourettes, my friend has developed anxiety tic where she'll just shake her head and sometimes go "brrr", or uncontrollably move her fingers, and she said it's starting to get to the point where it hurts
Props to anyone dealing with tourettes, you're a lot stronger than I could be.
I don't have tourettes but I have tics. Only realized what they were once my friend who has tourettes mentioned that the things id been calling "bad habits" (because that's what my mom had called them my whole life) behaved a lot like his tics. I brought it up with my mom and did research. Found out tics are common in people with ADHD and I have ADHD and literally fit the examples they gave to a t. I'm going to try to talk to my doctor about it next time I see them or my psychiatrist bc she handles ADHD related stuff but my mom keeps telling me it's uncontrollable but then changes her mind saying it's a bad habit that needs to stop and is annoying so yeah I think I'm gonna try to just go to a doctor rather than my mom who is confusing. But yeah. Every person with tics is different. I tic more than my friend that has tourettes and pointed the tics out but tic less than others. Some people need medication others don't, some have tourettes, some have autism, ADHD, or anxiety related tics (or other things) some say phrases and words will others grunt or swear. It's all different for each person and you can never judge what someone is going through just because it doesn't fit how you perceive it.
I’m sorry but the “I got RiCE is Down right funny” but I respect your Tics 😄
You have no idea how many times i told myself during this reel that I Am NoT A Bad Person ..that “ i got rice” just tickles my funny bone
Ty
One question is, does she got rice?🤣lol
Honestly ticks can be really different every time, even just for one individual. Most of my ticks are entirely internalized in my head, but sometimes I randomly have outward ones and then none for the rest of the day, or they last all day. The inconsistency makes it kinda hard to tell who's faking and who's not
I never heard ur “I’m friendly” tic before :0
Another way to differenciate is (I don't have tourrettes) to see if their tics or phrases change based on the situation, and/or change per se.
@wonderdrop_sparx no i've been diagnosed with tourettes my whole life, tics can absolutely change, my phrases change all the time, pls don't spread misinformation about tourettes :/ you can't tell if someone is faking if you aren't their doctor or an expert on tourettes.
The Asian demon wants to escape
HELP
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is it just me or is she flipping us off- 😂
The only issue with people faking Tourette's is then people assume people who actually have it are faking it aswell.
Oh good, I’m glad you have rice, I was gonna ask if you needed to borrow some 🙃
@Crisspy G. that's a tic sound with their tourettes I may not have TS but I do watch some other people that also do have the same thing and I've noticed that this is a very common thing for people that have TS.
@@CamilaAntelo2004 TS? What are you talking about??
@@crisspyg.9742 It’s tourettes syndrome
@@crisspyg.9742 TS is Tourette’s syndrome. Its the abreaction I believe.
I just wonder when the line is passed? Tics and Roses were originally about education too but were revealed to be a faker, when did it become problematic?
I would say the moment T&R appropriated a mental illness for attention is the moment they became problematic.
I can educate on a topic all day long without claiming or cosplaying said topic so you're led to believe my "performance" of said illness is what it should look like, or how it should appear.
When she started trying to get attention for it
My bestie has tics and she would always appreciate me standing up for her when people were telling her to stop and I'd be educating them, 4 years later I started having tics when I'd get extremely nervous and she's been helping me through it!!:3
Faking a disorder does cause harm to the community
Fake
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Bro liked his own comment and thought he was cool 💀
@@Goawayifyouknowmeong
If it was fake, she wouldn’t have taken medications specifically for Tourette’s while recording it, showing the exact name and the pill on camera.
One of the ways I can tell is people with who actually has Tourettes is you can tell they’ve dealt with it most of their life. Like in this video she has tics but she doesn’t stop to comment on them she just continues on with the convo
@chubby dumpling for the record i've had tourettes my whole life but i grew up in a family that shamed me for it so i got into a habit of apologizing for my tics and it's something i'm still struggling to not do. so no, it's still best to not try to tell when ppl are faking, you never know why they are doing that :/
Compassion and kindness are so important when dealing with anyone, especially the disabled. Don't judge us. Think about fun, positivity, and kindness for everyone. Because people who are negative and judgmental are a buzz kill.
A lot of people dont realize I have simple tics from Tourettes. They just think im being annoying because i clear my throat and whistle a lot.
It's really unfortunate the undereducation about the lesser known syndromes such as Tourettes. I am sorry that happens to you.
@@dischorddynne yeah most people think Tourettes is all making sounds and and cussing. But most of mine are motor. I frown a lot and grunt so people think I'm unfriendly and noisy lol. It's not so bad, I'm grateful that it isn't super severe.
I agree with you on giving people the benefits of the doubt! I have seen this sort of contraversy around "fakers" show up in other communities in the past and to me it always seems that the crusade to harrass all of the fakers away does way, WAY more damage than any of the supposed fakers did in the first place. Its pretty much impossible to know whether someone you have never met on real life is faking something or not, so maybe just mind your own business?
If someone pretends to have a disorder for attention, then there’s a bigger issue that needs to be addressed in that person’s mental health.
I think it can be harmful to fake tics because these people could give yall a bad rep and suddenly its hard to tell who really deserves the respect.
Hi Carly, & ❤ from the UK.
There are some people that will train themselves with these, "how to spot......." videos that don't suffer the syndrome to be more deceptive.
I myself caught a liar where I talked to someone claiming they had tourettes & they were ticcing all the time with people around. I hid my phone in a room recording secretly while they were sat alone & I left the room for about 10 minutes. I entered the room & they started "ticcing" I let them see picking up my phone & I walked out the room. The phone recorded no tics or eratic movement & they were sat like a person in silent prayer. I entered the room with them "ticcing" again & I gave them a knowing look without saying anything. They immediately fell silent, & looked sheepish. They left the building without uttering a single sound.
❤ to you Carly & I wish you many calm days 😊
I have to disagree with you about fakers not harming the tourettes community, because they do 😮
“I got RICE! :D” is so cute
It's so hard to find good people who have tourettes and aren't faking it recently.. and hard to find who to trust . I just was a tiktoker , I'm not gonna say who , who I really thought had ticks ... But when I looked into their other videos nothing added up and it hard to know who to support 😕
I have tourettes too actually and I love everyone that spreads awareness ❤