Narcissistic manipulation SUMMED UP
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
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Their lies will catch up to them.
That's the thing. Virtually everyone has a smartphone these day's. Even a cheap one can get you onto UA-cam for information gathering.
Jesus is KING OF KINGS ✝May no evil formed against you prosper.🙏
God will reveal the TRUTH to you do not lose faith.
They are like a magician or a con artist. They had it all figured out before you ever saw them, and they saw you as a "mark". They started lying to you and misdirecting you, and you don't even know that you have been trapped in a world of illusion.
And for those born to narcissistic parents, the evil narc parents teach their kids that their only reason for existing is to serve and cater to the narc parents. Even when the child meets all of the narc parents' demands, the new demands are always there...as well as the punishments for questioning the narc parents. Sometimes I think that my parents enjoyed hurting me far more than having me cater to their every wish. They'd much rather see me in pain than have me as a slave. But they did both. I've been gray-rocking for almost a year now. As soon as I have enough money saved up, I'm gone!
Good luck...you got this! When you reach a point of stability then totally discard them!
Great plan I wish You Peace & Happiness In Your New Chapter🎉🎉🎉
Flee the toxicly poisoned environment!
PLEASE GET OUT as soon as you can and STAY AWAY from them! i PERSONALLY know this is VERY HARD. If you don't do it as soon as possible, then WHEN? REMAIN FIRM or this will NEVER END!
I think this is the problem. A lot of people probably did have a loving family so don't believe anyone would be like this and can't fathom the abuse until it happens.
Not me. It's all I know so it took me decades to see the dysfunction since I wasn't the supply until much later.
I wondered the same thing. It made me wonder how much of their life she talked about was a lie. I'm guessing 90% was a lie. I know the person she pretended to be is a lie and how she acts now is a completely different person than how she was around me.. I'm still amazed sometimes that this is a real thing and these people really do this shit. I don't know weather to admire the human body for coming up with this way to heal or protect itself, or grow a new hatred for them and crusade and crush them all in the name of Bobby Hill and Dr. Pepper.
Or worse, if your parents were narcissists, you think their manipulative demeaning behavior is normal or acceptable, so you stay longer. It's awful until you realize, with real eyes !
Tell me the way they think isn't demonic . To do something like this is EVIL . The hoover is them hoping you are naive enough to give them another chance at destroying you . I do think theres a unclean spirit working through them .
100% demonic influence
Especially parents doing this
All of them do it.
They blame everything on the other person.
They are good at what you’re describing! Confusing them only infuriates them to try harder to win. They meed to see the error of their ways but their narcissism wont allow them to fix it. Broken people they are and like a broken record they keep playing the same games. Let them play on deaf ears !
Excellent video. The narc has a personality disorder. These creatures are sneaky selfish miserable and ruthless.And like you said.... most people don't know anything about these monsters.No conscience or empathy.Just fake players out to get what they want. Stay away. God bless.
Give them a decoy and move onto something else! Let them have many decoys to waste their time with to keep them away from real people! Artificial Intelligence should be used to distract them online!
According to Dr. Sam Vaknin, the narcissistic abuser/stalker/exploiter will abandon the Hoover when you make rejection loud and clear because they can't breathe without supply. The psychopath will not abandon ship unless exposed, penalized, prosecuted, etc. Narcissist or a psychopath?
You are so right Danielle. Over time this behavior will destroy a decent person.
They gas light constantly. You can't beat them at this.
Across the world...across the races and cultures...all narcs are having the same behavioural pattern. Narc literature is a must for narc abuse victims..its a wake up call to stand up and live life to the fullest
This is exactly what happened to me. And now I feel like a fool for not seeing it. 😢
How in the world do you know all of this? Books? Personal exper? Psycology degree? A keen sense of peoples character? Behavioral studies? Blogs? UA-cam videos?
Its uncanny.
Thank you.
B cause narcs go to great measures to prevent anyone f om knowing their schemes and tactics, so you wont know their playbooks, and share it with us.
Thank you
I went to many therapists, who all believed the charm of my narcissistic husband, and looked at me, so sullen and depressed, and concluded that CLEARLY I was "the problem". The focus was always on me trying harder and being nicer, and doing more work around the house, since my husband "didn't have any problems". Gee, I was so happy and cheery before I met him, but now my depression is all my fault.
A lot of therapists are narcissistic. Mine was.
@@janedoe5229 did you break up with him or are you still together? It's scary how even professionals can be easily manipulated by the narcissistic person.
@@SardonischerDeanMost of the regular doctors are as well. I've heard it referred to as the Jehovah Complex. I have definitely known that type myself.
I caught one finally admitting they never really cared, but I know they acted caring in the past. Once I figured this pattern out, which took years, I decided I don’t even want to talk to them. Because no matter how they act it can’t be trusted.
Ladies and gentlemen one of the best tools in combating manipulation tactics is meditation. Forget how you feel about them...how do THEY make you feel. Connect with your self and tine them out
I went through all of these stages with narc ex husband. When I finally told him that he could no longer manipulate me he backed off! I guess he realised that I knew what game he was playing.
Some of them really have no idea they are narcissists. Being very close to two people with full blown NPD (my father and sister), I can tell you they have no idea what they are or what they're doing. Even if they deliberately do something really, really low and pathetic/psychotic out of rage or whatever... they will in their mind somehow be able to justify it and blame you for causing them to act like that or do whstever it is they've done. They have ZERO self accountability like you said... but also that's because they more often than not have ZERO self awareness as well...
This is by far one of the best explanations I've come across because it specifically points out two v imp things 1. That THEY KNOW about it, 2. The reason as to why they do it. We often get stuck in this loop because we think they're not guilty, and that no one could do this without any important reason.
It's been 34 years and I'm tired
To everyone below.
Amen.
He wasnt so great at the con. I could see he was a mimic.
It was my deep want of a relationship, my shame. Deep disappointment that kept me in it for a year.
Shocking how arogant ruthless and ice cold he was as i divorced.
The getting out is far harder...
But i am free 5 months.
Sabatogue is the word.
Now my life flows so easily.
Which speaks volumes.
And yes i couldnt believe someone could be so ruthless.
sad..sad
Thats true i start to wonder whats wrong with this guy from day one i met him, it was obviouse i just didnt know that kind of person exist😢😢😢😢😢it was many years of bulshit
That is a perfect description of my ex-husband. Had to get married right away because I was starting to see what he and his family were like.
Perfect. Mic drop. 💯❤
I did see a situation of a different kind of ,moving out in your home,...and this is criminal behavior....the guy had bad luck that I was there and that I was pretending I dont care what s going on😅
Well said. You're my new favorite channel about narcissists I've been watching lately. My older brother is, as my aunt called him, "a narcissistic psychopath" and caused a huge rift in the family so I've been looking up how to better understand the way they think
My older brother too. I would describe him as dangerous. And neglectful covert narc mother.
Exactly Danielle ❤!!!! I love you ❤
Point on
Walking Tall "Judge pOwn" 1:59 clip UA-cam
I am the narcissist
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Well said 🎉
On point
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The only option is for you to move on actually. This babble is irrelevant.
Take off that cgi mask.
0:43 - thanks!
So the bottom line is to leave these kinds of people to their own and go? Right? Please belive in Jesus Christ and save yourself and your family because time on this earth is very short before very bad things are starting to happen. This must be sayed and please do not turn your deaf ear whoever is reading this. Blessings.
Worst advice ever for dealing with narcissists.
religious pylons (like you) are the best for aiding and abetting the narcissist's agenda lol. 🤧
@@deconstructing7307 To deal with the spirit of narcissism you need God. That's why it may seam immpossible to beat these emotions and fealings in your life because you do not search and pray to Jesus Christ to heal you from the inside. He is the only deliverer who can set you free completely. You don't need to focus on that person so that he/she can live "rent free" in your head, but on solution. You need faith.
@@jerkojerkic9349 There is no god.
Phoebe Potkin the Psycho from Amersham, Bucks. 🫥