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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  4 роки тому +440

    👉 What is your type?
    ⚡Get a free 30 day free trial of Audible with a free audiobook at www.audibletrial.com/FJ 🙌
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  • @taurusdragon4763
    @taurusdragon4763 4 роки тому +5253

    Type 5: Delusional, cynical and unsociable
    Me : *Never before have I been so offended by something I one hundred percent agree with*

    • @rini9325
      @rini9325 4 роки тому +36

      SAME

    • @mariobros7834
      @mariobros7834 4 роки тому +99

      5 is clearly INTJ

    • @rini9325
      @rini9325 4 роки тому +122

      @@mariobros7834 no,not always technically any mbti can be 5,intjs,intps,entps are more commonly fives. I'm an infp 549(my tritype) . You haven't done your research on enneagram. 5s are more than just nerds,frank made this video to make people aware of the most obvious traits of each enneagram. He didn't even cover 2% of what a five actually is. This is just a starting point for people who don't know what enneagram is.

    • @taurusdragon4763
      @taurusdragon4763 4 роки тому +66

      @@mariobros7834 I'm INTP

    • @lesliemoo
      @lesliemoo 4 роки тому +23

      "Eccentric nerd"; I felt that.

  • @MaharoMaharo
    @MaharoMaharo 4 роки тому +3392

    Broke: Enneagram is a tool to understand yourself better and how you could develop onwards in life.
    Woke: Enneagram is for when you've seen all the mbti memes and posts.

    • @essem4979
      @essem4979 4 роки тому +280

      Bespoke: Enneagram is just another excuse for my actions

    • @ihateyouall7026
      @ihateyouall7026 4 роки тому +51

      Samuelx01 no it’s a conclusion to all of your actions.

    • @neoculturetakoyaki4612
      @neoculturetakoyaki4612 4 роки тому +28

      DONT CALL ME OUT LIKE THAT

    • @jessiejang6512
      @jessiejang6512 4 роки тому +14

      Who are you xNTx mate? 😂😂😂

    • @mashedpotatoes5957
      @mashedpotatoes5957 3 роки тому +23

      @@jessiejang6512 most likely just any xNxP, those are the best at spectacularly wasting their time (as said by one)

  • @BigFanOfCocks
    @BigFanOfCocks 3 роки тому +2667

    “Huh it looks like I don’t have a typ-“
    *”They have no opinion”*
    “There it is”

    • @bedheadead
      @bedheadead 3 роки тому +45

      you've read my mind °^°

    • @sillyme7395
      @sillyme7395 3 роки тому +63

      It's quite the opposite for me, i felt that i have a touch from each type, especially four and one, but it's because we're central, it looks like we're the weakest ☹️💔is it bad or am just overthinking about it!

    • @BigFanOfCocks
      @BigFanOfCocks 3 роки тому +49

      Silly me well yeah that’s what i said: when you have a 9, you try to relate to all the enneagrams. But because of that, most of the time you ignore your own opinion. (Like for me i’m a 9w8)

    • @j.i.n.e.d.m.a4777
      @j.i.n.e.d.m.a4777 3 роки тому +9

      @@sillyme7395 omg same! I'm really confused between being an 1 or 4... Both have so much from my personality and I'm really stressed out trying to know who i really am lol... Overthinking about it in other words

    • @themiddleones11
      @themiddleones11 3 роки тому +13

      It's like I'm a 9 without the fear which is weird

  • @noeditbookreviews
    @noeditbookreviews 3 роки тому +1545

    "75% of statistics are made up off the top of people's heads." Lol that was good.

    • @Phialla
      @Phialla 3 роки тому +7

      Lol. I wanted to leave the same comment.

    • @thesparks00
      @thesparks00 2 роки тому +15

      It's 78%
      Loljk

    • @fpsproductions6073
      @fpsproductions6073 2 роки тому +23

      The funny thing is, by saying that, your saying another statistic. So it must be made up, but maybe the first one was made up... its an endless cycle

    • @lucasdavies8268
      @lucasdavies8268 2 роки тому +12

      42% of people know that.

    • @rcmm8625
      @rcmm8625 2 роки тому +10

      Disagree, I'm 99% right 75% of the time. Numbers can be skewed

  • @hannahdivic28
    @hannahdivic28 4 роки тому +797

    OMG I JUST REALIZED: YOU’RE AN INFJ, AND YOUR INITIALS ARE FJ 👏🏼👏🏼

    • @emmazhang2418
      @emmazhang2418 4 роки тому +70

      HeyHannah omg what if his initials were IN in his past life ahahaha

    • @louisejoel
      @louisejoel 3 роки тому +28

      @@emmazhang2418 The probability is very high

    • @Corp0ratehippie
      @Corp0ratehippie 3 роки тому +9

      Hey I’m an INFJ too 🧚🏻

    • @Partycitybaex
      @Partycitybaex 3 роки тому +1

      Yup!

    • @alexo.o3729
      @alexo.o3729 3 роки тому

      🤦‍♂️

  • @weirdqueenbee9116
    @weirdqueenbee9116 4 роки тому +1103

    Im type 3 (the performer), an ESFP (the entertainer), and on top of that a Leo. I feel like a walking bad joke of a stereotype
    Edit: look mom im a leo-type 3-ESFP who got 1k likes. I feel famous 💅🏻

    • @alastair2375
      @alastair2375 3 роки тому +35

      weird queen bee wait omg my friend is type 3 and esfp and a leo ?/!?/!-?:/!?-/

    • @monalletinie143
      @monalletinie143 3 роки тому +28

      I'm an ESFJ 6 virgo so i understand you at the walking stereotype 😭

    • @emmario1232
      @emmario1232 3 роки тому +11

      infp leo here. Somehow they both fit really well which I do not understand.

    • @kristalmelendez5100
      @kristalmelendez5100 3 роки тому +1

      @@Dwelleronthethreshold89 haaa, wait that’s sad

    • @Sam-wb2qi
      @Sam-wb2qi 3 роки тому +4

      i'm type 5, istp and a leo so... guess I'm incapable of understanding relashionships

  • @minibuffon1
    @minibuffon1 3 роки тому +1564

    The 9 types...
    1. Perfectionist. Want to be good people.
    Positive traits: orderly, steadfast, ethical.
    Negative traits: perfectionist, judgemental, intolerant
    Fear: being a bad person
    2. Giver. Wants to take care of people.
    Positive traits: compassionate, caring
    Negative traits: manipulative, selfish, needy
    Fear: not mattering
    3. Performer/Achiever. Wants validation
    Positive traits: Confident, ambitious, charming
    Negative traits: Self centred, boastful
    Fear: Being worthless
    4. Artist. Want to demonstrate that they’re unique
    Positive traits: Perceptive, imaginative, passionate
    Negative traits: Dramatic, narcissistic
    Fear: Having no identity
    5. Thinker. Want to understand the world
    Positive traits: Analytic, inventive, independent
    Negative traits: Delusional, cynical, unsociable
    Fear: Being useless
    6. Loyalist, skeptic. Want security
    Positive traits: Likeable, loyal, responsible
    Negative traits: Fearful, self-doubting, aggressive
    Fear: Being abandoned
    7. Enthusiast. Want to get the most out of everything
    Positive traits: Quick learners, curious, bold
    Negative traits: Overindulgent, impulsive
    Fear: Being deprived
    8. Challenger. Want control
    Positive traits: Energetic, strong-willed, bold
    Negative traits: Domineering, argumentative, unfeeling
    Fear: Being controlled
    9. Peacemaker. Want to avoid conflict
    Positive traits: Easy-going, reassuring, unselfish
    Negative traits: Apathetic, irresponsible, indecisive
    Fear: Loss of connection with others

    • @__niaoniao
      @__niaoniao 3 роки тому +23

      Thank you. ^^

    • @RosheenQuynh
      @RosheenQuynh 3 роки тому +35

      God I hope I'm not narcissistic... That would kill me...

    • @SourPotato
      @SourPotato 3 роки тому +2

      I think this solidifies my claim of being a 7w6

    • @ammuammuz9393
      @ammuammuz9393 2 роки тому +29

      Why do I feel like I'm all of them🥴😭

    • @rachelk4805
      @rachelk4805 2 роки тому +12

      @@RosheenQuynh It isn't the same as being diagnosed with a narcissistic personality disorder or anything. Don't worry about it.

  • @deniroswife
    @deniroswife 3 роки тому +203

    as a four and an infp i think I'm just destined to be a depressed guitarist

    • @katiieguinn
      @katiieguinn 3 роки тому +13

      🖤 I am the same as you kaya , I’m not sure why our types are usually so depressed

    • @humanransom
      @humanransom 3 роки тому +2

      @@katiieguinn facts

    • @oknothing9291
      @oknothing9291 2 роки тому +1

      Same

    • @EarthenCavy
      @EarthenCavy 2 роки тому +7

      I’m an INFP 4w5, so a disaster. 🤣 I’m an artist for a living, too. Lawd, chile…

    • @aryaraut6811
      @aryaraut6811 2 роки тому

      Hey cuz same

  • @felipefreire2182
    @felipefreire2182 4 роки тому +925

    2:50 1. The perfectionist, reformer
    3:36 2. The helper, giver
    4:11 3. The performer, achiever
    4:51 4. The Artist, romantic
    5:44 5. The thinker, investigator
    6:40 6. The loyalist, skeptic
    7:40 7. The enthusiast, optimist
    8:14 8. The challenger, leader
    8:55 9. The peacemaker, mediator

  • @Lileiny
    @Lileiny 4 роки тому +687

    "They may be comfortable with talking about Physics, but with normal stuff like holding up a job or having a relationship they might feel useless"
    Laughing nervously while being single and unemployed with a Master of Science degree and a history of dramatic relationship fails

    • @sandybeach8596
      @sandybeach8596 4 роки тому

      I'm single

    • @andyramirez6721
      @andyramirez6721 4 роки тому +5

      I've been studying about old roman history, I'm also unemployed and single since forever, yeah I'm indeed a 5. 😑

    • @PauliEvansBlack617
      @PauliEvansBlack617 4 роки тому +24

      You are my people. Single since forever, studying chemistry. Passed three calculus classes but trying to do my budget is a nightmare.

    • @EllePlowPlow
      @EllePlowPlow 4 роки тому +6

      I’m single. I gave up. Oh well. More time to learn new things I say.

    • @raihankameel320
      @raihankameel320 4 роки тому +3

      lol. Being a 5 with wing 6 (or having Te) massively helps in dealing with "practical" boring stuffs in life.

  • @snowstormsunscarface
    @snowstormsunscarface Рік тому +137

    I'm an INTJ and a type five (both originally mistyped). I like how MBTI has more types and is more comprehensive, but I also like how the Enneagram doesn't include introversion and extraversion.

    • @Bobo-gb9wz
      @Bobo-gb9wz Рік тому +5

      if you get to know enneagram deeper you'd be surprised how deep and personal they are

    • @illgnorance
      @illgnorance 7 місяців тому

      it does has a certain level including introversion and extroversion actually, as how e8 can only be Se base, and e5 can only be Ti base and Ni base.

    • @hidum5779
      @hidum5779 2 місяці тому

      type 5 is known to be the most introverted of all types. I'm an INTJ and 5w6

  • @hnnhplmr95
    @hnnhplmr95 3 роки тому +353

    Me: I relate to four and six
    Fj: 6 is very common
    Me: no im unique
    Oh

    • @antheia__
      @antheia__ 3 роки тому +15

      Lmao dw I'm a 4 but I relate to 6 because of ✨anxiety disorder✨

    • @nikharrith9625
      @nikharrith9625 3 роки тому +1

      @@antheia__ Well im a 4w3 and i can say that you just worried about yourself. I usually i had seen this comment like this and have a talk with them usualy they will worried about themself first. So i can really sure that you are a 4.

    • @nikharrith9625
      @nikharrith9625 3 роки тому +4

      You had a desire and a belief that you are unique,So you basicly just a 4

    • @Baseiscc
      @Baseiscc 3 роки тому +3

      I LITERALLY HAD THIS EXACT CONVERSATION WITH MYSELF RIP

  • @laurene111
    @laurene111 4 роки тому +798

    Just wanted to say that the musician Sleeping at Last wrote 9 songs for each enneagram type, so once you found your type, go listen to the song related to it, it might hit your feelings but you definitely won't regret it

    • @nataliefades
      @nataliefades 4 роки тому +38

      Wow, I hadn’t heard that. I was just listening to one of my favorites, “Saturn” about an hour ago. I’m going to check this out. So curious.

    • @loref4200
      @loref4200 4 роки тому +17

      Yes, my favorite artist. Beautiful songs.

    • @justdecaffeinated
      @justdecaffeinated 4 роки тому +12

      Oh my friend showed it to me before and linked 9 to me to explain this character he had lol i told him after that I was a 9 myself

    • @tianas.6813
      @tianas.6813 4 роки тому +34

      sleeping at last is actually how i was introduced to enneagram!

    • @laurene111
      @laurene111 4 роки тому +6

      @@tianas.6813 yeah me too !!!

  • @abhadas
    @abhadas 4 роки тому +438

    "different in a dis-advantaged way" as an INFJ and type 4, i felt that.

  • @SeanNg__n
    @SeanNg__n 3 роки тому +70

    When your an INFJ and dunno which one you are cuz you change depending on the person

    • @whateverbonbon9214
      @whateverbonbon9214 2 роки тому +1

      True

    • @kaboomgaming4255
      @kaboomgaming4255 2 роки тому

      But why do you change depending on the person? Find the reason behind that, and you can probably tell your type from that.

    • @shraddhagalwade7252
      @shraddhagalwade7252 2 роки тому +10

      @@kaboomgaming4255 Infj s keep changing in order to maintain interpersonal harmony

  • @jaebellamy7636
    @jaebellamy7636 2 роки тому +50

    Great presentation! New to Enneagram but fluent in Meyers Briggs, so far I think they both are helpful. I'm a 5.

    • @YouveGotaType
      @YouveGotaType Рік тому

      Hey Jae, If you'd like to learn more about Type 5 Investigators, check out this in depth video here: ua-cam.com/video/tSrcN4mmzU0/v-deo.html

  • @lh2354
    @lh2354 4 роки тому +588

    when you’re an INFP and type 4. well... the stars are aligning

    • @tessemo
      @tessemo 3 роки тому +9

      And infp and type 2w1

    • @ronelia.creative
      @ronelia.creative 3 роки тому +15

      I'm a type 4w3 but I'm an ENFP.. after some more research I realised that 4w3 are often ENFP.. so interesting

    • @coreywatts5143
      @coreywatts5143 3 роки тому +3

      same

    • @mandotory6728
      @mandotory6728 3 роки тому +32

      Well, I’m INFP and 4w5

    • @luisarico857
      @luisarico857 3 роки тому +10

      Do you know your zodiac sign, maybe a piscis? 👀👀👀

  • @JuliaPoprocks
    @JuliaPoprocks 4 роки тому +383

    Totally got distracted by the kids playing outside the window. 😂

    • @loref4200
      @loref4200 4 роки тому +23

      Lol, The last frame in the bloopers...

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  4 роки тому +106

      😂 me too when I edited

    • @LaurenAdrienne0486
      @LaurenAdrienne0486 4 роки тому +2

      Same!

    • @michaelaturzo
      @michaelaturzo 4 роки тому +3

      It ‘‘twas a great surprise :’)

    • @jessicapandapaw178
      @jessicapandapaw178 4 роки тому +5

      If I said I didn't notice them until you pointed it out.... what does that say about me? haha

  • @rogerhuggettjr.7675
    @rogerhuggettjr.7675 2 роки тому +48

    That was helpful. I took the test 3 times with 3 different results. The first was ridiculous, the second was 6w5 and the third was 9w1. From your description I am definitely a 6 which fits an INTP pretty good.

    • @last3122
      @last3122 2 роки тому

      9w1 also fits INTP

    • @soccerchamp0511
      @soccerchamp0511 2 роки тому +3

      I'm sorry, but INTP definitely = 5. They are both the "Analyst"/"Investigator" type.

    • @last3122
      @last3122 2 роки тому +21

      @@soccerchamp0511 every mbti and enneagram combo is possible, it’s just rare

    • @YouveGotaType
      @YouveGotaType Рік тому

      Hey Roger, if you'd like to learn more about Type 6 Loyalists, check out this in depth video here: ua-cam.com/video/jcjSX4qHb9Y/v-deo.html

    • @iamyclane2970
      @iamyclane2970 10 днів тому

      ​@@last3122no

  • @nebulasofia
    @nebulasofia 3 роки тому +42

    INFJ + 9w1 = me begin a people pleaser, having no clue what my identity or my feelings are and no expressing emotions because I don't want to bother anyone but worrying about how they feel.
    Lol

    • @fey6956
      @fey6956 2 роки тому

      Bro r we twins?

    • @daud1269
      @daud1269 2 роки тому +1

      Are you me? Yeah, sometimes I can't understand how some people can have a strong opinion over anything.

    • @Oushiro17
      @Oushiro17 2 роки тому

      I feel ya. I’ve known about my typing for both systems for 11 years but still am learning new things about myself, or fall back into the people pleasing in order to keep things calm. But we gotta lean into that 3 energy, even though it is uncomfortable if we want to grow. Thankfully my brother-in-law is a type 3 so I consider myself very fortunate.

  • @thanatos2288
    @thanatos2288 4 роки тому +628

    "Delusional, cynical, unsociable, fears of being useless"
    Type 5, _cries_ in *INTJ*

    • @MsHetha
      @MsHetha 4 роки тому +41

      I thought I would be the only one.
      Almost said let's unite but...people...

    • @LooneyTiksCrap
      @LooneyTiksCrap 4 роки тому +21

      Same except with wing 6, like I just got stabbed in the Fi ...twice.
      I'm not useless, I can do a great many things. I just... people. I'm not crying. You can't prove anything.

    • @Qar-bp1yr
      @Qar-bp1yr 4 роки тому +27

      Wait you cry?

    • @kailiak4271
      @kailiak4271 4 роки тому +27

      @@Qar-bp1yr We never cry. LIES

    • @wynstansmom829
      @wynstansmom829 4 роки тому +16

      5W4, and I am an oldish INTJ, INtj or intraverted intuitive.
      Trust me, you will be useful.
      and you will always worry you won't be. But you will find a way.
      We persist and just like life, we find a way.

  • @waterbottle9603
    @waterbottle9603 4 роки тому +340

    As a 9, i don't know what my type is

    • @schoolwork232
      @schoolwork232 4 роки тому +37

      Hi my dear...you must be an INFP! 😊

    • @Emi-bg2pq
      @Emi-bg2pq 4 роки тому +6

      I rly felt that

    • @waterbottle9603
      @waterbottle9603 4 роки тому +3

      gordon glad to know people can relate 🤟😔

    • @radicalfan8743
      @radicalfan8743 4 роки тому +5

      I'm a 9 and why do I feel the same??

    • @yolosangels
      @yolosangels 4 роки тому +27

      @@schoolwork232 This thread is scary because 1) I didn't know which mine was until FJ talked about the 9 and 2) then i saw the original comment basically saying exactly what i was thinking and finally 3) i'm a goddamn INFP.

  • @toasega
    @toasega 3 роки тому +71

    Him: Don't take a test.
    Me: imma do it

  • @seaurchinayano6140
    @seaurchinayano6140 3 роки тому +11

    Frank: the enneagram is a tool to learn about yourself and overcome your weaknesses.
    Me: if I find out about my enneagram type, I will be able to find and save the most relatable enneagram memes.

  • @samjamwiches
    @samjamwiches 3 роки тому +475

    "Type 4 feels like they have no identity, and so they try to create something that people can interact with as a stand in for their identity."
    *cries in INFP*

    • @ritaruggerone4434
      @ritaruggerone4434 3 роки тому +22

      Don’t worry I’m crying with you😭😭😭

    • @sugarchoux_23
      @sugarchoux_23 3 роки тому +5

      Same 😭

    • @mariellarusso2268
      @mariellarusso2268 3 роки тому +16

      I'm an ENFP with a tendency to INFP and also a 4. Feel that😂😂😂

    • @sillyme7395
      @sillyme7395 3 роки тому +3

      Exactly!💔 it's so close to nine, but nine is even worst..am so Frustrated:(

    • @studiopersonalericadipalma704
      @studiopersonalericadipalma704 3 роки тому +2

      @@mariellarusso2268 I feel you.. sooooo me !! LOL still try to figure all the time if I'm E or I .. LOL ..

  • @Corrupted
    @Corrupted 4 роки тому +717

    INTP type 4 here, I love the combination of analyzing art and having discussions about it lol

  • @fredboykin7817
    @fredboykin7817 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you Frank. I enjoyed your videos so much. I am both a Myers Briggs and Enneagram coach but I find the Enneagram much more helpful. As a type 7 my therapy practice has changed because I now see how I got in my own way during sessions. I love the Enneagram and graduated from the Narrative Tradition almost 20 years ago. It's great seeing you carrying the information and teaching of the Enneagram onto the next generations.

  • @douglascampbell6482
    @douglascampbell6482 3 роки тому +6

    Frank - you have the best type! We are both so terminally unique and special that i may write a poem about our uniqueness and specialtude. Really enjoyed this vid, bro. Got yourself a subscriber

  • @PikachuDenki
    @PikachuDenki 4 роки тому +852

    Me: wow i think im a little bit of all of these but none of them are really me yet.
    Fj: talks abt 9
    Me: ... Okay
    Fj: 9 in a sense tries to be like all the others
    Me: oh shit

    • @moodymoods9261
      @moodymoods9261 4 роки тому +14

      Saaame

    • @Space_Potat
      @Space_Potat 4 роки тому +9

      Me fokin same! Except
      Each of 1,2,3,4 and probably 5 (don’t remember what each of them is and so I don’t remember at which of them the following thing I’ll say stops) I felt like haha, is thAt me?, wait, is this?, mabe that??,
      And I felt very close to almost all of the numbers (with maybe 1-2.5 exceptions for 6,7,8. 100% 8 ismn’tme), but then he started talking about the nine...... and in the very beginning when he showed the picture, in which I never noticed before (maybe because I didn’t pay that close attention), but did notice now, I noticed that, Hmm, why 9 is on the top and not 1?, must mean something then. .. and yap.. it does.. but about not having own opinion and personality¿, eemm, I don’t think so :/
      (Also the second name calls back to one of the INFP names). The last sentence he said about 9 hurt, much, though right now as I write this I don’t even remember what that was, mostly don’t

    • @randyschroeder2210
      @randyschroeder2210 4 роки тому +10

      I’ve been told everyone has a little of each type, but the goal is to find the closest match. It might make sense to dig into a book with details. When I did, I read one number until it didn’t feel like me anymore. Then move on to the next type, until you find the closest to you. Also, we’re all basically one number, with a “leaning” to the numbers on each side. For example, I’m a 7, but have a leaning to 6, and sometimes an 8, depending on the situation. I hope this heals?

    • @Space_Potat
      @Space_Potat 4 роки тому

      Randy Schroeder OH! Tanks, Randy, FJ said in the beginning of the video that everyone has a bit of each number, but everyone (INCLUDING ME) seems to forget it 😅

    • @user-xb4mh6jz3g
      @user-xb4mh6jz3g 4 роки тому +3

      Jesus loves you so much he even died to save you from your sins. He’s coming back soon, repent and turn away from your sins.

  • @rheadel17
    @rheadel17 4 роки тому +296

    "In some ways, they honestly don't have an opinion."
    I'm type 9 and this is so true. 😅

    • @boris5950
      @boris5950 4 роки тому +16

      Are you sure?

    • @deannahenry8925
      @deannahenry8925 4 роки тому +1

      I've done tests and think mine is 9

    • @geiggistarkey2530
      @geiggistarkey2530 4 роки тому

      Rhea Fulgencio just curious......you’re type 9....what BM type are you?

    • @rheadel17
      @rheadel17 4 роки тому +2

      @@geiggistarkey2530 BM?

    • @kirknessfamily
      @kirknessfamily 4 роки тому +1

      9 here too. 🙃

  • @videI1
    @videI1 3 місяці тому +4

    bye i feel so called out by 5 😭

  • @jenniferparker6048
    @jenniferparker6048 2 роки тому +2

    Good concise rundown of the types - thank you for this! It’s great for sharing with the uninitiated. Incidentally, I am also a 4.

  • @samfrancis8520
    @samfrancis8520 4 роки тому +299

    I was watching this and towards the end I was like “I don’t know... none of these *really* sound like me” ... and then you did Type 9

    • @shaunrussell4558
      @shaunrussell4558 4 роки тому +12

      Sam Francis haha🤣🤣yeah, I’m a pretty classic type 9! And I still don’t like it when he calls us out for trying to adapt to all the other personality types instead of exerting our own! I think I’m getting better at this but it’s a slow progress thing, as I feel comfortable which is too slow! Haha 😆

    • @randomchaos69
      @randomchaos69 4 роки тому +3

      I felt the same, the description hit me like a ton of bricks

    • @moneymaks24
      @moneymaks24 4 роки тому

      This is more fake than Horoscopes. Buy audible btw haha

    • @kaitlyntaylor7977
      @kaitlyntaylor7977 4 роки тому +4

      Me too!!! I got real emotional. 100 percent type 9... Was avoiding accepting it at the beginning or listening to others influences. Now everything makes sense.

  • @toesaremyfetish5882
    @toesaremyfetish5882 4 роки тому +333

    Me a type 9: Watches this video instead of doing their homework and sees irresponsible
    Me: Nods head sadly and screaming with anxiety inside

    • @aliaa4534
      @aliaa4534 3 роки тому +4

      Me skipping class rn:

    • @Pram_qqq
      @Pram_qqq 3 роки тому +2

      Me watching the video and taking the enneagram test
      instead of reviewing for midterm next week
      and doing my undone task for online submission

  • @ellathe231
    @ellathe231 Рік тому +6

    If I’m being entirely honest, the four and three really, really hit close to home. Almost too close really, he described it perfectly how I need to be different, and how I need to have something original that people can remember me by
    It’s kinda funny to me cause I’m really introverted and hate being the center of attention, but at the same time that’s exactly where I need myself to be in order to feel good about myself lol

  • @geekygrl10
    @geekygrl10 2 роки тому +2

    I was kind of zoning out through the sponsorship, until I heard Wheel of Time! I LOVE that series! Also, the video was great, very informative!

  • @djhallmighty
    @djhallmighty 4 роки тому +446

    "75% of statistics are made off the top of people's heads."
    There's a 75% chance you made that off the top of your head... hmm...

    • @andstermcxd679
      @andstermcxd679 4 роки тому +2

      75 likes too 🤔

    • @alyderuby2480
      @alyderuby2480 4 роки тому +7

      I reckon FJ was joking here.

    • @5gonza541
      @5gonza541 4 роки тому +3

      Evan Hall actually, your conclusion relies upon the fact the his statistic is correct sooo XD

    • @stefanmirica6485
      @stefanmirica6485 4 роки тому +2

      @@laraohmaye875 25% chance he is wrong.

  • @TheDancingBell
    @TheDancingBell 4 роки тому +379

    Me, an 8: "I am not that aggressive", husband: "yes you are"

  • @ner113
    @ner113 Рік тому

    I love the concepts of the ennegram because i immediatly realised i was type 4 and it helped me so much understand myself better as a human being :)

  • @Kashi_Mochibean
    @Kashi_Mochibean 3 роки тому +13

    Before this video I was afraid I didn’t know it well enough to properly type myself. Seeing this video has made everything more clear and I can see that I was in fact definitely correct about being 4w3 461
    Thank you very much FJ! 🙏

  • @penfriend469
    @penfriend469 4 роки тому +272

    i knew this was a bad idea when i realised that i got offended by half of them already halfway through the video

  • @Granorla
    @Granorla 4 роки тому +116

    I’d say mbti is good for understanding yourself and others and how you interact with the world, whereas enneagram is better for growth and self-actualisation. 5w4 infj here :)

  • @hoosierdeddy92
    @hoosierdeddy92 3 роки тому

    I'm type 5. It's obvious by how excited I got when you gave book suggestions.

  • @santinamarie4699
    @santinamarie4699 2 роки тому

    I like your videos because you're also funny.. And a little bit of comedy goes a long way thank you.

  • @ejvega
    @ejvega 4 роки тому +180

    I'm a type 8. For the longest time, I used to argue with people about all the reasons why I wasn't a type 8 because I didn't like how bossy the personality type sounded, and I wanted to convince people I wasn't domineering... It took me far too long to realize the irony of my intentions.
    PS. I personally prefer Enneagram to MBTI. I like how it mainly focuses on fear and desire, two of life's biggest motivators. I think it to be a better guide for life in this way. If you understand that which motivates you, you'll know how to rule your own life. (At least, that's my opinion on the matter.)

  • @kitdav2631
    @kitdav2631 3 роки тому +706

    “Eccentric nerd” “wanna understand how EVERYTHING works” “useless at normal stuff, like relationships”
    Me, a 5 and INTJ: I feel exposed :/

    • @adithibhat7277
      @adithibhat7277 3 роки тому +26

      I am with you, buddy

    • @gamma4524
      @gamma4524 3 роки тому +9

      bruh dw ,im an entp and i can relate as well. You are not alone bud lol

    • @hennaali3075
      @hennaali3075 3 роки тому +25

      Oh my god, I’m exactly the same. Type 5 and INTJ too🤣

    • @jferragamo1154
      @jferragamo1154 3 роки тому +15

      Im with you man 5 and INTJ

    • @sadiellama8307
      @sadiellama8307 3 роки тому +11

      i’m also a 5 and an INTJ

  • @ashlyrichmond3322
    @ashlyrichmond3322 3 роки тому

    Love wot series!!! Cant wait for the amazon series to come out! Great on audio too!

  • @ShanshanZheng
    @ShanshanZheng 2 роки тому

    Started seriously learning the Enneagram since beginning of the pandemic and geez, it is by far the most helpful personality system for me. It goes deeper than Myers Briggs (which seems to only deal with the brain center which is 1/3 of the Enneagram) and more gestalt and wholistic a system (while Myers Briggs can feel at times a bit over-engineered).

  • @amethyst_myst
    @amethyst_myst 4 роки тому +366

    “Argumentative” -Im a Type 8 and an ENTP; this is the perfect description 🙃😂😭

    • @suriyanikkaran
      @suriyanikkaran 4 роки тому +6

      Me too! It sounds similar to numerology 😂🤣

    • @juliamarlin5612
      @juliamarlin5612 4 роки тому +2

      same

    • @ladyvengence8581
      @ladyvengence8581 4 роки тому +11

      Fellow ENTP! I'm a type 4 though want to debate about something artistic? 😂😂😂😖

    • @kirstenrxse
      @kirstenrxse 4 роки тому +2

      Same 😂

    • @gaby1717
      @gaby1717 4 роки тому +2

      so am i lol

  • @julay629
    @julay629 4 роки тому +301

    Me, a 4w5, being like: so that makes me a melancholic, dramatic, narcissistic (...) unsociable nerd with the fear of having no identity and being useless, yay! 😄

  • @botaslaal8354
    @botaslaal8354 2 роки тому

    I have had this idea a of a great trilogy fanfiction themed around The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings in my head for years because I grew up reading the books and watch them come to life at the same time. But I always got stuck in the plot or - more often - had unrelatable characters. So I tried to figure out why this happens and dug a little in how writing really works. So first I stumbled over the 16 MBTI personality types. I got so fast so frustrated because I was just overwhelmed by the sheer mass of information that I dumped the idea of ever writing a good fanfiction. But now I found the Enneagram and to me it was mindblowing. It really opened my eyes on how to make my characters act relatable and reasonable on internal and external conflict. So I'll use the Enneagram to build the base of the characters and hopefully use the MBTI personalities to sharpen them a little more. Thank you so much❤

  • @sarahfara1539
    @sarahfara1539 3 роки тому +7

    I'm INFP but I think in the enneagramm I'm 8w9, although I wouldn't see myself as a "leader". But overall it fits well. "Defend themselves by building emotional walls and denying vulnerability"; "fear being hurt by others", "fear being controlled by others" sounds about right. Also 8s are said to turn into 2s when happy (when I'm happy I'm more of an ENFP style but also like gifting others and doting on them) and into 5s when stressed (massive overthinking and analyzing).

  • @luluanthem
    @luluanthem 4 роки тому +151

    I personally prefer Enneagram to MBTI, partly because it's more straightforward and clearer to observe. There's just so much more to functions I learn something new everytime I get back into MBTI.
    Enneagram is also perfect for character building and development since it is centered around concepts that are akin to how character motivators work.

    • @miguelpasamano4995
      @miguelpasamano4995 2 роки тому +3

      I use both. I'm an INFJ (borderline INFP) and a type 2 (borderline type 4)

  • @e.taylor2609
    @e.taylor2609 4 роки тому +139

    “They feel like they don’t have an identity and so they need to create something else that people can interact with as a stand-in for their identity”
    I feel so attacked. I'm not a super creative person, but so much of my identity is tied into my aesthetic and the media I consume... like fandom, music taste, etc.

    • @twodirections7913
      @twodirections7913 4 роки тому +1

      oh my God i’ve never read something that i associated with more to the T

  • @joeramsey3192
    @joeramsey3192 2 роки тому

    My Myer Briggs (Personality) has changed me recently from INFP to ESFJ. In fact, working with people and spending time with my family has changed my ways to this personality.

  • @Arniqua
    @Arniqua Рік тому +1

    I'm 4w5 and tbh, that's accurate. I'm the absent minded professor by the day and brooding melancholic artist by the night.

  • @catstrawford
    @catstrawford 4 роки тому +91

    2:49 Type 1, the perfectionist
    3:36 Type 2, the helper
    4:12 Type 3, the performer/achiever
    4:50 Type 4, the artist/romantic
    5:44 Type 5, the thinker/investigator
    6:39 Type 6, the loyalist/skeptic
    7:41 Type 7, the enthusiast/optimist
    8:15 Type 8, the challenger/leader
    8:57 Type 9, the peacemaker/mediator

  • @phoenix5054
    @phoenix5054 4 роки тому +121

    The Enneagram legit sounds like MBTI functions created into each type, with an added type to make it less obvious.
    Perfectionist - Si
    Helper - Fe
    Performer - Se
    Artist - Fi
    Thinker - Ti
    Skeptic - Ni
    Enthusiast - Ne
    Challenger - Te
    Peacemaker - also Fe

    • @Dienamich
      @Dienamich 4 роки тому +4

      Pretty dead on there. Great job!

    • @francesivy6194
      @francesivy6194 4 роки тому +1

      I think that makes sense for most people but I'm a fi with a 6 enneagram

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  4 роки тому +17

      Yeah the 2 and the 5 line up especially clearly !

    • @ampa4989
      @ampa4989 4 роки тому +1

      @@FrankJames Isn't Thinker also Te (as well as Ti)? I think INTJs more naturally fit 5w6 than 3 or 8, though I understand 3 to some extent.

    • @savagestudio9666
      @savagestudio9666 4 роки тому +3

      Edge
      DSP language:
      1. Oi more Si more masculine
      2. De more Fe
      3. De more Te and Se, Play
      4. NF more Fi, feelers
      5. NT more Ti, thinkers and Oe
      6. Oi more Si, De
      7. Oe more Se, consume Play
      8. Masculine De, more Te
      9. Feelers, double feminine
      Mbti language quick archetypes:
      1. IXXJ
      2. EXFJ
      3. EXTJ maybe ESXX
      4. INXX and IXFP
      5. INXX and IXTP
      6. ISXJ maybe ESXJ
      7. EXXP
      8. EXTJ maybe EXTP
      9. XXFX most likely IXFX

  • @RetroXRicardo
    @RetroXRicardo Рік тому +2

    I'm an ESFJ, Type 2/Wing 3. This video was so helpful for me to learn the Enneagram. I'm also a Taurus Sun with a sensitive Pisces Moon, so everything fits and makes sense! 👏👏👏

    • @hffhNagisaeghyt
      @hffhNagisaeghyt 11 місяців тому +1

      Waw that’s rare for an esfj to be into typopseudology you have to got a good Ne

    • @RetroXRicardo
      @RetroXRicardo 11 місяців тому +1

      @leandrecordoba Haha yeah, I heard from other psychologists that my "Extroverted Intuition" become more developed as I got older. My Sensing and Intuition are starting to balance

  • @ladyariadne
    @ladyariadne 2 роки тому

    I am a four.. and dude. you quite literally described me. In the most accurate way possible. How is this even a thing.

  • @jojoh1948
    @jojoh1948 3 роки тому +252

    Me throughout the video: idk I'm like all of them and none of them at the same time
    Fj: explains type 9
    Me: oh

    • @leander8840
      @leander8840 3 роки тому +4

      same xp

    • @andyjeon8789
      @andyjeon8789 3 роки тому +2

      Same😅

    • @lavanya1654
      @lavanya1654 3 роки тому

      ;-;

    • @danicaignjatovic3956
      @danicaignjatovic3956 3 роки тому +7

      Sameee, I was like I relate to 2,3,6,7 aaand... *9 comes next* "Oh shit"

    • @rikkousa
      @rikkousa 3 роки тому

      @Jojo H that could be me too. I am a little skeptical. :I have always enjoyed these type of personality tests but now work for a company that everyone is deeply into it. Moreover, I have become a huge advocate for the Herman Brain Dominance tool (plus My Motivators). I felt that it was far more relevant in understanding myself and others--and was a very useful tool for onboarding , leveraging skills talents, with really actionable things I can do to minimize my blind spots while leveraging other areas. It will be interesting to see how they judge me once they hear my #. Maybe I will sell them I am an 11 (9 plus 2) or is it 3 plus 6 plus 2?

  • @EllidaWangel
    @EllidaWangel 4 роки тому +62

    6:32 "but the normal stuff, like holding down a job or having a relationship, they feel like they're useless" OUCH that was unnecessarily accurate

    • @riube28
      @riube28 4 роки тому +6

      I feel you :/ lowkey followed the description with a whispered- 'useless at doing chores, remembering to pay bills in time, f*in having a normal day to day routine... does everyone need to know that?' o.O

    • @leggi_bois4eva
      @leggi_bois4eva 4 роки тому +5

      Same lol being INTJ dont help

    • @peachyprotist
      @peachyprotist 4 роки тому

      SAME I UGH AAAAA
      ._.

  • @qwandary
    @qwandary Рік тому

    Lmao I like the blooper, gotta admit I was beginning to watch the kids/adult playing outside more than you at one point. It was rather wholesome seeing it tbh.

  • @thefirsthero5266
    @thefirsthero5266 3 роки тому +2

    I've had an interesting path in life. I'm a 3, and an INFP. I think a lot of it is that unlike most threes, my fear of failure and worthlessness, coupled with my need for validation, has caused me to avoid all things that could possibly result in failure, and become crippled with self doubt. I also, am an introvert, so instead of wanting everyone to love me, and be popular, I only really care about the validation and adoration of like, 3-6 people maximum.
    P.S. It is really great you recommended richard rohr. He is my favorite teacher on this matter, and he's a priest so he preaches the truest extension of the enneagram, which is leading us back to our true self, and to God

  • @LarissaFord
    @LarissaFord 3 роки тому +141

    An interesting point about type 6's being so common: I'm a 6 and can say from experience that 6's often can see themselves in others because 6's have a strong tendency for projection. My point is I wonder if it was a 6 who reported that half the world is other 6's 😅

    • @Butters030
      @Butters030 3 роки тому +2

      LA RISS AH

    • @YouveGotaType
      @YouveGotaType Рік тому

      If you'd like to learn more about Type 6 Loyalists, check out this in depth video here: ua-cam.com/video/jcjSX4qHb9Y/v-deo.html

  • @bojanab.9424
    @bojanab.9424 4 роки тому +96

    7w8 and ENFP My mind is like a browser: 19 tabs, 5 applications opened and nobody knows where the music comes from. 🤣

    • @millbranch2
      @millbranch2 4 роки тому +7

      ENTP 7 here!! I feel you!! Except mine is that I answer all questions by shaking the Magic 8 Ball in my head. Whatever pops up must be right and generally is. But when I am wrong, I am spectacularly wrong.

    • @taniaguimaraes4496
      @taniaguimaraes4496 4 роки тому +1

      I'm also an ENFP type 7! Usually the music comes from all sides of my head (seriously, my mind is like a radio 😂)

    • @milofinnliot1617
      @milofinnliot1617 4 роки тому +1

      yooo same I got like too many tabs haha

    • @Hansolonosolo
      @Hansolonosolo 4 роки тому +2

      im also 7w8 and enfp this is such a struggle i have the attention span of a toddler

    • @castiel9601
      @castiel9601 4 роки тому +2

      7w8 ENTP here, all I have to say is same😂

  • @fafaworld1753
    @fafaworld1753 2 роки тому

    Wow i love the lights on the desk behind 😍

  • @TylenOneal239
    @TylenOneal239 5 місяців тому

    I’m a ISFP 9w1 and everything said about type 9’s was 100% true. Even down to the “I don’t know what do you wanna do?”

  • @Jenna_Joseph
    @Jenna_Joseph 4 роки тому +81

    I’m a 4w5 who is wildly embarrassed about how well I fit the stereotype. I literally wear all black, sit in coffee shop corners, and write in a leather journal..... apparently like every other 4. Kill me now. 🙃

    • @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa
      @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa 4 роки тому +7

      Why don't I fit the stereotype :( I wear all pastel, don't stay in coffee shops, and write in a pastel journal...

    • @wakerobin9215
      @wakerobin9215 4 роки тому +20

      @@duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa so I'm imagining to the two of you becoming friends, and for some reason it sounds like an anime to me 😅

    • @YunaMoon_93
      @YunaMoon_93 4 роки тому +6

      Hey hey, I'm a type 4 too and I dont wear just black! Sometimes I wear some grey too! So we dont be all this kind of stereotype!

    • @sophiaredwood5825
      @sophiaredwood5825 4 роки тому +10

      I’m an ENFP 4... so I’m this weird combination of a happy personality with a sad soul. I wear bright colors and accessories, but I will drag you into a deep and brooding conversation the moment you ask. Or maybe even if you don’t ask... I’m still working on not oversharing my existential crises with unsuspecting people 😂

    • @Jenna_Joseph
      @Jenna_Joseph 4 роки тому

      GaymerGirl because you’ve succeeded in being different while I haven’t 😩😂

  • @katcyer26
    @katcyer26 3 роки тому +113

    When your so screwed up your not even sure how much of your personality is your personality and how much is your acting

    • @mariellarusso2268
      @mariellarusso2268 3 роки тому +6

      You are a 4

    • @katcyer26
      @katcyer26 3 роки тому +2

      @@avinatine No, you really do make sense, and your describing it better than I ever could 😅
      I understand 😖

    • @wolszczaw
      @wolszczaw 3 роки тому +4

      I think I have a similar problem to you guys. I often just act like I think it would be best for the particular situation or I try to figure out what kind of person people around me need in that moment and then I become this person.

    • @Ren-hd8jd
      @Ren-hd8jd 2 роки тому

      I'm an INTJ and a 5 but this is so true. I went from extremely weird changes in my childhood, my MBTI kept changing and eventually ended up as ENFJ (until I was 7) > INFJ (until I was 10) > INTJ. Where I live social status is incredibly important so even after I stopped Fe I had to build up a different personality so that I wouldn't get scolded by the teachers. Now I can't tell how much of what I feel in my head is true or me just creating the emotions I'm meant to feel in my mind.

  • @SkiiDreamr420
    @SkiiDreamr420 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for this⁶ information!
    I subscribed to your fantastic channel.

  • @bessierobinson2872
    @bessierobinson2872 2 роки тому

    Took this course many year's ago...happy to reconnect...:)

  • @daisyai3221
    @daisyai3221 3 роки тому +223

    Type 5: drive to understand the word intimately
    me(as INTJ):sounds like me
    Type 5: fear of being useless
    me: yh. it's me.
    (I did cry due to the fear of being a useless person when i was young...

    • @gamma4524
      @gamma4524 3 роки тому +8

      I relate to being a five ,but i dont really care about being useless tho. I dont got no fear of that I rlly just wanna have fun lol. I am an ENTP

    • @iwheretheshoes
      @iwheretheshoes 3 роки тому

      Same Entj

    • @Bongi344
      @Bongi344 3 роки тому

      Same, INTP

    • @jirielrantayo7609
      @jirielrantayo7609 3 роки тому

      Same ISTJ 😔

    • @sxsosp1361
      @sxsosp1361 2 роки тому

      Same but I'm an INFP. Is there any INFP who relate at 5?

  • @wbrain00
    @wbrain00 4 роки тому +34

    When Frank said "Let´s have a commercial break", I told myself "Okay, let´s watch the whole ad for you Frank, for you." AND GUESS WHAT. THE AD WAS ALMOST 7 MINUTES LONG....
    DAMMIT.
    (meanwhile, i serached about the enneagram, because i´ve never heard of it before)

  • @ivyom4392
    @ivyom4392 2 роки тому

    Thank you frank! I'm new to the enneagram stuff too!

  • @ivycantthinkofaname4303
    @ivycantthinkofaname4303 2 роки тому

    wow
    When the commercial break started, I got an ad for enneagram four types
    I've literally never heard of the enneagram before I started this video
    -INFP

  • @hannahl8
    @hannahl8 4 роки тому +25

    Type 9 here. Enneagram is newer to me than mbti so this was very helpful! Thanks FJ!

  • @Raev222
    @Raev222 4 роки тому +87

    Yeah the 5 hit hard. I laughed out loud when the roast came.
    INTP

    • @youssef8368
      @youssef8368 4 роки тому +9

      Christa O. 5 and INTP as well ,i was checking comments section to find if am i the only INTP and 5 or it's normal for INTPs

    • @Raev222
      @Raev222 4 роки тому +5

      @@youssef8368 I think it's very common for INTP. I think 5w6 is too.

    • @youssef8368
      @youssef8368 4 роки тому +1

      Christa O. Yup i'm 98% 5 and 77% 6

    • @MagikForTheMAsses
      @MagikForTheMAsses 4 роки тому +3

      So far I count 5 of us, The INTP 5s.... we could use this opportunity to take over the world.. but who cares about the world lol back to our studies

    • @barb7124
      @barb7124 4 роки тому

      INFP type 4 here. I would bet that most INTPs would type as fives. It fits.

  • @DarthCalculus
    @DarthCalculus 3 роки тому +2

    I came to learn about the enneagram, but the whole time I'm like wow that is a nice bass

  • @EmyN
    @EmyN Рік тому

    Great video FJ, will check these books!

  • @rydiaom
    @rydiaom 4 роки тому +113

    4w5 and INFP here. Sometimes I wonder why do I have to be like this, always suffering. :v Then I remember that's a typical way to think when you're a 4 and I'm like "Well, nevermind".

    • @justloutea4027
      @justloutea4027 4 роки тому +4

      Me too ,infp type 4 😂

    • @ThisIsNotAhnJieRen
      @ThisIsNotAhnJieRen 4 роки тому +3

      INFP, 9w1 My head is basically in the clouds and I SUCK at arguments.

    • @alexo.o3729
      @alexo.o3729 4 роки тому +5

      4 wing 5 and INFP as well 😀

    • @EmmaAppleBerry
      @EmmaAppleBerry 4 роки тому +1

      SAME!!! INFP 4w5 twin 💖💖💖😙😙😙🕊🕊🕊

    • @miriamschmitz394
      @miriamschmitz394 4 роки тому +1

      4w5 INFJ here

  • @Glamisback
    @Glamisback 4 роки тому +53

    INFJ and 9w1. I think i always try to be a good person for everyone. So I became a bad person for myself i guess.

    • @lbjcb5
      @lbjcb5 4 роки тому +1

      Yay! Me too 😁 Hang in there. Learning about Enneagram has helped understand how to deal with people and life better

    • @alejandragil2480
      @alejandragil2480 4 роки тому +1

      That is so deep

    • @brittnymeeks6838
      @brittnymeeks6838 4 роки тому

      As a fellow INFJ and possibly 9w2 I relate to this statement so much. I am always the last on my list of priorities!

    • @ellan1664
      @ellan1664 4 роки тому

      Damn... I related hard to that as an infj.

    • @kaany.9120
      @kaany.9120 4 роки тому +1

      Brittny Meeks There‘s no such thing as a 9w2. It‘s either 9w1 or 9w8.

  • @katybridgforth1319
    @katybridgforth1319 Рік тому +1

    Currently on a mission to figure out what enneagram type I am. I have a Myers-Briggs from several years ago, but I never sought out the enneagram. Appreciate your breakdown and the neutral way you presented this.

  • @oriana_fortunato
    @oriana_fortunato 2 роки тому

    Thank you Frank!

  • @crystischloenvoigt7588
    @crystischloenvoigt7588 4 роки тому +67

    I’m the perfectionist. I’m also a full-blown ESTJ on the MB. My daughter is INFJ and your videos and info have helped us so much in our relationship!! Thank you for doing what you do!

    • @ladyemeraldfyre3829
      @ladyemeraldfyre3829 4 роки тому +2

      What are your Enneagrams ? Just curious if you could end up with same but different MBTI. Because if you were both 9 and peacemakers could work great. But cool though both trying to understand each other :)

    • @imtooqueerforthis
      @imtooqueerforthis 4 роки тому +1

      Hey, I’m a 1 and an ISTJ!

    • @Ice.muffin
      @Ice.muffin 2 роки тому +1

      Wow the exact same situation personality-wise like my mother and I, we don't understand each other much at all, at times it's very difficult to live together and to communicate because of these differences in how we see things. She believes she's so right in her conventional, rather narrow view of things, while I'm also convinced I am right in my own view ofc :). It's a battle truly.

  • @oboroshirakumo650
    @oboroshirakumo650 4 роки тому +55

    Bruh me being called out at 9... *crawls away*
    btw INFP, so I kind of have my own mindset & opinions. When around others though I tend to become like others around me. I lose myself around certain people.
    *Loving online friends because, I start to see myself & not become others*

    • @OretteZ
      @OretteZ 4 роки тому +2

      Are you sure that you aren't an INFJ with a low J preference? Because that's definitely an INFJ Chameleon thing. I'm not certain if INFPs with low P preference also do it, though.

    • @hannahmary6023
      @hannahmary6023 4 роки тому +1

      I'm an INFP and I have the exact same problem, losing myself

    • @sirCharon
      @sirCharon 4 роки тому +1

      I am kind of the same I just don't speak my thoughts out when I am with other people I am just going with the flow although I really hate it

    • @oboroshirakumo650
      @oboroshirakumo650 4 роки тому

      @@OretteZ well I'm an INFP according to the MBTI quiz
      My mum is an INFJ though
      We're very similar but not the same
      Just I've read both & personally I am more INFP but I might be INFJ who knows

    • @oboroshirakumo650
      @oboroshirakumo650 4 роки тому

      @@sirCharon bruh that's a mood

  • @ScottSpiess
    @ScottSpiess 3 роки тому +2

    I am a ESTP and from your description, I would be a 7 or 8. I think all of this is useful and I look at this like statistics. You take what you can from all available descriptions or theories and you average them out. I also use the "5 Element" theory from Traditional Chinese Medicine to form a greater understanding with my clients.

  • @setayeshmoradi9734
    @setayeshmoradi9734 2 роки тому

    I really needed this thank youuuuuu

  • @Redorgreenful
    @Redorgreenful 4 роки тому +44

    Type 9: We’re trying to keep peace between the conflicting parts within us. We’re the karmic dumptruck of the other issues and drives of the other types. We get so overwhelmed by the needs and fears of each type pulling at us that we can be passive, apathetic and indecisive.

    • @LivyRivy
      @LivyRivy 4 роки тому +3

      I feel seen.

    • @Redorgreenful
      @Redorgreenful 4 роки тому

      Olivia Rivera ❤️ 💕

    • @lilacrolf9656
      @lilacrolf9656 4 роки тому +1

      is it like...when you're with your friends otw to a pizza house, you're thinking of getting a pepperoni one but when you come there all you're friends wants hawaiian? so you just say yes although you've been craving pepperoni because you worry that they're craving hawaiian too? someone answer me+_+

  • @EC-rd9ys
    @EC-rd9ys 4 роки тому +109

    I always appreciate people who talk about their sources.

  • @donniehuan5952
    @donniehuan5952 2 роки тому

    I'm an ISFP (MBTI) & 9w8 (Eannergram)
    They're so relevant in my personality!

  • @trista7997
    @trista7997 3 роки тому +2

    watching this even though i know a shit ton about enneagram already bc i love listening to frank talk😭

  • @thifalmaidawilhelmina1888
    @thifalmaidawilhelmina1888 4 роки тому +27

    Mediator, INFP. I always wonder why am i so quiet, really. And almost everytime i don't have an opinion and always be very very afraid of conflict. I see. That's why. Thanks:)))

  • @brigiish
    @brigiish 4 роки тому +83

    YES I've been waiting for this. I'm a type 9 and an INFJ and I feel I'm kinda fucked up tbh.

  • @YehudiNimol
    @YehudiNimol 2 роки тому +40

    Glad to know both me and FJ are INFJ and 4w5 :)
    I don't really trust the Enneagram that much because I don't understand the logic behind it, and its origins seem a bit esoteric, but it's fun to learn about other ways of typing than the Myers-Briggs test.

    • @juuliaarajarvi6412
      @juuliaarajarvi6412 Рік тому +1

      what does 4w5 mean?

    • @nilsastrup8907
      @nilsastrup8907 Рік тому +2

      @@juuliaarajarvi6412 Type 4 with wing 5

    • @jelmerskalleberg6987
      @jelmerskalleberg6987 Рік тому +3

      Enneagram is based on the ego , and the thing you build around it to protect it. It shows the most vulnerable and broken place what makes us humans.
      Subtypes gives more insights if you are interested, author is Beatrice chestnut.

    • @YouveGotaType
      @YouveGotaType Рік тому

      If you'd like to learn more about Type 4 Individualists, check out this in depth video here: ua-cam.com/video/V8H22OLdWwQ/v-deo.html

  • @hasamahikaru
    @hasamahikaru Рік тому

    I'm def a ESxJ 6w7, although I'm often mistyped as 3 or 7. I don't leave my friends. I love making them feel included in a setting cause I know the feeling being left out. When they're in trouble, they need a job, I'll do my best for them to get out of that situation.
    Even though I'm outgoing to everyone, deep down it takes me at least more than a year for me to consider you a friend. I see how they see me as. The last time I attach to someone, they don't feel the same way like I do. That hurts a lot but that can't be controlled lmao
    I'm often mistyped as a 3 because I'm result-oriented and I feel happy when I accomplish something. Very dutiful person. I just love the feeling of being responsible for what I have to do. 😁

  • @5674Kc
    @5674Kc 4 роки тому +44

    Seriously Frank, we were reading our types at my sister's house, and when we got to type 4 I remember furiously blushing. Its embarrassing how self centered type 4 can be! 😂

  • @expired_rosin
    @expired_rosin 4 роки тому +149

    "Scared to be useless"
    🙃 why u gotta expose me like that
    -five

    • @Arygua
      @Arygua 4 роки тому

      Don't worry, it was a double kill.

    • @theajane6444
      @theajane6444 4 роки тому +3

      Don't worry, lovely 5s...where would we be without your thirst for knowledge and unique perspective?!
      -an admiring 9

    • @AK-jt7kh
      @AK-jt7kh 4 роки тому

      Thea Jane aww that’s sweet of you. I think I might be a 5 but I can’t tell

  • @ririgloom
    @ririgloom Рік тому

    4 and 6 hit hard. Loyal, romantic, artist.