When Your Partner Changed After Marriage: What to Do Next | By Nouman Ali Khan
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- Опубліковано 15 лип 2024
- In this video, we explore the dynamic nature of relationships and the complexities of marriage. People change over time due to various life experiences, and sometimes, the person you married is not the same as they used to be. This change is a part of life, not something to blame on divine decree. Marriage should be an informed decision, where families come together, and individuals do their best to understand each other.
Our Deen (faith) beautifully outlines the marriage relationship. It's essential to understand that practicing religious rituals alone does not make someone a good person in every way. The primary objective of marriage is to find peace and tranquility in each other. When choosing a spouse, ask yourself what brings you peace and calm. Your spouse should be someone who reduces your stress and anxiety, not adds to it.
It's crucial to pay attention to any red flags during the courtship phase. Drama, temper issues, and communication difficulties should not be ignored. The most important conversation you can have with your potential spouse is about what brings each of you peace and how you can provide that to each other.
For young men and women, especially those in university, focus on staying purposeful and out of trouble. Don't let anxiety about marriage distract you from your goals. When you live a purposeful life, good people will come into your life naturally.
Remember, you have the perfect life as a Muslim, full of opportunities. Live with purpose, and the right spouse will find you. #nikah #marriage #islamicmarriage #islamicvideo #islamicmotivation
May Allah give me husband who can be my calm, when i talk to him my stress goes down , my anxiety goes down and anger disappears. May Allah protect me from drama and grant me peace, mawadda and Rahmah in my marriage. May I accomplish my purpose and May ALLAH send good people of purpose in my life. Aameen
Aameen...
Aameen aameen yarabal alameen
Ameeen Ya RAB ul aaalameeen🌹👑💘
Marriage should be an informed decision, where families come together, and individuals do their best to understand each other.
Unmarried folks out here, here's a bit of hope for y'all. Recite this dua to get a pious spouse in which we all could find peace in. I pray we all find the missing part of ours soon, In Shaa Allah..
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ "
" وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
(“rabbana hablana min azwajina wa dhuriyyatina qurrata A’yunin waj’alna lil- muttaqina imama”)
“Our Lord, grant us from among our pious spouse and offsprings comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.”
(Surah Furqan:74)
Agree. I married a man who tried to kill me and my daughter. He had mental issues and no one ever thought I should know that. His sister was my good friend for over 10 years. He was so nice and sweet from the beginning but two years into the marriage he began to complain about things and was asking for things that were haram. He blamed me for everything but I took care of him and was a very good wife. I ask Allah to have this divorce be peaceful and have that man get his life right.
I am your sister from Yemen, and by Allah I only spoke out of hunger and distress. My mother, my brothers, and I lessons and tears. We are in a situation that only God knows about. God is sufficient for us, and He is the best disposer of affairs for those who brought us to this situation. By Allah Almighty, I did not write this appeal out of distress and distress. Poverty, O world, they have felt it So, I hope for you. By Allah Almighty, Lord of the Great Throne, he ate what I had in the house. By Allah, my brothers, he is my brothers by sitting in the house. Who has no food? By God, we are in a very difficult situation. We have 4 people entering the house, and my father has died, and there is no one who can depend on us and who lives in it.We live in a rented house because we cannot pay the rent we owe. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''' My brother, my first words are: I swear to God that I will not lie to you or deceive you. I am a Yemeni girl displaced from the war. My family and I live in a rented house in Al-Shahrab 20,000 Yemenis among us, and now we owe 60,000 for 3 months. The owner of the house is one of the people who does not have mercy, by God, my brother. He comes every day, insulting us, talking about us, and moving from the house to the street because we were unable to pay him the rent. The neighbors saw us crying and came back.They came back to talk to the neighbors and we were given the weekend. So we made him swear by God. He will take us out into the street. Have mercy on him and us. Our country is due to this war and we do not find food for our day, and my brothers and I live in a difficult life. Our father died, may God have mercy on him, and we have no one in this world who was with us in these harsh circumstances. My younger brothers went out into the street and saw...The neighbors eat and stand at their door in order to give them bread even if they break it. By God, to whom belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth, they closed the door and expelled them and came back crying. They are dying of hunger. No one has mercy on them and a holiday is returned. I have made a living, and now if one of us helps us with a kilo of flour, I swear to God, I am dying of hunger. My brother, I am an alien to God. Then, I ask you to help me for the sake of God. I ask you, by God, to love goodness and to help me, even if you can, by messaging me on WhatsApp.On this number 00967716649494 and ask for the name of my card and send it and do not be late and may God reward you with all the best, my brothers Sagar, see how they are and help us and save us before they throw us out in the street, you will be lost or we will die of hunger. My family and I ask you, by God, if you are able to help us, do not be late and may God reward you well..`/--~«««~-♡~♡~♡~~•~•~♡~♡~♡~♡~♡~♡♡♡~~~: ~:~¡~¡~¡~;I.i.i.i.i.i. i.I.|-◖˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛'''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛˹˛ː↿⁞ː&}↑:%%;&;&;