The TWO modes of narcissists in relationships
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- Опубліковано 23 чер 2024
- Both modes are toxic #narcissistic #narcissism #narcissist
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Your insight has been invaluable to decipher the psyche of my current wife. After 13 + years of her BS, I am gracefully walking away. She was stunned that I agreed with her when she said she needs time and space. Just to be a gentleman, I asked her 4 times if this is exactly what she wants. After her 4th confirmation, I knew her game is done. I am leaving her to her own devices. Thank You for making me see with maturity that she will never change and I don't need to feel guilty about anything.
Good work! Keep reminding her that it was her idea.
Everything about a narc is creepy. Over time it only gets worse. The sooner you go, the better.
This exactly describes my wife of 46 years. Extremely competitive when working together as a team would make things go easier. Once I learned about narcissism, I quickly learned to work alone on chores and not advertise my every thought. The simplest idea is quickly challenged
Isn’t it just mind boggling?!? Oh my goodness I’m so sorry. That’s a long time. No one deserves the things they do. I didn’t understand why he would act like we were enemies or competitors etc. He would say to me that we’re at war.
Huh?!? Dude. What?!
I just wanted to be in a relationship filled with love & peace. Period.
Didn’t get that. Instead I got traumatized, emotionally, mentally, sexually & physically. Literally. Im absolutely shattered & heartbroken.
Spot on! The narcissist either competes with you or is your victim. They mirror you and dispise you at the same time. Their disdain for you is visible in what they say or do, they can’t hide it.
My now ex boyfriend literally tackled me like a damn football player.
It took 5 weeks for the bruises to heal. I’ll have a permanent long scar on my right arm. But guess what?! It was ALL MY FAULT!!! 🤯🤯🤯
They’re beyond redemption.
"They make you feel small, so they feel big." On top of the emotional, financial abuse and manipulation, they could sick a dog on you and still claim to be the victim.
*There are 2 modes Danielle will have during 1 of her knowledgeable insightful informative videos... Either 1) She's an Easy-8. Or 2) She's an All Day 9. There's no such thing as a 10. So...*
Imo they only circle 2 emotions they have boredom and anger and combo of both.. these fuel whatever mode they are in.. since I've noticed these 2 emotions in them I've started to detach.. is always about them if house was in flames they would sit there waiting for me to ask them where the extinguisher was.. it's that extreme.. I think they would let u come close to death long as they get admiration or attention😢
My narc ghosted me just before my daughter's wedding
Then there's the covert that says "oh, I'm sorry I did that to you, that was terrible. And continue to do the same thing for the next 30 Years each time saying "oh, I'm sorry I did that to you, that was terrible."
I'm a baker, and my ex would insinuate to my customers, that he'd drop maple butter tarts on the floor just to get one.... To my customers that might sound like my food has been on the floor. Never! It felt like sabotage to me, thinly veiled as a compliment......
Sounds like my 28 year marriage. Every… damn… day.
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😂😂ooo crap...the cute, funny girl is correct....right on...❤❤❤...oddly...you are at war...and she intends to kill you....read that again...again...