I'm Accused Of Faking My Tourettes | BORN DIFFERENT

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    A TEENAGER suffers from Tourettes so badly that she has been accused of faking it. Nicole, 14 was diagnosed with Tourettes aged 13 after her mum, Jodie noticed her face and hand tics had developed seemingly overnight. Her vocal tics developed quickly too, and consist of swearing, screaming and whistling, as well as physical arm movements. In moments of extreme emotions, Nicole can sometimes be violent towards herself, scratching and hitting her head. She explained to Truly: “There are moments where you can be really scared, because you don’t know what’s going to happen, or when it’s going to happen.” Nicole also has FND (Functional Neurological Disorder) which means her arms and feet can sometimes lock if her tics get too overwhelming. Despite her diagnosis, a lot of people have accused Nicole of making up her tics for attention, including close family members, and online commenters.
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  • @sin_city_vintage46
    @sin_city_vintage46 2 роки тому +15137

    My tattoo artist has tourettes and most people would never ever let someone with tourettes tattoo them but he does the most beautiful work and it really is all about concentration.

    • @TammieAbusedNotBrokenRecovered
      @TammieAbusedNotBrokenRecovered 2 роки тому +321

      Oh that's awesome!! Do they have a page or channel anywhere?

    • @MSalvadorStudios
      @MSalvadorStudios 2 роки тому +425

      im also a tattoo artist but i have AIDS

    • @coolkidd8807
      @coolkidd8807 2 роки тому +63

      Lmao 😂😂😂😂

    • @user-vn8fm1dp9x
      @user-vn8fm1dp9x 2 роки тому +418

      @@MSalvadorStudios I don’t know if you’re being serious or if you’re joking but umm..ok? ig…

    • @GothboiKenzy
      @GothboiKenzy 2 роки тому +178

      Probably because he’s so distracted from doing something he loves so much he just doesn’t tick

  • @YourOwnDa
    @YourOwnDa 2 роки тому +6378

    Unfortunately there’s a growing amount of teens on TikTok who think it’s quirky to fake tics. It’s pathetic and half of the blame should be put on them, it’s becoming a problem. In fact faking disorders in general is becoming a real problem on social media platforms in general

    • @ChristionGirl45
      @ChristionGirl45 2 роки тому +311

      On TikTok and YT, it's really sad because then people who actually have TS have a harder time convincing others that they do have TS and they are not doing it for clout or likes!

    • @Cupcake_Royale
      @Cupcake_Royale 2 роки тому +133

      no wonder people think that she's faking it

    • @tracylj831
      @tracylj831 2 роки тому +160

      My daughter faked it for a while till I brought it up to her doctor. I new she was faking it but decided to bring the dr in and she how she would react. She denied ever saying she had tourettes.

    • @lathafalls7675
      @lathafalls7675 2 роки тому +80

      @@tracylj831 Oh my gosh u daughter was faking it I’m so sory I hope she never dose that aging it’s not funny 2 fake anything

    • @Yer4you
      @Yer4you 2 роки тому +42

      Those people are evil , they have 0 empathy .

  • @songturd9047
    @songturd9047 2 роки тому +572

    This is what happens when people fake it. Actual people with disorders get accused of faking it. Its so disgusting and disturbing.

    • @fassolhermani5984
      @fassolhermani5984 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/channels/HEKbDIzvjLw_aSOEAAYIpg.html

    • @chloebywater174
      @chloebywater174 2 роки тому +41

      There's no excuse to accuse someone of faking their disability. Yes there are fakers and its unacceptable but the people accusing anyone and everyone of faking are equally harmful

    • @fassolhermani5984
      @fassolhermani5984 2 роки тому +21

      @@chloebywater174 the problem is that stupid tic toc. After a video of someone with tourettes went viral it became 'popular' to have tics etc. People were faking it for popularity en masses, or as a form of Munchausen syndrome. Loads of twitch streamers have been caught out faking disabilities for donations too.

    • @bxbygurlshay6518
      @bxbygurlshay6518 2 роки тому +13

      @@fassolhermani5984 the thing is they don't understand how tics actually work they just think omg I get to cuss and say cute things but they don't realize tics can be dangerous and extremely painful bc I get anxiety tics(not really relevant) and the neck jerks that happen tend to become painful after a while

    • @chloebywater174
      @chloebywater174 2 роки тому +11

      @@bxbygurlshay6518and if they're not painful they can be incredibly embarassing especially swearing tics and strange vocal tics. It can have a serious effect on people's mental health

  • @Swissswoosher
    @Swissswoosher 2 роки тому +197

    I love how she’s throwing insults in the car and her mother just says “Brilliant” cause she’s so used to it. Sometimes laughter is the best medicine. What a brave girl!

  • @toribern816
    @toribern816 2 роки тому +6218

    How shitty that she has to deal with this and not just be a normal 14 yr old. With that said she seems happy and her attitude is so healthy. And mom is a strong and beautiful person. Both of them. Inspiring ✨

    • @justincussell6894
      @justincussell6894 2 роки тому +31

      I’m 13 and have to deal with the same

    • @missprettyschannel
      @missprettyschannel 2 роки тому +22

      @@free_icecream76 that is inappropriate of you to say this wasn`t about her body.

    • @TWEETEY
      @TWEETEY 2 роки тому +15

      She’s amazing I’ve just turned 13 and I have to wait another year to be diagnosed

    • @samg873
      @samg873 2 роки тому +6

      @@TWEETEY really?

    • @John-kb7pv
      @John-kb7pv 2 роки тому +1

      @@mattmartinez2126 Why is it "obvious"?

  • @avalol4913
    @avalol4913 2 роки тому +6020

    She is so pretty and she seems like SUCH a good, funny person. I literally want to be her friend

  • @Fallenintospacey
    @Fallenintospacey 2 роки тому +164

    She is so well-spoken for someone so young. Respect to her and her family

    • @Alexis_005
      @Alexis_005 2 роки тому

      She’s British. Americans teens don’t know how to put a sentence together. They use a lot of filler words “like” “uh” they are stupid. Go ahead look up American teens talking

    • @AcantostachaLichtmesz
      @AcantostachaLichtmesz 9 місяців тому +1

      Beautiful lady. And how she can move!

  • @tourettessyndromemamallama8767
    @tourettessyndromemamallama8767 2 роки тому +65

    We literally just had someone call Child protective services and accuse us of faking our daughters Tourette's syndrome... which was so ridiculous. Luckily we have a great support system. But it was such a stressful thing to go through. Thank you for coming forward with your story, I was inspired and we decided to come forward with ours.

    • @tourettessyndromemamallama8767
      @tourettessyndromemamallama8767 2 роки тому +7

      doll honestly the worst part was the anxiety it caused my daughter and the tics were so much worse. It was a really bad week.

    • @bxbygurlshay6518
      @bxbygurlshay6518 2 роки тому +1

      Omg now that was just over stepping right there

    • @ravenwithcall8527
      @ravenwithcall8527 2 роки тому +8

      I can’t tell you how much my blood boils from reading your story. The fact accused you of abusing your child because they were ‘faking tourette’s’ is absolutely sickening. Even if that were the case they called miscalled CPS instead of consulting you. I have so many words I’d love to say about these immature cowards but it would make this reply too long. I pray that your family will never ever have to deal with nonsensical legal troubles ever again.

    • @papermoon5517
      @papermoon5517 2 роки тому +3

      Wow, that's just vile. I'm so sorry that happened to you.

    • @tommyparker8722
      @tommyparker8722 Місяць тому

      But they might be right because you just don't develop the disorder you have to be born with it

  • @misstarrah408
    @misstarrah408 2 роки тому +3298

    My heart broke when her mom started crying. As a mother myself we want are children to be happy and healthy. Nicole looks both!! They have found a healthy way to deal with tourettes as a family and it's beautiful thing!! I applaud them all!! Much love from California!! ❤

    • @lucasnoah7094
      @lucasnoah7094 2 роки тому +2

      Hello Tarrah

    • @misstarrah408
      @misstarrah408 2 роки тому +3

      @@lucasnoah7094 Hello!!

    • @qopkornz
      @qopkornz 2 роки тому +1

      @@misstarrah408 I’m also from California wooo! ❤️

    • @z0mbi3btch88
      @z0mbi3btch88 2 роки тому

      Oh man I hope the mother doesn't blame herself..

    • @linziRyan1965
      @linziRyan1965 2 роки тому

      I teared up thinking of my daughter developing something like that

  • @cautneyonyema3167
    @cautneyonyema3167 2 роки тому +1791

    I crackled so loud when she said “it’s the being fat for me “”to her mother 😂😂😂

    • @brazyybratt7168
      @brazyybratt7168 2 роки тому +80

      it’s the girl in the backseat for me 😭😭

    • @timiyisiabarnes5670
      @timiyisiabarnes5670 2 роки тому +10

      😭😂😂😂😂I died lol

    • @juanmoraesx
      @juanmoraesx 2 роки тому +5

      😭😭

    • @avatiede1512
      @avatiede1512 2 роки тому +4

      I follow people on tiktok who have Tourette’s and they sometimes say funny things like that

    • @caitlinsnyder1979
      @caitlinsnyder1979 Рік тому +1

      me too the mom didn’t even care either she was just a little shocked😂😂

  • @ty-ksrabbithole9035
    @ty-ksrabbithole9035 2 роки тому +4

    I'm so thankful to these kind of videos, I didn't knew anything about Tourettes before watching a tv show with a person affected by it and then I got more interested in it and kept me informed through internet and I'm happy people's speaking about it and normalizing it... I've got a couple of friends with tics (not Tourettes though) and I think it's because of these videos that the first time I met them I recognised they were just having tics and everything was okay since they were not hurting themselves, just a bit "noisy", and I just need to give them their time, not finishing their words or watching them weirdly and well, I just think that awareness is important for people affected and for people around them, thank you for sharing your stories with us.

  • @T_Eighteen
    @T_Eighteen Рік тому +8

    These people have given me confidence to actually seek professional help with my tics. Now on the waitlist for Neurologist. These guys have been inspirational. The one thing i find the most frustrating is of course, all those on Tik Tok and UA-cam creating content to mock those with Tic Disorders (including Tourette Syndrome), it just isn't fair on those who actually have it.

  • @dieunabeynnon3978
    @dieunabeynnon3978 2 роки тому +2601

    Is no one going to talk about how perfect her eyebrows are

  • @BreeTheV
    @BreeTheV 2 роки тому +4228

    I'm not laughing at her condition at all. But when she said "it's the being fat for me" at her mother I broke down laughing. Tiktok tics? That's wild

    • @jaidynp1702
      @jaidynp1702 2 роки тому +33

      @@emmakay6721 they aren't tics, your just saying it because it reminds you of it, don't self diagnose

    • @cerysjones363
      @cerysjones363 2 роки тому +265

      @@jaidynp1702 how do you know she isn’t diagnosed? I have tics and I’m diagnosed but I haven’t had them long enough to be diagnosed with tourettes!

    • @nancyvillarreal8059
      @nancyvillarreal8059 2 роки тому +306

      @@jaidynp1702 How are you gonna tell a stranger online that they're self diagnosing based on ONE sentence about their experience? If you don't know that something like that can 100% be a tic, then you aren't educated enough to be talking.

    • @gabrxael
      @gabrxael 2 роки тому +168

      @@jaidynp1702 You seriously commented this under a video about people telling a girl that she is faking her tics. What is wrong with you.

    • @msfrizzleswap
      @msfrizzleswap 2 роки тому +33

      @@gabrxael exactly

  • @beckywilliams4941
    @beckywilliams4941 2 роки тому +13

    It’s so unfortunate that there are people who fake their “Tourette” for attention whilst there are people who have to deal with it on a daily basis.

  • @epilepsyawareness2020
    @epilepsyawareness2020 2 роки тому +4

    It kind of bothers me when the lady said “I haven’t noticed the tics because when she’s dancing she forgets” I have a lot of people that tell me stuff like this, like I’m probably not ticcing as much because I’m concentrating not because I forget. It’s not a mental thing, you can’t forget

  • @confused_mortal
    @confused_mortal 2 роки тому +1331

    It’s really sad thinking that people are saying that she’s faking it. Especially with a bunch of people actually faking Tourettes and other disorders like autism, ADHD, depression, ect. To be quirky and different than others and doing so by essentially making a trend out of real things that people struggle with. There actually are compilation videos of people faking things for attention, like “Oh listen to this you may have ADHD 😳😳😳” as a person with actual ADHD the reactions to it are awful like ADHD does not mean that you have a seizure when you listen to a song that gets louder, it’s not a quirky trend that is just kicks and giggles. If you’re reading this don’t fake things for views you’re not “cute” “quirky” “different” you’re just someone who wants attention and to be different so if you want to stand out please don’t fake things to get the attention, you could always do good and get positive attention through good and honest ways. And to anyone who’s reading this have a nice day ☺️💖

    • @JunaidWolf3
      @JunaidWolf3 2 роки тому +55

      People told me I was faking having autism even kids in my grade told me I was faking but at age 20 I was finally diagnosed and I have to say this “just because u knew me all my life doesn’t mean u know what’s going on in my head”

    • @linziRyan1965
      @linziRyan1965 2 роки тому +11

      Amen

    • @Rachel-xg7hs
      @Rachel-xg7hs 2 роки тому +29

      Because of all the fake disorders that people create for attention, I no longer believe people in real life when they say they have ADHD, depression, OCD, or really anything else. How do I know they’re telling the truth? Especially if they say it in the middle of a class discussion with the professor and entire rest of the class listening in. Like they probably just want sympathy so they’ll get help and extra points on assignments, because poor them, their “disorder” causes them to turn in bad homework. I feel like if I believe them and give them a shoulder to lean on and support, then I’ll be the dummy in the end when it comes out that they were faking and I was sucked into the lie and gave them all the attention they wanted. I don’t openly accuse people of faking haha, I just assume in my head that they are lying and stop associating with them so much.

    • @lyla_eq
      @lyla_eq 2 роки тому +13

      I have bad anxiety and I do think some people believe I'm faking. I'm not faking at all but my mom doesn't bother taking me to the doctors and actually find out what's wrong but sometimes in movies when music goes from quiet to loud i freak out and have an anxiety attack. Most of the time I randomly can't focus which causes an anxiety attack. I also have times where I have to touch everything around me I can't help it I just have to. So it makes life really hard and it looks like I'm faking cause my mom doesn't bother with diagnostic therapist of course she has no mental health disorders.
      I also have random moments where my full body shakes and my mind goes blank. It's like I got out reality for 2 seconds.

    • @AyDotHam
      @AyDotHam 2 роки тому +9

      I feel the same way (I also have have ADHD. My sister and I get it from our father.)

  • @chloelouise8292
    @chloelouise8292 2 роки тому +1456

    That’s my bestie right there!!! Proud of you spoon. (Nicole) strongest person I know has the purest soul and inspire me everyday to embrace my tics and to just get on with it ♥️ you have so much support behind you look at all these lovely comment xx

  • @Xplodyboi
    @Xplodyboi 2 роки тому +30

    As dancer with a tic disorder I’ve been watching and supporting Nicole from the beginning and I’m so proud of how far she’s come no matter what

  • @sbushby9800
    @sbushby9800 2 роки тому +4

    Such a wonderful relationship between you both. Great that you bring this difference to people's attention and how it may change your life but doesn't stop you enjoying life. Two wonderful, inspirational people.

  • @mysticookiebear
    @mysticookiebear 2 роки тому +607

    I went to HS with a guy that had Tourette's. While at a Barnes N Noble, a really cute girl walked by and when he saw her he screamed out "Sex! Want SEX!" and the whole cafe went silent.......I still think about it 2-3 times a year

  • @jodielorraine4653
    @jodielorraine4653 2 роки тому +536

    She's so inspiring , my son has Tourette's and also finds dancing and music a welcome relief , thank you for spreading awareness and sharing your story 🖤

    • @matthewgates7775
      @matthewgates7775 2 роки тому +6

      For me, it's singing that really helps. I was in choir for several years, because when I was singing, I seemed to not really tic at all. I still sing while doing certain tasks, because by focusing on the singing, it somehow helps my brain not fire incorrectly.

    • @natashlaarx
      @natashlaarx 2 роки тому +4

      Hi! My son is 6 and has had vocal tics for a few years now. He is just starting with motor tics (that ive noticed) any advice for learning to live with it etc? Thank you x

  • @Juliuscurving
    @Juliuscurving 2 роки тому +3

    Aw she’s so sweet I love her.
    Ugh I feel for people like this. Such sweethearts, and it must hurt a lot for the parents and friends, because they truly love her. She seems like such a funny spirited girl.

  • @itszenbaby
    @itszenbaby 2 роки тому +5

    One thing I’ve realised having friends with Tourette’s syndrome is that it can be triggered or amplified by stress. Some days are quiet enough where you can cope with minimal interruptions and other days are so overwhelming you just want it to end. We all have good and bad days. Although there is no cure, you can take medication, go to therapy, or spend more time doing hobbies you enjoy to take your mind off of the stress causing your tics to amplify.

  • @loafbread244
    @loafbread244 2 роки тому +606

    Society sucks. People on social media say that "Gen Z thinks they're so quirky faking tics" so much that they say that to people who actually have tics. Gen Z thinks they're so quirky accusing people like that.

    • @versalgraphics
      @versalgraphics 2 роки тому +28

      Some people do fake tourettes tho

    • @katmat294
      @katmat294 2 роки тому +64

      @@versalgraphics Yeah but accusing everyone gen zer of faking tics is bad. Stereotyping is horrible thing to do.

    • @BoomBoom-bq9xj
      @BoomBoom-bq9xj 2 роки тому +18

      I’m apart of Gen Z and it sucks
      People start making fun of us bc of how “dumb” us gen z people are
      But the real dumb people ruined gen z

    • @Soniclengen
      @Soniclengen 2 роки тому

      Like James Charles

    • @Sophw32202
      @Sophw32202 2 роки тому +8

      not all gen Z say that people are faking tics even when they have tics. I have learning difficulties and a physical condition also so nicole going through Tics and being 14 years old girl. she gets bullied for having tics on tik tok

  • @stitch4988
    @stitch4988 2 роки тому +191

    When she starting watering her hair and her mom told her she wasn’t a flower I thought it was hilarious and she is so inspiring and she’s so PRETTY

    • @Ryder18339
      @Ryder18339 Рік тому

      Sameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

    • @saladfingers.
      @saladfingers. 10 місяців тому

      She's not really

  • @seatherny_y
    @seatherny_y Рік тому +16

    Her mom is a goddess for being so supportive and amazing and helpful. its beautiful to see their connection.

  • @kennedyb8225
    @kennedyb8225 2 роки тому +3

    i used to have severe tourette’s when i was in 4-6th grade, it started to die down in 7th grade. and i’ve grown out of it by now. people often like to accuse me of faking tourette’s, when i never did. people can grow out of it! i’ve had rumors spread about me at school, i’ve been bullied online, i’ve been made fun of. all the things. it’s honestly unfair, i’ve lived with this since forever, and now that i’m finally better people just want to assume. here’s a tip, unless you’re their doctor, mother, or them yourself, don’t assume they’re faking their tics because you really never know. it’s truly impacted my life negatively because of what people have said to me. they called me a liar, a faker, and much more that i can’t say on youtube. it’s honestly unfair because i can’t do anything about it. if i try to come out and explain my issue, people will think i’m doing it for attention. stop assuming. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @kennedyb8225
      @kennedyb8225 2 роки тому +2

      i also have adhd, if i go around saying i have adhd it’s not because i’m trying to get attention. i’ve been diagnosed. i just simply want people to know my conditions so they can feel more comfortable with me and my flaws, and to let them know i’m not going to judge them for theirs. people like to just go straight to “attention seeking” and “faking”, but i’m really trying to make something good out of a bad situation. these kinds of things aren’t something we should be ashamed of because we simply can’t help it, instead of shaming people who come out and let everyone know, support them!

  • @kaushiksarkar6715
    @kaushiksarkar6715 2 роки тому +657

    Good bless this kid ,she has a strong mother and she is also strong .. she will be a great person in future I'm sure ...

    • @casscat7
      @casscat7 2 роки тому +15

      she definitely will! and she's so inspiring...

    • @IFARTED09
      @IFARTED09 2 роки тому +1

      I am sure she is gonna become a great dancer

    • @Tomboyy9818
      @Tomboyy9818 2 роки тому

      You mean God** bless this kid

  • @Notanymore343
    @Notanymore343 2 роки тому +164

    My 8 year old has Tourette’s and I am so proud of her for sharing her story. It’s not an easy one to tell, especially when people can be hurtful.

  • @bats1312
    @bats1312 2 роки тому +10

    I think with the main problem with the whole “You’re faking it” situation is that some people are too quick to assume that everyone with Tourettes or some kind of tick disorder is faking it for attention. Its clear who the people that are being honest are, since faking something like Tourettes is hella difficult to do accurately. But instead of trying to call all the fakers out and give them more attention, we should just not encourage this toxic mindset that *everyone* with Tourettes is being dishonest. Its very harmful.

    • @chloebywater174
      @chloebywater174 2 роки тому +2

      I agree 100 per cent. Everybody is talking about the fakers and how they harm people who actually do have tics.
      I wish the people who accuse anyone with tics of faking were held responsible for being ableist and making assumptions. The fact a small number of people fake it is no excuse. These people are more harmful than the fakers they keep going on about yet they think they on the moral high ground

  • @lizamarie9180
    @lizamarie9180 2 роки тому +2

    I think you’re amazing for sharing your story to build awareness. It’s never easy doing so because of the trolls🙄 They’re everywhere! Don’t let them get to you! Laughter is the best therapy!! Always be you and never try to change😍😘

  • @BeautyandDiBudget
    @BeautyandDiBudget 2 роки тому +112

    Can we just acknowledge how beautiful her voice is??? Wow...

  • @christiedawn7663
    @christiedawn7663 2 роки тому +75

    I noticed that people with tourette's try harder than the average person because we refuse to give up on ourselves with our tics. We turn out to be really great people that know exactly what suffering is because we live our life with it everyday. Thanks for sharing her life.

  • @MrJasa89
    @MrJasa89 2 роки тому +10

    She is thinking so maturely for her age. Love the support that she gets from her family, im sure that makes all the difference! :)

  • @slothlover_53
    @slothlover_53 Рік тому +2

    My mum has got FND after banging her head 8 years ago and she almost has tic like fit within her FND. She is fine most of the time other than when she is triggered by certain things like loud noises, temperatures and bad fatigue. Seeing you having something similar really helps me because I have really struggled as young child when she first was diagnosed (paramedics thought she had had a stroke and so was rushed into hospital where she was diagnosed with FND) and as a teenager seeing my mum in pain. Thank you so much for your work Nicole even if you never see this comment.

  • @Br0th3r7
    @Br0th3r7 2 роки тому +287

    "you're not a flower" her mom just has a great sense of humour ^^

    • @bombinatii514
      @bombinatii514 2 роки тому +19

      @dachshunds channel that’s an awful thing to say. Absolute troll

  • @azuradawn5683
    @azuradawn5683 2 роки тому +492

    As a channel that posts so much about people with disabilities, it would be really nice if these videos were more accessible... I just tried watching this with the subtitles and they're SO bad. It doesn't cost much at all to have someone write captions for videos. I'm not deaf/hoh but I know so many people who are, and this video would be completely unintelligible if you needed to rely on the captions exclusively. "Tourettes" is literally "dress" at one point in the captions, and some of the dialogue isn't captioned at all... Please do better!

    • @nickysimpson98
      @nickysimpson98 2 роки тому +25

      I agree, I use subtitles a lot because I have difficulties hearing what’s being said if I’m unable to lip read. I just hope this channel pays attention and listens to us and improves its accessibility for people who watch the channel!

    • @jeanakatherine9369
      @jeanakatherine9369 2 роки тому +35

      @Kay K She said it jst fine, she wasn’t rude at all! They should of been thought about this! They should do better

    • @JillyBean_1987
      @JillyBean_1987 2 роки тому +8

      @Kay K what do you want her to do? How is there a way to say things more "politely"? If you think she's being rude, I would hate to see what you think about someone who's being a total d*ck. Maybe you are very sheltered, idk, but all she did was tell the truth...also, advocating for a marginalized group when they don't have to sounds pretty polite to me! IJS 🤷

    • @ziam1a
      @ziam1a 2 роки тому +1

      @Melissa Micheal I totally agree since I can see that my deaf sister is struggling to understand so I would have to translate things for her in BSL, and she wants her independence but sometimes she needs me. she can lip read and stuff but on videos it’s hard

    • @diganta22
      @diganta22 2 роки тому +2

      I had watched her story on my snapchat story and found her on UA-cam as well

  • @chloescorner5663
    @chloescorner5663 2 роки тому

    Nicole! I've been looking for this for ages! Your tiktoks are amazing. You're so amazing for doing this love

  • @user-tm9br1sh4k
    @user-tm9br1sh4k 2 роки тому +15

    Her family is so caring 🥺

  • @poppymorrison9445
    @poppymorrison9445 2 роки тому +75

    I think what I learnt from being educated abt Tourette’s , is that Tourette’s doesn’t stop you from doing normal everyday things , it just changes how you do them and it’s so inspirational to see 💗

  • @ajrowley3907
    @ajrowley3907 2 роки тому +395

    I follow her on tiktok and she is such an inspiration to many people and she is an amazing young woman

    • @justagirl4150
      @justagirl4150 2 роки тому +2

      What's her tiktok

    • @oceanview2965
      @oceanview2965 2 роки тому +7

      @@justagirl4150 I just typed in, "Nicole tourettes," and it brought it right up for me 😊.

    • @charlottecaster3766
      @charlottecaster3766 2 роки тому +1

      Me to shes amazing how much hates she gets is awful but honestly she deals with it insanely well and to be going through such a hard condition at that age and dealing with it as well as her she is incredible

    • @crazyscottishlad2772
      @crazyscottishlad2772 2 роки тому +2

      Inspiration to all

    • @SkysjoS
      @SkysjoS 2 роки тому +1

      She goes to my school

  • @NoYesJess
    @NoYesJess 2 роки тому

    Shes so sweet. The whole family seems genuine and supportive. Love to see it!!

  • @Auric-BraiNerd
    @Auric-BraiNerd Рік тому +2

    I'm a child neurologist. I study and diagnose people with tics all the time and I'm really glad that people like you exist for them to feel less alone and to hear your strategies for dealing with it.
    We have seen a huge transformation recently in who is getting tics. It used to be an illness mostly of young school-aged boys and more recently it's been associated with teenage girls quite a bit more.
    I'm sorry people have doubted you or called into question your experience. There is a fundamental misunderstanding of what functional illnesses are. Functional does not mean there's nothing wrong with you It just means that luckily the anatomy of your brain looks okay to most of our modalities that look at anatomy but clearly there is a disconnect between structure and function Where it's not working correctly despite looking okay to our best tools available today. A) that doesn't mean we won't discover more tomorrow to explain it but B) even if the wiring really is totally fine It doesn't mean that the software can't have some issues.
    FND is often the body's response to a stress via a network that is connected in a way that it shouldn't be (the brain shutting down walking in a time of stress makes no sense but that's what happens to people sometimes. It's like butterflys in the stomach when going on stage. Why should your stomach hurt from anxiety? That makes no sense but we all accept that as common.) Tics are sometimes similar. They are a feeling deep down that you need to do this thing otherwise something bad will happen or the pressure will build until you pop (like your awesome shaken soda analogy 😊). Why should yelling or moving your arm or scratching yourself relieve that pressure? Idk it just ... DOES and you're just doing your best to cope with that impulse and you're doing it with grace. I'm glad you found that dance can distract you from the urges and lessen your tics. That's wonderful and I wish all my patients would have the insight into themselves to find something that works for them.
    "Tick tock tics" is what we call a sociogenic illness people see ticks from an influencer and end up doing similar movements themselves. It's not on purpose it's not malicious it's not an attempt to gain popularity It's just a quirk of our amazing brains having mirror neurons that respond to the behaviors of others in this way. Mirror neurons are potentially why we can catch a yawn , Or perhaps why seeing someone else vomiting makes us want to vomit. They are why watching someone else dance even without trying to learn can still improve your own dancing, Your own edge can be improved by watching someone else scratch theirs, perhaps most interestingly or useful is that there's some research to show that simply watching someone else breastfeeding can increase the milk output of the person watching! The brain is an amazing organ and it is incredibly complex and in that is beautiful but it is also fragile and one of the ways that you can break down is by copying what it sees. Young women are more empathetic and there are ideas that perhaps they are more likely to have more robust mirror neuron responses and are therefor more prone to syncing up with others who have tics.
    Anyway, I'm not saying this at all too worry anyone or invalidate your experience. I just say this because the word tick tock tick has been weaponized to tell people that they are " faking it" when it's really not their fault at all. Our brains just DO THAT. Someone who yawns because someone else yawned also isn't faking the yawn.
    I of course know nothing about your case and there may have been the number of other factors at play (some sort of injury, birth related difficulty etc but whatever the circumstances, I think you are exceedingly brave strong and once again really helping people out there feel less alone and helping people understand ticks as much more than just the cursing disease. I wish you much luck and the reassurance that ticks do tend to get less significant over time. People find more subtle outlets for their pent up energy that leads to the tics and off in the urge gets less significant over time as well. Keep up the good work and keep laughing because at the end of the day the things you're doing and saying are pretty silly (though still potentially quite painful and disruptive/debilitating). You're a fighter, you got this 👏

  • @katherinemolinari6305
    @katherinemolinari6305 2 роки тому +23

    She seams like a really sweet young girl with a positive attitude, when your dealing with so much as a young teenager.

  • @BornAScout
    @BornAScout 2 роки тому +24

    I've had a physical tic since I was 7 or 8 and I hate dealing with only one. She's so awesome for smiling and keeping her positive attitude while having all of her tics.

  • @aca2410
    @aca2410 2 роки тому

    Good for you!
    Takes a lot of strength to not care what others think and to share your story to help others.

  • @johnlambert4756
    @johnlambert4756 Рік тому

    Unfortunately there will always be those that accuse us of o faking our tics. I've dealt with it quite a bit over the years. I've learn to just smile at them and say "bless your heart" and move on with my day.

  • @rainrainlsn
    @rainrainlsn 2 роки тому +52

    When she talked about dancing, I really cried. This is amazing

  • @1122reddog1
    @1122reddog1 2 роки тому +211

    Your an inspiration to many young people around the world that face adversity and challenges in their life. Thank you for sharing your story 🙂

  • @caleb_.scottt5603
    @caleb_.scottt5603 2 роки тому +2

    I have had Tourette’s syndrome for about a year now but I’ve had tics my whole life I was misdiagnosed at a young age with adhd instead of Tourette syndrome I’m still in the process of getting diagnosed fully. I used to be super self conscious and try to hold them in until I couldn’t it’s honestly super upsetting when I see other people my age fake Tourette’s because in all honesty it sucks u get stared at all the time and people act like u have a disease. Watching Nicole and other people who have Tourette’s has made me more confident and not feel so alone
    Personally I have never posted anything on my Tourette’s for the exact reason I’m too scared to deal with others so when I see others do so I think it’s so amazing I hope one day in the future this disorder along with others will be taken seriously instead of mocked

  • @l.12345
    @l.12345 2 роки тому +7

    When I went to see a show with a friend last month, there was a young man two rows behind us who had Tourette's. He made all kinds of sounds throughout the whole show. I'm really glad nobody complained, because he can't help himself and he knows that, which must already be hard enough, he doesn't need uneducated and rude people in his life as well.

  • @candya1040
    @candya1040 2 роки тому +859

    To those that believe she is faking it…that is rude and pathetic. She is a beautiful person and should be supported through this instead of criticized. You are beautiful just the way you are Nichole.❤️😊

    • @thedailyshaver1171
      @thedailyshaver1171 2 роки тому +31

      @R FBI Open Up!! She's underage

    • @krissykemp105
      @krissykemp105 2 роки тому +2

      Why do i have a feeling she tried to commit suicide 🤔🤔🤔

    • @Cupcake_Royale
      @Cupcake_Royale 2 роки тому +8

      ikr, it's not a thing that you should fake. So why would she be faking it?

    • @khachapuri
      @khachapuri 2 роки тому +44

      @@Cupcake_Royale it’s because some people have been faking it online

    • @Cupcake_Royale
      @Cupcake_Royale 2 роки тому +11

      @@khachapuri ya mostly on tiktok. It's to get some sort of attention.

  • @sahunna6969
    @sahunna6969 2 роки тому +26

    I’m glad she’s shedding light on the situation and helping others understand what it is and how it’s affecting her in more than one way. ❤️. Stay strong!

  • @jellysystem2362
    @jellysystem2362 2 роки тому

    I relate to this so much, you never know if you’re gonna hurt yourself or others, you never know if someone’s gonna maybe even beat you up

  • @le_rhx
    @le_rhx Рік тому +1

    I love there TikTok so much and it’s really lovely to see that Nicole doesn’t let the trolls and haters get to her very much! I really love them

  • @maamajamma
    @maamajamma 2 роки тому +13

    I love that she has such an amazing family who loves and supports her. I feel like making light of the situation is a good way to gain back control over something that is uncontrollable. Nicole seems like such a sweetheart. ❤️❤️

  • @lilijacobsen8183
    @lilijacobsen8183 2 роки тому +6

    This video has truely brought me to tears. I am going through this situation minus the fnd, I really relate to this. thank you for this content, I have sent it to the people in my life who really needed to watch this to be able to better understand my world.

  • @melxdik687
    @melxdik687 2 роки тому

    aww i feel so bad for you but have a good life support and love all people !

  • @cleoanastasiaskylar1110
    @cleoanastasiaskylar1110 Рік тому +1

    So many get accused of faking Tourette’s Syndrome, just because they think they want attention. It must be a tough life of getting accused and living with this syndrome. You have so much confidence to open up and share with the world:

  • @abiandshandy
    @abiandshandy 2 роки тому +119

    The people that actually have them are accused of faking but the people that are faking get all the sympathy.
    Edit: I actually heard a girl confess willingly that she was faking

    • @VitalMusic217
      @VitalMusic217 2 роки тому +1

      And this one is getting all the sympathy

    • @abiandshandy
      @abiandshandy 2 роки тому +12

      @@VitalMusic217 dude I don’t know if this is like you being mean but my sister has it and it’s not a joke

    • @VitalMusic217
      @VitalMusic217 2 роки тому +1

      @@abiandshandy Your sister feeds from clout on TikTok showing off her tics?

    • @abiandshandy
      @abiandshandy 2 роки тому +17

      @@VitalMusic217 no. I’m saying she has them. Use your brain

  • @casscat7
    @casscat7 2 роки тому +14

    i hope she gets better! and im happy that she has an outlet (like dancing) that helps her have fun, concentrate, be herself, and.. not have her tourette's bugging her. i hope she will be okay, it sounds like it would be so not fun at all to live with

  • @kiranmahilange9
    @kiranmahilange9 Рік тому +3

    If a person says they have disability I'll choose to believe until proven otherwise....even if it means I'm a fool. Because accusing someone of faking who actually has such condition is worst.

    • @milla12060
      @milla12060 Рік тому +1

      Yes! That's exactly the mindset people should have! As someone who has the disorder and has witnessed fakeclaiming countless times, fakeclaiming is a way bigger problem than the supposed "growing number of teens faking the condition" which I've personally never seen with the one exception being tics & roses

  • @xjustapersonX
    @xjustapersonX 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this. Videos like this help me feel more ok with my tics

  • @rosewalterx3426
    @rosewalterx3426 2 роки тому +20

    She’s so strong and I can’t believe how amazing she copes with it she’s an inspiration ❤️

  • @Coplandcalm122
    @Coplandcalm122 2 роки тому +4

    She is so sweet the poor thing. I love her mom and her sister. The way they help and try to kind of keep things funny it is so heart warming.. But the hurting herself is heart breaking. Love you guys!!!!

  • @liv3vvluv115
    @liv3vvluv115 2 роки тому

    She’s such a beautiful girl, so strong too :((. It’s terrible that people have to go through this

  • @akaFloof
    @akaFloof 2 роки тому

    Thank goodness for this brave young lady raising awareness for this debilitating condition x

  • @laurac4384
    @laurac4384 2 роки тому +4

    I discovered her on TikTok - heartbreaking to watch her struggle sometimes but she’s such a beautiful soul and how anyone can say she’s fake or is just beyond Me! 🤯 Keep being you Nicole because you’re amazing! 🥰

  • @justinn9342
    @justinn9342 2 роки тому +34

    I hate that people are accusing her…

  • @NpcBunny
    @NpcBunny Рік тому

    Omg she's such a positive sweetheart! I absolutely adore her!!

  • @athaya2992
    @athaya2992 2 роки тому

    i applaud her for being brave to share her story 🙌 good luck for her in the future!

  • @Fantabbydozy2608
    @Fantabbydozy2608 2 роки тому +12

    Aww she’s a beautiful, articulate young girl. I feel like she has a good soul and will do well in life with or without tics.

  • @CEB731
    @CEB731 2 роки тому +61

    It is totally obvious that she is not faking. Beautiful young lady..

  • @toddhoward7649
    @toddhoward7649 2 роки тому +4

    I've gone to school with her for the past year but I only just found out she was in this video. She's a really nice person.

  • @silvia2010kc
    @silvia2010kc 2 роки тому +1

    She’s so sweet omgg bless her soul

  • @palomapadilla7351
    @palomapadilla7351 2 роки тому +6

    It’s really sad the way many people get attacked for having real disabilities ,while you have other people faking it.

  • @amichellep82
    @amichellep82 2 роки тому +7

    You are so beautiful! Your mom is just an amazing woman that has raised you to be the exact same. Which is why you’re handling it all so very well. I love when you said “I hope there’s a cure, but if not then just get on with it really.” You’re so positive and your British accent is “spot on”. LOL I am from Texas so I just think British accents are the coolest. Anyways… keep being so inspiring and wonderful. Never allow anything to stop you.

  • @theresasimmons9007
    @theresasimmons9007 2 роки тому

    What a beautiful young lady. Prayers for a bright future☺️❤

  • @leaALDC
    @leaALDC 2 роки тому

    Thank you for helping my cousin feel more comfortable with her tourette syndrome and she said thank you because everyone thinks she's always faking and they call her fake her and they say she's crazy but now you made her feel more comfortable you helped my cousin so much she's even more comfortable with posting it on her account you helped her so much if anyone is ever mean to you they're just jealous

  • @tammymccray5689
    @tammymccray5689 2 роки тому +30

    My daughters started after she was prescribed prozac. She also gets told she is faking it for attention. Or that she only does it when people walk in the room. Hers gets worse if she becomes anxious or over stimulated.

  • @sarahk4047
    @sarahk4047 2 роки тому +6

    I wish her all the best ❤️ such a beautiful, loving, supportive family

  • @HeFischi-ok4xj
    @HeFischi-ok4xj 11 місяців тому

    Hi, Nicole, watching a documentary about you on TV here in Germany. You are so a happy, funny, beautiful young woman. Go on like you are showing it on "Unbelievable me". I love it to see you laughing ... All the best to you!!

  • @Klowning_Around
    @Klowning_Around 2 роки тому

    I love how amazing this girl is and it's so sad that people think she's faking and it is becoming a problem of people faking this stuff somone I know fakes anxiety and ADHD I know because her mom said she doesn't have it and I don't think they realize how much it hurts people that actually have this its very heart breaking 💔😔

  • @moonbeammountain9352
    @moonbeammountain9352 2 роки тому +4

    I follow you guys on tictok and you are all so so strong! I cant believe its only been 16 months, you guys handle it so well for such a short time! Love to you all!

  • @rachiexxx7332
    @rachiexxx7332 2 роки тому +6

    I clicked on this video as soon as I saw her gorgeous face I was one of her first followers on TikTok and seeing her makes me so happy she’s inspiring and doesn’t deserve the hate she gets 💕

  • @nigelvernau6962
    @nigelvernau6962 Рік тому +1

    U r perfect don't lison to anyone u r amazing iv had a hard time all 19 years of my life as I'm autistic so don't lison to the haters lots of love for u keep ya head high ❤

  • @sandy15523
    @sandy15523 10 місяців тому

    Awww, poor girl! Sending love to her and the family 😘😍😘😍

  • @leslie-annjones5321
    @leslie-annjones5321 2 роки тому +6

    You are such a beautiful young lady and I'm glad you are rasing awareness. Your mom and you are very strong to deal with this, don't take people seriously,some can be mean for no reason. I've never met anyone who has this but I really hope it can get to a point where you can deal with it judgement free. Bless you sweet girl 💚💜❤️💙

  • @Mommyboo339
    @Mommyboo339 2 роки тому +15

    Love this girl she's so positive. And she has an amazing mom.

  • @Kailanilock
    @Kailanilock Рік тому +1

    Watching this makes me choke up. I am 16 years old and was diagnosed with Tourette’s at 14. I have never heard someone explain it so similar to how I deal with it. I have people tell me I’m possessed and should just die but watching this makes me want to keep going even though people think I’m different.

  • @isabellarodri4561
    @isabellarodri4561 2 роки тому

    I love this video it really shows that you can be yourself always! I have tics too and I did therapy and within 2 weeks I was getting better.

  • @user-gl4qw6ow4b
    @user-gl4qw6ow4b 2 роки тому +6

    Its hard.. stay strong gal! Everything is gonna be ok!❤

  • @julialiles9234
    @julialiles9234 2 роки тому +15

    What a beautiful, sweet, lovely, funny, smart girl!! Massive love and hugs to you and keep dancing girl!!! God bless you as you learn to cope with such a drastic change, your maturity and positive attitude should be a huge influence on your friends and family

  • @pttaekwondo
    @pttaekwondo 2 роки тому +3

    I'm so glad FND is being talked about. I've had it since I was 12

  • @Gaystavo_
    @Gaystavo_ Рік тому +2

    I also have tics ( not Tourette’s ) and this is so inspiring to not hide mine. It’s painful and I have to hide things from people. Not many people in my life think they are real cause they just appeared one day (like hers) and I was scared and I had a idea what they were and then people started faking.

  • @courtney_marie_paull
    @courtney_marie_paull 2 роки тому +4

    I loved this so much! Thank you for raising awarness! You're all amazing! 🥰
    We see you Nicole and we love you! 💝

  • @michaelnichol3089
    @michaelnichol3089 2 роки тому +43

    CAPITALS DUE TO PARTIAL SIGHT AND REDUCED COGNITIVE ABILITIES
    I’M 67 I HAVE EPILEPSY, LIKE YOU I EXPERIENCE ALLEGATIONS OF PRETENDING.
    THOSES WHO DO THIS HAVE NO ROOM IN OUR LIVES.
    KEEP STRONG LOOK FORWARD AND LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULL.
    YOU ARE SO INSPIRATIONAL THANKS MICHAEL

    • @Ruby-xk8kn
      @Ruby-xk8kn 2 роки тому +3

      I BELIEVE YOU, FRIEND, WISHING YOU HEALTH AND HAPPINESS!

    • @Dreamskater100
      @Dreamskater100 2 роки тому +1

      @@Ruby-xk8kn That's so sweet Ruby.
      I wish the same Michael.

  • @Zxzzxxzv
    @Zxzzxxzv 2 місяці тому

    Awww she's so cute and sweet. People need to be more forgiving and understanding.

  • @lightskinneishaa3902
    @lightskinneishaa3902 2 роки тому +2

    She’s so brave 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼