Intro to the Enneagram || What are the 9 Personality Types?

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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  4 роки тому +443

    👉 What is your type?
    ⚡Get a free 30 day free trial of Audible with a free audiobook at www.audibletrial.com/FJ 🙌
    Maybe get one of those Enneagram books! 📕
    Subscribe for more 🙏
    Stay cool and attractive 😎

  • @taurusdragon4763
    @taurusdragon4763 4 роки тому +5336

    Type 5: Delusional, cynical and unsociable
    Me : *Never before have I been so offended by something I one hundred percent agree with*

    • @rini9325
      @rini9325 4 роки тому +36

      SAME

    • @mariobros7834
      @mariobros7834 4 роки тому +102

      5 is clearly INTJ

    • @rini9325
      @rini9325 4 роки тому +126

      @@mariobros7834 no,not always technically any mbti can be 5,intjs,intps,entps are more commonly fives. I'm an infp 549(my tritype) . You haven't done your research on enneagram. 5s are more than just nerds,frank made this video to make people aware of the most obvious traits of each enneagram. He didn't even cover 2% of what a five actually is. This is just a starting point for people who don't know what enneagram is.

    • @taurusdragon4763
      @taurusdragon4763 4 роки тому +67

      @@mariobros7834 I'm INTP

    • @lesliemoo
      @lesliemoo 4 роки тому +24

      "Eccentric nerd"; I felt that.

  • @MaharoMaharo
    @MaharoMaharo 4 роки тому +3473

    Broke: Enneagram is a tool to understand yourself better and how you could develop onwards in life.
    Woke: Enneagram is for when you've seen all the mbti memes and posts.

    • @essem4979
      @essem4979 4 роки тому +289

      Bespoke: Enneagram is just another excuse for my actions

    • @ihateyouall7026
      @ihateyouall7026 4 роки тому +52

      Samuelx01 no it’s a conclusion to all of your actions.

    • @neoculturetakoyaki4612
      @neoculturetakoyaki4612 4 роки тому +31

      DONT CALL ME OUT LIKE THAT

    • @jessiejang6512
      @jessiejang6512 4 роки тому +16

      Who are you xNTx mate? 😂😂😂

    • @mashedpotatoes5957
      @mashedpotatoes5957 4 роки тому +25

      @@jessiejang6512 most likely just any xNxP, those are the best at spectacularly wasting their time (as said by one)

  • @noeditbookreviews
    @noeditbookreviews 4 роки тому +1631

    "75% of statistics are made up off the top of people's heads." Lol that was good.

    • @Phialla
      @Phialla 3 роки тому +7

      Lol. I wanted to leave the same comment.

    • @thesparks00
      @thesparks00 3 роки тому +15

      It's 78%
      Loljk

    • @fpsproductions6073
      @fpsproductions6073 3 роки тому +25

      The funny thing is, by saying that, your saying another statistic. So it must be made up, but maybe the first one was made up... its an endless cycle

    • @lucasdavies8268
      @lucasdavies8268 3 роки тому +12

      42% of people know that.

    • @rcmm8625
      @rcmm8625 3 роки тому +11

      Disagree, I'm 99% right 75% of the time. Numbers can be skewed

  • @minibuffon1
    @minibuffon1 3 роки тому +1616

    The 9 types...
    1. Perfectionist. Want to be good people.
    Positive traits: orderly, steadfast, ethical.
    Negative traits: perfectionist, judgemental, intolerant
    Fear: being a bad person
    2. Giver. Wants to take care of people.
    Positive traits: compassionate, caring
    Negative traits: manipulative, selfish, needy
    Fear: not mattering
    3. Performer/Achiever. Wants validation
    Positive traits: Confident, ambitious, charming
    Negative traits: Self centred, boastful
    Fear: Being worthless
    4. Artist. Want to demonstrate that they’re unique
    Positive traits: Perceptive, imaginative, passionate
    Negative traits: Dramatic, narcissistic
    Fear: Having no identity
    5. Thinker. Want to understand the world
    Positive traits: Analytic, inventive, independent
    Negative traits: Delusional, cynical, unsociable
    Fear: Being useless
    6. Loyalist, skeptic. Want security
    Positive traits: Likeable, loyal, responsible
    Negative traits: Fearful, self-doubting, aggressive
    Fear: Being abandoned
    7. Enthusiast. Want to get the most out of everything
    Positive traits: Quick learners, curious, bold
    Negative traits: Overindulgent, impulsive
    Fear: Being deprived
    8. Challenger. Want control
    Positive traits: Energetic, strong-willed, bold
    Negative traits: Domineering, argumentative, unfeeling
    Fear: Being controlled
    9. Peacemaker. Want to avoid conflict
    Positive traits: Easy-going, reassuring, unselfish
    Negative traits: Apathetic, irresponsible, indecisive
    Fear: Loss of connection with others

    • @__niaoniao
      @__niaoniao 3 роки тому +25

      Thank you. ^^

    • @RosheenQuynh
      @RosheenQuynh 3 роки тому +37

      God I hope I'm not narcissistic... That would kill me...

    • @SourPotato
      @SourPotato 3 роки тому +2

      I think this solidifies my claim of being a 7w6

    • @ammuammuz9393
      @ammuammuz9393 3 роки тому +29

      Why do I feel like I'm all of them🥴😭

    • @rachelk4805
      @rachelk4805 3 роки тому +14

      @@RosheenQuynh It isn't the same as being diagnosed with a narcissistic personality disorder or anything. Don't worry about it.

  • @Lileiny
    @Lileiny 4 роки тому +704

    "They may be comfortable with talking about Physics, but with normal stuff like holding up a job or having a relationship they might feel useless"
    Laughing nervously while being single and unemployed with a Master of Science degree and a history of dramatic relationship fails

    • @sandybeach8596
      @sandybeach8596 4 роки тому

      I'm single

    • @andyramirez6721
      @andyramirez6721 4 роки тому +5

      I've been studying about old roman history, I'm also unemployed and single since forever, yeah I'm indeed a 5. 😑

    • @PauliEvansBlack617
      @PauliEvansBlack617 4 роки тому +24

      You are my people. Single since forever, studying chemistry. Passed three calculus classes but trying to do my budget is a nightmare.

    • @EllePlowPlow
      @EllePlowPlow 4 роки тому +6

      I’m single. I gave up. Oh well. More time to learn new things I say.

    • @raihankameel320
      @raihankameel320 4 роки тому +3

      lol. Being a 5 with wing 6 (or having Te) massively helps in dealing with "practical" boring stuffs in life.

  • @laurene111
    @laurene111 4 роки тому +813

    Just wanted to say that the musician Sleeping at Last wrote 9 songs for each enneagram type, so once you found your type, go listen to the song related to it, it might hit your feelings but you definitely won't regret it

    • @nataliefades
      @nataliefades 4 роки тому +38

      Wow, I hadn’t heard that. I was just listening to one of my favorites, “Saturn” about an hour ago. I’m going to check this out. So curious.

    • @loref4200
      @loref4200 4 роки тому +17

      Yes, my favorite artist. Beautiful songs.

    • @justdecaffeinated
      @justdecaffeinated 4 роки тому +12

      Oh my friend showed it to me before and linked 9 to me to explain this character he had lol i told him after that I was a 9 myself

    • @tianas.6813
      @tianas.6813 4 роки тому +34

      sleeping at last is actually how i was introduced to enneagram!

    • @laurene111
      @laurene111 4 роки тому +6

      @@tianas.6813 yeah me too !!!

  • @hannahdivic28
    @hannahdivic28 4 роки тому +818

    OMG I JUST REALIZED: YOU’RE AN INFJ, AND YOUR INITIALS ARE FJ 👏🏼👏🏼

    • @emmazhang2418
      @emmazhang2418 4 роки тому +73

      HeyHannah omg what if his initials were IN in his past life ahahaha

    • @louisejoel
      @louisejoel 4 роки тому +30

      @@emmazhang2418 The probability is very high

    • @Corp0ratehippie
      @Corp0ratehippie 4 роки тому +9

      Hey I’m an INFJ too 🧚🏻

    • @Partycitybaex
      @Partycitybaex 4 роки тому +1

      Yup!

    • @alexo.o3729
      @alexo.o3729 4 роки тому

      🤦‍♂️

  • @snowstormsunscarface
    @snowstormsunscarface 2 роки тому +144

    I'm an INTJ and a type five (both originally mistyped). I like how MBTI has more types and is more comprehensive, but I also like how the Enneagram doesn't include introversion and extraversion.

    • @Bobo-gb9wz
      @Bobo-gb9wz Рік тому +5

      if you get to know enneagram deeper you'd be surprised how deep and personal they are

    • @illgnorance
      @illgnorance Рік тому

      it does has a certain level including introversion and extroversion actually, as how e8 can only be Se base, and e5 can only be Ti base and Ni base.

    • @hidum5779
      @hidum5779 7 місяців тому

      type 5 is known to be the most introverted of all types. I'm an INTJ and 5w6

  • @felipefreire2182
    @felipefreire2182 4 роки тому +935

    2:50 1. The perfectionist, reformer
    3:36 2. The helper, giver
    4:11 3. The performer, achiever
    4:51 4. The Artist, romantic
    5:44 5. The thinker, investigator
    6:40 6. The loyalist, skeptic
    7:40 7. The enthusiast, optimist
    8:14 8. The challenger, leader
    8:55 9. The peacemaker, mediator

  • @abhadas
    @abhadas 4 роки тому +446

    "different in a dis-advantaged way" as an INFJ and type 4, i felt that.

  • @thanatos2288
    @thanatos2288 4 роки тому +638

    "Delusional, cynical, unsociable, fears of being useless"
    Type 5, _cries_ in *INTJ*

    • @MsHetha
      @MsHetha 4 роки тому +41

      I thought I would be the only one.
      Almost said let's unite but...people...

    • @LooneyTiksCrap
      @LooneyTiksCrap 4 роки тому +21

      Same except with wing 6, like I just got stabbed in the Fi ...twice.
      I'm not useless, I can do a great many things. I just... people. I'm not crying. You can't prove anything.

    • @Qar-bp1yr
      @Qar-bp1yr 4 роки тому +27

      Wait you cry?

    • @kailiak4271
      @kailiak4271 4 роки тому +27

      @@Qar-bp1yr We never cry. LIES

    • @wynstansmom829
      @wynstansmom829 4 роки тому +16

      5W4, and I am an oldish INTJ, INtj or intraverted intuitive.
      Trust me, you will be useful.
      and you will always worry you won't be. But you will find a way.
      We persist and just like life, we find a way.

  • @hnnhplmr95
    @hnnhplmr95 3 роки тому +370

    Me: I relate to four and six
    Fj: 6 is very common
    Me: no im unique
    Oh

    • @antheia__
      @antheia__ 3 роки тому +16

      Lmao dw I'm a 4 but I relate to 6 because of ✨anxiety disorder✨

    • @nikharrith9625
      @nikharrith9625 3 роки тому +1

      @@antheia__ Well im a 4w3 and i can say that you just worried about yourself. I usually i had seen this comment like this and have a talk with them usualy they will worried about themself first. So i can really sure that you are a 4.

    • @nikharrith9625
      @nikharrith9625 3 роки тому +4

      You had a desire and a belief that you are unique,So you basicly just a 4

    • @Baseiscc
      @Baseiscc 3 роки тому +3

      I LITERALLY HAD THIS EXACT CONVERSATION WITH MYSELF RIP

  • @weirdqueenbee9116
    @weirdqueenbee9116 4 роки тому +1118

    Im type 3 (the performer), an ESFP (the entertainer), and on top of that a Leo. I feel like a walking bad joke of a stereotype
    Edit: look mom im a leo-type 3-ESFP who got 1k likes. I feel famous 💅🏻

    • @alastair2375
      @alastair2375 4 роки тому +36

      weird queen bee wait omg my friend is type 3 and esfp and a leo ?/!?/!-?:/!?-/

    • @monalletinie143
      @monalletinie143 4 роки тому +29

      I'm an ESFJ 6 virgo so i understand you at the walking stereotype 😭

    • @emmario1232
      @emmario1232 4 роки тому +11

      infp leo here. Somehow they both fit really well which I do not understand.

    • @KrisMel05
      @KrisMel05 4 роки тому +1

      @@Dwelleronthethreshold89 haaa, wait that’s sad

    • @Sam-wb2qi
      @Sam-wb2qi 4 роки тому +4

      i'm type 5, istp and a leo so... guess I'm incapable of understanding relashionships

  • @Corrupted
    @Corrupted 4 роки тому +720

    INTP type 4 here, I love the combination of analyzing art and having discussions about it lol

  • @JuliaPoprocks
    @JuliaPoprocks 4 роки тому +389

    Totally got distracted by the kids playing outside the window. 😂

    • @loref4200
      @loref4200 4 роки тому +24

      Lol, The last frame in the bloopers...

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  4 роки тому +110

      😂 me too when I edited

    • @LaurenAdrienne0486
      @LaurenAdrienne0486 4 роки тому +2

      Same!

    • @michaelaturzo
      @michaelaturzo 4 роки тому +3

      It ‘‘twas a great surprise :’)

    • @jessicapandapaw178
      @jessicapandapaw178 4 роки тому +5

      If I said I didn't notice them until you pointed it out.... what does that say about me? haha

  • @kayacarmen
    @kayacarmen 3 роки тому +209

    as a four and an infp i think I'm just destined to be a depressed guitarist

    • @katiieguinn
      @katiieguinn 3 роки тому +14

      🖤 I am the same as you kaya , I’m not sure why our types are usually so depressed

    • @oknothing9291
      @oknothing9291 3 роки тому +1

      Same

    • @EarthenCavy
      @EarthenCavy 3 роки тому +8

      I’m an INFP 4w5, so a disaster. 🤣 I’m an artist for a living, too. Lawd, chile…

    • @aryaraut6811
      @aryaraut6811 3 роки тому

      Hey cuz same

    • @prod.mgg13
      @prod.mgg13 3 роки тому

      I feel like almost all the INFPs are 4, I used to be an INFP and 4 but somehow my personality completely changed after 2 years and now I'm and INTP and 8w7. (Still not so sure about my enneagram type tho)

  • @PikachuDenki
    @PikachuDenki 4 роки тому +862

    Me: wow i think im a little bit of all of these but none of them are really me yet.
    Fj: talks abt 9
    Me: ... Okay
    Fj: 9 in a sense tries to be like all the others
    Me: oh shit

    • @moodymoods9261
      @moodymoods9261 4 роки тому +14

      Saaame

    • @Space_Potat
      @Space_Potat 4 роки тому +9

      Me fokin same! Except
      Each of 1,2,3,4 and probably 5 (don’t remember what each of them is and so I don’t remember at which of them the following thing I’ll say stops) I felt like haha, is thAt me?, wait, is this?, mabe that??,
      And I felt very close to almost all of the numbers (with maybe 1-2.5 exceptions for 6,7,8. 100% 8 ismn’tme), but then he started talking about the nine...... and in the very beginning when he showed the picture, in which I never noticed before (maybe because I didn’t pay that close attention), but did notice now, I noticed that, Hmm, why 9 is on the top and not 1?, must mean something then. .. and yap.. it does.. but about not having own opinion and personality¿, eemm, I don’t think so :/
      (Also the second name calls back to one of the INFP names). The last sentence he said about 9 hurt, much, though right now as I write this I don’t even remember what that was, mostly don’t

    • @randyschroeder2210
      @randyschroeder2210 4 роки тому +10

      I’ve been told everyone has a little of each type, but the goal is to find the closest match. It might make sense to dig into a book with details. When I did, I read one number until it didn’t feel like me anymore. Then move on to the next type, until you find the closest to you. Also, we’re all basically one number, with a “leaning” to the numbers on each side. For example, I’m a 7, but have a leaning to 6, and sometimes an 8, depending on the situation. I hope this heals?

    • @Space_Potat
      @Space_Potat 4 роки тому

      Randy Schroeder OH! Tanks, Randy, FJ said in the beginning of the video that everyone has a bit of each number, but everyone (INCLUDING ME) seems to forget it 😅

    • @user-xb4mh6jz3g
      @user-xb4mh6jz3g 4 роки тому +4

      Jesus loves you so much he even died to save you from your sins. He’s coming back soon, repent and turn away from your sins.

  • @ejvega
    @ejvega 4 роки тому +182

    I'm a type 8. For the longest time, I used to argue with people about all the reasons why I wasn't a type 8 because I didn't like how bossy the personality type sounded, and I wanted to convince people I wasn't domineering... It took me far too long to realize the irony of my intentions.
    PS. I personally prefer Enneagram to MBTI. I like how it mainly focuses on fear and desire, two of life's biggest motivators. I think it to be a better guide for life in this way. If you understand that which motivates you, you'll know how to rule your own life. (At least, that's my opinion on the matter.)

  • @toesaremyfetish5882
    @toesaremyfetish5882 4 роки тому +336

    Me a type 9: Watches this video instead of doing their homework and sees irresponsible
    Me: Nods head sadly and screaming with anxiety inside

    • @aliaa4534
      @aliaa4534 4 роки тому +4

      Me skipping class rn:

    • @Pram_qqq
      @Pram_qqq 4 роки тому +2

      Me watching the video and taking the enneagram test
      instead of reviewing for midterm next week
      and doing my undone task for online submission

  • @toasega
    @toasega 4 роки тому +72

    Him: Don't take a test.
    Me: imma do it

  • @catstrawford
    @catstrawford 4 роки тому +92

    2:49 Type 1, the perfectionist
    3:36 Type 2, the helper
    4:12 Type 3, the performer/achiever
    4:50 Type 4, the artist/romantic
    5:44 Type 5, the thinker/investigator
    6:39 Type 6, the loyalist/skeptic
    7:41 Type 7, the enthusiast/optimist
    8:15 Type 8, the challenger/leader
    8:57 Type 9, the peacemaker/mediator

  • @TheDancingBell
    @TheDancingBell 4 роки тому +380

    Me, an 8: "I am not that aggressive", husband: "yes you are"

  • @horrrorgasmus
    @horrrorgasmus 4 роки тому +590

    when you’re an INFP and type 4. well... the stars are aligning

    • @tessemo
      @tessemo 3 роки тому +9

      And infp and type 2w1

    • @ronelia.creative
      @ronelia.creative 3 роки тому +15

      I'm a type 4w3 but I'm an ENFP.. after some more research I realised that 4w3 are often ENFP.. so interesting

    • @coreywatts5143
      @coreywatts5143 3 роки тому +3

      same

    • @mandotory6728
      @mandotory6728 3 роки тому +33

      Well, I’m INFP and 4w5

    • @luisarico857
      @luisarico857 3 роки тому +10

      Do you know your zodiac sign, maybe a piscis? 👀👀👀

  • @jaebellamy7636
    @jaebellamy7636 3 роки тому +51

    Great presentation! New to Enneagram but fluent in Meyers Briggs, so far I think they both are helpful. I'm a 5.

    • @YouveGotaType
      @YouveGotaType Рік тому

      Hey Jae, If you'd like to learn more about Type 5 Investigators, check out this in depth video here: ua-cam.com/video/tSrcN4mmzU0/v-deo.html

  • @samjamwiches
    @samjamwiches 4 роки тому +478

    "Type 4 feels like they have no identity, and so they try to create something that people can interact with as a stand in for their identity."
    *cries in INFP*

    • @ritaruggerone4434
      @ritaruggerone4434 4 роки тому +23

      Don’t worry I’m crying with you😭😭😭

    • @sugarchoux_23
      @sugarchoux_23 4 роки тому +5

      Same 😭

    • @mariellarusso2268
      @mariellarusso2268 4 роки тому +16

      I'm an ENFP with a tendency to INFP and also a 4. Feel that😂😂😂

    • @sillyme7395
      @sillyme7395 4 роки тому +3

      Exactly!💔 it's so close to nine, but nine is even worst..am so Frustrated:(

    • @studiopersonalericadipalma704
      @studiopersonalericadipalma704 4 роки тому +2

      @@mariellarusso2268 I feel you.. sooooo me !! LOL still try to figure all the time if I'm E or I .. LOL ..

  • @phoenix5054
    @phoenix5054 4 роки тому +122

    The Enneagram legit sounds like MBTI functions created into each type, with an added type to make it less obvious.
    Perfectionist - Si
    Helper - Fe
    Performer - Se
    Artist - Fi
    Thinker - Ti
    Skeptic - Ni
    Enthusiast - Ne
    Challenger - Te
    Peacemaker - also Fe

    • @Dienamich
      @Dienamich 4 роки тому +4

      Pretty dead on there. Great job!

    • @francesivy6194
      @francesivy6194 4 роки тому +1

      I think that makes sense for most people but I'm a fi with a 6 enneagram

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  4 роки тому +18

      Yeah the 2 and the 5 line up especially clearly !

    • @ampa4989
      @ampa4989 4 роки тому +1

      @@FrankJames Isn't Thinker also Te (as well as Ti)? I think INTJs more naturally fit 5w6 than 3 or 8, though I understand 3 to some extent.

    • @savagestudio9666
      @savagestudio9666 4 роки тому +3

      Edge
      DSP language:
      1. Oi more Si more masculine
      2. De more Fe
      3. De more Te and Se, Play
      4. NF more Fi, feelers
      5. NT more Ti, thinkers and Oe
      6. Oi more Si, De
      7. Oe more Se, consume Play
      8. Masculine De, more Te
      9. Feelers, double feminine
      Mbti language quick archetypes:
      1. IXXJ
      2. EXFJ
      3. EXTJ maybe ESXX
      4. INXX and IXFP
      5. INXX and IXTP
      6. ISXJ maybe ESXJ
      7. EXXP
      8. EXTJ maybe EXTP
      9. XXFX most likely IXFX

  • @rheadel17
    @rheadel17 4 роки тому +298

    "In some ways, they honestly don't have an opinion."
    I'm type 9 and this is so true. 😅

    • @boris5950
      @boris5950 4 роки тому +16

      Are you sure?

    • @deannahenry8925
      @deannahenry8925 4 роки тому +1

      I've done tests and think mine is 9

    • @geiggistarkey2530
      @geiggistarkey2530 4 роки тому

      Rhea Fulgencio just curious......you’re type 9....what BM type are you?

    • @rheadel17
      @rheadel17 4 роки тому +2

      @@geiggistarkey2530 BM?

    • @kirknessfamily
      @kirknessfamily 4 роки тому +1

      9 here too. 🙃

  • @rogerhuggettjr.7675
    @rogerhuggettjr.7675 2 роки тому +50

    That was helpful. I took the test 3 times with 3 different results. The first was ridiculous, the second was 6w5 and the third was 9w1. From your description I am definitely a 6 which fits an INTP pretty good.

    • @last3122
      @last3122 2 роки тому

      9w1 also fits INTP

    • @soccerchamp0511
      @soccerchamp0511 2 роки тому +3

      I'm sorry, but INTP definitely = 5. They are both the "Analyst"/"Investigator" type.

    • @last3122
      @last3122 2 роки тому +22

      @@soccerchamp0511 every mbti and enneagram combo is possible, it’s just rare

    • @YouveGotaType
      @YouveGotaType Рік тому

      Hey Roger, if you'd like to learn more about Type 6 Loyalists, check out this in depth video here: ua-cam.com/video/jcjSX4qHb9Y/v-deo.html

    • @iamyclane2970
      @iamyclane2970 5 місяців тому

      ​@@last3122no

  • @luluanthem
    @luluanthem 4 роки тому +151

    I personally prefer Enneagram to MBTI, partly because it's more straightforward and clearer to observe. There's just so much more to functions I learn something new everytime I get back into MBTI.
    Enneagram is also perfect for character building and development since it is centered around concepts that are akin to how character motivators work.

    • @miguelpasamano4995
      @miguelpasamano4995 2 роки тому +3

      I use both. I'm an INFJ (borderline INFP) and a type 2 (borderline type 4)

  • @EllidaWangel
    @EllidaWangel 4 роки тому +63

    6:32 "but the normal stuff, like holding down a job or having a relationship, they feel like they're useless" OUCH that was unnecessarily accurate

    • @riube28
      @riube28 4 роки тому +6

      I feel you :/ lowkey followed the description with a whispered- 'useless at doing chores, remembering to pay bills in time, f*in having a normal day to day routine... does everyone need to know that?' o.O

    • @leggi_bois4eva
      @leggi_bois4eva 4 роки тому +5

      Same lol being INTJ dont help

    • @peachyprotist
      @peachyprotist 4 роки тому

      SAME I UGH AAAAA
      ._.

  • @jojoh1948
    @jojoh1948 4 роки тому +253

    Me throughout the video: idk I'm like all of them and none of them at the same time
    Fj: explains type 9
    Me: oh

    • @leander8840
      @leander8840 4 роки тому +4

      same xp

    • @andyjeon8789
      @andyjeon8789 3 роки тому +2

      Same😅

    • @lavanya1654
      @lavanya1654 3 роки тому

      ;-;

    • @danicaignjatovic3956
      @danicaignjatovic3956 3 роки тому +7

      Sameee, I was like I relate to 2,3,6,7 aaand... *9 comes next* "Oh shit"

    • @rikkousa
      @rikkousa 3 роки тому

      @Jojo H that could be me too. I am a little skeptical. :I have always enjoyed these type of personality tests but now work for a company that everyone is deeply into it. Moreover, I have become a huge advocate for the Herman Brain Dominance tool (plus My Motivators). I felt that it was far more relevant in understanding myself and others--and was a very useful tool for onboarding , leveraging skills talents, with really actionable things I can do to minimize my blind spots while leveraging other areas. It will be interesting to see how they judge me once they hear my #. Maybe I will sell them I am an 11 (9 plus 2) or is it 3 plus 6 plus 2?

  • @seaurchinayano6140
    @seaurchinayano6140 3 роки тому +12

    Frank: the enneagram is a tool to learn about yourself and overcome your weaknesses.
    Me: if I find out about my enneagram type, I will be able to find and save the most relatable enneagram memes.

  • @samfrancis8520
    @samfrancis8520 4 роки тому +298

    I was watching this and towards the end I was like “I don’t know... none of these *really* sound like me” ... and then you did Type 9

    • @shaunrussell4558
      @shaunrussell4558 4 роки тому +12

      Sam Francis haha🤣🤣yeah, I’m a pretty classic type 9! And I still don’t like it when he calls us out for trying to adapt to all the other personality types instead of exerting our own! I think I’m getting better at this but it’s a slow progress thing, as I feel comfortable which is too slow! Haha 😆

    • @randomchaos69
      @randomchaos69 4 роки тому +3

      I felt the same, the description hit me like a ton of bricks

    • @moneymaks24
      @moneymaks24 4 роки тому

      This is more fake than Horoscopes. Buy audible btw haha

    • @kaitlyntaylor7977
      @kaitlyntaylor7977 4 роки тому +4

      Me too!!! I got real emotional. 100 percent type 9... Was avoiding accepting it at the beginning or listening to others influences. Now everything makes sense.

  • @waterbottle9603
    @waterbottle9603 4 роки тому +344

    As a 9, i don't know what my type is

    • @schoolwork232
      @schoolwork232 4 роки тому +38

      Hi my dear...you must be an INFP! 😊

    • @Emi-bg2pq
      @Emi-bg2pq 4 роки тому +6

      I rly felt that

    • @waterbottle9603
      @waterbottle9603 4 роки тому +3

      gordon glad to know people can relate 🤟😔

    • @radicalfan8743
      @radicalfan8743 4 роки тому +5

      I'm a 9 and why do I feel the same??

    • @yolosangels
      @yolosangels 4 роки тому +28

      @@schoolwork232 This thread is scary because 1) I didn't know which mine was until FJ talked about the 9 and 2) then i saw the original comment basically saying exactly what i was thinking and finally 3) i'm a goddamn INFP.

  • @amethyst_myst
    @amethyst_myst 4 роки тому +367

    “Argumentative” -Im a Type 8 and an ENTP; this is the perfect description 🙃😂😭

    • @suriyanikkaran
      @suriyanikkaran 4 роки тому +6

      Me too! It sounds similar to numerology 😂🤣

    • @juliamarlin5612
      @juliamarlin5612 4 роки тому +2

      same

    • @ladyvengence8581
      @ladyvengence8581 4 роки тому +11

      Fellow ENTP! I'm a type 4 though want to debate about something artistic? 😂😂😂😖

    • @kirstenrxse
      @kirstenrxse 4 роки тому +2

      Same 😂

    • @gaby1717
      @gaby1717 4 роки тому +2

      so am i lol

  • @douglascampbell6482
    @douglascampbell6482 3 роки тому +6

    Frank - you have the best type! We are both so terminally unique and special that i may write a poem about our uniqueness and specialtude. Really enjoyed this vid, bro. Got yourself a subscriber

  • @julay629
    @julay629 4 роки тому +305

    Me, a 4w5, being like: so that makes me a melancholic, dramatic, narcissistic (...) unsociable nerd with the fear of having no identity and being useless, yay! 😄

  • @kitdav2631
    @kitdav2631 4 роки тому +704

    “Eccentric nerd” “wanna understand how EVERYTHING works” “useless at normal stuff, like relationships”
    Me, a 5 and INTJ: I feel exposed :/

    • @adithibhat7277
      @adithibhat7277 4 роки тому +26

      I am with you, buddy

    • @hennaali3075
      @hennaali3075 4 роки тому +25

      Oh my god, I’m exactly the same. Type 5 and INTJ too🤣

    • @jferragamo1154
      @jferragamo1154 4 роки тому +15

      Im with you man 5 and INTJ

    • @sadiellama8307
      @sadiellama8307 4 роки тому +11

      i’m also a 5 and an INTJ

    • @hygie2494
      @hygie2494 4 роки тому +26

      5w6 INTJ. And a woman.
      Knowing that the 5 seeks independence above all, knowledge in all its forms, and avoids the idea of invading their intimate territory.
      Then, knowing that type 6 seeks above all security and stability, often provided by a group.
      And finally, knowing that a woman is meant to be compassionate and caring, according to the society.
      Yeah. It's a mess.

  • @penfriend469
    @penfriend469 4 роки тому +271

    i knew this was a bad idea when i realised that i got offended by half of them already halfway through the video

  • @fredboykin7817
    @fredboykin7817 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you Frank. I enjoyed your videos so much. I am both a Myers Briggs and Enneagram coach but I find the Enneagram much more helpful. As a type 7 my therapy practice has changed because I now see how I got in my own way during sessions. I love the Enneagram and graduated from the Narrative Tradition almost 20 years ago. It's great seeing you carrying the information and teaching of the Enneagram onto the next generations.

  • @crystischloenvoigt7588
    @crystischloenvoigt7588 4 роки тому +67

    I’m the perfectionist. I’m also a full-blown ESTJ on the MB. My daughter is INFJ and your videos and info have helped us so much in our relationship!! Thank you for doing what you do!

    • @ladyemeraldfyre3829
      @ladyemeraldfyre3829 4 роки тому +2

      What are your Enneagrams ? Just curious if you could end up with same but different MBTI. Because if you were both 9 and peacemakers could work great. But cool though both trying to understand each other :)

    • @imtooqueerforthis
      @imtooqueerforthis 4 роки тому +1

      Hey, I’m a 1 and an ISTJ!

    • @Ice.muffin
      @Ice.muffin 2 роки тому +1

      Wow the exact same situation personality-wise like my mother and I, we don't understand each other much at all, at times it's very difficult to live together and to communicate because of these differences in how we see things. She believes she's so right in her conventional, rather narrow view of things, while I'm also convinced I am right in my own view ofc :). It's a battle truly.

  • @Granorla
    @Granorla 4 роки тому +117

    I’d say mbti is good for understanding yourself and others and how you interact with the world, whereas enneagram is better for growth and self-actualisation. 5w4 infj here :)

  • @e.taylor2609
    @e.taylor2609 4 роки тому +138

    “They feel like they don’t have an identity and so they need to create something else that people can interact with as a stand-in for their identity”
    I feel so attacked. I'm not a super creative person, but so much of my identity is tied into my aesthetic and the media I consume... like fandom, music taste, etc.

    • @twodirections7913
      @twodirections7913 4 роки тому +1

      oh my God i’ve never read something that i associated with more to the T

  • @ellathe231
    @ellathe231 2 роки тому +6

    If I’m being entirely honest, the four and three really, really hit close to home. Almost too close really, he described it perfectly how I need to be different, and how I need to have something original that people can remember me by
    It’s kinda funny to me cause I’m really introverted and hate being the center of attention, but at the same time that’s exactly where I need myself to be in order to feel good about myself lol

  • @wbrain00
    @wbrain00 4 роки тому +34

    When Frank said "Let´s have a commercial break", I told myself "Okay, let´s watch the whole ad for you Frank, for you." AND GUESS WHAT. THE AD WAS ALMOST 7 MINUTES LONG....
    DAMMIT.
    (meanwhile, i serached about the enneagram, because i´ve never heard of it before)

  • @LarissaFord
    @LarissaFord 4 роки тому +140

    An interesting point about type 6's being so common: I'm a 6 and can say from experience that 6's often can see themselves in others because 6's have a strong tendency for projection. My point is I wonder if it was a 6 who reported that half the world is other 6's 😅

    • @Butters030
      @Butters030 4 роки тому +2

      LA RISS AH

    • @YouveGotaType
      @YouveGotaType Рік тому

      If you'd like to learn more about Type 6 Loyalists, check out this in depth video here: ua-cam.com/video/jcjSX4qHb9Y/v-deo.html

  • @EC-rd9ys
    @EC-rd9ys 4 роки тому +109

    I always appreciate people who talk about their sources.

  • @SeanNg__n
    @SeanNg__n 3 роки тому +73

    When your an INFJ and dunno which one you are cuz you change depending on the person

    • @whateverbonbon9214
      @whateverbonbon9214 3 роки тому +1

      True

    • @kaboomgaming4255
      @kaboomgaming4255 3 роки тому

      But why do you change depending on the person? Find the reason behind that, and you can probably tell your type from that.

    • @shraddhagalwade7252
      @shraddhagalwade7252 3 роки тому +12

      @@kaboomgaming4255 Infj s keep changing in order to maintain interpersonal harmony

  • @hannahprose
    @hannahprose 4 роки тому +25

    Type 9 here. Enneagram is newer to me than mbti so this was very helpful! Thanks FJ!

  • @daisyai3221
    @daisyai3221 4 роки тому +221

    Type 5: drive to understand the word intimately
    me(as INTJ):sounds like me
    Type 5: fear of being useless
    me: yh. it's me.
    (I did cry due to the fear of being a useless person when i was young...

  • @Redorgreenful
    @Redorgreenful 4 роки тому +44

    Type 9: We’re trying to keep peace between the conflicting parts within us. We’re the karmic dumptruck of the other issues and drives of the other types. We get so overwhelmed by the needs and fears of each type pulling at us that we can be passive, apathetic and indecisive.

    • @LivyRivy
      @LivyRivy 4 роки тому +3

      I feel seen.

    • @Redorgreenful
      @Redorgreenful 4 роки тому

      Olivia Rivera ❤️ 💕

    • @lilacrolf9656
      @lilacrolf9656 4 роки тому +1

      is it like...when you're with your friends otw to a pizza house, you're thinking of getting a pepperoni one but when you come there all you're friends wants hawaiian? so you just say yes although you've been craving pepperoni because you worry that they're craving hawaiian too? someone answer me+_+

  • @xoxo_dd886
    @xoxo_dd886 Рік тому +1

    Ive always been extremely confused with enneagrams because it just doesn't seem to add up, i took a first test and got type six but that was nothing like me then i took a different one and got type three and again a different one and got type four, it literally messed with my brain cause none of it actually sounded like me or how i view things so i just came to the silly conclusion that 'i dont have an enneagram' but i actually learned more about it and its wings and finally concluded that im a 4w5, it might seem a bit confusing to some at first but thats why you need to dive in cause you cant just search once about something and just assume you know it all, and its actually great to learn that its normal to be confused about something like this

  • @djhallmighty
    @djhallmighty 4 роки тому +446

    "75% of statistics are made off the top of people's heads."
    There's a 75% chance you made that off the top of your head... hmm...

    • @andstermcxd679
      @andstermcxd679 4 роки тому +2

      75 likes too 🤔

    • @alyderuby2480
      @alyderuby2480 4 роки тому +7

      I reckon FJ was joking here.

    • @5gonza541
      @5gonza541 4 роки тому +3

      Evan Hall actually, your conclusion relies upon the fact the his statistic is correct sooo XD

    • @stefanmirica6485
      @stefanmirica6485 4 роки тому +2

      @@laraohmaye875 25% chance he is wrong.

  • @GoldenOwlEvents
    @GoldenOwlEvents 4 роки тому +15

    I'm 4 w 5 INFJ.
    And yes, suuuuper relatable, everything you described.
    I admire your knowledge on these psych subjects, FJ!

  • @bojanab.9424
    @bojanab.9424 4 роки тому +95

    7w8 and ENFP My mind is like a browser: 19 tabs, 5 applications opened and nobody knows where the music comes from. 🤣

    • @millbranch2
      @millbranch2 4 роки тому +7

      ENTP 7 here!! I feel you!! Except mine is that I answer all questions by shaking the Magic 8 Ball in my head. Whatever pops up must be right and generally is. But when I am wrong, I am spectacularly wrong.

    • @taniaguimaraes4496
      @taniaguimaraes4496 4 роки тому +1

      I'm also an ENFP type 7! Usually the music comes from all sides of my head (seriously, my mind is like a radio 😂)

    • @milofinnliot1617
      @milofinnliot1617 4 роки тому +1

      yooo same I got like too many tabs haha

    • @Hansolonosolo
      @Hansolonosolo 4 роки тому +2

      im also 7w8 and enfp this is such a struggle i have the attention span of a toddler

    • @castiel9601
      @castiel9601 4 роки тому +2

      7w8 ENTP here, all I have to say is same😂

  • @chaoschannel3428
    @chaoschannel3428 3 роки тому +33

    Me: **an ENFJ, Type 7, Sagittarius**
    Also me: *"Oh yeah, it's all coming together."*

    • @mirror_raccoon
      @mirror_raccoon 3 роки тому +3

      Collecting them personalities like the chaos emeralds huh

    • @wewo9872
      @wewo9872 3 роки тому +2

      LMAO

  • @Raev222
    @Raev222 4 роки тому +87

    Yeah the 5 hit hard. I laughed out loud when the roast came.
    INTP

    • @youssef8368
      @youssef8368 4 роки тому +9

      Christa O. 5 and INTP as well ,i was checking comments section to find if am i the only INTP and 5 or it's normal for INTPs

    • @Raev222
      @Raev222 4 роки тому +5

      @@youssef8368 I think it's very common for INTP. I think 5w6 is too.

    • @youssef8368
      @youssef8368 4 роки тому +1

      Christa O. Yup i'm 98% 5 and 77% 6

    • @MagikForTheMAsses
      @MagikForTheMAsses 4 роки тому +3

      So far I count 5 of us, The INTP 5s.... we could use this opportunity to take over the world.. but who cares about the world lol back to our studies

    • @barb7124
      @barb7124 4 роки тому

      INFP type 4 here. I would bet that most INTPs would type as fives. It fits.

  • @5674Kc
    @5674Kc 4 роки тому +44

    Seriously Frank, we were reading our types at my sister's house, and when we got to type 4 I remember furiously blushing. Its embarrassing how self centered type 4 can be! 😂

  • @reachthestars
    @reachthestars 4 роки тому +17

    Great video! You explained everything so clearly!
    I am an INFJ Type 1 and I relate to everything you said.
    I always set high expectations, which makes me feel like a failure, and I judge others if they don't live up to them. But then I see them being hurt from my judgement and I beat myself over it. "I need to improve on this. This was bad. Am I a bad person?"

    • @Kezza317
      @Kezza317 4 роки тому

      I feel the same. Infj here and still figuring out if I am a 1, 5 or 8.

  • @Arniqua
    @Arniqua Рік тому +1

    I'm 4w5 and tbh, that's accurate. I'm the absent minded professor by the day and brooding melancholic artist by the night.

  • @melissatee162
    @melissatee162 4 роки тому +25

    I’m an INFP and type 4.. it’s interesting seeing the differences and overlap between the 2

  • @thifalmaidawilhelmina1888
    @thifalmaidawilhelmina1888 4 роки тому +27

    Mediator, INFP. I always wonder why am i so quiet, really. And almost everytime i don't have an opinion and always be very very afraid of conflict. I see. That's why. Thanks:)))

  • @katcyer26
    @katcyer26 4 роки тому +113

    When your so screwed up your not even sure how much of your personality is your personality and how much is your acting

    • @mariellarusso2268
      @mariellarusso2268 4 роки тому +6

      You are a 4

    • @katcyer26
      @katcyer26 3 роки тому +2

      @@avinatine No, you really do make sense, and your describing it better than I ever could 😅
      I understand 😖

    • @wolszczaw
      @wolszczaw 3 роки тому +4

      I think I have a similar problem to you guys. I often just act like I think it would be best for the particular situation or I try to figure out what kind of person people around me need in that moment and then I become this person.

    • @Ren-hd8jd
      @Ren-hd8jd 3 роки тому

      I'm an INTJ and a 5 but this is so true. I went from extremely weird changes in my childhood, my MBTI kept changing and eventually ended up as ENFJ (until I was 7) > INFJ (until I was 10) > INTJ. Where I live social status is incredibly important so even after I stopped Fe I had to build up a different personality so that I wouldn't get scolded by the teachers. Now I can't tell how much of what I feel in my head is true or me just creating the emotions I'm meant to feel in my mind.

  • @joeramsey3192
    @joeramsey3192 2 роки тому

    My Myer Briggs (Personality) has changed me recently from INFP to ESFJ. In fact, working with people and spending time with my family has changed my ways to this personality.

  • @rydiaom
    @rydiaom 4 роки тому +112

    4w5 and INFP here. Sometimes I wonder why do I have to be like this, always suffering. :v Then I remember that's a typical way to think when you're a 4 and I'm like "Well, nevermind".

    • @justloutea4027
      @justloutea4027 4 роки тому +4

      Me too ,infp type 4 😂

    • @ThisIsNotAhnJieRen
      @ThisIsNotAhnJieRen 4 роки тому +3

      INFP, 9w1 My head is basically in the clouds and I SUCK at arguments.

    • @alexo.o3729
      @alexo.o3729 4 роки тому +5

      4 wing 5 and INFP as well 😀

    • @EmmaAppleBerry
      @EmmaAppleBerry 4 роки тому +1

      SAME!!! INFP 4w5 twin 💖💖💖😙😙😙🕊🕊🕊

    • @miriamschmitz394
      @miriamschmitz394 4 роки тому +1

      4w5 INFJ here

  • @brigiish
    @brigiish 4 роки тому +82

    YES I've been waiting for this. I'm a type 9 and an INFJ and I feel I'm kinda fucked up tbh.

  • @oboroshirakumo650
    @oboroshirakumo650 4 роки тому +55

    Bruh me being called out at 9... *crawls away*
    btw INFP, so I kind of have my own mindset & opinions. When around others though I tend to become like others around me. I lose myself around certain people.
    *Loving online friends because, I start to see myself & not become others*

    • @OretteZ
      @OretteZ 4 роки тому +2

      Are you sure that you aren't an INFJ with a low J preference? Because that's definitely an INFJ Chameleon thing. I'm not certain if INFPs with low P preference also do it, though.

    • @hannahmary6023
      @hannahmary6023 4 роки тому +1

      I'm an INFP and I have the exact same problem, losing myself

    • @sirCharon
      @sirCharon 4 роки тому +1

      I am kind of the same I just don't speak my thoughts out when I am with other people I am just going with the flow although I really hate it

    • @oboroshirakumo650
      @oboroshirakumo650 4 роки тому

      @@OretteZ well I'm an INFP according to the MBTI quiz
      My mum is an INFJ though
      We're very similar but not the same
      Just I've read both & personally I am more INFP but I might be INFJ who knows

    • @oboroshirakumo650
      @oboroshirakumo650 4 роки тому

      @@sirCharon bruh that's a mood

  • @donniehuan5952
    @donniehuan5952 3 роки тому

    I'm an ISFP (MBTI) & 9w8 (Eannergram)
    They're so relevant in my personality!

  • @andreasmith6248
    @andreasmith6248 4 роки тому +57

    9w1 here 😁 As a big fan of both the personality tests...I’ve heard people say Meyers Briggs describes how the world sees you and Enneagram describes how you see the world 🙃 great video!! Loved your description of all the types!

    • @MK-mx7up
      @MK-mx7up 2 роки тому +2

      hey, i’m 9w1 too :)
      what’s your myers briggs type? i’m infj

    • @andreasmith6248
      @andreasmith6248 2 роки тому +2

      @@MK-mx7up INFP 😄

    • @E3boss2003
      @E3boss2003 2 роки тому

      I'm a 9 but what does the w mean

    • @andreasmith6248
      @andreasmith6248 2 роки тому +3

      @@E3boss2003 “w” is your wing or which number you lean toward. I’m a 9 with more 1 characteristics than 8.

    • @E3boss2003
      @E3boss2003 2 роки тому +1

      @@andreasmith6248 K thx Well I'm 9w8 then

  • @Sleepy_Maenad
    @Sleepy_Maenad 4 роки тому +132

    Type 6: They latch on to people and have a fear of abandonment.
    5 year old me: *extremely sad and lost in a mall because I was infront of my mom and she got distracted by clothes*
    NEVER AGAIN

    • @NyrVindr
      @NyrVindr 4 роки тому +8

      💀💀💀

    • @Nurtherwen
      @Nurtherwen 4 роки тому +10

      That happened to me. They called an amber alert and the cops found me sleeping in a clothes rack. My mom was so angry at me it scared the crap out of me and I cried for so long. I'm now agoraphobic.

    • @Sleepy_Maenad
      @Sleepy_Maenad 4 роки тому +5

      I'm so sorry that happened to you dude

    • @Sleepy_Maenad
      @Sleepy_Maenad 4 роки тому

      F

    • @monalletinie143
      @monalletinie143 4 роки тому +1

      That's relatable

  • @agatatomicka8537
    @agatatomicka8537 4 роки тому +16

    Frank being sponsored by audiable?? I'm so proud! You go Frank! Love from Poland ❤️

  • @ladyariadne
    @ladyariadne 2 роки тому

    I am a four.. and dude. you quite literally described me. In the most accurate way possible. How is this even a thing.

  • @Jenna_Joseph
    @Jenna_Joseph 4 роки тому +82

    I’m a 4w5 who is wildly embarrassed about how well I fit the stereotype. I literally wear all black, sit in coffee shop corners, and write in a leather journal..... apparently like every other 4. Kill me now. 🙃

    • @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa
      @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa 4 роки тому +7

      Why don't I fit the stereotype :( I wear all pastel, don't stay in coffee shops, and write in a pastel journal...

    • @wakerobin9215
      @wakerobin9215 4 роки тому +20

      @@duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa so I'm imagining to the two of you becoming friends, and for some reason it sounds like an anime to me 😅

    • @YunaMoon_93
      @YunaMoon_93 4 роки тому +6

      Hey hey, I'm a type 4 too and I dont wear just black! Sometimes I wear some grey too! So we dont be all this kind of stereotype!

    • @erika89765
      @erika89765 4 роки тому +10

      I’m an ENFP 4... so I’m this weird combination of a happy personality with a sad soul. I wear bright colors and accessories, but I will drag you into a deep and brooding conversation the moment you ask. Or maybe even if you don’t ask... I’m still working on not oversharing my existential crises with unsuspecting people 😂

    • @Jenna_Joseph
      @Jenna_Joseph 4 роки тому

      GaymerGirl because you’ve succeeded in being different while I haven’t 😩😂

  • @laurenrogers
    @laurenrogers 4 роки тому +78

    I’m a 4! I think this definitely makes sense. The first ten years of my life I was in a tiny Christian school, not only was I bullied horribly but I also had little to no opportunities to express myself creatively. Even everything that was “artistic”, we all had to follow the same instructions, or it was color-by-number or something. As soon as I was finally able to leave all I wanted was to find places where I could express my individuality and grow in my talents.

    • @faceerinhendleymua
      @faceerinhendleymua 3 роки тому +1

      Same!!!

    • @YouveGotaType
      @YouveGotaType Рік тому +1

      If you'd like to learn more about Type 4 Individualists, check out this in depth video here: ua-cam.com/video/V8H22OLdWwQ/v-deo.html

  • @cristiperez2203
    @cristiperez2203 4 роки тому +21

    Type 7 and a ENFP here. I'd say they go well with each other

  • @sarahfara1539
    @sarahfara1539 3 роки тому +7

    I'm INFP but I think in the enneagramm I'm 8w9, although I wouldn't see myself as a "leader". But overall it fits well. "Defend themselves by building emotional walls and denying vulnerability"; "fear being hurt by others", "fear being controlled by others" sounds about right. Also 8s are said to turn into 2s when happy (when I'm happy I'm more of an ENFP style but also like gifting others and doting on them) and into 5s when stressed (massive overthinking and analyzing).

  • @bellisima_h
    @bellisima_h 4 роки тому +122

    "Type Four traits: Melancholy, Dramatic, Narcissistic"
    me an INFJ: Wow, I have never agreed on something so embarrassingly and offensively true about me. Well, acceptance it is. *𝘴𝘰𝘣𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘐𝘕𝘍𝘑*

  • @nicolasdutoit9664
    @nicolasdutoit9664 4 роки тому +6

    The best introduction to the Types one can find on UA-cam! Once again, a charismatic, brilliant video!

  • @Glamisback
    @Glamisback 4 роки тому +53

    INFJ and 9w1. I think i always try to be a good person for everyone. So I became a bad person for myself i guess.

    • @lbjcb5
      @lbjcb5 4 роки тому +1

      Yay! Me too 😁 Hang in there. Learning about Enneagram has helped understand how to deal with people and life better

    • @alejandragil2480
      @alejandragil2480 4 роки тому +1

      That is so deep

    • @brittnymeeks6838
      @brittnymeeks6838 4 роки тому

      As a fellow INFJ and possibly 9w2 I relate to this statement so much. I am always the last on my list of priorities!

    • @ellan1664
      @ellan1664 4 роки тому

      Damn... I related hard to that as an infj.

    • @kaany.9120
      @kaany.9120 4 роки тому +1

      Brittny Meeks There‘s no such thing as a 9w2. It‘s either 9w1 or 9w8.

  • @sainandhebbar5694
    @sainandhebbar5694 3 роки тому +1

    INFJ-A
    Enneagram type 4
    He had me in
    *If you are wearing black and sitting around the corner thinking colourful abstracts*

  • @ritahertzberg5762
    @ritahertzberg5762 4 роки тому +6

    INFP and T4/5: a match made in Dante’s version of heaven or perfectly imperfect in every way. I love being me.

  • @seqkatwinn2766
    @seqkatwinn2766 4 роки тому +12

    I like both the MBTI as well as the Enneagram. I have to laugh at your videos seeing myself and some family members acting out their Enneagrams! I find I fit both the INFJ as well as the Ennegram 5/4. Really appreciate your videos! Knowing who am I and why I do things has really helped self-acceptance and lessened self-criticism. Thanks, Frank! :)

  • @robhulson
    @robhulson 4 роки тому +67

    “Some people say that six is the most common of the Enneagram types, like maybe half of the world’s population is made up of sixes. I don’t know how they arrive at that figure....?”
    2020 Pandemic: Allow me to introduce myself.

    • @ariellebaines471
      @ariellebaines471 4 роки тому +4

      robhulson right! I have heard it several times too! But I feel like I’ve known more 2s and any other number.. but also as a 4 I think that 2s are one of the only numbers that have the capacity to love me... :/

    • @erika89765
      @erika89765 4 роки тому

      Arielle Baines Fellow four here, just from your comment you rock and I love you 💞😊

    • @kytrenarenee6031
      @kytrenarenee6031 4 роки тому

      Arielle Baines my two best friends are 2s and i am a 4 as well so i feel you lmao

  • @geekygrl10
    @geekygrl10 2 роки тому +2

    I was kind of zoning out through the sponsorship, until I heard Wheel of Time! I LOVE that series! Also, the video was great, very informative!

  • @juriL
    @juriL 4 роки тому +281

    “Type 9: Apathetic, indecisive, and irresponsible.”
    Well--
    “They have no opinions and wants to be everyone else.”
    **sweats**

  • @barostakuk1058
    @barostakuk1058 4 роки тому +55

    This feels like a good time to comment what I lowkey wanted to for some time 😅 I discovered your channel when I was thinking a lot about life and when I had no one around me I could talk to about it in that way I seen it or felt it. And I found a lot of solace in your talky videos about random fears and deeper thoughts because you talked about things I thought about, and I felt like you understood. And that made me feel a lot less alone with myself at that time. Now it all clicked together for me, why that might have been the case. Keep on what you're doing, you're by far one of my favorite channels. -- yours truly, type 4 😁💜
    Edit: the type 4 thing is more or less anecdotal, it mostly just reminded me of what I wanted to comment 😁😅

  • @ambujapandey1083
    @ambujapandey1083 2 роки тому

    INTP, Type 9
    9:04 when you said that question, the answer in my head was exactly that! I just actually don't have an opinion/answer all the time... When you can comprehend each aspect and perspective of people, your own sanity gets problematic, whether to agree more to A or B.. Its not even that I'm fearing to offend someone, I genuinely am heavily indecisive...
    I would say, I like staying away from drama, gossip or anything against somebody... I will rather get existential crisis than stir the pot with someone, it seems like a crime when my friends try doing that...makes me anxious

  • @ddude1212
    @ddude1212 4 роки тому +258

    BRUH AM I 2, 4, 5, 6, 7, OR 9 BC I VIBE WITH ALL OF THEM
    P.S. I’m an INFP :’)

    • @SuperTank121212
      @SuperTank121212 4 роки тому +34

      YES! Oh my god same here. He said usually you relate to two or three, by the end it was hard to keep track of what numbers I related to.
      Also an INFP 😇

    • @ddude1212
      @ddude1212 4 роки тому +25

      Skippy Peanut I guess it depends on what side of the bed I wake up on on any given day 😭😭 but hey we’re versatile, and a bundle of surprises

    • @spiritualsnail1584
      @spiritualsnail1584 4 роки тому +1

      SAME omg lmfao

    • @laetisg8972
      @laetisg8972 4 роки тому

      Exactly. The. Same. Reaction. Ahah

    • @senroillust4114
      @senroillust4114 4 роки тому +23

      Most likely INFP to be 4 and 9, that's from what i heard

  • @thehooz
    @thehooz 4 роки тому +4

    I'm an INFJ and a type 1w9. I, too, had watched Richard Rohr's videos on the Enneagram. Good stuff for sure.

  • @expired_rosin
    @expired_rosin 4 роки тому +148

    "Scared to be useless"
    🙃 why u gotta expose me like that
    -five

    • @Arygua
      @Arygua 4 роки тому

      Don't worry, it was a double kill.

    • @theajane6444
      @theajane6444 4 роки тому +3

      Don't worry, lovely 5s...where would we be without your thirst for knowledge and unique perspective?!
      -an admiring 9

    • @AK-jt7kh
      @AK-jt7kh 4 роки тому

      Thea Jane aww that’s sweet of you. I think I might be a 5 but I can’t tell

  • @nebulasofia
    @nebulasofia 3 роки тому +42

    INFJ + 9w1 = me begin a people pleaser, having no clue what my identity or my feelings are and no expressing emotions because I don't want to bother anyone but worrying about how they feel.
    Lol

    • @fey6956
      @fey6956 3 роки тому

      Bro r we twins?

    • @daud1269
      @daud1269 3 роки тому +1

      Are you me? Yeah, sometimes I can't understand how some people can have a strong opinion over anything.

    • @Oushiro17
      @Oushiro17 3 роки тому

      I feel ya. I’ve known about my typing for both systems for 11 years but still am learning new things about myself, or fall back into the people pleasing in order to keep things calm. But we gotta lean into that 3 energy, even though it is uncomfortable if we want to grow. Thankfully my brother-in-law is a type 3 so I consider myself very fortunate.

  • @RoseCottageColleen
    @RoseCottageColleen 4 роки тому +4

    Best book I ever read on personality types is "Who Are You Really?" by Gary Null. Spot on and relatable.

  • @aimieleeb
    @aimieleeb 4 роки тому +36

    Type 4: "The romantic" Me, Intj and type 4: I'm what?

  • @weartide5174
    @weartide5174 4 роки тому +26

    The musician Sleeping At Last did a whole album on each of the types. I highly reccomend it!

    • @onalbetul1809
      @onalbetul1809 4 роки тому +2

      What? I know that musician, are these one, two, three.... Songs?

    • @weartide5174
      @weartide5174 4 роки тому

      @@onalbetul1809 yes those! Theres also a podcast or at least was at some point where he explains more about them each but last I saw only a few were still on here. Its worth looking into!!

    • @onalbetul1809
      @onalbetul1809 4 роки тому

      Oh, thank you!

    • @tejakausik6205
      @tejakausik6205 4 роки тому

      i love those songs so much!!

    • @xkarasux
      @xkarasux 4 роки тому

      I know about Enneagram because of that album 😀

  • @qwandary
    @qwandary 2 роки тому

    Lmao I like the blooper, gotta admit I was beginning to watch the kids/adult playing outside more than you at one point. It was rather wholesome seeing it tbh.

  • @k.n.fitzwater
    @k.n.fitzwater 4 роки тому +11

    I think I'm a 9/peacemaker, I found myself agreeing (laughing) to every peacemaker part you did.
    I used to be a major peacemaker when I was a child and I think that was derived from my parents they were thinking of seperating (maybe this is the INFP side of being this sensitive?) Their divorce never happened because I was able to communicate my mother and try to get her to see things his way (and his reactions to her actions, visa versa). They eventually re-created their bond with each other (something they did on their own) and are still together to this day. As I got older, I hate seeing best friends/couples argue and break up over trite things. Hearing about normal people divorcing makes me cringe even though that may be the healthiest choice for them. I became interested in abusive conflicts, which carried over into my degree choice (veternary forensics covers animal neglect & abuse) and in my fantasy books when I switched to being a writer, but I don't know if that is an attritube of the peacemaker. I do go with the flow, but my INFP side creates a moral standard that I don't cross, but I try not to interject and tell people what to do with their lives (unless they asked for help).
    That being said, I wonder.... Is the enneagram number an umbrella of expected MBTI types? Or does each MBTI have flavors/subtypes that are the nine enneagram types? I find that the MBTI is how you react to/strive towards stimuli (such as social interactions) and the enneagram is how you solve the perceived problem.

  • @maraneza-5370
    @maraneza-5370 4 роки тому +39

    9:10 LMAOO “they honestly don’t have an opinion” truee.
    Feel so attacked suddenly Lol

  • @elizabethr.2491
    @elizabethr.2491 4 роки тому +36

    Hey Frank!!! Would you ever consider making more music and releasing it? :D I remember watching some of your older videos & you talking about your passion for music & creating it.

    • @cierahayes
      @cierahayes 4 роки тому

      YES PLEASE!!! 👏🎶🎸💗

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  4 роки тому +11

      Maybe some day!

  • @hoosierdeddy92
    @hoosierdeddy92 3 роки тому

    I'm type 5. It's obvious by how excited I got when you gave book suggestions.