Becoming The "Best Option" | Manifesting A Desired Relationship

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  • @IAm_DylanJames
    @IAm_DylanJames  3 роки тому +524

    Breath-work: ua-cam.com/video/tybOi4hjZFQ/v-deo.html
    For manifesting, I have a whole playlist on my channel titled "How to manifest anything" - Again, shifting your beliefs and relaxing will literally materialize the desired result to you... I did a video last week on how "manifesting is not a trying process" and gave specific examples, from my life, where I have applied this.. Check out other content, this video is a summary for people that have watched a good majority of my content and can follow what I am saying. Manifesting is all about shifting your self-concept and releasing the "old story", leading with confidence and BEING the change you seek to experience.

    • @rajb4726
      @rajb4726 3 роки тому +7

      Dylan, what do you think about adding Eft tapping and physical anchoring to the Breathwork?

    • @IAm_DylanJames
      @IAm_DylanJames  3 роки тому +15

      @@rajb4726 If it helps you relax, do it.

    • @awolfadventureawildconnect5311
      @awolfadventureawildconnect5311 3 роки тому +7

      @@IAm_DylanJames Your brilliant. I have struggled for 2 years painfully I have manifested so much in my life including my ex back after year and half apart .. 7 months ago. for the 3rd time .Sadly though i didn't break patterns and it all shattered again. I have spiraled since he left me again 5 months ago . Had I found you years ago I could have prevented so much heartbreak with him. He told me this time its final and done
      He blocked me on EVERYTHING.
      I'm devastated.

    • @rajb4726
      @rajb4726 3 роки тому +3

      @@IAm_DylanJames, kool. The anchor im playing with is when I press my ring finger and thumb on my left hand, I can get relaxed really quickly. Sometimes within seconds. And doing Eft tapping on acupuncture points just seems to cement the affirmation a bit quicker for me. Thanks for replying man.

    • @themindbenderr
      @themindbenderr 3 роки тому +25

      @@awolfadventureawildconnect5311 If you could manifest him in the past, you can do it again. There is a story you keep repeating and it is due to YOUR beliefs. Not due to his beliefs. Everyone is you pushed out, pls don't forget that. The things he said do NOT matter. Change your beliefs and it is done.
      Maybe you haven't found Dylan years ago but now you are aware of what you should do. You couldn't prevent the heartbreak till now but you can from now on.
      Yes, it is sad that he blocked you but there are hundreds of success stories of people who manifested being unblocked and ended up having the best relationship with their SPs. If they could do it, you can do it too.

  • @vikrammehta1665
    @vikrammehta1665 3 роки тому +1237

    This guy is kind hearted and generous. A pure soul who wholeheartedly wants to help others. Please don’t undermine his selflessness. 🙌

    • @asmasultan4851
      @asmasultan4851 3 роки тому +33

      So true ! As far as I know, Dylan is the most genuine person and such a lovely human being 💜

    • @vikrammehta1665
      @vikrammehta1665 3 роки тому +7

      @@asmasultan4851 Completely concur, Asma

    • @romi929
      @romi929 3 роки тому +8

      Vikram Mehta I totally agree with you !!! Dylan puts soo much heart into his videos. Very genuine. Love him !!!😍😍😍

    • @indiablue2961
      @indiablue2961 3 роки тому +5

      The best! Absolute Angel 👼

    • @mj-cq8sf
      @mj-cq8sf 3 роки тому +6

      And he's cute

  • @sandraereza6337
    @sandraereza6337 3 роки тому +162

    I swear, I just really stepped into the wifey mode and my SP responds now in a husband mode. It’s really sweet.

  • @brookebenton8192
    @brookebenton8192 3 роки тому +656

    You are seriously saving my life Dylan. My self concept has completely shifted and I realized how I was actually pushing people away and blocking love by not truly loving myself. I was emotionally unavailable and didn't even know it. It all rooted from childhood trauma and resulting events as an adult. I'm now coming from a place of love instead of self defense, manipulation and games. I've been interacting with my SP in an open and loving way now and have made progress overnight. As I move through this process I have literally felt years of poisoning leaving my soul. I'm finally free. Thank you🙏💖

    • @dianagrippo9476
      @dianagrippo9476 3 роки тому +6

      Ditto

    • @GingeRenee
      @GingeRenee 3 роки тому +11

      Thank you for sharing that with us, beautiful friend. So happy to read your story and the new path your on! Much love and blessings! ❤️🌸

    • @mook3542
      @mook3542 3 роки тому +10

      Ditto. When we were in low state it is difficult to be aware of what love is or distinguish love from game, manipulation or any toxic unhealthy attachment.

    • @JillRandallRN
      @JillRandallRN 3 роки тому +2

      I feel the same! I’m so grateful I found this channel!

    • @laninablanca1140
      @laninablanca1140 3 роки тому +4

      Wow I want this to be me! God Bless you🙌🏿🙌🏻

  • @krystanicoleeee6022
    @krystanicoleeee6022 3 роки тому +232

    Dylan really is out here training us baddies to have a boss ass attitude! look at us glowin'

  • @prettydamsel55
    @prettydamsel55 3 роки тому +38

    I think Dylan's the only coach who doesn't tell you to treat your SP like some object or go around dating others while your SP comes along. He's down to earth, humble, and so loving 😭🥺

  • @arsheenap3711
    @arsheenap3711 3 роки тому +377

    When Dylan’s videos pump you up more than working out at the gym😂😂😂😂

    • @YY-ff2dj
      @YY-ff2dj 3 роки тому +13

      I’ll working out at gym while watching his video, which is doubled hahaha

    • @buhlenkomo527
      @buhlenkomo527 3 роки тому +5

      Soo true I dropped my clients 😂😂😂 just to watch

    • @vishalmittal1835
      @vishalmittal1835 3 роки тому +4

      Hahaha,...♥️
      Much love and respect from
      Hyderabad India 🇮🇳

    • @kimmccomas3
      @kimmccomas3 3 роки тому +5

      Yes!!! He has a Rampage he put to music that I would listen to on a loop and motivate myself every morning I did this for weeks. 🤣

    • @tfh5575
      @tfh5575 3 роки тому +4

      funny i literally listen to him when i go gym

  • @museofdance1
    @museofdance1 3 роки тому +299

    My circumstances: remember when your SP said this.... and this is how long it has been since you've heard from him....
    Me: not today Satan...NOT TODAY

    • @asjhaayrie2517
      @asjhaayrie2517 3 роки тому +30

      bro seriously 🤣🤣, my brain will bring up little shit that i didn’t even know i remembered

    • @fishfroggy
      @fishfroggy 3 роки тому +8

      hahah I FEEL this.

    • @kinwind8432
      @kinwind8432 3 роки тому +11

      omg samee but girl we got this 😈

    • @stephh.3320
      @stephh.3320 3 роки тому +5

      Hehe 😉👏👏👏👊

    • @YellaRoseBliss
      @YellaRoseBliss 3 роки тому +4

      This was me today! 😭😂😂

  • @christytube1111
    @christytube1111 3 роки тому +426

    I’m at a point where I just know everything is done for me. I don’t even worry about the things that I was once hung up over. My SP reaches out to me all the time and I have this confidence that we’re already in a relationship. I even waking up one morning feeling really happy out of nowhere. I just knew it was done. I don’t feel this obsessive need to be checking my manifestations and watching coaching on UA-cam. I’m just watch it for motivation. Right now, I’m just going about my life with a sense of knowing that I’m getting exactly what I want. I don’t even tell myself that a better person will come alone because I really love my SP and I chose him for a reason. I don’t need to settle. It’s so refreshing to hear because I’ve always been told to lower my expectations, especially in love. I’m doing that anymore!! Thank you!

    • @87jackys
      @87jackys 3 роки тому +5

      Good for you ! you go girl 🙌

    • @waffles9902
      @waffles9902 3 роки тому +6

      That’s so great! Regarding the SP, could you please tell me a bit of what you’ve been doing? My SP came back 3 weeks ago saying he loves me but can’t have a relationship. I’m currently trying to manifest it but it gets a bit hard. Deep down I know it’s not over and I’m not accepting a NO from him but I just need a bit of advice I guess. Thank you :)

    • @saintashaj
      @saintashaj 3 роки тому +11

      @@waffles9902 this is the exact thing i’m going through!! i’m not taking no as an answer from him. i feel like as long as we stay confident within ourselves it’ll all unfold within due time without worrying about what’s not going on at the moment. (:

    • @waffles9902
      @waffles9902 3 роки тому +4

      rari oh wow, that’s so true!! i already know my desire which is a loving relationship with my SP because I deserve it and you too. Time to drop it and live our best lives knowing we got this!!!!

    • @saintashaj
      @saintashaj 3 роки тому +9

      @@waffles9902 exactly, we both know what ever it is that we want we are going to get so no need to stress it!

  • @elma4702
    @elma4702 3 роки тому +139

    the more i manifest, i start believing more and more to myself and manifesting. and when i believe more, it works even more effortlessly.😄

  • @__Little__Sarah
    @__Little__Sarah 2 роки тому +21

    It literally does not matter how long you haven’t spoken to someone!! Circumstances do not matter! I literally had a random thought about someone I haven’t seen or spoken to in 9 years!! A few days later they messaged me. NINE years, guys! Just a passing thought that I had no attachment to what so ever. Not a SP either which is probably why it happened so fast because there was no attachment lol.

    • @jay.jay.
      @jay.jay. Місяць тому +1

      That's very true. Happened to me very often. I just think about someone or something (with zero attachment, just thinking for a few seconds) and next thing I know is this person contacts me or so. I don't expect anything, just go about the day. Then it happens.

  • @gorgeeus
    @gorgeeus 3 роки тому +69

    Another Disney movie theme song I’ve been singing in my head is from Pinocchio “When you wish upon a star, makes no difference who you are, anything your heart desires will. come. to. You”❤️❤️❤️✨🌅🥰

    • @melaninmagic8742
      @melaninmagic8742 3 роки тому +3

      I loved this😭😭😭🤞🏾 now I’m going to go home and watch Disney movies🤣

  • @Prats213
    @Prats213 3 роки тому +140

    I am sooo doing the 7-day "I'm dropping this" challenge!! I did it once before without knowing anything about manifestation and it worked wonders with my person. Time for a reboot.

  • @AutumnMarie97
    @AutumnMarie97 3 роки тому +94

    so i’m ten minutes into this video and lol i just realized something - this is gonna sound waaay off but i used to be really bad at math. when id take a test or do homework i would circle the problem that i had a hard time answering. i would focus on the questions i could answer in the moment (in this case with my partner and i, i can focus on myself and make myself happy) but i never sat there obsessively looking at the math question getting mad at the question for not changing. i just came back to it when i was ready. i dunno why i felt the need to share this 😂 but if anyone is dealing with stupid life shit maybe just circle the “problem” and come back to it when you’re more stabilized. i always managed to get the right answer when i stopped wasting my time on just one thing and put my focus elsewhere.

    • @asecretchannel4135
      @asecretchannel4135 3 роки тому +8

      Simple, little analogies like this make all the difference.

    • @shaeshprincess
      @shaeshprincess 3 роки тому +7

      Such a short and simple analogy! Thank you for sharing 💚

  • @EK-dt4cp
    @EK-dt4cp 3 роки тому +177

    I started the Wim Hof Breathing exercise two days ago (3 times a day)...oh man, it instantly makes me feel incredible (dare I say a natural high?), love it!

    • @mel835
      @mel835 3 роки тому +5

      Same!!! It's surprisingly effective and powerful

    • @EK-dt4cp
      @EK-dt4cp 3 роки тому +2

      @@thehealingfairee Oh no! I wonder why this is? I know holding breath is scary for some people, I'm not sure if it's that way for you. Sending love to you

    • @EK-dt4cp
      @EK-dt4cp 3 роки тому +1

      @@thehealingfairee I totally understand that. I finally learned to embrace crying this year. Every time I let it out, I feel better and better. And like Dylan says, if there is something that you are avoiding doing, it's probably because it's the thing you need to do most. You got this

    • @SeraSophia646
      @SeraSophia646 3 роки тому +22

      Look at all this "people helping people" in the comments section. This is so beautiful!
      💙🦋💙

    • @IAm_DylanJames
      @IAm_DylanJames  3 роки тому +84

      @@thehealingfairee when I first did this exercise, I would cry half way through. Suppressed emotions being released. Be gentle 💜

  • @morepowertoya3179
    @morepowertoya3179 7 місяців тому +7

    There are never any problems because I AM the solution. Loved that!!

  • @ashley__c
    @ashley__c 2 роки тому +87

    23:15 wherever I focus on - the person is emotionally unavailable - that’s going to be my experience . It gets mirrored back to you
    OMG yes 😩
    24:30 you’re making negative thoughts about your partner...
    25:00 never had this awareness . Self concept: I always get the relationship i want
    26:00 I don’t need you.You’re just a preference. I’m stable you’re gonna want to be with me . Good luck on finding that somewhere else
    28:50 be like look this relationship is here for our enjoyment I’m not going to yell at you. What are we learning from this...not take things personally. Don’t create more issues
    30:00 stability is number one. It means how are you feeling in regards to particular topic. if you’re not stable in some topic then you’re gonna get triggered...
    31:50 not responding to your person is not playing games it is a great choice so you get get stable and it’s mindful
    32:40 we need to get out the catastrophy thinking I need to do this and that in my reality. No the only thing you need to do is be you
    37:30 I do all these things because I LOVE you

  • @mindy561
    @mindy561 3 роки тому +48

    I love that you talk about emo regulation. So important. I also stopped talking to almost everyone about relationship stuff. Everyone has their own fears etc and usually they dont help, they just create more fear in you.

    • @evergreen12321
      @evergreen12321 4 місяці тому

      I feel the same way! The more u talk to ppl, the more u recognize everyone is projecting their own limiting beliefs

  • @Youreinternetbestie
    @Youreinternetbestie 2 роки тому +18

    Its been 3 days since my SP has not contacted me , first 2 days i was spiralling , however after watching so much videos , support and getting coaching , i am loving myself , i am valuing myself and i understandd that circumstances dont matter, my massive anxiety had been gripping on me but after watching your breathwork suggestion it really worked. Anxiety is almost vanished.... thank you so much :) this is life changing you are a hero

  • @hallow_yelloww2874
    @hallow_yelloww2874 3 роки тому +19

    Came back to this video and today, I finally got to the place where I see something in 3D and instead of reacting, I thought..meh, he will never find anyone better than me, the more he talks to others the more he realizes I am the only one for him. I did keep checking but then I finally got bored of it and know whatever I saw is not going to last. Thanks Dylan. You have helped me a lot.

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek4159 3 роки тому +43

    A 40 minute Dylan James video? How did we all become soo blessed?! 😍🙌🏻💞

  • @mo0729.
    @mo0729. 4 місяці тому +2

    This video appeared today as a suggestion. Wow. Thank you, Dylan. ❤️ You and your essence are gifts. It is already done! #FearlessConfidence 🙌🏼🙌🏽🙌🏾

  • @sparkle92x03
    @sparkle92x03 3 роки тому +56

    I had an ex boyf who had this "cool, calm and collected" attitude. While I was dating around, I was always drawn back to him out of all the guys I was seeing. He was magnetic. Was he the best looking guy I was dating at the time? Not at all, but his cool attitude and quiet confidence pulled me in like no other.

    • @ns3352
      @ns3352 3 роки тому +4

      My bf is just the same :) I can't help but feel so in love with him for being the way he is...❤

    • @finddeepshikha
      @finddeepshikha 2 роки тому +2

      You got to learn to be the same to match their energy only than they fall for u . Probably there consciousness level is there and it's easy to be there by follow Dalyan techniques.

  • @Cmdrduo02us
    @Cmdrduo02us 2 роки тому +6

    I watched this and then went you know what? I'm done with feeling anxious or upset because of a disagreement and the fear of being cut off. I stepped back after apologizing to focus on myself. I want this person, and I will overcome my limiting beliefs because of this love I feel for them. I realized a inner belief of not believing in that I feel loved and even though I can get to the finish line, very very close with my sp, I never cross it. I have started listening to the 8 hour sleep affirmation limitless manifester and I hit it out of the park. I find myself more confident, and relaxed, and being able to control my thoughts and reactions. I have noticed movement as we are currently talking. Although I feel down some times, or I have a discouraging thought go through my head, I try my best to change it around to positive, and if I am not able to, then I try not to worry about it and just continue on in my day and focus on the day.

  • @Priya-mk4ok
    @Priya-mk4ok 2 роки тому +86

    Thank you Dylan. I was so heart broken and was having negative thoughts. I was binge watching your video last night I slept with your affirmation. I got up very positive this morning. I wrote 10 things that I am grateful for. I am feeling better and I am not scared. I am only focused on my happiness. Thank you from my bottom of my heart. I am not doubting on myself nor distressed.
    Ps: while writing this, I got a message from my SP ☺🙏

  • @jontaegardley5822
    @jontaegardley5822 3 роки тому +59

    Dylan you’re the most amazing partner ever!!!!! I will be just as an amazing partner as you ❤️

  • @itsvickers
    @itsvickers Рік тому +3

    I can’t believe your videos are free. They are all like Therapy

  • @ewaadamina
    @ewaadamina 3 роки тому +20

    i love this man...
    by the way. my sp told me recently that he is planning to move out to Canada next year (we are in EU) and first it was like punch in my face but couple minutes later i felt so calm... and peace. and now im just like ok.... whatever.. what happens happen i dont need you, you will not going anyway, even if you do, you will come back to me.

    • @anaisd3735
      @anaisd3735 3 роки тому

      Where about you live? I am from France 😉😊

    • @ewaadamina
      @ewaadamina 3 роки тому +2

      @@anaisd3735 Ireland (since 2013) ;)

  • @Bixdreamy
    @Bixdreamy 3 роки тому +24

    Some Notes, 😂😂 I wrote down 2 pages this is literal gold

    • @thebestone_
      @thebestone_ 3 роки тому

      Could you send it to me lol

  • @Aresilientbabe
    @Aresilientbabe 3 роки тому +30

    Only Dylan I can listen to for 40 minutes straight with my eyes glued to the screen and without missing a beat. Thank you 🙏🏽 you’re the best.

  • @ash_luscious
    @ash_luscious 9 місяців тому +3

    Awareness
    Stability
    Breathing
    Show up as being no expectation
    You are the best option

  • @111coolone
    @111coolone 3 роки тому +51

    We’re so lucky to have you Dylan ❤️ one of the most genuine people

  • @mbellcmtify
    @mbellcmtify 5 місяців тому +2

    This entire video is absolutely genius!!!!!

  • @rajb4726
    @rajb4726 3 роки тому +53

    Is anyone else starting to feel like that maybe you don't want or need to be watching dylans vids or checking the community tab everyday? Kinda feel like im not needing it. Im still getting the mute when listening to the affirmation vid.

    • @gorgeeus
      @gorgeeus 3 роки тому +2

      I was JUST talking about this with my friend that I met through Dylan!!!

    • @Zeezee.a-r2b
      @Zeezee.a-r2b 3 роки тому +2

      @@gorgeeus girl it me!! 😂 but YES we were just talking about this!!

    • @lunaticbrat9588
      @lunaticbrat9588 3 роки тому +6

      yess! I feel like I already know enough to manifest, because Dylan described it so good & simple from the beginning, so I don‘t really need to watch more. But at the same time I really enjoy every video bcause I learn something new + I love Dylans energy 😄

    • @user-tv4zz6go3h
      @user-tv4zz6go3h 3 роки тому +7

      Yah, I don’t really watch for educational reasons anymore, his vibe just puts me in a good mood

    • @user-tv4zz6go3h
      @user-tv4zz6go3h 3 роки тому +5

      That being said…@dylan plz don’t stop making content🙏 Youre that cool teacher everyone still visits even after graduating just to hang out. Improving lives/self-improvement is a topic that never gets old. It’s a lifelong pursuit

  • @ebonyyyyyyyyyy
    @ebonyyyyyyyyyy Рік тому +10

    I have known about your channel for about a year now. I love this content because I have implemented this advice in my life before, and seen a complete change happen. But, I would often lose vigilance and slide back. Yo, no more excuses!! No more laziness!! Your channel is showing me that this is a lifestyle, and something that should be a daily practice. Its the disciple and consistency that really makes the difference. Discipline = Freedom

  • @susanavalenzuela9593
    @susanavalenzuela9593 3 роки тому +15

    I was crying as I was watching this video bc this is exactly me! I start thinking that I’m never gonna find someone and I get sad over my ex, etc... I feel pathetic sometimes!! Thank you for giving me hope! 🙏🏼

  • @joycecrls
    @joycecrls 3 роки тому +52

    I honestly love you so much. I'm bingeing all your videos now. Just going into hermit mode and working on myself, focusing on the person I want to be and coming out brand new. Been thru so much this year, and I'm not going to tolerate a shitty rest of the year. It's only going up from here!!!

    • @biancagarcia8592
      @biancagarcia8592 3 роки тому

      I can recommend you to the most powerful spiritualist who helped me got my Ex back permanently with more love and commitment. He can also help you and put a smile on your face,,,

    • @biancagarcia8592
      @biancagarcia8592 3 роки тому

      Whatapp him,,

    • @biancagarcia8592
      @biancagarcia8592 3 роки тому

      +14782410387⏯⏯❤

  • @nl9453
    @nl9453 Рік тому +2

    my dm came back after 4 years and now because of your content I am able to act with stability and I am being for him the best of me

  • @taykhamilton
    @taykhamilton 3 роки тому +83

    You’re changing my life. I can feel the shift happening for me and I’m really sticking to it. I look forward to our coaching session one day 😌

  • @dianarozell2166
    @dianarozell2166 2 роки тому +9

    I always have heard I had to play games to get what I want and it always felt so forced, unnatural and exhausting. I can align with this belief system so naturally and easily. I really needed to hear this. Thank you so much Dylan, you’re an angel ❤️

  • @cocochanel6903
    @cocochanel6903 3 роки тому +18

    This information is gold but I still want to get coaching by him once things are set into motion

  • @fire_brand3776
    @fire_brand3776 2 роки тому +2

    It's the way you engage with your audience without trying to take advantage...just take a bow sir....you've more than earned the respect you receive...

  • @jc1636
    @jc1636 3 роки тому +16

    I took notes on this one. One of the best vids yet! Also, I discovered Wim Hof a couple years ago. He’s the man! And you’re also the man!

  • @Drifter.Dreams
    @Drifter.Dreams 3 роки тому +9

    It's sometimes so easy to fall back into the rut of forgetting that we manifest our realities on a moment to moment basis, getting caught up in your own head.
    But last night I had a passing thought that my SP was going to be reaching out to me very soon. I just felt it, like an in-my-bones sort of knowing. Not even an hour later they messaged and asked to see me.
    Trust in your knowing, shape your world.

  • @glitterstarsxo
    @glitterstarsxo 3 роки тому +14

    You are awesome! Your advice something I have believed and now you are confirming it - not playing games is one.. not texting as a game. I am seeing my SP tomorrow and I feel confident. I've been feeling very confident in myself. My SP knows I'm the one. The circumstances don't matter as you say. Tomorrow he will be wowed by my appearance and be even more attracted to me than ever. Why? Because I say so! 😁

    • @melaninmagic8742
      @melaninmagic8742 3 роки тому

      Can you please update us (or me) how that went, and how you are doing now?

  • @lovinglyme2822
    @lovinglyme2822 3 роки тому +24

    can we please get content on improving current “contact” relationships? thank you for your awesome supportive energy! 🤩

  • @millennialaffirmations8119
    @millennialaffirmations8119 2 роки тому +8

    Feeling better everyday. Feeling more okay with myself and things around me. Feeling hopeful and pleasantly expecting good things every day. Old fears and old beliefs don't really phase me these days, its like they are getting small and weak and its even funny for me to think of the things that used to stress me out so much. I love this new way of living life. Thank you Dylan!

  • @theonly_competitor_of_me_is_me
    @theonly_competitor_of_me_is_me 6 місяців тому +2

    Dylan, your videos should be lecture in colleges and unis ... Coz they'll save humans 😭..
    Also guys if u r into kdramas .. watch my demon n see their concept both of do do hee and Jeong gu won. That's the reason y their relationship was sosoooooo perfect;))

  • @phoenix8fitness529
    @phoenix8fitness529 3 роки тому +15

    Why didn't I know this several years earlier??!!! Dylan you’re awesome? Sound and priceless advice

  • @paradisedimension
    @paradisedimension 3 роки тому +36

    Dylan, I wish I had found you sooner! This might be the best video I’ve watched on UA-cam. Just had my eyes OPENED to all the things I was doing wrong in my previous relationships and how to embody a better, more confident version of myself moving forward. Thank you! 💜

  • @gabrielalimberger8114
    @gabrielalimberger8114 3 роки тому +5

    "Got to get out of that catastrophy thinking" really rounds it up for me.

  • @kiwami2410
    @kiwami2410 5 днів тому

    You are helping me so much Dylan, thank you for everything you do. My feeling state keeps fluctuating, but I'm remaining stable and will continue to persist until my reality becomes what I desire. When I wobble, I listen to you, and it helps me reset. Thank you again for everything. ❤

  • @nathalinathalie7826
    @nathalinathalie7826 3 роки тому +10

    You are the beeest!! i litteraly took this and made a check list and i really really feel like this person

  • @armaniorleans3299
    @armaniorleans3299 Рік тому +27

    this nigga is pure genius.

  • @bmiller2866
    @bmiller2866 3 роки тому +10

    I am a different version of myself everyday. I learn/grow/heal every single day. Many Blessings to you and yours Dylan. Thanks for waking up your neighbors.😁💛🌹

  • @vaizduoklis323
    @vaizduoklis323 2 місяці тому +1

    I need to watch this every day. Multiple times a day

  • @taysoslay
    @taysoslay 3 роки тому +4

    i think i’m finally shifting. i woke up this morning after a horrible dream of a limiting belief i had involving my sp. it had me shaken for a couple hours after waking up. but i did some breath work and listened to one of Dylan’s guided meditations and i feel so much better. those worries left. this stuff really works in stabilizing ones being. i can’t wait to become the best version of me and have all i want :)

    • @saarmoradi1116
      @saarmoradi1116 3 роки тому +1

      Omg i had the same thing! I had a very hurtful about my SP reflecting all my limiting beliefs about him but for the first time I was so calm when I woke up! and I suddenly realized these dream are signs that my old beliefs are being purged out

  • @michellemarie953
    @michellemarie953 Рік тому +7

    Dear Dylan, Your spirit found me when I mostly needed it. I cannot thank you enough for your authenticity! You have helped me more than you could possibly ever know. Deep gratitude.🙏

  • @jcanangel
    @jcanangel 3 роки тому +15

    So handsome today Coach! Thank you for this very insightful video!

  • @Sujoita
    @Sujoita 3 роки тому +11

    U r really awesome as human being too beside being a great teacher and I understand that u r really caring for all of us...beside teaching ,u r asking not to get engage with a troller in comments even because that will waste our time...this really makes u different from all other "coaches"...Seriously ur genuine care and love for us is making u and your channel so popular...I wish more and more people come to your channel so that they all can get the benefits like us... Lots of Love DJ bro from India...🙏🙏🙏

  • @estefaniacolon1313
    @estefaniacolon1313 2 роки тому +3

    I cannot thank you enough for existing. I was drowning in a sea of confusion and you literally gave me LIFE. It's like you activated a remembrance of who I really am that I had completely forgotten about by being so wrapped up in my mind for too long. Thank you so much. You are an angel. And I never comment anywhere. So this is huge, believe it. You are amazing.

  • @karlaDCF
    @karlaDCF 3 роки тому +5

    He looks like a handsome version of Drake. Just discovered you through Kim. You’re way of telling us is my style. You’re communication skills are fire 🔥

  • @nurselove8864
    @nurselove8864 3 роки тому +4

    This has been helping me so much with my relationship. We broke up.. but the advice it has been helping me with confidence and self love. His behavior is instantly changing. Aquarius sun and rising. He is a Sagittarius.

  • @anuquetmangum8934
    @anuquetmangum8934 2 роки тому +6

    Breath work is soo important! I realize that I have been having a lot of anxiety lately and when ever I do the only way I can relax is by going to sleep. But this morning after breathing with you during you mediation I realize that I wasn’t breathing properly. Breathing is so essential guys!

    • @juniperala
      @juniperala 9 місяців тому

      Can you elaborate on this breathwork?

  • @reenie562
    @reenie562 3 роки тому +5

    Lol I feel so called out when he said the tarot card videos 😅😂. I actually kind binge watch those almost daily… it’s so freaking bad I need to get that under control honestly. I’m actually glad he said it too.

  • @moonchild6273
    @moonchild6273 3 роки тому +76

    I’m confused between “not going no contact” and “no need to reach out because that’s trying and they will come to you when you are in alignment” 🤔... would love if you’d elaborate on this. Thank you Dylan!!! 🙏🏻🥰💕

    • @avijoshi3487
      @avijoshi3487 3 роки тому +86

      If you want to talk to them ask yourself “am I doing this because I wanna talk to them or because I don’t believe they’ll talk to me otherwise” if because you wanna talk to them great, if because you don’t believe they’ll talk to you then don’t perpetuate the story :)

    • @IAm_DylanJames
      @IAm_DylanJames  3 роки тому +44

      Refer to the playlist on my channel "How to manifest anything"

    • @cali-sun2014
      @cali-sun2014 3 роки тому +25

      So if we have had no contact from them it’s best we work on changing our self concept and let them contact us through manifesting it that way?? I really prefer he be the one to reach out first :-/

    • @xssbest756
      @xssbest756 3 роки тому +14

      @@cali-sun2014 then focus on the reaching out to you. Well not ficus but imagine them contacting you if that makes sense 😍

    • @moonchild6273
      @moonchild6273 3 роки тому +3

      @@IAm_DylanJames I have watched all of your videos... the question was because there are vids where you say “don’t reach out” because we don’t need to, However, that seems like “no contact” which you say here is “not a good idea” 🤷‍♀️. Just seemed contradictory to me is all, so was looking for clarification on that specifically. I tried to book a session with you but you aren’t taking any bookings now. So just trying to really absorb and understand all I can from your vids. If something seems unclear or contradictory... I tend to just ask 🤷‍♀️
      😉🙏🏻🥰

  • @karlamabelle101
    @karlamabelle101 3 роки тому +7

    This was so good, I’m glad I came across this video. I’m in my 6’mos relationship and I started being insecure and needy. The first 4-5 mos, I just let everything flow. Whenever I have some frustrations I just keep to myself and say its ok, let him be and everything changed positively without me asking it. I don’t know why energy shifted and its been a month and hopefully I still can save it as I am the one who sabotage it anyway.

  • @UltraMegaOk203
    @UltraMegaOk203 3 роки тому +14

    You give so much, Dylan. May all that much and more come back to you in every way. Thank you. 🧡

  • @mariepayraud7788
    @mariepayraud7788 3 роки тому +27

    I have never commented on your videos! But just so you know, you can’t imagine how much you are helping me changing my subconscious beliefs around relationships and worthiness these days. I am entering a new relationship after more than 2 years of celibacy and I am creating a more confident, secure, healthy version of myself and it has a lot to do with your videos! I feel so much more confident and centered.
    I listen to the night time affirmations as well, they are helping a lot. Thank you Dylan and thank your for your work ❤️ ❤️

  • @empress22-vk8fm
    @empress22-vk8fm Рік тому +1

    I really love you. I'm so glad you randomly popped up. Nobody explains anything the way you do on such a real level. It has helped me immensely just in the last few days.

  • @YY-ff2dj
    @YY-ff2dj 3 роки тому +15

    I read almost all comments here. The energy here is so loving and people are so grateful. I feel good. Thanks.
    Btw a few of the replies doesn’t look like Dylan is it your assistant? Hahahahahahhahahahahaha 😽

  • @oanaduta2569
    @oanaduta2569 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for changing my life. I've been watching your videos for a week and I feel invincible 💝🙏🙏🙏

  • @TiffSmith-up3bi
    @TiffSmith-up3bi 3 роки тому +8

    This is the best video I have seen in a long time. I love all of your content but this one is absolutely fabulous.

  • @amandaatchley4529
    @amandaatchley4529 3 роки тому +1

    I had to slow down the playback to let it sink in. I've watched it 4x already. I love your confidence.

  • @ritulovely9212
    @ritulovely9212 3 роки тому +6

    "I am the solution!" Wow!

  • @graciestronk
    @graciestronk 2 роки тому +1

    OH MY GOD YES! The way we spend our energy is EVERYTHING!

  • @CrunkKitty1
    @CrunkKitty1 3 роки тому +4

    been binge watching your videos and i am so happy to see a new video. i can’t wait for your coaching services to open again as i am in the critical part of my changing. i’ve been in my bad beliefs for many years and it’s a fight rn to change them but i am persisting.
    it’s day 4 of me listening to your tape each night and i can see my limiting subconscious FIGHTING against new beliefs and self worth.
    it’s coming up in a form of using my sp to trigger me. we’ve been back in contact now roughy 3 weeks and in the last 4 days he’s been hot and cold going from “good morning/night gorgeous” here and there with an “i’m gonna ignore you for 4 hours or dismiss your cute comments”.
    i am not letting this get to me as much and the CIRCUMSTANCES DONT MATTER!!!!
    i know my worth and i am changing my beliefs EVERY MOMENT. thank you dylan.

  • @Pinkys.Priorities
    @Pinkys.Priorities Рік тому +1

    Sheeeesshh I love how you get straight to the point and are able to explain VERY VERY well. You do not confuse your points. LOVE IT

  • @Imagewithpower
    @Imagewithpower 3 роки тому +10

    I have to comment before watching this. The title excites me, I’m sooo excited because as of lately, I’ve been affirming that in the best option for all my desires.

  • @phendranaa
    @phendranaa 2 роки тому +2

    This answered so many questions I've had after obsessing over attachment styles. It really doesn't matter!

  • @kinwind8432
    @kinwind8432 3 роки тому +15

    This video came out at perfect time, today I reached out to my sp who I’ve been in no contact for a long time, which resulted in basically nothing, I beat myself up for being stupid and foolish and just couldn’t stop crying, watching this helps me feel better, thank you Dylan for putting these videos out for free, I think thousands of people are deeply grateful for that

    • @lisa-lx5kj
      @lisa-lx5kj 3 роки тому +5

      you can still get what you want. Im in the same boat as you !!

    • @arila678
      @arila678 3 роки тому +5

      I did the same! You’re not alone. I sent out a text of a nice couples hotels for a getaway so he could see. He didn’t respond. And I beat myself up for it. But I have shifted myself by letting go of that awareness and stepping into wifey mode and focusing on myself. Plus listening to the limitless tape every night. In just two days I’m shifted. I’m wifey. I provide him stability and give him no problems. He’ll be reaching out & I’m not lifting another finger. He will conform because he has no choice !

    • @kinwind8432
      @kinwind8432 3 роки тому +3

      @@arila678 we got this 💛

    • @kinwind8432
      @kinwind8432 3 роки тому +2

      @@lisa-lx5kj sending love 💌😌

    • @lisa-lx5kj
      @lisa-lx5kj 3 роки тому +3

      @@kinwind8432 thanks babes back at ya!!

  • @vanessaclaire999
    @vanessaclaire999 2 роки тому +2

    Frozen is the deepest movie..Frozen 2 she speaks to water to change its molecular structure.

  • @Brandyyyyy
    @Brandyyyyy 3 роки тому +7

    Dylaaaaannnn! This video is THE one and it is right on time for me. This video literally helped me relax and get back into alignment for my day. I need to watch this I one daily🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @RomeTrinidad10
    @RomeTrinidad10 3 роки тому +1

    I’d put this as one of the most valuable videos on UA-cam. This is great advice, you can tell he knows what he’s talking about

  • @michelleschmitz9124
    @michelleschmitz9124 3 роки тому +7

    Goddamn, Dylan! You truly cover everything on my mind and you SHINE the entire time. Thank you!!

  • @thecurlcurl4778
    @thecurlcurl4778 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for the ‘Mindset’ vs ‘Manifesting’ clarification.
    Catastrophe Mindset - you gotta trademark that ☀️

  • @summerbreeze1100
    @summerbreeze1100 3 роки тому +5

    This works, thanks Dylan. I used to automatically be this way...until my boss kept putting me down, and it created low self esteem because I'm that confident due to my dyslexia. This has lead me 2 year of no work but rebuilding myself. The lesson learnt is that I was on the right track, never will I ever let anyone make me get into the mindset of feeling emotionally imbalanced when people mention that they are working or a ex employer contacts me to ask me out and I self sabotage. Moral of the story I needed to accept that part if me. 2 years of self reflection, isolating in east africa for 3 months in a field and watching this video today in my hotel room back in Europe has just re-set me back on track. X

  • @Dreamsareareality
    @Dreamsareareality 2 роки тому +3

    14:04 this is it. This is why so many people have fear and they think the past is going to repeat itself it is a trigger of the past I love this explanation. Spot on!!!

  • @user-tv4zz6go3h
    @user-tv4zz6go3h 3 роки тому +8

    Dylan you are so fkn beautiful. You’re radiating beauty, your vibe and the way you look. It’s all on point 👌❤️

  • @trudycoleman905
    @trudycoleman905 Рік тому +2

    Dylan you are amazing I have been tryna figure this all out for a very long time and now ur words have just click everything in place for me.. Truly Thank you for being you. Your a beautiful soul and you deserve all the joy and love this human experience provides..as we all do ❤

  • @andreaj7458
    @andreaj7458 3 роки тому +5

    Hi Dylan! I've been listening to the limitless manifestor affirmations for more than a month and i can definitely say that i feel different even though i've had weird dreams and i'm still struggling during day with negative thoughts. I love seeing in the community tab all the success stories but apart from the general beliefs we all should strive to have and the stability we need to achieve for ourselves, i'm a bit lost on what i can do more specifically to manifest an SP as i've been single my entire life. I know the majority of people that have had success are manifesting an ex or someone with whom they already had a relationship before. I'm 30 years old and i don't know where to start if i like someone specific but never had a relationship with them, or if is someone who i still don't know properly.
    Anyway, i will continue with the limitless manifestor video and the other affirmation tapes on your channel Dylan because you've made me realize how important is to be stable and confident for any kind of manifestation in life. 🥰
    You've built a wonderful community here. Even in the comments of your videos i see beautiful messages that give me hope for myself. You're helping so many people finding themselves and getting what they want. You're amazing! ❤️✨👑

  • @kainoakai7708
    @kainoakai7708 Рік тому +1

    I honestly love you Dylan you are such a good coach I feel like I know you. I listen literally daily since 2021. I just wanted to thank you for these videos.

  • @armijo2005
    @armijo2005 2 роки тому +3

    When you are with me your life gets 100 times better that’s why you are always wanted to be with me. And also in my awareness in my state of been I do not see any treats and I do this things with no expectations

  • @kimlea7121
    @kimlea7121 3 роки тому +12

    I been singing allday let it go when he comes into my head,😂😂

  • @andrearuiz6373
    @andrearuiz6373 3 роки тому +7

    Hi, just started following you last week and wanted to let you know I really enjoy your videos. I am on day 4 on the Limitless Love Self Concept video and can already feel the difference. Want to say thank you look forward to your videos and may your channel continue to grow 💜

  • @tessie3562
    @tessie3562 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you Dylan!!!! I am pretty sure I manifested this video today. 😉 You literally touched on every concern/thought that I have been struggling with over the past couple days. I made a "lesson" this weekend and I have beating myself up and have been spiraling down. This video is perfect to get me back on track! Thank you so much for all you do!!!! You have changed my life so much!!! Love you so so so much!!!

  • @justjanel1
    @justjanel1 2 роки тому +2

    I have this video saved on my playlist and listen to it OFTEN. SOOOO MUCH good in this one. I listen to it as a reminder as “I am wife” and how to show up fearlessly confident.

  • @marinadelocean
    @marinadelocean 2 роки тому +4

    I am the best thing he will ever have and he knows that. He looks for me in others but there’s only one me. I am irreplaceable 😉💜

  • @katbohto1117
    @katbohto1117 15 днів тому

    Sitting here taking notes because all your videos are gold ✏️

  • @MsBelle-cv3mu
    @MsBelle-cv3mu 3 роки тому +6

    Thanks Dylan I felt as though you were talking to me , sending love from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 I am so grateful for your videos guidance 💜💜💜

    • @MsBelle-cv3mu
      @MsBelle-cv3mu 3 роки тому +1

      The way you describe how you were with Adam, that’s exactly how I am with my partner, I don’t expect anything , I do things around the house because I love him & that’s what you do when you love someone xxx