“How’s Parker? How are the kids?” | My final answer

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  • @babygonewrong
    @babygonewrong 5 днів тому +2

    Nailed it!! That was stunning! Desiderata man.. your daze will be remembered.. and I for one will honor your suffrage; rather than question it. I'm am proud of you and your son both. And while I understand how deep bottom can be; your eyes are wide open, your shoulders square, your head is held high, and your gait is that of a man who knows who, and why, he is. No woman could ask for better.. and few will rise to deserve it.. but a man who cares so deeply for his sire; is a treasure best left to his own mind. Thank you for sharing it with the rest of us.

    • @CalebLeverett
      @CalebLeverett  5 днів тому

      Aw, wow. Thank you. I must admit that I had to look up Desiderata man. You are very kind. Things are finally getting better. ❤️

  • @MadsAnderson-mt3rs
    @MadsAnderson-mt3rs 2 місяці тому +331

    we appreciate your answer Caleb, you’re an amazing father for considering your children’s privacy over the internet.

  • @WilliamWhite-i5f
    @WilliamWhite-i5f 2 місяці тому +417

    This man is the only reason im still alive today. I left my dad three weeks ago. This is almost my internet dad.

    • @CalebLeverett
      @CalebLeverett  2 місяці тому +184

      Hang in there, kid. Focus on yourself. Educate yourself. Get wealthy. Get in shape. Repeat.

    • @WilliamWhite-i5f
      @WilliamWhite-i5f 2 місяці тому +21

      @@CalebLeverett thanks brother

    • @victoriaburton2268
      @victoriaburton2268 2 місяці тому +7

      @williamWhite you got this!!!!!!!

    • @victoriaburton2268
      @victoriaburton2268 2 місяці тому +9

      @williamWhite-i5f You got
      this I believe in you 🤗

    • @Burak-du3sb
      @Burak-du3sb 2 місяці тому +4

      more power to you bro

  • @benh-d8733
    @benh-d8733 2 місяці тому +195

    Mad respect, man, you don't owe anyone and answer because it's their life. You are an amazing father. It's good to see you doing well!

  • @NevaehMadison-di4wf
    @NevaehMadison-di4wf 2 місяці тому +153

    I just spent my daily routine coming across a clip of Parker’s Movie and I watched all the parts, ended up going to this UA-cam channel and watching the rest. Parker’s story is genuinely something so important for kids to understand and realize they aren’t the only ones who feel the way Parker did. I did, I felt scared and begged to not go to my dad’s house since I was 10. Thankfully in Georgia, I had the option to not do the “every other weekend” situation when I was 15. I felt for Parker so much. You are truly such a wonderful father and half of these negative comments are people who have never had to live through it before. God bless you. I hope you too see how incredible it is for you to share his story.

  • @tabkaliO
    @tabkaliO Місяць тому +23

    Thank you for standing up for your kids, especially Parker. I had an abusive mother just like Parker’s mom - the manipulation and violence. I went no contact almost 20 years ago. It was the best decision I ever made. I cried out for help many times as a child and no one stood up for me especially family. I’m thriving now. Thank you for sharing your story and protecting your kids even today. That video has absolutely given so many people the courage to make a plan to get out of abusive situations. I guarantee you and Parker have saved many lives and their souls. You did the RIGHT thing! Never doubt that!

  • @everydamnday
    @everydamnday 2 місяці тому +111

    You are right. Your kids story is certainly their story to tell. But your story...your personal story...is your story to tell. Yes you can make money from your story. Write a book. Speak. Share what YOU went through. Other dads need to know how to deal with things like this. You are an amazing person and an inspiration. You have transformed your life. You gave up alcohol, got your body into great shape for your age, and survived an ordeal as a dad. That is a story in itself. Stand tall and be proud of the man you have become now. Share it so other dads can learn from your story. You got this man!

  • @theresonlyonequeenbee
    @theresonlyonequeenbee Місяць тому +29

    Caleb, Im only 1 person from across the pond, but for me, you really opened my eyes to a situation i didnt see for what it was. I finally got out of it.
    I truly wish you well.

    • @CalebLeverett
      @CalebLeverett  Місяць тому +6

      This one guy across the pond is happy for you. Keep on your path. And thank you.

  • @MikeHoltackers
    @MikeHoltackers 2 місяці тому +136

    Seeing the title, I figured people should ask how you are doing. You are a wonderful human being.

  • @connieabel9512
    @connieabel9512 2 місяці тому +35

    Thank you for your update!!! Sorry it came down to all this. You may be broke but you did what you had to do to help your kids! It sucks when you live paycheck to paycheck but making sure you children are safe and happy is priceless!!!!!!

  • @kimmykatty7444
    @kimmykatty7444 2 місяці тому +73

    This was so raw and vulnerable that I watched it twice. Almost commented with personal info to share how I could relate but deleted it. You are a good and intelligent person, and life can be hard. Thank you for the video. PS I have watched the Parker video in entirety over 10 times because it reminds me of things I faced when his age. I would have been thrilled with a parent like you in my corner....although I'm a couple of years older than you :)

    • @CalebLeverett
      @CalebLeverett  2 місяці тому +15

      Thank you, Kimmy.

    • @maryk446
      @maryk446 Місяць тому +1

      Sometimes I watch the Parker video revisited just to hear Caleb's commentary. I find it funny when he says indirectly to Jason "shut up, doofus. Nobody asked you, doofus." And then there's Candace's classic line "We live in Odessa. You probably know what I had for supper last night." But nothing beats Parker telling Jason "thank you for pointing out the obvious."

  • @k8magic6
    @k8magic6 2 місяці тому +79

    I knew you’d say private. I’m glad you did. It’s almost like they’re allowed privacy

  • @BB-zx6nz
    @BB-zx6nz 2 місяці тому +36

    I’ve been abused by my mom’s ex husband so seeing that clip of him standing up for himself makes me happy..I wish I was strong enough at the time to do that for myself and my sister..I tried to fight as much as I could but it was hard man..Im glad he’s in a better headspace up💕keep you head up☺️Things will get better

    • @CalebLeverett
      @CalebLeverett  2 місяці тому +16

      Keep your chin up. My advice to all young people who tell me this is, get physically active every day, stay sober, drink water and read books. You’re much harder to mess with if your body, mind and soul are strong.

  • @amberwhittington8991
    @amberwhittington8991 Місяць тому +9

    I wish I'd been as brave as Parker. And I wish I had had someone in my corner when I was 13/14. I'm 33 and just now learning how to cope with my PTSD from abuse and neglect from an immature father and narcissist mother in split homes. I'm so glad Parker and the other kids have you. Even now, you won't bend when it comes to protecting them.

  • @Psyche-dolli88
    @Psyche-dolli88 2 місяці тому +36

    You're a good dad, I came across the story a few years back and I'm as curious as the next person; but your lives are not for people's entertainment. At the time you did what you thought best to help your kids, and you continue to do so, please do not regret that.

  • @topherkingz8546
    @topherkingz8546 2 місяці тому +25

    I've known about your story for some time now, just re-watched through it again.... You are such an amazing father and you have done right by your boy, and other three children. I commend you for protecting them and being good to them. Hang in there Mr. Leverett.

  • @Kenlydford
    @Kenlydford 2 місяці тому +51

    Hang in there brother. I know things are tough, specially in your situation. Hope it gets better man. Sincerely.

  • @courtneykinney-wilson3404
    @courtneykinney-wilson3404 28 днів тому +9

    You did the right thing Sir. You are a good parent. Bless you and you whole family.

  • @360fishingadventures8
    @360fishingadventures8 2 місяці тому +11

    This guy is an absolute class act. Straight shooting, letting the video and the story tell itself. Caleb, you may be broke and you may be struggling, but allowing the internet to take a slight peak into your life has helped and inspired millions that were scenarios just like Parker.
    My mom died last year from cancer just before I entered my senior year of high school, and she was incredible. It makes me really sad to see people that have relationships with their mothers like Parker. Good luck on pulling things together, and if you need help, you've got millions of people here that would be glad to help. Just a thought.

  • @chasepenkalski1989
    @chasepenkalski1989 2 місяці тому +24

    I'm glad to hear that your kids are all doing okay. You're a good man Caleb, and don't let anyone tell you different.

  • @madisonholland2286
    @madisonholland2286 2 місяці тому +18

    You are one of the best dads ever, i wish i had a dad like you but i dont. Thank you for keeping your childs privacy off the internet. Your kids are lucky and blessed to have a dad like you.

  • @MsFitMayhem
    @MsFitMayhem 2 місяці тому +56

    Stay strong. You don’t owe anyone an answer. People will assume whatever suits their narrative no matter what you say or do.

  • @rickygonzalez.o2126
    @rickygonzalez.o2126 2 місяці тому +21

    I really need this today not the message, not the answer. You stating this was 11 years ago gives me hope one day ill be past all this turmoil with my sons mother thanks bud! your a savage your resilient brother! your pure and honest don't forget it!

  • @lemonlime8589
    @lemonlime8589 2 місяці тому +22

    Praying that you can find peace and healing down the road. You're right about just riding it out. It's a painful process.

  • @atusernumberone
    @atusernumberone Місяць тому +6

    Clicked for the title, stayed for the wisdom. Good video. Praying for you, as well.

  • @spaghetiman1936
    @spaghetiman1936 2 місяці тому +7

    glad to know he and the other lids are doing well, thank you for the constant updates! and big thanks for being a good role model of a dad in a kids time of need.

  • @donglass
    @donglass 2 місяці тому +15

    I just wanted to say you're an amazing father and your kids are very lucky to have you!

  • @close_kj4206
    @close_kj4206 2 місяці тому +15

    At some point children choose for themselves. It's hard to wait. All the best to you 🌸

  • @thomasedwards2484
    @thomasedwards2484 Місяць тому +4

    When I was 16 years old, my grandparents had to play the role for me that you played for your son in the original video. Luckily I lived in a state where at 16 a person is allowed to decide who they would like to live with as long as it's a family member and that family member is willing. But I know that if it wasn't for my grandparents play playing that role, I probably would not be alive today. Do not ever question whether or not you did the right thing for your son, you are the only one that listened to him. You tried to treat your son like a person, and when it comes to vulnerable children like we were, the people who do that for us make all the difference. When you told him you were proud of him I felt that. It's not our place to know all the juicy details about where everybody is now, but I really respect you for sharing this and showing that there are people out there that are willing to do the right thing to protect children when others won't.

  • @debgrimes7230
    @debgrimes7230 2 місяці тому +15

    Respect you. Look to Our Father. You are his son. God Bless you. I pray for your peace and hope. ❤

  • @Piloslothical
    @Piloslothical 2 місяці тому +47

    Parker is a idol. Great man.

  • @collinhackett5582
    @collinhackett5582 2 місяці тому +12

    Coming from Indianapolis, Indiana, You're always going to be a great father. Im always going to be happy for you and youre kids. Stay Strong! ❤

  • @sarahjane8949
    @sarahjane8949 2 місяці тому +27

    So true Caleb 👏💯 my daughter is dating a nice guy With good job I’m happy 😊 you are just speaking FACTS 💪🏻👊🏻

  • @ReginasRetroReviews
    @ReginasRetroReviews 2 місяці тому +10

    Hi, I'm glad that you are respecting your kid's privacy. It is no ones business. You are a great dad. I hope everything goes well for you where ever you go. Don't let the haters or anyone else take you down.

  • @mutantartcat
    @mutantartcat 24 дні тому +3

    I came across Parker standing up to his mom today by coincidence and I went through a hell of a rollercoaster of emotions watching it. I did the same thing 30 years ago, when I was 12, it was the other way around though, I did not want to go on visitation with my biological father anymore. I refused to get outside and get in the car. He made threats against my dad (I see my stepdad as my dad) and police were involved too back then. My parents were not keeping me back, they never did, they always kept encouraging me to keep as much contact with that side of the family as possible, even while I did not want to, the police officer tried to convince me to get into that car. I refused. He was forced to leave without me. We never spoke again. It was the best decision I ever made in my life. Thank you for standing up for your son, for supporting him, having his back. I'm am so damn proud of Parker, I absolutely know at what place a child has to be to get into a situation like this and how incredibly hard it is. I'm so happy for him he found the courage and strength and also was able to hold onto it. All my love to you and your kids, and a hug from 12 yo me to 14yo Parker. Let our spines be this shiny forever!

  • @kajunheart871
    @kajunheart871 2 місяці тому +11

    Caleb, you words are your truth own them. Don’t look back.
    You did what you thought was right at the time. The past is gone, live for today and dream big for tomorrow. You are a GREAT soul.🌻❤️

  • @LittleC1025
    @LittleC1025 2 місяці тому +11

    Thank You for doing your story. You will eventually get through whatever you are now. Things are goign to get better. Glad all your kids are doing good, it is all you can ask for.

  • @aimeebritton6906
    @aimeebritton6906 28 днів тому +41

    It is time to STOP asking these dad's why they didn't fight harder for the kids and START asking the UNFIT moms why dad had to FIGHT to see HIS KIDS to start with. CHILD SUPPORT AIN'T NOTHING BUT A BROKE BROADS HUSTLE...... The system is SHIT.

  • @nathanmcgeachy6277
    @nathanmcgeachy6277 2 місяці тому +16

    Hi there Caleb first off i’m glad to know your kids are doing just fine and also I understand there are certain things that you don’t wanna talk about and that’s 100% understandable certain things are personal to certain people and again your a good man and I wish you the best and I wish the same for your kids and also I hope that things get better for you especially financially and take care brother 👍

  • @arbitor3392
    @arbitor3392 2 місяці тому +10

    Mad Respect for you, hope things get better for you, and God bless you

  • @bigandrollie
    @bigandrollie Місяць тому +3

    Sorry to hear about your whole situation.. your a great guy man, I’ll be praying for you keep your head up ❤

  • @stevenlopez1051
    @stevenlopez1051 2 місяці тому +16

    You didn’t screw up, she’s gonna be bitter, upset angry, etc… for the rest of times…. The best solution would be to forgive and forget. She literally should write off that child support. Dads that truly support their kids with child support and go paying court fees, lawyer fees and so much more don’t realize how financially of a crazy thing that can bring someone down financially unless you’re just rich….. don’t regret it! She dragged your name down calling the entire block of people n’ who knows what else she did to slander your name….
    We should start a callling campaign into the state of Texas chid support and bombaied them with letters and phone calls to dismiss that amount 47k
    Wishing you well man! Xoxo

  • @Mrttansamman1000
    @Mrttansamman1000 2 місяці тому +7

    Your a strong father who would do anything for your family which is rare nowadays

  • @brandicramblitt2685
    @brandicramblitt2685 2 місяці тому +4

    I just wanted to say your a amazing father, you've grown and i see it. The hardest thing to do is to turn away from the money, the love for your kids is priceless. Praying for you hun 🙏 be blessed the world is getting dark never lose your light. Remember you're the amazing dad

  • @ms.jessikafutureeducator.3340
    @ms.jessikafutureeducator.3340 Місяць тому +3

    I’m glad Parker and the kids are fine! You are fine! You are sober! That’s all that matters! They are safe!!

  • @janelcottrell838
    @janelcottrell838 Місяць тому +3

    I, a mom, went through this exact situation with my girls and their father. He was from a wealthy family and i put him through college. 5 year custody battle during which my children's paternal grandmother tried to hire a hit man to kill me. Long story short--- i ended up being granted custody, I'm still broke as hell, my daughters are doing fantastic! Great jobs, homeowners, great mothers! And they do still tell me that my support of them, not their dad's money, gave them the fire to succeed!
    You are truly a G.O.A.T!
    Thank you and hats off to you! ❤❤❤

  • @mysacredpath1371
    @mysacredpath1371 2 місяці тому +15

    We do the best we can. I hope things get better for you.

  • @callmemads80085
    @callmemads80085 2 місяці тому +66

    i just want to say that i'm very grateful that you went public with you and your childrens' story. the video of your son refusing to get out of the car reminds me of my own relationship with my mother, and seeing parker being brave and standing up to her made me feel a little braver too. it's not my place, nor anyone else's, to ask for personal details on your life, but i sincerely hope that everyone is truly doing okay. i'm almost eighteen and i still go back to that video sometimes to give myself a little boost of courage. seeing that i'm not alone and that there *are* people going through something similar (and better yet, are able to deal with it with their head held high) brings me a sense of comfort.

    • @sabrinahaid7082
      @sabrinahaid7082 2 місяці тому +3

      Caleb, this young man here is why you need to keep doing what you are doing. It is people like @callmemads that need to hear your story. Nobody needs any further information than what you have already provided. Your kids are now adults and their lives need to be as private as they want. You were just a man desperate for help saving your children and didn't know what else to do. You wanted proof that you were not putting words in your son's mouth and that you were not the devil she painted you out to be. You were trying to do what you felt was best for Parker at the time but ultimately for all of your children. Let's face it. If you were the monster she wanted everyone to think you were you would have insisted that all of the kids stay with you not just Parker because it is what he wanted at the time. I wish I could say it gets better with age, but I can't. All I can say is to keep doing what you are doing. Who knows how many lives you and your story can affect -- even if all it does is show others they are not the only ones experiencing this insidious nightmare.

  • @bhollingsworth
    @bhollingsworth 2 місяці тому +23

    He’s 25 years old. He can answer for himself

  • @Morris774
    @Morris774 Місяць тому +3

    I hope that you are doing better. And I pray you continue to do better. As a human being and a dad you just did what you thought you needed to do to protect your children. You just hang in there and remember you are doing your best.❤️🙏

  • @sheendean4802
    @sheendean4802 2 місяці тому +8

    WORLDS BEST DAD!!!!!! Love you Caleb!

  • @Sell_Sec
    @Sell_Sec 2 місяці тому +5

    I hope you find peace and happiness in your heart, and that you can finally, FINALLY rest and feel happy

  • @Motorhead1977
    @Motorhead1977 2 місяці тому +3

    I wish the best for you, Caleb. You are an Honest dude with a heart of gold. You just gotta keep trucking forward.

  • @TheBaileyandashlyn
    @TheBaileyandashlyn 2 місяці тому +4

    I feel like we all watched Parker grow up. It's a good story to be told, as it's important that kids know they have a say in their lives, especially at 14, but we gotta learn to respect people's privacy. None of us have the right to know anything. It ain't just faces on a camera, it's real people with real lives. And we're strangers. It's not okay or safe to say everything about their lives.
    I hope you guys are doing well ❤ You're a good father and respecting your children's privacy is huge. Keep being you, man.

  • @teamgemini617
    @teamgemini617 2 місяці тому +3

    You very much can recover and congratulations on your sobriety, my son will be sober 9 years in October of 2024 it's a struggle everyday for them to stay sober my prayers go out to all the ones fighting that fight. Staying sober is the only way to save your life. Coming from a mother of a recovering addicted.

  • @judithstewart4249
    @judithstewart4249 2 місяці тому +14

    Thank you for being such a good dad!!!!!!!!! Protect your kids above ALL ELSE.

  • @BrianDean-z2b
    @BrianDean-z2b 2 місяці тому +2

    God Bless you sir.Thank you for being a dad when a dad was very much needed. I pray the entire family has or will heal.

  • @tashacampbell2313
    @tashacampbell2313 26 днів тому +1

    Thank you for. Standing by and allowing him to stand up for his rights its not okay to feel scared in ur own home.

  • @mickiemccrum
    @mickiemccrum Місяць тому +2

    Mad respect for getting sober. Been there, done that & I know how hard it is. My dad was also an alcoholic. He passed away a little over a month ago...4 months after earning his 50 year sobriety chip. His only skill & the only job he knew how to do was lay brick. He didn't step foot in a college classroom until the age of 48 & within 5 yrs earned his Bachelors & Masters degrees from Texas Tech & was working as a Licensed Substance Abuse Counselor. I'll tell you what he told me & every other alcoholic he ever met: "you either let go of those resentments, get off that pity potty, stop using your parents, teachers, friends, spouse, kids, bosses, cops, judges, lawyers, God, the universe or man in the moon as excuses & start taking full responsibility for the wreckage YOU made of YOUR life, or take your a$$ back to the bar & quit wasting everyone's time."

  • @adrianna8372
    @adrianna8372 Місяць тому +2

    You are a wonderful father. Parker must be a great son. I wish you lots of love. The video from the visit Parker mother is still displayed on Facebook, even though so many years have passed.

  • @RosePierson
    @RosePierson 2 місяці тому +6

    I'm proud 👏 of you for sobriety 🎉. I truly am! I have alcoholics in the family, and it hurts more than just the person. God speed, love ❤️

  • @sophieceleste4771
    @sophieceleste4771 2 місяці тому +3

    Glad they are okay. That's all I need to know. I hope it stays that way. They deserve a good life.

  • @anthonyp1414
    @anthonyp1414 2 місяці тому +2

    Caleb, I'm of a similar age to Parker, about 2 years younger. You and your story really inspires me, how much you willingly sacrificed to stand up for yourself and your kids. Lot of guys my age need to hear this message. Keep on fighting the good fight. Stay strong and keep up the good work.

  • @bjork12
    @bjork12 2 місяці тому +2

    You are a lot like my dad just listening to you speak. I hope you have and had a very good life. You’re an amazing father for standing up for your child. Wish you the best. God has a plan.

  • @stephaniebaros8349
    @stephaniebaros8349 2 місяці тому +17

    I went through that with my ex-husband, but my son was very young. We didn’t get along for a long time, but we decided that we care about our son first of all and most. Now we are both broke but we get along for his sake. We now work with each other out of the court system. Good job Caleb for taking care of your son, he will appreciate you and be grateful to you, a great father❤❤❤

  • @104Robin
    @104Robin 2 місяці тому +10

    You owe everyone...... absolutely nothing stay strong ❤

  • @Anonymous-annoyer
    @Anonymous-annoyer 2 місяці тому +4

    This is an example of a good father. Even with social media he doesn’t exploit it

  • @kristieanderson2540
    @kristieanderson2540 17 днів тому +1

    I believe in you Caleb. I believe all 4 of your children should have gone to you. You are amazing

    • @CalebLeverett
      @CalebLeverett  17 днів тому

      You’re very kind, Kristie. Thank you.

  • @unknownawesomeness6226
    @unknownawesomeness6226 2 місяці тому +51

    You have done great from what I've seen and guys, this is his final statement about this. Leave him alone & let him live his life and don't do what the internet does best. Ruin good people for bad reasons. Parker's story has helped so many people but like he said, "its not my place to say" This is their private lives on display and that's serious. By Caleb's tone he has been asked this question a painstaking amount of times. Caleb you did what you thought was right at the time and nothing can change that, you can only change what you do going forward. You are an insane testimony to what people are going through and never stop telling about that. My close friends father died from drinking himself to death and I'm glad that you where able to get out of it because its definitely something that's not easy. You got to do whatever it takes to get yourself back up out of that hole. You can do it! Don't listen to the haters that don't know you and even the ones that do because only you can make up your choices. No matter how long it takes you will get our of this, even if you have to die to do so. It sucks man, I'm not a man but I have insane empathy and that's why I am saying this to you. Hope you the best of luck and your situation. I hope I never grow up to be the type of women you are talking about, specifically because of situations like this & because I've been around people men and women like this. If you read this thank you!!

    • @CalebLeverett
      @CalebLeverett  2 місяці тому +11

      Wow, thank you for your consideration and kind words. It means a lot.

    • @RoyHoy
      @RoyHoy Місяць тому +1

      Bro can just create a new channel. Not that serious.

  • @jamesleogue3938
    @jamesleogue3938 2 місяці тому +3

    Stay Strong Caleb,
    You're in my Prayers 🙏

  • @AndreaDeeChannel
    @AndreaDeeChannel Місяць тому +2

    Thank You for the update. God Bless you and your family❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @jasonknightmagic1
    @jasonknightmagic1 2 місяці тому +8

    The world is in a tough place right now. A lot of us are struggling. But I have hope for us all.

  • @tylermangum9831
    @tylermangum9831 2 місяці тому +2

    This is what a real dad does and I’m hoping that parker will live with sir I’m going through the same thing with my mom and please tell Parker that I appreciate him what he did 11 years ago is the best thing he could have done so thank you

  • @yoshishrooms9086
    @yoshishrooms9086 2 місяці тому +5

    My whole childhood was ruined by this kind of back and forth during divorce.. I never had a say and I was miserable, misunderstood and often backed into a corner.. I felt your son hard when I saw that video of him standing his ground..
    I think you did a fantastic job at bringing awareness to these situations.. IT IS HELL
    I am 33 now going on 34 with 3 kids of my own, I could never do to them what my parents did to me, tbh even at my age , I still haven’t gotten over their divorce and I may never get over it.. it has affected every aspect of my life on a subconscious level
    You did good dad, you did good.

    • @CalebLeverett
      @CalebLeverett  2 місяці тому

      Well done. You are now being the change that you want to see in the world by not repeating with your kids what was done to you. 🙌

  • @KiwikimNZ
    @KiwikimNZ 2 місяці тому +3

    You have done everything possible to do what is right for your son and other kids. I hear your truth and people will have an opinion, that’s ok, so look long as you stand you in your truth that’s all that matters mate. It’s no one’s business, good for you to stand up for what you believe in. You have always done what’s right. Just know we are all thinking about you ! I’m a parent and our kids are our everything. They put us through hell sometimes, our partners can put us through hell, our family can put us through hell, we put ourselves through hell. But like you say it is what it is. You have helped many people with your story. ❤ thank you for being a good person x

  • @divinesunshine1881
    @divinesunshine1881 2 місяці тому +2

    I've been going through a similar situation for 5 years now. The roles are reverse my daughter does not want to go with her father. However, she's not old enough to have a say so yet. The court system absolutely sucks! It's supposed to be what's in the best interest of the child. It seems more like a money game to me. It's very challenging. I'm thankful that you shared the video and your story 11 years ago. It gave me insight on how to deal with similar situations that I'm dealing with with my children and their father. Life is hard.
    We just have to remember how far we have come. Remember the challenges that we've already made it through. 💪🏼

  • @TooBaldeh
    @TooBaldeh 2 місяці тому +5

    Every once in a while, the video with your son always pops up in my page, I always watch it because it’s a very interesting video.

  • @Sallymartin83
    @Sallymartin83 Місяць тому +2

    Never apologies for standing up for what is right for your children and continue to be the best dad you can be.

  • @GoodburgerEd
    @GoodburgerEd 15 днів тому +6

    Your an awesome dad dude idk why but just felt like giving these $2

  • @WalterForsyth-t5g
    @WalterForsyth-t5g 2 місяці тому +4

    U R correct Caleb, regarding difficult divorces. I've never married and missed out on a lifetime of kids/ family as a result of a nasty divorce of my parents back in the early 70s. 😮😢😢😢😢😢 i could go on, but will stop it here......😮😮😮

  • @tansysmusiclisteningchanne4090
    @tansysmusiclisteningchanne4090 2 місяці тому +6

    Tbh my only wish is that Parker's mom has grown into a better person and that she aint pulling this shit with anyone else, and that everyone involved are all in a happier place now.

  • @venessamorris4792
    @venessamorris4792 2 місяці тому +2

    Caleb, firstly I would like to say well done, for all you did for your children, you are an amazing father. One day they will realise just how much you had to sacrifice and how much you love them. Their mother, ... Well she is just something else. The shit she put your children through whilst growing up, for me is unforgivable. One day I hope the children see everything for the way it should be. You did your best Caleb with what you had, and you never gave up on them, that's for sure. You are so strong and I'm sorry you and the kids had to endure all you guys endured.

  • @caz881
    @caz881 2 місяці тому +3

    I’ve worked with a lot of abused kids and kids with narcissistic parents. You did exactly the right thing, your kid needed you and you did what you were capable of. Your actions gave me hope for parenting, thank you.

    • @CalebLeverett
      @CalebLeverett  2 місяці тому

      I genuinely appreciate your kind words and what you do for those kids. Far too many get lost in the system and wind up in horrible places as adults.

    • @caesarismisorder8295
      @caesarismisorder8295 2 місяці тому +1

      @@CalebLeverett
      You need to respect cops and women smdh

    • @CalebLeverett
      @CalebLeverett  2 місяці тому

      @@caesarismisorder8295 ok. You need to respect me.

  • @happiness5665
    @happiness5665 2 місяці тому +1

    Just found y’all’s story and wow!!!! The way you parent is full of kindness, autonomy and care for your kids wellbeing! All the best to the kids!

  • @crafty714
    @crafty714 2 місяці тому +2

    I remember seeing this, many years ago. My reaction was, that's a tough situation to be in.
    I hope all the kids have moved on and are healthy.
    Keep moving forward, brother!!

  • @aeriel69
    @aeriel69 2 місяці тому +1

    You frank answer made me smile.
    I only hope that you continue to be a strong figure in your children’s lives and they recognize that.

  • @rickygonzalez.o2126
    @rickygonzalez.o2126 2 місяці тому +58

    have lunch on me brother!

    • @CalebLeverett
      @CalebLeverett  2 місяці тому +51

      I’ll do that. Thanks! This will be my four year sober anniversary lunch.

    • @samr.f.c3637
      @samr.f.c3637 2 місяці тому +8

      @@CalebLeverett well done! I’ve been off heroin for 16 years, alcohol for 6 and Valium for 5. It’s been so hard but I’ve kicked on for my kids, exactly what you do for yours. It’s an every day battle but you’re doing amazing! Well done I’m proud of you.

    • @CalebLeverett
      @CalebLeverett  2 місяці тому +9

      @@samr.f.c3637 thanks, Sam. Well done yourself.

    • @ava-k4b
      @ava-k4b 2 місяці тому +3

      @@samr.f.c3637Well done to you, Thankyou for thinking of your children. Your 100x more man than my dad ever was. 👏👏👏👏

  • @RosePierson
    @RosePierson 2 місяці тому +2

    You owe no one anything. I hope 🙏 all of you are well. That's all that needs to be said! ❤

  • @999_Apple
    @999_Apple 2 місяці тому +2

    I’m 18 years old this year and my father had to go through most of the things you have talked about on your channel and it breaks my heart knowing that many others have to deal with this, growing up in a bad environment around my mom and not having a father a lot of the time from having to work for food and shelter fucked me up really bad, I love my father more than anyone in my life and It took me a long time to realize what I was even going through and I didn’t even realize why I had no will to continue living but now that I have my own space to think I am stronger for having to grow up like that.

  • @londonvee6362
    @londonvee6362 10 днів тому

    You are such an awesome dad and you seem like a genuinely wonderful person. I really hope and pray everything falls into place for you because you deserve it. I am rooting for you!

  • @v.eugene8606
    @v.eugene8606 2 місяці тому +12

    I wish you good luck Caleb, for you and your kids. You are a wonderful dad.

  • @codychickadee5095
    @codychickadee5095 Місяць тому +1

    I can see the pain in your eyes. I'm really sorry man. I've had some tough times lately and I recognize that look of despair. Take care, Caleb. I respect what you did for your kids. It was very obvious who was on their sides all along.

  • @sage_120
    @sage_120 Місяць тому +1

    I can understand struggling with the decision you made all those years ago, doubting yourself, questioning whether you made the right decision or not. While I can't say you were right or wrong, I can tell you this.... I read the comments on the original Parker video. Your son helped so many other people that were in a similar situation. Your son stood up to someone who was supposed to be protecting him, not hurting him, and for that person to be a parent and to stand up to them has got to be one of the bravest things I have ever seen. And your son not only did that, with you supporting him, but he helped encourage others to stand up to their own bullies. Then you took us with you on the rest of your journey, fighting for your children. You gave other fathers out there hope. You offered advice to those that needed it. You, sir, are truly a diamond in the rough. In my opinion, if my pain/embarrassment can help even one person, then that pain/embarrassment was worth it. And from what I've seen, you and your son have helped hundreds, if not more. I truly wish the best for you. I'm always willing to lend an ear should you need one.

  • @RustyGates-lx6cx
    @RustyGates-lx6cx Місяць тому +1

    Keep the faith and just love your kids, that is all that matters! I watched the video years ago and continue to pray for you and your family. Stay strong, you can do this.

  • @georgia_erin5
    @georgia_erin5 2 місяці тому +4

    we love you Caleb! and respect you so much! ❤️

  • @Tinkerbellington
    @Tinkerbellington 2 місяці тому +2

    I wish someone would have saved me. You did good for your kids. Thank you

    • @CalebLeverett
      @CalebLeverett  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you. It’s a shame that so many kids need saving from their own parent. Hang in there.

    • @Tinkerbellington
      @Tinkerbellington 2 місяці тому

      @@CalebLeverett you too friend

  • @StaviPorter
    @StaviPorter 2 місяці тому +1

    There are SO many parents that will basically sell their story and exploit their kids “issues” for profit but I respect the hell out of you for keeping private issues private while loving your kids unconditionally. You are a good man and a good father. Don’t think otherwise

  • @sevensohigh2083
    @sevensohigh2083 13 днів тому

    Upmost respect my brother! Toxic mothers completely destroy men for life. You are an awesome father. Thank you for being you bud.

  • @bobbyboucher-k9t
    @bobbyboucher-k9t 2 місяці тому +1

    100% my moral would be destroyed, my wife leaves and takes the kids . its the hardest thing for a man for sure. you are very strong and I hope it will change for men , we get destroyed by the system

  • @garyjohnson6024
    @garyjohnson6024 21 день тому

    Don't ever doubt that you did the right thing. It may not have turned out the right thing for you but it certainly was for your kids. I have much respect for you. You did what you could for your kids and I am sure they know that and love you for it.