I am well & truly, in high vibration, most of the time 🧡 this draws people to me. When they see & feel my authenticity & wearing my heart on my sleeve, this becomes the very reason I am ghosted!!! I am not responsible for others reactions, to me. I hope to find another partner one day, who will respond, rather than react. 🙏
I was ghosted recently by someone I've been dating. Never happened to me before in 40 years. That being said, after a deep internal check, I am totally okay and recognize it is about them and not me. I've been doing a lot of self work, including on attachment style and it felt a bit like a test. I passed
Unfortunately it has become common as all the insanity going on in world. Don’t take it personally, try to meet people who are more connected to God with good values.
It had happened to me before with the same person, yeah I know 😂. After some self reflection I came to the conclusion that it says more about them than me, just like you said. He has a history of ghosting from my point of view, and I felt it wa a bit of lack of self love from my part. Today I no longer regret, I felt it was right, I needed to do that for myself and I am not responsible for his actions, only to my own way on how I feel. I feel ok now. Of course I was hurt, mad but that has passed and I have people in my life who would never do that unless something happened. People are what they are and I accept that. It’s up to me who I choose to be in my life. That’s the lesson learned from my perspective.
I was going to state my experience, but it really doesn’t matter. Something I will say. Unlike many that podcast on relationship s , or life betterment, you have always struck me as someone that really cares and believes in helping others. I have learned a lot from you. Thank you. Someone I hope by chance I will meet someday.
I was ghosted by a woman from a dating site.. We were chatting great, then I got blocked for no apparent reason... Never mind, I don't care. It's her loss after all. I'm worth my weight in gold 🥇 😁😁
It’s better to meet people in person, but if not interested in someone you can just tell them and why without getting advantage of them. It’s worse to get ghosted after being kissing or more intimate, it’s like they stole a piece of your heart and energy and run away.
I want to thank you for all you do , the choice of words the content the topics it relates to so many in ways that change in a mind blowing way, it really resonate with me the fact that you intention of up grade our vibration ❤
I was ghosted 4 years ago by someone I've loved for 30 years. She was in jail, and I was scraping bottom to be able to send her money to help make her life more bearable whilst she was incarcerated. After $2800 sent out and about 2 years of her love bombing me, and future faking with me, she came to see me. That day, she was wearing a wedding ring on her marriage finger. This was why she made fun of the $200 Nordstrom blue lace dress, and the $100 sterling silver necklace I bought her, which she made fun of. After about a week, she cut me off of all communication, and blocked me from messenger and Facebook, and instructed her grandmother to not take my calls anymore. Since then, she has been rearrested 5 times for drug manufacturing and distributing, and prostitution. It looks like God solved the mystery for me.
1. I fear it won't work out anyway or will go wrong at any moment. 2. I don't want to be judged for my messy cluttered house and messy car. 3. It makes me feel like dating is hopeless and I won't be pursued by someone I like. So hopeless, disappointed, fearful, forced to chase to get what I want. 4. I should have set a date for Tuesday instead of leaving it open for them to respond... They would say oh no here is my totally valid excuse and I do want to meet up with you because I really like you and I want to see if we would be a good match just like you wanted.
I've never did anything but speak the truth to someone and got ghosted for around 5 straight years by my own daughter and now it has been a off n on ghosting for a few years now and I don't know what to do but just let her n my grandsons that she's never gave me the chance to get to know them. She's hurting them also.
Once again, I was really needing this right now! She doesn’t so much ghost, as just not really respond hardly ever. She used to send long beautiful responses, but now, pretty much nothing… When she does, it’s always something simple, but sweet, positive, and appreciative, and I feel the sincerity and love in it. Even though she never really expresses her feelings. 🫤 Maybe I’m just romanticizing things because of how I feel, but there are so many signs and synchronicities over the last 5 years pointing to her being my twin flame. I don’t know… I’m just going to keep being kind and supportive, but stop putting any weight into the situation, and move forward. Things will be what they are going to be, regardless. I just hope they turn out how I’ve been feeling. If not, well… 🤷🏼 Hope you are having a great day Aliki! 🙂🌹❤️
I am well & truly, in high vibration, most of the time 🧡 this draws people to me. When they see & feel my authenticity & wearing my heart on my sleeve, this becomes the very reason I am ghosted!!! I am not responsible for others reactions, to me. I hope to find another partner one day, who will respond, rather than react. 🙏
yes High Vibration yes
💖🙂 Yes!
I truly wish this for you. 💖
@@CoachAliki Thank you, Aliki 😘
I was ghosted recently by someone I've been dating. Never happened to me before in 40 years. That being said, after a deep internal check, I am totally okay and recognize it is about them and not me. I've been doing a lot of self work, including on attachment style and it felt a bit like a test. I passed
Unfortunately it has become common as all the insanity going on in world. Don’t take it personally, try to meet people who are more connected to God with good values.
@@MG-jh2nl they were not the right person. I met the right one a couple weeks after posting the comment And it's going extremely well
It had happened to me before with the same person, yeah I know 😂. After some self reflection I came to the conclusion that it says more about them than me, just like you said. He has a history of ghosting from my point of view, and I felt it wa a bit of lack of self love from my part. Today I no longer regret, I felt it was right, I needed to do that for myself and I am not responsible for his actions, only to my own way on how I feel. I feel ok now. Of course I was hurt, mad but that has passed and I have people in my life who would never do that unless something happened. People are what they are and I accept that. It’s up to me who I choose to be in my life. That’s the lesson learned from my perspective.
Rejection is God's protection
Natural 💚
@@eparedes7165 thank you
I was going to state my experience, but it really doesn’t matter. Something I will say. Unlike many that podcast on relationship s , or life betterment, you have always struck me as someone that really cares and believes in helping others. I have learned a lot from you. Thank you. Someone I hope by chance I will meet someday.
I truly care and want to create content that actually helps. Thank you for being here Allen. Wishing you a wonderful New Year!
Aliki..you are saving lives!please please continue...happy new year
Happy New Year! I wish you happiness and love. Thank you for being here.
I was ghosted by a woman from a dating site.. We were chatting great, then I got blocked for no apparent reason... Never mind, I don't care. It's her loss after all. I'm worth my weight in gold 🥇 😁😁
So happy to hear you believe in your worth. I wish you happiness and love Mark! 🙂
It’s better to meet people in person, but if not interested in someone you can just tell them and why without getting advantage of them. It’s worse to get ghosted after being kissing or more intimate, it’s like they stole a piece of your heart and energy and run away.
I want to thank you for all you do , the choice of words the content the topics it relates to so many in ways that change in a mind blowing way, it really resonate with me the fact that you intention of up grade our vibration ❤
Thanks, Aliki, for these wonderful lessons. Looking forward to learning more from you. Happy 2023 to everyone!
Aliki Thank you learning frOM you in so many levels yes Pure Gratitude in JOY your new year yes
My pleasure! Thank you so much. Happy New Year to you!!
I was blocked for two months, but i felt great love coming from her...now i am unblocked,and the love is even greater...i am happy
I'm happy to hear that you are happy Pedro! May your most beautiful dreams come true.
Iv just told him to delete my number cause im sick of it.
@@lesleymiller8446 why?
She’ll do it again, beware
Yes, people who ghost often tend to do it again and again.
Love your light ✨️
Thanks ❤
I was ghosted 4 years ago by someone I've loved for 30 years. She was in jail, and I was scraping bottom to be able to send her money to help make her life more bearable whilst she was incarcerated.
After $2800 sent out and about 2 years of her love bombing me, and future faking with me, she came to see me. That day, she was wearing a wedding ring on her marriage finger. This was why she made fun of the $200 Nordstrom blue lace dress, and the $100 sterling silver necklace I bought her, which she made fun of. After about a week, she cut me off of all communication, and blocked me from messenger and Facebook, and instructed her grandmother to not take my calls anymore.
Since then, she has been rearrested 5 times for drug manufacturing and distributing, and prostitution. It looks like God solved the mystery for me.
Rejection is God's protection
So sorry to hear this Michael. May 2023 be an amazing New Year and may it bring you happiness and love.
1. I fear it won't work out anyway or will go wrong at any moment.
2. I don't want to be judged for my messy cluttered house and messy car.
3. It makes me feel like dating is hopeless and I won't be pursued by someone I like. So hopeless, disappointed, fearful, forced to chase to get what I want.
4. I should have set a date for Tuesday instead of leaving it open for them to respond... They would say oh no here is my totally valid excuse and I do want to meet up with you because I really like you and I want to see if we would be a good match just like you wanted.
What I gained was mostly being successful at not being a chaser. And letting someone pursue me even though they didn't.
I've never did anything but speak the truth to someone and got ghosted for around 5 straight years by my own daughter and now it has been a off n on ghosting for a few years now and I don't know what to do but just let her n my grandsons that she's never gave me the chance to get to know them. She's hurting them also.
So sorry to hear this. I hope you both find the way to one another again and make a fresh start by forgiving one another. Much love to you.
Thankyou 💕 you voice and you ne happynes make me feel good ans stop the mental !
Happy New year, Aliki 😁😘
Aliki JOY full new year
Happy New Year full of happiness and love!!
Happy New Year Mark!! 🙂💖 May your most beautiful dreams come true!
What about a video for people that gost everyone in a way to protect themselves???
Well why can't we ask them?
Ask who what
Once again, I was really needing this right now! She doesn’t so much ghost, as just not really respond hardly ever. She used to send long beautiful responses, but now, pretty much nothing… When she does, it’s always something simple, but sweet, positive, and appreciative, and I feel the sincerity and love in it. Even though she never really expresses her feelings. 🫤 Maybe I’m just romanticizing things because of how I feel, but there are so many signs and synchronicities over the last 5 years pointing to her being my twin flame. I don’t know… I’m just going to keep being kind and supportive, but stop putting any weight into the situation, and move forward. Things will be what they are going to be, regardless. I just hope they turn out how I’ve been feeling. If not, well… 🤷🏼
Hope you are having a great day Aliki! 🙂🌹❤️
I agree Troy. When you let things flow it can be extremely powerful. I truly wish you happiness and love. ❤️🙂