I completely sympathize with you. I have had issues with attachment in the past, where I'd get along with someone well, we'd start talking and bullshitting with each other, and then we'd eventually grow apart after a while. It fucking sucks. It sucks because I will sometimes see them talking to other people they've made friends with, and all I can think about is all the time I would spend with them and hanging out. However, at the same time, I am glad that they have successfully built friendships with people who care about them and trust them, and I also have to remember that I myself may eventually bump into someone new one day and become friends with them. Being human certainly does have many downsides, but it definitely does have a positive side to it, as well! P.S.: Congratulations on 600 subscribers!
Honestly yeah I can relate to this. It has been a reason I have a hard time actually getting attached to people is because I tend to be pretty clingy myself.
Here is another reason sweetie as to why we connect so well. Because you and I have very similar feelings about relationships, not to mention how after working so many days when you are finally off you do not want to do anything or interact with anyone (yeah that is Monday for me you get it lol). I too even worry about my closest, and dearest, friends in the world that I know will always be here, including my #1 best friend in the world that goes by Howling Wolf 94 on UA-cam; and some of the ones that live far away from me, sometimes I worry about them too even if we are close or whatever. It's an anxiety thing that I know you have and I understand it all too well. I hope you don't ever feel the need to worry about our relationship; which if you ever do sometimes, it is natural. You know you got your best friend; I highly doubt anything would ever happen, that is unthinkable and unheard of. Just like with me; I am not going anywhere myself either. So that is a guarantee and I know your solid best friendship is guaranteed too.
It's just a matter of trying to distance yourself just enough to give people respectable distance but also knowing to close said distance gradually enough to be healthy or maintaining said distance if said people are toxic
I completely sympathize with you. I have had issues with attachment in the past, where I'd get along with someone well, we'd start talking and bullshitting with each other, and then we'd eventually grow apart after a while. It fucking sucks. It sucks because I will sometimes see them talking to other people they've made friends with, and all I can think about is all the time I would spend with them and hanging out. However, at the same time, I am glad that they have successfully built friendships with people who care about them and trust them, and I also have to remember that I myself may eventually bump into someone new one day and become friends with them. Being human certainly does have many downsides, but it definitely does have a positive side to it, as well!
P.S.: Congratulations on 600 subscribers!
You're not alone dude
Honestly yeah I can relate to this. It has been a reason I have a hard time actually getting attached to people is because I tend to be pretty clingy myself.
Here is another reason sweetie as to why we connect so well. Because you and I have very similar feelings about relationships, not to mention how after working so many days when you are finally off you do not want to do anything or interact with anyone (yeah that is Monday for me you get it lol). I too even worry about my closest, and dearest, friends in the world that I know will always be here, including my #1 best friend in the world that goes by Howling Wolf 94 on UA-cam; and some of the ones that live far away from me, sometimes I worry about them too even if we are close or whatever. It's an anxiety thing that I know you have and I understand it all too well. I hope you don't ever feel the need to worry about our relationship; which if you ever do sometimes, it is natural. You know you got your best friend; I highly doubt anything would ever happen, that is unthinkable and unheard of. Just like with me; I am not going anywhere myself either. So that is a guarantee and I know your solid best friendship is guaranteed too.
It's just a matter of trying to distance yourself just enough to give people respectable distance but also knowing to close said distance gradually enough to be healthy or maintaining said distance if said people are toxic
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